Thank you Josh!!!! Your videos have saved my marriage! I went from 2 extreme (needyno contact) before i've started to implement your advices. 2-3 months later we have reconciliation!!!! I know it's not the best advertise for your potential new clients, but it is possible for some of us to change by just watching this content and implement everything what you say by ourselfs. Others who struggle by themselfs, i think should join the program.
Brotha man... I can NOT thank u, enough ! I've listened to damn near every video and went from that anxious needy dude to being who I need 2 be in weeks !!! Well not totally, but getting there
This stuff is great, thank you. Now i just need to find a video on how to show your wife that your actively changing and being a better man with all these new tools, when you had to move out of the house and shes wanting and pretty set on divorce and doesnt want to talk to you.
So with women threading together experiences with similar emotions.... how do you resolve past issues (the mud in the glass) when bringing up one of those things to resolve means she will likely bring up all the others threaded with it? In other words what's an effective technique to ACTUALLY resolve them?
Sadly, maybe she should marry her mother. I would implement some of Josh's strategies he explains in his videos on setting boundaries. Also, his leadership strategies videos. It sounds like your wife is being lead by her mom instead of you.
I relate to your pain. Don’t avoid it and take it one day at a time. Use this pain to learn why this happened and grow from it. Get bitter or get better
Question for you, How do you feel about yourself? I don’t want this to come out as rude, I honestly had to do this myself. I was in a dark place after my dad passed away and before that I was complacent. I had a problem with everyone in my family. I kept telling my wife I’m done, not with us, but with life the way it was our kids being rude. I pushed everyone away and was angry all the time. I was also in a depression and grieving. When she told me she was done and didn’t know if she wanted to be married anymore. It literally woke me up. I asked myself why am I having problems with everyone? I was the common denominator. I looked at the mirror and saw what it was I was doing. That I was not present, I was angry, sad, and I saw how I hadn’t been showing up for anyone, especially my wife. She had told me, had warned me she needed me and felt unloved. I didn’t hear her pleas, didn’t see she was also hurting. I looked at myself and realized how my behaviors changed the dynamics of our relationship. I saw that I wasn’t happy with myself, that I didn’t feel like I was good enough myself. I was insecure, I had lost my dad and I pushed everyone away so that I would feel pain from losing anyone again. The thing is that thinking lead to where I am today. Sleeping in separate rooms for months. They were counterintuitive and counterproductive. I had to look at where my insecurities came from, why I felt not good enough (childhood) and why I slowly let them into our relationship when we had a good relationship before. I was over weight, I wasn’t driven anymore like I said complacent. I started working on me, not us. It took a long time for us to get where we are so I didn’t expect things to snap back in to place. I started to get confidence back, started to realize that, while I do want her in my life, and want our marriage and my wife Jacquie, that I don’t need her. I will be ok and I will be able to be happy regardless. My relationship with my kids changed a lot. My daughter who I could say one word to before she blew up, is awesome and better than ever. I started be calmer a lot calmer and opened up about my vulnerability and my feelings to my wife. We still are in separate rooms but things have gotten a lot better and we started talking more and more lately. I even asked her to go to the movies tomorrow. She didn’t say yes to Friday, but she said why don’t we plan it for Saturday instead. There is still work to be done always. Long story short is how you feel and act is how your wife will feel towards you like a mirror. I hope this helps you. Josh’s videos have helped me a lot and I rewatch them constantly. But realizing who you are is step one.
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Thank you Josh!!!! Your videos have saved my marriage! I went from 2 extreme (needyno contact) before i've started to implement your advices. 2-3 months later we have reconciliation!!!! I know it's not the best advertise for your potential new clients, but it is possible for some of us to change by just watching this content and implement everything what you say by ourselfs. Others who struggle by themselfs, i think should join the program.
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Brotha man... I can NOT thank u, enough ! I've listened to damn near every video and went from that anxious needy dude to being who I need 2 be in weeks !!! Well not totally, but getting there
I love the newer longer videos. Great explanation with the cycle that repeats.
Thank you Josh! This video is what happened to my marriage. You are better at explaining than Geoffrey.
This stuff is great, thank you. Now i just need to find a video on how to show your wife that your actively changing and being a better man with all these new tools, when you had to move out of the house and shes wanting and pretty set on divorce and doesnt want to talk to you.
It was illegal for my wife to kick me out so she had the landlady do it. At least I don't have to sue my wife.
Your audio is lower quality than other videos.
It's only until 1:13, then it gets better. I had some issues with my mic.
So with women threading together experiences with similar emotions.... how do you resolve past issues (the mud in the glass) when bringing up one of those things to resolve means she will likely bring up all the others threaded with it?
In other words what's an effective technique to ACTUALLY resolve them?
what if the wife is an extension of her mother, and the mother is instructing the wife? my marriage is falling apart because of that.
Sadly, maybe she should marry her mother. I would implement some of Josh's strategies he explains in his videos on setting boundaries. Also, his leadership strategies videos. It sounds like your wife is being lead by her mom instead of you.
My wife treats me like I'm dead. I feel dead too a little bit
I relate to your pain. Don’t avoid it and take it one day at a time. Use this pain to learn why this happened and grow from it.
Get bitter or get better
You will not believe how I'm treated I don't feel alive I'm just wasting away
Question for you, How do you feel about yourself? I don’t want this to come out as rude, I honestly had to do this myself. I was in a dark place after my dad passed away and before that I was complacent. I had a problem with everyone in my family. I kept telling my wife I’m done, not with us, but with life the way it was our kids being rude. I pushed everyone away and was angry all the time. I was also in a depression and grieving. When she told me she was done and didn’t know if she wanted to be married anymore. It literally woke me up. I asked myself why am I having problems with everyone? I was the common denominator. I looked at the mirror and saw what it was I was doing. That I was not present, I was angry, sad, and I saw how I hadn’t been showing up for anyone, especially my wife. She had told me, had warned me she needed me and felt unloved. I didn’t hear her pleas, didn’t see she was also hurting. I looked at myself and realized how my behaviors changed the dynamics of our relationship. I saw that I wasn’t happy with myself, that I didn’t feel like I was good enough myself. I was insecure, I had lost my dad and I pushed everyone away so that I would feel pain from losing anyone again. The thing is that thinking lead to where I am today. Sleeping in separate rooms for months. They were counterintuitive and counterproductive. I had to look at where my insecurities came from, why I felt not good enough (childhood) and why I slowly let them into our relationship when we had a good relationship before. I was over weight, I wasn’t driven anymore like I said complacent. I started working on me, not us. It took a long time for us to get where we are so I didn’t expect things to snap back in to place. I started to get confidence back, started to realize that, while I do want her in my life, and want our marriage and my wife Jacquie, that I don’t need her. I will be ok and I will be able to be happy regardless. My relationship with my kids changed a lot. My daughter who I could say one word to before she blew up, is awesome and better than ever. I started be calmer a lot calmer and opened up about my vulnerability and my feelings to my wife. We still are in separate rooms but things have gotten a lot better and we started talking more and more lately. I even asked her to go to the movies tomorrow. She didn’t say yes to Friday, but she said why don’t we plan it for Saturday instead. There is still work to be done always. Long story short is how you feel and act is how your wife will feel towards you like a mirror. I hope this helps you. Josh’s videos have helped me a lot and I rewatch them constantly. But realizing who you are is step one.
My wife has mental problems
She is never wrong about anything so where does that leave me.
@@72merchants realizing who you are is step one. ^^^^^