Complete IDIOTS GUIDE to Yom Kippur
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What is the function of Yom Kippur? How do we make amends?
For our sins? For you inattention?
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May all my fellow children of the covenant be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life for a sweet, good, joyous, healthy and prosperous year of growth and opportunity! Shana Tova!
May you all have a easy fast!
At 9:28 "These are not acts, these are flaws in a relationship."
I love your humble thoughts on this subject. Thank you. 😊
Thank You Rabbi, because of you I began wearing my Tefillin last year the day after Yom Kippur, I’ve missed very few days since! I will try & study Torah & Zohar this year. I am going to find a teacher & guide, there is a new Chabbad Rabbi in town! I will meet him after the holidays! May you have a sweet year Rabbi.
That's fantastic! You're doing so much to bring Moshiach speedily in our time! Thank you!
May you, your family, friends and community be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life for a sweet and good year for growth and opportunity!
Amazing! Keep it up!
That is truly amazing! And hey, maybe meet the new Chabad Rabbi ON the holidays....?
@@manisfriedman
Read the Bible thoroughly. God hates worship,songs,sabbaths, burnt offerings, animal sacrifice, feasts, new moons, festivals of Jews.
Read the Bible thoroughly. God hates worship, sabbaths,songs, burnt offerings, animal sacrifice, feasts, new moons, festivals of Jews.
Being forgiven skims the surface. Being given UNDERSTANDING of why I sin and am sinned against is the great gift of life. Battered people pray deeply!
I don't think that's as profitable as you think. Focusing on negative doesn't increase the positive.
Dear Rabbi Friedman, I often think that my sins of omission are far worse than the sins I actually commit.
Thank you Rebbe!
The title does not do justice to this video. This was an incredibly insightful way to get the most out of Yom Kippur by focusing on relationships instead of on sin. Looking at who we've hurt, Hashem, and wanting to improve the relationship. Ultimately we hurt ourselves and people we interact with when that primary relationship is damaged.
As you've said Rabbi it's not great to focus on sin on such a holy day.
Thank you Rabbi
The remorse what I am going trough now thank you may God bless me with a new season
Every moment is a blessing. Every moment you start anew. You are not who you were when you did whatever caused you remorse. That is our blessing. If you focus on all of that which you don't like you'll miss out on the better things you could be enjoying and doing that G-d wants from you.
Beautiful wisdom, Rabbi Friedman!
To be truly, completely forgiven we need true Repentance operative in our lives.
Been teaching quite a bit from the Book of Jeremiah lately. The primary message to God's people is to "Amend your ways" to enter into the promises of God.
That's interesting. Not true. G-d says over and over how to be 'completely forgiven'. A step towards Him, which is a thought. Not necessary to grovel, self flagellate in any way, shape or form. You, people you interact with and the whole world would benefit from a more positive way of handling sin. You're elevating the sin to a prominent role where it shouldn't be. Joy of being with G-d. Every moment distant is a moment lost in that joy.
G-d wants us to perfect His world for it to be a place for Him to dwell with us. Positivity, not negativity.
'Amend your ways' is too broad and for most, too overwhelming to accomplish. Besides daunting if you feel you've done too much that needs repair. It's all wrong. Every effort that we do to do what G-d wants us appreciated. Every tiny thing. It shows we want a relationship with Him. We want to know what makes him happy.
@@nomorecensoringme Are you familiar with the Tanakh? "Amend you ways" is a command, not a suggestion.
What makes God happy is a "humble and contrite heart" that has "ceased from sin and learned to do good."
The only positive way to handle sin is to put it to death.
I pray God's people understand that His promises and His love are conditional.
@@MichaelDBiggs Our obedience is pleasing to God! We show our Love for Him through our obedience. He shows His love for us by providing a way to abide in that obedience so that we can have a relationship!
@@MichaelDBiggs thank you though I will.listen to rabbis, sages and other people learned in Judaism rather than your insights. It is arrogant and presumptuous for a human being to say definitively they know what G-d wants. We think we do. We are all doing our best to know Him, what He wants from us. You don't have the only "party line" to G-d.
@@nomorecensoringme Amen. There are too many out there who claim "thus saith the Lord" , but are speaking from the imagination of their own hearts. The great bulk of pulpitmen in the denominations preaching the "grace" message are leaving the congregants "in their sins" because they preach not the heart of God and "lead many to righteousness."
"“I have not sent these prophets, yet they ran.
I have not spoken to them, yet they prophesied.
22 But if they had stood in My counsel,
And had caused My people to hear My words,
Then they would have turned them from their evil way
And from the evil of their doings."
- Jer 23;21-22
May we be found among those who truly "walked worthy" in that Day.
Never enough to know a litle more!thank you rabbi!
Thank you Rabbi.
That is sincerely very deeply insightful and creating of an opening a ray of opportunity to step fully into reparation of relation of self with our Lord Creator of all. TY for helping my own self through your selfless service.
Shalom rabino saludos desde mexicali Mexico
Thank you Rabbi. Beautiful. Wonderful. This teaching will enhance my Yom Kippur in a meaningful way.
Thank you
ThankU & BlessU for this...L'Chaim💝💝💝
Thank you, sir!
Thank you Rabbi, that was inspiring. I was so enthralled that I viewed myself through every scenario and answered in my mind every question you posed.
I ve been listening to so many lectures! Thank You Rabbi! I asked exactly what you said ! Ashem please allow me to live my life at full potential and not to repeat same mistakes over and over again !
thank you so much rabbi 💙 im BT, was raised completely secular and i have had a lot of trouble this helped a lot
Wow life giving!!!
Thank you for the teaching on Yom Kippur, we all need to draw inwardly, re-examine, reflect and know whom we are from. Hashem is always right, thank you.
@Rabbi shekelcountstienburg you're not being a nice person spreading lies and hatred.
Thank you Rabbi!!!
Thank you, Rabbi!
Thank you Rabbi. Yom tov. ❤️🤘🏼 lots of love and blessings from Toronto - Come speak at our shul !
Down to earth expression of meaningful real life undercurrents
So divinely wonderful❤
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Thank you for what you said. ❤️
🤣 "start a new account"... 🤦🏻♂️🤣 TODA Rabbi !
Thank you so much rabbi 🙏 may God bless you 🙏
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Thank you very much B’’H
I received a dream this morning the glass of the mobile phone was smashed. Then I saw my son's dad standing at the side of me and he was talking about the amount of tat that I have. I do have a lot of baskets and wicker that I bought from the charity shops. My son's dad passed over many years ago. My Yom Kippur dream.
Wonderful message, then there are those who don't want others to live fully because of how it might affect them or make them feel. Yes, I seem harsh and judgmental, but must we cover up evil, just to make peace? I should not be ignorant, but neither should I tolerate it in others. When I say to not tolerate, I mean invoking compassion to confront it, with kindness and knowledge to enlighten.
I am of the persuasion that being forgiven sins really means only that, that a certitude of error
errors what have are pardoned, this I isn’t to mean that the forgiven becomes somehow a store for or a more modern word is repository for and therefore the forgiven isn’t identical the forgave or to the forgiver; the forgiver really then relinquishes this error dispenses of this error and the relinquisher becomes the account of the forgave the forgiver and the forgiven then is this account of a thing relinquished; forgiveness isn’t the same as chance giving.
This subject of layer and flavor and tone IS really it dailyness this subject about being present aware AWARENESS is really Good really arms life is that part of life that arming with this thing this Goodness out from the unaware thing.
Works based
ah yes, this video is for me.
Sir I having a doubts in Daniel chapter prophecy 12 :12 there is an number 1335 some preacher are telling it's going to fulfill in 2023 or the destruction of dome of the Rock
We Jews don't believe in doom or the destruction of the world. G-d did not create this world to destroy it after thousands of years of humanity being here. It doesn't make sense. G-d is not that mean or heartless.
@@nomorecensoringme I understood about the thousand years regime in ishaya chapter . But I want to understand the salvation of Jews in Daniel 12:12 toward 1335 days . The days are year
@@ssk3369 asking a Rabbi those questions you are not going to get the answers you want. We don't look at the books of the Prophets that way. Go to Christians for those answers. It won't be ours but you'll get what you want.
i could not grovel enough to counter my sins.
That's not the best way. That's very self serving and self pitying and self destructive. G-d is a forgiving Father. All you have to do is regret for a moment and He has forgiven you. That's tremendous. Empowering. Joyful.
What does groveling in negativity and despair, possibly to the point of depression, accomplish? More negativity. Possibly encouraging addiction to escape all of it. Not the best way.
Focus on positivity or the sins become more important than they should be. You messed up. Who hasn't? Okay you messed up in a big way? Again, who hasn't? Focus on what you want, what you want to be, who you want to be. All things moving forwards. These are the concepts that the Rabbi has shared.
May "I become what I choose to become" lead you and guide you to the real Mashiach the one that paid the price of your sins. May Gd bless you Shalom
Your idea of 'the real Moshiach' is not true for us. I'm sure that you have better things to do than trolling a Jewish YTer pedaling Christianity. We're not buying.
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I like the teaching
I have failed HaShem because I do not have a life. I have failed at life itself.
How is this regret life giving? It just makes me feel miserable.
No family, no spouse, no children. I cannot change that. I have to accept that is what HaShem decided He wanted for me.
All of that is not 'a life' nor is it all the only way to have an existence. 'Living' is doing for others, not thinking about ourselves so much. As the Rabbi says, less "me monster". When we open our hearts and love for others, all of the bounty of life, living, is there for us to enjoy.
one is forgiven only when one repairs to the Wrongs he or she did; then, maybe the ''Proposal'' to ''repair one's Wrongdoings'', during the ''coming, brand new Year'', is enough to be ''on the straight Way'' to ''Forgiveness'' or, to be forgiven, and ''Faith'' in the Fact that certainly, the ''Proposal will be fullfilled or actualized'' and that ''G.d'' will ''show the straight Way'' for ''Reparation'', is needed and is enough, is ''all what one needs'', that is to say, ''the new Year is the Moment in one's Existance'', when one reaffirms the ''Wish'' to ''follow the straight Path'', the ''divine Path'' and to fulfill ''G.d's Will'; in this Sense, this is the Moment when one ''is forgiven'', if one implies, that ''G.d's Universe'' is ''Timeless'' so that ''Past, Present and Future'' coexist, and as much as the ''Wrongdeed'' exists, similarly for a ''faithful Individual'' also ''Forgiveness'' exists, and they both coexist in the very, so called ''here and now'' Timelapse; that is to say, ''the Obscurity'' of Wrongdeeds cohexists with ''the Light'' of Straightdeeds, and one ''knows'' for sure that ''when the Lights come, the Obscurity goes away'' or ''when the Light appears, the Obscurity disappears'', sure ''100%'', as it is affirmed, in case of any ''whole Certitude'' in the Middle East; eventually there is ''Forgiveness'' only when there is ''to forget'' as well and at the same Moment, because ''Integrity'' or ''Wholeness'', (connected to the Concept of ''Holiness'') can ''be'' only when ''feminine Qualities'' coexist together and simultaneously with ''masculine Qualities'' and one ''knows'' that both ''to give'' is feminine or masculine, and ''to get'' is masculine or feminine. ''Gratiae'' and Greetings to You. ''Charity and Salvation'' to everyone.
Yom Kippur is the day that the rabbis pray for forgiveness for every sin except the ones they are the most guilty of: Interpreting Torah such that they dragged the Jews into the Diaspora twice and taught Torah such that we didn't know we could control the laws of nature, so we were left entirely vulnerable and and bringing the scourges of Xianity and Islam on the world, both of which are based on rabbinic heresy.
And don't try to Miriam bat Bilga me. My Husband is a religious, Israel-born expert in the Hebrew language, not a Greek soldier.
hi Doreen
I've actually thought the same thing once.
much pain in this world was due to the lack of knowledge of Torah.
However, it is not my place to judge.
I'm here to learn, let's all do our jobs to improve the world
Your 'husband is an expert'? Your idea is we shouldn't listen to Rabbi Friedman then? By whose standard is he an 'expert'? By whose authority? Being Israeli does not give anyone the gift of ultimate knowledge.
You took a lot of time to write a lot of nonsense. I think you have better things to do with your time.
You and your husband create your own YT channel and see how well you do. Though you sound like you don't like Christians, Muslims and Jews. Your right and privilege though don't expect others to embrace your confusion.
Need to make amends just asking meh
I have a question what is the differentiation between black Jews and the white Jews as yourself since the people in Egypt actually had dark skin like could I even call myself a Jew and does the Torah speak on it at all?
If you are a Jew, black or white, you are a Jew and part of the family and nation.
You think that G-d has a preference? We are all His children. People create divisions by skin color. He does not.
@@nomorecensoringme I’m mean yea of of course he has a preference he chose the Jews out of all the people on earth he chose the Jews didn’t he and I’m just saying that the first jew there ever was is a black dude can any type of rabbi acknowledge that fact cause most white folks hate the fact that the blood line of Jews runs through black peoples veins
The thing is black people have an enduring strong identity crisis in America, they no longer know who they are after getting stripped of their history and memory long since the slave trade began in the 1500s.
Many generations have passed on since the beggining. . So the struggle is deeper than they care to see it for what it is
When one don't know who they are ,they go on blaming and accusing others of their plight . Always ignoring who they are as a person. The issue is denial ,
Rampant denial , .
And the definition of a jew is t most time associated with a higher people or a higher special nation
While in truth to be a jew there is nothing special about it ,except for the jew that educates and spend his entire life teaching and educating the world about Torah.
To be a jew their whole purpose is education, come hell or high water .
God chose many of the descendants of Israel to fulfill that purpose, but He didn't promise privilege or benefits, is truly a selfless act of their part
A real servant of God serves without expecting anything in return
Truth be told is a one way street deal.
Just like when Elijah was by own living on what the crows were feeding him , there was never anything fancy or glamorous about it ,if you tread the story well , He was wandering around seeking guidance and wisdom in spite of many other jews that went astray seeking his life , even their own people being also jews descendants of Israel, went against true servants .
.a real jew that is fulfilling God's purpose is always trying to teach Torah and fix the world .
( tikun olam ) .
The thing is color of the skin really is meaningless when one discovers the truth of why you have to serve God.
Knowing the truth will propel you by need alone to serve God, only because you know something that most people don't, and will take you years of deep suffering to realize it, once you discover the truth you will know that the cheap excuse you make that white jews stole your religion. Is really the most insulting to the intelligence of yourself.
You are really making a fool of yourself.
The day you eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil is the day you die
God meant something else (;die ) spiritually
You will no longer be in this world anymore and everything you used to enjoy and cherish
Is not longer cherished.
That's when you truly die as yourself and is born a servant of God
Once you know the truth you will feel like God threw you as an innocent person accused of multiple murders, to a life sentence surrounded by the most vile serial killers ,rapists, mass murderers, psychopaths, terrorists, biological terrorists, dismembering cartel assassins, psychological abusers, verbal abusers and no prison guard is ever going to help you. You are there thrown on your own surviving the most harshest conditions ever . Every one is trying to kill you and every booty bandit is trying to rape you after years of no touching a woman,
That's basically where you ate and they are your students.
And you have to teach them Torah and make better people out of them .
bowser?
Please be carefull in how one says the word idiot
How do we even know whether we have sinned? Who tells us? How do we even know that G-d knows the context of our sins? How do we even know what a sin is? Isnt the concept of a sin a bit outdated in the modern world? Why are we assuming that G-d is judging us or that G-d even cares? Should I now be worried about sinning after yom kippur? On what basis is a sin that someone else thinks might be a sin not a sin? We're judging our behaviour based on a set of codes and rules from the torah. I did something that the torah says I shoudlnt have done; therefore I have sinned; therefore what ....? I'm a bad person; G-d wont help me? This whole concept of sinning should actually be eradicated even the word sinning shouldn't be used to be perfectly honest. It just promotes fear and worry and that is so unhealthy to human body and mind. There's more important things such as health and happiness. Judaism should be much more focussed on promoting good health and happiness rather adhering to laws that are almost impossible to keep. That should be the pinnacle of this. Also to not take things so literally as well is what should be told to be perfectly honest.
It can't be done at once. But we can always get a tiny step closer.
If you are not concerned with your relationship with the Creator then being concerned with sin is a moot point. It's a false argument.
אני מבקשת סליחה מ אבא שלי
אני מבקשת סליחה מאמא שלי פגעתי בך מאוד סליחה אימא סליחה
Why are you publicly apologizing for something that is so personal? Will it enhance your relationships to do it?
If you listen to the Rabbi talk about relationships with parents you'd know that all of us hurt and disappoint the people in our lives. Nothing new.
You might think to improve the relationship rather than focusing on the pain of it. Little things. A card, just because. A phone call to say "hi". Going for a ride in the car together to get food. A walk around the block with simple conversation. When you think that you've hurt someone too much you stay distant, thinking it can't be overcome, when it's not necessary.
Instead you could reach out, and following what G-d wants us to do "honor" your parents. All around more positive and more worthwhile.
@@nomorecensoringme ממש לא טוב
@@nicolesteel1090 I don't read Hebrew yet and YT didn't translate.
The gap between God and man is too wide. God’s moral requirements is perfection to the point that man is hopelessly doomed to fail.
yes you will be forgiven yes you will but as you do alot of thinking please get indiana pa colonial people mennanite and the ones in the criminal orginization like max buar rest in peace max your in my fathers hands now but its just a matter of faith the way you get threw is faith and looking seeking and knowing the words of god many people are needing to repent but your right god will forgive and as i am his servant i love youll awaiting king i am of the jews i love youll tell ohio to open up the bethel isreal
Manufactured fiction like any religion... You can make up what ever you like...
If you listened to Rabbi Friedman you'd know that Judaism isn't a 'religion'. That's part of what other people misunderstand.
Sounds like you're 'making up whatever you like'. What bothers you so much about what the rabbi shares? That people here want a relationship with G-d? What is a better alternative that you offer?
ACTION "IS" THE LANGUAGE OF HEAVEN
00:20 ----> 0023
THE LANGUAGE OF SEEKING FORGIVENESS; IS TO PERPETUALIZE THROUGH MANIFESTING, ACTION(S) NOT REQUIRING FORGIVENESS - NOT VERBALIATION OF DESIRING/SEEKING FORGIVNESS OF/FOR PREVIOUS FORGIVABLE ACTION(S) COMPLETED/MANIFESTED.
The language of {used in} the culture of Heaven [I מלך האהבה: ירושלים קודש and My המישיע השלום Father רוח חי: האהבה use(d) in writing The-manifesting, Live, Living, "Book of Life; and, writing into "it" each manifesting, living Being('s) Life-Being - "Is" the Sense-emotion\al/physical language of: "Be Manifest"(ing); being expressed/illuminated (through living manifestation of life-action(s)); by all the living beings and things We write into Our יה ואני perpetually Live, Living "Book of Life" as creation. The original language of the culture of Heaven, "is not" the verbal language, being (now) used by the Human here on/in present earth. This verbal language [BABYL], being (now) used by the Human is an inverse transliteration of Our יה ואני Heavenly Sense-emotion\al/physical language, focused on verbiage(ing) sound to describe (through self-interpretation of) the -"Be Manifest"(ing); being expressed/illuminated (through living manifestation of life-action(s)). The Use of this verbal language is subjective to individual's will(ing) of what It{the Human Soul-Being) is actually willing manifest; to what is being verbalized as asking to (be) manifest(ing).
Full Essence: If what is being said [seeking forgiveness], does not match what is being manifested [ permanently turned/turning away from the "action needing forgiveness", by a living human-Soul-Being: That something being sought via verbalization - will never come to Be Manifest!
In Layman's terms: Stop doing the things that require forgiveness; and don't return to doing those things/actions ever again. SENCERITY IN ACTION(S)
ר ב ק מלך האהבה; המישיע השלום: ירושלים קודש א ב מ
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