MO'NIQUE'S SON CLAIMS SHE WAS AN ABSENT MOTHER! ! MONIQUE'S HUBBY RESPONDS, HE HAS NO RIGHT! 👀 😡
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- Isn't it interesting that Shalon is a COMEDIAN JUST LIKE HIS MOTHER. He loves his MOM.
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Thank you aunty Fumi for being compassionate and sensitive towards children that have felt hurt, and abondoned by their parents. Thank you for not excusing bad parenting, neglect, and abuse which we often do in the black community. ❤
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Fumi, the crazy part is that in her biggest roles she played a Mom- the Parkers and Precious. She’s deeply hurt from childhood but she can put an end to this pattern in her lineage.
Great commentary, as usual 👏🏿
As the mother of a successful 46 year old, wonderful, Black King, my heart and soul goes out to her eldest Son. Fumi, I’m like you, I CAN NOT imagine not making it right with my baby if something went wrong with us. Like you, if I “had” to run behind my son to make sure that he KNOWS how much I “LOVE” him, THAT’S WHAT I’M GONNA DO!!! These babies didn’t ask to be here. YOU as a Mother, brought them into the world. DO YOUR DOG-GONE JOB MONIQUE!!!
Parent adult child estrangement is in fashion just as mother in-law daughter in-law estrangement. People have been estranged in family settings as long as we have existed. Adam and Eve rebelled against their creator so what do we expect from sinful humans. Grow up and admit that we all have it in the family so quit hating on Monique.
This conversation needs to be between Monique and her son. This is not for social media.
I agreed with you, and people should understand that she got that young man at a young age 🤷🏾♀️
I agree to me this is very strange how since he was a teenager he been feeling this way and just now coming out
And also not the husband….
Amen amen &amen
@@michellecochran7243she said that she had done all she could do and that the ball was in his court, as if he had been ignoring her. He wanted to set that record straight.
The young man is correct. See Monique brought her daddy to talk about the "things" she gave him.
They probably want him dependent on them, it gives them supply.
Which was wrong of him to even mention it, Well he doesn't feel no love for the son that isn't his
I couldn’t even finish listening to her Daddy talk. I’m so disappointed in Monique and before l was for her. I’m a mother. Monique the wasn’t it.
@@emi62507exactly 💯
He is a very well spoken and thoughtful young man.
This is not for the internet. Everything doesn’t need a on-line response. How did we get here in society.
How much is therapy and a good therapist where you're at? ...that's apart of the reasoning on why n how we got here
Back in the day, people held in their grievances, took it out on spouses n children, got sick n died.. others waited until they were old n most who wronged them died n then wrote books, whilst the rest went n sat on talk shows like Oprah
How indeed…😢
Seriously. Don't get me wrong I will tune in for the mess. At the same time, I have no respect for people who handle their business like this. What do you expect the public to do about you and Tyler Perry, you and Oprah, you and Lee Daniels, you and DL Hughley....? Mo saw what happened when she asked for the public to boycott Netfix. Chile we aren't fighting your battles. My heart aches for the son for real. The rest of them I give less than a damn.
I was very disappointed to hear this news and even more disappointed when she allowed her Daddy to address her son in her defense. This was not a moment for her "Daddy" to speak on. Shame on Monique for emotionally neglecting her son then expecting him to seek her out for a conversation. I hate to say this but I feel Monique's husband is a part of the problem when it comes to a possible reconciliation between Monique and her son.
True. She should have handled it herself
So True
Why is Monique husband referred to as her "daddy "?
@onyinyechiebogu4717 She was abused and emotionally neglected by her father. She calls her husband "Daddy" because she claims he is "raising" her and has made her a "better woman".
It's sad. She allowed him to do most of the talking about a situation between her and her son.
I've found that a lot of people who grew up without much financially see 'money' and 'gifts' almost as the biggest love language. When they then try to 'love' their children by giving 'money and 'gifts' and the children don't receive those gifts with the emotions that the parents expect, the children are seen as ungrateful. Most times though, the children don't see money as equalling love. They see time spent or being made to feel good or loved by their parent as the language of love. Monique needs to call her son and leave uncle Sid out of it. Take off that cape Monique. Reconcile with your child. Understand and accept that you hurt him whilst he was growing up- even though I'm sure that this wasn't your intention. Make it righT
Thank you
Monique did not grow up poor. She grew up in a very middle-class community. And she is self claimed that on club Shayshay.
He’s not revealing anything she didn’t say. The only thing he’s revealing is, he’s not willing to forgive his mother.
Mrs Fumi I agree with you we make sacrifices for our kids we made them her husband needs to sit back and being mother I will never let any man talk about my son like even if your not his dad to her son much love to you God sits high and he looks low this made me cry thank you for telling it how it is
He revealed he felt rejected and unloved. I believe him.@@traceylawrence7363
@@traceylawrence7363 My sister, if the son is not willing to forgive his mother, oyaaaa, he can keep it for himself, he sounds so arrogant and unforgiving, this is too shameful for him to be dragging the mother even after she apologize for her mistake.
Sidney had no right to speak on it! It was not his place! Monique should not have allowed him speak on her first born at all! I am so mad at them both for this!
Agreed!!! 💯💯💯💯
I think it’s fair for him to defend his wife and he was referenced when the son spoke however the husband completely took over. Monique was also a child herself and made a sacrifice to better the both of them .
@@Mel-kp7zhdefend against what? Her son that’s crying out for her? She does this to maintain a public image for strangers who don’t care but isn’t actively pursuing a relationship with him? Really?
Still if he never speaks of her son, we will say , he has never accepted him. Family dynamics is strange. There is a lotvof history that cant be unchanged. Monique learn her lessons and did better........Monique and the son can choose to get along or not. They should stop this internet business
Yes@@Mel-kp7zh he started out defending his wife, it was when he took over and started saying personal things about the lad that I was not happy. He should have not said that .
No Child Left Behind!
I'm glad her son told his truth. I believe everything he said.
I believe him as well I hate how her husband just talked about her son, She didn't say anything when her husband called her son mentally ill, her son is very articulate Monique is dismissive and arrogant.
@@lashondarochell7584I noticed how he is very articulate as well. It is sad to see how their relationship is made public. He has been dealing with this since he was a child and Mo is the mother. He is still a child needing his mother to acknowledge him as an individual even if he did not say that. Soooo sad
Mental health is many things and has nothing to do with his intelligence. Anxiety, depression and so on is something that is not visually visible.! And it is ok … and not ok at the same time.
Not having the love of a parent mentally disrupts a child’s life. Soooo sad.
My heart goes out to her son. She is being led by daddy now, therefore, she's incapable of seeing her son's pain, otherwise she would have taken the necessary steps to mend the relationship. Monique is miserable and unhappy and until she fixes her relationship with her first born, she will be complaining and pointing fingers at everyone else.
Well said. If he is mentally ill it’s because of them. @@nadclair1
Her worth and identity is in that daddy of hers. She worships the ground he walks on.@@bettyblake3394
She doesn’t have much of a relationship with her own mother. Hurt people hurt other people
You know what I will say, Monique's son is a very well-spoken and intelligent young man. Whoever is responsible for raising him kudos to them!
Her saying “let’s let this play out” to her son like it’s business. This is your child; tomorrow is not promised. Who will you cry to if tomorrow this child is no more? She is so wrong.
Yes she is wrong
By the look of things she will not be crying
Agreed her husband shouldn't be the one speaking.
But we forget Monique has been through a lot.
You don't give what you don't have..she's an abused woman, it takes forever to heal.
We don't know the inside story of this family.
The narrative may be deeper than we see.
Let's pray for them....
So should she force him to accept her apology? We can’t change the past, and things we can’t change have to indeed be left to God
@@bvl98 well, she appears healed now because of her ''daddy'', she needs to make it right with her son, no matter how long it takes to happen.
My problem is Monique seems to not get this has nothing to do with her daddy/husband. This is between her and her son. Her child. To sit down and be ok with a man who day I have 3 sons excluding the other is wrong. Monique didn't even correct him. She has no clue how hurtful that is to that boy. U can feel the hurt n him. U can see it. As a mom of 4 boys no man could ever make me exclude them.
Amen 👏
Thank you
Thank you. I think the second boy is not even for him also but he calls him his son and excluded the first.
Yes Fumi you telling it right.. Shalon spoke from PAIN..HIS BROTHERS GOT THE LOVE AND COMMITTMENT FROM MONIQUE HE NEVER GOT AND HE WAS BORN FIRST. SYDNEY SHOWED NO LOVE AS A MAN AND FATHER FIGURE. STOP TALKING SYDNEY❤
This is heartfelt and so hurtful. I have no opinion. God is the only one who can mend the hurt and pain in this mother and son.
Fumi that mint green colour suits you so well! I love your haircut and style. Love from Ghana. 💓
Ghana 🇬🇭 country of the most curvaceous women and the most handsome men. Love from Cameroon 🇨🇲
@@clarngundu6272 Hello my Cameroon friend. 💓
@sdorkenoo Hello, my Ghanaian connect.
I will never understand why people feel a need to publicly air all their business on social media. The time and effort everyone put into posting these videos of the personal business, put the effort into talking to a personal and family therapist. The family structure has changed so much. It's time to reclaim our families, our communities, OUR VALUES!
I needed your opinion on this one, aunt Fums. Sad, but reminds me of my relationship with my mother. I wish them peace, wherever they find it
That's fair. Hopefully you will receive closure and better understanding of her situation as you were growing up. Hopefully you will forgive yourself, it was not your fault.
This child, Shalon, was reaching out for the love of his mother. The mother he still wishes to have in his life while acknowledging the pain and shortcomings between the two of them (Shalom & his mother). The stepfather misstepped. Completely. If the stepfather had chosen to meddle, it should have only been to help bridge a bridge between Monique and her first born. Thats it. He didnt need to widen the valley between the two. I hope all three find their way in love, back to each other. God is good all the time. He will always find a way.
Praying to the Universe. Pray to God
This is 🔑
@@DCamp1271 Amen
Monique's "response" to her son is exactly why I give everything she says short shrift. Monique had very little to say, she let "Daddy" speak for her as she always has. This empty suit takes up way too much space in her identity and I have no room for him, or her.
I agree
Looks a lot like y’all don’t understand a black man standing my his black woman and as a result, y’all don’t know how to act. It’s sad. Really.
yall tryna get rid of that daddy however means necessary I guess its true we not use to seeing black men stand beside a black women so hard like that he got to go.lmao
@@marie3503is he standing by her? It looks like he’s standing on her.
@@marie3503rid of him for what? He literally denied his place as a stepfather to this kid, he shunned him . This has nothing to do with him but everything to do with Monique and her son. You don’t even realize that you’re trying to say the black community isn’t used to seeing a solid front of man and woman, a family foundation while literally this man is oblivious to the fact that he’s rejecting this boy. Even though he had his own dad, he’s by default the dad because he’s with his mom, not aunt for him to assume the “uncle” title.
You are so right Fumi.
Monique is not even taking full responsibility for her actions.
Monique should be humble and acknowledge his hurt. Why does Daddy takeover the conversation and is her representative. This is between Mother and Son and I believe believe that Daddy is the wedge between them
Yes he is
That’s a grown ass man ….
"He knows how your heart beats from the inside" awe I teared up when you said this Fumi 😔😔😔
That was beautiful
she should invest the same time and energy she spend addressing grievances on healing her relationship with her son. Allowing her “daddy” to address her son on social media is disgusting and a cop out. Telling the entire world about his so called “mental health” is a low blow in my opinion🤢🤮
U sound like u have daddy issues yourself. Seek therapy love ❤
We should all realize that Monique is disingenuous she only serves herself, her husband and her has a manipulative spirit always complaining she is Never wrong have you noticed she never takes accountability.
Exactly. Well said
@@lashondarochell7584 exactly my point! For the past 10 years, she has been asking Oprah and Tyler to apologize but she has completely ignored her own son’s pain. Her priority first, should be to mending her relationship with him
Surprisingly, Ms. OPRAH didn't do this.
Fumi when you said your child knows how your heart beats on the inside I lost it, she should not wait another day to try to reconcile with her son, Sidney needs to step to one side
I pray for healing, for the both of them. This is an example of, children never forget. 😊
I agree with everything you said Fumi. Go to your son “privately” Monique and try to make it right with him and your grandchild! Your husband needs to step back. This makes it 20times worse smh😢😢
Agreed!
You have great wisdom mama Fumi, we need a thousand of you on these social media streets. Our children need their parents. It’s crazy out there. God bless you mama.
Yes, Monique, you still won’t take responsibility. Material things cannot take the place of love, your son knows this too. Monique has just made matters worse.
I started watching auntie Fumi I think since November of last year and I will say this is my first time seeing her being soooooo emotional! You spoke as a mom and as a daughter. I felt that❤❤❤
How sad is this young mans vision of his mother. You have to be careful how you bash other folk when your backyard is also MESSY.❤
Thats why she is a HYPOCRITE
She’s not bashing anyone she is telling the truth about these people, PERIOD..
Rubbish. She is a trouble maker. Both Monique and her husband look like they have mental issues
She is saying people are black balling her. If that's true where is the court case? @@pisteuojustbelieve
I felt you so much on this, Auntie Fumi! When you said that Sholon was the one who knew her heartbeat, that really struck a cord! I really wish that we each would concentrate on becoming whole humans before we become parents. The devastation we can cause!!!😢
"We cannot be uncomfortable with the stain on the carpet." Beautifully sayed. Also, that Versace dress looks wonderful on you.
My mom told me that she could not give me what she never had. She said she was neglected so she neglected me. I tell my children I love them every day because i did not get love from both of my parents.i can relate to what he is saying
You are absolutely correct! And people can give what they didn’t have, they just don’t want to take the time and effort to make the changes. We have the internet and books, you can literally read on how to be a great parent”. People make excuses for poor behavior every day.
My mother never received love as a child from neither parent. But my mother loved me and my brother. We received love as children and adults now. So it can be done.
He expressed his self well .. money and materials things is not love
And it went over Monique and her daddy’s head. The first thing they start talking about is buying for the granddaughter and co-signing for his car. The exact point he made. She didn’t hear a word he said. 😢
Thank you Fnmi, you nailed this, I too was sadden by this, MoNique was winning and bam, now this. I hate this for them.
I cried listening to your heart felt response to this public family matter...This REALLY touched me deeply on the way your articulately gave your opinion and I agree with you 💯...Fumi thank you for your outward Adult, mature response!!!..You are a Mother to the core and I feel the same and I'm two years older and I GET IT Sis!!!I can't stop crying listening to this episode!.. What a wonderful Woman and Mother you are!🙏❤️..God bless you and your family!!!
Literally in tears. I feel so bad for Shalon.
It's so sad that people bring all of this out publicly. But, I hope it has helped to heal him. He's quite lovely and has such a calming voice. ❤
Fumi, Sis - your heart is so beautiful. You have left me in tears. I love doing life with you and Fumi Nation. It's such a sweet and loving place. God Bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤❤
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 thank you so much Aunty Fumi for this needed lecture, not just for Ms. Monique, but for every family who is going through this type of struggle
Mothers, Fathers, you can NEVER love your child too much
If I personally didn’t take anything from Queen Fumi today, I’ll never forget that this video could be titled, the relationship between parent and children is NOT about being right, and or awarding blames. So I’ll continue to run after my children till the last breath in my lungs❤🎉
Well said! I have learned through many ups and downs that I'm called to love my son, not judge him.
This was the most beautiful message about how a mother should be😢❤
You made me cry Fumi. This video struck several chords. Thank you Fumi for your wisdom. I wish you were my 2nd Mother!
I'm glad you said the one who you think won't do,is the one that will. I was told this by a doctor many years ago. ❤. I live this.
Monique doesn't get along with so many peers and now her son ughhhh😠 can't believe she does not see her grandbaby girl
The way her husband centres himself in everything about Monique rubs me the wrong way. This conversation has nothing to do with him but here he is loud and wrong.
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I said it last time @fumi. Monique is exhausting. You can't be beefing with everyone. She is the common factor.
I have always thought so
She and Katt Williams
I cried watching Monique’s son respond. He is clearly hurt by how she was as a parent. She should blame herself for him being on drugs. Stop giving stuff and give your time. She owes him a day for every day she was absent. Love on him as if your life depended on it.
Take responsibility for how you handled raising him. You owe him until……… Your neglect caused this and you must make it right. How long will it take? ……. Until….
You don’t get to love son number 2 , 3 and 4 unless son number 1 is shown love.
Sid should have said he was his son too. Nothing less is acceptable.
Wow you said it best
100
Now your response is making me tear up. So well said. She is not taking responsibility for all the trauma and hurt they cause this young man
ALL I CAN SAY IS WELL DONE FUMI WELL DONE. AMEN❤
Fumi this Grace Jones cut is STUNNING on you SIMPLY STUNNING
Thank you for speaking the truth aunty Fumi. Thank you. I hope Monique hears you.
Words of wisdom! Gems were dropped 2day. Excellent content Fumi.
Mo’Nique should spend every moment trying to right the wrongs done to her son! 😢💔
🤔 but why ?
One situation has nothing to do with the other. Monique and her son should resolve their sides in private. And if neither wants to do that, it’s nobody’s business. Her son’s relationship does not allow Oprah and Tyler Perry to play games with her livelihood.
I agree too! Some relationships are better left alone sometimes and it’s no one’s business
It could show that she is more difficult to deal with than the average person in all relationships.
She is the one who brought his name to the forefront.
@@missboss8759Exactly
fistandpen2505Thats the truth
Why am i crying Auntie...
I can now understand why Oprah, Lee and Tyler said leave Sidney out of it. He always wanted that spot. Stole it from her and has it dangling infront of her. Why it that everytime Auntie Mo goes to someone for help and it doesn't turned out the way she wants that person is in trouble. Sidney always condescending to these big executives and they tried to exercise grace for the sake of Mo.
I didn't like Shaylon coming on social media but i dam sure said i know Monique ain't coming to respond to her son publicly.
Why does Sidney has all this power why.
Mrs. Fumi… Excellent parenting video. Thank you for always: Being Authentic , Adult conversation and, Love your Fabulously Fashion insight 🩷🌹🩷.
What I don't like is Sydney is not his Dad he should not have an opinion. This is between Monique and her son. Sydney be supportive but stay out of their situation. Monique allows this man too much authority. A lot of what DL says about her need for this man I believe❤
Exactly
She allows her husband too much authority ? 🤔
I am noticing how he (her husband) is always in the picture as well. 🤔 It's not really a good look in my opinion. There's nothing wrong with always having your husband's support and him being by your side but from the looks of it her husband is her mouth piece and he is ALWAYS in the picture. Like she can't speak for herself. I think it should be a little more balanced because it makes her look like a puppet.
@@courtneypalmer53 are you married ? Or the man on the relationship? Because perhaps that’s why she is so protected from the bs single vulnerable people go through.
Exactly!! He has a right to speak for His wife, He's the man of the home. I'm a single woman and I know that. 🙌🏾@@FemmitWays
Fumi, you made me cry. That was beautiful! And POWERFUL! Great commentary! I am going to find that interview of Mo & her daddy & post this. Mo needs to hear this!! FR.
Auntie fumi got it right 💯 👍🏾 this is the same thing im going thur with my mom . Monique been on a smear campaign because she been running from her issues with her son
Nonsense
Agreed. I also think the reason why Monique calls everyone her babies is because she's pathologically projecting her shortcomings as a mother... like a weird psychological projection based on her own denial of her failures in the same role.
Very well said
@user-pq2nv7t8n Zfacts, thank you for saying the truth
@@user-pq2nv7lt8n thats correct.
I love you Fumi for your mother's heart!💜
Monique needs a therapist IMMEDIATELY!
My heart breaks for Shalon! 😢💔
So do many of us
Monique has always needed a therapist
Wow Fumi, You’re so wise!!! I agree with everything you said ❤
Beautiful dress Fumi! You look fabulous!!!❤❤❤
I always love your commentary.
It all begins with Monique saying a heartfelt I’m sorry. Then listen and allow him to vent his pain. Then begin the repair process. Her neglect is the reason he is on drugs.
She needs to be humbled by her neglect.
You can’t buy his love. He needs your love and time and guidance.
You owe him this until he says you have made it right!!!
She gave him life itself … and was provided for … i haven’t heard him say him he didn’t eat … I heard him say he doesn’t feel worthy … until she validates him as a man …. He’s needs her to be accountable … so then what ?
If Monique can tell her truth why can’t her son.
Exactly
I would really love for Monique to see this. Something is really wrong here 😕 the way she allowed sid to carry on n what he said is unbelievable! The nerve !
Yes. The responsibility is Monique's to mend the fracture with her son. This one Sydney cannot do Monique. Your son is in pain go to him
So many kids are troubled today and we blame them. Why? Parents love your children and support them always❤️
Living and Loving the dress❤
Thank you so much Fumi, I am new to your channel and I never respond or comment on anything on any channel. However, I really appreciate your perspective and insight. You speak with wisdom which I can really appreciate. Continue to be you and do what you do, it really matters.
What celebs like Monique and Brian McKnight don’t get is that all the money in the world won’t make up for what children and adult children really want, a loving parent. Money doesn’t replace love and you can push all the money you want on kids but at the end of the day do they feel loved by you? I see the hurt and scars that his mother has left in him. It disgusts me that his mother attempted to shame him by calling out his mental illness. Yeh he probably does have a lot of mental scars from having a neglectful mother. Scars like that stay with one for life. Monique and McKnight are two sides of the same coin; Monique chooses a man and fame over her previous child and McKnight did the same thing. I pray for Shalom’s healing. He and everyone deserves a loving mother, loving parents.
Please don’t have children because you think you should have children, if having a man/woman is more important than children - don’t have them, don’t have children to “keep a man”, to have someone to love, don’t have children because that is your retirement plan. The only reason to have children is because you want to be a mom/dad. Ask yourself, would you be a blessing to this child vs just every child being a blessing.
You are speaking facts in this video Fumi 👏🏾👏🏾
It's hard to believe he's her son, so well spoken no filthy or foul language came from his mouth
That young man has so much emotional pain and all his mother and her husband focused on was how they saw themselves and what they did for him. He is crying out for her love an unconditional acceptance. I feel his pain , I have a son too and I can’t imagine how she seems ok with her response to him on social media 😢
Yes Amen 🙏 sister Fumi I agree with you 100% I became a mom at age 16 I have a son and two daughters and lost my one and only son 6 years ago in a car accident I miss my son so much he made me a mom and he’s is my ❤ as well as my daughters anyway Happy valentine 💝 you got that right we never stop loving our kids no matter how old they are
100% Fumi it happened to me I’m 56 years old ,
my mom had me young and got married w other man had 6 kids
I grown up w my Auntie my life turned so good out of his 6 kids I m the only one who take care of my mom
Let ❤our kids pa
I am the mother of one and I was a single parent. My heart aches for this young man because I cannot imagine what he has had to go through as a child and now as an adult. The only people that need to speak about what has happened between mother and son is mother and son and or therapists, counselors, physcologists these are the only people who can assist with this matter. As a parent you would want the best for your children the love and nurturing is needed in a childs life. I am praying for both Monique and her son that they will come together and speak with one another. No husbands or wives should be involved in the discussion.
Well spoken Fumi👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I was so emotional listening to Monique’ son and got angry and disappointed seeing Sid speaking instead of Monique. That will upset more Shalon because all he wants is his mum.
I’m not
Thank you for all you said Fumi. MONIQUE, never stop apologizing to your son, he is hurting.
Awe no Fumi this changes the perspective. This is her child and she wants him to come to her?? RED FLAG!🚩🚩🚩🚩 My prayers for her son and his healing before I expect Oprah or Tyler to give her money or an apology!
Perhaps she reached out numerous times and decided to give him the space to reciprocate when he is ready. It may be hard to see things objectively depending on personal circumstances
I think what Shalon has realized is that his mother does not love him or even like him. It seems like she just saw him as a stubbling block to her dinding success. She never formed a real bond with him. What's worst is him seeing her loving her other children while continuing to not love him. That has to be the biggest wound ever.
“Shing Ding” Fume is soo down to earth 😊
That young man did not smear her one iota in his message, just said he's done and wished her well. Monique doesn't call him and plead for understanding. She responds by putting private texts in the public to show that they exchanged "hi" texts in 2021 and she bought things for his baby. She is manipulative and the common denominator in all these toxic relationships.
Yes, she's acknowledged that she did him wrong (he mentioned that), but what is missing is the same thing she DEMANDS from others... humility and accountability. She herself is not able to do that for the most critical relationship in her life. Oprah is problematic, Monique might be worse.
I believe Mo'nique in all she said about the industry. However, her husband had no business to respond to the matter if her 1st born since he did not see him as a son. Mo'nique needs to comme correct on this. He did not ask to be born, and so he is your responsibility til you die.
thank u aunt fumi, u kept it all. the way real. you look beautiful
Imagine losing the hope that your mother will ever want you. I really want to give a big mommy hug to this young man. I pray for reconciliation for this family.
This had me emotional 😢, thanks for this video
he is a Beautiful Man inside out nothing in the world would have been more important to me to be there for this beautiful Soul that he is . thank you Fumi I felt so much like you he is so well spoken I am impressed by him and you for being you .
you look Fabulous ❣
This is really had for me i felt this because this just me and my mom rn we haven't spoken for a long while now and i don't even miss it, absent parent even when she was there/ with you is the most painful thing ever no matter how old we get the pain is still there.
My sister, you could not have said it any better. A first born of a mother opens the gates of abundance for the rest of the siblings. Monique should know that her son's sadness the universe has noted and affect those three other children. This son holds the blessings of the three brothers.
You are amazing to address this situation with such grace! I felt Monique's sins pain as well.
I've told my daughters, that while I'm alive, I will forever be their mother and they my children. Albeit, not in a childlike way. It means that I will always be there for them.
Thank you for including the footage of you and Adrean. So very sweet ❤
Bless you ms fumi .more blessings❤❤❤❤
The situation with her son is just sad 😢 totally agree with everything you said.
Her son said that she has tried to love him with her money and then she and her husband respond with a list of things they bought him. 🤦♀🙄 Way to miss the boat by a mile Mo’nique!
Fumi, you were right on point! This is not a situation for her husband to speak on, it it not his place. Mo’nique is going about this all wrong. Her son will have to find peace in moving on, he may not ever get what he needs from his mom. She still has time to try to understand his perspective and do what’s right.
Exactly. She’s a damn fool
Fumi you're the best fr and supportive 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow! What an episode ❤️
Whats happened between the two of them is done and cant be undone. They both need to come to terms with each other and come to an aggreement on how to move forward.
My kids are grown and I can tell you from experience that you will not do everything right. You have to keep communication open with your children, pick yourself up, learn what needs to be learned, help the children learn and move on.
The son says he has come to terms with the past, but unless he has learned how to forgive, what has hurt him will be repeated by way of his own child. Only then will he see things more from his mother's perspective. Life has a way of teaching us one way or another.