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If your partner is doing domestic chores, stop playing video games and HELP. That's the way to avoid resentment so you can both relax and have quality time. Don't wait to be asked multiple times, and then grudgingly comply in a huff like a sulky child 😅
Ha, well the specifics aren't as important as the communication and negotiation behind them. I've worked with couples where one partner finds doing the chores relaxing and calming, so it's never about the 'what' it's about the 'how'. Communicating and talking about it is the first step, then figuring out how to make those details work for you both. If a partner is resisting the idea of a duty it means: 1) it was agreed upon but specific weren't clearly defined (eg. they agreed, but timing wasn't specified) 2) It was agreed upon, but one partner begrudgingly agreed (they logically agreed but not emotionally) or 3) it wasn't agreed upon.
@@BeUltranormal There are a lot of men who expect to be waited upon. It's a deal breaker for a lot of women in particular, and it really is a simple matter of pulling your weight around the house as a responsible adult
@@Animalsonlywantkindness Who decides on what domestic chores need doing and when? If my housekeeping standards or abilities are less than a partner is it always their version that is the default that I have to try to meet? Or can adults sharing a space compromise? Also why is this a gendered thing? I’ve lived and worked with enough women to know that it’s a sexist myth that women are cleaner and tidier and never expect others to cater to them 🙄
@@bigbear3980 I'm glad you haven't experienced a domestic arrangement where one person does close to nothing and the other person has more than twice the workload and all the expenses without consenting or response to reasonable requests for discussion
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👋🏻👋🏻Hey everyone! Hope you enjoyed the vid! Let me know your thoughts on relationship equality!🌓🌗
🚨Come join my NEW Relationship Bootcamp! be.ultranormal.co/relationship-bootcamp?YTE103&
- Chris
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If your partner is doing domestic chores, stop playing video games and HELP. That's the way to avoid resentment so you can both relax and have quality time. Don't wait to be asked multiple times, and then grudgingly comply in a huff like a sulky child 😅
Ha, well the specifics aren't as important as the communication and negotiation behind them. I've worked with couples where one partner finds doing the chores relaxing and calming, so it's never about the 'what' it's about the 'how'.
Communicating and talking about it is the first step, then figuring out how to make those details work for you both. If a partner is resisting the idea of a duty it means:
1) it was agreed upon but specific weren't clearly defined (eg. they agreed, but timing wasn't specified)
2) It was agreed upon, but one partner begrudgingly agreed (they logically agreed but not emotionally)
or 3) it wasn't agreed upon.
@@BeUltranormal There are a lot of men who expect to be waited upon. It's a deal breaker for a lot of women in particular, and it really is a simple matter of pulling your weight around the house as a responsible adult
@@Animalsonlywantkindness Who decides on what domestic chores need doing and when? If my housekeeping standards or abilities are less than a partner is it always their version that is the default that I have to try to meet? Or can adults sharing a space compromise? Also why is this a gendered thing? I’ve lived and worked with enough women to know that it’s a sexist myth that women are cleaner and tidier and never expect others to cater to them 🙄
@@bigbear3980 I'm glad you haven't experienced a domestic arrangement where one person does close to nothing and the other person has more than twice the workload and all the expenses without consenting or response to reasonable requests for discussion