You have the best parenting tips and tricks on youtube! You literally think of everything! This video, like your other videos, hit home - especially this one! I was so boggled by my baby’s extreme clinginess all of a sudden (when she was generally super happy around the other care givers) - any time I would leave the room. This was around the time she mastered the object permanence ball in hole skill. This has lasted close to 3 weeks- she seems to be getting better. Thank you for all of this great info and a sense of validation!!!
My son is 3 and it started after going to the nursery. One big mistake i made (and nursery staff encouraged me to do it, unfortunately) was that when my son was playing, i sneaked out without saying bye. This made him extremely anxious, he now started following me into every room and bathroom, which he didn't do before.
I never liked that daycare tells parents to do this! It made my son unbearably clingy when he was little, so I never did it with my daughter when she started and she was so different
Same! I'm exhausted when I come home from work and she gets so happy when I come home. If I go see her and then try and go eat, she gets so fussy when she sees me leave to have food. Only wants to sleep cuddled on my arm. It's a thing. Lol. She's so cute but I'm so tired 😂😂😂 Even her dad can't handle her now. She's a total mumma's girl. 😅
The timing of this video is perfect. My little girl just started doing this with EVERYONE if I leave or am not holding her. Can't wait for this to pass. Gonna try to use your tips. Thank you so much!
This video came in the perfect time (as per usual with all your videos). My babe is 7 months old and just started being this way over the last week. I do find telling him what I do before I do it helps 😊
@@EmmaHubbard hey Emma.. my wife n I have a boy, he’s 8months. My wife works fr home but I work at sea for two weeks, then I’m home for two weeks. Will this make his separation anxiety worse? It’s gotten fairly bad lately but seems to be worse since I’ve been away. It’s my first trip at sea away fr him. Any tips? I do vid calls every evening while I’m away, but he doesn’t smile when he sees me on vid calls.
I have a toddler and she is becoming super clingy with the passing time! I have hired a nanny as I WFH but she cries so much to be around me. I am having a really hard time!
My baby is 6months old and oohh bowy ain't she clingy since I work from home. This was helpful will try this.. Thanks Emma thank God I found your channel
You posted this at exactly the right time for us lol. My 7 month old has been VERY attached to me. If I'm in the room, he's near me. When I leave, he flips out. He's been doing it for about 3 weeks now. He's also starting to stand independently and cruise. He's teething. So he's also not sleeping. Poor Bubba has a lot going on lol. Thank you for making this video!
Wow definitely a lot going on for your little one. Early to stand and cruise which is great. I find when they start walking they are happier to be out of your line of sight and explore a bit more. Hopefully the tips in this video help!
my little one is older, started her separation anxiety after her first birthday, and at 18 months is still a stage 4 clinger 😥 it is so stressful trying to do anything and her dad doesn't see it because he's sleeping or at work.
Hi Emma, I love your videos! I think it would be interesting to see a video about the baby feelings. For example when you have a baby that cries when left playing next to you but not with you. When they want to sit but you need to change a diaper and the baby gets fussy. When you see the frustration in the baby of not being able to do something. When a baby fights sleep. And other moments that make the baby upset and how to deal with them :)
Simple, take the kid with you and let him participate/assist in what you are doing right now. Let him help you like asking him for giving you a tissue or a diaper. My girls love to help me where ever they can. If your kid is older and is able to communicate. Give him a false sense of a choice. Which both will benefit yourself. I give you a example, if your child doesn't want to go to bed, give him two options, either he goes to bed alone, or he can choose to go to bed with you cuddling him. Sometimes when my girls are fuzzy to put on a shirt or pants, I ask if she wants to do it by herself, or if she can put it on by herself. And it works, every time. Talking and explaining is the key. If your child doesn't responds the first couple times, be patient. It will come sooner or later. And if nothing works, take your kid with you and let it be with you. Some kids need the close contact with their parents. The world is big and scary. All it wants is the sense of security and being loved. And this should not be punished under any circumstances. Hope my single dad knowledge can help you.
Your channel is such a blessing. The content has been just what I needed throughout the first year of having my baby. Please make a video about thumb sucking.
Mine is 3 yo, and same. I will try her tip about increasing the time away from 10 min and so on. There were a few mistakes i made, like leaving him alone in a completely new place (nursery) in his first day. Plus, sneaking out without saying bye. It made it so much worse now, he has nightmares.
"always keep amd jotful face" yes!!!! I swear everytime im crying my beautiful baby sis who is 1 and hald years old crys too because she thinks im worried about her so when i cry. She cries. And even sometimes she jumps in my arms and hugs me. Whem im crying it really helps aiman is so great.
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Thank you for your videos! Encouraging for parents, making clear what is normal, giving very useful and simple tips. I have my first baby, 5 month old now, and your channel is so helpful
@@EmmaHubbard yeah it could be that, he’s not accepting bottles for his dad either at all. He only wants me to feed him. I’m a stay at home momma .. his dad works ALOTT and isn’t home much. His feelings are hurt over it and we don’t know how to fix that either , it’s very stressful and I feel bad for my fiancé but idk how to fix that at all 💔🥺❤️
@@EmmaHubbard mine started this at 4 month old... Before her 3 month old it was possible for me to put my little girl in other 's arms, but when she turned 3 month old, it turned out IMPOSSIBLE for me to put her down or in other' s amrs, or just not have her in my arms without her CRYING like crazy. Now she's 5 month old, and I'm really tired of this... I want to be able to put her down to go and pee for 5min without hearing her screaming like she's going to die.
@@melodieswitten7386 my son is very attached too, before he used to accept relatives picking him up but now he cries almost everytime and they simply hand him over :( We're finding nursery a nightmare as well, he just turned 9 months this week.
i could not have clicked faster.. may baby girl almost 9 months started this just last week.. me just leaving her sight for few minutes will lead to flood of tears 💔😞😢 heart breaking indeed and today left for some errand and no one at home can pacify her.
It's not when we leave the room, it's when we put him down... he won't play with toys unless we literally sit next to him so he can feel us on his back
I think my baby know that when the alarm goes off in the kitchen, that I’m going to leave the room for a brief time. Whenever the alarm goes of he drops whatever he’s doing, cries a little bit and runs(speed crawl) to me and holds on to me so tight! I’ve been bringing him with me and it seems to calm him a little bit.
Thank you for the video. Now I understand why my almost 10 month old sob started being so clingy and cries everytime i leave for a few minutes. It actually started as soon i started sleep training, and he now wont let me eveb put him down, i have to be holding him most of the time. Do you think its related to sleep training and would you still think its a phase or is there something i can do. PS sleep training was a gentle one day thing not a long traumatic experience and he goes to sleep happily without fussing so i dont think he’s traumatized.
How do you know if it's not just separation anxiety? My son is almost 12 months but has been like this since about 8 months. I am a single mum so he spends all day with just me. He's only spent an hour away from me in 6 months. He starts daycare next week and I'm so worried he won't cope. We have been doing visits to try and help and he'll start with half days. When we're at home though he cries every time I leave his sight and crawls after me. Sometimes he'll cry when I move away from him even if he can still see me. He also started not wanting to sleep in his cot at the same time and wanting to sleep in my bed.
My baby is 14 mo old, she's extremely clingy so much so that she doesn't leave me for a sec if I'm around her. Biggest mistake is i kept sneaking out ! Thanks alot for tops
Many times the parent wants all the attention and is jealous of not being the center of attention. They wave and wave goodbye and peek through the windows of the classroom. They very often don’t have a job and that’s their only spotlight. Children of course get a little nervous in new environments at first.
My lo is finding it extremely hard to go to nursery :( just turned 9 months this week and perhaps even thanks to covid he's mainly used to his parents and his separation anxiety is through the roof. We have been going to nursery for 30 min stretching for 3 weeks now and had to pull him out for a whole week due to gastric flu :( feel like a mammoth task :(
My son is 8 months old. About two weeks ago, we tried to go over to my MIL's house for dinner. He's never been there before (she lives in a different town), and he's only seen her and my hubby's stepdad a few times. She of course wanted to hold him soon after we got there, and that resulted in him crying inconsolably for nearly 15 minutes. This gave me a major anxiety attack, I just wanted to take him and leave. He was probably tired (he'd only had about a 20 minute nap, in the car), and the only thing that really got him to calm down was a bottle (I believe it was a little early for food at that point but it did calm him down). After that, he was fine to just stay with me and play on his mat that we'd brought. However, she tried to hold him again, and he again started crying. How do we combat this? He cried that time for about 5 minutes, until my hubby started playing with him by whooshing him into the air. Needless to say, I'm extremely anxious now about going back over there, and we have plans to go there for Thanksgiving :/
My 8 month old starts daycare next week and i know she will go thru this 🙁 I am also having a hard time getting her to nap on her own so she can transition smoothly to daycare naps. Any videos or advice on how to teach them to take good naps will be very appreciated 🤗
Hi Mari thanks for the comment. I have this video on catnapping which covers some information on healthy sleep habits which might be helpful. ruclips.net/video/v5qQVkOtpX4/видео.html
8 months daycare? What is wrong with all of you. Almost every second person here says the same. This is insanity. Why did you choose in the first place to have a child when you don't want to spend time with it? It's your responsibility to raise a child not of a daycare worker. For my part, I'm just a divorced father and rasing my girls alone. I would never bring over my soul to leave my children at a daycare at such a young age. This is so wrong on many levels. I dropped my job to be there for my girls 24/7. What my ex wife is not ready to sacrifice.
@trolo jolo Not everyone is able to leave their job. We have bills to pay....they don't pay themselves!!! You have no idea nor is it your business, why parents choose to put their little ones into care. Stop being so harsh. Your comments are so unkind. I hope your girls don't see them.
Hey emma i really like all your videos. They are very helpful for new mums. I have a problem . My 13 months old baby girl cruises on furniture , stands with holding things , and stands all alone for like 30 seconds and walk little steps but she is not able to pull herself from ground all by herself and hence she is hesitate to walk..how can i help her
Hi @Nikita some babies do display separation anxiety as early as 4 to 5 months of age, but it tends to be strongest/peak at around 9 months of age. I would say your little one is seeking your reassurance when she is interacting with other adults and making sure you are still present.
Hi Emma. Can you make a video of what are the issues that pandemic babies might face. I'm talking about babie to 2 years single child's who doesn't have contact with people or other kids. And what can we do to avoid those issues in regard to people and other child. I feel my baby cries when she's close to other people I'm not sure if it's the stage or a problem developed because she doesn't spend time with other kids
I think Covid has made separation anxiety start early. My boy is 6 months and has been like this for a while. 'Stranger Danger ' is also another challenge
Hi @Alice D thanks for the comment. I do hink Covid has had an impact on our babies. Particularly ‘stranger danger’ as they have limited interaction with other people. Also when we as parents are anxious about going out and seeing people - which people are during these times- babies pick up on these feelings and also display them/ appear more unsettled. Hopefully the tips in this video help you get through this challenging phase 😀
my 5 month old is going through this - she cries out when she does not see me , wont let anyone else hold her - is it too early for separation anxiety?
My daughter has just started doing this a lot at childcare drop off. She isn't clingy at other times. Feel she is tired and not getting enough sleep at childcare. Almost thinking of changing childcare. She really doesn't seem to enjoy it. She's a bit older at 16 months or so.
I feel like my baby has always been like this and he’s only 6 months old. I’m so tired and overstimulated. I can barely get anything done for months now 😢
Hi Emma, My sleep trained 7 month old is now experiencing seperation anxiety. This is great for wake time, but what should I be doing with a baby that now screams everytime I place her in her crib? I've read leaving the room (like when check and concole sleeping training) will make the anxiety worst. Would love to know your thoughts? Signed: Deperate in Canada.
More than my baby having separation anxiety I have it😂... My Baby is so precious to Me❤... I know it's a problem because Mamma has to earn and feed now which is very difficult to manage😢
My sister in laws daughter is almost two and I feel like her separation anxiety is really bad. She’s very attached to her mom and even cries when she hands her to her own father. Not just sometimes but every time. Is this normal as well? Honestly I’ve never seen a child react the way she does when her mom simply goes to shower.
Hi @Lizzy Garcia separation anxiety does pop up multiple times throughout their first few years of life. My 2 and a half year old is going through it again the last few weeks- only wants me and not keen to go to dad. If your niece previously went to her dad without concern and this is a newish behaviour I wouldn’t be concerned. But if she has only ever been happy to be with her mum and cries when she is with other family member and your sister is concerned then a doctor would be a good person to talk to.
@@Liz-gg6mu I’m no expert, but I believe breast feeding makes the baby very close to momma. And if she’s still breast feeding at 2 years old then she’s gonna be really attached to her momma. But with time I’m sure she’ll get closer to her dad.
Thanks for the video it is really helpful 🤩. My lil one is 9month old but from 4month onwards he start to cry if I leave him alone, he wants me or my husband around him😅 . I carry him where ever I go even to the toilet 😖
Hi. My baby is 17months old and still have seperation anxiety to a point i cant do anything in the house. Its very stressful, i thought its just a phase but it has been so long since it started which is when she was 5 months old. Is this normal? What else can i do? But these tips really good, thank you so much. I hope she will get over this phase soon.
In Australia the recommendation is generally to introduce solids at 6 months of age when they have more sitting balance and better skills. But some paediatricians do recommend starting earlier.
My 10 months old has started to show those signs when we leave the room, he does the same during the day with our nanny. It's hard to let him cry and not to hold him in our arms every time he cries 🤗 thanks for those tips
What about a 1 month old? He refuses to stay with my mom and we live without th her. He cries until I get him back from her and then boom silence. She’s super sweet too idk why he hasn’t taken to her yet
Thankyou for the video.. my son is 13 months old and is attached to me so much that he doesn’t even go to his dad. So do we pick them up every time when they cry? Is that something wrong ? I keep hearing that a lot .. if you keep picking them up they get used to it ! I don’t know I just can’t stop myself from picking up when he is crying
Can this start at 4 months. He was doing great with my in laws and now he just cries when he’s with anyone but me including his dad and siblings. Hoping to try out some of the tips in this video when he wakes up from his nap. Thank you
If separation anxiety is a normal stage of child development then I wouldn't call it traumatic. Just the word trauma or traumatic indicates something negative and it sounds like separation anxiety isn't negative because it's normal.
HELP!! I have a 10mo who's been here since birth.. The family is awesome but I've asked them not to stay so long at drop off.. 1st time parents and I've talked to them about it. The only time that he's not screaming is during nap, and feedings. His parents STILL rock him to sleep. He's built like a 2yo and just learned how to sit up and crawl. I'm at my wits end and as many of me speaking 2 them, nothing changes..
Hi Emma thank you so much for the tip and it is really helpful. My son is 8 months old and we are just 2 of us at home. He used to play alone before, while I was watching him from far. But now he needs me more and he will play by himself for a while then he started to look for me and cry. How can I do about this? Thank you
You could try giving him a box or bowl of toys to go through while in sitting as this will keep him entertained for a bit longer but sounds like he might be starting to enter separation anxiety and wants to be with/near you. Just reassure him when you leave to go into another room you will come back. Plus the other tips in this video. Hope that helps!!!
It's a nice thing to hear that it's a good sign and a sign of strong attachment. I was afraid i did something wrong and my little one is insecure.
You're a life saver ! My baby is turning 8 months old and it has been so difficult ! Thank you !
The moment I saw this on my notification, I immediately clicked it. Thanks for your awesome videos!
That’s amazing to hear Elisha! I’m so glad you’re enjoying them 😊
Same here too 😂
You have the best parenting tips and tricks on youtube! You literally think of everything! This video, like your other videos, hit home - especially this one! I was so boggled by my baby’s extreme clinginess all of a sudden (when she was generally super happy around the other care givers) - any time I would leave the room. This was around the time she mastered the object permanence ball in hole skill. This has lasted close to 3 weeks- she seems to be getting better. Thank you for all of this great info and a sense of validation!!!
My son is 3 and it started after going to the nursery. One big mistake i made (and nursery staff encouraged me to do it, unfortunately) was that when my son was playing, i sneaked out without saying bye. This made him extremely anxious, he now started following me into every room and bathroom, which he didn't do before.
I never liked that daycare tells parents to do this! It made my son unbearably clingy when he was little, so I never did it with my daughter when she started and she was so different
My lil one is 5months turning 6months and she started this when she was 4months old🥲.
This is really helpful, thank you🙂.
My pleasure! So glad the info was helpful!
Yes my LO just turned 4.5months and he is soooo clingy
I’m so glad to know it’s a good thing. It changed overnight, and only with me. It’s been a tough week.
It can be a tough time. It will get better with time though!
Same! I'm exhausted when I come home from work and she gets so happy when I come home. If I go see her and then try and go eat, she gets so fussy when she sees me leave to have food. Only wants to sleep cuddled on my arm. It's a thing. Lol. She's so cute but I'm so tired 😂😂😂 Even her dad can't handle her now. She's a total mumma's girl. 😅
Omg yes! Our 10 month old is definitely at her peak of separation anxiety. Thank you for your words of advise!!
It’s my pleasure!
The timing of this video is perfect. My little girl just started doing this with EVERYONE if I leave or am not holding her. Can't wait for this to pass. Gonna try to use your tips. Thank you so much!
Your welcome😀
Phew! What a relief. My baby is 9 months now. Thank you for this
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This video came in the perfect time (as per usual with all your videos). My babe is 7 months old and just started being this way over the last week. I do find telling him what I do before I do it helps 😊
Glad it was helpful! Sounds like you’re doing an amazing job!! 😀
@@EmmaHubbard hey Emma.. my wife n I have a boy, he’s 8months. My wife works fr home but I work at sea for two weeks, then I’m home for two weeks. Will this make his separation anxiety worse? It’s gotten fairly bad lately but seems to be worse since I’ve been away. It’s my first trip at sea away fr him. Any tips? I do vid calls every evening while I’m away, but he doesn’t smile when he sees me on vid calls.
I have a toddler and she is becoming super clingy with the passing time! I have hired a nanny as I WFH but she cries so much to be around me. I am having a really hard time!
My baby is 6months old and oohh bowy ain't she clingy since I work from home. This was helpful will try this.. Thanks Emma thank God I found your channel
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Thank you so much Emma!! I'm a first time mum and my bub is going to daycare soon. The timing of this video is 👌🏼
It's my pleasure! Also hope the transition to daycare goes smoothly!
Emma, all your videos are amazing and your tips are really easy to understand and follow :) love the way you explain everything ❤
You posted this at exactly the right time for us lol. My 7 month old has been VERY attached to me. If I'm in the room, he's near me. When I leave, he flips out. He's been doing it for about 3 weeks now. He's also starting to stand independently and cruise. He's teething. So he's also not sleeping. Poor Bubba has a lot going on lol. Thank you for making this video!
Wow definitely a lot going on for your little one. Early to stand and cruise which is great. I find when they start walking they are happier to be out of your line of sight and explore a bit more. Hopefully the tips in this video help!
my little one is older, started her separation anxiety after her first birthday, and at 18 months is still a stage 4 clinger 😥 it is so stressful trying to do anything and her dad doesn't see it because he's sleeping or at work.
Hello, please I have a one year and 5months child and he cries when he wake up every time and also cry at slightest thing.
Hey has it got any better pls share
I’m struggling with the same. My daughter is 15 months and my husband just doesn’t see it.
Atleast now I know it’s natural-ish 😅
Mine too
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That’s so nice of you to notice. Thanks so much!!!! 😀
I agree! It’s absolutely beautiful!
I appreciate you and this content. It’s SO important! 💜
I'm so glad!
Hi Emma, I love your videos! I think it would be interesting to see a video about the baby feelings. For example when you have a baby that cries when left playing next to you but not with you. When they want to sit but you need to change a diaper and the baby gets fussy. When you see the frustration in the baby of not being able to do something. When a baby fights sleep. And other moments that make the baby upset and how to deal with them :)
Was looking for advice on this as well.
Simple, take the kid with you and let him participate/assist in what you are doing right now. Let him help you like asking him for giving you a tissue or a diaper. My girls love to help me where ever they can. If your kid is older and is able to communicate. Give him a false sense of a choice. Which both will benefit yourself. I give you a example, if your child doesn't want to go to bed, give him two options, either he goes to bed alone, or he can choose to go to bed with you cuddling him. Sometimes when my girls are fuzzy to put on a shirt or pants, I ask if she wants to do it by herself, or if she can put it on by herself. And it works, every time. Talking and explaining is the key. If your child doesn't responds the first couple times, be patient. It will come sooner or later.
And if nothing works, take your kid with you and let it be with you. Some kids need the close contact with their parents. The world is big and scary. All it wants is the sense of security and being loved. And this should not be punished under any circumstances. Hope my single dad knowledge can help you.
@@alexandraclough4074 I dont think she was judgmental at all so what are you talking about??
@marcel deac That comment has changed dramatically from the original
Your channel is such a blessing. The content has been just what I needed throughout the first year of having my baby.
Please make a video about thumb sucking.
Thank you so much again for this helpful video.
Can you please make a video on how to handle a baby … if you are a Single Parent 😊
Great suggestion!
My 10 month old son does this to me when I'm next to him. He wants to just be held.
My son is 4 and still has excessive separation anxiety. We've tried it all
Mine is 3 yo, and same. I will try her tip about increasing the time away from 10 min and so on. There were a few mistakes i made, like leaving him alone in a completely new place (nursery) in his first day. Plus, sneaking out without saying bye. It made it so much worse now, he has nightmares.
Thank you!! Truly appreciate your videos which i watch to learn how to care for my baby boy better. Love your new hairstyle too!
I’m so glad they are helpful! Thanks so much!! Very kind of you to notice 😊
Apt video at the right time..my baby is 8 month old and started crying when I leave from 7 month old.
Thank you so much the informative video. And hair cut is really good👍
Thanks so much! So glad you found the video helpful! Also thanks for the lovely comment about my hair cut 😀
My 20MO and 4YO. My God they’re clingy clingy!
Love you so much for all the tips and support you have been providing for me God bless you
You’re welcome! 🙂
Love the new hair do, so fresh! Thanks for this video x
That’s so nice of you to say! Thanks so much😀
I was thinking about what to do, and here is the video. thanks Emma. was bit worried before watching this
Happy to help!
"always keep amd jotful face" yes!!!! I swear everytime im crying my beautiful baby sis who is 1 and hald years old crys too because she thinks im worried about her so when i cry. She cries. And even sometimes she jumps in my arms and hugs me. Whem im crying it really helps aiman is so great.
Your channel is so helpful, can’t thank you enough.😘💞
I love and appreciate your valuable help & insight. What advice can you provide in how to handle 4 year old temper tantrums I urgently need help in this matter
Hats off you dear mam... Very helpfull😍🥰
Thank you so much! I just need to be patient I guess! 😭😭😭
Thank you for your videos! Encouraging for parents, making clear what is normal, giving very useful and simple tips. I have my first baby, 5 month old now, and your channel is so helpful
That is so nice! 😊
So glad I can help make parenting easier!
What do you do to help stop your little ones' tears when you leave?
My little one is beginning this at 3 months , maybe it’s something else if this doesn’t happen that early though
Thank you for this. I actually didn’t realize that was part of separation anxiety.
No worries at all. Glad to help!
Hi @Vanessa Heslop It could be a bit of frustration as they can’t do a whole lot at this age and want to play with people most of the time?
@@EmmaHubbard yeah it could be that, he’s not accepting bottles for his dad either at all. He only wants me to feed him. I’m a stay at home momma .. his dad works ALOTT and isn’t home much. His feelings are hurt over it and we don’t know how to fix that either , it’s very stressful and I feel bad for my fiancé but idk how to fix that at all 💔🥺❤️
I wish I watched this channel earlier. Now my son is a toddler.please make more videos on that too such as what and how to teach them
Thanks so much for the topic ideas and the compliment on the channel. 😀
Short hair really suits you! 👍
Thanks so much!!!!
Thank you for the tips! They are amazing. I feel that my baby started being this at the age of 5 months, is it possible?
Yep very possible. Some babies can go through this phase as early as 5 months.
So glad you found the tips helpful!
Same for my baby
@@EmmaHubbard mine started this at 4 month old... Before her 3 month old it was possible for me to put my little girl in other 's arms, but when she turned 3 month old, it turned out IMPOSSIBLE for me to put her down or in other' s amrs, or just not have her in my arms without her CRYING like crazy. Now she's 5 month old, and I'm really tired of this... I want to be able to put her down to go and pee for 5min without hearing her screaming like she's going to die.
@@melodieswitten7386 my son is very attached too, before he used to accept relatives picking him up but now he cries almost everytime and they simply hand him over :( We're finding nursery a nightmare as well, he just turned 9 months this week.
Thank you so much for sharing this. 🌷
You are doing awesome work.
Thanks so much!
This is so helpful. Thanks so much ma'am
Most welcome 😊
Definitely needing this today - thank you!
My pleasure!
i could not have clicked faster.. may baby girl almost 9 months started this just last week.. me just leaving her sight for few minutes will lead to flood of tears 💔😞😢 heart breaking indeed and today left for some errand and no one at home can pacify her.
Oh that is so hard. Hopefully some of these tips help to make it a bit less stressful and traumatic for you both!
I love your videos, thanks so much. All the way from Nigeria.
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Very useful, big thanks ❤
You're welcome 😊
Keep in mind. “A short period of time” is drastically different from the perspective of an infant/toddler. 30 seconds feels like an eternity.
Thank you...This is really a helpful video ...
You are most welcome
You read my mind. Thank you for good tips
No worries at all!
Thank you so much for the wonderfull tips.
You are so welcome!
Thank you my baby is doing that and I keep thinking about that
It's not when we leave the room, it's when we put him down... he won't play with toys unless we literally sit next to him so he can feel us on his back
Same with my daughter !!!!
Same with my son 😅
Stay at home mom, hes never been babysat or away from me. He should feel secure that I'm always there but no 😢
Thanks so much for this video! Was desperately in need of this 😀
Happy to help! Hopefully this makes life a little bit easier. 😄
Great video🙏🏽
Glad you liked it!
First to watch!!! I love your channel😍
Thanks so much!😊
I think my baby know that when the alarm goes off in the kitchen, that I’m going to leave the room for a brief time. Whenever the alarm goes of he drops whatever he’s doing, cries a little bit and runs(speed crawl) to me and holds on to me so tight! I’ve been bringing him with me and it seems to calm him a little bit.
Sounds like that is the perfect strategy for your little one.
What do you recommend when your baby begins to cry when you put them down and you're just working around the house but not leaving?
Following, I have this issue too
I actually remember my mom sneaking away when i was a toddler. It was traumatizing.
Thank you for the video. Now I understand why my almost 10 month old sob started being so clingy and cries everytime i leave for a few minutes. It actually started as soon i started sleep training, and he now wont let me eveb put him down, i have to be holding him most of the time. Do you think its related to sleep training and would you still think its a phase or is there something i can do. PS sleep training was a gentle one day thing not a long traumatic experience and he goes to sleep happily without fussing so i dont think he’s traumatized.
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Thank you so much you help me alot
How do you know if it's not just separation anxiety? My son is almost 12 months but has been like this since about 8 months. I am a single mum so he spends all day with just me. He's only spent an hour away from me in 6 months. He starts daycare next week and I'm so worried he won't cope. We have been doing visits to try and help and he'll start with half days. When we're at home though he cries every time I leave his sight and crawls after me. Sometimes he'll cry when I move away from him even if he can still see me. He also started not wanting to sleep in his cot at the same time and wanting to sleep in my bed.
My baby is exactly the same
“Leave with a happy face” 😭😭😭
My baby is 14 mo old, she's extremely clingy so much so that she doesn't leave me for a sec if I'm around her. Biggest mistake is i kept sneaking out ! Thanks alot for tops
Mine is 2 years old and still has terrible separation anxiety
Many times the parent wants all the attention and is jealous of not being the center of attention. They wave and wave goodbye and peek through the windows of the classroom. They very often don’t have a job and that’s their only spotlight. Children of course get a little nervous in new environments at first.
My lo is finding it extremely hard to go to nursery :( just turned 9 months this week and perhaps even thanks to covid he's mainly used to his parents and his separation anxiety is through the roof. We have been going to nursery for 30 min stretching for 3 weeks now and had to pull him out for a whole week due to gastric flu :( feel like a mammoth task :(
My son is 8 months old. About two weeks ago, we tried to go over to my MIL's house for dinner. He's never been there before (she lives in a different town), and he's only seen her and my hubby's stepdad a few times. She of course wanted to hold him soon after we got there, and that resulted in him crying inconsolably for nearly 15 minutes. This gave me a major anxiety attack, I just wanted to take him and leave. He was probably tired (he'd only had about a 20 minute nap, in the car), and the only thing that really got him to calm down was a bottle (I believe it was a little early for food at that point but it did calm him down). After that, he was fine to just stay with me and play on his mat that we'd brought. However, she tried to hold him again, and he again started crying. How do we combat this? He cried that time for about 5 minutes, until my hubby started playing with him by whooshing him into the air. Needless to say, I'm extremely anxious now about going back over there, and we have plans to go there for Thanksgiving :/
My 8 month old starts daycare next week and i know she will go thru this 🙁 I am also having a hard time getting her to nap on her own so she can transition smoothly to daycare naps. Any videos or advice on how to teach them to take good naps will be very appreciated 🤗
Hi Mari thanks for the comment. I have this video on catnapping which covers some information on healthy sleep habits which might be helpful. ruclips.net/video/v5qQVkOtpX4/видео.html
8 months daycare? What is wrong with all of you. Almost every second person here says the same. This is insanity. Why did you choose in the first place to have a child when you don't want to spend time with it? It's your responsibility to raise a child not of a daycare worker.
For my part, I'm just a divorced father and rasing my girls alone. I would never bring over my soul to leave my children at a daycare at such a young age. This is so wrong on many levels. I dropped my job to be there for my girls 24/7. What my ex wife is not ready to sacrifice.
@trolo jolo Not everyone is able to leave their job. We have bills to pay....they don't pay themselves!!! You have no idea nor is it your business, why parents choose to put their little ones into care. Stop being so harsh. Your comments are so unkind. I hope your girls don't see them.
Hey emma i really like all your videos. They are very helpful for new mums. I have a problem . My 13 months old baby girl cruises on furniture , stands with holding things , and stands all alone for like 30 seconds and walk little steps but she is not able to pull herself from ground all by herself and hence she is hesitate to walk..how can i help her
Hi! I love your videos! Is it still separation anxiety when my 5-month old baby keeps on looking at me while interacting with other adults?
Hi @Nikita some babies do display separation anxiety as early as 4 to 5 months of age, but it tends to be strongest/peak at around 9 months of age. I would say your little one is seeking your reassurance when she is interacting with other adults and making sure you are still present.
Hi Emma. Can you make a video of what are the issues that pandemic babies might face. I'm talking about babie to 2 years single child's who doesn't have contact with people or other kids. And what can we do to avoid those issues in regard to people and other child. I feel my baby cries when she's close to other people I'm not sure if it's the stage or a problem developed because she doesn't spend time with other kids
I think Covid has made separation anxiety start early. My boy is 6 months and has been like this for a while. 'Stranger Danger ' is also another challenge
Hi @Alice D thanks for the comment. I do hink Covid has had an impact on our babies. Particularly ‘stranger danger’ as they have limited interaction with other people. Also when we as parents are anxious about going out and seeing people - which people are during these times- babies pick up on these feelings and also display them/ appear more unsettled. Hopefully the tips in this video help you get through this challenging phase 😀
The tips start at 2:00.
Thank you.. thank you.. thank you oh so much:)
Most welcome 😊
my daughter is 2 and it is chaotic when i leave her at the daycare, she cried non-stop
Hopefully some of the steps in this video help make it a little easier on you both!
my 5 month old is going through this - she cries out when she does not see me , wont let anyone else hold her - is it too early for separation anxiety?
My daughter has just started doing this a lot at childcare drop off. She isn't clingy at other times. Feel she is tired and not getting enough sleep at childcare. Almost thinking of changing childcare. She really doesn't seem to enjoy it. She's a bit older at 16 months or so.
What about toddler that are this way? I’m having a really hard time separating from my 2 year old to do anything even cook dinner or wash dishes
I feel like my baby has always been like this and he’s only 6 months old. I’m so tired and overstimulated. I can barely get anything done for months now 😢
Hi Emma, My sleep trained 7 month old is now experiencing seperation anxiety. This is great for wake time, but what should I be doing with a baby that now screams everytime I place her in her crib? I've read leaving the room (like when check and concole sleeping training) will make the anxiety worst. Would love to know your thoughts? Signed: Deperate in Canada.
More than my baby having separation anxiety I have it😂... My Baby is so precious to Me❤... I know it's a problem because Mamma has to earn and feed now which is very difficult to manage😢
Any advice for 2 years old boy when at home and he's like this ?? Me and his dad is home but lately just wants me
My sister in laws daughter is almost two and I feel like her separation anxiety is really bad. She’s very attached to her mom and even cries when she hands her to her own father. Not just sometimes but every time. Is this normal as well? Honestly I’ve never seen a child react the way she does when her mom simply goes to shower.
Does she breast feed or did she previously?
Hi @Lizzy Garcia separation anxiety does pop up multiple times throughout their first few years of life. My 2 and a half year old is going through it again the last few weeks- only wants me and not keen to go to dad.
If your niece previously went to her dad without concern and this is a newish behaviour I wouldn’t be concerned. But if she has only ever been happy to be with her mum and cries when she is with other family member and your sister is concerned then a doctor would be a good person to talk to.
@@EmmaHubbard it’s not new behavior. She’s been that way for a while now.
@@someperson5199 yes she’s still breastfeeding
@@Liz-gg6mu I’m no expert, but I believe breast feeding makes the baby very close to momma. And if she’s still breast feeding at 2 years old then she’s gonna be really attached to her momma. But with time I’m sure she’ll get closer to her dad.
Thanks for the video it is really helpful 🤩. My lil one is 9month old but from 4month onwards he start to cry if I leave him alone, he wants me or my husband around him😅 . I carry him where ever I go even to the toilet 😖
Oh the joys of parenting. Going to the bathroom by yourself is so hard to get when you have kids. 🤣
Hi. My baby is 17months old and still have seperation anxiety to a point i cant do anything in the house. Its very stressful, i thought its just a phase but it has been so long since it started which is when she was 5 months old. Is this normal? What else can i do? But these tips really good, thank you so much. I hope she will get over this phase soon.
Is there any problem if we introduce solid foods after 5 months to baby??
In Australia the recommendation is generally to introduce solids at 6 months of age when they have more sitting balance and better skills. But some paediatricians do recommend starting earlier.
My 10 months old has started to show those signs when we leave the room, he does the same during the day with our nanny. It's hard to let him cry and not to hold him in our arms every time he cries 🤗 thanks for those tips
Thanks for sharing!! Hope these tips help your little one!
What about a 1 month old? He refuses to stay with my mom and we live without th her. He cries until I get him back from her and then boom silence. She’s super sweet too idk why he hasn’t taken to her yet
What about for baby who doesn’t understand words?My baby is 8 mo will cry even when I go to the kitchen.
My baby six month I can’t go to steps away from him
Thankyou for the video.. my son is 13 months old and is attached to me so much that he doesn’t even go to his dad. So do we pick them up every time when they cry? Is that something wrong ? I keep hearing that a lot .. if you keep picking them up they get used to it ! I don’t know I just can’t stop myself from picking up when he is crying
Can this start at 4 months. He was doing great with my in laws and now he just cries when he’s with anyone but me including his dad and siblings. Hoping to try out some of the tips in this video when he wakes up from his nap. Thank you
If separation anxiety is a normal stage of child development then I wouldn't call it traumatic. Just the word trauma or traumatic indicates something negative and it sounds like separation anxiety isn't negative because it's normal.
My little one is 14 months old but her separation anxiety is at her peak still how can I overcome that
All these suit for bit grown babies but my child is 5month never let's me out of her sight
Also tried this but didn't work
HELP!! I have a 10mo who's been here since birth.. The family is awesome but I've asked them not to stay so long at drop off.. 1st time parents and I've talked to them about it. The only time that he's not screaming is during nap, and feedings. His parents STILL rock him to sleep. He's built like a 2yo and just learned how to sit up and crawl. I'm at my wits end and as many of me speaking 2 them, nothing changes..
@emmahubbard what about screaming crying uncontrollably as soon as we enter another building, how should that be addressed? #pandemicbaby
Hi Emma thank you so much for the tip and it is really helpful.
My son is 8 months old and we are just 2 of us at home. He used to play alone before, while I was watching him from far. But now he needs me more and he will play by himself for a while then he started to look for me and cry. How can I do about this? Thank you
You could try giving him a box or bowl of toys to go through while in sitting as this will keep him entertained for a bit longer but sounds like he might be starting to enter separation anxiety and wants to be with/near you. Just reassure him when you leave to go into another room you will come back. Plus the other tips in this video. Hope that helps!!!
@@EmmaHubbard thank you so much for great tips