By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
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Video muze convince nahi kar paya😅. Comment padh kar pata chala mere jaise happily single log bohot hai. Muze single rehne ke liye confidence badh gaya😂
I am turning 35 next month still not ready for marriage and terrified by my friends situations who ended up in bitter divorce and separations , I am happy with little things that God has blessed me with he's gonna take care of me 😇.
Yes, you are right. I am also a 37 years old person. I am single and I am happy in my life. I just surrender myself to God and I am sure he will take care of me.
Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
I married 7 years back and have a child...but I lost my job, my parents, my childhood home, my confidence and everything....and I got abuses ,violence, depression, anxiety, migraine .......so decide very carefully
No one speaks about this enough. Women shouldn't marry unless they have savings enough to buy property and to live without income for a year or so. You can always freeze your eggs and procreate later if you want kids.
In India the women who don't earn mostly are treated as slaves, telling by how my mother was treated Now she is in clinical depression Never leave your job for marriage,or even if your husband earns much more Job gives a women confidence and security against any abuse that she may have to face from in laws or husband, also one make friends in job Which is important for mental health
For me,, if people reject you only because u don't have job, then they don't deserve to have u in their life. They r lifeless people... Atleast I don't ever include those in my life.
@@dr.shakshigupta5879 No worries at all. That's why it was said, " chal akela".. i follow the same and a very few people i take with me, only gems... 😀 Remember, when u meet 100 people , hardly 10 belongs to you & it happens everywhere.. u join any academic institution, meet 50 people in 1 year, when u leave institute, hardly 5 people will be in your contact in future.. 😊
देखिये, आज शादी कोई तभी करेगा जब उसे सुख मिले। क्योकि ये कोई जिम्मेदारी नही, और ना ही कोई ठेका ले रखा है पीढ़ी बढाने का। जिनका मन कमजोर है वो करे शादी। वरना आज के समय शादी का कोई लाभ नही बल्कि हानि होने की अधिक सम्भावना है। विशेषकर आज के परिवार विरोधी कानूनो मे। अब तो यही सबसे बडा सवाल है की शादी क्यो करे? मिलेगा क्या ये जिम्मेदारिया उठा कर? मरना तो एक दिन वैसे भी सबको है। क्यो ना निश्चिंत होकर जिया जाये। बेहतर है कि अंत समय आध्यात्म का सहारा ले ले। आज ढेरो संस्थाए है जो वृद्धावस्था की व्यवस्था करती है। कोई दिक्कत नही जाती, जीवन आराम से हसी खुशी बीतता है।
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
@@englishclasses1665 ok..ballia backward area hai kafi, jada se jada 2 saal aur fir apki shadi ho jaegi apki community mai.. Isse acha hai koi ladka khoj khud hi karlo.. Aap UPPCS k taiyari kar rahi ho isliye apke parent ruke hue hai 100%
My suggestion: Don't make marriage compulsory but optional. Having the opposite gender into your inner space needs much rethinking if you really are prepared for this institution. There are still many individuals who are doing great in personal and social life without marriage and even being single.
@@TheMonkNZ women are more happier coz they don't have to deal with exploitation that come with marriage; ladkon ka kya hai shadi k baad v kuch saal taak apne life ; apne entertainment mai focus krte hai
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down. This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
Sir I watched ur whole episode thinking that maybe I missed something and that ur episode may force me to rethink my decision to never marry. But I think this episode was not for me. I still stick to my decision n still estatically happy with my decision. I took this decision 3 years back and not regretted ever since. I just turned 39. However m sure ur way of explaining various issues do help a lot of people. Thankful to God that people like u exist too. 🙏
@Sango Life Sutras I don't need to challenge u and I'm not. I respect u for the good work u r doing. All I'm saying is m not marrying for all the right reasons and none of the reasons that u mentioned for youngsters delaying or not marrying nowadays.
Wah sir ! 42 precisely kaise bataya apne aise konse biological changes ho jate hai 42 me...he's already 39 & happy...3 saal me uski dunia konsa upside down ho jaegi lol
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Marriage is a failed institution in current socio-economic scenario where men and women earn same and are independent. Neither of them would want to compromise, (and why should they?) Marriage cannot work without compromise, you see in past times when women were limited to household, they had to compromise because they were financially dependent on husband, however modern woman will not compromise (and why should they?) Hence marriage is a failed social experiment.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Sir, you are actually trying to change the thought pattern of the new generation. Yes, we are becoming reluctant in terms of marriage, but hopefully this scenario will change, with time. Keep up the good work sir.
Yaar pls stick to this decision my dad never wanted to marry but his family force him to get married he became alcoholic plus he stopped providing us for money because of this me and my brother's mental health is ruined I started earning at 19 and later provided for my family so for every guy who doesn't want loads of financial responsibility and is not willing to marry should stay single
Sir, aap astrologer ho...yuga change kar raha hai...marriage paradigm is changing...abhi sirf earn, pay and bacche ke liye shadi nahi chahiye...now people are looking for something higher...they want a soul connection...plus in the new age or yuga the population will be far less...the initial phase has started manifesting with the younger lot not wanting to marry...perspective of life itself is changing and the young ones don't want to be stuck in the old paradigm... Aur aap shaadi ki old paradigm Ki baat kar rahe ho? You're an astrologer. The earth is ascending...new age is dawning...isko nazar mein rakhte huye guide kyun nahi karte ho?
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
99% of people need marriage , what the hell. Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple. Leave it to the individual. Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Sir ,Agar shaadi timely na karwane me maata pita hi na chhaye to? Hai aise bahut maata pita jo 40 Tak bachho ki shaadi nahi karne dete aur agar khhud se kar lo bawaal, marte dam Tak muh nahi dekhte. Samajhte hi nahi aise maata pita ki unke bachhe 42 /45 ki umar me apne chhote chhote bachho ko kaise sambhalte honge. Sir it's a true of story of someone. Not everyone is against marriage, sometimes parents are responsible.
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne... Agar mata-pita ya bhai behen ko lag jaye ye beti/beta or bhai/behen responsible hai, ghar ki sari jimmedari uthata hai, finance to everything, thn un logo ki shadi karwane ke liye koi ichchuk nahi hota hai...
Amit Ji, you are the best. I feel so productive and motivated after listening to you. Thank you for bringing the change in society and the mindset of youth 🙏🙏
Sir ,I am respectfuly saying that you missed the important reasons: 1.Ladka ya ladki apni azzadi aur kuareypan ke mazey ni chod saktey isliye Aisa hora hai. 2.Shadi ke baad bandhn aur chic chic se wo khud ko door rakhna chahtey hai. 3.Naukri ki jbrdast uncertainty hai .
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Marriage is a choice, not a necessity! Everyone has their own priorities in life...we cannot impose one or two reason for not getting married on everyone as if they are the universal reasons...we should leave it to the individual to decide his/her own course of life...Sir i think aapka Survey Sample Size thoda chota reh gya! But nevertheless it is a nice talk!
Sir sometimes you just don’t find the right person. Many a times the person you were invested for the purpose of marrying with Break off the relationship. Life is unpredictable. And one cannot simply move on being logical and calculative at all times. Yes however, if one finds a good partner at the right age then by all means do not delay it. But life isn’t a straight road. And getting married just for the heck of it without Basic values being aligned, and a firm and through background check in case of arranged alliances isn’t fruitful at all. Baad mein jo hoga Woh to apple definitely akele jhelna hai. But be late then sorry.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 then why ready to entertain with your life. If you married someone,then it's 60years togetherness more or less. Then why for this so much hustle bustle
I agree with you. And the pain it brings of putting dedicated effort into a relationship so that it turns a long term innings of marriage can sometimes break a camels back. I also agree with Sir's point of cribbing nature of men. It can come in any form. I don't understand high earning men mentality. They want a trophy partner plus accomplished and should have the potential to be at the beck and call of the partner every single need. Forget parents they themselves are so emotionally demanding.
38 Y Old here, single , very much happy my own way. Society is just purely dillusion for those who are mesmorised. 1 Question only How many Girls really marry to boys ? Or wiseaversa (I think none) Most of marriages are based on Financial status, So, Just marriage is just with money 💰 not with the person. No matter How Good you are by nature, or what is your instinct. That does not matter. Matter is only Financial status both side.
I also want to add that parenting is changing rapidly with time and don't know what will happen to this generation that eats with mobile. Parents are helpless and clueless and this is changing with more tech entering households. I have empathy for new parents and will be parents.
Sir, the thing which you explained in the last 2 mins, that is one of the prime reasons why guys or girls are afraid of marriage or don`t get married early. because no family would like an underdog or so. Anyone does not look for extra baggage to carry. One request can you make a video about folks who want to marry late in life?
@@animeshupadhyai4057 condom + rapid testing kit aati h bhai .. Or me medical line se hu …to pata h symptoms ..thodi research karo … Koi option h kya … jail..mental torture… adultery..slavery… apne assets wealth gawane se accha hi h … Koi option nahi h … Or bhai prostitute bhi ek se ek hoti h … Firends with benefits wali gf bana lo …
Single rehna achhi baat hai no stress no nuisance etc but when it comes to travel,outing,movies,eating out,attending grand events etc ni family, friends or relatives come to hang out n theres pure loneliness so many people change their mind and get married in late 40s so they can have a good company
You are forgetting very important part that majority of the girls today have or had past lovers but because of family pressure or other didn't marry him. When they marry they settle for some nice guy for the resources but their heart is still with their ex and since they are self-sufficient they don't respect the husband and do affairs with their ex or someone they cannot have like a very good looking or rich man. Character is everything while selecting a wife all other things are pretty much useless without character.
@@happyplease4093 But if the guy cheats in a marriage and it leads to divorce, the girl doesnt have to pay alimony(the guy has to pay alimony) etc whereas if the woman cheats then still the man has to give alimony etc after divorce.
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं। पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं? मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge. Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
" your parents world is different, we stay in our minds, same ghar me dusre mental world me hum rehte hai " so so true 👌👍Thanks for this video , I really like all your videos..... aapka perspective ekdum hatke hota hai 🙏👌
Marriage is a gambling, You may lucky or unlucky. Best of luck, Once you have child it is 25 years project at 0% profit. Burden after marriage: Home loan, personal loan, child education loan. Don't marry stay away from all responsibilities.
I am old enough and very happy being single. I am unmarried by choice and do not prefer having kids. I am successful and have other priorities in life. I personally know many people in India and abroad who are single and established in life, they all are in late 60s or 70s and are very happy. Regarding this video: I have seen this trend of intruding into other people’s personal lives in India only. Someone wants to marry or doesn’t want to marry is his/her personal choice and society should respect that. Anybody else’s comment on it is absolutely uncalled for.
I am 31 years old but I am facing pressure at home and relatives to get married it's like pressure But I am happy being unmarried and single also I am a working girl
Getting married and having kids is a personal choice and marriage is not everything for a girl They can work on themselves, focus on studies, hobbies and work on themselves and focus on career and work
Sir...my age will be 34 on this February. I had been a Broken engagement last year spetember 2022 because of some circumstance the girl stoped relationship with me. Till day I am looking for a bride from past 3 years through relatives, Matrimonial site and By myself. Koi bhi ladki na ho baat karne mein intrest show kar rahi hai..aur nahi kishi ki source mil pa Raha hai..idharr age and time Aage badhte jarahi hai. Aap keh rahe hai ladko ko 27-30yrs age mein Marriage hojana chahiye but ek Boy ko carrier, finances, Emotionally, mentally prepare hone mein time lagta hai. Sir..Aap suggestions or guidance dijiye yeh matter mein
@@pallavverma5448 After reaching a certain age you will regret your life decisions. View it as you are there to take care of your parents but after a certain time there will be no one to take care of you or even talk to you because you never had a life partner and you never became a parent. If you live in a joint family them this doesn't apply to you but if by any chance you have a nuclear family you are doomed.
@@legends5066 I'm not telling to get married, I'm telling the consequences of not getting married. BTW if you are between 18-22 then congratulations to your premature thinking coz I also used to think the same but then I critically analysed the situation of life without a partner and with a partner and trust me no will take you seriously and everyone would be reluctant to offer you a rented apartment and when the parents are no longer there then your life becomes hell even if you are committed to your work and earn a lot of money but that will never make up for the need of real family members. Think critically not emotionally. Like in the video it is said that not everyone's life becomes a hell after marriage. It is only some of the extreme cases which gets highlighted more.
Are salary issue nahi hoti... Financial stability nahi hai yeh soch issue hai...... Kuch jugad karke ,same situation & companion wali ya wala se jiyo...
Teri personality thik hoti toh tujhe koi choose kar leta Abhi paisa kaamake khudko ek commodity ki tarah ladkiyo k saamne prastut karoge toh ye ek business deal hai Shaadi aise nahi karte ki jo mile usse kardo
Highly psychological Analysis of marriage for both girls and boys,there should be more people like you, I send your videos to lot of young and old members of society,
Wonderful video. And that concept mental plane and reality of every person is different is so true. I use to say the same thing to young people around me who think they have lot of time to mature,grow up and start taking responsibility. Young people nowadays are overgrown children.Very few listen to their parents and at 25 they don’t want responsibility especially men.Many young men marry for ‘bahu’ and ‘sex’ and its only after marriage they realize how tough it is. Counselling should be done by parents.This video will open parents eyes who are wasting time of their children in name of ‘ good girl’.
Great video, perfectly pitched explaining the realistic ground reality. Hum kar to rahey they, par aisa na humko kisi ney samjhaya nahin. " Guru Tatva ko Dhanyawaad. "
Than you sir for bringing such videos for kids and the youth . I salute your courage since so many middle age people dont really accept their faults politely . They are far , far away from the truth .
Well said Sangwan Sir.I am a Doctor and used to say these things in family and friend circle .You are doing great service to the society.You deserve 1 million subscribers
Everyone is not suitable to get married. When people have unresolved psychological issues of their own, they project it on their spouse and children. Bringing a life into this world just for the sake of it and saddling him/her with your emotional neglect is not ok. Brining a new life into existence without understanding life's true nature, importance and purpose is a pure ignorant and selfish act.
Baat shi hai sir. Meri didi ki sadi ko 4 saal ho gye hai lekin aaj tk hmi log sara kharch hm log dekh rhe hai. Aor unke husband ko koe mtlb nhi hai bachha bimar padhe, koe bhi jarurat ho hmi log pura krte hai. Ekdm bekar jivan ho gya hai unka...
From a woman's point of view.... Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible..... It's like ragging..... It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage... Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@@SBH3356 Agree.... But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell.... Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
Whenever you do, make sure you are mature enough for it. You understand the responsibility you're taking. Social norm and increasing the population are not enough reasons.
Tim Cook Swami Vivekananda Or foreign live in their happiness life It's individual life Indian people usually focus on other life whether neighbour or family Nobody should focus on their life It's better to live alone
After watching this video, I would like to say that if you are thinking about getting married, you should first look at yourself and see what kind of person you are. The person you marry may not be the same person you thought they were, and you may regret your decision later. Marriage is not a joke. It is a responsibility that you must take seriously, not only for yourself but also for your partner. So, please think carefully before getting married, and do not marry someone just because you are attracted to them.
Mai 19 salka hu fir bhi ak advice deta hu . Sadi karni hai to koi kamane wali se karo. Jiski income acchi khasi ho tumpe depend na ho. Not because ki tumhe wo paise chahiye😂 but usko kamse kam tumhare sath rahene ke lea koi majburi / condition nhi hoga paise ka, wo pyar karne wali hogi 😊
My life is going great & I don't feel that getting married is going to improve or add on anything positive in my life. Also, getting married in today's era depends on luck. Women have become great, I agree, but they have also become very good at hiding their true faces. My instincts are getting better these days & I have an instinct that my life will be destroyed if I get married. But my parents are still living in an era where women were good, feminine, loyal, caring, respected others etc. All I see in today's women are they look for multiple sex relationships before getting married & later when they get married to a decent guy, then file a fake 498a case against him so that she can continue to enjoy her "sexual liberty". It's only when she reaches 30 & her beauty starts to fade away, she starts thinking about stable married life.
Still finding a good boy is easy nowadays rather than a girl..pehle ke jamane mai dekha jaata tha ki ladka kesa hai..usme koi burai to nhi..daaru to nhi Peeta galat aadat to nhi hai etc..nowadays scenario is opposite 😂 technology and laws ka misuse acche se ho raha hai
People keep changing with time...even if someone thinks they are marrying the right person, it might turn out otherwise later...one can never be sure...pls make a video on mental plane explanation. thanks.
He is marriage consultant runs a marriage institution that's why he putting facts for marrige and children. Otherwise see comment I am 33 yo unmarried never been in relationship by choice and Happy.
@@mattcardin1796 circumstance and parents health play role in delay. I completed my grad @ 30 I lost my father this yr and mother is schizophrenic. So currently I have lots of responsibility and want to live life freely. Marriage comes with responsibility...
@GauravRajput-jx2xy bro ye admi apni hi baat ko kaat raha hai. Ye khud hi bol raha hai ki sex ratio kharab hai . Aur khud hi bol raha hai ki sabko shadi karni chahiye 😂
You can take risk of driving if car is in your control. . . You cannot take risk of driving if you are in car's control. . . This is the key reason automated cars are still not used then why use marriage. . . When a girl's parents have no idea with whom she has an affair. . . What probability you think you have that you can judge her properly. . .
Without money no one can full fill all the major responsibilities after marriage. I'm single 45. Staying with my parents happily. And can't take other person responsibility. I'm single but not by choice. Don't marry for a Marriage certificate, it is not mandatory 😊namaste. Shadi kar lo.. Shadi kar lo 😅mai kehta hu.. Paisa de do.. Paisa de do 😅
I love last 4-5 minutes of video where you mention how initially women have to take pressure & than men would play for later part of innings.
What is your suggestion for bald boys.
How can I get platinum membership? Please help
@@rishavsoni3680 get a wig
By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
Donot take platinum membership. People like this having good speaker can influence and make money for himself. Please update you view after 2-3 months if you already subscribed to platinum
Log shaadi krenge to aapki dukaan chalegi. Single and happy person is not your customer 😅
Dear old generation, stop lecturing us. We know what the world is today.
Video muze convince nahi kar paya😅.
Comment padh kar pata chala mere jaise happily single log bohot hai. Muze single rehne ke liye confidence badh gaya😂
😅😅😂😂
😂😂😂kay bolto mitra, confidence badh gaya 🤣
Same here dost.
sach me dost aaj ke time me shadi matlab bohot bada risk he
@@umakantchabukswar403 पण घरचे लोक समजत नाहीत जबरदस्ती लग्न कर लग्न कर म्हणून पाठी पडतात🙂
i am 33 and happily unmarried :)
I am turning 35 next month still not ready for marriage and terrified by my friends situations who ended up in bitter divorce and separations , I am happy with little things that God has blessed me with he's gonna take care of me 😇.
Yes, you are right. I am also a 37 years old person. I am single and I am happy in my life. I just surrender myself to God and I am sure he will take care of me.
Yes I will not get married as well
I am regreting after marriage.
@@PawanKumar-nx3no may i know the reason ????
@@englishclasses1665 My wife is very decent and innocent. But my mother viewpoint and thoughts are evil, which I came to know after marriage.
Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
Sigma bro 🔥🔥
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
I'm suffering from low self-esteem that's why I'm not going to get married..
33 year old
Do inner engineering you will have confidence with clarity
Dost please constlant from some therapist , I am gone through same problem get treated from AIIMS , now all is good
Bro good to be simple
@@kamalupretidelhi brother sometimes we just need to let go
I married 7 years back and have a child...but I lost my job, my parents, my childhood home, my confidence and everything....and I got abuses ,violence, depression, anxiety, migraine .......so decide very carefully
No one speaks about this enough. Women shouldn't marry unless they have savings enough to buy property and to live without income for a year or so. You can always freeze your eggs and procreate later if you want kids.
In India the women who don't earn mostly are treated as slaves, telling by how my mother was treated
Now she is in clinical depression
Never leave your job for marriage,or even if your husband earns much more
Job gives a women confidence and security against any abuse that she may have to face from in laws or husband, also one make friends in job Which is important for mental health
For me,, if people reject you only because u don't have job, then they don't deserve to have u in their life. They r lifeless people... Atleast I don't ever include those in my life.
@@Terminator-to3lp people may even reject you for your likes, hobbies, and also for no reason.....just works on their mood
@@dr.shakshigupta5879 No worries at all. That's why it was said, " chal akela".. i follow the same and a very few people i take with me, only gems... 😀 Remember, when u meet 100 people , hardly 10 belongs to you & it happens everywhere.. u join any academic institution, meet 50 people in 1 year, when u leave institute, hardly 5 people will be in your contact in future.. 😊
देखिये, आज शादी कोई तभी करेगा जब उसे सुख मिले। क्योकि ये कोई जिम्मेदारी नही, और ना ही कोई ठेका ले रखा है पीढ़ी बढाने का। जिनका मन कमजोर है वो करे शादी। वरना आज के समय शादी का कोई लाभ नही बल्कि हानि होने की अधिक सम्भावना है। विशेषकर आज के परिवार विरोधी कानूनो मे। अब तो यही सबसे बडा सवाल है की शादी क्यो करे? मिलेगा क्या ये जिम्मेदारिया उठा कर?
मरना तो एक दिन वैसे भी सबको है। क्यो ना निश्चिंत होकर जिया जाये। बेहतर है कि अंत समय आध्यात्म का सहारा ले ले। आज ढेरो संस्थाए है जो वृद्धावस्था की व्यवस्था करती है। कोई दिक्कत नही जाती, जीवन आराम से हसी खुशी बीतता है।
GREAT THINKING
Right
Bhaad me gyi shadi, bhaad me gyi ladki
Based
SAME HERE
Larki bhi yahi sochti hey bhiya ki sadai baadi faltu hey
I am 25 and worries about high inflation, climate change and AI.
So I decided not to get married.
Here I m turned 26 13 Jan ..and feel same
😂
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
I wish i would married at 22-23. It is the best time.
After 30 all gone
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
Mai 25 saal ki hu maine apne parents k behaviour ko dekh k shadi na krne ka decision liya h
If you are a girl then you are going to get married you have no choice.
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws no need
@@englishclasses1665 aap kis District se ho?
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws ballia
@@englishclasses1665 ok..ballia backward area hai kafi, jada se jada 2 saal aur fir apki shadi ho jaegi apki community mai.. Isse acha hai koi ladka khoj khud hi karlo.. Aap UPPCS k taiyari kar rahi ho isliye apke parent ruke hue hai 100%
Pata nhi saaala life hai ki koi task hai! Thk gya hun yr. Nhi khelna mujhe ye game😞
My suggestion:
Don't make marriage compulsory but optional. Having the opposite gender into your inner space needs much rethinking if you really are prepared for this institution.
There are still many individuals who are doing great in personal and social life without marriage and even being single.
Right
@@ankita8354 Thanks for the response Ankita.
@@TheMonkNZ Thank you Monk!
@@TheMonkNZ women are more happier coz they don't have to deal with exploitation that come with marriage; ladkon ka kya hai shadi k baad v kuch saal taak apne life ; apne entertainment mai focus krte hai
I feel exactly the same !
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down.
This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
I completely agree
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
This video has an assumption that both the man and the woman are loyal to each other which is not the case in this modern society
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
Yess bro 🙏
This has changed. This is not Vedic time.
Tu vedic time me chala ja...yaha is timeline me kyu jee rha hai
Government survey k hisabb se 10 crore mahila ladkigaa UNMARRIED he nakii unko shadii nahi karnii
Unkii kwaisshee purii nahi hotii
This...sahi kah rhe hai aap
Sir I still choose to stay single and childfree for life 🙂
Then start seeking for money+ knowledge+ hobby (skills) +tasty food you will get true happiness
@@freedom4813 yes that's the plan
@@freedom4813 do exercise and yog also
Because you know u can not afford this challenge.
You will regret in later years for what you are enjoying now. Then it will be too late. Life cannot be filtered to enjoy only.
Sir I watched ur whole episode thinking that maybe I missed something and that ur episode may force me to rethink my decision to never marry. But I think this episode was not for me. I still stick to my decision n still estatically happy with my decision. I took this decision 3 years back and not regretted ever since. I just turned 39. However m sure ur way of explaining various issues do help a lot of people. Thankful to God that people like u exist too. 🙏
Wait for 42 yrs of age.
@Sango Life Sutras I don't need to challenge u and I'm not. I respect u for the good work u r doing. All I'm saying is m not marrying for all the right reasons and none of the reasons that u mentioned for youngsters delaying or not marrying nowadays.
Wah sir ! 42 precisely kaise bataya apne aise konse biological changes ho jate hai 42 me...he's already 39 & happy...3 saal me uski dunia konsa upside down ho jaegi lol
@@bansalprashant1 good decision
@@SangoLifeSutras
Bang on sir!
You regret not making this investment once you grow old.
Sir smoking is injurious to health but marriage is injurious to wealth & health both 😂
😂
sahi bola
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
True
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
@@Ritez_ shaadi kar le bhai
best comment ever
true sir
Not eka dukka 5-6 people in my family and friends are fighting divorce cases
ye budha pagal ho gya iski sun k zndagi kharab mat kro.
Koea asea chutiyo se leta bhi nahi hai advive
Sir, the way you get smile on your face with confidence when you say, I am the no. 1 clarity giver in the India is LAJAWAB.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
muh miya mitthu he ye uncle..😂
Marriage is a failed institution in current socio-economic scenario where men and women earn same and are independent. Neither of them would want to compromise, (and why should they?)
Marriage cannot work without compromise, you see in past times when women were limited to household, they had to compromise because they were financially dependent on husband, however modern woman will not compromise (and why should they?)
Hence marriage is a failed social experiment.
Every one has their own comfort zone of getting married..but selection of right parter is very crucial otherwise it will waste whole life..
That happens rarely. If you are rich, you can live in comfort
Mujhe nahi karni shaadi, na bacha chahiye. Mujhe tinde hi pasand hai.
THE BEST REPLY ...😀
Listen to acharya Prashant to get more clarity and live for liberation
Average tinde enoyer
😂😂.. sahi
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Main reason: Because of one sided Indian judiciary laws.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Sir, you are actually trying to change the thought pattern of the new generation. Yes, we are becoming reluctant in terms of marriage, but hopefully this scenario will change, with time. Keep up the good work sir.
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मेरी उम्र 35.साल हो गई है
में शादी नहीं करना चाहता
Sir
I want to take spiritual path and remain unmarried
Yaar pls stick to this decision my dad never wanted to marry but his family force him to get married he became alcoholic plus he stopped providing us for money because of this me and my brother's mental health is ruined I started earning at 19 and later provided for my family so for every guy who doesn't want loads of financial responsibility and is not willing to marry should stay single
Sir, aap astrologer ho...yuga change kar raha hai...marriage paradigm is changing...abhi sirf earn, pay and bacche ke liye shadi nahi chahiye...now people are looking for something higher...they want a soul connection...plus in the new age or yuga the population will be far less...the initial phase has started manifesting with the younger lot not wanting to marry...perspective of life itself is changing and the young ones don't want to be stuck in the old paradigm...
Aur aap shaadi ki old paradigm Ki baat kar rahe ho?
You're an astrologer. The earth is ascending...new age is dawning...isko nazar mein rakhte huye guide kyun nahi karte ho?
if he supports the changes in modern society then for marriage who will buy rings and jems from him !!
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Sir main aapki zyadatar advice follow ni krta aadhi se jyada mujhe aapki baatein galat bhi lgti hai pr phir bhi aapko sunnna acha lgta hai
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99% of people need marriage , what the hell.
Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple.
Leave it to the individual.
Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
Marriage is not neccesary in life😊. He is a fool man.
True 👏
@@user-ck9rh2ek7o so brave of you to call this professional problem solver a fool . What's your worth??
@@user-ck9rh2ek7o He's not at all a fool. Marriage is necessary.
@@user-ck9rh2ek7o right bro ❤❤❤❤
I am also female 33 year old I want to stayy single while my life
Ya toh pati k sath bilkul alag raho ...nhi toh kbhi shadi mat karna .....
@@sonujain2348 Freedom is more important than "Samaj"
Right
@@sonujain2348to wa reh kya ho jab financially stable ho to alag raho unse
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Sir ,Agar shaadi timely na karwane me maata pita hi na chhaye to? Hai aise bahut maata pita jo 40 Tak bachho ki shaadi nahi karne dete aur agar khhud se kar lo bawaal, marte dam Tak muh nahi dekhte. Samajhte hi nahi aise maata pita ki unke bachhe 42 /45 ki umar me apne chhote chhote bachho ko kaise sambhalte honge. Sir it's a true of story of someone. Not everyone is against marriage, sometimes parents are responsible.
apka aisa situation hai kya?
Mata pita ko chodo.....aur khud se shadi kr lo........bawal hota to hone do
Apni life ki command apne haath me lo
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne... Agar mata-pita ya bhai behen ko lag jaye ye beti/beta or bhai/behen responsible hai, ghar ki sari jimmedari uthata hai, finance to everything, thn un logo ki shadi karwane ke liye koi ichchuk nahi hota hai...
Amit Ji, you are the best. I feel so productive and motivated after listening to you. Thank you for bringing the change in society and the mindset of youth 🙏🙏
Sir ,I am respectfuly saying that you missed the important reasons:
1.Ladka ya ladki apni azzadi aur kuareypan ke mazey ni chod saktey isliye Aisa hora hai.
2.Shadi ke baad bandhn aur chic chic se wo khud ko door rakhna chahtey hai.
3.Naukri ki jbrdast uncertainty hai .
Shadi barbadi hoti hai. Aajkal divorce rate dekh rahe ho kitna hai. Maine bohot log dekhe hai jinki jindagi barbad hui shadi ki vajah se
I agree sir. Completed 25 years of marriage. My hubby is under pressure for now n I feel for him.
इन भाई साहब का धंदा शादी होगी तो ज्यादा चलेगा
अगर दिमाग हो तो शादी मत करना guys
जमाना बदल गया है
SHAADI TO MUJHE BHI NAHI KARNI....43 SAAL KA HOGAYA HU...AB TO AKELA REHENE KI AADAT SI HOGAI HAI ....AUR AKELA HI KHOOSH HOON
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Marriage is a choice, not a necessity! Everyone has their own priorities in life...we cannot impose one or two reason for not getting married on everyone as if they are the universal reasons...we should leave it to the individual to decide his/her own course of life...Sir i think aapka Survey Sample Size thoda chota reh gya! But nevertheless it is a nice talk!
Sir sometimes you just don’t find the right person. Many a times the person you were invested for the purpose of marrying with Break off the relationship. Life is unpredictable. And one cannot simply move on being logical and calculative at all times. Yes however, if one finds a good partner at the right age then by all means do not delay it. But life isn’t a straight road. And getting married just for the heck of it without Basic values being aligned, and a firm and through background check in case of arranged alliances isn’t fruitful at all. Baad mein jo hoga Woh to apple definitely akele jhelna hai. But be late then sorry.
I agree
@@ashitmukherjee5934 then why ready to entertain with your life. If you married someone,then it's 60years togetherness more or less. Then why for this so much hustle bustle
Exactly 💯 💯
@Raspberry I agree!
Sometimes he seems very robotic & ignorant of human emotionalities. Life is not just black or white, Sir.
I agree with you. And the pain it brings of putting dedicated effort into a relationship so that it turns a long term innings of marriage can sometimes break a camels back.
I also agree with Sir's point of cribbing nature of men.
It can come in any form. I don't understand high earning men mentality. They want a trophy partner plus accomplished and should have the potential to be at the beck and call of the partner every single need. Forget parents they themselves are so emotionally demanding.
38 Y Old here, single , very much happy my own way.
Society is just purely dillusion for those who are mesmorised.
1 Question only How many Girls really marry to boys ? Or wiseaversa (I think none) Most of marriages are based on Financial status, So, Just marriage is just with money 💰 not with the person.
No matter How Good you are by nature, or what is your instinct. That does not matter.
Matter is only Financial status both side.
Bro jyada si sach bol diya😢
Isiliye apna paisa apne upper enjoy karo
I also want to add that parenting is changing rapidly with time and don't know what will happen to this generation that eats with mobile. Parents are helpless and clueless and this is changing with more tech entering households. I have empathy for new parents and will be parents.
I wouldn't wish to raise a kid in technology era.
Ye sab baate acharya Prashant j pehle bahut achhe se samjha chuke h mera drashtikon badal gaya
Sir, the thing which you explained in the last 2 mins, that is one of the prime reasons why guys or girls are afraid of marriage or don`t get married early. because no family would like an underdog or so. Anyone does not look for extra baggage to carry.
One request can you make a video about folks who want to marry late in life?
sir shadi ki chodo... yeh batao 6000 ki russian kaha milegi.... ek video ispe bhi banao
Bhai thailand best h … cheap h affirdable 😊
@@chetan257 what about STDs? aur self worth bhi gir jaati hai is cheez se to be very honest.
@@animeshupadhyai4057 condom + rapid testing kit aati h bhai ..
Or me medical line se hu …to pata h symptoms ..thodi research karo …
Koi option h kya … jail..mental torture… adultery..slavery… apne assets wealth gawane se accha hi h …
Koi option nahi h …
Or bhai prostitute bhi ek se ek hoti h …
Firends with benefits wali gf bana lo …
@@animeshupadhyai4057 bhai 2 condoms lagate hai std hone ke chance nahi hota
Single rehna achhi baat hai no stress no nuisance etc but when it comes to travel,outing,movies,eating out,attending grand events etc ni family, friends or relatives come to hang out n theres pure loneliness so many people change their mind and get married in late 40s so they can have a good company
My lead is single. He is roaming in world tour with his single friends.
शादी मत करना।।अकेले रहो सुखी रहो।।समाज मे रहकर कोई अच्छा काम करो।।दुनिया याद करेगी।।
सब हिन्दू शादी करना बन्द बच्चे पैदा बन्द दुनिया उनके लिये छोड़ दो!
Bakwasssssssd couple raho
@@mayurikarne5417 khud kuch ukhaad lo jewwan Mai bacche toh kutiya bhi paida karti hai 🐈🐈
You are forgetting very important part that majority of the girls today have or had past lovers but because of family pressure or other didn't marry him. When they marry they settle for some nice guy for the resources but their heart is still with their ex and since they are self-sufficient they don't respect the husband and do affairs with their ex or someone they cannot have like a very good looking or rich man. Character is everything while selecting a wife all other things are pretty much useless without character.
*right on the point. In our relatives happend with 4 good guys ,their wives hardly stayed for few months and now demanding for Alimony*
@@snehalt.channel992Thats why girl’s past is important.
Very much agree
@@rohans7194 boys also have past....boys have multiple affairs......play boy
@@happyplease4093 But if the guy cheats in a marriage and it leads to divorce, the girl doesnt have to pay alimony(the guy has to pay alimony) etc whereas if the woman cheats then still the man has to give alimony etc after divorce.
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं।
पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं?
मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge.
Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
@@vanshikakaushik6497 exactly
" your parents world is different, we stay in our minds, same ghar me dusre mental world me hum rehte hai " so so true 👌👍Thanks for this video , I really like all your videos..... aapka perspective ekdum hatke hota hai 🙏👌
Marriage is a gambling, You may lucky or unlucky. Best of luck,
Once you have child it is 25 years project at 0% profit.
Burden after marriage: Home loan, personal loan, child education loan. Don't marry stay away from all responsibilities.
I am old enough and very happy being single. I am unmarried by choice and do not prefer having kids. I am successful and have other priorities in life. I personally know many people in India and abroad who are single and established in life, they all are in late 60s or 70s and are very happy. Regarding this video: I have seen this trend of intruding into other people’s personal lives in India only. Someone wants to marry or doesn’t want to marry is his/her personal choice and society should respect that. Anybody else’s comment on it is absolutely uncalled for.
If someone married you, your child will be ugly.. it is better to stay away.
Well said
Well said😊
I am 31 years old but I am facing pressure at home and relatives to get married it's like pressure
But I am happy being unmarried and single also I am a working girl
Getting married and having kids is a personal choice and marriage is not everything for a girl
They can work on themselves, focus on studies, hobbies and work on themselves and focus on career and work
Sir...my age will be 34 on this February. I had been a Broken engagement last year spetember 2022 because of some circumstance the girl stoped relationship with me. Till day I am looking for a bride from past 3 years through relatives, Matrimonial site and By myself.
Koi bhi ladki na ho baat karne mein intrest show kar rahi hai..aur nahi kishi ki source mil pa Raha hai..idharr age and time Aage badhte jarahi hai. Aap keh rahe hai ladko ko 27-30yrs age mein Marriage hojana chahiye but ek Boy ko carrier, finances, Emotionally, mentally prepare hone mein time lagta hai. Sir..Aap suggestions or guidance dijiye yeh matter mein
Are bhai kyun is shadi ke jhamele mein pad raha hai mat kar sab faltoo ki cheezen hai look after ur parents and health and enjoy your life
@@pallavverma5448 After reaching a certain age you will regret your life decisions. View it as you are there to take care of your parents but after a certain time there will be no one to take care of you or even talk to you because you never had a life partner and you never became a parent. If you live in a joint family them this doesn't apply to you but if by any chance you have a nuclear family you are doomed.
@@legends5066 I'm not telling to get married, I'm telling the consequences of not getting married. BTW if you are between 18-22 then congratulations to your premature thinking coz I also used to think the same but then I critically analysed the situation of life without a partner and with a partner and trust me no will take you seriously and everyone would be reluctant to offer you a rented apartment and when the parents are no longer there then your life becomes hell even if you are committed to your work and earn a lot of money but that will never make up for the need of real family members. Think critically not emotionally. Like in the video it is said that not everyone's life becomes a hell after marriage. It is only some of the extreme cases which gets highlighted more.
@@Evaisgalaxy Ooh! sad to hear that.
@@legends5066 Sorry to hear that. May god grace you with a new life ahead. What are your plans now?
I m 35 years old and i m still single. The issue is salary. I hope one day I'll get marry.. Your thoughts are great👍👍
Same here bro 👍
Hope you also go to jail under maritial rape law
Are salary issue nahi hoti...
Financial stability nahi hai yeh soch issue hai......
Kuch jugad karke ,same situation & companion wali ya wala se jiyo...
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Teri personality thik hoti toh tujhe koi choose kar leta
Abhi paisa kaamake khudko ek commodity ki tarah ladkiyo k saamne prastut karoge toh ye ek business deal hai
Shaadi aise nahi karte ki jo mile usse kardo
Highly psychological Analysis of marriage for both girls and boys,there should be more people like you,
I send your videos to lot of young and old members of society,
Wonderful video. And that concept mental plane and reality of every person is different is so true. I use to say the same thing to young people around me who think they have lot of time to mature,grow up and start taking responsibility. Young people nowadays are overgrown children.Very few listen to their parents and at 25 they don’t want responsibility especially men.Many young men marry for ‘bahu’ and ‘sex’ and its only after marriage they realize how tough it is. Counselling should be done by parents.This video will open parents eyes who are wasting time of their children in name of ‘ good girl’.
As a homosexual I am blessed that I don't have to indulge in all this mess!
Inke alag hi chutyape he 🤣🤣
Oh yeah...😂
But all families don't tolerate the 'homosexual' behaviour in our society...😑
I am also homosexual but my perents and relatives forced me to getting marriage.
I am depressed.
Bhaiya aap log home me se..x karte ho Isle homose..ual ho
Yuck 😝🤢
Women, never retires from work& gets no pension for her work. It affects her health adversely 😢
Then be a prostitute....you will be paid handsomely 😂😂
Namaste,
You are great to bring such videos.
I love you Amitji.
Great video, perfectly pitched explaining the realistic ground reality.
Hum kar to rahey they, par aisa na humko kisi ney samjhaya nahin.
" Guru Tatva ko Dhanyawaad. "
Than you sir for bringing such videos for kids and the youth . I salute your courage since so many middle age people dont really accept their faults politely . They are far , far away from the truth .
You have so much clarity....I always watch your videos.They are so motivational.
Now days in India marriage is burden of lifetime EMI for Men 🥺
Because girls exception r gone sky high with gender biased laws😢
A overhyped institution🤣
I feel like my late father is giving advice while watching your videos. Thank you uncle for creating great content.
Well said Sangwan Sir.I am a Doctor and used to say these things in family and friend circle .You are doing great service to the society.You deserve 1 million subscribers
Amazing video. You are indeed a Clarity giver, probably the best one in India right now...
Sir Hume woh Dukh Kyu de rhe ho jo aap khud seh rhe ho??😄😄😄
Bhai hum ladke hain hamare saath aisa hi hota hai aur inke jaise mahanubhaav uncle yaha gyaan de rahe hain 😂
This is nice. But what's wrong if the new gen does not want to marry and produce children? That should be ok.
Everyone is not suitable to get married. When people have unresolved psychological issues of their own, they project it on their spouse and children. Bringing a life into this world just for the sake of it and saddling him/her with your emotional neglect is not ok. Brining a new life into existence without understanding life's true nature, importance and purpose is a pure ignorant and selfish act.
Exactly 💯
You resonate with me.
Baat shi hai sir. Meri didi ki sadi ko 4 saal ho gye hai lekin aaj tk hmi log sara kharch hm log dekh rhe hai. Aor unke husband ko koe mtlb nhi hai bachha bimar padhe, koe bhi jarurat ho hmi log pura krte hai. Ekdm bekar jivan ho gya hai unka...
@Kalpana-sj7yr - AAP APNE DIDI SE KAHIYE DIVORCED LENE KE LIYE.
😂 Shadi is Gambling 50 50 chance either hell or get burdened
From a woman's point of view....
Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible.....
It's like ragging.....
It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage...
Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@Jayashree Sathe foreign bodies 😂😂😂. You are correct, Yes mindset of boy and his parents has to change .
True
@@SBH3356 Agree....
But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell....
Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai
Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai
Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi
Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
Whenever you do, make sure you are mature enough for it. You understand the responsibility you're taking. Social norm and increasing the population are not enough reasons.
Salute to you sir 🙏. Very clarity given video for today's generation n parents of ladka ladki as well.
Mental peace >> Women
Obv loyalty>>>>men also dogs>>> men the are loyal
@@vanshikakaushik6497 says a woman...
@@shivamupadhyay24 sorry I meant dogs are loyal
@@vanshikakaushik6497 hmmm.....says a woman.
Tim Cook
Swami Vivekananda
Or foreign live in their happiness life
It's individual life
Indian people usually focus on other life whether neighbour or family
Nobody should focus on their life
It's better to live alone
Very practical thought process sir.... you're unique ❤️
After watching this video, I would like to say that if you are thinking about getting married, you should first look at yourself and see what kind of person you are. The person you marry may not be the same person you thought they were, and you may regret your decision later. Marriage is not a joke. It is a responsibility that you must take seriously, not only for yourself but also for your partner. So, please think carefully before getting married, and do not marry someone just because you are attracted to them.
Mai 19 salka hu fir bhi ak advice deta hu . Sadi karni hai to koi kamane wali se karo. Jiski income acchi khasi ho tumpe depend na ho. Not because ki tumhe wo paise chahiye😂 but usko kamse kam tumhare sath rahene ke lea koi majburi / condition nhi hoga paise ka, wo pyar karne wali hogi 😊
My life is going great & I don't feel that getting married is going to improve or add on anything positive in my life. Also, getting married in today's era depends on luck. Women have become great, I agree, but they have also become very good at hiding their true faces. My instincts are getting better these days & I have an instinct that my life will be destroyed if I get married. But my parents are still living in an era where women were good, feminine, loyal, caring, respected others etc. All I see in today's women are they look for multiple sex relationships before getting married & later when they get married to a decent guy, then file a fake 498a case against him so that she can continue to enjoy her "sexual liberty". It's only when she reaches 30 & her beauty starts to fade away, she starts thinking about stable married life.
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Ispar video bnna chahiye
Still finding a good boy is easy nowadays rather than a girl..pehle ke jamane mai dekha jaata tha ki ladka kesa hai..usme koi burai to nhi..daaru to nhi Peeta galat aadat to nhi hai etc..nowadays scenario is opposite 😂 technology and laws ka misuse acche se ho raha hai
People keep changing with time...even if someone thinks they are marrying the right person, it might turn out otherwise later...one can never be sure...pls make a video on mental plane explanation. thanks.
Sir I am happy in unmarried Life
Fayda toh btao karni kyu haii olus point kya h leni kyu h zimedari , baby adopt kr lenge koi kiski life b bn kayegi
Still choosing to be alone not being left alone. Thanks sir 🌸btw
What an explanation O my GOD. GOD BLESS ALL.
He is marriage consultant runs a marriage institution that's why he putting facts for marrige and children.
Otherwise see comment I am 33 yo unmarried never been in relationship by choice and Happy.
How did you convince your parent
@@mattcardin1796 circumstance and parents health play role in delay. I completed my grad @ 30 I lost my father this yr and mother is schizophrenic. So currently I have lots of responsibility and want to live life freely. Marriage comes with responsibility...
How u kill fear of illness loneliness old age ...??
@@ashuvijay7031those who can't live with themselves (alone) can't live with somebody.
@GauravRajput-jx2xy bro ye admi apni hi baat ko kaat raha hai. Ye khud hi bol raha hai ki sex ratio kharab hai . Aur khud hi bol raha hai ki sabko shadi karni chahiye 😂
You can take risk of driving if car is in your control. . . You cannot take risk of driving if you are in car's control. . . This is the key reason automated cars are still not used then why use marriage. . .
When a girl's parents have no idea with whom she has an affair. . . What probability you think you have that you can judge her properly. . .
Without money no one can full fill all the major responsibilities after marriage. I'm single 45. Staying with my parents happily. And can't take other person responsibility. I'm single but not by choice. Don't marry for a Marriage certificate, it is not mandatory 😊namaste.
Shadi kar lo.. Shadi kar lo 😅mai kehta hu.. Paisa de do.. Paisa de do 😅
Hahah😂 so good
Paise de do
Paise de do
Yes sir,you are the only one who gives clarity on this kind of issues
Uncle ji single life best
I watched the video. And my conclusion is to not marry.
Sab apna apna dekho. 😂😂