Decluttering & Emotional Moving Journey (Plus A Huge Heartfelt Thank You for Your Support!)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
  • This week's vlog takes us back to the past few weeks, filled with full-on organising and lots of emotions! But first and foremost, I want to extend my most heartfelt thanks to all of you for your overwhelming support on the previous vlog.
    Your messages, kindness, and encouragement have meant the world to Simon and me. Reading your words brought tears to my eyes and they have all truly touched my heart.
    In this vlog, we delve into the start of the decluttering process. The new kitchen order hit a snag, and we will be moving in without it being completed - but patience is key, and I'm taking each challenge as it comes! On the organisation front, I had two wonderful ladies helping me blitz the attic, where we discovered all sorts of forgotten treasures. I also enjoyed a birthday treat in Salisbury with Ebo Beauty, so needed and incredibly pampering!
    The moving process is in full swing, with a man and his van arriving to help us move items over, which was a bit daunting to say the least, but progress was made! We've tackled various rooms and organised so much of the chaos - the emotional aspect of sorting through old memories was challenging, but having help from Sophie and Leila made a significant difference.
    I hope you enjoy this week's vlog. Thank you again for your incredible support, and I look forward to seeing you next week for a few snippets of my France trip!
    Love, Charlie x
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Комментарии • 94

  • @Rubyisgrowing
    @Rubyisgrowing Месяц назад +11

    I am so glad that you can feel our support Charlie- I feel as though your videos are a source of support in my life too xxx

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +1

      Oh thanks so much Ruby we all need to be supportive and encouraging of each other x

  • @amarathompson
    @amarathompson Месяц назад +4

    I so rarely comment on videos but just needed to come on and say how comforting I’ve found your past 2 vlogs. I’m definitely a bit younger than your usual audience but honestly seeing you navigate this move with such grace is so unbelievably admirable and brave. And there are so many moments here that I know so many will relate to.
    Really shocked to come into the comments and see people asserting their unwarranted (and somewhat narrow minded) opinions, please do ignore them because it’s so clear that your intentions around this move are coming from the deepest love for your family more than anything else.
    I hope you had the loveliest birthday and you continue to have so much love and support surrounding you during this time ❤❤ thank you so much for sharing xxx

  • @carolwatts-yi6do
    @carolwatts-yi6do Месяц назад +5

    I’m so pleased you have managed to get away before you move house , its probably just what you needed, so be kind to yourself , relax and enjoy , then you’ll be fully charged for the coming weeks ahead. Wishing you a very Happy belated Birthday 😘😘

  • @kirstyellis484
    @kirstyellis484 Месяц назад +11

    How you haven’t got a million subs I’ll never know. Most genuine person ❤ so much luck, support and strength sent your way. Life is too short to dwell on the past, move forward and embrace your new adventures! X

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +4

      You are so lovely a huge thank you and definitely focusing on the positives and exciting things to come xxx

    • @StMeadMary
      @StMeadMary Месяц назад +3

      I agree! I think Charlie should be on TV - a really nice series on domestic and life hacks. Bit like Kirsties Homemade Home but Charlie style…

  • @catherineparr1927
    @catherineparr1927 Месяц назад +2

    Charlie, I so wish I could crawl into the screen and give you the biggest hug! It's wonderful to know you feel the love from everyone. Love that you deserve. I'm a strong believer in you reap what you sow and this is why we are all here for you even if it's just virtual. What you have been through in the past year is huge, so many challenges and yet you continue to shine whilst running a business and being a mum too. You are truly inspirational! Have the best holiday 🥰🏖 xxx

  • @strll3048
    @strll3048 Месяц назад +2

    Very many blessed years, most precious Charlie!!! I hope that your birthday leads to wonderful new adventures, and lots of joy in your new life. You are such a positive voice in the world. I hope that your lovely influence will touch more and more lives, in years to come. I am so thankful for you.

  • @LB-zc1hj
    @LB-zc1hj Месяц назад +3

    I used a moving app which was great, I numbered the boxes in the app you list the contents and also put on which room it belongs in the new property. When it goes to the new house you mark it as in transport or arrived it helps to keep track of everything plus the moving company are not aware what is in each box. Anything precious take in your own car at the end. Another thing I did was put a small coloured sticker on each box and pieces of furniture, then put a large coloured sticker on each door in the new property which corresponds to the boxes and furniture this helps the moving company know without asking, which room furniture and boxes go to. Good Luck Charlie ❤

    • @strll3048
      @strll3048 Месяц назад

      Totally brilliant advice!

  • @EriOppJohn
    @EriOppJohn Месяц назад +3

    Aww Gus, I hope he’s feeling a bit happier, I really felt for him. It’s true we are only as happy as our most miserable child! I also have 3 so often having to help navigate young trauma. I hope you all have a wonderfully relaxing break away x

    • @maryharrison8938
      @maryharrison8938 Месяц назад +1

      Relax and enjoy your. Blessings to you all 💕💕💕

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      Thanks so much he is feeling brighter and his cast hopefully comes off next week

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      @@maryharrison8938thank you x

  • @desia5679
    @desia5679 Месяц назад +1

    Happy Birthday Charlie! Enjoy your holiday. It's perfect timing. The calm before the storm, but all will be okay. Your godmother is a god send, she sounds so lovely. The facial massage sounds dreamy, would love to experience one. All the best x

  • @caramelb8862
    @caramelb8862 Месяц назад +3

    Your such a lovely lady, beautiful family. I wish you and your family lots of happiness and making lovely memories in your new home. Love watching your channel, your such an inspirational lady. ❤ x

  • @teresabrown836
    @teresabrown836 Месяц назад +4

    Belated birthday wishes Charlie, hope the hoilday with family is just the ticket to unwind a little. Thank you for sharing xxx

  • @virginia8993
    @virginia8993 Месяц назад +1

    Golly Charlie you really have it full on at the moment so do look after yourself and things will get easier and you have such a positive outlook and a wonderful family, sending love and you all will be in my prayers ❤xx

  • @marciasmusic3010
    @marciasmusic3010 Месяц назад +3

    Wishing you and your family all the best Charlie! It will all come together.. we moved to a new home almost 5 years ago from a house I adored.. we built a new one a bit more in the country and love it now so much.. but the leaving was hard.. and exhausting! Mixed emotions are normal.. but once you’re I. Your new beautiful home.. it will be a joy and new adventure!! 🙋‍♀️🌼💖

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      Thank you it’s just daunting isn’t it! So pleased you love your new home xxx

  • @NatalH859
    @NatalH859 Месяц назад +1

    Dear Charlie Happy Belated Birthday. I am so happy for you getting away before the move to relax and unwind. Have a wonderful time . Another lovely vlog. I loved those trousers .

  • @StMeadMary
    @StMeadMary Месяц назад +2

    Love Mecca Cosmetica - so funny seeing it on a British video, Charlie!

  • @d18nac
    @d18nac Месяц назад

    Hi Charlie, I admire your grit! For all that you are going through at the moment your ability to see the bigger picture and deal with you family in spite of your emotions is admirable. In comparison to my own attic yours looks positively tidy 😀! Wishing you every bit of luck and happiness with the house move and new home, I am sure many people are 'with' you during this process. XX

  • @brunoheggie735
    @brunoheggie735 Месяц назад +1

    I spot my dad ☺️ love watching your vlogs Charlie. Good luck with the move 💕

  • @StMeadMary
    @StMeadMary Месяц назад +1

    Sun-rays trousers!!! Love them!!! I’m going show my beau he’s a bit of a show pony on the golf course!! Xxx

  • @louisesouthgate5231
    @louisesouthgate5231 Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday Charlie.... Goodness such a difficult time! I dont know how you manage to keep everything going, as well as dealing with all that needs to be done! Its all down to your amazing organisational skills!

  • @lkhawkins4482
    @lkhawkins4482 Месяц назад +1

    I am so happy you have wonderful people around you. Hearing about one of your godmothers who is going to help you---perfection. She sounds like Mary Poppins! : )

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      She is like Mary poppins xxxx

  • @lucycarnaghanholt7427
    @lucycarnaghanholt7427 Месяц назад +2

    Belated Happy Birthday Charlie xxx❤

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      @@lucycarnaghanholt7427 thank you 😍

  • @samanthahemingway3666
    @samanthahemingway3666 Месяц назад +1

    Belated happy birthday Charlie, Hang in there, you can do this! the stuff will get sorted out. The facial looks like it was just what you needed!

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      It was such a lovely treat x

  • @user-wl2zw1qf2z
    @user-wl2zw1qf2z Месяц назад +1

    Good luck with your move Charlie - change is so tough but it’s also exciting and means growth! What will happen to your horses?

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      Thank you very much the horses are coming with us

  • @nieveslehmann357
    @nieveslehmann357 Месяц назад +1

    Much love to you and your family Charlie ❤

  • @Rubyisgrowing
    @Rubyisgrowing Месяц назад +1

    Gosh such a satisfying video! I LOVe a clear out!

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      Me too such a good feeling x

  • @laduke4324
    @laduke4324 Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday Charlie, glad you were able to break away and get that facial/massage with all the sorting, discarding, packing, it’s a big undertaking and those ladies were a help indeed but the bottom line is you and Simon are doing well with the move. Come Autumn all will have settled down, looking forward to viewing your new AGA those are not too common in the South (USA), all the best dear!!❤

  • @charlieparker3386
    @charlieparker3386 Месяц назад

    Hi Charlie!! I can confirm Mecca Cosmetica is the absolute best here in Australia - everyone here swears by this brand, very popular amongst all ages as well (I'm 23 and love their affordable makeup and skincare, my mum especially loves their SPF products!) Thank you for keeping up the vlogging and taking us all along for this hectic but exciting time in your life :) Hope you're having a relaxing time in France, oh and happy belated birthday! - Charlie x

  • @user-cu2jq6fd1g
    @user-cu2jq6fd1g Месяц назад +1

    Dear Charlie happy birthday, I think you are in control of packing/ sorting, well done. xx

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      @@user-cu2jq6fd1g thank you ☺️

  • @asmrrose1110
    @asmrrose1110 Месяц назад +1

    Wishing you all the best! We just got married, and now have an unexpected move sprung on us so I really sympathise with you! ❤

  • @shelaghward9621
    @shelaghward9621 Месяц назад +1

    I’m absolutely exhausted watching your vlog ……no idea how YOU are coping ,Charlie 😱💋

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      I know!! It’s been crazy and the next couple of months are going to be full on! X

  • @wendyware9738
    @wendyware9738 Месяц назад +1

    Your facial was fantastic just think it would be great for my daughter as she suffers with the worst hay fever, ear and nasal blockage as of course all related. Salisbury is. Bit of a trek for us but may be worth it. Sad to see you going through all the emotions Hartley surprising just hold onto what Pip said to you it is just a house not a home which the new one will be soon it’s just this awful transition you are going through like no man’s land. Have a great break and look forward to hearing your updates. 😊❤

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад

      The hugest thanks and yes focusing on Pips words 🥰 yes the limbo atm is unsettling but very exciting about the future xxxx

    • @wendyware9738
      @wendyware9738 Месяц назад

      It is a very exciting time as well as emotional. As my grandmother would say as I e door closes another one opens and have to say when things have been tough I er the years her words have always come back to me to remind myself things will happen and often are better. Looking forward to seeing your new kitchen.😊

  • @lynnarmstrong-ee9ic
    @lynnarmstrong-ee9ic Месяц назад

    Belated Birthday wishes💐

  • @shonalogan1581
    @shonalogan1581 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alison4516
    @alison4516 Месяц назад +2

    Belated birthday wishes. I’m still packing and am also so emotional right now finding things I’d put away so many years ago. We can do this!

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +2

      @@alison4516 sending love 🥰 it’s emotional going through the memories xxx

  • @KrisMcIrl
    @KrisMcIrl Месяц назад +1

    Belated Happy Birthday!!! I'm jealous of that facial. What 'type' of AGA are you getting?

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks 😍 getting a duel control electric

  • @SueGyr
    @SueGyr Месяц назад +1

    Hi Charlie
    This seems an awful question to be asking you at the moment with everything you have going on, but can you tell me where you got your baseball cap from, with the horse and dog motif ?

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +1

      No problem at all its from the Chestnut Collection xxx

    • @SueGyr
      @SueGyr Месяц назад

      Thank you for your reply. I think you are the most caring beautiful lady inside and out. I’m so glad to be following you x

  • @Southwesternlassie82
    @Southwesternlassie82 Месяц назад +2

    You’re the only person I know (don’t actually know you) who has a team of ppl to move her house!😂😂

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +2

      We aren’t using a removal company we are doing the move ourselves we have lived here for 17 years so yes a few extra pairs of hands are needed!

    • @rhiannonwicks9397
      @rhiannonwicks9397 Месяц назад +1

      I know plenty of people who get packers and organisers in. Life is busy! Each to their own.

  • @Tck3403
    @Tck3403 Месяц назад +20

    I really feel for you Charlie, I've had my own financial struggles in the past so I know what's it's like to be in your situation. However, I just don't understand what's happening, you are selling your house to move in to rented accommodation while at the same time you have a cleaning lady, a brand new top of the range Range Rover, go on multiple holidays, horses out the back, enough clothes to open your own clothes shop and you are paying for an Aga & a kitchen in a house you don't even own! Please don't think I'm judging you because I'm not but none of it makes any sense to me.....

    • @nathalielemley8373
      @nathalielemley8373 Месяц назад +9

      ​@@Tck3403 umm yes you are judging 🙄 None of it needs to make sense. If it works for Charlie and her family then who is anyone to question that?

    • @Tck3403
      @Tck3403 Месяц назад +13

      @@nathalielemley8373 i think that's very unfair. During my own difficulties I had cut everything to the bone, social life, holidays, absolutely everything. It must be heartbreaking for Charlie & her family to find themselves in this situation & watching it brings back many sad memories for me but anyone with a basic understanding of mathematics can see this is not adding up at all.

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +14

      @@Tck3403to be honest it doesn’t need to add up to you, we know what and why we are making the changes that we are and I don’t need to share all the details online.

    • @ask.charlie
      @ask.charlie  Месяц назад +13

      @@nathalielemley8373thank you Nathalie for you words, yes it makes sense for us and I don’t need to explain all the ins and outs of out decisions and
      plans

    • @shelaghward9621
      @shelaghward9621 Месяц назад +5

      @@ask.charliewishing you both and your family all the very best for the future . You and your husband appear to be a great team together and Simon is obvs an experienced business man who will know exactly what he’s doing !!! . It’s no one else’s business anyway as to the whys and wherefore …. Keep at it Chick ❤

  • @mimi-sz9kb
    @mimi-sz9kb Месяц назад +7

    You do have quite a lavish lifestyle Horses foreign holidays private schooling Immense stash of clothes Maybe cut ones cloth !?

    • @nathalielemley8373
      @nathalielemley8373 Месяц назад +6

      How inappropriate 🤬🤬🤬

    • @mimi-sz9kb
      @mimi-sz9kb Месяц назад +3

      @@nathalielemley8373 If you sell a mortgaged property to rent instead is possibly because you're financially struggling As a homeowner its my opinion !

    • @nieveslehmann357
      @nieveslehmann357 Месяц назад +10

      Honestly, sometimes our opinions are better left unsaid. If someone else's life makes you feel bitter (and speak unkindly) then maybe a break from the internet is in order ❤

    • @nathalielemley8373
      @nathalielemley8373 Месяц назад +5

      @@mimi-sz9kb keyword 'possibly'. In other words you really have no idea. Just because you have an opinion doesn't mean you should voice it.

    • @mimi-sz9kb
      @mimi-sz9kb Месяц назад +2

      @@nieveslehmann357 Free Speech !!!!!

  • @marjierobinson564
    @marjierobinson564 Месяц назад

    As for packing …I’m a more is more type of person . Shove it all in .
    Also all everyone needs is to feel safe . Sometimes we don’t . Give it time .🩷