The daughter was definitely right about one thing. Her dad is whimsical af. I’d follow that guy on a fuckin quest if he asked. PS: I’m happy you guys liked my comment😂
She's sort of rewritten her childhood to give herself some trauma to talk about, make it more dramatic. She describes herself as abandoned when her Dad saw her fairly regularly and paid for her college education, supported her financially. Dad seems to be rolling with it pretty well, though. Turns out he didn't pay for some medical bills when she was in college. Which bills and why? Who knows. He's her dad and knows her, and is maybe not that surprised that she's telling such stories.
@@wertygospiner2245 she's only has two indy projects under her belt, feels off to judge her based on that, she's just starting out. but you know what her writing is going to be like, you've seen woke stuff before no doubt.
This honestly stinks of the mom badmouthing the dad and basically gaslighting her daughter into thinking he was the worst person imaginable. Wouldn't be surprised if she was also pocketing most of the payments and just telling the daughter that her dad wasn't sending them anything to help support her or cover medical bills.
My mom did the same thing, pocketed our child support to feed her addiction while telling my brother and I our father wasn't paying us a dime, tried to get us to hate our dad until we talked to him about it because he noticed we were in rags and we were noticeably thinner, we were 7 and 9 at the time
I dunno, he comes across as super fake, almost robotic. I think she's a privileged rich kid whining but I also think he seems little better. The guys in advertising ffs, he's selling you a story. They both write fiction of a sort for a living
@@widexawake_ I can actually see it like that. If she's the one that believes that bad publicity is still publicity this all could be a scheme to further boost her father's carreer
to me, this is really the nail in the coffin. how can she don't investigate his claim before posting a video. her dad financial claim is very important.
@@Higurashi86 if there was any inaccurate statement he said she would have spill it in a heartbeat but the fact that she spoke about him not wanting to help with a medical bill while she's an adult speaks a lot about her upbringing
@@bahikhalil6430 Especially now. She seems like shes still young so either she should have continued to be on mom's insurance until 26 years old and/or she should have had a job that provided health insurance.
Ill just assume that means the mom badmouthed the father all their life and somehow spent that 5mil on some useless bullshit and when it ran out he just said to her kids to "ask your rich dad". Id say theres good chance it went that way.
@@Krucifus Tbh I get it. It's a genuine coping mechanism when you are utterly heartbroken and angry. Even if he fakes it, he did it 20x better than his daughter 'trauma' does.
While wearing a Bitcoin shirt with Bitcoin flags - you just know he's loaded with crypto wealth she has no idea about and probably won't ever find out now!
@@Devilishlybenevolentof course you do, buddy. no lie was told. but didn't you just post it is 400k just a couple comments above this one? if you're trying to be funny (which you are not), at least keep it consistent.
@@RationalNon-conformist that's the most infuriating thing about all this, she sickens me. Having trauma isn't an accessory for your american white rich girl persona.
The fact that she lied about not supporting them and now just saying "gave us some money idk" is all you need to know about her. Absolutely vial person she is.
In my experience it depends. It can be quiet healing to share what you've been through with people and cry about it and also sometimes laugh about the absurdities. But yeah the really hard stuff is either absent or blinks through without elaboration. All that tho happens with people you feel safe with and not in public. I can see value in sharing it online, but in this case it seems like they should have talked about this personally instead of talking about each other online.
That is an excellent point! This gives me the inkling that she made the video out of spite when he didn't pay her medical bill during college. He already put 600k in her savings for college, what more does she need? Her life must be so difficult.
@@possum9827You have nothing between your ears do you? He gave her mother a lump sum payment because it was part of their divorce agreement. Full custody was given to the mother and he lived walking distance from their house and vistited frequently. Like he says she is explaing her story through the lense of a child who didnt understand their parents divorce. The mother also seems to have shittalked him alot which is par for the course.
Mom probably pocketed most of it and manipulated the children into hating the dad..you know women are vindictive like that especially after a divorce where the guy still finds happiness after. They have to come and destroy whatever is left at all cost
@@yourvenparianen5390 yeah well you still have a head on your shoulders and you should still use it! She is a grown up thought but she acts like a spoiled child... can't she see the truth for what it is? Of course not!
His ex-wife said on national TV after getting 5 million and 18k child support per month that "it's hard and without a good support network I would not know what to do" ... she also trashed him in the newspaper column she was writing and in the books she wrote. The father is literally Jesus and the mother and this one daugther are pure EVIL.
@@OceanSideO like when she said he never had a hand in raising us, he was sending hand out after hand out 18k/12k at a time every dam month. use that for your medical bills
It kinda makes sense if the problem where abandonment issues that she wants him to pay for that, regardless of other financial support. So maybe it was more about the act of owning up than the money itself. All hypothetical of course
That dad is way better than that girl deserves. Even without the money you can tell he is a good guy. Cares about his family. Kind of sad how stupid people can be and not realize what they have going for them
@@etistyle96 I don't remember, but it's on his channel. But she was wayyyy wrong. Lying about everything. She was living comfortably with the millions of dollars he gave to their mom. And he even showed all the pics of them together on vacations, dinners, graduations, school events, etc. And she had the audacity to complain bc he would put her in therapy for a break up.
@@Wrenchmonkey1well to be fairly she only got a quarter of that $600k because she has 3 siblings. So she only got $150k, clearly not enough to help her. In all seriousness though, based on how savvy this guy is that money was probably appreciating in the stock market or places into bonds earning interest so it probably came out to more than $600k
@@S-K69her mom got 5 million in the divorce, plus alimony, plus child support, plus he’s responsible for health insurance. Why is she asking him for ANY money in the first place and not her mom?
@@S-K69 The college fund was an extra, the 2 million at the beginning and 18k monthly would be enough for her bum mom to cover the rest. Unless she's literally unemployed after almost 20 years and somehow spent all the money on who knows what, instead of saving it or spending it on the kids. as she was supposed to.
Even if we take her perspective as fact, she is saying that he abandoned the family, and then she asked him to pay for medical bills when she was in college. So if that were true, then BY HER OWN ACCOUNT she is treating him like a piggy bank. Imagine your daughter, who never speaks to you, randomly calls you up and just wants money. Yeah, I think I would say no as well.
Mf has met 3 different presidents, for sure makes 7 figures and for all we know probably makes more, has a hot Asian wife, can break dance at 65 and has been covered on the news and articles extensively for it, while still managing to be a supporting father. This is literally the coolest fucking dad in the world.
She tried to farm social media with some drama, forgot her dad has more PR skills than her + 40 years of experience in the field. He presented a relatable character with a positive, interesting message. He elicited empathy and wonder while letting out just enough for viewers to connect the dots and form their own nasty opinion on her and her mother, while keeping 100% bulletproof from legal and PR perspective. A true master of his craft. A fine lesson for her if she can read between the lines
@@BarkusMuhl Nope...and how do we know this? If he didn't pay the money, that would be the first thing she would discredit and bring recipes, but she glossed it over with "well i dont know about the finances.." sry you would know the difference between living in a home, which had millions and living in a home, which had no money. Second of all the carreers of her and her siblings scream "we never had moneyproblems, so we followed our passion". Its most likely, that he lived down the street for a few years, when his kids didnt visit him and his ex wouldnt let him see them, he moved on and had a new family. its more of a speculation on my part, but if he was lying, then she would have more to say, than "he is bad and that one time he didnt pay for my medical bill."
Her mother recreated her in her image. Forced her narratives on her and so on. Its partially the fathers fault as well for not standing up to the mother and preventing her from manipulating the daughter. Basically the mother was evil and the father was weak. Seems like he is being less weak now and immediately the truth is coming out.
not really.. he clearly fucked up and cheated so it's most definitely his fault. Also most likely deluded about having a good relationship with his kids... cheaters are often like that, delusional. I do believe he gave the money though. They are all idiots at the end of the day, and we need to stop giving attention to these people
@@나일두-l4u You know you shouldn't be liable for most types of debt, but companies will pursue you anyway to see if they can con you into paying off the debt.
I'd be careful to judge the situation that quick. We really don't know anything and OF COURSE a guy that comes from marketing will know how to safe face. That beeing said, i don't want to stand on either side, because i think we don't know enough. What does ache me is, that the dad never really got into how often he actually was present in the life of his kids. Living down the street and acually spending time with your kids are very different things. At the end they both can be right, in that the dad did what he could to support his kids, presumably primarily through finances, while his daughter can grieve that he just was not around. Money only goes so far. But that might've been the best thing dad could do.
@@MadhouseBaum "What does ache me is, that the dad never really got into how often he actually was present in the life of his kids." If the mom got full custody, that might have been out of his hands. His visiting rights might have been severely limited.
@@MadhouseBaumthis is the most brainrotted way of thinking have you been outside it aches you Bro its not that deep go outside and realizethis shit has nothing to do with you and it all was a lie from all angels
@@thecrazybirdboyck301 alright then. Anything you wann Tell me you disagree wirh or just want to let out steam? Seems like i've attacked you personally, so sorry for that.
@@Healcraft With how she avoided addressing exactly what the medical expenses were for, while also implying that it was a specific event, I’d say it’s safe to assume it’s true. Otherwise, she probably would’ve given the exact reason for the expenses she wanted him to pay.
One thing though. If you get 3 children with your partner and then realize that you aren't compatible. It's only fair to split custody 50/50. It's a life long commitment getting children and both parents should want to have them close and in their lifes. We get so little information that is hard to judge except that both parents probably failed. The way she handled it was very weird, and also taking her family members hostage in the follow up video. The way both of them handled it is quite immature and disconnected.
@@EverythingWasGreat Personally it's just stupid to air your dirty laundry years later and randomly with nothing to gain or backup your claims. The Dad is entitled to respond, but equally only provides anekdodes to a point you can't say for sure what is true. However to me it paints a clear picture that colors itself, much how Asmon put it. And it shows a daughter so brainwashed by one parent who is clearly very butthurt about the father and his new hot wife. Evidence he does have the money that would obligate him to pay in the millions/upper thousands per month is also visible. And thus making all financal claims of hers redundant. The only potential point i see is they may not connect as people, and he isn't viditing much. Maybe because of the ex wife, or his own accord. But even there she said "We didnt see him for years." And "He visited every month." In the same video. Also props to the dad flat out taking the main blame on the divorce. Shows some good character qualities.
She doesn't mention any actual trauma, she just throws the word out there. I don't think she's experienced Trauma and using what few speed bumps in life she's had to join some weird victim culture type cult they have setup in the breakroom of her screen writers guild. Leave it to a screenwriter to generate a story from nothing.
To be as charitable as possible towards her, having your parents get divorced when you’re five years old can be a really rough experience. With that said, she seems to have still had a VERY stable upbringing, mostly on her father’s dime.
And I heard from somewhere that the medical bills she is talking about is from a counseling she wanted to took after her boyfriend made her heartbroken and dipped(my man). Sources I forgot.
doesn't the average American make like 57 dollars a day? this chick and her siblings would have enough money to fund her for a solid decade just by the god damn father's child support. hell, if you take into account all the other money he gave the mother probably didn't need to work a single day either. that man deserves a fucking refund 😂
Isn't that girl the one that recently went viral saying that she didn't know being "pro-choice" meant that a woman can choose to keep her baby? If so, she's not just a candidate for worst daughter, put her up for worst human.
Isn't she also the same girl who's friend was getting married while she was in a situationship and had chlamydia twice or some like that. I swear it's her
Another professional victim. The Dad is STILL supporting their entire family. Ask Mom where those millions of dollars went. Guy is 60+ years old, breakdancing with an American flag in the background, what a fucking legend
@espressonoob maybe the bar is low because they had to deal with much worse then what this influencer had to go through, not spending a moment in their shoes and being quick to judge isn't very fair
I can see the mom now… “I raised all of these children on my own their dad abandoned us… I’m such a single strong independent woman.” What a fucking joke 🤦🏼♀️
Just imagine saying that you and you’re siblings have no relationship with your dad, he’s delusional and you barely speak to each other. Then when you need money he’s the first person you go to. Not your mom who’s apparently raised you all alone with no support, your deadbeat dad who you never speak to and has never provided anything for you
Btw the guy made another response. Got pretty unhinged. Said he didn't count therapy as medical bills and therefore didn't pay them because therapy is brainwashing invented by the women of the left. His ex wife is trying to turn her kids against him because this is the leftist agenda. He said a couple more things I was appalled by but I don't remember too well.
She also lied in the original stating it was while growing up that he didn't pay her medical bills and then backtracks in the second saying oh no was actually in college while glossing over her massive college fund...
"Mom said she doesn't have any money." "Well ask her where it all went." 😂 you can definitely tell that she already asked her mother first and she refused(probably because she was already grown up.) And then turned to her dad that she knows that everyone in the family hates 😂 SHAMELESS
Saw a thing the other day that if you wanna do this, you shouldn’t write them out entirely. You should leave them $1 Otherwise they can contest the will saying that you forgot them and get a proper share but if you do the above, it was obviously your intention and you weren’t forgotten
not silently I would make that shit public. Like girl I love you so much but love is not about money, already paid for your whole life in advance and you are still asking for more? out of my will!
100%, shes an adult now. If she wants to visit him I have zero doubt she can. If she doesn't then fine but she can't continue to eat out on her 'absent dad trauma' while choosing to be absent herself.. sounds like he made the effort when they were kids to visit monthly, sadly her victim status and having a focus for her neurotic anger is more important to her than a present Dad.
@@jaeyongsoosan you're so right. id get confused all the time because i take numbers really literal. but its "just an expression, listen to what im trying to say behind the words". sometimes i pray for a pause button.
Her language is too vague comparatively to the dad who gave specifics. Unfortunately for her, that vagueness is placing more doubt on her, or more precisely on her mom as it seems she's focused more on defending her family, which is her mom.
True. My distrust of her words begins when she said along the lines "I don't know if my father paid my mother lots of money”, meaning if she doesn't know all the facts, she can't know the whole truth and that's after she posted the first video and heard her father say "I paid total 5mil" and didn't ask her mom if that is true? At least she didn't seem to deny Daddy paid lots of money.
She and all her siblings seem to have gone to expensive universities. Her mom obviously wouldn't be working if she had to raise 4 kids. I'm pretty sure she knows that daddy paid the bills. Otherwise, they would be welfare kids surviving off food stamps and she would have plenty of real "trauma" stories. Pretty sure she has all the information to figure it out, she just isn't ready to process the truth.
She keeps insisting that he abandoned her and didn't pay that much money in child support AND at the same time she claims "I don't know the nitty gritty of the financials". That kid is totally out of whack...
It's honestly annoying. All she has to do is talk to her dad and use her own reasoning to connect the dots. If she really was gaslight by her mom, she would quickly realize it after hearing the dad's side of the story. Instead she's staying ignorant, and sided with the people she already knows. Pushing away someone who could potentially be very meaningful
@@notadoge8178 she probably has issues, that she _thought_ were from her dad abandoning them admitting her mom lied means having all those issues PLUS not being able to trust the one person that you thought you could. It's easier to just keep on believing that he abandon them- adding one more lie to his file is easier
This girl actually explains a lot about the type of sewage water that gets fed to us from Hollywood. This is the type of people they hire to rewrite your favorite franchises.
@@GhostofJamesMadisoncan you explain how a forcing people to stay together will improve society in any way ? Aren’t Americans supposed to be all about personal freedom ?
@@ni9274No it does not. Parental alienation its almost exclusively female, same with infanticide. You know in US, a females it 36 TIMES more likely to be a baby murderer than to be killed by her husband? I know why becouse for decates some ppl here try to pass a law to make parental alienation a CRIME but only women commit it they will never do it.
It's possible mom was the one who tarnished dad's reputation, a child doesn't learn the word "abandoned" out of nowhere. And mom probably spun her a sob story about being a single mom and paying for everything while actually living lavishly herself. She might not have had all the information, OR deliberately made up a story for tiktok. About to go check for updates lol
@@istvankarolyfarkas6125 that's not true either the mom moved not him. Again you are wrong. Watch the new video she lied there's home videos, pics, and texts of him and her he was there. She never got abandoned your being suckered. Quit defending this liar who you know nothing about.
@@alexanderrose1556Wait, the girl that decided to bring her family troubles into the public sphere, doubled down on her being the victim? I take “No one was surprised about it” for 500! 😂
And the part about her growing up with money explains how she managed to find success in Hollywood, because only rich people succeed out there these days
I mean I can understand her perspective that he may not have been present in their lives and that is her “trauma” and she doesn’t care about the money. I’d imagine that is very much how she feels. That being said, to be an adult and not acknowledge the massive positive impact his financial support and connections had on her life… all while referring to, what sounds like a normal ass divorce, as trauma … yea I just can’t get on board with her
@@inDefEE Her response to her dad's video can show us how immature she really is. She gaslighted him in her first video, he made some fact checks in his video so that she could have a wider context like the money he gave to her family, and still the daughter doesn't recognize those facts. One thing is not knowing (hence the first video), but another thing is not recognizing the reality of her surroundings and continue to try to do harm (hence the second video). Another person would consider the new information at heart and try to resolve bad feelings derived from the lack of it, and try to at least be fair; she clearly doesn't want to give an inch.
My mom did the exact same thing with my dad growing up. They got divorced and would lie to me about how much he tried to see me, and poisoned me against him. This girl has obviously made no effort to hear his side, and it shows.
The same thing happened to my father and it prevented my sister and I from being able to know our other siblings because their mom manipulated them into thinking he was a bad guy who wanted nothing to do with them. In reality he was constantly trying to be in their lives and never missed a child support payment. It’s sad to see how some of these parents literally brainwash their children
This happened in reverse, but at the same time, my dad wasn’t the one who specifically said how my mom was, it was influenced how my older sister felt about how she was with us growing up with dual custody as well as one of my uncle’s telling me how she’d go out a lot when we weren’t with her, meanwhile my dad had to pay child support and almost went to jail because of it I believe. I’m gonna say this lightly, but I love my mom, don’t get me wrong, but she’s definitely not the greatest parent, it may be a factor from her childhood, but all I remember is being selfless and self conscious of my own actions because of my mom. Anyways, that’s my story.
Same here. When they got divorced I was already 18 but it took a couple years for me to grow up and see through all the poisonous lies. To this day they still put us against each other and instead of being manipulated, me and my siblings just feel sorry for the pain they still carry because of that divorce. They're 70+ now, both remarried, but it still affects them massively to a point we'd all want both of them to have a nicer end of their lives.
His new lady has faced more adversity than 99% of every American. Dad gave a breakdown of her story and its gut wrenching. It's one of the reasons he gives for never stressing and having such a positive outlook despite the grief he gets from his ex-wife and ungrateful daughter, as she has incredible fortitude and it inspires him.
Her: "My dad gave me trauma and abandoned us to breakdance." Him: "She got a few things wrong but I very much love her." Her: "I can't believe he called me a liar, I should have slandered him so much harder. This doesn't really affect me but also we're all freaking out about it."
Was her actual reply or is that your prediction? Edit: so that basically was her actual reply, for some reason I just found it unbelievable but somehow I forgot she's a ludicrous person, my bad 🤦
I feel bad for this girl. Her biggest "trauma" is essentially nothing. She needs to call her dad and work things out, he'll be dead someday and then it will be too late.
Idk man, divorce is always traumatic for children, even if you see both parents. It's worldshattering in child's eyes. I wouldn't say her trauma is nothing, but: a) getting it out to the Internet for clout b) defending her mostly imaginary memories vs her dad's words c) victim roleplay are simply pathetic
@@A-TALKING-TOASTER what do you even mean? a girlboss is and always has been perfect and if you think otherwise the problem is you, mysoginist - some leftist probably.
It's already too late. She cares more about clout that she does about having a relationship with her dad, and when he's gone the only thing she'll have to say is "how much money did he leave me?"
I feel bad for her in a way, yeah. But for the dad, to hear your kid say all of that about you, having the mom brainwash her? And, yeah. he's approaching the age where him dying wouldn't be a massive shock. Maybe the mom/daughter hopes for money from him dying and don't care beyond that.
The Last hug i gave my mother was when i was 8 and she was cold and dead. And this spoiled brat talks about trauma lol. Calls him delusional which is clearly projecting and a sign of narcissism. If this is how the daughter acts then i wonder how her mother is like.
@INoIFearIGaming For real, i've seen both, but there are so many geniune fakers who use labels like a throwaway term. Actual discrimination/traumas o "I was a normal kid, good at school, but at home i was beaten with a beer bottle every day by a drunkard parent." o "I seemed a normal kid on the outside, but we were violently mistreated, misvalidated. And at 16, i was thrown without a home and had to live in teenage shelters" o "I was born overseas in the middle east. I grew up seeing my entire family killed, tossed into a pile, people who made noises screamed. We were stacked into a pile of bodies, i was 4 and had to pretend i was dead and not move still to survive" Tiktok "trauma" o "I got 5 million dollars from a dad who tried to contact me every day, he gaslighted me "hi! do you want to visit" and manipulated me "Hey! I love you, it's your birthday, i got you presents!" I had every need taken care of, and tons of money, got famous off money i didn't earn, but i am traumatized.. and emotionally abused.. by his hairline." o "I am a white woman who got born into a dentist house with airconditioning. Every day from 16-47. I lived as a poor, tragic princess. I was not born to a saudi multibiillionaire who was blind, weight accepting, and into jumbo sized women from alabama. Also he shouldn't be middle eastern, but Tom Cruise hot, surf on oil, be loyal to only me. and i should be able to fly too." o "I live in a air conditioned room and got given 1000$s of dollars to draw and people still visit, but someone else looked at a piece of art that i, someone living in a first world country with food met, housing met from my parents, and no job (above 3 hrs /week), no income (above 30-50$ 1x a year). Life is terrible. I could walk right down the lane and make 15,000$-30,000$/yr at a "we're hiring" everywhere sign. But i am oppressed if i have to be another person. Other people laugh and ridicule me. But i know that good boss down the street yelling. "I HIRED YOU TO DO YOUR. DAMN. !#@#!@ JOB. YOU STUPID !#@!@#" will actually see i am secretly a princess. And marry me to a blind Tom cruise with 100 million dollars who worships women." /s Im hyper bolic here, of course there are still many people making the best of what they have, caring for their kids, and taking sacrifices to give them better life. Good people with my friends, family and sisters. But oh god, there are so many "Entitled brats" to borrow a term who "Happily would selfishly ruin the lives of everyone else pleading for them to make better choices... So they could spend 139$ doing their nails." "Talking how oppressed they are, while their immigrant parents literally starved and went without meals to get them here".
maybe they're so fragile and sensitive that from their perspective, it actually is a trauma. For the rest of us it wouldn't be, but some people are extremely fragile
She doesn’t care about her mom’s finances. That money wasn’t hers. The only thing she said she wanted was a present father in her life which he categorically was not.
@@erichwagner6958 Which is not true since as she said the sons never tried to visist him so... they never tried to have a relationship or the mom didnt let them in any case is their fault
@@erichwagner6958of course she doesnt care about the money, its because she never was in need and thats because of her daddy, if not for him, she would probably be working at Mcdonalds, she just wants a reason to trash him for things she doesnt even remember and that her mom twisted
think the best way to describe the insufferable writing in most games/media out of cali is "cali-valley", vapid and rapidfire - its like listening to ADHD, and I already have it, I don't need to listen to someone else's
I feel that, as a guy who writes stories in his free time, it upsets me that the quality of writing Hollywood has produced in the last 10 years could have been done by my early highschool self.
Had it been her mother that left the family to pursue “hopes and dreams” she would have been considered a strong independent woman who should be looked up to for taking control of her own life. I actually cannot stand the hypocrisy
She thinks he moved to Florida. But he started his own company pre-2005, which is why he can afford to pay $18k/month. There was no remote work back then. Everybody was still on dial-up Internet, and that is if any of the adults knew how to use the Internet. All his clients were almost certainly local because that was how the world was back then. Dad's story makes more sense. She's applying current-day logic to stuff that happened in the previous generation.
Hands down best breakdown I've read. But I would also add that the dad came with recipts and dates. She was a kid. He also admitted to making mistakes and dumb decisions but never abandoning them.
Well there wasn't much legislation back then and he could've made his millions from sending spam against ToS (like many bro's did back then to get rich).. the enlargement adds and whatever.
My parents divorced when I was 5. Saw my Dad every other weekend until I was 9 and we moved 30 minutes away. In a time without cell phones, I stopped seeing my Dad. Was told he was a piece of shit all my life. When I was 20, and fresh home from a 15 month deployment to Iraq, I tracked him down and spoke with him. He wasn't perfect. He got tired of fighting with my mom and he gave up. Children of divorce should ALWAYS hear both sides. And I found out 2 years ago that my youngest sister from their marriage isn't his
@@demodemo7574 😐 dude 😐 not all people get to a choice of whether they can see their kids, and your just gonna ignore the mother lying to him for who knows how many years.
Yea the mother 100% brainwashed their kids to not like their dad. It's very obvious. Her downplaying 2 million dollars upfront, 12k-18k a month in child support and 600k towards the college fund as just "some money" shows it all. She acts as if it was just a small amount money. But this Maddie person is an adult and still going along with it makes her a bad person imo. She quite literally lied about some things as she did not bother to correct them in her response meaning they were true from the dad's end. I truly feel sorry for the poor sap who ends up setting down with her. If she is willing to lie on her own dad like this, imagine what she is willing to say about a boyfriend.
I would love to see a law when parent can treat their child support like a lean that child has to pay back when they became adult. And it is up to a parent to decide if they want money back or not. She would be more thankful and see it wasn't just "some money", all her siblings could be in student debts right now but they aren't thanks for his generosity
@@SaltyCatlingThe problem with this kind of law is the child doesn't choose to get the money so it would be unfair to force a repayment. On the other hand having better divorce laws (because the bias toward the mother is crazy rn) would probably be a better solution.
@@Sanzeh I know it is hard to reinforce properly and fairly that's why I know it won't happen. It just pisses me of that she believe being rich, stable and not abused is traumatic. She feels so abandoned that she don't reply to his massages nor ever visited him once.
I've never seen a guy take the high ground so effectively. Dad comes out looking like a champ not taking any cheap shots at his daughter after what she said about him.
@@achabotte Yeah, I imagine that's the main reason as well. It's still refreshing to see though. Dude seems so optimistic even after being barraged by her social media mob. I'm impressed.
@@allsdownasdlkfsd I think it's self explanatory why not taking any shots at the person who insulted him is taking the high ground. How did you interpret this?
She obfuscates in the video. The father never said that they necessarily had a great relationship. She admits that he did visit her which lets me know that he was involved (to some degree) in her life. I noticed that when it came to the millions that he gave his ex-wife and kids, she simply replies (paraphrasing), 'I don't know the financial situation.' That lets me know that she was, in fact, well provided for. Her trauma may be that the silver spoon got stuck to the roof of her mouth.
she don't know the financial situation YET blame him a lot about him not wanting to pay her medical bill ... if the men pay 5 M including medical fee in it ... he probably just tell her go ask your mom, i already have pay for that .
Also worth noting that the very idea of divorce is to distance people from each other. Obviously we don't know the details but it's safe to say that with "80%" blame of father, mother will not want to see his face to often, possibly even hear about him, so in turn child gets illusion of him being runaway. (edited incorrect word)
@@Stratos1988 There's plenty of men with ex wives who don't want to see them. They find arrangements to see the kids without seeing their ex, some even go to court for their right to see their kids. There's no excuse for leaving for years, only showing up every few months and forgetting your own kids birthdays.
Not just over 10k but 18k in the beginning ending at 12k along with an initial payment of 2 million. Oh, and lets not forget the 600k for each kids college fund. Seeing him flying the bitcoin flag and wearing a bitcoin shirt - he probably made a FUCK TON of money on crypto so I'd bet he gave each of his kids a lot of other gifts - besides funding their entire lives.
She answered her own complaint on this one. She doesn’t know about the finances and stuff. So she never asked her mom, and her mom probably plays the card that they never have money because dad’s a dead beat.
She's lying, he did another video bringing the receipts with her and her siblings on film on vacation many times growing up. He wouldn't pay for her therapy in college and played $250 a week for 10weeks while the screenwriters were on strike so she could find a job in the meantime.
@@allopez8563 american therapy yes .. european therapy that's focused on solving your issues in 10 to 12 meetings usually childhood trauma and just going back IF REALLY NECESSARY or something new happened is really effective, i solved a lot of my shit in 8 meetings and never payed another eurocent
@@Rhirhii103 I love my mother. We talk every nearly every day. She regularly forgets my birthday and even my age. He has receipts of time spent and care shown. Just because she says he neglected her doesn't mean he did. She has been proven to either have been kept in the dark about all he did for them growing up or lying about not knowing. With so many people shaming their partners on social media for views and lying about their victimhood for clout (i.e. Brick Lady), I am going to need more than hearsay when the dad is posting verifiable info about actions taken and timeframes.
My mom divorced my dad when i was about 8 years old. I never saw or heard from him for the next 10 years while my mom was talking trash about him the whole time. She was like "look what kind of a father he is, he doesnt even want to see you". When i was 18 I accidentially got in contact with him, and spent a lot of time with him and his new family. Turned out his side of the story made a lot more sense than what my mom told me. And for the contact, she threatened him to never contact us or she'll get authoritys involved. If you are divorced and have the kids living with you, don't hate on your ex in front of your children. They will grow up and it will backfire eventually...
@@Ryan-zv3os The truth to who? To the person who got divorced? The child doesn't know that. Unless the divorce was because someone was beating crap out of their kids or was doing something much worse, then the reason for the divorce is the parents. The kids have nothing to do with it. So don't try and get your kids to take a parent's side. Let them have a relationship with their parent. Even if you hate the other parent because they are a piece of shit who cheated on you, that doesn't change their love for their children. If the child grows up and hates the parent because of that, then that's their decision, but you as a parent have no right to tell your kid what to think of their other parent.
Pretty much the same thing happened to me, parents divorced when i was 9 and my mom manipulated me against him for most my life. Now that im older my dad has had honest talks with me about how it all happened even with his own faults but my mom still to this day refuses to acknowledge any of her wrong doings even with hard proof. I dont understand what compels someone to behave in such ways.
@@jakehr3 They wont grow up and resent hearing the truth. If the parent is a beater the kids should know that. Hence why i say unless its the truth. But to be fair i was thinking only of a divorce where one parent is not a suitable parent. Speaking the truth is much better than hiding the truth and allowing a child to discover what a nasty person their parent is on their own. If anything a child could resent being hid from the truth, the same as they could resent parent slagging off the other with lies.
"he like literally had no hand in raising us at all"
*literally gave the family more money than most people will make their entire life*
Most people? Try 99% of people.
@@threeequalsd4865 exactly, and the 1% has 99% of the money
Well, that doesn’t make up for being an absent dad
@@IManeb146He wasn't. Maddie lied. He made a 30 minute followup with proof.
@@IManeb146 you don't understand how divorce and child custody works, now, do you?
The daughter was definitely right about one thing. Her dad is whimsical af. I’d follow that guy on a fuckin quest if he asked.
PS: I’m happy you guys liked my comment😂
Sounds awesome, count me in
this fuckin' comment sent me xD
count me in
Idk what'd I'd do, but I'll help
@@cacophonousantiquarian8803The bags are packed, the horse is saddled, where we goin' then?
Blud could recruit me
$18,000 a month is literally 6+ months pay for a lot of people TODAY let alone over a decade ago. I don’t think that sinks in enough.
The mom probably told all the kids the father abandoned them.
She definitely did. The kids need to grill their mother because they clearly didn't get the full story.
At least she doesnt look like a monster like far to many libral women do after university these days.
Give it time.
The worst monsters are the ones that blend in
She is a screenwriting at Hollywood, this makes perfect sense.
full of plot holes
@@nicknevco215 and she's the girlboss that can do no wrong, same for her mom and the white man is the villain. very modern day hollywood.
She's sort of rewritten her childhood to give herself some trauma to talk about, make it more dramatic.
She describes herself as abandoned when her Dad saw her fairly regularly and paid for her college education, supported her financially. Dad seems to be rolling with it pretty well, though. Turns out he didn't pay for some medical bills when she was in college. Which bills and why? Who knows.
He's her dad and knows her, and is maybe not that surprised that she's telling such stories.
I'm kind of curious on what projects she worked to see how good of a writer she is
@@wertygospiner2245 she's only has two indy projects under her belt, feels off to judge her based on that, she's just starting out. but you know what her writing is going to be like, you've seen woke stuff before no doubt.
"Didnt see him for years"
"He visited every few months and we went to dinner"
Wait
"We didn't hear from him for years... he would visit every few months"
Couldn't even keep the story straight for a single conjunction.
🤣🤣🤣
It gives us an indication of how good of a screenwriter she is at least
@@quentinptak7990 She can write the sequels to Morbius and Madame Web.
Well, She is a screenwriter in Hollywood and the movies coming out are showing the same problems.
She did a lot of ear tugging to the point of it becoming red, that usually indicates stress and comforting themselves usually due to lying mid lie.
the dad really said " let me break it down for you"
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@@kilroy1964 breakdance
Really underrated comment.
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LOL. Took me a while to understand that, but it got it lmao
The Hollywood screenwriter made a viral story, and the marketing agency guy changed the public opinion. Both are peak professionals.
Lmao so true
truly masters of their craft 😂
great comment 😄
🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
This honestly stinks of the mom badmouthing the dad and basically gaslighting her daughter into thinking he was the worst person imaginable. Wouldn't be surprised if she was also pocketing most of the payments and just telling the daughter that her dad wasn't sending them anything to help support her or cover medical bills.
this, it's 100% either the moms fault or daddy's just making shit up
That’s a great point, she wouldn’t have gotten that stuck in her head without her mom saying something when she was older.
My mom did the same thing, pocketed our child support to feed her addiction while telling my brother and I our father wasn't paying us a dime, tried to get us to hate our dad until we talked to him about it because he noticed we were in rags and we were noticeably thinner, we were 7 and 9 at the time
Happens all the time unfortunately the spouse vents their anger to the kids and it hurts the kids.
I've seen this so many times. Unfortunately the kids usually find out too late what really went on.
She clearly never had a one-to-one talk with her dad and never asked for his side of the story, not even after becoming an adult.
She never visited him either.
Of course why would she ... she a strong independent woman with a small loan of a million dollars
Doesn't speak for her dad either. During the whole time she was a child he never took the time to explain it to her.
Adult? Who said she was an adult? I don't see an adult in her at all...
She couldn't. She needed the "trauma" to be her backstory for when she meets people.
A fake victim on social media? Shocking.
i dont even think she was playing victim, she was actually giving him exposure
@@crimnvL You can't be this dense
Not only that, a writer in Hollywood pumping out awful movies.
I dunno, he comes across as super fake, almost robotic. I think she's a privileged rich kid whining but I also think he seems little better. The guys in advertising ffs, he's selling you a story. They both write fiction of a sort for a living
@@widexawake_ I can actually see it like that. If she's the one that believes that bad publicity is still publicity this all could be a scheme to further boost her father's carreer
"when it comes to the financial situation i don't know the nitty gritty "
yea she's spoiled
to me, this is really the nail in the coffin.
how can she don't investigate his claim before posting a video.
her dad financial claim is very important.
@@Higurashi86 if there was any inaccurate statement he said she would have spill it in a heartbeat but the fact that she spoke about him not wanting to help with a medical bill while she's an adult speaks a lot about her upbringing
@@bahikhalil6430 Especially now. She seems like shes still young so either she should have continued to be on mom's insurance until 26 years old and/or she should have had a job that provided health insurance.
@@Higurashi86She is posting the video for attention you see. It doesnt matter if its not factual. Women dont care about such things.
Ill just assume that means the mom badmouthed the father all their life and somehow spent that 5mil on some useless bullshit and when it ran out he just said to her kids to "ask your rich dad". Id say theres good chance it went that way.
Of course she’s a Hollywood Screenwriter.
Personal trauma is currency in Hollywood (among other fields).
@@Sunless1337 I didn't see it on DEIA honestly, but as long as she's she, she's all right
aka unemployed or works 3hrs a week
What's her name? Kinda want to find out the works she's related to if they're good shows, mids or dumpster fires.
Fr
She thought her dad dont know about internet
Man dances better than her, probably has better meme taste
I love how this dad talks like a WatchMojo person in the beginning.
But man his breakdancing was fire
Beginning? He pretty much sounded like it the whole way through!
Npc family
@@Krucifus Tbh I get it. It's a genuine coping mechanism when you are utterly heartbroken and angry.
Even if he fakes it, he did it 20x better than his daughter 'trauma' does.
@@Krucifus Holy shit your account is 17 years old; you’re an adult! I thought you were 13 or 14 lol
>Got dunked by his own daughter
>Elaborates
>Breakdance
>Elaborates again
What a chad
Yeah bro, he reminds me of me. I paid my ex wife $50,000,000 to settle the divorce. I give my kids $500,000 a month.
While wearing a Bitcoin shirt with Bitcoin flags - you just know he's loaded with crypto wealth she has no idea about and probably won't ever find out now!
@@Devilishlybenevolentof course you do, buddy. no lie was told.
but didn't you just post it is 400k just a couple comments above this one?
if you're trying to be funny (which you are not), at least keep it consistent.
BBoy DopeDad
@@MAXDEVVING Most insane part is that dude was casually chillin with not only with 1 president but 2. Nixon and Reagan
He didn’t just cook, my man made an entire thanksgiving dinner
And paid for it
He paid enough to buy us all Thanksgiving dinner and sounds nice enough he'd cook it too.
shit thanksgiving christmas new years easter halloween mlk etc, all the meals
and when he was done making the the finest of cuisines, he started breakdancing at the end of it. an actual chad dad
With 3 different pies for desert
The word "trauma" is being thrown around a lot recently and the word has lost all its meaning.
It is.. and some of us have real trauma and don’t speak about it. Yet the ones who lived a privileged life speak about trauma, LOl. Laughable.
@@RationalNon-conformist that's the most infuriating thing about all this, she sickens me. Having trauma isn't an accessory for your american white rich girl persona.
and hundreds kind of mental illness. self diagnose everywhere
Just like the r-word and abuse
its clearly that ppl use a lot for a purpouse, and its all about victmize
"We didn't hear from him for years, but he'd visit every few months."
No further questions your honor.
Underrated comment
Exactly, and he probably asked to visit way more.
"Hollywood Screenwriter" 💀
@@Malenia_BladeOfMiquella not suprising by current films from there
@@IamnotfromUSA facts🙂
The fact that she lied about not supporting them and now just saying "gave us some money idk" is all you need to know about her. Absolutely vial person she is.
Vile*
Vial is a glass container like a bottle.
First of all: I agree with you 100%
Second: vile, not vial.
Either she or her mom is.
money is the only language she and her mom can understand from him
like a little bottle?
for a writer, she left a lot of plot details.
She’s writing for the *MODERN AUDIENCE,* duh.
so thats what modern writers do
Tbf she's a Hollywood writer so we should've expected that
Because adding it would disprove her arguement so she reworked it to paint her in the best light possible its all about her and her image
No wonder the hollywood scripts and movies suck. She's completely inconsistent with the fake story too.
In an update, the dad disowned her and wrote her out of his will.
Her: you abandoned us
Him: I paid for almost everything *breakdances and shuffles away*
5 mill is literally amount that would secure you for life, but she doesnt get into the "nitty gritty"
He didn't make ANY of that money by dancing.
@@dieengie337 Heh.😂
I'm dead...this is exactly what I was thinking lmao!
Based and breakdancing pilled
She is definitely a Hollywood screenwriter, her own life story has plot holes and convenient truths written every sentence.
Unreliable Narrator
Fallout show
The fact she’s a screenwriter tells me all I need to know about why modern movies suck.
the fact that modern movies suck tells me all i need to know about a modern screenwriter
Nono, this doesn't work, you can't just switch his sentence like this.@@Zercias
@@4IndieForever it doesn't mean the same sure, but are you going to tell me i'm wrong? xD
No, but i too did this once, and then somebody told me i couldn't do that.@@Zercias
@@4IndieForever have you ever considered they might have been wrong?
I wish I had a deadbeat dad that left me 5 million 2005 dollars.
In my experience people who experienced “childhood trauma” aren’t keen to tell everyone about it
True story
Exactly.
She prefers to laugh about it and share it because it's funny Kappa
yeah i just let you meet my mother and experiance it
In my experience it depends.
It can be quiet healing to share what you've been through with people and cry about it and also sometimes laugh about the absurdities.
But yeah the really hard stuff is either absent or blinks through without elaboration.
All that tho happens with people you feel safe with and not in public.
I can see value in sharing it online, but in this case it seems like they should have talked about this personally instead of talking about each other online.
if her dad abandoned her. why would she ask him for money? She sees him as a pot of gold just as her mom.
Good point, she claims they have no relationship since childhood, yet in college she is begging him for money..
That is an excellent point! This gives me the inkling that she made the video out of spite when he didn't pay her medical bill during college. He already put 600k in her savings for college, what more does she need? Her life must be so difficult.
they always do.
Since he was never there he gives them a lump sum of money. Guy is a deadbeat
@@possum9827You have nothing between your ears do you? He gave her mother a lump sum payment because it was part of their divorce agreement. Full custody was given to the mother and he lived walking distance from their house and vistited frequently.
Like he says she is explaing her story through the lense of a child who didnt understand their parents divorce. The mother also seems to have shittalked him alot which is par for the course.
After breakdancing:
"It's never too late to try something new" ❌️
"It's never too late to start breakdancing" ✅️
The Audacity to get 5 million from your dad and still play victim 💀
"I'm so oppressed!!! Check your privilege!!!"
Mom probably pocketed most of it and manipulated the children into hating the dad..you know women are vindictive like that especially after a divorce where the guy still finds happiness after. They have to come and destroy whatever is left at all cost
@@yourvenparianen5390 yeah well you still have a head on your shoulders and you should still use it! She is a grown up thought but she acts like a spoiled child... can't she see the truth for what it is? Of course not!
@@frikabg you people are so triggered about a situation you’ll never know 100% about. One thing we do know is this dude didn’t even know her birthday😭
@@simplebidnessman some people dont even know their own birthdays and dont celebrate anything. whats your point?
The ex-wife trash talked him for the daughter's entire childhood...after being handed $5M tax-free🤦♂ What an ingrate...
His ex-wife said on national TV after getting 5 million and 18k child support per month that "it's hard and without a good support network I would not know what to do" ... she also trashed him in the newspaper column she was writing and in the books she wrote. The father is literally Jesus and the mother and this one daugther are pure EVIL.
@@TheBazinoHer "support network" was the $5m
frankly if his ex wife is anything like his daughter, and I assume she is, I can see why he left her.
The 'medical expenses' he wouldn't pay for was 'grief counseling' when she broke up with her boyfriend. A joke in other words.
Wow thats pathetic or sad lmao either way, you would think the mom would cover that with all the money she's sitting on or did she blow through it.
@@OceanSideO like when she said he never had a hand in raising us, he was sending hand out after hand out 18k/12k at a time every dam month. use that for your medical bills
How do you know that though?
@@Rwoarr He says that in this video or his prior video.
It kinda makes sense if the problem where abandonment issues that she wants him to pay for that, regardless of other financial support.
So maybe it was more about the act of owning up than the money itself.
All hypothetical of course
That dad is way better than that girl deserves. Even without the money you can tell he is a good guy. Cares about his family. Kind of sad how stupid people can be and not realize what they have going for them
He gave her 5 million and still lives comfortably
This dude is RICH rich
I would recommend you to check out the new reponse videos he put out. There's alot of info he didn't mentinoned. His life was quite tough actually.
@@No-zt3rk what's the name of the video ?
@@etistyle96🎉🎉🎉yes
@@etistyle96 I don't remember, but it's on his channel. But she was wayyyy wrong. Lying about everything. She was living comfortably with the millions of dollars he gave to their mom. And he even showed all the pics of them together on vacations, dinners, graduations, school events, etc. And she had the audacity to complain bc he would put her in therapy for a break up.
@@No-zt3rkHis life is not fucking rough
Bro literally is living the American dream and his daughter didn't even realize how lucky she is
I think to really get a lot of social cred in that industry being a victim gets you a long way. Everyone loves a good sob story.
You don't learn to appriciate the little things when you have only big things from day one.
she probably thinks she's a big victim of the system
Remember that, if someone does not have a reason to complain, they'll find one
"Bro"
my guy I agree with you but you gotta stop it with zoomer lingo. It makes no sense here, I thought you were talking about the father.
"he literally would not help me in college"
... the college he paid for?
Yeah, but that was only a measly SIX HUNDRED THOUSAND DOLLARS!
@@Wrenchmonkey1well to be fairly she only got a quarter of that $600k because she has 3 siblings. So she only got $150k, clearly not enough to help her. In all seriousness though, based on how savvy this guy is that money was probably appreciating in the stock market or places into bonds earning interest so it probably came out to more than $600k
@@S-K69
Yeah, if he put it into a college fund in 2005, there was WAY more than that by the time she went to college.
@@S-K69her mom got 5 million in the divorce, plus alimony, plus child support, plus he’s responsible for health insurance. Why is she asking him for ANY money in the first place and not her mom?
@@S-K69 The college fund was an extra, the 2 million at the beginning and 18k monthly would be enough for her bum mom to cover the rest. Unless she's literally unemployed after almost 20 years and somehow spent all the money on who knows what, instead of saving it or spending it on the kids. as she was supposed to.
And since this story first came out, the dad's written that particular daughter out of his will. Karma. Consequences.
Not only he's not angry at his daughter, but he even says her story is true from her perspective. Truly based dad!
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GigaDad
Yep and acting like the video was to hurt there family even though he meant the best plus he wanted to shut down the special people texting him
He's not angry, he's just disappointed
Even if we take her perspective as fact, she is saying that he abandoned the family, and then she asked him to pay for medical bills when she was in college. So if that were true, then BY HER OWN ACCOUNT she is treating him like a piggy bank. Imagine your daughter, who never speaks to you, randomly calls you up and just wants money. Yeah, I think I would say no as well.
Mf has met 3 different presidents, for sure makes 7 figures and for all we know probably makes more, has a hot Asian wife, can break dance at 65 and has been covered on the news and articles extensively for it, while still managing to be a supporting father. This is literally the coolest fucking dad in the world.
exactly...and because she is a failure, she is jealous of him.
you better ask who Benjamin Hart is, it's such a fake drama, his daughter with all shiny straight teeth XD
How do you know he is the right one
Went to jail too and made friends with a convicted murderer behind bars. He could become a rapper.
Nah, you forgot about my dad who is way cooler
She tried to farm social media with some drama, forgot her dad has more PR skills than her + 40 years of experience in the field. He presented a relatable character with a positive, interesting message. He elicited empathy and wonder while letting out just enough for viewers to connect the dots and form their own nasty opinion on her and her mother, while keeping 100% bulletproof from legal and PR perspective. A true master of his craft. A fine lesson for her if she can read between the lines
Performative emotional manipulation seems to run in this family.
good point they both could be = bad here since his voice in the video is very odd and preformative is a perfect word for it@@walmartian422
She thought she could bear her dad....who had decades of ADVERTISING experience.
😂😂😂
And his message was as fake as any other advertisement.
@@BarkusMuhl Nope...and how do we know this? If he didn't pay the money, that would be the first thing she would discredit and bring recipes, but she glossed it over with "well i dont know about the finances.." sry you would know the difference between living in a home, which had millions and living in a home, which had no money. Second of all the carreers of her and her siblings scream "we never had moneyproblems, so we followed our passion". Its most likely, that he lived down the street for a few years, when his kids didnt visit him and his ex wouldnt let him see them, he moved on and had a new family. its more of a speculation on my part, but if he was lying, then she would have more to say, than "he is bad and that one time he didnt pay for my medical bill."
Sounds like her anger is aimed at the wrong parent.
Her mother recreated her in her image. Forced her narratives on her and so on. Its partially the fathers fault as well for not standing up to the mother and preventing her from manipulating the daughter. Basically the mother was evil and the father was weak. Seems like he is being less weak now and immediately the truth is coming out.
not really.. he clearly fucked up and cheated so it's most definitely his fault. Also most likely deluded about having a good relationship with his kids... cheaters are often like that, delusional. I do believe he gave the money though. They are all idiots at the end of the day, and we need to stop giving attention to these people
@@OArchivesX you sound just like your mother
Based on what information? The mom raised 4 kids and all the guy did was pay 5 mil. There is more to being a parent then paying money.
@@Secultoo if you know a somewhere I can raise 4 kids (Assume from 0 to 20 years) for 5 mil, let me know :D
5 million dollars, my parents gave me 10k of debt... bro I am so done with these spoiled people.
yeah mine did as well a few years back.. went bankrupt and lost my business
@@나일두-l4u You know you shouldn't be liable for most types of debt, but companies will pursue you anyway to see if they can con you into paying off the debt.
Mine gave $2,000 in settlement ffs, these people man
Me too bro, I pay 50 million dollars to my ex wife. Nearly 400k a month in child support. The system is broken!
Some parents are jerks
But bruh, he is not one of them
Come on
She bet on her father not understanding what a tiktok is
She bet wrong.
You can tell who was on truth.
The dad only corrected her and never went against anyone. She slandered him and labeled him as delusional.
I'd be careful to judge the situation that quick.
We really don't know anything and OF COURSE a guy that comes from marketing will know how to safe face.
That beeing said, i don't want to stand on either side, because i think we don't know enough.
What does ache me is, that the dad never really got into how often he actually was present in the life of his kids.
Living down the street and acually spending time with your kids are very different things.
At the end they both can be right, in that the dad did what he could to support his kids, presumably primarily through finances, while his daughter can grieve that he just was not around. Money only goes so far. But that might've been the best thing dad could do.
@@MadhouseBaum "What does ache me is, that the dad never really got into how often he actually was present in the life of his kids." If the mom got full custody, that might have been out of his hands. His visiting rights might have been severely limited.
@@shok24199but this is all speculation, coming back to his point of not enough information
@@MadhouseBaumthis is the most brainrotted way of thinking have you been outside it aches you
Bro its not that deep go outside and realizethis shit has nothing to do with you and it all was a lie from all angels
@@thecrazybirdboyck301 alright then.
Anything you wann Tell me you disagree wirh or just want to let out steam?
Seems like i've attacked you personally, so sorry for that.
His second response is even crazier🤣 she wanted money for “grief counseling” over a breakup and said he refused to pay her medical bills💀😭
LMAOOOO
My brother in Christ please tell me that isn't true lmfaooo
@@Healcraft With how she avoided addressing exactly what the medical expenses were for, while also implying that it was a specific event, I’d say it’s safe to assume it’s true. Otherwise, she probably would’ve given the exact reason for the expenses she wanted him to pay.
@@53cards92 She said it in the second video, no assumtion necessary
@@53cards92 exactly. She would dramatize the whole thing instead of hiding it behind different words :D
"We didn't see him for years, he visited us every other month". That doesn't make sense.
Her "screenwriting" must be absolute trash
Him being deadbeat doesn't make sense, or medical bills worth 5M
If anything she has a deadbeat mom if she can't take care of her 3 kids with 5 mil.
One thing though. If you get 3 children with your partner and then realize that you aren't compatible. It's only fair to split custody 50/50. It's a life long commitment getting children and both parents should want to have them close and in their lifes. We get so little information that is hard to judge except that both parents probably failed. The way she handled it was very weird, and also taking her family members hostage in the follow up video. The way both of them handled it is quite immature and disconnected.
@@EverythingWasGreat Personally it's just stupid to air your dirty laundry years later and randomly with nothing to gain or backup your claims.
The Dad is entitled to respond, but equally only provides anekdodes to a point you can't say for sure what is true.
However to me it paints a clear picture that colors itself, much how Asmon put it. And it shows a daughter so brainwashed by one parent who is clearly very butthurt about the father and his new hot wife.
Evidence he does have the money that would obligate him to pay in the millions/upper thousands per month is also visible.
And thus making all financal claims of hers redundant.
The only potential point i see is they may not connect as people, and he isn't viditing much. Maybe because of the ex wife, or his own accord.
But even there she said "We didnt see him for years." And "He visited every month." In the same video.
Also props to the dad flat out taking the main blame on the divorce. Shows some good character qualities.
Man: uses chagrined in a sentence
Me: this mf spittin
1) Trashes dad. 2) Gets response. 3) Calls the initial post "being silly" but also "doesn't want to get into it."
Her: I made him out to be this silly guy.
Her version of a silly guy: He abandoned us to become a breakdancer and refused to pay my medical bills.
😂😂
I hate it when people start a conversation/monologue and don´t actually commit to it especially when they´re critiqued or corrected.
Dad heard she was slandering him so he came down with the documents all about her AND her sibling's existence 😂
women and zero accountability go hand in hand.
Schrodinger’s silly. It’s silly when it’s advantageous to her. But it’s also serious when it’s advantageous to her
She doesn't mention any actual trauma, she just throws the word out there. I don't think she's experienced Trauma and using what few speed bumps in life she's had to join some weird victim culture type cult they have setup in the breakroom of her screen writers guild. Leave it to a screenwriter to generate a story from nothing.
She most likely had one of the most secure upbringings in the entire world yet she thinks she's is traumatized.
To be as charitable as possible towards her, having your parents get divorced when you’re five years old can be a really rough experience. With that said, she seems to have still had a VERY stable upbringing, mostly on her father’s dime.
And I heard from somewhere that the medical bills she is talking about is from a counseling she wanted to took after her boyfriend made her heartbroken and dipped(my man).
Sources I forgot.
@@bbmul1572I had that happen but was living in poverty and I don't consider it trauma
Yeah her biggest "trauma" seems to be "he didn't pay for her medical expenses when she asked him to"
That's $23,000/month or ~$770/day in Child Support. I wish I had an "absent" family member investing $770/day into me.
Yeah I was like "you're getting payed for this shit?"
The money goes to the mom first, so probably she didn't see much of that money if you know what I mean
Holy shit
doesn't the average American make like 57 dollars a day? this chick and her siblings would have enough money to fund her for a solid decade just by the god damn father's child support. hell, if you take into account all the other money he gave the mother probably didn't need to work a single day either. that man deserves a fucking refund 😂
I wish I had a fucking job investing $770/day into me.
Isn't that girl the one that recently went viral saying that she didn't know being "pro-choice" meant that a woman can choose to keep her baby?
If so, she's not just a candidate for worst daughter, put her up for worst human.
Yes
Isn't she also the same girl who's friend was getting married while she was in a situationship and had chlamydia twice or some like that. I swear it's her
Another professional victim. The Dad is STILL supporting their entire family. Ask Mom where those millions of dollars went. Guy is 60+ years old, breakdancing with an American flag in the background, what a fucking legend
what does the american flag matter? gamer's bar for parents is super low for men, rlly weird
@espressonoob maybe the bar is low because they had to deal with much worse then what this influencer had to go through, not spending a moment in their shoes and being quick to judge isn't very fair
@@espressonoob 5 million dollars in support is a low bar?
I can see the mom now… “I raised all of these children on my own their dad abandoned us… I’m such a single strong independent woman.” What a fucking joke 🤦🏼♀️
@@espressonoob Millions of dollars is a low bar?
"OMG im so traumatized by my dad abandoning me"
"Ok, let me break it down for you"
let me *break dance* it down for you
Underrated comment
Amazing
and spiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Amenbreak WOO YEAH WOO YEAH
"we dont really have a relationship but I wanted money from him when I was an adult and he didnt give it to me... " big yikes
100%
Just imagine saying that you and you’re siblings have no relationship with your dad, he’s delusional and you barely speak to each other. Then when you need money he’s the first person you go to. Not your mom who’s apparently raised you all alone with no support, your deadbeat dad who you never speak to and has never provided anything for you
6:35 Not only that but homies rocking the Bitcoin Tee so we all know where his breakdancing seed funds come from 💀💀😭
>airs her family’s dirty laundry for the world.
>he sets the record straight
>”HE IS TRAUMATIZING OUR FAMILY!!!”
I don't like people getting devorce, I don't care what reason it is.
The blame shifting is so disgusting. This is the same as a murderer screaming that they are being traumatized because they put him in jail for life.
@johnx140 not the same at 😂😂😂
Btw the guy made another response. Got pretty unhinged. Said he didn't count therapy as medical bills and therefore didn't pay them because therapy is brainwashing invented by the women of the left. His ex wife is trying to turn her kids against him because this is the leftist agenda. He said a couple more things I was appalled by but I don't remember too well.
@@johnx140 maddy certainly received the chutzpah from her mothers side
"dad, can you pay for this medical bill?"
"I already gave money to your mom, ask her"
he refused to pay my medical bill
"dad, would you pay a nose job for me?"
"no"
"MY DAD REFUSED TO PAY MY MEDICAL BILLS"
"Tooth extraction 50 million USD"
He only paid 5 million USD, what a deadbeat.
She was probably asking for some plastic surgery bullshit.
Cause you know Hollywood.
She also lied in the original stating it was while growing up that he didn't pay her medical bills and then backtracks in the second saying oh no was actually in college while glossing over her massive college fund...
"Mom said she doesn't have any money."
"Well ask her where it all went."
😂 you can definitely tell that she already asked her mother first and she refused(probably because she was already grown up.) And then turned to her dad that she knows that everyone in the family hates 😂 SHAMELESS
" we dont have a relationship but i asked him for more money"
14:30 "He got remarried, moved away, and we didn't hear from him for years! Yeah he would visit us every month and we'd go out to dinner, but..." 🤨
we know the mother had a big part of how this has turned out
That part
A hollywood screenwriter? Tells me everything I need to know.
Turns out he's a better breakdancer AND a better influencer than his daughter
😂😂
Of course, he made a career in advertisement.
I bet he could write better too
This comment section is full of a lot of sad dudes lmao
@@josiahworthington3881 Cry more, womp womp.
Someone’s silently being written out of the will.
Saw a thing the other day that if you wanna do this, you shouldn’t write them out entirely. You should leave them $1
Otherwise they can contest the will saying that you forgot them and get a proper share but if you do the above, it was obviously your intention and you weren’t forgotten
not silently I would make that shit public. Like girl I love you so much but love is not about money, already paid for your whole life in advance and you are still asking for more? out of my will!
@@thoughtfulalbatros9683 oooh this is even better.. "for my daughter... a bottle of water"
And to my daughter I leave whatever lint is still in the dryer trap
@@thoughtfulalbatros9683 that's genius
Anyone who will disparage their family for social media clout is subhuman, imo.
"We have not seen him in years" and "He visited us monthly" like huh??
The first part sounded better on her tiktok.
Then she had to clarify because he called her out on it
she said that back to back, its a full quote "we didnt see him for a few years, and he would visit us every couple of months" I QUOTE@@krzychomistrz
Und lived a mile away but she never visited him..
2 million + 18k gg
100%, shes an adult now. If she wants to visit him I have zero doubt she can. If she doesn't then fine but she can't continue to eat out on her 'absent dad trauma' while choosing to be absent herself.. sounds like he made the effort when they were kids to visit monthly, sadly her victim status and having a focus for her neurotic anger is more important to her than a present Dad.
"we didn't hear from him for years"
next sentence: "and he would visit every few months" 🤔
girl language is not easy to learn
She liar don't try to understand her
He visited, but didn't talk. Easy explanation 😂
@@gokuman87 >shows up
>stares blankly at children
>breakdances on the kitchen table
>leaves without explanation
@@jaeyongsoosan you're so right. id get confused all the time because i take numbers really literal. but its "just an expression, listen to what im trying to say behind the words". sometimes i pray for a pause button.
Her language is too vague comparatively to the dad who gave specifics.
Unfortunately for her, that vagueness is placing more doubt on her, or more precisely on her mom as it seems she's focused more on defending her family, which is her mom.
True. My distrust of her words begins when she said along the lines "I don't know if my father paid my mother lots of money”, meaning if she doesn't know all the facts, she can't know the whole truth and that's after she posted the first video and heard her father say "I paid total 5mil" and didn't ask her mom if that is true?
At least she didn't seem to deny Daddy paid lots of money.
She and all her siblings seem to have gone to expensive universities. Her mom obviously wouldn't be working if she had to raise 4 kids. I'm pretty sure she knows that daddy paid the bills. Otherwise, they would be welfare kids surviving off food stamps and she would have plenty of real "trauma" stories. Pretty sure she has all the information to figure it out, she just isn't ready to process the truth.
She keeps insisting that he abandoned her and didn't pay that much money in child support AND at the same time she claims "I don't know the nitty gritty of the financials". That kid is totally out of whack...
It's honestly annoying. All she has to do is talk to her dad and use her own reasoning to connect the dots. If she really was gaslight by her mom, she would quickly realize it after hearing the dad's side of the story. Instead she's staying ignorant, and sided with the people she already knows. Pushing away someone who could potentially be very meaningful
@@notadoge8178 she probably has issues, that she _thought_ were from her dad abandoning them
admitting her mom lied means having all those issues PLUS not being able to trust the one person that you thought you could.
It's easier to just keep on believing that he abandon them- adding one more lie to his file is easier
„Some money“ is crazy, give me some money then
He literally has receipts, he could prove his side in an instant.
Where are they?
@@apap4950 He's dropped them in a new video lmao
@@Yoshi278 link?
And how much time did he spend with her growing up?
@@apap4950it’s in the video you’re commenting on. What do you mean link?
This girl actually explains a lot about the type of sewage water that gets fed to us from Hollywood. This is the type of people they hire to rewrite your favorite franchises.
AWFL are the worst.
Which is why no fault divorce ruined our society
@@GhostofJamesMadisoncan you explain how a forcing people to stay together will improve society in any way ?
Aren’t Americans supposed to be all about personal freedom ?
@@ni9274I mean, a 50% divorce rate ain't helping nobody...
Mom shit talked dad constantly to the kids and "dad = bad" is ingrained in her psyche.
100%. Unfortunately that is way too common with divorced parents
It also goes the otherway
@@ni9274 Did we watch the same video? It does not go the other way. Maddie did not shit talk her mom.
@@ni9274No it does not. Parental alienation its almost exclusively female, same with infanticide.
You know in US, a females it 36 TIMES more likely to be a baby murderer than to be killed by her husband?
I know why becouse for decates some ppl here try to pass a law to make parental alienation a CRIME but only women commit it they will never do it.
It's possible mom was the one who tarnished dad's reputation, a child doesn't learn the word "abandoned" out of nowhere. And mom probably spun her a sob story about being a single mom and paying for everything while actually living lavishly herself. She might not have had all the information, OR deliberately made up a story for tiktok. About to go check for updates lol
Madi: "Not once did any of us ever take a bike ride to his house."
Just because you didn't doesn't mean you couldn't.
I mean what is a bike trip across the USA One could go from New York to Florida in like half an hour if they are lazy....
@@istvankarolyfarkas6125what are you talking about? He lived down the street.
@@RageKage987 for a few months THEN he moved to Florida - which I am quite sure is not bike riding distance
@@istvankarolyfarkas6125 that's not true either the mom moved not him. Again you are wrong. Watch the new video she lied there's home videos, pics, and texts of him and her he was there. She never got abandoned your being suckered. Quit defending this liar who you know nothing about.
@@RageKage987 timestamp
A "Hollywood screenwriter and social media influencer" that throws her family publicly under the bus for clout? That's unheard of! 🤣
I mean a mixed race girl called her dead dad out at his funeral lol
Suddenly the recent wave of dogshit and poorly written movie plotlines made so much sense.
The girl made a new video, basicly the dad made all this shit up in this video
@@alexanderrose1556Wait, the girl that decided to bring her family troubles into the public sphere, doubled down on her being the victim? I take “No one was surprised about it” for 500! 😂
And the part about her growing up with money explains how she managed to find success in Hollywood, because only rich people succeed out there these days
- over 2 million dollars in child support plus multi hundred thousand dollar college funds
- "yeah he gave us some money"
no, 3 milion in child support and 2 milion for the divorce. total 5 mil.
all in 2005 so it's about 7mil-8mil today
+18K a MONTH
I mean I can understand her perspective that he may not have been present in their lives and that is her “trauma” and she doesn’t care about the money. I’d imagine that is very much how she feels.
That being said, to be an adult and not acknowledge the massive positive impact his financial support and connections had on her life… all while referring to, what sounds like a normal ass divorce, as trauma … yea I just can’t get on board with her
@@inDefEE Her response to her dad's video can show us how immature she really is. She gaslighted him in her first video, he made some fact checks in his video so that she could have a wider context like the money he gave to her family, and still the daughter doesn't recognize those facts. One thing is not knowing (hence the first video), but another thing is not recognizing the reality of her surroundings and continue to try to do harm (hence the second video).
Another person would consider the new information at heart and try to resolve bad feelings derived from the lack of it, and try to at least be fair; she clearly doesn't want to give an inch.
The best part is you can tell he’s SO mad but he’s holding back
My mom did the exact same thing with my dad growing up. They got divorced and would lie to me about how much he tried to see me, and poisoned me against him. This girl has obviously made no effort to hear his side, and it shows.
She didn't even seem to have watched his video.
The same thing happened to my father and it prevented my sister and I from being able to know our other siblings because their mom manipulated them into thinking he was a bad guy who wanted nothing to do with them. In reality he was constantly trying to be in their lives and never missed a child support payment. It’s sad to see how some of these parents literally brainwash their children
This happened in reverse, but at the same time, my dad wasn’t the one who specifically said how my mom was, it was influenced how my older sister felt about how she was with us growing up with dual custody as well as one of my uncle’s telling me how she’d go out a lot when we weren’t with her, meanwhile my dad had to pay child support and almost went to jail because of it I believe. I’m gonna say this lightly, but I love my mom, don’t get me wrong, but she’s definitely not the greatest parent, it may be a factor from her childhood, but all I remember is being selfless and self conscious of my own actions because of my mom. Anyways, that’s my story.
same when i grew up i knew that it was not just my father both of them were terrible human
Same here. When they got divorced I was already 18 but it took a couple years for me to grow up and see through all the poisonous lies. To this day they still put us against each other and instead of being manipulated, me and my siblings just feel sorry for the pain they still carry because of that divorce. They're 70+ now, both remarried, but it still affects them massively to a point we'd all want both of them to have a nicer end of their lives.
“I’m two hard kombuchas in” tells you everything you need to know about her.
Thanks for mentioning this
Underrated comment right here!
TRUTH
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the "medical bill" was to sit with therapist to help overcome a breakup lmao
“Therapist”
I bet that money was going right into her pocket to waste on BS
@@magacop5180 It'd have been wasted on BS I agree, but not into her pocket, into the therapist's.
His new lady has faced more adversity than 99% of every American. Dad gave a breakdown of her story and its gut wrenching. It's one of the reasons he gives for never stressing and having such a positive outlook despite the grief he gets from his ex-wife and ungrateful daughter, as she has incredible fortitude and it inspires him.
Her: "My dad gave me trauma and abandoned us to breakdance."
Him: "She got a few things wrong but I very much love her."
Her: "I can't believe he called me a liar, I should have slandered him so much harder. This doesn't really affect me but also we're all freaking out about it."
Was her actual reply or is that your prediction?
Edit: so that basically was her actual reply, for some reason I just found it unbelievable but somehow I forgot she's a ludicrous person, my bad 🤦
Actually made me lol
did you not watch the entire video?@@WillyKillya
@@WillyKillya She responded along those lines in the video yeah.
hahaha
I feel bad for this girl. Her biggest "trauma" is essentially nothing. She needs to call her dad and work things out, he'll be dead someday and then it will be too late.
Idk man, divorce is always traumatic for children, even if you see both parents. It's worldshattering in child's eyes.
I wouldn't say her trauma is nothing, but:
a) getting it out to the Internet for clout
b) defending her mostly imaginary memories vs her dad's words
c) victim roleplay
are simply pathetic
That's never going to happen because that requires character development and people like her don't develop until it's too late
@@A-TALKING-TOASTER what do you even mean? a girlboss is and always has been perfect and if you think otherwise the problem is you, mysoginist - some leftist probably.
It's already too late. She cares more about clout that she does about having a relationship with her dad, and when he's gone the only thing she'll have to say is "how much money did he leave me?"
I feel bad for her in a way, yeah. But for the dad, to hear your kid say all of that about you, having the mom brainwash her? And, yeah. he's approaching the age where him dying wouldn't be a massive shock. Maybe the mom/daughter hopes for money from him dying and don't care beyond that.
"Trauma" as a word is honestly thrown around WAY too much on tiktok.
They use that word for anything that slightly hurts their feelings....which is A LOT of things
The Last hug i gave my mother was when i was 8 and she was cold and dead. And this spoiled brat talks about trauma lol. Calls him delusional which is clearly projecting and a sign of narcissism. If this is how the daughter acts then i wonder how her mother is like.
@INoIFearIGaming For real, i've seen both, but there are so many geniune fakers who use labels like a throwaway term.
Actual discrimination/traumas
o "I was a normal kid, good at school, but at home i was beaten with a beer bottle every day by a drunkard parent."
o "I seemed a normal kid on the outside, but we were violently mistreated, misvalidated. And at 16, i was thrown without a home and had to live in teenage shelters"
o "I was born overseas in the middle east. I grew up seeing my entire family killed, tossed into a pile, people who made noises screamed. We were stacked into a pile of bodies, i was 4 and had to pretend i was dead and not move still to survive"
Tiktok "trauma"
o "I got 5 million dollars from a dad who tried to contact me every day, he gaslighted me "hi! do you want to visit" and manipulated me "Hey! I love you, it's your birthday, i got you presents!" I had every need taken care of, and tons of money, got famous off money i didn't earn, but i am traumatized.. and emotionally abused.. by his hairline."
o "I am a white woman who got born into a dentist house with airconditioning. Every day from 16-47. I lived as a poor, tragic princess. I was not born to a saudi multibiillionaire who was blind, weight accepting, and into jumbo sized women from alabama. Also he shouldn't be middle eastern, but Tom Cruise hot, surf on oil, be loyal to only me. and i should be able to fly too."
o "I live in a air conditioned room and got given 1000$s of dollars to draw and people still visit, but someone else looked at a piece of art that i, someone living in a first world country with food met, housing met from my parents, and no job (above 3 hrs /week), no income (above 30-50$ 1x a year). Life is terrible. I could walk right down the lane and make 15,000$-30,000$/yr at a "we're hiring" everywhere sign. But i am oppressed if i have to be another person. Other people laugh and ridicule me. But i know that good boss down the street yelling. "I HIRED YOU TO DO YOUR. DAMN. !#@#!@ JOB. YOU STUPID !#@!@#" will actually see i am secretly a princess. And marry me to a blind Tom cruise with 100 million dollars who worships women." /s
Im hyper bolic here, of course there are still many people making the best of what they have, caring for their kids, and taking sacrifices to give them better life. Good people with my friends, family and sisters.
But oh god, there are so many "Entitled brats" to borrow a term who "Happily would selfishly ruin the lives of everyone else pleading for them to make better choices... So they could spend 139$ doing their nails." "Talking how oppressed they are, while their immigrant parents literally starved and went without meals to get them here".
maybe they're so fragile and sensitive that from their perspective, it actually is a trauma. For the rest of us it wouldn't be, but some people are extremely fragile
@@6132-k1n when you grow up getting everything, not getting starbucks in the morning becomes a trauma.
he had receipts, numbers, and dates. she had "i dont know"
Typical rich kid logic, never knew how it would be like not having money
She doesn’t care about her mom’s finances. That money wasn’t hers. The only thing she said she wanted was a present father in her life which he categorically was not.
@@erichwagner6958 Which is not true since as she said the sons never tried to visist him so... they never tried to have a relationship or the mom didnt let them in any case is their fault
@@erichwagner6958I can agree with you if it wasn’t the fact that the kids don’t want to associate with their father at all
@@erichwagner6958of course she doesnt care about the money, its because she never was in need and thats because of her daddy, if not for him, she would probably be working at Mcdonalds, she just wants a reason to trash him for things she doesnt even remember and that her mom twisted
Being a screen writer in Hollywood is not the brag it used to be. People like her are why the writing quality in hollywood is so abysmal.
lol it’s just unemployed with more steps.
think the best way to describe the insufferable writing in most games/media out of cali is "cali-valley", vapid and rapidfire - its like listening to ADHD, and I already have it, I don't need to listen to someone else's
Pretty much why I removed tv from my home in 2021 and stopped watching tv and movies.
With movies like Marvels and Madame Web lately I think you are right. I might check if maddie doesn't show up in credits on those :)
I feel that, as a guy who writes stories in his free time, it upsets me that the quality of writing Hollywood has produced in the last 10 years could have been done by my early highschool self.
Had it been her mother that left the family to pursue “hopes and dreams” she would have been considered a strong independent woman who should be looked up to for taking control of her own life. I actually cannot stand the hypocrisy
She thinks he moved to Florida. But he started his own company pre-2005, which is why he can afford to pay $18k/month. There was no remote work back then. Everybody was still on dial-up Internet, and that is if any of the adults knew how to use the Internet. All his clients were almost certainly local because that was how the world was back then. Dad's story makes more sense. She's applying current-day logic to stuff that happened in the previous generation.
She's appling current day emotion.
Hands down best breakdown I've read.
But I would also add that the dad came with recipts and dates. She was a kid. He also admitted to making mistakes and dumb decisions but never abandoning them.
Well there wasn't much legislation back then and he could've made his millions from sending spam against ToS (like many bro's did back then to get rich).. the enlargement adds and whatever.
@@thescatterpiratesquarepant7935not related to the parenting issue.
DSL and cable were a thing in the mid 2000's. We stopped using dial-up around 2001 when we switched to DSL.
My parents divorced when I was 5. Saw my Dad every other weekend until I was 9 and we moved 30 minutes away. In a time without cell phones, I stopped seeing my Dad. Was told he was a piece of shit all my life. When I was 20, and fresh home from a 15 month deployment to Iraq, I tracked him down and spoke with him. He wasn't perfect. He got tired of fighting with my mom and he gave up. Children of divorce should ALWAYS hear both sides. And I found out 2 years ago that my youngest sister from their marriage isn't his
Wow that's sad bro
Good on you for being brave and seeking him out.
Only 30 minutes away was enough to stop visitation? That's an easy drive wtf
So your dad was a deadbeat who was too much of a coward t o be a father cool story bro
@@demodemo7574 😐 dude 😐 not all people get to a choice of whether they can see their kids, and your just gonna ignore the mother lying to him for who knows how many years.
Yea the mother 100% brainwashed their kids to not like their dad. It's very obvious. Her downplaying 2 million dollars upfront, 12k-18k a month in child support and 600k towards the college fund as just "some money" shows it all. She acts as if it was just a small amount money. But this Maddie person is an adult and still going along with it makes her a bad person imo. She quite literally lied about some things as she did not bother to correct them in her response meaning they were true from the dad's end. I truly feel sorry for the poor sap who ends up setting down with her. If she is willing to lie on her own dad like this, imagine what she is willing to say about a boyfriend.
I would love to see a law when parent can treat their child support like a lean that child has to pay back when they became adult. And it is up to a parent to decide if they want money back or not. She would be more thankful and see it wasn't just "some money", all her siblings could be in student debts right now but they aren't thanks for his generosity
She grew up rich, being raised by a parent loaded with cash from her ex-husband.
The girl has NO IDEA of what money's worth to a normal human being.
@@SaltyCatlingThe problem with this kind of law is the child doesn't choose to get the money so it would be unfair to force a repayment. On the other hand having better divorce laws (because the bias toward the mother is crazy rn) would probably be a better solution.
@@Sanzeh I know it is hard to reinforce properly and fairly that's why I know it won't happen.
It just pisses me of that she believe being rich, stable and not abused is traumatic. She feels so abandoned that she don't reply to his massages nor ever visited him once.
10:09
HAHAHAHA
That dude didn't pay child support, he paid for the whole family's everything.
The crazy thing is he paid the familys everything AND paid 18k a month in child support shits wild
@@FATMANIPPOwhich is ridiculous
@@JrClips27 def crazy AF
In west paying for the ex wife is also mandatory.
@@juodagalvesniegena714 Right, to maintainn the lifestyle he apparently provided.
"I havent gone to his house" and he isnt legally allowed to come to yours, thats a you problem
I've never seen a guy take the high ground so effectively. Dad comes out looking like a champ not taking any cheap shots at his daughter after what she said about him.
Because he is the father... if he bad-mouths her it makes himself look 10x worse
@@achabotte Yeah, I imagine that's the main reason as well. It's still refreshing to see though. Dude seems so optimistic even after being barraged by her social media mob. I'm impressed.
While I don't believe her for a second we can tell he was and still is a great ad man. He really sold the image of himself that makes me like him.
You see this as taking the high ground? Iinteresting.
@@allsdownasdlkfsd I think it's self explanatory why not taking any shots at the person who insulted him is taking the high ground. How did you interpret this?
"We didn't hear from him for years, but he would visit ever few months?"
She obfuscates in the video. The father never said that they necessarily had a great relationship. She admits that he did visit her which lets me know that he was involved (to some degree) in her life. I noticed that when it came to the millions that he gave his ex-wife and kids, she simply replies (paraphrasing), 'I don't know the financial situation.' That lets me know that she was, in fact, well provided for. Her trauma may be that the silver spoon got stuck to the roof of her mouth.
The end to this comment CRUSHES.
she don't know the financial situation YET blame him a lot about him not wanting to pay her medical bill ...
if the men pay 5 M including medical fee in it ... he probably just tell her go ask your mom, i already have pay for that .
Also worth noting that the very idea of divorce is to distance people from each other. Obviously we don't know the details but it's safe to say that with "80%" blame of father, mother will not want to see his face to often, possibly even hear about him, so in turn child gets illusion of him being runaway. (edited incorrect word)
a lot of straw man arguments from her and just glossing over the money situation because she can't refute that.
@@Stratos1988 There's plenty of men with ex wives who don't want to see them. They find arrangements to see the kids without seeing their ex, some even go to court for their right to see their kids. There's no excuse for leaving for years, only showing up every few months and forgetting your own kids birthdays.
"He wouldn't give me any money for my medical bills"
LITERALLY gave over $10k a month to pay for your medical and schooling and everything else.
Not just over 10k but 18k in the beginning ending at 12k along with an initial payment of 2 million. Oh, and lets not forget the 600k for each kids college fund.
Seeing him flying the bitcoin flag and wearing a bitcoin shirt - he probably made a FUCK TON of money on crypto so I'd bet he gave each of his kids a lot of other gifts - besides funding their entire lives.
@@innominatum9906 it wasnt 600k for each kid
Adding on, when she's in college, she's an adult, and as such, he doesn't have any legality to pay for anything for her now, as she's an adult.
She answered her own complaint on this one. She doesn’t know about the finances and stuff. So she never asked her mom, and her mom probably plays the card that they never have money because dad’s a dead beat.
@@oliver-04
Mate, what college costs $150k to attend for 4 years? If you are paying that much for college you are being scammed!
"What is a *funny* trauma you went through"
Yeah, I automatically didn't believe she actually went through trauma.
trauma is never funny, you only call it funny if it wasn't trauma but your looking for a way to be a victim
Yeah, never had someone throw that kind of cash at me and leave me traumatized for two decades.
Trauma is quirky and relatable.
Get me million dollars so I can get trauma to relate too ☺️
Is being spoiled considered trauma? This is clearly a spoiled young woman......
And this is why the mob isn't [supposed to be] allowed to administer justice
She's lying, he did another video bringing the receipts with her and her siblings on film on vacation many times growing up. He wouldn't pay for her therapy in college and played $250 a week for 10weeks while the screenwriters were on strike so she could find a job in the meantime.
Therapy is throwing money.
I need that link. This is a really interesting view/read...alot to disect here
@@allopez8563 american therapy yes .. european therapy that's focused on solving your issues in 10 to 12 meetings usually childhood trauma and just going back IF REALLY NECESSARY or something new happened is really effective, i solved a lot of my shit in 8 meetings and never payed another eurocent
@@Rhirhii103 You're really trying hard to defend her, aren't you?
@@Rhirhii103 I love my mother. We talk every nearly every day. She regularly forgets my birthday and even my age. He has receipts of time spent and care shown. Just because she says he neglected her doesn't mean he did. She has been proven to either have been kept in the dark about all he did for them growing up or lying about not knowing. With so many people shaming their partners on social media for views and lying about their victimhood for clout (i.e. Brick Lady), I am going to need more than hearsay when the dad is posting verifiable info about actions taken and timeframes.
My mom divorced my dad when i was about 8 years old. I never saw or heard from him for the next 10 years while my mom was talking trash about him the whole time. She was like "look what kind of a father he is, he doesnt even want to see you".
When i was 18 I accidentially got in contact with him, and spent a lot of time with him and his new family. Turned out his side of the story made a lot more sense than what my mom told me. And for the contact, she threatened him to never contact us or she'll get authoritys involved.
If you are divorced and have the kids living with you, don't hate on your ex in front of your children. They will grow up and it will backfire eventually...
Many of the social ills of our society will end if we teach our kids to disbelieve the things women say by default
Unless its the truth.
@@Ryan-zv3os The truth to who? To the person who got divorced? The child doesn't know that. Unless the divorce was because someone was beating crap out of their kids or was doing something much worse, then the reason for the divorce is the parents. The kids have nothing to do with it. So don't try and get your kids to take a parent's side. Let them have a relationship with their parent. Even if you hate the other parent because they are a piece of shit who cheated on you, that doesn't change their love for their children. If the child grows up and hates the parent because of that, then that's their decision, but you as a parent have no right to tell your kid what to think of their other parent.
Pretty much the same thing happened to me, parents divorced when i was 9 and my mom manipulated me against him for most my life. Now that im older my dad has had honest talks with me about how it all happened even with his own faults but my mom still to this day refuses to acknowledge any of her wrong doings even with hard proof. I dont understand what compels someone to behave in such ways.
@@jakehr3 They wont grow up and resent hearing the truth. If the parent is a beater the kids should know that. Hence why i say unless its the truth.
But to be fair i was thinking only of a divorce where one parent is not a suitable parent. Speaking the truth is much better than hiding the truth and allowing a child to discover what a nasty person their parent is on their own. If anything a child could resent being hid from the truth, the same as they could resent parent slagging off the other with lies.