I’m gonna be 100% honest, as a guy that has a pretty high body count and i currently have a gf, the only reason why im with her is because i knew her before dating got hard. If you’re just staring out and have 0 options, dating is not worth it in 2024. Even if women do approach you they’ll still prob end up playing games within a few it will prob go bad. My single friends are fairly attractive and have endless trouble with finding women of substance. Their expectations are only getting higher and more deluded, and everything dating wise is just so saturated now. You could sacrifice your whole life and they’ll still have no loyalty.
Man I remember back in high school there was a girl that used to follow me everywhere after school pet my hair and walk home with me and talk to me whenever I went to 7/11 and one day a guy came up to both of us and asked me if we were dating or were just really good friends I said I think we’re just really good friends cause I didn’t want to make things weird. Looking back 4 years have passed I think she liked me but I was too dense to notice. At least that’s what I think.
@@sub-fivessurvival if guys just keep thinking how to get women and not thinking about other things in life I'm sorry but these people have nothing better to do with their lives 😕
@@sub-fivessurvival so what kind of message he is trying to portrait in the video if he has issues getting women he should do something to change that it's my opinion 😕
i understand guys can feel like the victim. and they feel a lot of shame. but instead, i encourage you to embrace that shame. when you embrace shame, it becomes humility. i am not where i want to be in life, nor am i the ideal good looking man. but despite this, i embrace it, and i try anyway. i’ve found love and happiness, and am still pursuing my goals. when you love yourself despite feeling shameful for what you lack, and accept that shame, then you begin to enjoy life and get closer to where you wanna be without burning out
It's a good mentallity but it's ultimately a cope. You work hard and try to improve every single aspect of your life just to be rejected by 99.9% of women anyway, while Chad gets all the women and work promotions naturally while putting in 0 effort. Life is unfair.
@@Rainer125 i think you’re right actually. life certainly is unfair, and it certainly is a way to look at the brighter side. it will feel like nobody wants you and everyone rejects you. but as someone with life experience, who has been in many bad relationships, who has experienced all of the bad, all of the failure-you have no other option than to choose to look at the brighter side in order to keep moving forward. choosing to look at the brighter side of things isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a strength. it takes a real man to choose to pursue life the way they want despite reality throwing everything at you. to choose to stay fearful and stagnant with reality’s struggles is the trap many people, I included, have chained themselves up with. maybe it is true that 99% of people wouldn’t like you (which is a huge exaggeration) but all you really need in life to be happy is that 1%. :))
@@cuyaCT I am not fine with being perma rejected by 99% of women despite being a top 1% man. I can give you an advice date in third world countries thats were women appreciate you. I am certainly not gonna date in the west anymore.
@@Rainer125 i think that’s great! you know your worth, and if you feel you deserve better, perhaps elsewhere in another country, go out and get it! i met my gf who is from another country as well!
I know how it feels when a girl likes me, but usually it’s one of two things. (1) I don’t find her attractive, or (2) I do find her attractive but I’ve been observing her character from afar and she gets way too friendly with everyone, giving off bicycle vibes. The third possibility, which is way harder to detect, is that the girl is so shy that she makes herself invisible and avoids me, because she likes me.
Something not physical or expressive anyone can do to be more magnetic is to fill yourself with your own energy. Someone grounded in themselves are likely to command attention in a room without a word. I'm not looking for the loudest in the room, I'm looking for who is comfortable with themselves, listening for who read or did something interesting, etc. Connect first, but be someone in which I can connect with. You can't see your own masculinity. Grounded masculinity is naturally attractive. Find that, and you'll find your rizz. Hang in there Again, spitting dimes. Well done.
Women with mental health issues shouldn't be dating. Its very selfish of them. They should focus on fixing their mental problems instead of trying to find someone to do it for them.
Men, u re very young and have real good wisdom about relationships with women. I'm 49 years old, single, no kids and I really think that 40 is the maximum reasonable age to find someone for marriage and build a family. Now, looking my fu ck poor past with low salary and loser I m happy of not having any ties with women and have kids to perpetuate our suffering. I will die alone and peacefully without MIMIMI. I hope u can find someone to have a serious relationship, but looking ur financial and professional situation will be hard to do it. The best way for me to not get crazy and angry and frustrated was GIVING UP from all relationships and live with the rest of my retirement money. Life SUCKS for whom isn't good looking and successful, cause u have to choose SINGLE MOMS or ugly women. Very sad but true.
Im 28. When i was 20/21 almost every girl was into me, or they complimenting me, or when i was on a date, the date told me her friend saw us and they are jealous of me etc. I did a lot of gym, improved my style and didnt really changed anything else. I still look the same, guys much younger than me think im their age. But now when i go to a party, or try to approach a girl im fcking invisible, ugly, or whatever. Wtf happened? This is madness now. Like who those girl expect to date, some kind of influ or hollywood actor? I got some pretty decent money, good IT degree etc. When i was 21 i was fcking broke with part time job on some alcohol store, they didnt care. Well, i had my time but for you fresh young guys i am really sorry. Just to ket you know, like 5/8 years ago it was a LOT easier, even for fcking nerd, they still had theirs nerdy goth/gaming girl. Now gaming girls are fcking streaming or farming onlyfans. Crazy times. (English is not my first language, sry for mistakes)
I'll never let a woman approach me ever again. I'm the one who has to approach not them. If I let her approach me and I fall for it, that means she has the frame and not me. Also they're probably low value unless you're an Adonis and it comes natural for them to approach you. Be vigilant.
Only the top 5-10% of men have women give them any attention the absolute mega majority of men go through life without ever having a woman show any interest, or approach them even once in their entire life. The bottom 80% of men are absolutely invisible get 0 matches on Tinder and have a 99%+ rejection rate when it comes to women.
I'm an asian and western women aint women, men. like they are not women in the first place; that's why those pickup artist advice work. Normal girls in other parts of the world are just normal. Men cannot be perfect. Live your life and stop trying to be perfect for them and get a passport bro
I'm gonna be honest, the videos as of late, have been coming across as a bit "whiney" as of late. Maybe because I'm 32 and I realize the best relationship you can have is with yourself. To young men in their 20s, please, focus on yourself. Build yourself up as a man and live by your own standards. Women ain't everything and dudes that do, more than likely are overly sacrificing themselves for the sake of having a girlfriend and wife. Yet these are the same dudes that end up having their life ruined by the time they reach my age with divorce or being cheated on. Also, you don't need to be a millionaire to attract women. And those who do are more than likely attracting gold diggers. Happiness and health should be every man's priority. Not just chasing or being focused on women. When you put yourself first above everybody and live your life authentically on your own terms, none of these things matter. A woman or partner in general should always compliment your life. Not take away or ruin it. Those are the keepers and you'll especially know if the woman/partner you're wife, compliments your lifestyle which is icing on the cake. If a woman wanna play games, I'd just play my Playstation instead of my emotions/wallet. Because eventually there will be one who would actually wanna join me for some actual games.. Just my 2 cents.
I did all I could to bring the best out of my authentic badass self to the table to countless women throughout my early 20s in the USA dating scene and still haven’t gotten a real gf. I am learning as much as I can while surviving to deal with my unmet intimate needs as a human.
the fact that this is even a video is so funny. it’s not difficult to speak to women as a guy. if you grow up with sisters, or any other type of female figure in your life you would know how to talk to women. it’s not rocket science.
@@NsjsDndjjd That hardly matters when a lot of guys actually are unattractive (as in, even you can see most of them are very bad looking if I were to show you examples)
@@teaadvice4996 If only being 6ft+ could save this one neighbor I have lol Dude has absolutely no positive facial features & has one of the ugliest eye areas I have ever seen.
I just' don't understand...why all these guys got a car and they, drive 24 hours a week.all of them could have gotten a women off the streets.instead of complaining life is so hard. at least they can see the world while loser walk all they're life.
Well what do you think whats more important having a car or having somebody i mean not sure if all people can afford both because i had to study in trade school all i got paid while i was there is like from 20 to 30 euros a month and i only had whatever my parents gave me so they bought me a car but that makes me and my parents struggle i was student now unemployed i dont get anything at this time but having gf cost if your a man you wont get gf when your so broke they want entertainment travelling going to restaurants but i cant afford that my parents bought me car but didin't gave money to get a girlfriend having a car had to be good enough for me
Sounds like you lack experience you either put in the work or don't. This is a city issue where money having excessive amounts of money is more common. I've lived in cities and rural areas. Rural is easier the farm girls are great. All you have to do is work hard and present yourself in a respectable manner.
@@addisonsavage4297 It's a massive issue. Extrovert women have lots of options and know it. But you'll occasionally meet a homebody that doesnt want or need much. The only thing is sometimes they are so used to being alone they dont want to try and change that.
@@centipedekid9824I live in Southwest Florida and there is this one town I won't even bother looking in when I want a girlfriend again because in this particular town a girl is either settling down already or doesn't want a boyfriend at all.
Tch have super personality have super in every aspect it is just annoying. Single life seems better option than going for women. Tired of this dating crap.
any rich in famous male.can have sex with her then bring her right back to you’re house 🏠 and you would never know that she cheated on you while you were at work.stop being delusional.
And even when you are lucky the dating pool isn't great, if had something with girls who, who cheat, who don't know what thy want , who are in a open relationship, tons of mental issues ....
gentlemen, i'll do it, i will date u. gentlemen, find God, he will bring u the right woman. u dont just want to date any woman. gentlemen, its hard to find a man too.
I’m gonna be 100% honest, as a guy that has a pretty high body count and i currently have a gf, the only reason why im with her is because i knew her before dating got hard. If you’re just staring out and have 0 options, dating is not worth it in 2024. Even if women do approach you they’ll still prob end up playing games within a few it will prob go bad. My single friends are fairly attractive and have endless trouble with finding women of substance. Their expectations are only getting higher and more deluded, and everything dating wise is just so saturated now. You could sacrifice your whole life and they’ll still have no loyalty.
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Man I remember back in high school there was a girl that used to follow me everywhere after school pet my hair and walk home with me and talk to me whenever I went to 7/11 and one day a guy came up to both of us and asked me if we were dating or were just really good friends I said I think we’re just really good friends cause I didn’t want to make things weird. Looking back 4 years have passed I think she liked me but I was too dense to notice. At least that’s what I think.
What do you about her now?
Tall, handsome, and wealthy is what get women.
yup
Stop worrying about women live your life and go and have fun life is not just about other people.😅
You’re not wrong but that’s still a cope.
@@sub-fivessurvival if guys just keep thinking how to get women and not thinking about other things in life I'm sorry but these people have nothing better to do with their lives 😕
@@Arqadeshadow That’s pretty much saying guys who do nothing BUT get women have nothing better to do with their lives. It’s a COPE
@@sub-fivessurvival so what kind of message he is trying to portrait in the video if he has issues getting women he should do something to change that it's my opinion 😕
@@sub-fivessurvival he drives 24 hours a day, like he can't get a women in the streets..make him feel a little better. omg
i understand guys can feel like the victim. and they feel a lot of shame. but instead, i encourage you to embrace that shame. when you embrace shame, it becomes humility. i am not where i want to be in life, nor am i the ideal good looking man. but despite this, i embrace it, and i try anyway. i’ve found love and happiness, and am still pursuing my goals. when you love yourself despite feeling shameful for what you lack, and accept that shame, then you begin to enjoy life and get closer to where you wanna be without burning out
Such an underrated comment
It's a good mentallity but it's ultimately a cope. You work hard and try to improve every single aspect of your life just to be rejected by 99.9% of women anyway, while Chad gets all the women and work promotions naturally while putting in 0 effort. Life is unfair.
@@Rainer125 i think you’re right actually. life certainly is unfair, and it certainly is a way to look at the brighter side. it will feel like nobody wants you and everyone rejects you. but as someone with life experience, who has been in many bad relationships, who has experienced all of the bad, all of the failure-you have no other option than to choose to look at the brighter side in order to keep moving forward. choosing to look at the brighter side of things isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a strength. it takes a real man to choose to pursue life the way they want despite reality throwing everything at you. to choose to stay fearful and stagnant with reality’s struggles is the trap many people, I included, have chained themselves up with. maybe it is true that 99% of people wouldn’t like you (which is a huge exaggeration) but all you really need in life to be happy is that 1%. :))
@@cuyaCT I am not fine with being perma rejected by 99% of women despite being a top 1% man. I can give you an advice date in third world countries thats were women appreciate you. I am certainly not gonna date in the west anymore.
@@Rainer125 i think that’s great! you know your worth, and if you feel you deserve better, perhaps elsewhere in another country, go out and get it! i met my gf who is from another country as well!
I know how it feels when a girl likes me, but usually it’s one of two things. (1) I don’t find her attractive, or (2) I do find her attractive but I’ve been observing her character from afar and she gets way too friendly with everyone, giving off bicycle vibes. The third possibility, which is way harder to detect, is that the girl is so shy that she makes herself invisible and avoids me, because she likes me.
There is women that will love you the way you are trust me
Stop focusing on all that negativities unless you wanna scare off any possible opportunities near you. Fortunately you are still young! Good luck!
Something not physical or expressive anyone can do to be more magnetic is to fill yourself with your own energy. Someone grounded in themselves are likely to command attention in a room without a word.
I'm not looking for the loudest in the room, I'm looking for who is comfortable with themselves, listening for who read or did something interesting, etc. Connect first, but be someone in which I can connect with.
You can't see your own masculinity. Grounded masculinity is naturally attractive. Find that, and you'll find your rizz. Hang in there
Again, spitting dimes. Well done.
dude ive dated so many woman and most are damaged and no matter how good you are its never enough
It doesn't mean the rest of the men out here have to give up. But if they do give up then more power to them 😂
damaged because of past relationships?
@@grandiosa86 from life and everything in it. So yes including relationships. But so are men !
Women with mental health issues shouldn't be dating. Its very selfish of them. They should focus on fixing their mental problems instead of trying to find someone to do it for them.
Dating women who are not working on themselves or interested in growth are more likely to drain you with need. Same with guys or whomever you're into.
Maybe one day he'll look into the camera.
🤭
@@YTguySmithy-lk6go You're funny 🤭
@YTguySmithy-lk6go Asians have enough trouble driving as it is. Some even tape their eyes open to increase situational awareness.
Men, u re very young and have real good wisdom about relationships with women. I'm 49 years old, single, no kids and I really think that 40 is the maximum reasonable age to find someone for marriage and build a family. Now, looking my fu ck poor past with low salary and loser I m happy of not having any ties with women and have kids to perpetuate our suffering. I will die alone and peacefully without MIMIMI. I hope u can find someone to have a serious relationship, but looking ur financial and professional situation will be hard to do it. The best way for me to not get crazy and angry and frustrated was GIVING UP from all relationships and live with the rest of my retirement money. Life SUCKS for whom isn't good looking and successful, cause u have to choose SINGLE MOMS or ugly women. Very sad but true.
It's not easy to find a girlfriend It's hard to find somebody I just give up and throwing a towel.
Why ?
@@zcorpalpha2462 Not worth it most of the time.
you must work in your inner self
@@jorgea4030you too sir
Theres more to life than relationships. Videogames and porn is better than dating.
It never began for puacells
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Just have fun and don't tolerate disrespect. They'll come to you.
Im 28. When i was 20/21 almost every girl was into me, or they complimenting me, or when i was on a date, the date told me her friend saw us and they are jealous of me etc. I did a lot of gym, improved my style and didnt really changed anything else. I still look the same, guys much younger than me think im their age. But now when i go to a party, or try to approach a girl im fcking invisible, ugly, or whatever. Wtf happened? This is madness now. Like who those girl expect to date, some kind of influ or hollywood actor? I got some pretty decent money, good IT degree etc. When i was 21 i was fcking broke with part time job on some alcohol store, they didnt care. Well, i had my time but for you fresh young guys i am really sorry. Just to ket you know, like 5/8 years ago it was a LOT easier, even for fcking nerd, they still had theirs nerdy goth/gaming girl. Now gaming girls are fcking streaming or farming onlyfans. Crazy times. (English is not my first language, sry for mistakes)
I'll never let a woman approach me ever again. I'm the one who has to approach not them. If I let her approach me and I fall for it, that means she has the frame and not me. Also they're probably low value unless you're an Adonis and it comes natural for them to approach you. Be vigilant.
Story of my life
So put it in 1,000,000 to 1 effort just to get a kernel of companionship. Why?
Unless you're Elvis Presley in his prime or the Beatles. Or Michael Jackson or Leonardo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt.
Damn, by that logic nobody would be in relationships. Sounds like excuses to me.
@@jmorales653966% of young men are single and the gap is growing
According to this logic, Brad Pitt wouldn't be divorced and his daughter wouldn't try to drop his name.
@@eternal_learner9943yup, even Tom Cruise's daughter drop her last name too.. 😅
is this true that most men dont get any attention? i feel like the men i know or am friends with have plenty of females
This is just RUclips it’s full of incels
@@Gisselemartinez-s6k okay thank you!
Only the top 5-10% of men have women give them any attention the absolute mega majority of men go through life without ever having a woman show any interest, or approach them even once in their entire life. The bottom 80% of men are absolutely invisible get 0 matches on Tinder and have a 99%+ rejection rate when it comes to women.
It's true. The average guy is starved of attention.
More than 60% of men are single and are completely invisible and can't get dates at all.
I'm an asian and western women aint women, men. like they are not women in the first place; that's why those pickup artist advice work. Normal girls in other parts of the world are just normal. Men cannot be perfect. Live your life and stop trying to be perfect for them and get a passport bro
I'm gonna be honest, the videos as of late, have been coming across as a bit "whiney" as of late.
Maybe because I'm 32 and I realize the best relationship you can have is with yourself.
To young men in their 20s, please, focus on yourself. Build yourself up as a man and live by your own standards.
Women ain't everything and dudes that do, more than likely are overly sacrificing themselves for the sake of having a girlfriend and wife. Yet these are the same dudes that end up having their life ruined by the time they reach my age with divorce or being cheated on.
Also, you don't need to be a millionaire to attract women. And those who do are more than likely attracting gold diggers.
Happiness and health should be every man's priority. Not just chasing or being focused on women.
When you put yourself first above everybody and live your life authentically on your own terms, none of these things matter.
A woman or partner in general should always compliment your life. Not take away or ruin it.
Those are the keepers and you'll especially know if the woman/partner you're wife, compliments your lifestyle which is icing on the cake.
If a woman wanna play games, I'd just play my Playstation instead of my emotions/wallet.
Because eventually there will be one who would actually wanna join me for some actual games..
Just my 2 cents.
Disagree with everything you said in a respectful way.
Facts.
I like your outlook on life
@@AiyunMusic I like eating pancakes 🥞
@@christiansnaturestudio6599 Enjoy your pancakes then, bon appétit 🥞
You repeated yourself lots of times just saying.
Woman do approach and go out there way to talk to you. Be yourself find your swag and work on yourself mentally,spiritually also physically.
Be the best version of yourself, if you not attractive then you aint getting women.
I did all I could to bring the best out of my authentic badass self to the table to countless women throughout my early 20s in the USA dating scene and still haven’t gotten a real gf. I am learning as much as I can while surviving to deal with my unmet intimate needs as a human.
You will meet alot of those NPCs and will gonna hear “OhhHh JuSt bE iNtImAtE wItH yOuRsELf bRo”
Thank you!
Just focus on yourself get stronger in the gym, you're a handsome guy, clear skin. style your hair you got a mop. Stop comparing yourself.
"You got a mop."
😂
Brutal but funny.
I don't think he's talking about himself. He's just giving out his opinions to his public. I'm pretty sure he knows he's gorgeous
That’s the style for most kids these days and it works for them lol. But since he’s Asian maybe a middle part would be better idk
You're are overthinking women, and all you're saying have already been dissected by hoe_math.
This is a BlacPill channel now 😂
Always has been this guy is depressed
@@centipedekid9824Dude obviously needs help and should sort it out.
Technically this is Red pill, not Black pill.
Dude wimen are complicated creatures
the fact that this is even a video is so funny. it’s not difficult to speak to women as a guy. if you grow up with sisters, or any other type of female figure in your life you would know how to talk to women. it’s not rocket science.
How hes gonna talk to women if all women are after the 10% precent of dudes
It's difficult if you aren't attractive.
@@NsjsDndjjd That hardly matters when a lot of guys actually are unattractive (as in, even you can see most of them are very bad looking if I were to show you examples)
@@secondone3249height > looks
@@teaadvice4996 If only being 6ft+ could save this one neighbor I have lol
Dude has absolutely no positive facial features & has one of the ugliest eye areas I have ever seen.
It’s not ladylike for a female to approach so she won’t be the one that’s going on chemistry.
There are plenty of women who aren't ladylike and don't approach, and I'd rather they did knowing the chemistry is rockin'.
I just' don't understand...why all these guys got a car and they, drive 24 hours a week.all of them could have gotten a women off the streets.instead of complaining life is so hard. at least they can see the world while loser walk all they're life.
Well what do you think whats more important having a car or having somebody i mean not sure if all people can afford both because i had to study in trade school all i got paid while i was there is like from 20 to 30 euros a month and i only had whatever my parents gave me so they bought me a car but that makes me and my parents struggle i was student now unemployed i dont get anything at this time but having gf cost if your a man you wont get gf when your so broke they want entertainment travelling going to restaurants but i cant afford that my parents bought me car but didin't gave money to get a girlfriend having a car had to be good enough for me
@@202-u3d just get a hook in the streets drive to the nicer side in town and stop being a loser.u can drive anywhere u want.like the strip club.
Bro women are competing for the 10% of guys its over accept it
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are you talking to your steering wheel
besides that i can relate great video
He’s just locked in
Sounds like you lack experience you either put in the work or don't. This is a city issue where money having excessive amounts of money is more common. I've lived in cities and rural areas. Rural is easier the farm girls are great. All you have to do is work hard and present yourself in a respectable manner.
There is no way I could live in a city. Too much competition.
@@addisonsavage4297 It's a massive issue. Extrovert women have lots of options and know it. But you'll occasionally meet a homebody that doesnt want or need much. The only thing is sometimes they are so used to being alone they dont want to try and change that.
@@centipedekid9824I live in Southwest Florida and there is this one town I won't even bother looking in when I want a girlfriend again because in this particular town a girl is either settling down already or doesn't want a boyfriend at all.
@@centipedekid9824 I always have much better luck in the larger towns or the small cities.
Tch have super personality have super in every aspect it is just annoying. Single life seems better option than going for women. Tired of this dating crap.
what percent for are men making 8 figs and living a lavish lifestyle lol. be realistic
most women just want a man that has a lavish lifestyle.
@@leontaecoleman3644 wont doesnt. easier life
I got a women ❤😂
Not that complicated
any rich in famous male.can have sex with her then bring her right back to you’re house 🏠 and you would never know that she cheated on you while you were at work.stop being delusional.
What kind?
Not complicated for attractive men.
If she's fat and obese sure
Hes right but hes wrong ! Dont let that go over yall head 😉 😊
Do practice dating with female acquaintances.
And even when you are lucky the dating pool isn't great, if had something with girls who, who cheat, who don't know what thy want , who are in a open relationship, tons of mental issues ....
I think this is called make pick me.
gentlemen, i'll do it, i will date u. gentlemen, find God, he will bring u the right woman. u dont just want to date any woman. gentlemen, its hard to find a man too.
your cute
Chicken nuggets
You seem wise for your age ❤
Grow up kiddo
You too baby boi
How many Subscribers you got again?
Cope
He more mature than you.
He got mental health issues he is fighting his thoughts young warrior 🕊️👊💪🫶🏼✌🏻