IS YOUR PARTNER A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE?

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  • When it comes to the actions of your partner, it's important to understand that they are not necessarily a direct reflection of who you are as an individual. Each person is responsible for their own choices and behaviors, shaped by their upbringing, experiences, and personal beliefs❤️
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  • @Sweet_Girlie
    @Sweet_Girlie Год назад +51

    'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man find Christ to locate her' ❤️💯Love that

  • @MissNomps
    @MissNomps Год назад +20

    "Work on yourself so that you create an environment around you where things have to grow and align" ❤

  • @HomeWithTheMurilas
    @HomeWithTheMurilas Год назад +6

    "I wanna give everything to a woman that can do anything for herself" I felt that!

  • @moremiracle4279
    @moremiracle4279 Год назад +14

    Thank you Lerato and Phetola. You are having a big impact and transformation in my marriage, one instalment at a time.

  • @MariaShikolele
    @MariaShikolele Год назад +9

    To us that like before watching 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @user-pw5pm1cs6m
    @user-pw5pm1cs6m 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love this episode... unrehearsed, undiluted, pure and holy spirit led..that is the true definition of purpose and pursuing yourselves, your ministry etc..

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +6

    It’s how Pheto says “I feel like” for me 🤩. Always look forward to it 😍.

  • @mbalikayisembele
    @mbalikayisembele Год назад +4

    DoTheWork♥️
    "Your partner is not a reflection of who you are but may be a reflection of where you are".😢I had to pause after that gem💎
    and I believe that's the main intent of salvation, God revealing that where we are is not consistent with who we are and therefore through Christ there's a redirection to navigate to who we truly are in Christ-our Destination.

  • @nandiphanophale826
    @nandiphanophale826 Год назад +15

    Your partner is partially a reflection of who you are. People are obviously different but there are certain characteristics that you have that your partner should have like morals and values, goals, drive, work ethic. Also you can play a role in some of the decisions your partner makes hence they would then be a reflection of you. So they are a reflection in that sense. However, they are not a reflection of you in terms of their behaviour. If my man acts a damn fool in public that says a lot about him and not about their partner. But one can also just argue that everyone is responsible for their behaviour and what they do overall reflects on who they are.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +6

      So well Said❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 Год назад +12

    This is beautiful. Serve your partner as if you are serving God. Even when you are out there remember you are representing God by being faithful to your partner (in the absentia).
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +10

    Yep Who you are never changes but you grow to be a better version of yourself

  • @Glorious263
    @Glorious263 Год назад +3

    "Pursue yourself" deep. Yesterday I was listening to Mpoomy's podcast on self-love. God speaks

  • @remimautjana5622
    @remimautjana5622 Год назад +4

    As a man I stand firm with you Mr Makhs, Knowing who you are let's people in the room know how to come to you, am a witness of that, even when you too sweet people come to you through the advantages of being the sweet guy.👏🏽

  • @rachealkihunde6677
    @rachealkihunde6677 Год назад +7

    The only way I can like this more than once is by sharing it. Thank you so much guys❤️

  • @Sweet_Girlie
    @Sweet_Girlie Год назад +10

    'When you're a child you're who you are ,when you start growing you forget who you are and spend the rest of your life trying to figure out who you are' bathong TheMakhs!! Have you guys considered opening a church because wow🤣❤️

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +9

    You guys this is so very profound! The who you are vs where you are! So life changing for me! I had a lightbulb moment💡!

  • @PraiseSpaceOfficial
    @PraiseSpaceOfficial Год назад +1

    My takeaway on the journey of self-actualisation,PURSUE YOURSELF ! That really hit home. Thanks

  • @Siya_Nathi
    @Siya_Nathi Год назад +5

    ""Do the work." You guys are my inspiration man, i like the fact that you pray about these sit-downs. Sis Phetola beautiful as always. Thank you for the upload.

  • @tshegomwale5856
    @tshegomwale5856 Год назад +7

    Do the work. Love you guys❤️❤️
    Lerato thinks and behaves exactly like my husband, it shocks me all the time. I normally send my husband your videos, but I doubt he watches them. When he’s home I make him watch with me😁
    I also see myself in Phetola but also there’s a lot I can learn from her. I always feel lighter after watching your videos 💕

  • @kearabetswefaith6934
    @kearabetswefaith6934 11 месяцев назад +3

    Y'all didn't have much confidence in this instalment and it is so eye-opening! 🥺 The Holy Spirit took control and gave us what we needed rather than what we want and are used to, through this instalment. Keep the instalments coming, we're here for it! #DoTheWork 😌🔥

  • @KamoMagabane
    @KamoMagabane Год назад +1

    Mr and Mrs Makhs we need audience talk shows now aowa. This needs a discussion

  • @dorothymotsepe
    @dorothymotsepe Год назад +2

    "Do the work" Amen

  • @whatinthevillage
    @whatinthevillage 11 месяцев назад

    Also doing "the right work" within yourself. This was so powerful ❤

  • @mbuedzedzondou9259
    @mbuedzedzondou9259 Год назад

    This is so refreshing. Thank you for such an insightful honest conversation

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu Год назад

    Absolutely loved this conversation. “Do the work” ❤

  • @bahumimatebesi8000
    @bahumimatebesi8000 11 месяцев назад

    Absolutely! Our past experiences do determine our future choices and you put it so well Phetola…

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Год назад +1

    Pursue yourself🙏❤Love that.

  • @accoucher0
    @accoucher0 Год назад +1

    “Do the work”🌺❤️💜

  • @rachealkihunde6677
    @rachealkihunde6677 Год назад

    Of course I watched till the end, Do the work!

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Год назад +3

    Mr Makhetha really dropping some gems💎 💎 💎
    Great conversation, great couple 👑👑

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware Год назад

    I enjoyed this”Do the work” 👊🏽

  • @mphosehlatsana7311
    @mphosehlatsana7311 11 месяцев назад

    Do the work❤ ,The Makhs I love you guys🇱🇸

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 11 месяцев назад

    #Do the work🎉🎉🎉
    This was sooo good as always I was blessed ❤

  • @lerekomolefe4323
    @lerekomolefe4323 Год назад

    Do the work......thank you so much for this installment it was eye opening and has sparked a lot of self introspection that needs to be done

  • @tshepisodipholo-tlhareseng5317

    We are definitely going to do the work 😊

  • @shemillionheir
    @shemillionheir Год назад +1

    Absolutely loved this episode guys!! Spoke to me…wow!! Thank you ❤

  • @bongimaziya8136
    @bongimaziya8136 Год назад

    Do the work😊. So insightful. Thank you so much. God bless you🙌

  • @neo_mohapi
    @neo_mohapi Год назад

    Pursue yourself!
    Yoh, this episode was something else. Thank you!

  • @mathtutor876
    @mathtutor876 Год назад +1

    I appreciate you both. You are the lighthouse on the hill for me where Godly, healthy marriage and relationships are concerned.❤

  • @mbalisadikge3660
    @mbalisadikge3660 Год назад

    Do the work 💯, This was soo informative, Thanks The Makhs

  • @WisdomQuest_SA
    @WisdomQuest_SA Год назад

    Thank you this, I am not keen on outlining where I am right now but thanks for this.

  • @litebohoadonis4364
    @litebohoadonis4364 Год назад

    This had me on the edge of my seat🔥 fire

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 Год назад +1

    TYHO! The part of who you are ignited by people/events/situation and who you with freely by Mr Makhs powerful nugget!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lungilembambo6473
    @lungilembambo6473 Год назад

    Do the work, thank you dream team

  • @nokuthulacedile6878
    @nokuthulacedile6878 11 месяцев назад

    Shuuu...... I had to replay the intro. What a wow 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

  • @PZJBimha
    @PZJBimha Год назад

    Loved this episode. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, always. The major take away for me is the importance of being self-aware and reflecting on whether your choices cater to who you are.... Constant reminder - "where you are can determine who you think you are"...

  • @Bernitta_sheneinei
    @Bernitta_sheneinei 4 месяца назад

    Do the work..thank you family ❤

  • @leratoranamane9529
    @leratoranamane9529 Год назад +1

    #Dothework ❤️ How can you not love the Makhs?
    You guys are blessed and you are a blessing 💯🙌🏾 There is so much wisdom in every episode ✨

  • @zakithimhlongo3085
    @zakithimhlongo3085 11 месяцев назад

    Do the work, love the interesting conversations

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Год назад +2

    Do the Work❤❤❤😊 You have my gratitude 🙏🏽 here’s to yet nother amazing podcast 🥂 God bless you

  • @tlaly
    @tlaly Год назад

    #dothework ! Loved this conversation so much❤

  • @zamokuhlembuyane1337
    @zamokuhlembuyane1337 Год назад

    Awesome , Awesome conversation - Truly Holy spirit led.I am empowered

  • @Priscillianqueen
    @Priscillianqueen Год назад +1

    Definitely led by the holy spirit!! (DO THE WORK!!!!)....we love you guys. 🥰

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Год назад

    "Do the work." 👌🏽👊🏽

  • @Woman_Of_Substance
    @Woman_Of_Substance Год назад

    Do the work...❤❤❤❤ thanks guys for the amazing installment.. God bless you...❤❤

  • @NdumisoShabangu
    @NdumisoShabangu Год назад

    Here’s a follower from KwaDukuza. Love you guys

  • @paulinendlovumsonzah856
    @paulinendlovumsonzah856 Год назад +5

    I'm looking for a button to double like this episode. Thank you fam for this master class. 😍

  • @pamelakesebonye7114
    @pamelakesebonye7114 Год назад

    #dothework! Thanks guys. Ke le rata gore! Thank you for allowing God to use you!

  • @nomkhosimchunu4744
    @nomkhosimchunu4744 Год назад

    Who I am knows this is not my space🔥 this is fire. Holy Spirit leading indeed. I 100% agree with this.

  • @latse670
    @latse670 Год назад

    🔥🔥🙌Work, amazing segment

  • @palesamlaba994
    @palesamlaba994 Год назад

    Do the work! ❤

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 Год назад

    #dothework
    This was so profound❤️❤️

  • @s.pvimbelo3338
    @s.pvimbelo3338 Год назад

    Do the work
    I love this notion of "Do the work for yourself, not for anyone or anything" because I think once you do the work for yourself everything else will align with who you are.

  • @raedonnawilkinson4585
    @raedonnawilkinson4585 Год назад

    Do the work!! love you guys

  • @adeyemijumoke6
    @adeyemijumoke6 Год назад

    Enjoyed the conversation ✔️
    Pursue yourself 🔥🔥🔥
    Every installment makes me think and reflect. Thank you Lerato and Phetola for doing this. God bless you

  • @Ms.Busisiwe
    @Ms.Busisiwe 11 месяцев назад

    Do the work!💯

  • @hlabiwamaponya6590
    @hlabiwamaponya6590 Год назад

    Do the WORK!!!

  • @gcinilemhlanga3226
    @gcinilemhlanga3226 Год назад

    The Makhs, serving us another riveting episode. Mr Makhs brought the fireworks and sis Pheto did not disappoint too. I loooved it #in sis Pheto’s accent🤩🤩🤩

  • @cherylkaindjee347
    @cherylkaindjee347 Год назад +1

    Do the work ❤you guys keep blessing us with wisdom God bless

  • @sibongilemali152
    @sibongilemali152 Год назад

    Do the work👏🏾

  • @snethembasne8109
    @snethembasne8109 11 месяцев назад

    Do the work🥰thank you so much

  • @bongiwemazibuko325
    @bongiwemazibuko325 Год назад +2

    Wow I truly enjoyed this session with you guys, you have opened my eyes, that who I am is not a reflection of who my partner is. As we turn to blame ourselves for our partner doings. You so right kids reflect who they are once they grow they filter and adato what they see and they choose by what they saw

  • @bupebwanga66
    @bupebwanga66 Год назад

    Do the work🤗❤️📍

  • @kdaughters
    @kdaughters Год назад

    Love you guys. ❤ always feels like I'm listening to a conversation with friends.

  • @lindubuhlemathenjwa1453
    @lindubuhlemathenjwa1453 Год назад

    Thanks❤️ Do the work

  • @thatom4109
    @thatom4109 Год назад +1

    Do the work❤...you guys are spectacular 😮😊.

  • @sarahletsoalo9668
    @sarahletsoalo9668 Год назад +5

    In some seasons true, the partner I have is a reflection of where I am.
    Who you are never changes, true.
    And as you grow you forget who you are shuuu😮
    Then life becomes the journey and rediscovery of who you are
    _ Mr Makhs
    Thanks family for the conversation

  • @VEE592
    @VEE592 Год назад

    Do the work ❤❤❤.. This was a wholesome one.. Thank you family

  • @snecele913
    @snecele913 Год назад

    Do the work!!!

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 11 месяцев назад

    #DoTheWork!
    Peace & Blessings❤

  • @KaraboM
    @KaraboM 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤ Eish. Have no words for this one... Holy spirit lead and really speaks to us through the both of you❤

  • @alicenisabwe9659
    @alicenisabwe9659 Год назад

    Do the work 🙌 . I love you guys 😊

  • @tshenoloagnes881
    @tshenoloagnes881 11 месяцев назад

    Do the work🎉

  • @lebohangntjabane693
    @lebohangntjabane693 Год назад +2

    Do the work❤

  • @sindiswandukuya2196
    @sindiswandukuya2196 Год назад

    Do the work!

  • @mathapelomonnakgotla7395
    @mathapelomonnakgotla7395 Год назад +1

    Ur consistency jeeeeerrrr,it's like winter is ur favorite season guys!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890
    @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890 Год назад +2

    #DoTheWork... This conversation was profound. Pursue yourself.😍
    Thank you guys for such an enlightening convo. We are grateful to God for your lives. ♥️

  • @sinegugungema5203
    @sinegugungema5203 Год назад +1

    Do the work💯

  • @teemtshali9411
    @teemtshali9411 Год назад

    Do the work♥️

  • @omolemomore7627
    @omolemomore7627 Год назад

    DO THE WORK!

  • @asantesana.
    @asantesana. Год назад

    Do the work🎉🎉

  • @phathutshedzoprettymatumba7422

    #Do the work ❤️

  • @galaletsangmonyebodi9547
    @galaletsangmonyebodi9547 Год назад +1

    Great conversation!keep up the good content!
    I’d like to hear y’all discuss the dynamics and challenges faced as a couple before having kids and those faced after having kids.

  • @mathapelomonnakgotla7395
    @mathapelomonnakgotla7395 Год назад

    Do the work!!!!

  • @Ms.Busisiwe
    @Ms.Busisiwe 11 месяцев назад

    Your conversations are always filled with wisdom❤‍🔥

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +4

    We haven’t said “y’all know what it is” in a long time 😂 peace out ✌🏾♥️

  • @Mrs_James
    @Mrs_James Год назад

    Love it here ❤

  • @khuthadzomatumba7904
    @khuthadzomatumba7904 Год назад

    What a powerful episode!!!!!! Shuuuuuuu

  • @nosisasharon3534
    @nosisasharon3534 Год назад

    Do the work🤗

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +1

    Yes it happens then you wanna leave immediately yet you don’t wanna be rude you sometimes go there goes of a friend others go there for the bag 💰