6 Quick ways to Recognize Gaslighting and What to Do About It

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  • Опубликовано: 30 окт 2022
  • Gaslighting occurs in more relationships than you realise. Are you dating a gaslighter??
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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Год назад +13

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

  • @prosperkwakugah1926
    @prosperkwakugah1926 Год назад +4

    You've spoken to me directly. This is exactly what I'm going through in my relationship right now.

    • @CDRobbie
      @CDRobbie Год назад

      Run.

    • @glennstone9847
      @glennstone9847 Год назад +2

      I am going through the same problem. My so called partner is a pathetic gaslighter. She doesn't see anything wrong in whatever she does. She made me go through PTSD with her actions and frustrating words.. is time to employ the solution addressed in your video. Thank you Jessica.

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Год назад +5

    Yes I've experienced gaslighting from a family member during COVID lockdown and previously from an ex girlfriend several years ago,not good for mental health 🤯I'm pretty sure the family member has NPD (narssisistic personality disorder)but it look a long time to realise this so videos like this Jess are very helpful especially as many ppl have never heard of it, thankfully I'm feeling much better these days after ending contact with both,thanks Jessica,keep spreading the word ☺️👍xx

  • @shernettgreen1624
    @shernettgreen1624 Год назад +1

    Yes, I have. The fact that I know that I'm being gaslighted, I leave the situation, because I'm not allowing anyone to cause me to second guess myself. Nope!!!!

  • @Expensive-op6pn
    @Expensive-op6pn Год назад +1

    Awesome video. God richly bless you for this. A lot of people are victims and they don’t even know it so this is very eye opening.

  • @lewinskyadams7582
    @lewinskyadams7582 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the emphasis on Self care, this has really come at a critical moment in my relationship. Have decided to take a break from the relationship as we chart our way forward.🥰

  • @fitforlifepft1
    @fitforlifepft1 Год назад +9

    Pour GAS on YOUR Heart’s GOALS, and LIGHT the FIRE 🔥 of the DREAMS YOU HAVE INSIDE……When you don’t, THAT GAS AND LIGHT WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU!!!

    • @okothisack4680
      @okothisack4680 Год назад

      The good thing at the right time, thank you for this.

  • @jerryogen3426
    @jerryogen3426 Год назад

    I think I was gaslit for over a year! This is really going to change my life. I am downloading this one. I truly love her. I am only hoping this ideas work for us. Thank you so much Jessica

  • @africanlastmarketeer7557
    @africanlastmarketeer7557 Год назад +3

    You are my relationship diary,I am a better man.

  • @kinibernard9307
    @kinibernard9307 Год назад +1

    Thanks Jessica this video really gave me insight into what I was going I clearly question myself all the time thanks again ❤️

  • @dumezcaz5083
    @dumezcaz5083 Год назад +1

    ✔🌳🤔1001% Witnessed & Experienced it. Thanks for sharing....

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Год назад

    Gas lighting is a real thing and makes the person feel down, not worth it. But knowing the signs, how too deal with it coming out tops is all you need. Thanks Jessica for always delivering as usual for all our topics.

  • @mainaben135
    @mainaben135 Год назад +2

    Jessica God bless you for your mentor

  • @georgesellu3625
    @georgesellu3625 Год назад

    Thanks so much Jess ❤ for this video, I’m a victim of gaslighting and I learn from this video

  • @ht2769
    @ht2769 Год назад

    Jessica you are a wonderful and intelligent woman.God will always bless you for your continued help to fellow humans.

  • @rachelogbeni6585
    @rachelogbeni6585 Год назад

    I was gaslit by my employer, I didn't know what it was called then, your video just enlightened me on that. But afraid about the effects it was having on my mental health, I quit. Thank you for helping me see it wasn't just a figment of my imagination

  • @martinmusokem5765
    @martinmusokem5765 Год назад

    I appreciate it. Thanks Jessica

  • @gabrielzeus7196
    @gabrielzeus7196 Год назад +4

    My last relationship that made me took a break from dating...
    ...This person had a PhD in "Gaslighting". Worst is, she would immediately accuse me of it. I never knew how bad it was, how much it had affected until few days ago, I had such event and realized how much I lost myself and self esteem.
    It's a terrible thing to do to anyone.
    Thank you for the resistance tips Jes.❤

    • @sivo802
      @sivo802 Год назад

      Gives you chills when you think about it in hindsight

    • @gabrielzeus7196
      @gabrielzeus7196 Год назад +1

      @@sivo802 You just can't imagine. Keeps me wondering how I stayed for 3yrs+...
      ...The Verbal and emotional abuse, the yelling, shaming, names calling....belittling...etc. it was terrible. Still trying to get myself back..

  • @mpwheroes
    @mpwheroes Год назад

    you are an absolute goddess jessica on point elaboration and the sign and ways to handle it is more less similar with what i go through but i messed up in the handling glad i learn now. Thank you

  • @melodyburt7068
    @melodyburt7068 Год назад +1

    My partner's mother is a narcissist. She has gaslighted her ,her whole life. She's 47. I pray that she doesn't ruin her. Thank you for this video.

  • @allchannels6699
    @allchannels6699 Год назад +1

    Nice one ☺️ keep up the mantra 💯

  • @samuelforson8448
    @samuelforson8448 Год назад +1

    God bless you Jessica

  • @chukwumachris1440
    @chukwumachris1440 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this advice I have been a victim of all this while and it has been eating me up

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. Год назад

    Keep up the good work 🤜♥️

  • @joycemwewa8744
    @joycemwewa8744 Год назад +1

    I have been dealing with a sister who gaslights, plays victim and dont apologize. I am blaming myself for allowing this lady to treat me like this all these years . I will cut ties with her . I suffered because I thought she was my sisters. This video took me back there . No more today I cut her for good

  • @kenonjohnson6630
    @kenonjohnson6630 Год назад

    Always on target. 💯 💪

  • @naturallycurlymama5344
    @naturallycurlymama5344 Год назад

    Yes I have I walk away sometimes it works sometimes it’s worse

  • @glennstone9847
    @glennstone9847 Год назад

    I am going through the same problem at present upon this she still keep malice with me. My so called partner is a pathetic gaslighter. She doesn't see anything wrong in whatever she does. She made me go through PTSD with her actions and frustrating words.. she made me second guess myself. I feel she's suffering from Narcissistic personality disorder NPD.
    It is time to employ the solution addressed in your video. Thank you Jessica.

  • @henryolali8822
    @henryolali8822 Год назад

    Weldon Jess!

  • @wunganayigrastianmasiyiwa4138
    @wunganayigrastianmasiyiwa4138 Год назад +1

    Gaslighting operate even in churches; when members get repeatedly gaslighted, but at the end told to humble themselves, yet the abuser continues until he/she controls and manipulate the unfortunate at will, and sometimes clearly tells them hat he/she is annointed and untouchable. The abused feel that they are unacceptable to God and very sinful such that without the abuser, God Himself cannot be accessed. Gaslighters are not comfortable working with people with knowledge or great potential. It's pure evil.

  • @kofimanu5458
    @kofimanu5458 Год назад

    I just got out of such a situation

  • @TheDjrootz
    @TheDjrootz 11 месяцев назад

    I have experience it i called them out on it and i separated myself from them.

  • @ademola_majesty
    @ademola_majesty Год назад

    The very last part says "move closers to family and friends".
    In my own situation, I have been gaslighted for a very long period of time by my own family. Gaslighted to the extent of isolating myself from friends of yesteryear. What do I do?

  • @Mscocobrownie
    @Mscocobrownie Год назад

    I am a victim. Thanks for sharing. Now I'm going to stop thinking I hv memory losses and I'm actually not going crazy.
    Every point you made is exactly what this abuser has been doing....thinking about it I don't even feel like a victim anymore.....because I allowed it to go on for years and never spoke up about it until a couple of months ago when I said enough was enough... and started to tell family, close friends and my dad what I had been through. So this video has helped me identify what it is.
    So now I'm rather worried for this person.....can gaslighters be helped. Because this person in particular is a loved one(family) and I'm rather concerned this behaviour might destroy them or they might find another victim to prey on.
    So my question is...are gaslighters sick....can they be helped.?

  • @ramonfollowerofjesuschrist847
    @ramonfollowerofjesuschrist847 Год назад

    You're a beautiful woman and i like your video's. Dear Jessica trust in Jesus be saved and you will live forever. That God may bless you!

  • @kingroni7880
    @kingroni7880 Год назад

    I fear I may be going through this right now and literally I am in fear of the situation cause of the severity of the situation I'm literally questioning my own intuitive nature, reality and if I may be loosing my mind to the fact of the evidence I strongly believe I've seen and noticed. But it seems to make no sense. And makes me see. Like the attacker in the situation. Which I truly don't think I am. But I'm not sure. My gut feeling tells me one thing + the evidence but I'm honestly ashamed to say I'm completely lost in it. I'm unsociable, feeling distracted, as if I'm being pulled away from myself. I literally believe I'm being gaslit making me completely uncertain

    • @kingroni7880
      @kingroni7880 Год назад

      I can't stop my self from watching your videos to learn how to figure it out with the help from your tips and signs

  • @del-multichannel937
    @del-multichannel937 Год назад +1

    💕💕💕

  • @TheINK712_immanuel.nyarko
    @TheINK712_immanuel.nyarko Год назад

    Learning about gaslighting
    Me: Thanks. Now I'm going to gaslight😅

  • @jamesanderson4014
    @jamesanderson4014 Год назад +1

    I think I have but acted like keep your version moving on down the line. Got bigger fish to fry.

  • @tiagoalaves9120
    @tiagoalaves9120 Год назад

    💯💯💯💯

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya Год назад

  • @markpeart8744
    @markpeart8744 Год назад

    Good morning my Africa queen 👸 💕 💖 awesome 👌 loving it Stan up for your man we the head of the house 🏠 older gaslight 🌴🇯🇲🌴🇯🇲✋🚸✋🚸

  • @billsbasit7593
    @billsbasit7593 Год назад +1

    🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @kwamedarko5347
    @kwamedarko5347 Год назад

    😊😊😊

  • @clintonblackwell9140
    @clintonblackwell9140 Год назад +1

    I think 🤔 I’m a victim I’m removing myself

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 месяца назад

    Only mrs jessica l believe you
    Your lost me how for thisl'm cry more
    People no good for world

  • @wizzpirlo1770
    @wizzpirlo1770 Год назад

    What are the Signs that she is crushing on you but too shy to tell you?

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 месяца назад

    No follow any person again

  • @MOSHEHTV
    @MOSHEHTV Год назад +1

    Are you on tiktok?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Год назад +3

      Jessica os on tiktok

    • @MOSHEHTV
      @MOSHEHTV Год назад +1

      @@JessicaOS OK ma, am following u already, just want to make sure is you

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 месяца назад

    Your all people you use me free

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 месяца назад

    😮woman not love me okay go my house
    Woman say l sign for you not married
    Okay

  • @sethwilliams2069
    @sethwilliams2069 Год назад +1

    Most of the Pastor's in Ghana are gasligthing the congrégation

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 месяца назад

    No understand your program l follow nice your confision
    Me only morning no come faster your lost me how
    Your job no give me happy l 'm sufferiens again
    Your Use me again how

  • @chukwumachris1440
    @chukwumachris1440 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this advice I have been a victim of all this while and it has been eating me up