Grow Your Hair Past Shoulder Length

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2019
  • What's up loves?!
    Been wondering how to grow your hair past shoulder length? I was stuck at that length for the LONGEST and it is super discouraging to think you're sticking to a healthy hair routine all for your hair to break off.
    Ladies, if you have relaxed hair or texlaxed hair, this will be especially helpful for you. There are so many techniques to grow long hair, but relaxed hair needs some extra TLC.
    Make sure to stick to the end of this video, because here I share my TOP tips to grow your hair fast and how to get over the hurdle to obtaining long healthy hair.
    Leave a comment down below with your war stories, success stories and everything in between!
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    xoxo,
    Lex
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Комментарии • 89

  • @AlexisKimberlyy
    @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +31

    Can you relate to some of these bad habits? No fear! Knowledge is power and we should all be learning from each other! Let me know some of your war stories and success stories in the comments!

    • @marlac7235
      @marlac7235 4 года назад

      D center of my hair is short lk u mentioned. D bottom of my hair is the longest

    • @swittykarendi
      @swittykarendi 4 года назад

      The last one mostly..i never listen to my hair! I should be... also, I need to stop manipulating it.
      Let's see how it goes 🤞🏾

  • @LateshaRenee
    @LateshaRenee 4 года назад +131

    Hair is ALWAYS growing. Products, protective styles, trims, don't grow your hair. They help RETAIN the length. Change your focus to keeping the hair you grow strong and healthy so it all can stay on your head.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 года назад +1

      AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!😇🙏💯💦💢

    • @giod2200
      @giod2200 2 года назад

      You better PREACH!

    • @beverlyjames1332
      @beverlyjames1332 Год назад

      I approve of this comment! 👌🏽

  • @laurac6603
    @laurac6603 4 года назад +79

    Im so happy I find you! Theres not a lot of relaxed youtuber anymore

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +8

      Laura C There really aren’t! I’m so happy we found each other! Thanks for the support love ❤️❤️

  • @user-rm3fc4pd2q
    @user-rm3fc4pd2q 3 года назад +15

    A good way to tell if your hair is moisturized, is if you can “hear” it. Fully moisturized and sealed hair shouldn’t sound crunchy or dry, it should be soft and the strands should slip past each other so they also don’t tangle and break off.

  • @Rohiatou_
    @Rohiatou_ 4 года назад +25

    This really helped because my hair is relaxed but my hair is all different lengths due to breakage

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +7

      Rohiatou sonko Don’t worry babe, I’ve been there and have made the transformation so I know you will too. I would start with a big cut to even out your hair and chop off the damaged ends and then start implementing some of these tips. You got this!! ❤️

  • @sayitloudblcknproud
    @sayitloudblcknproud 4 года назад +12

    I can attest to protective styles! They really do work. I like to do 3 months on, 2 months off and when I'm not wearing crochet braids or twists then my hair is in a bun most times. Oh and I wash every Sunday.

  • @Kealasadiva42
    @Kealasadiva42 4 года назад +33

    I just texlaxed my hair. I love it. I hate how perfect it is 😂

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +3

      OMG!!!!! Yayyyy!!! Congrats to you! Hahahaha, don't hate the perfection, enjoy it! I'm so so happy for you

    • @chiomaezeli3524
      @chiomaezeli3524 4 года назад

      Hi keala...I want to texlax my hair, can you tell me what you used?

  • @ancestorbackwithanewname
    @ancestorbackwithanewname 4 года назад

    I appreciate you. Between the texlax breakdown of the other videos and these hair tips, I just really find them useful fr my hair. Thanks

  • @NatalieMayOfficial
    @NatalieMayOfficial Месяц назад

    Loved this video! Great tips! Thanks so much for sharing xx

  • @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls
    @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls Год назад +1

    why am I so in love with your natural loose ponytail??? I love it so elegant and classy. doing this, the slick back gel look is nice but this here is fabulous. I guess I have developed a new set of eyes for the true beauty of texture hair especially my own lol. you always bring the heat with your content thank you again for another great video.💞💞💞

  • @kloisgooden
    @kloisgooden 4 года назад +1

    Love your videos. Your voice is wonderful to listen to. Your points are great.

  • @WLHMCALLNATURAL
    @WLHMCALLNATURAL 4 года назад +1

    Very informative, thank you

  • @cmm867
    @cmm867 3 года назад

    Your videos are so useful. Great channel!

  • @agnesmwendela5210
    @agnesmwendela5210 4 года назад +1

    Love the video , very informative. What protective Styles did you do in your earlier years of the journey ?

  • @tameikarose
    @tameikarose 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for confirming what I've been doing is working. I thought I was doing something right but I'm no GURU.

  • @currystastykitchen
    @currystastykitchen 4 года назад +3

    So informational. Thanks Sis!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад

      Beatrice Curry Happy you found this helpful!! Thanks for watching ❤️❤️

  • @charlotteclark2207
    @charlotteclark2207 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for your wonderful advice my hair is growing it thinned after I started going through menopause.Right in the front, but I am adamant about having long healthy hair I have been fortunate to have all my life

    • @livinglife10x10
      @livinglife10x10 4 года назад

      Menapause is a bummer! My hair got super coarse and brittle (if that even possibe). I then started massaging my scalp for 15 minutes everyday and using natural castor oil every 3 days and it helped

  • @miavida9536
    @miavida9536 4 года назад +3

    You are beautiful 😍, am starting to texlaxing after all of my life relaxing my hair but no shoulder length 😔, I am related to this caused thank you

  • @deborahthompson5041
    @deborahthompson5041 Год назад

    Very good advice. Beautiful hair. You are correct we can learn from each other. Thank you

  • @TheLeloM
    @TheLeloM 4 года назад +11

    I never noticed how I neglect the middle part of the back of my hair

  • @kloisgooden
    @kloisgooden 4 года назад

    And yes please to demo on detangling!

  • @faithabigael8244
    @faithabigael8244 3 года назад

    You look amazing sis, I envy your hair. Kindly let me know what products you're using and your face is glowing and shining 🥰

  • @bettinaorevil5056
    @bettinaorevil5056 3 года назад

    20 months natural, going to texturize my hair in December

  • @adedeassem
    @adedeassem 4 года назад +3

    Yes please..a video on detangling

  • @mahimaahmed9315
    @mahimaahmed9315 3 года назад

    Yes please do a video of how to detangle hair and what wild tooth comb to use for detangling hair.All wide tooth combs are not the same. I go throgh this all the time when I'm combing my hair,the wide tooth comb pulls and cuts ✂💇 my hair.(My hair be dry, not wet at all.)

  • @wendywandick729
    @wendywandick729 4 года назад +1

    Very beautiful hair I love your hair. 💜💜💜💜💜

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +1

      Wendy Wandick Why thank you love! And thanks for watching! ❤️❤️

  • @1aheron
    @1aheron 4 года назад +11

    I felt personally victimized by tip 3 lmao. These tips are bomb though! 🙌🏽

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад

      Alicia Heron Hahaha well if you did then sis you know what to do 👀😂 Thanks for watching babe!!

    • @renettegordley3493
      @renettegordley3493 4 года назад

      L

  • @gush3645
    @gush3645 4 года назад +27

    Please do a makeup look babe!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +3

      Precious Msipa I gotchu honeyyy 😉❤️

    • @tameikarose
      @tameikarose 4 года назад +1

      I was thinking that. I'm just learning eyeshadow and we are currently rocking the same color

  • @djeynasow8521
    @djeynasow8521 3 года назад +1

    I don’t understand very well english but i trying to know what you saying and it worth☺️
    Ps: you’re so pretty n I really love your hair...hope to get it in a few times😇
    Thx ❤️

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  3 года назад +1

      Thank you my love! You're the sweetest. Thanks for watching!

    • @djeynasow8521
      @djeynasow8521 3 года назад

      @@AlexisKimberlyy thx too for helping us so much ☺️😊❤️

  • @TanzytheglowupG
    @TanzytheglowupG 4 года назад

    Hey beautiful!!! Your videos are helping me thru! Please make more i love your personality!!!! I m having relaxed hair remorse again.i just want to color it blonde but then i cant without risk of dry breakage

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +2

      TanzytheTrophy I’m so happy you’re here!! I can feel your personality too and it’s so sweet. Girl, I will say this. When I chemically processed with the wave nouveau and bleached my hair it was a RAP! Just be careful. Maybe save the blonde for an install or unit? ❤️

    • @TanzytheglowupG
      @TanzytheglowupG 4 года назад

      @@AlexisKimberlyy thats exactly what im doing .i just missed the way color looked when i was natural.i might just get some curly synthetic hair that mimics natural afro and make a crochet wig! That way i can have a natural afro with color. But still keep versatile.i just made a burgundy wig wore it one day lol im back to my texlaxed hair with curly fake pony tail. Color is cool but doinfg it repeatedly to my own hair id be bald. That happened to me in high school.i was natural bleached my hair blonde and same week added relaxer my hair fell out at rootsnothong but scalp i cried no one to blame but me.wore a wig rest of yr then went bald for picture day .yes i was bold!!!! I didnt care .i showed my bullies i didnt care they take my wig off because im not ashamed of whats underneath

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +3

      @@TanzytheglowupG YESS GIRL! Wow, how empowering. I don't think I was that brave back in high school. But LISTEN, if you can withstand that (between the bullying and overall hair challenges), you can overcome so much. And I completely support your versatility with those wigs. Sounds like you're super creative, which is great! I think the wigs are the best solution to maintaining your hair health while getting that color in your life. Good stuff babe!

  • @godlovesyou.3771
    @godlovesyou.3771 4 года назад +2

    God bless your beauty girl

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад

      Flexllex Such a kind comment, thank you! ❤️😘

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 4 года назад +5

    Part it in 4 sections from root to tip,edges,nape,behind ears when applying conditioner..

  • @Meechl
    @Meechl 4 года назад +2

    About 2 years ago I learnt about the LOC method and hair porosity. I love Sheamoisture products and recently started using protein products. I love your hair and this video, both show you know what you’re talking about. Thanks for sharing.

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +1

      Meechl I so appreciate this comment. Thank you, love. I wouldn’t say anything in my videos that haven’t personally worked for me, so I hope to help others through my content! I’m on the hunt for new products. Any shea moisture recommendations?

    • @tameikarose
      @tameikarose 4 года назад

      Same here I did a lot of trial and error and came across my staple products on accident. Lol Carol's daughter and Pantene set with Nairobi. Moisturized light bouncy full hair but then again my hair is thin and fine.

  • @Kongom
    @Kongom 4 года назад

    I really love ur tips, I am a victim of moisturising only the visible/outer parts n neglecting the middle part of hair. What is your hair porosity cz I am low porosity and would like to know the best products to use

    • @pamelamccants2877
      @pamelamccants2877 3 года назад

      I’m low porosity also and I use As I am products. I had to google low porosity hair.

  • @achienglilian6395
    @achienglilian6395 4 года назад

    Which moisturizer do you use dear?

  • @___Victoria_sunny
    @___Victoria_sunny 4 года назад +2

    Good tips!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад

      JA C SA Glad you found this helpful! Thanks for watching!! ❤️❤️

  • @MrsBradley1224
    @MrsBradley1224 4 года назад

    Hey hun! What is your go to moisturizer?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +5

      Marcella Bradley Hey babe! I love the Elasta QP olive oil and mango butter moisturizer 💋❤️

  • @nonyenwosu7072
    @nonyenwosu7072 4 года назад

    What products do you use

  • @m.b.1702
    @m.b.1702 3 года назад +1

    Thank You!! Great tips!😄🎶I have that problem with the upside down u shape (long on both sides & shorter In the middle). I'm gonna be more conscious of the back & nape.

  • @TT-yf5qs
    @TT-yf5qs 4 года назад +13

    I can’t even get TO shoulder length lol

  • @malakali8160
    @malakali8160 4 года назад +4

    U so pritty!!

  • @olivewangui140
    @olivewangui140 3 года назад

    What are good moisturizers that don’t sit on the hair?

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 года назад

      #GRAPESEED IS MY #FAVORITE OIL..NEXT 2 #CASTOROIL!!!😇🙏💯

  • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
    @TheCarnivoreSoprano 4 года назад +5

    I cant get to shoulder length. I have a good routine and I take care of my body. Idk what to do at this point.

    • @Zav369
      @Zav369 3 года назад +1

      Have you tried collagen and hair skin nails capsules? Helps a lot ♥️

    • @sweethartia
      @sweethartia 2 года назад

      Protective style! No relaxers, and make sure you don’t have a vitamin deficiency

  • @sterlngcurls
    @sterlngcurls 4 года назад +3

    How often do you texlax?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +1

      sterlngcurls Hey hun! I texlax about every 12 weeks. Sometimes I go longer but I try to stick to the 12 week mark the best I can. Thanks for watching!! ❤️

  • @CandiOsaka
    @CandiOsaka 4 года назад +3

    You are absolutely stunning and beautiful! Where are you from ?

  • @taytumbraddock8704
    @taytumbraddock8704 2 года назад

    my hair was damaged because i relaxed my hair and when i straightened it i cut off all of them ends that were dry and my hair still feels like there’s damage on the ends for some odd reason

    • @Aphrodite01
      @Aphrodite01 2 года назад

      Get a professional cut & ask the stylist how to develop a healthy hair care routine for your hair type. There may be far more damage than what you see & also if you don’t use professional scissors they will cause more split ends. Once you have a routine down just be consistent. It takes time. Might take about a year or more to recover from the damage and then about 3+ years to focus on growth/length retention.

  • @dinmordinmor2799
    @dinmordinmor2799 2 года назад

    Cute

  • @graciegrace9449
    @graciegrace9449 2 года назад +1

    You are beautiful☺

  • @fishchicken4188
    @fishchicken4188 4 года назад +1

    I have a question, 1 is your hair relaxed or texlaxed? And do you have breakage with texlaxed hair?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 года назад +3

      fish chicken Hey babe! I am texlaxed. It’s still a relaxer but I under-process. I have less breakage with texlaxed hair than I did with relaxed hair, but I do still have trouble areas that I have to give some extra TLC. Thanks for watching 😘

    • @fishchicken4188
      @fishchicken4188 4 года назад

      Thank You for your reply and you are welcome.

  • @michellecudjoe4921
    @michellecudjoe4921 3 года назад

    What are good moisturizers that don’t sit on the hair?