7 WAYS TO AVOID ARGUMENTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP | South African Couple YouTubers
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We can all admit that we fall into the trap of arguing when what we really need is to be heard, seen and understood.
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6 minutes in and as I'm listening I'm just thinking about how Pheto most times, thinks she is "the problem" and Lerato is the more understanding one, not only in this installment but in other installments as well. And I ALWAYS, relate to that. Perhaps it's a woman problem? It's almost as though men are more gracious, quick to forgive and and and, which reminds me of the attributes of God, maybe us women need to constantly be aware of our nature and crucify it because nam shame I feel like I start most fights. I don't know I hope this makes sense a bit.
Relatable
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Looking for similarities and not differences speaks to fixing your focus. What you choose to focus on will grow. So focus on the positive and cultivate a positive space. And also afford your partner grace ❤️
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I also dismiss a person very easily....kodwa I am a work in progress.
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Yes and now you are fighting to be heard or listened to so you automatically don’t want to have the same pattern happening in your relationship or marriage but that is destroying the inner you and when you are a family your kids are most likely gonna be the same then nothing solves the issue that we’re present at the time and the issues that have grown to be a part of the current life. I feel like that’s when words like haibo onkare we are within a generational circle of none healthy things situations issues unfinished nton nton because a partner might leave the relationship or marriage cause that small thing which means a lot to them it’s like ( peace)
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The part about how much of your happiness is the responsibility of your spouse hmmm...i think I need more clarity on that one, if you guys dont mind getting into it more
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