Josh, I would like to say, how thankful I found your videos. I watched them over and over again, absorbing all of your advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 25yrs. I was able to find myself, my masculinity again. I mastered not reacting, but PPP (Pause, Ponder, Pray), and listening rather than reacting. Focusing on her, it's not just about me. My wife moved out Sep of 23 and we were separated for about 3 months. I can happily say we are back together, living our marriage better than ever before. Thank you so much, Mr. Hudson. Sincerely, Jason Howard
Wow Jason. Thank you for the kind words, You deserve ak the glory for having humility to be ipen toward growth. All the benefits are a direct result of that
This is just massive mate ! Even we are growing stronger and getting better emotionally , we still have that covert contract energy when we communicate. It’s time to focus on her energy and feel more !! Thanks this is a great one. Cheers .
100 relate as well. He also states that it just becomes part of you. Focus on why she is saying what she is saying. not what she is saying and it does become 2nd nature. It took me a couple months but now I am completely unreactive to not just her, but evrleryone I encounter
Being unreactive is really helpful when interacting with cops. The morning my former evil landlady and my dear, lovely wife colluded to have the constable kick me out of our home, the regular city cops stopped me for a courtesy wellness check. Nothing to see here, officer, move along. Nonchalance is always a tool in your favor. My state of intense non-reaction completely unnerves most everyone.
I can 100% relate to the pigsty comment. It is very hard to not feel unappreciated in these moments when you do help to keep the home clean. Amazing job not being reactive.
@@AscendedMasculine I’m not sure mine is a covert contract. She asks me to pick up the kitchen, I do it, and she still acts like our home is a disaster because one glass is left out.
I've been watching your videos for about a week. My wife has decided to leave in 2 weeks. She already has an apartment to move to. I have been applying your techniques, and it seems to be helping. She is more friendly with me. We aren't fighting anymore, but she is still very determined to leave. Is she playing games with me? I
Let me get this straight take verbal abuse from wife ,don't react no matter how disrespectful or vulgar she gets , listen to all her emotional tirades and BS and try to listen and after all this she will stop verbally abusing you? I wonder if its not just easier living in peace ..ALONE
Yea, I don't really know how you got that message from the video I ALWAYS preface what I say with "Know your boundaries and assert them" You ALWAYS have the power to calmly walk away when she doesn't respect them Never take abuse
Women's tirades are demonstrations of desperation. It's why injured animals are sedated before the veterinarian attempts to help them. Think of her like a toothless chihuahua. They are just words.
I really need help since I'm a disabled veteran who suffers from Sezures and split personalities I'm fighting my fractured self to shut the hell up as im the one she fell in love with but keeping his negative thoughts out of my head
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Josh,
I would like to say, how thankful I found your videos. I watched them over and over again, absorbing all of your advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 25yrs.
I was able to find myself, my masculinity again.
I mastered not reacting, but PPP (Pause, Ponder, Pray), and listening rather than reacting. Focusing on her, it's not just about me.
My wife moved out Sep of 23 and we were separated for about 3 months.
I can happily say we are back together, living our marriage better than ever before.
Thank you so much, Mr. Hudson.
Sincerely,
Jason Howard
Wow Jason. Thank you for the kind words, You deserve ak the glory for having humility to be ipen toward growth. All the benefits are a direct result of that
This is just massive mate ! Even we are growing stronger and getting better emotionally , we still have that covert contract energy when we communicate. It’s time to focus on her energy and feel more !! Thanks this is a great one. Cheers .
Of course! I am glad you got something out of it
100 relate as well. He also states that it just becomes part of you. Focus on why she is saying what she is saying. not what she is saying and it does become 2nd nature. It took me a couple months but now I am completely unreactive to not just her, but evrleryone I encounter
Being unreactive is really helpful when interacting with cops. The morning my former evil landlady and my dear, lovely wife colluded to have the constable kick me out of our home, the regular city cops stopped me for a courtesy wellness check. Nothing to see here, officer, move along. Nonchalance is always a tool in your favor. My state of intense non-reaction completely unnerves most everyone.
Thank you for Push!!!
Be the observer. Love this.
Got you!
I can 100% relate to the pigsty comment. It is very hard to not feel unappreciated in these moments when you do help to keep the home clean. Amazing job not being reactive.
Yea, covert contract at its finest.
@@AscendedMasculine I’m not sure mine is a covert contract. She asks me to pick up the kitchen, I do it, and she still acts like our home is a disaster because one glass is left out.
I am doing something different with no covert contracts. Standing in my masculine!
Keep it up
The real work is being able to get to that point where you don’t need her to fill that void.. That’s where I’m struggling
I am right there also. We've got this!
Dude thank you man you have nooo idea how much I needed this video right now
Glad I could help. Everything happens for a reason
Very useful, thank you👏
Glad it was helpful!
This is great advice
I've been watching your videos for about a week. My wife has decided to leave in 2 weeks. She already has an apartment to move to. I have been applying your techniques, and it seems to be helping. She is more friendly with me. We aren't fighting anymore, but she is still very determined to leave. Is she playing games with me? I
It can takes months to years once you’re at that point. Hard to tell without more background
Don’t read into “her” playing games.
She’s in more pain than you will ever know. Be patient
Im going to do something different!
I'm going to do something different...
I’m going to change
I am going to do something different to save us.
I'm going to do something different.
Do not react, but reflect.
Exactly
I'm trying my all 😢
Its not a motivational deficfit that stops success in this area, but rather a skill one.
I need help
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Hey Rico,
We have multiple tiers for all levels!
Let me get this straight take verbal abuse from wife ,don't react no matter how disrespectful or vulgar she gets , listen to all her emotional tirades and BS and try to listen and after all this she will stop verbally abusing you? I wonder if its not just easier living in peace ..ALONE
Yea, I don't really know how you got that message from the video
I ALWAYS preface what I say with "Know your boundaries and assert them"
You ALWAYS have the power to calmly walk away when she doesn't respect them
Never take abuse
Women's tirades are demonstrations of desperation. It's why injured animals are sedated before the veterinarian attempts to help them. Think of her like a toothless chihuahua. They are just words.
I really need help since I'm a disabled veteran who suffers from Sezures and split personalities I'm fighting my fractured self to shut the hell up as im the one she fell in love with but keeping his negative thoughts out of my head