Sir ji, aap ka knowledge, Wisdom, talent... hum maan gaye...🙏🙏🙏 bilkul zabardast hai Sirji ❤ Sir, you are an absolutely straight forward person with supreme clarity of mind. And this clarity gives you that confidence and command over what you believe and say 💯 I can say with clarity that Mercury has a major role in the planetary combinations of your chart with Jupiter 🙏🙏🙏
Amit ji, aapke views ek tarfa hi hai. Aapne kaha ki koi ladki wala jhute case kyun karega. Apko kuch nahi pata iska matlab. SC ne khud mana hai ki wife ke dwara kiye gaye 85% case fake hote hai. Recently Delhi me ek 60 saal ka insaan riha hua jiske upar 20 saal case chala uski wife ke dwara aur case galat tha.
It's all because of misinterpreted society norms that people mostly get married.. Than later because of kids and legal laws they stick inspite of suffering
"Ab Ladkio ka Payback time hai" achaa ji, smart people will always exist whether its past,present or future. If today is payback time by women then smart men can AVOID this payback by not marrying. All divorce laws are favoured for women. Enough words for the wise
Exactly! This man is fooling all guys. Not marrying is definitely a good idea in India. Everything is against men in India. You'll be much happier by not marrying.
jab aurat ka life bekar hua rakkha tha tab ladko ko shadi me koi burayi nahi nazar ayi, jaha apne pe baat aa gayi shadi se mukarne lagg gaye. Lol . aaj bhi koi ghar ka kaam karne wali mil jaye to tum shadi kar loge. you will not see anything wrong in that. This is being selfish.
@@harshitajaiswal1568 ghar ka kaam karne wali ko kaun chhorega lol ye to common sense hai 😂 sabko Ghar ka kaam krne wala hi chahiye... Koi nhi chahta uske biwi saradin sote rahe aur order dete rahe pati ko 🤣🤣🤣
My mother earns 2.5x times my father. She usually works for 12 to 13 hours a day and 6 days a week,so,my father prepares lunch and dinner,whereas breakfast is prepared by my mom
I did cooking for my wife, I did cleaning house, I do everything, I earn good money, brought house jointly, broken my all relationship with family to make her happy, but still our relationship is not good bcz she doesn't have humanity, if person is diye she don't care, she is selfish, now tell me a man fault
You made her selfish by doing everything for her. It's basic human nature to use the people who ready to be used. Trust me, Amit Sangwan has absolutely no experience in reality. This is reality that a good person will be exploited.
Meri gf ne kaha tha ki wo mere mom dad k sath nahi rhegi, mera surname use nahi karegi, job kregi but nahi krri hai, or ghar k kaam nahi kregi. She used to denigrate me challenges me all the time god knows why. I dumped her ass. HARD. I couldn't take it anymore.
All the above comments from our brothers are right, Sango is just touching basing points . Girls have already crossed the basic limits and trying to totally acquire men. Girls trying to make men slaves to them by working for them, leaving their families , friends ., what not. Men are always free , eventually women will suffer , wait and see in coming years ..
i decide to go without women / wife. I can live alone on my own whole western block is living same way. Nothing new. This was to happen and this has happened . You are right evrything is changed since 2000. So boys should learn to live alone or with parents so long so they are around. If one can live alone that would be best for him indeed in this era. Men should also learn to do their things on their own. They should shed off their dependency on women for food and other needs this will balance the both sexes. Man should earn well, learn to live alone, learn to be independent w.r.t their domestic needs. Things will go balanced this way.
Not agreed. I am earning and wife is not earning. She wants to decide that i should not give money to my parents. I know better cooking than my wife. I clean the toilet,wash basin etc. I change diapers of my boys.My wife wants i should not drink beer , is it not my choice to drink 🍻? If wife earn then it is money , if husband earn , money belongs to both
Why’d u marry in the first place bro, it’s 21st century and women see us only as the BANK. it’s the modern era and we are expecting wife’s to become like our mums (which is impossible because of modernisation), marrying itself is a gamble in this era.
Very true, my daughter's say we won't marry, it's only giving in a marriage, nothing to achieve. The man doesn't take any responsibility, why take additional responsibility of the man.
@@shrin210 nah ... It's good for us also no tension of wife ... More money more freedom to whatever you want in whole life .. if at any point you need big family you can adopt child ...
Shaadi mat krao aapki daughter ki kabhi bhi, aise soch ke sath jiske jindegi me jayegi khrab hi kregi and men can handle their situation well now a days, ladies too. Ajkal sabko apni jimmedaari lena ata hai.
Dowry cases 498A etc which you touched is actually a divorce package , lawyers have big commission and fees for putting these heavy packages on husbands , this black industry is flourishing in India bcos women are getting easy income and property .
I am a man 42 and not married....best decision of my life, enjoying my life spending money having fun and travelling the world....Men should not marry it's the worst thing possible
@@livingwithswati7699 staying unmarried is the best thing for men even I'm unmarried being 34 and feel the best decision of life looking at the examples of friends and family stuck up in disasters being married disturbances in work lifeental peace and regretting the decisions of getting married, instead be single earn good roam around countries enjoy all luxuries in life and stay away from worthless liabilities of marriages which aren't worthy even to be thought of
Completely agree with you. I wish i had never married. I would have also lived very happily and travelled all around the world which is my passion. Really wish i was aware then. Am a woman though 😂
Bhai tumhare maa baap n bhi yahi socha hota to. 2 ndly you are in category of animals if you think only of yourself. Human is an intelligent animal so have some responsibility. Bhag nahi sakte.
I agree with some points, but as a consultant, stop demonizing one gender.. Kindly raise issues on the misuse of laws done by women. Also, if womankind was harassed in the past, that doesn't give them the right to do wrongful things. Be a responsible content creator and if you raise issues, raise issues of both the genders. Hope this helps you
So what you are telling is that men only has to adapt, bcoz time has brought in a lot of change in women and it's their turn to exploit. And for men - it's like u better get exploited without making noice. Men have literally lost everything to women. Surrender to women and men will be entitled to have peaceful life and so have you done.
😂 you are just scared of the thought of losing everything to women ? Since forever the girls after marriage have been losing and sacrifice their birth home , half of their life, their family career friends comfort zone everything. Good to someone else house start a new life at their terms. Do everything for them take care of the boy his family and their children. Women have been losing their entire identity as an individual person. And you say men lost everything to women. God knows only if you could have done all this then what wo condition.
I think men should learn the household works as well as earn money so that men do not dependent on women as well as live their life happily and freely and there would no need of a woman in their life.
Most marriages are sexless and problematic. Nobody talks about this because sex is taboo in India. Sex is one of the most important part of marriage life, maybe the most important.👍👍👍
The sad truth of the society is “unconditional love” is only given to children and women. For males, there is always a point “kitna kamata hai”. Aadmi se karvao ghar ke kaam- uski samaj me izzat hogi ? Bina paise kamaye Aadmi ko koi nahi poochta sahab. Ab aisa koi criteria aap female par laga kar ke dekho… nahi milega. Bhai ek tarafa content Oyo dikhate ho ? Aapke hisab se dahej ke har case me galati ladke walo ki hi hoti hai- har koi jaanta hai ki aajkal dowry law ek mazak ban kar rah gayi hai jisko ladki wale kabhi bhi kaisi bhi use karte hain… samaj me badlav aaya hai aur uske hisab se Aadmi aur aurat, dono ko hi badalna chahiye… aap sirf ek tarafa baar kr rahe ho
Sir you may be correct..we male hv 100 issues, may be more, also we are imperfect. 1) Man who earns money is responsible has to take care of all the member needs & wants.. without exemption 2) Man is expected by his spouse to be matured like his spouse father or like her terki jilaji.. 3) By default man is expected to handle his wife "all needs" even if he is going through financial tight, job insecurity, investment taking care of his own family. But whereas female when she becomes financially independent.. She never like to share any expenses especially of her spouse.. She try to avoid sharing.. for eg: homeloan emi, husband in laws any contribution to his family members.. She always pressure you, by giving to many demands.. she expects her husband to earning like her boss or behave like her boss.. Basic issues are coming of parenting itself..I blame both male & female culprits are their parents and society.. I don't see now a days anybody is asking dowry atleast past 5 yrs I hv not heard any of.. mostly marriage are between well off families.... even though groom family dont ask or expect..bride family their daughter as per their capacity...
सर आप जो कह रहे हे वो १००% सही बात हे पर यहाँ पे बहोत सारी लड़िकिया जो पढ़ाई में कमजोर और कमाई में ५०००-१५००० महीना कमाने वाली या तो खुभी कमाने न वाली और उनके पेरेंट्स जो हे ६००००-१००००० महीना कमाने वाले से शादी करते हे और ऐसा रॉफ जाड़ते हे की जैसे लड़की कोई करोड़पति हो नहीं वो कुछ कमाना चाहती हे नहीं वो कुछ घर का काम करना चाहती हे बस शॉपिंग करना दिखावा करना घर में कलेश करवाना और कोई खुछ कहे तो केस करने की धमकी देना बात पे गुससा करना जैसी बहोत चीजे हो रही हे
F: I think it was Feminist. Let me tell you why, Men has also covered the distance you are talking about around 70-80% of my friends know how to cook, how to handle babies, in fact most of my friend's kids are more loved and attached to the father than mother as they are giving more time to them than mothers. One of your point was valid, women were oppressed a lot and now they are evolving but for the current scenario i still see women of my age group don't know how to drive only 10% can drive that to not for long distances. Now am glad women are earning even more than men, but they are now more money focused and very less focused towards marriage and family. The number of unmarried women's has increased drastically, You haven't covered this part that why is it happening as it is connected to topic. There is huge problem, women are also not able adjust with men even without in-laws and there are many cases like this. So to be realistic you have to cover for man and women both. As even if both are earning still women feel men has to handle the house expenses and women is earning for herself(that's again not for every woman i am talking about but largely that is the case). I am not making this up, i meet friends and they feel this and share this problem. So i would say this was from the stand point of Females majorly and the male part was not covered.
Now it's a trend to degrade efforts of men and boost the ego of women. A feminist man is more dangerous than a feminist women. In my office I have seen, even a woman would some time agree that being a woman they have to play the role given by nature and confirm to societal norms, however this feminist men they provoke women and make them feel they should be independent and break all norms of society. Now a days all MNCs follow this trend so that women come out and spend more and more which will fill their coffers eventually. Go to any cancer hospital 9 out of 10 cases are women. Lifestyle changes have induced serious health issues in women. When a woman is down in a family with a disease how can a husband or a son or a brother can be happy.
I also found it biased....on the name of equality, women are earning same as men but gals still prefer guys who earn more than her. They even have backup in mind that if I don't work or get fired from the job, I have my husband who can take care of me. Gal still expect men to take care of home expenses even when gal is earning equally. Gals who are settled financially, they don't feel to get married. Men wants to do simple marriage in less budget but gals want it big celebration because they are earning now and have already saved the money for their marriage.
I am a retired working woman . I always believed that I am earning to nurture a home and raise a happy family and that was the source of my happiness not what I was earning .
@@ay-by9qs because it's necessary ..money is necessary but money is not everything...but it has the capability to influence every aspect of our lives so it's necessary as well as imp ..along with other emotional quotients of human beings...
@@maitreyeebiswas9849 In old times, Money was not everything but it is everything in this modern era where everything is for sell . I love this new God of mankind....
@@saurabhsingh5263 even in old times money was everything...those who were rich used to live longer ,those who were poor used to live in pathetic condition not to mention caste system was privilege. idk which history book u Indian guys read which says money is not important 😭😭 like living in a fantasy land.
I was born in 1991 in a family in which almost all men were Labour. In 2002, my grandmother got paralyzed and she were not even able to move her tongue, legs & hands. She had been bedridden and lived since 2004. Almost 3 years, my mother took after my grandmother and made her feed, bath, urine etc... It was like a sure hell (Nark) for my grandmother as wll as for my mother. When my grandmother was leaving this world, she raised her hand little bit and gave signal to my mother to come near to her. My grandmother laid her hand on the head of my mother and gave some kind of blessings and passed away. I am the eldest son in my family and we are 3 siblings. Currently, I am class II officer in Government of India and my wife is a Teacher in UP Government. My younger brother is posted in UP Police. When I look my past I feel whatever we are today, it is because of my mother who did humble and kind deeds in her life and got pure blessings from her elders. Sometime, I feel life is not only about the money, enjoyment, comfort, personal choices and freedom etc. Life is more than these things.
Wrong correlation. Easy to lead a life saying it's not money, enjoyment, comfort, freedom when you have all those to last a lifetime. Live without any of those. And the value is preserved
Good example of a mother's sacrifice.....these are noble deeds without expectations ..... only having self belief & faith in God while wishing bright future for her children. Her belief & faith gets realised when her children look after her with love & affection..... that's extreme happiness for her. Sanatan dharma focuses on achieving pure feelings & emotions (unconditional)
I remember in the 80s when my dad was chief superindent of govt office and my uncle was chief engineer. The respect they got in home and society was immense. I listen from my uncle who was chief engineer that when he got a job parents of eligible girls throughout the city flocked to my grandparents house.
Men are only valued for their money. Today women are working so men’s value has decreased a lot. Marriage is a scam, was a scam and will be a scam for men.
Hands down , I have seen one most most sensible explanation and a man of our father in laws age highlighting the facts , else humare sasur ji bas voi lage hue hain ghar tudwane k bahu aai ni rahi ni kaam ni kiya .. mafi ni mangi.. useless ! Sir , Thank you words will fall short ! Parents who are not asking for money are controlling saying hum to kuch lete ni humne paalke ehsan kiya khila pilake bada kardiya.. to agar ladka biwi k sath zindagi thori si luxury me jeena chahta hai to sare ehsan samne aa jate hain palne posne k.. agar beta na sune to vahi mard ban mard.. ! @sangolifesutras
Aap kaun se world me ji rahe ho sir ? Mardo ne gharelu kaamo me aajkal kinta haat batate hai iss ka pata hi nehi hai aap ko . Kitni percent working women hai duniya me ? Abhi bhi on average working women 40 percent se ziada nehi barhe hai jab ke literate women ki percentage 60 cross kar chuki hai . Bharat me abhi bhi housrwives 80 percent se ziada hai . Aap feminist hi ho iss liye aap ko feminist ki destroying effect aap nehi manna chahte ho . Naturally men are evolved as protectors and providers with their masculine charracter . Mahilaaye keeper aur maintainer hotey hai prakritik roop se oonki feminine charracter ki wajah se . Yea system prakritik hai aur isko baldalna ghatak siddh ho raha hai . Aap jitna bhi nature ke khilaaf jaana chaahoge utna hi balance bigarta jaayega aur woh ho bhi raha hai . Aap modern socialoly jitna parhoge ootna hi aapko pata chalega ke baat women empowerment ke naam pe power ko responsibility ke saath use naa karke high - fy thoughts and unnatural expectations ke saath barey hue aaj ki mahilao ne natural system ko unnessesary dominate karne ki chaahat me barbaad kar rahe hai . 50 's se le ke pre 90 's tak mahilaao me itni kaabiliyat hoti thi ke woh kamiyabi ke saath working aur gharelu world ko samvaal sakti thi jab ke purusho ko ghar me ziada managing contribution dena nehi aata thaa . Aaj halat purusho ko pehele se gharulu kaamo me aur effortive aur respnsible bana rahe hai jab ke mahilao me home managment nivaana yea toh aati nehi yea fir sikhaaya jaata nehi . Aap ko pata hi nehi kitney bachchey baap ke haatho barey hote hai . Desh ki kanooni system mahilao ko itna power de diya hai ke ab woh mardo ke khilaaf oosey manmarzi istemaal kar rahi hai . Aap toh maanoge hi nehi ke Haalat itna bigar gaya hai ke pitit purusho ki suicide ke numbers har saal mahilao se tin guna se bhi ziada ho rahe hai desh me sirf jo ke world wide me 3 . 5 times se bhi ziada hai ab . Agar women empowerment ka galat matlab nikal ke ooska galat route pe sab aise hi chalne lagenge toh result jo forigen countries vugat rahe hai woh yeaha bhi dikhayi dekha agar sachchai dekhne aur sunne ki himmat rakhoge . World wide socialists pareshaan ho rahe hai ke dominancy ki nashe me women jis tarha ghar aur marriage life barbaad karne par tuley hue hai ooski effect se men are quiting to get married already . Advanced countries me elegable bachelors dating se bhi muh mor rahe hai speed se . Humara desh per head income me oon desho se bohot kam hai aaj bhi . Agar housewives bhi providers ko yeaha dominate karna chaahegi khud hi home working me expert naa ho kar toh yeaha just shuru hua " say not to marriage " ka movement jald hi fayelta jayega . Yeaha adultry , property aur maintanance ke liye shaadishuda mahilao ne girne ki had par kar rahi hai jo ke Supreme Court ki lalest judgements se saaf pata chal raha hai . Aap nehi maanoge keu ke aap par bhi feminism ki galat meaning ka parda para hua hai . World wide socialoly crisis par aur thora parhai karenge toh shaayed aap kaa khud ko realistic samajhne kaa galafaimy hai woh badal jaayega . Mai bhi ek researcher hu issi current maritorial socio status ki . Bhohot se naami socilogisto ki research dekhna , parhna , sikhna parhta hai current original conditions and reasons ko detect karne ke liye . I am requesting you sir to study more about reality and make vedios after getting much more knowledge . Aap realistic bhi nehi ho . Aap pichhey ho , reality se dur ho , natural balance bigarne ki koshish kar rahe ho . Naturality should be promoted sir , not artifitial dominancy to maintain happy and balanced maritorial life .
If men start doing household work and women doing jobs, there will be less dependency between husband and wife. People will start avoiding marriages altogether in future rather will start opting for live-in relationships for physical needs or will live independently. The need for marriage is the support couple gets from each other but if everyone is independent, there will be no need and no marriage. Western world has already moved out of this phase 100 years ago and we are transitioning now. History repeats itself. Marriages have become dating, divorce rates are increasing, Indian economy is booming, even uneducated people are earning good, everyone is financially independent. The only dependent people in today's generation are parents and this will change after next couple of decades. Parents will no longer depend on children. They will talk to their children less often and will live life of their own, they even will change partners after middle age. Marriages are made for life will be the thing of the past and our long lived culture will be confined to a smaller section of society within villages. Metro cities will expand and villages will be converted to cities and merge into metro cities. And in the last marriage will become just a synonym for dating and not a big deal of celebration as no one will know how long will it last. There will be divorce clause in Indian constitution. People will feel more isolated and Indian marriage scenario will merge into western scenario.
@@prvinsharma I agree with the seclusion part. I face it myself a great deal. But I think living in loneliness is a skill. Humans are social animals and need company I agree, but the problem of loneliness is over-hyped I think. While a pain lingers for all near and dear ones having abandoned you, it's possible to continue with the pain, it's a matter of perspective. There is no guarantee the family will take care, there are old age homes and hospices for that. Why drag on with a relationship right through someone's life to be looked after in the end, you would already have suffered enough if its a toxic relationship. I think everyone should be prepared to die alone, if by luck, the family stands by you consider yourself lucky, else you are on your own. But be happy and rejoicing always, that makes the exit less painful.
Loneliness in old age is no joke. Except immediate family (kids, spouse) you will realize too late that no one else cares for you, though they will pretend.
@@hummingbeing Nothing is for certain in life. I have many insurance, mutual fund products which I know would not give me as expected. Family is like that. You can only do your part. As for living with parents and caring, I have done that and see many are doing in my apartment. We should see bright side of the life. Shaadi ke laddoo khaaye to pachtaye na khaaye to pachtaye. I believe in having it. You have your choice. Living lonely is an art which I do not trust. I have seen many suffer and those who married also suffering. The issue is with the person himself.
I love the way you corrected yourself after saying "aurat". The world must know the true meaning of this word. Mahila and naari are more appropriate. Similarly purush is more appropriate than aadmi.
I know all household work (cooking, cleaning, etc.). Thought I'll be a good husband to my wife, have a good life. Go together sharing all responsibilities and live happily. But after interacting with so many girls (many my friends), my whole perspective changed. The institution of marriage is not worth the risk anymore. I've seen unhappily married men living a far worse life than alone single men.
By seeing the comment section, anyone can predict whether the topic is biased towards one gender. If the video is for one gender, the same gender will applaud/celebrate in the comment section. Sir, your videos are very informational n unique, but sometimes it divert towards showing the shortcomings/problems in today's Male. It is not a privilege to be a Male, in fact it is a Lifetime Slavery that we have to take care of parents, kids n even wife (if she is not Earning). You are correct that the Male has to think and see what is his life's Preference/Priority, we have to cook, iron, clean and be self dependent which most of the Males are doing these days. Rest of the Males will learn when they realize that no one actually cares them. We are meant for only Earning n Responsibilities. The Male/Female topic is always debatable and the winner is always who can Speak n Express more - which Men cannot.
Well said 🤗🤗🤗. Life is not easy for a man also . Even though I m a woman but this video seems biased. Taali dono haatho se bajati hai. Not always women r right.
@@movietadka7393 , that can be right. Sir, we need wisdom/unbiased/true words which we are looking here not any Script which is common. Most of the RUclipsrs (including MEN) publish the videos of Bashing/Demoralizing MEN as they think they will get highest Subscribers/Likes which indirectly gives them Money. But soon they will realize that they are loosing the sensitive/intellectual audience. I surprised sometimes that what is the plight of humans these days. Because of Fame/Money, they are loosing the real judgement of what is Right n what is Wrong. Whoever or where ever they are getting Money, they are ready to dance. What i understand that the Men belong to category of Powerful, Rich or Influential also cannot understand the condition of a Common average Men. They are also cursing MEN !!
Sir u r right..i am 50 yr old..i dont depend on my husband anymore..my husband is egoistic..critisiser, abusive husband.does not talk normally with me.talks with his mom n sister only..i even dont listen what he didcusses.....I talk, watch movie n enjoy with my daughter ,son and friends outside.. he is all alone with his business..n business related ppl..he never been a friend instead always a critisiser.abuser..Zero socialing skill...now I pity on him for I left him all alone.Earlier i used to worry a lot..now I realised that he can never be changed..n i m happier..
@@shauryakavishortsDivorce nhi liya hai unhone. And vaise bhi what she's going through is an issue faced by almost every women. Josh nhi aya hai ye kisiko, majboori hai
रही बात आदमी की तो महिला का ये सब काम आदमी की ही वजह से हुआ है। क्योकि आदमी रक्षक और भक्षक दोनों की शक्ति रखता है जिसके संरक्षण मे ही सब कुछ हो रहा है। और आदमी के द्वारा बनाए कानून की वजह से ही महिलाए स्वतंत्र और स्वच्छंद है। और रही बात रोने की तो कानून एकतरफा होने की वजह से रो रहा है। उस पर सिर्फ बोझ बढ़ रहा है महिलाओ के दोगलेपन का। कानून समान कर दो सब कुछ औकात मे आ जाएगा। असलियत सामने आ जाएगी। एकतरफा कानूनों के बल और दुरुपयोग के कारण महिलाओ का सारा सममानता का नाटक और सशक्तिकारण दोगलापन ही है। हमे किसी महिला को काबू नहीं करना, बस हिम्मत है तो कानून एक समान कर दो बस। पता चल जाएगा की कोण किस पर निर्भर है। 😅 रही बात सहन करने की तो क्यो करे वे सहन जिनहोने कोई अपराध ही नहीं किया। तो ये तो कोई बात नहीं हुई की आदमी बिना मतलब भुगते। मे तो चाहता हूँ की मर्द जागे हर मर्द जागरूक हो और महिलावाडी एकतरफा कानून को समाप्त कर दे अपनी शक्ति के बल पर और अपने ऊपर की सारी फालतू की महिलाओ के प्रति जिम्मेदारिया भी खत्म कर ले जिनके बदले उन्हे कुछ मिलना ही नहीं है। फिर देखो। मर्द के पास तो आर या पार की शक्ति है जिसे दूर दूर तक महिलाए पा नहीं सकती। जिस दिन प्राणो पर संकट आए उस दिन मर्द याद आए ये हकीकत है 😂 वैसे भी अब परिवार नहीं रह सकते क्योकि काटे की टक्कर से परिवार नहीं चलते। एक तरफ मर्द की स्वाभाविक शक्ति तो दूसरी तरफ औरतों को मर्दो के कानूनों द्वारा दी गयी शक्ति से जो द्वंद होता है वो परिवार बर्बाद कर देता है। क्योकि मर्द और औरत की प्रवत्ति अलग अलग है तो पारिवारिक व्यवस्था भी उसी हिसाब से अलग अलग थी। इसमे खामखा छेड्खानी करने की कोई ज़रूरत नहीं थी। जो बराबरी स्वाभाविक रूप से हो नहीं सकती थी उसे क्रत्रिम रूप से बराबर करने का मूर्खतापूर्ण प्रयास किया गया। जो आगामी भारी सामाजिक दुष्परिणाम के रूप मे निकलेगा। क्योकि क्रत्रिमता ज़्यादा समय तक नहीं टिकती। जिस दिन मर्द ने महिलाओ का सम्मान करना बंद किया उस दिन वह महिलाओ के प्रति अपने बनाए बेबुनियाद दायित्व भी भूल जाएगा। फिर महिलाओ को अधिकार देना तो दूर बल्कि छीन भी सकता है अपनी शक्ति के बल पर। तब क्या होगा? औरर ये सब आगे होगा भी क्योकि आज के लड़के बचपन से किस तरह की लड़कियो को देख रहे है? तो उनके दिमाग मे लड़कियो के प्रति क्या छवि बन रही है? एसे मे आगे चलकर क्या उनके पास महिलाओ का सम्मान का कोई कारण होगा? जैसे पुराने जमाने की महिलाओ के प्रति सम्मान हुआ करता था तभी तो उनके पक्ष मे उन पर भरोसा करके अंधाधुंध मर्द विरोधी कानून बना दिये। तो आगे आने वाला समय महिलाओ के लिए ही बुरा होने वाला है एसा मुझे लगता है। रही बात अब महिलाओ की बुराई की तो जब लडकिया है ही एसी तो बुराई तो होगी ही न। आज जो लड़के कह रहे है वो असलियत है जिसे हर एक लड़के को जानना ज़रूरी है। क्या समस्या है आपको ? और रही बात अब झूठे केसो की तो क्या इतनी सी बातो मे अपने ही पति या परिवार के विरुद्ध केस करना सही है क्या? उल्टा ये तो और घटिया बात है। एसे मे वैसे भी शादी का कोई मतलब नहीं एसी नीच लड़की से। एसी लदकीं से तुरत तलाक ले लेना चाहिए। अरे अगर ये गुजारे भत्ते जैसी मुफ्तखोरी तो बंद कर दो फिर देखो कैसे झूठे केस लगभग बंद हो जाएँगे। क्योकि इंनका आधार ही पैसा है। और मायके मे आशिक के साथ एश और खर्चा पति दे, यही झूठे केसो की असली वजह है।
Wow sir... you echoed my comment on another video. Maine bhi yahi mere comment me bataya tha ki jab dependency kam hogi, log akele sab karne lagenge, tab jo rista banegi wo true companionship hogi.
You are a true realist, Sangwanji I have never heard anyone speak such hard truths about the Indian middle class on a public platform like you I sincerely hope your talks bring about a positive change in our society
My mother was very worried when I used to teach my brother the kitchen chores he is in class 9 i started his learning when he was in class 5 and today he knows all the kitchen work even gol aalu ka Paratha. He is no more dependent on us for cooking like things and he loves it. The girl who is going to get him in later life path will be very happy I hope.❤
Sir, you are a realist leaning towards future generation irrespective of gender. I am myself middle aged and I strongly stand by you in interest of the new generation.
Is equality possible? I assume you mean 'fair'. What women seek is fairness. But if you think deep, marriage doesn't serve much if anyone has individualistic ambitions. Real love is over rated. If true love is valid, then a major chunk of divorces shouldn't happen, which initally was love marriage.
this is very real sir, I was Bron in 89, I am 34 now, I don't know if I am young or old, my body feels young my mind feels , slightly experienced if not old, but in any case I am feel the tiredness , feel the burn, feeling the changes, big or small, birds have migrated routes, the seasons are shifting, the poles are moving, just yesterday I was using dial up internet, and now we have 5G, access to all the info in a second, the struggle has changed, the learnings have changed, am I in the centre witnessing evolution, good or bad, who knows :)
*BUT* .................. I'd like to add here that, NOT ALL WOMEN who have dumped a false case on their husbands ARE INNOCENT! Personally know VERY GENUINE MALE FRIENDS who are suffering GREEDY, UNCOUTH, MANNERLESS WIVES while the guys are sheer Gentlemen! Ofcourse, I am a strong believer of KARMA and believe THEY TOO must have had THEIR SHARES OF ACCOUNTS to settle this lifetime! 🙏 So, NOT ALL women are innocent! Especially ones MISUSING LAW! *To cal BLACK, BLACK and WHITE, WHITE Is REALIST* ! Not F, MCP, etc etc.......... *People are now much open and receptive to ACCEPTING TRUTH AS IS!* Unlike 25 yrs ago!
Burst out laughing when he said "aadmi rondumal ho gaye hain" And it's "payback" time!! But on a serious note, we need to change the way we raise our sons..... And it needs to start in our homes.... Otherwise, men of future generations are going to cry!!
yeah if men expects traditional women he is crybaby but women can have all the traditional expectations. the fem,sm havent reduced mens providing/financial burden
Sir, your view are 100% correct. Boys and their parents are struck in 70s and 80s thought about girls. They expects girls to be well educated, highly modern, well employed, well versed in household work, quick in adjusting to in laws house n their family members, bear kids immediately after marriage, take care of children without troubling husband, sacrifice their career, support husband's career...... the list goes on and on...... endless. But boys haven't changed. Their parents never raise their sons to cope up with today's requirements to supporte their wives. Couple should be encouraged to live separately. Share family responsibilities equally and lead a more compatible and understanding life.
@@preetamyadav7952 teach this duty to your daughter you would be a great father. Reseve this thinking for your own daughter not for other daughters they are capable to become anthing in life.
Sir , I am a lady but your video is very negative , you are giving statement which can break many families and spoil relationships , divorce is a 3.5 lakh crore / annum business in India and its increasing at 10% growth YoY basis, gathering money and properties via wrong means have spoiled the mind of women
Interesting you mentioned 498a. I think you should also talk about why gender specific laws exist in India when you only mentioned that women have move ahead and are now highly capable ( to which I also agree with ). Why men are always treated like criminals ( kuch to kiya hi hoga ladke walo ne ). A simple divorce remains a stigma in the society still, hence it is often accompanied by misuse of laws like 498A.
You really think he will talk about the false cases. This guy is justifying false cases. Social media is saturated with This kind of femineest scammer who will justify the wrongs of wo men directly or indirectly. He talks about the dependency on men being reduced but will never talk about the alimony demanded nor the outrageous demands put on matrimony sites. But then again we have men such as this who are always to eager to bootlicking.
Pehle toh yeh socho aise laws ki zaroorat hi kyun padi in the first place..definitely not "all men" but more than enough men have, since time immemorial, participated in heinous acts ki in laws ki zaroorat padi...maine aajtak koi news nai dekhi ki kisi aurat ne kisi aadmi ka rape kiya ho...and aadmi against ke against bhi sexual offences are done by other men only...toh yahi hai ki society sudhregi toh apne aap in laws ki zaroorat hi nai padegi
@@asrasaqib9554 if you don't look outside your belief how else you are going to know whether a man has bee n rap ed by wom en. A punjab labour has been gang ra ped by 3 rapis t wome n. Just because the mainstream media does not show it, does not mean it is not happening. Every day we got news that ma n has been murde red by wife and her paramour. It is a well known fact that wo men misuse the laws that were meant for their protection.
@@asrasaqib9554 no need to say " not all man" We don't need that. Wo me n are murd erous and far more dangerous than any ma n. I know you will reject what i have said. And also sexual offences by wo men on men are much common but the law does not provide any provision for registering a complaint and is dismissed. So reap the benefit of these biased laws till you can. Oneday me n will fight back against these oppressive system.
Already the Nuisance is over, I am self dependent now. Victim of Fake 498a, DV Case still pending in Court, 9 years of arranged marriage, 1 Son out of Marriage. No Plan to marry further.
S , even I have seen the changes. Many in my relatives [ boy side ] have spent totally 100 perc in the marriage and the girls who were earning are giving their earnings to their younger siblings' education. A huge change . It's just acceptance of the change.
I agree on your some points….the dependency of women on men been declining.. The independence of women and so thus the man ,it seems this generation mostly are going towards narcissism …the divorce rate increasing for silly misunderstandings… People are now searching for partners with with core field of interest…it’s practical and good for the society…but at the same time I believe we should also hold some moral grounds..otherwise the societal structure may be disrupted and may backfire us…every new initiative demands the test of time…to look for the pros and cons…we can’t give a conclusion today that this is good or bad …time will tell….but I believe drastic changes which is happening today in our society have many negative impact…people just adores and accompanies every new thing without proper analysis…yes we need change but a gradual and more stable one which doesn’t hamper us ……I support women empowering but not at the cost of man overthrowing…let people do what they like instead of dividing work based on gender….I dont like controlling a women and feel superior…it’s not sustainable for two people living together…that’s common sense…why people misunderstand core understanding…I need a women for emotional, physical asual as for my future generations…in India the concept of feminism is a modified version of the western concept of feminism with a touch of Bollywood style….which is not at all sustainable and I will surely give a fuck to those who support that…
Every word you've spoken is absolutely true. My in laws just could not tolerate that I am in armed forces and independent. They started turning my husband against him. He is stuck between them and me. And of course, he's choosing them. We are heading for divorce now
I saw my father suffer his whole life with my difficult mother. I found out later in life that there is a mental illness my mother had - narcissism. It scared me not to get married. I fell in love but I was always afraid she would turn into my mother so I never married. I wish I understood what narcissism was before and how to watch out for people with this illness. Narcissism is very serious. Sometimes people today use that word like a joke. It is no joke. We suffered a lot as a family because of my mother yet she played the victim. She made all the wrong decisions because it had to be in her interest only. My mother's level of narcissism was very serious. We just didn't know a condition like that existed. She was a good looking woman and was so involved with her image with dressing etc. She never cared about our schooling just put us in expensive schools to show off. And fought my father every day to make money to pay for it all. She prevented me from marrying a girl when I first fell in love because they were a lower caste which she came from. She married my dad from a very high caste using her looks and her charming way to get what she wanted. She acted like very high caste when she got married. She would make us do all the house work as it was below her to do. And she had servants but she would fire them all the time. She was very good at crying that she was the victim. She ruined the marries of my siblings by fighting with their spouses...sometimes physically fighting. My poor father suffered and died, he tried to leave but my mother would us kids to bring him back. Poor man. My mother was a monster. In public people saw a beautiful woman smiling and acting very sweet. We took lots of pictures with us all dresses up and smiling to show off to everyone. She was a great singer so the public looked up to her. Everyone thought we were one big happy family when we were miserable. She forced us to pretend that everything was Outsiders.i am hoping my story can help others. Look up Narcissistc behavior.
Reita Faria Indian born Miss World (1966) set the ball rolling for 1955 & beyond, born women. Not only was it about beauty. It also imbibed the spirit of education, courage & wealth back home amidst her Indian sisters.
Women prefer to marry men who earns more than her and still demand equality..Marriage mat karo bhai..So u want men to earn twice than her and still prefer to cook food..pyaar kahe ka pyaar..Why get married man we are not desperate to get married.insulting men has become a trend…Relationship comes with responsibility..there is no love without responsibility…Today women want freedom but no responsibility..Today men are used as cash counter..Women are not getting married fine we are not getting married..raho Akeli..
Ya allah, nowadays its become fashion to insult man or husband!! Ladies do nt want to live with in law's, need freedom..seva bhav to bilkul khatam ho gaya,
One of the best videos ever i have seen in RUclips. Really real video. Thank you
Sir ji, aap ka knowledge, Wisdom, talent... hum maan gaye...🙏🙏🙏 bilkul zabardast hai Sirji ❤
Sir, you are an absolutely straight forward person with supreme clarity of mind. And this clarity gives you that confidence and command over what you believe and say 💯
I can say with clarity that Mercury has a major role in the planetary combinations of your chart with Jupiter 🙏🙏🙏
Sir is not a male chauvinist
But sir is surely MC😆
This old fashioned uncle may be a joru ka gulam 😅😅😅
Realstik ❤
My advice - Stay away from marriage.
Good advice
Realistic ke naam pe faminist
and
faminist ke naam pe metrimonial comercialist
Amit ji, aapke views ek tarfa hi hai. Aapne kaha ki koi ladki wala jhute case kyun karega. Apko kuch nahi pata iska matlab. SC ne khud mana hai ki wife ke dwara kiye gaye 85% case fake hote hai. Recently Delhi me ek 60 saal ka insaan riha hua jiske upar 20 saal case chala uski wife ke dwara aur case galat tha.
It's all because of misinterpreted society norms that people mostly get married.. Than later because of kids and legal laws they stick inspite of suffering
आप बहुत अच्छा कर रहें है।
Pro feminism woke uncle giving lectures …
We are enough educated to see what is happening around us …
And how indian law is radically feminized …
😂Ye banda simp ko praise kr rha h. Aur simp aur feminist chaude hue ja rhe h ki kya teer maar diya h humne😂
"Ab Ladkio ka Payback time hai" achaa ji, smart people will always exist whether its past,present or future. If today is payback time by women then smart men can AVOID this payback by not marrying. All divorce laws are favoured for women. Enough words for the wise
Exactly! This man is fooling all guys. Not marrying is definitely a good idea in India. Everything is against men in India. You'll be much happier by not marrying.
Payback time me bhi alimony chahiye inlogo ko 😂😂
jab aurat ka life bekar hua rakkha tha tab ladko ko shadi me koi burayi nahi nazar ayi, jaha apne pe baat aa gayi shadi se mukarne lagg gaye. Lol . aaj bhi koi ghar ka kaam karne wali mil jaye to tum shadi kar loge. you will not see anything wrong in that. This is being selfish.
@@harshitajaiswal1568 ghar ka kaam karne wali ko kaun chhorega lol ye to common sense hai 😂 sabko Ghar ka kaam krne wala hi chahiye... Koi nhi chahta uske biwi saradin sote rahe aur order dete rahe pati ko 🤣🤣🤣
@@harshitajaiswal1568 jitni bhi khud ko independent bol lo aaj bhi koi paise kamane wala ladke mil jayee to tum uske saamne taange phel dogi 🌝😁
So basically this gentleman says that men have to start doing household work ( 👨🍳🍲 cooking, cleaning, etc) & become jamai raja of mother- in- laws.🤫🤦
Finally .... someone said it . U r the only person
Men are even better cooks than women and also women are better than men in literally nothing except for crying or wearing make up
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My mother earns 2.5x times my father.
She usually works for 12 to 13 hours a day and 6 days a week,so,my father prepares lunch and dinner,whereas breakfast is prepared by my mom
I did cooking for my wife, I did cleaning house, I do everything, I earn good money, brought house jointly, broken my all relationship with family to make her happy, but still our relationship is not good bcz she doesn't have humanity, if person is diye she don't care, she is selfish, now tell me a man fault
this is a valid point. A video should be made on this as well
You made her selfish by doing everything for her. It's basic human nature to use the people who ready to be used. Trust me, Amit Sangwan has absolutely no experience in reality. This is reality that a good person will be exploited.
Meri gf ne kaha tha ki wo mere mom dad k sath nahi rhegi, mera surname use nahi karegi, job kregi but nahi krri hai, or ghar k kaam nahi kregi. She used to denigrate me challenges me all the time god knows why. I dumped her ass. HARD. I couldn't take it anymore.
All the above comments from our brothers are right, Sango is just touching basing points . Girls have already crossed the basic limits and trying to totally acquire men. Girls trying to make men slaves to them by working for them, leaving their families , friends ., what not.
Men are always free , eventually women will suffer , wait and see in coming years ..
@@shubhamsemwal2070 गुड डिसीजन
कहा थे सर आप... पुरानी बाते करनेवाले बहोत है.. पर आज समाज में जो चल रहा है उस्का इतना सटीक विश्लेषण.. धन्य है आप.. :)
Outstanding sirji🙏🏽great eye opener
Shadi ek narak hai jispe bitati hai usi ko pta chalta hai
Bhai akele rahne ka alage maja hai
i decide to go without women / wife. I can live alone on my own whole western block is living same way. Nothing new. This was to happen and this has happened . You are right evrything is changed since 2000. So boys should learn to live alone or with parents so long so they are around. If one can live alone that would be best for him indeed in this era. Men should also learn to do their things on their own. They should shed off their dependency on women for food and other needs this will balance the both sexes. Man should earn well, learn to live alone, learn to be independent w.r.t their domestic needs. Things will go balanced this way.
MGTOW
Living alone is a big ground, how someone can resolve it
Living alone and now want to have a baby through surrogacy
@@familyguy160 Also east is quickly catching up Korea, India etc.
I had also decided to live alone a while back. And the moment I made this decision, I got new wings, a sense of freedom beyond words
Not agreed. I am earning and wife is not earning. She wants to decide that i should not give money to my parents. I know better cooking than my wife. I clean the toilet,wash basin etc. I change diapers of my boys.My wife wants i should not drink beer , is it not my choice to drink 🍻? If wife earn then it is money , if husband earn , money belongs to both
Why’d u marry in the first place bro, it’s 21st century and women see us only as the BANK. it’s the modern era and we are expecting wife’s to become like our mums (which is impossible because of modernisation), marrying itself is a gamble in this era.
Even in olden times men used to cook , make aachar , wash clothes etc ... Women didn't even have to leave house
Reality
Mujhe toh bahut dukh hota hai aap life mein bahut der se mile.
If both husband and wife are working who will take care of the kids? Make a video for this
Very true, my daughter's say we won't marry, it's only giving in a marriage, nothing to achieve. The man doesn't take any responsibility, why take additional responsibility of the man.
Yup, this modern generation is great for girls, Good for your daughter. And we boys will suffer this age😂.
@@shrin210 nah ... It's good for us also no tension of wife ... More money more freedom to whatever you want in whole life .. if at any point you need big family you can adopt child ...
Haan yaar truee
Shaadi mat krao aapki daughter ki kabhi bhi, aise soch ke sath jiske jindegi me jayegi khrab hi kregi and men can handle their situation well now a days, ladies too.
Ajkal sabko apni jimmedaari lena ata hai.
This is not right thing . Understanding men and women also exist .
By the way wrong person doesn't come with certificate.
Dowry cases 498A etc which you touched is actually a divorce package , lawyers have big commission and fees for putting these heavy packages on husbands , this black industry is flourishing in India bcos women are getting easy income and property .
Mat karo shaadi
Women are misusing their rights. Shadi hote hi dhamki deti hain ki case kar dungi. Ye bhi ek side haï jo cover nahi ki gayi vidéo me.
Yes, so many cases I have seen. But one who suffers is still suffering. Many women are misusing this IPC section.
True words
@@TheGeorgeousYour comment shows your agenda. Destroy the institution of marriage.
Sir please visit family courts and see how much laws are misused.
Realistic
Completely a fake feminist 😅😅😅
Let's not forget the love affairs outside have increased in ladies MORE than in Men.
How more than male. Ladies ladies affair kar rahi hai kya?
Kaise? Koum sa arithmetic lagaya hai?
May be many women after one man.
@@ravikumar-nd2ju may be?
Have men started sitting on kothas? Have set up R Lite areas of Men to serve many women clients? 😂
@@ravikumar-nd2ju get into reality
I am a man 42 and not married....best decision of my life, enjoying my life spending money having fun and travelling the world....Men should not marry it's the worst thing possible
@@livingwithswati7699 staying unmarried is the best thing for men even I'm unmarried being 34 and feel the best decision of life looking at the examples of friends and family stuck up in disasters being married disturbances in work lifeental peace and regretting the decisions of getting married, instead be single earn good roam around countries enjoy all luxuries in life and stay away from worthless liabilities of marriages which aren't worthy even to be thought of
Yes , may be right
Completely agree with you. I wish i had never married. I would have also lived very happily and travelled all around the world which is my passion. Really wish i was aware then. Am a woman though 😂
Me too
Bhai tumhare maa baap n bhi yahi socha hota to.
2 ndly you are in category of animals if you think only of yourself.
Human is an intelligent animal so have some responsibility.
Bhag nahi sakte.
I agree with some points, but as a consultant, stop demonizing one gender.. Kindly raise issues on the misuse of laws done by women. Also, if womankind was harassed in the past, that doesn't give them the right to do wrongful things. Be a responsible content creator and if you raise issues, raise issues of both the genders. Hope this helps you
He knows bashing men is easy in india
South korea mein he would never dare do this in front of anti feminist crowd
Chacha ne to sigma male concept hi UNO CARD kar diya
महिलाओं पर जो अत्याचार होते थे वे दलितों पर अत्याचार से कम नहीं था.....ज़माना बदल गया।
Like your subject
So what you are telling is that men only has to adapt, bcoz time has brought in a lot of change in women and it's their turn to exploit. And for men - it's like u better get exploited without making noice. Men have literally lost everything to women. Surrender to women and men will be entitled to have peaceful life and so have you done.
😂 you are just scared of the thought of losing everything to women ? Since forever the girls after marriage have been losing and sacrifice their birth home , half of their life, their family career friends comfort zone everything. Good to someone else house start a new life at their terms. Do everything for them take care of the boy his family and their children. Women have been losing their entire identity as an individual person. And you say men lost everything to women. God knows only if you could have done all this then what wo condition.
Sir, nice video. Pls make video on 2 topics
1. Extra marital affairs
2. Rising number of divorces
I think men should learn the household works as well as earn money so that men do not dependent on women as well as live their life happily and freely and there would no need of a woman in their life.
@@Tom-px9hd
I'm learning bro
@@stephenwilson4931 in future there would be machines and robot for cooking.
@@stephenwilson4931 In future there will be automation AI will make food, caretaking & household works etc
@@stephenwilson4931yes, modern woman will never cook.
Most marriages are sexless and problematic. Nobody talks about this because sex is taboo in India. Sex is one of the most important part of marriage life, maybe the most important.👍👍👍
100 percent correct
@@anantkadam4400Indian women are only attracted to tall well built men but most Indian men are short and puny . Women are not attracted.
Why? Tell your story
Women are becoming hornier day by day
Right 💯
Aapne bilkul sahi kaha h sir, sayad kuch sudar ho jae samaj me
Men are even better cooks than women and also women are better than men in literally nothing except for crying or wearing make up
realist
Easily Fake Feminist
The sad truth of the society is “unconditional love” is only given to children and women. For males, there is always a point “kitna kamata hai”. Aadmi se karvao ghar ke kaam- uski samaj me izzat hogi ? Bina paise kamaye Aadmi ko koi nahi poochta sahab. Ab aisa koi criteria aap female par laga kar ke dekho… nahi milega. Bhai ek tarafa content Oyo dikhate ho ? Aapke hisab se dahej ke har case me galati ladke walo ki hi hoti hai- har koi jaanta hai ki aajkal dowry law ek mazak ban kar rah gayi hai jisko ladki wale kabhi bhi kaisi bhi use karte hain… samaj me badlav aaya hai aur uske hisab se Aadmi aur aurat, dono ko hi badalna chahiye… aap sirf ek tarafa baar kr rahe ho
Very very true ! Fully agree wt everything.
Realist to the core....unbiased and Hard-hitting
Realist. Sir intercaste marriage pe video banaiye.. Please
Real istic
I regret I missed out to follow......
Realistic ..... 100% Shuddhh
Feminist who supports false cases by women
Sir you may be correct..we male hv 100 issues, may be more, also we are imperfect.
1) Man who earns money is responsible has to take care of all the member needs & wants.. without exemption
2) Man is expected by his spouse to be matured like his spouse father or like her terki jilaji..
3) By default man is expected to handle his wife "all needs" even if he is going through financial tight, job insecurity, investment taking care of his own family.
But whereas female when she becomes financially independent.. She never like to share any expenses especially of her spouse.. She try to avoid sharing.. for eg: homeloan emi, husband in laws any contribution to his family members..
She always pressure you, by giving to many demands.. she expects her husband to earning like her boss or behave like her boss..
Basic issues are coming of parenting itself..I blame both male & female culprits are their parents and society..
I don't see now a days anybody is asking dowry atleast past 5 yrs I hv not heard any of.. mostly marriage are between well off families.... even though groom family dont ask or expect..bride family their daughter as per their capacity...
सर आप जो कह रहे हे वो १००% सही बात हे
पर यहाँ पे बहोत सारी लड़िकिया जो पढ़ाई में कमजोर और कमाई में ५०००-१५००० महीना कमाने वाली या तो खुभी कमाने न वाली और उनके पेरेंट्स जो हे ६००००-१००००० महीना कमाने वाले से शादी करते हे और ऐसा रॉफ जाड़ते हे की जैसे लड़की कोई करोड़पति हो
नहीं वो कुछ कमाना चाहती हे
नहीं वो कुछ घर का काम करना चाहती हे
बस शॉपिंग करना
दिखावा करना
घर में कलेश करवाना
और कोई खुछ कहे तो केस करने की धमकी देना
बात पे गुससा करना
जैसी बहोत चीजे हो रही हे
Thats why its really essential to discuss finances before wedding and have clear conversations .
F: I think it was Feminist. Let me tell you why, Men has also covered the distance you are talking about around 70-80% of my friends know how to cook, how to handle babies, in fact most of my friend's kids are more loved and attached to the father than mother as they are giving more time to them than mothers. One of your point was valid, women were oppressed a lot and now they are evolving but for the current scenario i still see women of my age group don't know how to drive only 10% can drive that to not for long distances. Now am glad women are earning even more than men, but they are now more money focused and very less focused towards marriage and family. The number of unmarried women's has increased drastically, You haven't covered this part that why is it happening as it is connected to topic. There is huge problem, women are also not able adjust with men even without in-laws and there are many cases like this. So to be realistic you have to cover for man and women both. As even if both are earning still women feel men has to handle the house expenses and women is earning for herself(that's again not for every woman i am talking about but largely that is the case). I am not making this up, i meet friends and they feel this and share this problem. So i would say this was from the stand point of Females majorly and the male part was not covered.
You are absolutely right, men' s side isn't covered actually this video can be called biased and single side covering
Its true that a big number of women want to remaim unmarried. Why? and what's the solution? Please cover this topic.
Finally someone who spoke the truth. This man's perception of men is skewed towards misandry.
Now it's a trend to degrade efforts of men and boost the ego of women. A feminist man is more dangerous than a feminist women. In my office I have seen, even a woman would some time agree that being a woman they have to play the role given by nature and confirm to societal norms, however this feminist men they provoke women and make them feel they should be independent and break all norms of society. Now a days all MNCs follow this trend so that women come out and spend more and more which will fill their coffers eventually. Go to any cancer hospital 9 out of 10 cases are women. Lifestyle changes have induced serious health issues in women. When a woman is down in a family with a disease how can a husband or a son or a brother can be happy.
I also found it biased....on the name of equality, women are earning same as men but gals still prefer guys who earn more than her. They even have backup in mind that if I don't work or get fired from the job, I have my husband who can take care of me. Gal still expect men to take care of home expenses even when gal is earning equally. Gals who are settled financially, they don't feel to get married. Men wants to do simple marriage in less budget but gals want it big celebration because they are earning now and have already saved the money for their marriage.
I am a retired working woman . I always believed that I am earning to nurture a home and raise a happy family and that was the source of my happiness not what I was earning .
If earning was not source of happiness,then why were you earning in the first place ? 😂
@@ay-by9qs because it's necessary ..money is necessary but money is not everything...but it has the capability to influence every aspect of our lives so it's necessary as well as imp ..along with other emotional quotients of human beings...
@@maitreyeebiswas9849 In old times, Money was not everything but it is everything in this modern era where everything is for sell . I love this new God of mankind....
@@saurabhsingh5263 even in old times money was everything...those who were rich used to live longer ,those who were poor used to live in pathetic condition not to mention caste system was privilege. idk which history book u Indian guys read which says money is not important 😭😭 like living in a fantasy land.
@@ay-by9qs did you fell on your head
I stop watching OTT platforms, morning evening Sango life is on....
Disappointing that you are defending false dowry cases. You are assuming that those cases are real. Your bias is clear.
I was born in 1991 in a family in which almost all men were Labour. In 2002, my grandmother got paralyzed and she were not even able to move her tongue, legs & hands. She had been bedridden and lived since 2004. Almost 3 years, my mother took after my grandmother and made her feed, bath, urine etc...
It was like a sure hell (Nark) for my grandmother as wll as for my mother.
When my grandmother was leaving this world, she raised her hand little bit and gave signal to my mother to come near to her. My grandmother laid her hand on the head of my mother and gave some kind of blessings and passed away.
I am the eldest son in my family and we are 3 siblings.
Currently, I am class II officer in Government of India and my wife is a Teacher in UP Government. My younger brother is posted in UP Police.
When I look my past I feel whatever we are today, it is because of my mother who did humble and kind deeds in her life and got pure blessings from her elders.
Sometime, I feel life is not only about the money, enjoyment, comfort, personal choices and freedom etc. Life is more than these things.
Janaab
It is never about money
It is all about love respect dignity and all positive thoughts and the
I agree... It is not money always
Wrong correlation.
Easy to lead a life saying it's not money, enjoyment, comfort, freedom when you have all those to last a lifetime.
Live without any of those. And the value is preserved
Good example of a mother's sacrifice.....these are noble deeds without expectations ..... only having self belief & faith in God while wishing bright future for her children. Her belief & faith gets realised when her children look after her with love & affection..... that's extreme happiness for her. Sanatan dharma focuses on achieving pure feelings & emotions (unconditional)
@@nmo3148
Thanks a lot you for kind gesture
Sir you are great.
Don’t feel offended on your opinion. Speak freely. Don’t fear of society.
Lesson learned: Saab kaam sikho aur shadi maat karo.
चौधरी साहिब बहुत मजा आता है आपकी बातों में।❤
Sir metrosexual ladko ki to zyada wat lagi hai, equality bhi maintain kar rahe hain aur 1cr ka loan bhi akele chuka rahe hain 🤐
I remember in the 80s when my dad was chief superindent of govt office and my uncle was chief engineer. The respect they got in home and society was immense. I listen from my uncle who was chief engineer that when he got a job parents of eligible girls throughout the city flocked to my grandparents house.
Chief Engg in which company/govt. Please tell. Mujhe apni school crush se badla lena h
Chityee hai sab
Men are only valued for their money. Today women are working so men’s value has decreased a lot. Marriage is a scam, was a scam and will be a scam for men.
@@saitamapreetsingh3057 🙃😂
@@saitamapreetsingh3057 IIT crack krlo acchaa package uthao
You are realist and practical... Men need to grow up their mindset who are still stuck in that old mentality 👍
Men are literally dying due to fake 498a and fake rape cases and these people are giving bhashan to men
A complete Realist!!
❤❤❤
Hands down , I have seen one most most sensible explanation and a man of our father in laws age highlighting the facts , else humare sasur ji bas voi lage hue hain ghar tudwane k bahu aai ni rahi ni kaam ni kiya .. mafi ni mangi.. useless !
Sir , Thank you words will fall short ! Parents who are not asking for money are controlling saying hum to kuch lete ni humne paalke ehsan kiya khila pilake bada kardiya.. to agar ladka biwi k sath zindagi thori si luxury me jeena chahta hai to sare ehsan samne aa jate hain palne posne k.. agar beta na sune to vahi mard ban mard.. ! @sangolifesutras
Aap kaun se world me ji rahe ho sir ?
Mardo ne gharelu kaamo me aajkal kinta haat batate hai iss ka pata hi nehi hai aap ko .
Kitni percent working women hai duniya me ? Abhi bhi on average working women 40 percent se ziada nehi barhe hai jab ke literate women ki percentage 60 cross kar chuki hai . Bharat me abhi bhi housrwives 80 percent se ziada hai .
Aap feminist hi ho iss liye aap ko feminist ki destroying effect aap nehi manna chahte ho .
Naturally men are evolved as protectors and providers with their masculine charracter . Mahilaaye keeper aur maintainer hotey hai prakritik roop se oonki feminine charracter ki wajah se . Yea system prakritik hai aur isko baldalna ghatak siddh ho raha hai . Aap jitna bhi nature ke khilaaf jaana chaahoge utna hi balance bigarta jaayega aur woh ho bhi raha hai .
Aap modern socialoly jitna parhoge ootna hi aapko pata chalega ke baat women empowerment ke naam pe power ko responsibility ke saath use naa karke high - fy thoughts and unnatural expectations ke saath barey hue aaj ki mahilao ne natural system ko unnessesary dominate karne ki chaahat me barbaad kar rahe hai . 50 's se le ke pre 90 's tak mahilaao me itni kaabiliyat hoti thi ke woh kamiyabi ke saath working aur gharelu world ko samvaal sakti thi jab ke purusho ko ghar me ziada managing contribution dena nehi aata thaa . Aaj halat purusho ko pehele se gharulu kaamo me aur effortive aur respnsible bana rahe hai jab ke mahilao me home managment nivaana yea toh aati nehi yea fir sikhaaya jaata nehi .
Aap ko pata hi nehi kitney bachchey baap ke haatho barey hote hai .
Desh ki kanooni system mahilao ko itna power de diya hai ke ab woh mardo ke khilaaf oosey manmarzi istemaal kar rahi hai .
Aap toh maanoge hi nehi ke Haalat itna bigar gaya hai ke pitit purusho ki suicide ke numbers har saal mahilao se tin guna se bhi ziada ho rahe hai desh me sirf jo ke world wide me 3 . 5 times se bhi ziada hai ab .
Agar women empowerment ka galat matlab nikal ke ooska galat route pe sab aise hi chalne lagenge toh result jo forigen countries vugat rahe hai woh yeaha bhi dikhayi dekha agar sachchai dekhne aur sunne ki himmat rakhoge .
World wide socialists pareshaan ho rahe hai ke dominancy ki nashe me women jis tarha ghar aur marriage life barbaad karne par tuley hue hai ooski effect se men are quiting to get married already . Advanced countries me elegable bachelors dating se bhi muh mor rahe hai speed se .
Humara desh per head income me oon desho se bohot kam hai aaj bhi . Agar housewives bhi providers ko yeaha dominate karna chaahegi khud hi home working me expert naa ho kar toh yeaha just shuru hua " say not to marriage " ka movement jald hi fayelta jayega . Yeaha adultry , property aur maintanance ke liye shaadishuda mahilao ne girne ki had par kar rahi hai jo ke Supreme Court ki lalest judgements se saaf pata chal raha hai .
Aap nehi maanoge keu ke aap par bhi feminism ki galat meaning ka parda para hua hai .
World wide socialoly crisis par aur thora parhai karenge toh shaayed aap kaa khud ko realistic samajhne kaa galafaimy hai woh badal jaayega .
Mai bhi ek researcher hu issi current maritorial socio status ki . Bhohot se naami socilogisto ki research dekhna , parhna , sikhna parhta hai current original conditions and reasons ko detect karne ke liye .
I am requesting you sir to study more about reality and make vedios after getting much more knowledge .
Aap realistic bhi nehi ho . Aap pichhey ho , reality se dur ho , natural balance bigarne ki koshish kar rahe ho .
Naturality should be promoted sir , not artifitial dominancy to maintain happy and balanced maritorial life .
If men start doing household work and women doing jobs, there will be less dependency between husband and wife. People will start avoiding marriages altogether in future rather will start opting for live-in relationships for physical needs or will live independently.
The need for marriage is the support couple gets from each other but if everyone is independent, there will be no need and no marriage.
Western world has already moved out of this phase 100 years ago and we are transitioning now. History repeats itself. Marriages have become dating, divorce rates are increasing, Indian economy is booming, even uneducated people are earning good, everyone is financially independent. The only dependent people in today's generation are parents and this will change after next couple of decades. Parents will no longer depend on children. They will talk to their children less often and will live life of their own, they even will change partners after middle age.
Marriages are made for life will be the thing of the past and our long lived culture will be confined to a smaller section of society within villages. Metro cities will expand and villages will be converted to cities and merge into metro cities. And in the last marriage will become just a synonym for dating and not a big deal of celebration as no one will know how long will it last. There will be divorce clause in Indian constitution. People will feel more isolated and Indian marriage scenario will merge into western scenario.
Patriarchy has done no good to society. Its failed.
I got married. Right now there are not any major issues but i still think if I would have stayed single I would be happier.
😅😅😅😅
Loneliness kills! You will not be happier and would be secluded in society. What about old age? Family is insurance for your later stages.
@@prvinsharma I agree with the seclusion part. I face it myself a great deal. But I think living in loneliness is a skill. Humans are social animals and need company I agree, but the problem of loneliness is over-hyped I think. While a pain lingers for all near and dear ones having abandoned you, it's possible to continue with the pain, it's a matter of perspective. There is no guarantee the family will take care, there are old age homes and hospices for that. Why drag on with a relationship right through someone's life to be looked after in the end, you would already have suffered enough if its a toxic relationship. I think everyone should be prepared to die alone, if by luck, the family stands by you consider yourself lucky, else you are on your own. But be happy and rejoicing always, that makes the exit less painful.
Loneliness in old age is no joke. Except immediate family (kids, spouse) you will realize too late that no one else cares for you, though they will pretend.
@@hummingbeing Nothing is for certain in life. I have many insurance, mutual fund products which I know would not give me as expected. Family is like that. You can only do your part. As for living with parents and caring, I have done that and see many are doing in my apartment. We should see bright side of the life. Shaadi ke laddoo khaaye to pachtaye na khaaye to pachtaye. I believe in having it. You have your choice.
Living lonely is an art which I do not trust. I have seen many suffer and those who married also suffering. The issue is with the person himself.
Realist.
Mai to khud khana banata hun khud kapade dhota hun...🤔🤔🤔
I love the way you corrected yourself after saying "aurat". The world must know the true meaning of this word. Mahila and naari are more appropriate. Similarly purush is more appropriate than aadmi.
There is no true meaning except 'woman' learn to respect others languages...
@@asrasaqib9554 it's written in Hadith..
@@amit9023an "amit" is telling me its written in hadith..wah.. point it out please? Which hadith? Where?
I know all household work (cooking, cleaning, etc.). Thought I'll be a good husband to my wife, have a good life. Go together sharing all responsibilities and live happily.
But after interacting with so many girls (many my friends), my whole perspective changed. The institution of marriage is not worth the risk anymore.
I've seen unhappily married men living a far worse life than alone single men.
By seeing the comment section, anyone can predict whether the topic is biased towards one gender.
If the video is for one gender, the same gender will applaud/celebrate in the comment section.
Sir, your videos are very informational n unique, but sometimes it divert towards showing the shortcomings/problems in today's Male.
It is not a privilege to be a Male, in fact it is a Lifetime Slavery that we have to take care of parents, kids n even wife (if she is not Earning).
You are correct that the Male has to think and see what is his life's Preference/Priority, we have to cook, iron, clean and be self dependent which most of the Males are doing these days. Rest of the Males will learn when they realize that no one actually cares them. We are meant for only Earning n Responsibilities. The Male/Female topic is always debatable and the winner is always who can Speak n Express more - which Men cannot.
Well said 🤗🤗🤗. Life is not easy for a man also . Even though I m a woman but this video seems biased. Taali dono haatho se bajati hai. Not always women r right.
they are youtuber and this is visual medium if they speak against women then both men and women curse him
@@movietadka7393 , that can be right.
Sir, we need wisdom/unbiased/true words which we are looking here not any Script which is common. Most of the RUclipsrs (including MEN) publish the videos of Bashing/Demoralizing MEN as they think they will get highest Subscribers/Likes which indirectly gives them Money. But soon they will realize that they are loosing the sensitive/intellectual audience.
I surprised sometimes that what is the plight of humans these days. Because of Fame/Money, they are loosing the real judgement of what is Right n what is Wrong. Whoever or where ever they are getting Money, they are ready to dance.
What i understand that the Men belong to category of Powerful, Rich or Influential also cannot understand the condition of a Common average Men. They are also cursing MEN !!
@@ArvindGupta-dc6jv correct
Aurto ko vidhwa vilap bohot achhe se karna aata hai .
kaate ko trishul bna k dikhati hai
Sir aap dimag khol rhe Hain hum new generation newly married men ka. Clarity aa rha hai thoughts mein.
True sir ❤u r light 💡❤
Sir u r right..i am 50 yr old..i dont depend on my husband anymore..my husband is egoistic..critisiser, abusive husband.does not talk normally with me.talks with his mom n sister only..i even dont listen what he didcusses.....I talk, watch movie n enjoy with my daughter ,son and friends outside.. he is all alone with his business..n business related ppl..he never been a friend instead always a critisiser.abuser..Zero socialing skill...now I pity on him for I left him all alone.Earlier i used to worry a lot..now I realised that he can never be changed..n i m happier..
Oh..ab 50 yeras ke logo ko bhi josh aa raha ha! Wow. Grow india grow,
@@shauryakavishorts what you want to say?How age is related to this issue?
@@sjc4836 i like the statement: stopped cooking 🍳, mere bhi ghar pe lunch ban ho gayo 😆🤭
@@shauryakavishortsDivorce nhi liya hai unhone. And vaise bhi what she's going through is an issue faced by almost every women. Josh nhi aya hai ye kisiko, majboori hai
रही बात आदमी की तो महिला का ये सब काम आदमी की ही वजह से हुआ है। क्योकि आदमी रक्षक और भक्षक दोनों की शक्ति रखता है जिसके संरक्षण मे ही सब कुछ हो रहा है।
और आदमी के द्वारा बनाए कानून की वजह से ही महिलाए स्वतंत्र और स्वच्छंद है।
और रही बात रोने की तो कानून एकतरफा होने की वजह से रो रहा है। उस पर सिर्फ बोझ बढ़ रहा है महिलाओ के दोगलेपन का। कानून समान कर दो सब कुछ औकात मे आ जाएगा। असलियत सामने आ जाएगी। एकतरफा कानूनों के बल और दुरुपयोग के कारण महिलाओ का सारा सममानता का नाटक और सशक्तिकारण दोगलापन ही है। हमे किसी महिला को काबू नहीं करना, बस हिम्मत है तो कानून एक समान कर दो बस। पता चल जाएगा की कोण किस पर निर्भर है। 😅
रही बात सहन करने की तो क्यो करे वे सहन जिनहोने कोई अपराध ही नहीं किया। तो ये तो कोई बात नहीं हुई की आदमी बिना मतलब भुगते। मे तो चाहता हूँ की मर्द जागे हर मर्द जागरूक हो और महिलावाडी एकतरफा कानून को समाप्त कर दे अपनी शक्ति के बल पर और अपने ऊपर की सारी फालतू की महिलाओ के प्रति जिम्मेदारिया भी खत्म कर ले जिनके बदले उन्हे कुछ मिलना ही नहीं है। फिर देखो। मर्द के पास तो आर या पार की शक्ति है जिसे दूर दूर तक महिलाए पा नहीं सकती। जिस दिन प्राणो पर संकट आए उस दिन मर्द याद आए ये हकीकत है 😂
वैसे भी अब परिवार नहीं रह सकते क्योकि काटे की टक्कर से परिवार नहीं चलते। एक तरफ मर्द की स्वाभाविक शक्ति तो दूसरी तरफ औरतों को मर्दो के कानूनों द्वारा दी गयी शक्ति से जो द्वंद होता है वो परिवार बर्बाद कर देता है। क्योकि मर्द और औरत की प्रवत्ति अलग अलग है तो पारिवारिक व्यवस्था भी उसी हिसाब से अलग अलग थी। इसमे खामखा छेड्खानी करने की कोई ज़रूरत नहीं थी। जो बराबरी स्वाभाविक रूप से हो नहीं सकती थी उसे क्रत्रिम रूप से बराबर करने का मूर्खतापूर्ण प्रयास किया गया। जो आगामी भारी सामाजिक दुष्परिणाम के रूप मे निकलेगा। क्योकि क्रत्रिमता ज़्यादा समय तक नहीं टिकती। जिस दिन मर्द ने महिलाओ का सम्मान करना बंद किया उस दिन वह महिलाओ के प्रति अपने बनाए बेबुनियाद दायित्व भी भूल जाएगा। फिर महिलाओ को अधिकार देना तो दूर बल्कि छीन भी सकता है अपनी शक्ति के बल पर। तब क्या होगा? औरर ये सब आगे होगा भी क्योकि आज के लड़के बचपन से किस तरह की लड़कियो को देख रहे है? तो उनके दिमाग मे लड़कियो के प्रति क्या छवि बन रही है? एसे मे आगे चलकर क्या उनके पास महिलाओ का सम्मान का कोई कारण होगा? जैसे पुराने जमाने की महिलाओ के प्रति सम्मान हुआ करता था तभी तो उनके पक्ष मे उन पर भरोसा करके अंधाधुंध मर्द विरोधी कानून बना दिये। तो आगे आने वाला समय महिलाओ के लिए ही बुरा होने वाला है एसा मुझे लगता है।
रही बात अब महिलाओ की बुराई की तो जब लडकिया है ही एसी तो बुराई तो होगी ही न। आज जो लड़के कह रहे है वो असलियत है जिसे हर एक लड़के को जानना ज़रूरी है। क्या समस्या है आपको ? और रही बात अब झूठे केसो की तो क्या इतनी सी बातो मे अपने ही पति या परिवार के विरुद्ध केस करना सही है क्या? उल्टा ये तो और घटिया बात है। एसे मे वैसे भी शादी का कोई मतलब नहीं एसी नीच लड़की से। एसी लदकीं से तुरत तलाक ले लेना चाहिए। अरे अगर ये गुजारे भत्ते जैसी मुफ्तखोरी तो बंद कर दो फिर देखो कैसे झूठे केस लगभग बंद हो जाएँगे। क्योकि इंनका आधार ही पैसा है। और मायके मे आशिक के साथ एश और खर्चा पति दे, यही झूठे केसो की असली वजह है।
Wow sir... you echoed my comment on another video. Maine bhi yahi mere comment me bataya tha ki jab dependency kam hogi, log akele sab karne lagenge, tab jo rista banegi wo true companionship hogi.
You are a true realist, Sangwanji
I have never heard anyone speak such hard truths about the Indian middle class on a public platform like you I sincerely hope your talks bring about a positive change in our society
What a unique name ❤️ haven't heard this before...line acchi hai let's see work Karti hai kya 😅
Agar young females itna hi independent h to marriage kyu kr rhi h..!!
Very nicely expressed
Men are even better cooks than women and also women are better than men in literally nothing except for crying or wearing make up
Aap mere daddu jaise ho🙂.Pranam apko🙏.
My mother was very worried when I used to teach my brother the kitchen chores he is in class 9 i started his learning when he was in class 5 and today he knows all the kitchen work even gol aalu ka Paratha. He is no more dependent on us for cooking like things and he loves it. The girl who is going to get him in later life path will be very happy I hope.❤
Mera chota bhai toh youtube se cooking seekh gya hmlog usko bolte hai eski wife esse Bahut khush rahegi 😂
Read comment laxmigupta. Aisa kuch nhi hota.
I know how to cook . In real life girl called us Friend material
Sir, you are a realist leaning towards future generation irrespective of gender. I am myself middle aged and I strongly stand by you in interest of the new generation.
Family is anti woman
Be equal... If dependency is not there, real love will prosper.
Is equality possible? I assume you mean 'fair'. What women seek is fairness. But if you think deep, marriage doesn't serve much if anyone has individualistic ambitions.
Real love is over rated. If true love is valid, then a major chunk of divorces shouldn't happen, which initally was love marriage.
U will marry a person who earns 3 times more than U and will talk about equality 😅
Sir, aapko speech half truth' hai..
Sango uncle ji ka top view main Anupam Kher jaise lagtey hain.
this is very real sir, I was Bron in 89, I am 34 now, I don't know if I am young or old, my body feels young my mind feels , slightly experienced if not old, but in any case I am feel the tiredness , feel the burn, feeling the changes, big or small, birds have migrated routes, the seasons are shifting, the poles are moving, just yesterday I was using dial up internet, and now we have 5G, access to all the info in a second, the struggle has changed, the learnings have changed, am I in the centre witnessing evolution, good or bad, who knows :)
Its so tough to understand what you intend to say through these words.
@@ravikumar-nd2ju read again
*BUT* ..................
I'd like to add here that,
NOT ALL WOMEN who have dumped a false case on their husbands ARE INNOCENT!
Personally know VERY GENUINE MALE FRIENDS who are suffering GREEDY, UNCOUTH, MANNERLESS WIVES while the guys are sheer Gentlemen!
Ofcourse, I am a strong believer of KARMA and believe THEY TOO must have had THEIR SHARES OF ACCOUNTS to settle this lifetime! 🙏
So, NOT ALL women are innocent!
Especially ones MISUSING LAW!
*To cal BLACK, BLACK
and WHITE, WHITE
Is REALIST* !
Not F, MCP, etc etc..........
*People are now much open and receptive to ACCEPTING TRUTH AS IS!*
Unlike 25 yrs ago!
Burst out laughing when he said "aadmi rondumal ho gaye hain" And it's "payback" time!! But on a serious note, we need to change the way we raise our sons..... And it needs to start in our homes.... Otherwise, men of future generations are going to cry!!
What is rondumal?
@@satyaamblercrybabies
yeah if men expects traditional women he is crybaby but women can have all the traditional expectations. the fem,sm havent reduced mens providing/financial burden
जो लक्ष्मी पर कर देगा उसकी दुर्गति होगी।
जो लक्ष्मी से कर वसूलेगी उसकी भी दुर्गति होगी।
बिना अर्थ के दया गुण धारण नहीं होता।
Husband wife only fight because of 3rd party only ...either in laws , external affairs or kids..mostly in laws..
Equality and sharing domestic works keeps family happy.
Also what is bad in saying “aurat” instead of “mahila”. You need to say “purush” instead of “Aadmi “ by the same logic.
Realist, relatable and relevant
Chupa hai yeh
Completely disagree with u. Having skills does not mean complete urself. My wife is an excellent example.
बोहत अच्छा समझाया प्यार और काबू में अंतर ।
Sir, your view are 100% correct. Boys and their parents are struck in 70s and 80s thought about girls. They expects girls to be well educated, highly modern, well employed, well versed in household work, quick in adjusting to in laws house n their family members, bear kids immediately after marriage, take care of children without troubling husband, sacrifice their career, support husband's career...... the list goes on and on...... endless. But boys haven't changed. Their parents never raise their sons to cope up with today's requirements to supporte their wives. Couple should be encouraged to live separately. Share family responsibilities equally and lead a more compatible and understanding life.
Women look beautiful only in kitchen .
Accept your duty and serve food for us
@@preetamyadav7952 dafuq
@@preetamyadav7952 teach this duty to your daughter you would be a great father. Reseve this thinking for your own daughter not for other daughters they are capable to become anthing in life.
@@preetamyadav7952 who the hell are u to tell woman what to do
Agreed and Government should repeal the provision of alimony from the divorce law .
Sir , I am a lady but your video is very negative , you are giving statement which can break many families and spoil relationships , divorce is a 3.5 lakh crore / annum business in India and its increasing at 10% growth YoY basis, gathering money and properties via wrong means have spoiled the mind of women
Interesting you mentioned 498a. I think you should also talk about why gender specific laws exist in India when you only mentioned that women have move ahead and are now highly capable ( to which I also agree with ).
Why men are always treated like criminals ( kuch to kiya hi hoga ladke walo ne ). A simple divorce remains a stigma in the society still, hence it is often accompanied by misuse of laws like 498A.
You really think he will talk about the false cases. This guy is justifying false cases.
Social media is saturated with This kind of femineest scammer who will justify the wrongs of wo men directly or indirectly.
He talks about the dependency on men being reduced but will never talk about the alimony demanded nor the outrageous demands put on matrimony sites.
But then again we have men such as this who are always to eager to bootlicking.
Pehle toh yeh socho aise laws ki zaroorat hi kyun padi in the first place..definitely not "all men" but more than enough men have, since time immemorial, participated in heinous acts ki in laws ki zaroorat padi...maine aajtak koi news nai dekhi ki kisi aurat ne kisi aadmi ka rape kiya ho...and aadmi against ke against bhi sexual offences are done by other men only...toh yahi hai ki society sudhregi toh apne aap in laws ki zaroorat hi nai padegi
because men have always badly treated women so tit for tat stop complaining abount 498a and reservation looser hindu
@@asrasaqib9554 if you don't look outside your belief how else you are going to know whether a man has bee n rap ed by wom en.
A punjab labour has been gang ra ped by 3 rapis t wome n.
Just because the mainstream media does not show it, does not mean it is not happening.
Every day we got news that ma n has been murde red by wife and her paramour.
It is a well known fact that wo men misuse the laws that were meant for their protection.
@@asrasaqib9554 no need to say " not all man"
We don't need that. Wo me n are murd erous and far more dangerous than any ma n. I know you will reject what i have said.
And also sexual offences by wo men on men are much common but the law does not provide any provision for registering a complaint and is dismissed.
So reap the benefit of these biased laws till you can. Oneday me n will fight back against these oppressive system.
Already the Nuisance is over, I am self dependent now. Victim of Fake 498a, DV Case still pending in Court, 9 years of arranged marriage, 1 Son out of Marriage. No Plan to marry further.
When men and women are equal, then women also should share equal EMi loans, bills,home rents, restaurant bill,and everything as 50 50 %..right.
S , even I have seen the changes. Many in my relatives [ boy side ] have spent totally 100 perc in the marriage and the girls who were earning are giving their earnings to their younger siblings' education. A huge change . It's just acceptance of the change.
Family is anti woman
I agree on your some points….the dependency of women on men been declining..
The independence of women and so thus the man ,it seems this generation mostly are going towards narcissism …the divorce rate increasing for silly misunderstandings…
People are now searching for partners with with core field of interest…it’s practical and good for the society…but at the same time I believe we should also hold some moral grounds..otherwise the societal structure may be disrupted and may backfire us…every new initiative demands the test of time…to look for the pros and cons…we can’t give a conclusion today that this is good or bad …time will tell….but I believe drastic changes which is happening today in our society have many negative impact…people just adores and accompanies every new thing without proper analysis…yes we need change but a gradual and more stable one which doesn’t hamper us ……I support women empowering but not at the cost of man overthrowing…let people do what they like instead of dividing work based on gender….I dont like controlling a women and feel superior…it’s not sustainable for two people living together…that’s common sense…why people misunderstand core understanding…I need a women for emotional, physical asual as for my future generations…in India the concept of feminism is a modified version of the western concept of feminism with a touch of Bollywood style….which is not at all sustainable and I will surely give a fuck to those who support that…
Every word you've spoken is absolutely true.
My in laws just could not tolerate that I am in armed forces and independent. They started turning my husband against him. He is stuck between them and me. And of course, he's choosing them.
We are heading for divorce now
Good. Atleast he is now free from your toxic behavior.
I salute that free soul.
You will die alone and miserable.
Men r fattu. Men will not repeat same mistake with other girl but won't take right decision to improve current relationship.
@@PS-oy1elExactly. Then they cry "bandi nahi mil rhi" Men rarely retrospect.
Uncle ji superb👍
Men are even better cooks than women and also women are better than men in literally nothing except for crying or wearing make up
Bade majedar tarike se bahot achi salah di aapne.isse ghar tutenge nahi judenge.bass samajhdari dono tarf se honi chahie.
You are realist and you are showing us reality of the world. Thankyou so much we need people like you.
आप बातों बातों में चले जाते हो फेमिनिस्ट की तरफ😄😄😄😄
सही कहा
I saw my father suffer his whole life with my difficult mother. I found out later in life that there is a mental illness my mother had - narcissism. It scared me not to get married. I fell in love but I was always afraid she would turn into my mother so I never married. I wish I understood what narcissism was before and how to watch out for people with this illness. Narcissism is very serious. Sometimes people today use that word like a joke. It is no joke. We suffered a lot as a family because of my mother yet she played the victim. She made all the wrong decisions because it had to be in her interest only. My mother's level of narcissism was very serious. We just didn't know a condition like that existed. She was a good looking woman and was so involved with her image with dressing etc. She never cared about our schooling just put us in expensive schools to show off. And fought my father every day to make money to pay for it all. She prevented me from marrying a girl when I first fell in love because they were a lower caste which she came from. She married my dad from a very high caste using her looks and her charming way to get what she wanted. She acted like very high caste when she got married. She would make us do all the house work as it was below her to do. And she had servants but she would fire them all the time. She was very good at crying that she was the victim. She ruined the marries of my siblings by fighting with their spouses...sometimes physically fighting. My poor father suffered and died, he tried to leave but my mother would us kids to bring him back. Poor man. My mother was a monster. In public people saw a beautiful woman smiling and acting very sweet. We took lots of pictures with us all dresses up and smiling to show off to everyone. She was a great singer so the public looked up to her. Everyone thought we were one big happy family when we were miserable. She forced us to pretend that everything was Outsiders.i am hoping my story can help others. Look up Narcissistc behavior.
Reita Faria Indian born Miss World (1966) set the ball rolling for 1955 & beyond, born women. Not only was it about beauty. It also imbibed the spirit of education, courage & wealth back home amidst her Indian sisters.
Women prefer to marry men who earns more than her and still demand equality..Marriage mat karo bhai..So u want men to earn twice than her and still prefer to cook food..pyaar kahe ka pyaar..Why get married man we are not desperate to get married.insulting men has become a trend…Relationship comes with responsibility..there is no love without responsibility…Today women want freedom but no responsibility..Today men are used as cash counter..Women are not getting married fine we are not getting married..raho Akeli..
Ya allah, nowadays its become fashion to insult man or husband!! Ladies do nt want to live with in law's, need freedom..seva bhav to bilkul khatam ho gaya,
I am typing H because you appear humanistic to me
I appreciate your videos
Keep it up❤