Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else. You are doing great work. Hats off to you Very very realistic
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है, आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है, मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है, ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो, लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता। मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है। बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Har cheej me kuch positive hota hai. Feel like a free bird life and be happy. Vaise bhi relations me kuch nahin dhara if they are insensitive to you. Jab jarurat padegi to aap jarur yaad aaoge.
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else.
You are doing great work.
Hats off to you
Very very realistic
Thanks for such kind words.
Same for me, feels like healing to listen to you.
Sir Relatives are hidden enemies..the bad mouth on back . Very few people are blessed with genuine relatives
Agreed dear
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We are in 5% group. No relation with relatives of each side
You are a very intelligent couple
😂
Sir, you are hitting the sociology of North India brutally...jai hind
Same for Western India
Clapping for you
Being 38 years old,I realize each word of this video is true
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है,
आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है,
मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है,
ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो,
लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता।
मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है।
बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Funniest line....unke pass time bahut hai bura manne ka...... totally agree
The knots in my mind are getting released. Thank you Amit Sir, keep enlightning us with practical aspects of life. Regards
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
Much needed topic for today.Wish these could be given as part of premarital consel to women and men alike
Yes it should be
This video applicable even in North Karnataka and Maharashtra, where chacha and mama are same as North India.
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
Same here
Uncle ji, how practical you are🙏🙏!
I wish all mummy papa get your mental intellect 🥹
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
8.34 sabse pehle apne ko khush karo...👌👌👌
Best sentence of the video..
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
😊👏👏👏 generally boy and boy's family gets neglected after marriage
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Covid has given us this advantage. No one wants visitors anymore. Everyone happy at their own places
Mera naa to mummy waali side banti hai naa dady waali taraf. Mein aisa kyu hoon mein aisa kyu hoon 🤣
😃😃😃
Har cheej me kuch positive hota hai. Feel like a free bird life and be happy. Vaise bhi relations me kuch nahin dhara if they are insensitive to you. Jab jarurat padegi to aap jarur yaad aaoge.
Same
Tum different nhi ho bas log toxic hein. Ye rishtedar leech hein Jo khun chuste hai.
Wo isi layak honge... 😅 Aap shi ho..
Your all topics are completely relatable... much appreciated
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
Hats off to YOU! PLS BRING MORE brave and bold content. Indian society needs to hear this
मेरा तो एक ही फॉर्मूला है कि कोई आपसे फूला हुआ बैढ़े उससे पहले आप ही उन रिश्तेदार से मुंह फूला लो टाइम भी बचेगा और इज्ज़त भी बढ़ेगी😁😁😁
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@@ashitmukherjee5934 Bhai wo mere RUclips ka name he jo ki sach he isme jhuth kya hai or mere personal name se kya Karna hai
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware
Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Great topic. GOD BLESS ALL.
Hats off Amit
You are really number one clarity giver
Mind blowing Sir ..... kya video bnai hai . WISDOM !! 🌟✨
The logic , the honesty , best of sir ji.
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
Totally agree with you sir ......
Very practical approach
Good video sir. It is very helpful. I've never thought about this till today. Your perspectives seem pragmatic.
Too good !!!! 👍
Har Ghar Ki Kahani 🙏
What clarity u have given shat shat pranaam apko
Thank you Great topic never seen in any RUclips channel except Sango Life Sutras
Eye 👁 opening message 100 %percent 💯 true 👍 😄
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
Very nice sir ji .i relate with this.and so much clarity you shown to us is very helpful
Great advice so badly needed.
Your topics are valid in practical terms.
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing the ultimate truth🙏💞💐🙏
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone
Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Sir your contents are very practical love to watch you
Sir great teaching.....as always 👍
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
To the core ..practical
nicely and simply explained ... thanks sir
I wait for your videos … so relatable
Sir, you are simply great.
Practically True Sir 👍🏻👏👏
Mummy pe mere tauji logon ne bahut atyachaar kiye hein aur unke bache b humse jealous rehte hein toh tauji se rista kaise achaa rakhe
I totally agree with your advice.
Thanks
Good points. निभा ना सको जिसको, करो मत ऐसा इकरार, नहीं तो पड़ जायेगी रिश्तों में दरार।
Standing ovation !!
Sir exactly ye to hai hi, Mummy side waale rishtedar zyada acche lagte hai
Sir, you always bring very special topics, which no one ever talks about in our society. Really appreciate your efforts and courage.
खूपच छान घर घर की कहानी है.
100% correct sir... it has happened to me the way that you have explained in the video...
Very well said sir👏👏
Sir I love your honesty 👍🏻
Excellent Sir.. aap superb ho.
I appreciate you bring such videos.
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
Well said sir. Thanks for this clarity.
Great learning, sir!
Thanks for talking on such topics
Sir Ji... I can relate your points to my life
Thnku sir for clearing this thing in mind😄
Very good advise sir 😀🙏👌
Thank you much for making this kind of videos
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
Amazing sir, aise topic par baat karne ki himmat hai hi nahi hamare samaj me,
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
Thank sir g for very useful 🙏
Please make video if any couple suffer with infernity.
Ekdam sahi baat kahi sir apne. Yahi hota hai
Thank you so much, hats off
Big clap 👏👏 to u sir.. u speak brutal truth
Yes sir each of word TRUE and realateble every person, s life
Very brave effort. You will be judged by your own family 👏👏
Each and every video brings Wisdom in our life Guruju ❤😊
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life
your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
Good talk opening our eyes
Boss toh aise hi har samay chida hua rehte hai aapse 😂. Yeh line mai bahut hassi aaya 😂.
But overall a practical video 👍
Damm good sir
These topics are so controversial that starting the topic becomes a situation of passive aggression
Aap Mahan ho. Logon ko guru nhi aapke pass baidna chahie
Sab relatives to time dena is impossible..priority is must..nice information sir..
Well said Sangwan Sahab👍
Faltu ka appreciate nahi karna chahiye aap khudse appreciation mat mango acha lagega tabhi karenge
Very sensitive topic you covered 😊
Absolutely right sir
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏very unique topic liya apne 👍
Sir apke liye 👏👏👏👏
Sir ek video how to change thoughts
Keep doing the good work sir
सर वह कुंवारे रहने के नुकसान पर तो वीडियो बना दो ?
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Well said
में आपकी बात से पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं और इस बात से गुजरा हूं और अब अपने बच्चों को ऐसे दौर से गुजरते हुए देख रहा हूं 🙄
Thanks sirji 1 aur banao isse topic par vo bhi detail mein