Greatest things humanity has produced has indeed came from negative emotions, loneliness and sadness, including my perma ban on league. Blessing in disguise 💯
yeppp during covid i was suppa depressed but that shit caused me to loose weight. so i became skinny. now ive been building muscle & have never felt better
I'd say it's good to learn detachment, and at the same time, Being honest with myself, I craved intimacy and closeness, it's normal to feel that - even if finding it is difficult.
I believe that dismissing the second chance actually was a good decision. It is called self love and self respect. If she was really into you and had respect, she proved that to you the upcoming days. The thing is most of the time their excuses are not valid. So don't be so accessible to girls who cancelled the first date.
It’s a different level of comfort to know that you’re not alone and others feel the same way you do I hope you and everyone else in the world gets the love they deserve ❤
@@necianuni you're right. And it seems so common now for men to experience difficulty when it comes to dating. Women have too many options where as men have not enough.
I felt the same way lately. It's better now. I'm cultivating my passions, rather than desperately looking for someone else. I felt like I was getting a big hug watching this video. u have it, keep going!💗
The sad truth is that most guys are lonely because THEY CHOOSE to sit inside every evening watching netflix, playing computer games, youtube and doomscrolling. Friendships are made outside of your house and they are truly built by regular and consistent experience together in person
Bro I am currently in a situation - where I have a crush on an ex-colleague and I regret every single day that I have not asked her out or attempted to get more close - i genuinely felt that i found someone that can be a suitable partner for me in the long-term. I tried even connecting on social media and took a step far to message request here to get a conversation going - she did not even respond nor acknowledge the message , I waited and waited and started to develop negative and lonely thoughts now currently I am taking a break from social media to try and move on from the person and try to see it as a lesson. Good video man.
I have no choice but to be lonely. I'm Goth, I dress differently and although I'd say I'm a pretty cool and chill person it doesn't matter because people can't relate. I didn't know you had to relate aesthetic and music wise to be friends with someone... I thought other factors played a role.. like personality. I am watching this video because I'm 29, I've been lonely since I was 14. I look younger than my age. 20-25.. I hate the loneliness but when you choose to express yourself, you get ostracized.. I'm attractive, artistic, and funny but people don't know anything about me because they don't give me a chance. I already accepted my fate.. I have to sit on the sidelines and watch everyone have the life I want. Friends, love, dates, relationships and etc..
You don't have to fix yourself in a box. I too once believed I'm a loner. Had only a bunch of friends in college(with whom i talked occassionally) and avoided opposite gender like a plague. This only reinforced my beliefs about myself. What helped me was just going out and meeting people in tech events and having something to talk about. You don't have to be like this. Peace.
I'm glad to hear you say good things about yourself, I find that hard sometimes. I think there is definitely a game to be played when meeting partners, but there's a balance, you must also express yourself, or there'll be no authenticity and you won't connect. Why do you think people don't give you a chance?
Every town/city has at least some sort of goth community...usually through music gigs. Genuinly feel sorry if youv not even attempted to go to them regularly.
Your a good story teller man. I have a similar story except i never got a second chance with the girl. Its crazy when you run into the first girl in your life that likes you as much as much as you like her.
honestly i dont need anything i am fine but i just want to focus on my career i am single from since i was born never had any relationship i was always alone too but i dont expect anything from anyone so im happy now in my little space with good friends but i remember i was desperate for so many things but i stoped chasing and now i just want to focus on my career and goals and people around me without expecting anything in return 😇
The reality is that not only are psychedelics not bad, as they are stigmatized to be, but they are actually 180 degrees opposite. They're not just neutral; they're amazing, and they are very important for the development of the human race.
It's really tough out there now for guys. Trying to date is just disappointing the games women play. They just let you down. I met my first girlfriend when I was at uni aged 18. We were in the same hall. She started bringing this guy round whenever she came to see me. She said he was "just a friend" I found out on my birthday down the pub in front of all my mates that she was cheating on me with him. It took me years to realise the impact this has had on me. I've chosen not to date from now on. I'm comfortable with being alone. I'm not lonely. I'm happier and safer this way.
It's tough for sure mate, sorry to hear about your experiences - pretty brutal to find that out with mates at a pub. The more you explore the impact it had on you, the less influence it'll have. I hope you were able to relate to my story bro
@SolomonDarbey I was able to relate to it as I'm sure a lot of guys will especially the bit about the girl bringing her friends along. Always a bad idea in my experience in case some other guy (or girl) starts trying to interfere. Had too many of those instances when I was dating. Nightmare. I think the direction we are moving in society is bad. Too many guys are being left behind and feeling powerless. That needs addressing not empowering women nonsense
@@Liam-m3x6d As much as I agree it's hard to navigate, especially as a shy guy, I really hoped to show that it was MY reaction to the situation, that was holding me back. As soon as I was able to accept how lonely I felt, my motivation to go out and 'make things happen' literally doubled.
@SolomonDarbey I know what you mean. In your case, maybe it was that you needed to accept loneliness. In my case, it was that I let her bring this guy in when I should have said no but I was only 18 at the time I didn't understand what she was doing and how bad it was
@@Liam-m3x6d That's fair bro, I think we both know as soon as she even asked to bring him, it was probably over - glad you came to realise that even if it was through an unfortunate way :/
Subbed, good content bro. I just wanted to comment on the girl that stood you up. I think you did the right thing for saying no the 2nd time. She scheduled a date with you and went with her friends at the same time anyways? Sounds like she planned to be late or to ditch you. Meh man, kinda disrespectful.
I think you might be right, it's just at the time I wanted to go, even for the chance but I was just to embarrassed to face the situation. Thanks for the love bro
Hey man, love the content just dropped a sub and was wondering if you would tell a story of my own experiences that I have had and need to get off of my chest and get a lot of hate for. Please reply if this would interest you. Many thanks
Bro dodged a bullet, it's never good to go by a woman's whims. Even though you might've got some temporary pleasure from her, it would've ended up leaving you worse, because let's be honest, she wasn't much more than entertainment and maybe something "to do" in the mean time. Jesus Christ is the Way bro, even if you feel lonely or bored, Jesus will fulfill you in life and in the afterlife.
Bro I clicked on this video as soon as I read the caption it's fkn hilarious. Anyways same man same, I cured me loneliness by smoking ciggs that's how I cope and working 24/7 lol
nah bro this aint it, like youre not embracing being lonely, youre embracing the simplest most braindead way of living this life youve been given. Shutting yourself off from anything remotely negative is incredibly childish, like putting your hand in front of your face and pretending the world doesnt exist. YOU have to grow up. And it is on YOU to do that, even if its not the easiest path Seen a bit of your channel and it seems like you have dug yourself a pit, and you need other people in your life to help you out of there Hope you get the help you need❤🩹 and dont give up on yourself
I explained just after story #2 how things went differently after I sat with the emotion without distractions! It was painful but life-changing. Thanks for the love brother ❤️
Greatest things humanity has produced has indeed came from negative emotions, loneliness and sadness, including my perma ban on league. Blessing in disguise 💯
Hahahaha I relate to this hard bro
I need a war thunder perm ban
yeppp during covid i was suppa depressed
but that shit caused me to loose weight. so i became skinny. now ive been building muscle & have never felt better
Feeling like an idiot is something i really understand.
Now I am trying my best to not be attached to people and learn how to leave my life alone.
I'd say it's good to learn detachment, and at the same time, Being honest with myself, I craved intimacy and closeness, it's normal to feel that - even if finding it is difficult.
I believe that dismissing the second chance actually was a good decision. It is called self love and self respect. If she was really into you and had respect, she proved that to you the upcoming days.
The thing is most of the time their excuses are not valid. So don't be so accessible to girls who cancelled the first date.
don’t usually watch smaller creators, but you have the character to be something big keep it up man respect
I really appreciate the love bro, thanks!!
It’s a different level of comfort to know that you’re not alone and others feel the same way you do I hope you and everyone else in the world gets the love they deserve ❤
Totally agreed, I hope people relate to the vulnerability and realise that these types of experiences are normal!
@@necianuni you're right. And it seems so common now for men to experience difficulty when it comes to dating. Women have too many options where as men have not enough.
I felt the same way lately. It's better now. I'm cultivating my passions, rather than desperately looking for someone else. I felt like I was getting a big hug watching this video. u have it, keep going!💗
" I said no and then played LoL until 5 a.m " bro you are so real for this one xD
The sad truth is that most guys are lonely because THEY CHOOSE to sit inside every evening watching netflix, playing computer games, youtube and doomscrolling.
Friendships are made outside of your house and they are truly built by regular and consistent experience together in person
remember us when you’re famous bro
You really have a gift for storytelling, this channel is for sure growing
Trying to improve something every video, really tried to paint a picture with this one, so I'm glad you enjoyed it bro
Bro I am currently in a situation - where I have a crush on an ex-colleague and I regret every single day that I have not asked her out or attempted to get more close - i genuinely felt that i found someone that can be a suitable partner for me in the long-term. I tried even connecting on social media and took a step far to message request here to get a conversation going - she did not even respond nor acknowledge the message , I waited and waited and started to develop negative and lonely thoughts now currently I am taking a break from social media to try and move on from the person and try to see it as a lesson. Good video man.
Thanks brother. I needed this.
I'll no longer distract myself by daydreaming.
Subbed!
You're welcome, please report back how you find things when you distract yourself less, I'd love to know :)
Nmm how did it go :3?
I have no choice but to be lonely. I'm Goth, I dress differently and although I'd say I'm a pretty cool and chill person it doesn't matter because people can't relate. I didn't know you had to relate aesthetic and music wise to be friends with someone... I thought other factors played a role.. like personality. I am watching this video because I'm 29, I've been lonely since I was 14. I look younger than my age. 20-25.. I hate the loneliness but when you choose to express yourself, you get ostracized.. I'm attractive, artistic, and funny but people don't know anything about me because they don't give me a chance. I already accepted my fate.. I have to sit on the sidelines and watch everyone have the life I want. Friends, love, dates, relationships and etc..
You don't have to fix yourself in a box. I too once believed I'm a loner. Had only a bunch of friends in college(with whom i talked occassionally) and avoided opposite gender like a plague. This only reinforced my beliefs about myself.
What helped me was just going out and meeting people in tech events and having something to talk about. You don't have to be like this.
Peace.
You are me and I am you.
@@akshay-kumar-007 I tried all of that.. but thanks, peace.
I'm glad to hear you say good things about yourself, I find that hard sometimes. I think there is definitely a game to be played when meeting partners, but there's a balance, you must also express yourself, or there'll be no authenticity and you won't connect.
Why do you think people don't give you a chance?
Every town/city has at least some sort of goth community...usually through music gigs. Genuinly feel sorry if youv not even attempted to go to them regularly.
Honestly speaking I felt you had self-respect saying no. I was not expecting that the first story
I'm a very indecisive person by nature so this video was great. Last story made me smile haha. Much love man 🫶
honestly one of the best videos I've seen in a while, so real bro
I like the RuneScape music. I noticed that!
Yes bro!! ❤️
Same, ahahaha.
@@SolomonDarbey What title is used here? :D
Your a good story teller man. I have a similar story except i never got a second chance with the girl. Its crazy when you run into the first girl in your life that likes you as much as much as you like her.
this is on track to blow up, thank you for telling your story and sharing a lesson you've learnt
Honestly getting 500 views feels like I've blown up already, can barely believe thousands have listened to it bro. Thanks!!
really good advice and was impressed with the video quality ❣
Thanks for the love bro, definitely my fav vid so far
Significantly improved production 👏 🎉
Keep speaking from your heart 'bro'!!!!
Glad you liked it!! ❤️
lovely watch from big bro after a long day at work.
That software ain't gonna sell itself, Ty bro ❤️
honestly i dont need anything i am fine but i just want to focus on my career i am single from since i was born never had any relationship i was always alone too but i dont expect anything from anyone so im happy now in my little space with good friends but i remember i was desperate for so many things but i stoped chasing and now i just want to focus on my career and goals and people around me without expecting anything in return 😇
I feel you ,this is so touching ❤
Outstanding video and awareness
You're wisdom is transforming my life 🎉❤
Layed the game down haha, I like it, great video with immaculate production.
Thanks, definitely levelled up the editing on this one!! ❤️
hey man thanks for sharing it. Didn't finished the video yet but I'm here just laughing cause I'm literally playing lol and is almost 4am
Hahaha we are one and the same Mr Brogotbonkers
The reality is that not only are psychedelics not bad, as they are stigmatized to be, but they are actually 180 degrees opposite. They're not just neutral; they're amazing, and they are very important for the development of the human race.
6:10 I cried at this point. Inspirational yet so sad. Appreciate your video
thank you.
It's really tough out there now for guys. Trying to date is just disappointing the games women play. They just let you down.
I met my first girlfriend when I was at uni aged 18. We were in the same hall. She started bringing this guy round whenever she came to see me. She said he was "just a friend" I found out on my birthday down the pub in front of all my mates that she was cheating on me with him. It took me years to realise the impact this has had on me. I've chosen not to date from now on. I'm comfortable with being alone. I'm not lonely. I'm happier and safer this way.
It's tough for sure mate, sorry to hear about your experiences - pretty brutal to find that out with mates at a pub.
The more you explore the impact it had on you, the less influence it'll have. I hope you were able to relate to my story bro
@SolomonDarbey I was able to relate to it as I'm sure a lot of guys will especially the bit about the girl bringing her friends along. Always a bad idea in my experience in case some other guy (or girl) starts trying to interfere. Had too many of those instances when I was dating. Nightmare. I think the direction we are moving in society is bad. Too many guys are being left behind and feeling powerless. That needs addressing not empowering women nonsense
@@Liam-m3x6d As much as I agree it's hard to navigate, especially as a shy guy, I really hoped to show that it was MY reaction to the situation, that was holding me back. As soon as I was able to accept how lonely I felt, my motivation to go out and 'make things happen' literally doubled.
@SolomonDarbey I know what you mean. In your case, maybe it was that you needed to accept loneliness. In my case, it was that I let her bring this guy in when I should have said no but I was only 18 at the time I didn't understand what she was doing and how bad it was
@@Liam-m3x6d That's fair bro, I think we both know as soon as she even asked to bring him, it was probably over - glad you came to realise that even if it was through an unfortunate way :/
Hi, i really liked the song in the video, can you tell me the name?
Ha runesscapes was the days
Subbed, good content bro. I just wanted to comment on the girl that stood you up. I think you did the right thing for saying no the 2nd time. She scheduled a date with you and went with her friends at the same time anyways? Sounds like she planned to be late or to ditch you. Meh man, kinda disrespectful.
I think you might be right, it's just at the time I wanted to go, even for the chance but I was just to embarrassed to face the situation.
Thanks for the love bro
Proud of u man 👏
Thank you brother 👋🏽
Hey its your 100th Sub . Amazing content brother❤
Thanks for the love brother!!
Hey man, love the content just dropped a sub and was wondering if you would tell a story of my own experiences that I have had and need to get off of my chest and get a lot of hate for. Please reply if this would interest you. Many thanks
Hey bro, reach out to me - I'll see how I can help you. Instagram: solomondarbey
I like being Alone and Ignore Girls
so cool bro. Must be fun
so sigma🤑🤑
I liked being alone, but being honest with myself it was too much, I was desperate for romance. I just didn't know (at the time) how to make it happen
Bro dodged a bullet, it's never good to go by a woman's whims. Even though you might've got some temporary pleasure from her, it would've ended up leaving you worse, because let's be honest, she wasn't much more than entertainment and maybe something "to do" in the mean time. Jesus Christ is the Way bro, even if you feel lonely or bored, Jesus will fulfill you in life and in the afterlife.
Bro your unwise what helps you in your own mentally ill childish brain doesnt mean it will help the next person
Love you
Hope you liked the vid :)
@SolomonDarbey i diddd im going through the same rn I needed this
Do you have socials we can follow you on! Great video :)
Weirdly connected with your story even though the incidents and context was different from mine
Bro I clicked on this video as soon as I read the caption it's fkn hilarious. Anyways same man same, I cured me loneliness by smoking ciggs that's how I cope and working 24/7 lol
and how exactly did you get laid?
so did you two get together?
Damn your not a bad looking guy if you struggle getting girls then alot of us are doomed lol
nah bro this aint it, like youre not embracing being lonely, youre embracing the simplest most braindead way of living this life youve been given. Shutting yourself off from anything remotely negative is incredibly childish, like putting your hand in front of your face and pretending the world doesnt exist. YOU have to grow up. And it is on YOU to do that, even if its not the easiest path
Seen a bit of your channel and it seems like you have dug yourself a pit, and you need other people in your life to help you out of there
Hope you get the help you need❤🩹 and dont give up on yourself
I explained just after story #2 how things went differently after I sat with the emotion without distractions! It was painful but life-changing.
Thanks for the love brother ❤️