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I lost my entire childhood in this. Couldn't watch tv for more than an hour couldn't play as much as I want because middleclass parents think if their kids do good in school they'll become super successful but they should understand nobody cares about marks. Don't steal their childhood from them because once it's gone it's gone.
Too much of tv or phone addiction will cause lack of attention or distraction issues..we should be able to focus on doing work without distraction and with full concentration. Watching you tube shorts and other such format videos will cause issues..i think your parents are right in what they were doing.. childhood have to be used for learning and for social interaction with others..this will help us in our adult hood. Any child left on its on will will destroy itself.
100% sir.., IKIGAI book summerrised in simple words with Indian touch .... As I am born and bought in village I always used to think why People in village won't get burned out and people like us working in big MNC with bit big paycheck studied hard don't know how to live life
Sir, you are right sir. 💯% 1. Smart study students are sustainable in any field and practical Life. 2. But Hard study students are not sustainable in any field and practical Life.
I was a mediocre student till 10th class....then i started enjoying my studies, got 85% in 12th,(that time 89% was the board topper) .....m now doing sufficiently good in my life......my cousins say.....u saved ur energy for 12th class n we exhausted our's in childhood by coming Ist in 2nd, 3rd, 4th classes😂😂😂
I am in total sync with your thoughts. I never studied hard, yet I was always a topper. I retired as a senior Customs Official. There never was any burnout. I advised my children to be relaxed and enjoy life without worrying about the future.
Uncle apke zamane me targets ya to hote hi nahi the ya fir bilkul strict nhi the... Aapke time ka ek bhi Banda humne burn out hote hue nhi dekha isiliye aap comment na kariye ... Aaj ke time me job kriye burnout ka matlab samajhme aa jaega ...
@@gopendrapondropove No I am not burn out of job. But yes burned out of these sarkari employees. I hate them due to these idiots I wasted my initial years in so called sarkari officergiri. WTF. So whenever I see them boasting of their jobs I take them in arena.
I never studied hard either cause i wasn't as smart as other intelligent academic students and now i am regretting my life as i couldn't do anything in life with no aim and vision. Have suicidal thoughts.
Exactly... I never worked so hard... Done things smoothly according to my comfort... Earning around a lakh and living a happy life. Don't do hard work, work smartly😊
I am a medical student worked extremely hard(didn't care for my mood, emotions, comfort) because of emotional pressure from my mother in my life. Today(Final yr of mbbs) I feel stuck, burnt, emotionless, without any hobbies, likes, without any opinion, without self-esteem. And truly suicidal. But sangwanji's perspective really helping me out of this situation otherwise things might be worse. Thank you sir
Go for counseling brother, u ur self will have to fight this.. And please don't treat ur parents as gods.. They are humans and cannot be always right, so be independent and take ur own decision. I can understand ur prblm bcoz i too was under immense pressure, i studied hard and cracked govt job when i was 21 yrs.. Today i am 30 yrs old and no charm is left in my life due to expectations and constant pressure.. I became like a robot.. Just getting ready, going office, traffic.. Everything in loop.. I sometimes cry for no reason.. I was never interested in typical job.. I always wanted to go for creative field,. Recently i have started painting in free time and slowly trying to change my life.. Now i do what makes me happy.
Counselling is a must for you. Communication and expressing your regret,which you have done here is a big release. You are and remain strong. Maybe tell your mum how you feel, that'll help.
Education is not all about schooling studies. Children also need to be taught about how to manage their emotions, thought processes, little bit of psychological strength is very important. I was a victim of being a smart student and I was emotionally and psychologically not strong enough. I had to go through the cycle of depression to understand these things. I learnt to observe myself and my cognitive biases. Still learning. But it’s more important than the marks you see on your mark sheets or packages and money.
Harsh reality amith ji, beautifully explained. In south india the trend of preparing for IIT/NEET from 6th class onwards is taking a toll on the kids and the whole family. No social movement, no social skills, and burnout above all. Time for us to wakeup to the real life.
I think this video is most relevant till date in my opinion becoz growing years of a kid determine it's future .Parents play most imp role in this regard. I see many parents in my circle who themselves set a career for their kids & being dependent upon parent kids have to obey them.This one mistake ruins the whole life of their kids in every aspect . My D-in-law was forced to do medical coaching at kota .But thank God she had the guts to say No after one year & pursuaded Fashion Designing fm NIFT. Now she is very happy working as fashion designer. We as parents never forced our both sons & let them to follow their dreams . Our D-in- law is so happy with our way of thinking that only in one year marriage she became so close to us
So True. I'm from Telangana, i can feel this. Be it neighbor and relatives all are curios to know what are your weekend Test scores at mock exams of Sri Chaitanya or Narayana.
no body talks about burnout in software engineers in IT industry.. I did my engineering from tier 3 college, studied hard, got into a good company and switched, came to australia and now working in a very reputed software engineering company as senior staff engineer. But it is so tough... the work is super challenging and colleagues are super competetive.. it reduces your quality of life
True in free time studying about new techs / clearing fundas / doing POC or thinking about ongoing challenge, feels like one is becoming digital sahus / sanyasi doing tapasya
I understood this in college, inspite of being a class topper in medical college I moved out of it and took up BBA, because I realised that is not the life I want to have. After struggling so much to get into medicine, I realised there was even more levels of challenges and that is never ending, and I don't have the mental peace. I am a very empathetic person and I can't work in sad environment every day.
Some people cant work in medical field. Its not very easy energitically to be around sick people. On has to be quite strong or numb to pain to work in that field. Its not for soft people.
Just 2 days ago I had this same discussion with my wife because she was putting pressure on my son. I told her that I myself was a mediocre in academics but good in art. However I pursued computers (my passion that grew automatically) without much struggle and have been doing good since 15 years in it now. However, I see some of my relatives who struggled a lot but couldn't achieve much in life. It seems life is simple, but we make it complicated, which is what I learnt.
I agree. I was also an average commerce graduate. Got bank job. Wife got insurance job. Led a peaceful life. Both of us were useful to our parents at their old age and our many siblings. My son a pg engineer settled in a metro.
no bro , you are wrong , you became successful because your interest was in computers , which gives high paying jobs , if someone wants to pursue poetry as his passion , he will be fucked up. passion which don't give you money should never become your active occupation , it should be practiced as a side hustle or just as a hobby
I have seen in my life those students who were backbenchers have faired superbly in professional field...bright students are working under them ...I don't know the reason till now ...If I conclude... the only word comes in my mind is DESTINY....
Your points are very valid ... Coaching institute industry is behind this , their strong marketing misleading parents... But other side of coin is Now a days very vital issue is smartphone... Kids get addicted to smartphone easily... Forget about IIT NIT, above average college also difficult because of smart phone addiction.
Wow. This is an extremely bold n contradictive issue . U have touched the core of our society rather mindset. My daughter is in 9th grade. I have enrolled her in an 1 hour of swimming session instead of any coaching class since last 3 months. We are not taking studies very lightly but not seriously too. She is at par with most of those going for coaching.. I intend to follow the same in her Xth too. I was doubting myself whether I m not inculcating hard work in her whereas her cousins passed out with good % this year with entire year being sleep deprived. Thanks for this video. Though it is difficult to implement what you are trying to say yet we keep our fingers crossed
Wow that's great, plz don't fall for the peer pressure and avoid joining any coaching especially foundation classes . Let her pursue what she wishes after X and also there are tons of options to choose after XII. Also do seek for a career counselor before taking any big decision. I wish her all the best . Ps- I have just graduated (engg) heavily burned out and not interested in joining corporate sector for now. This video resonates with me very well. It's not that I'm a bad student bt I'm not interested to toil this hard for something I don't like. Kind of fallen into a boring lifestyle without any motivation to do anything. But it's not very late, I'm trying to figure out things which will make me feel alive more. Also taking care of my mental health and body. Hope things come out well
Thank you so much sir for your valuable guidance sir I am UPSC aspirant given 4th attempt this year but unfortunately not able to clear pre once so many coaching institute says lage raho usne 6th attempt me clear kiya but after watching ur videos in "clarity for youth" channel i decided to switch my career in forward direction hona hoga to Nokri kar k hoga ab khali nahi baithana 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏☺️
Yes sir you can do anything because good life means not just position or job, how you defines good life thats really matters. If we decided to lead good valued life then we surely can with whatever we have and if we have misconception like materialist things means good life then after becoming DM also it's not enough. So for me doing as much as we can do, do it best with whatever we have and creat some value in society and lead peaceful life. Acceptance ourselves completely and trust the god and surrender on god.❤🙏
All the best brother there are so many options available I was in the same situation a few years ago now no longer into this I have moved forward and am doing good and really happy
Additionally if you work hard initially in school you won’t want to work hard afterwards in your job, when it’s actually needed because you become tired of working hard and want to just take it easy. Better be mediocre in schools and colleges and give it your best later in your job where it really matters!
You are so right, sir. I was a 'brilliant' student in primary school and middle school, always at the top of my class. By high school, I started facing competition. I did okay in my board exams, but others in my class did better than me. In college, I became completely average, struggling to pass, even though I studied just as hard as before. Looking back now, I think it was because I studied too hard when I was very young due to parental pressure, at an age when other boys and girls were enjoying themselves. In Class 12, others also began studying hard and so did better than me. I could not improve because I had already peaked. It got worse in college. It took me a long time to reconcile to my own mediocrity.
Yes bro, studying hard in primary or even high school gives a false impression that we are intelligent. While the fact is we are just doing too much ratta of easy knowledge. Real education only starts in college onwards that too for only science fields. So kids should be encouraged to play more and develop extra curricular talents during school years or findout their fields of interest and focus on study only during college years.
@@husky5912whats huberman can offer him bro? kucch bhi? ek content khatam toh dusra dekhlo. Ek Netflix ki series khatam toh dusri dekhlo. problem of this generation too much information
I struggled alot in medicine, because I was an average 75% student. Cracked neet in 2 yrs , then PG in 3-4yrs, got into best branch of Radiology but having troubles during residency.
I frequently have argument with my mom regarding the same. I tell her that every one has limited capacity to work hard and the capacity is different for everyone. And there is no point working harder nd harder for a task that outweighs one's capabolities. But she doesn't understand. She says "mehnat se sab kuchh hasil kiya ja sakta hai". Ab unhe kaise samjhau ki har kisi ka dimag ek jaisa nhi hota. Aur har koi same level ki mehnat bhi nhi kar sakta. Machhli kabhi ped pe chhad sakti hai kya chahe jitna bhi 'hard work' kare😂
This is one of the best advise videos you've given. I wish I had this advise when I was young. Burnout and loss of motivation does more damage. You lose time and energy. The brain is like a muscle, it also needs rest. If you overuse it, it becomes tired. It's important to focus your energy and time on things which matter and play according to your strengths.
I do totally agree with you. I could never go to a public school (financial Issues) and regular collage post that since I was an average student thus could not score required marks to get admission to a DU collage. However I am now working with those regular MBAs/CAs. They are reporting to me, also on same level with me along with less or similar salary. They do not believe me when I tell them that I had been to a government school with a graduate from correspondence school. Poor fellas. I feel pity.
@@manojmittal6214 I don't know if I got your comment right. actually they are earning more or less same what I was earning at the middle of my career... buddy I mean if you compare what industry used to pay while I was at the middle of my career from now. And its not to demean any one. All I was trying to say is after some time in the industry...what matters is experience. It does not mean qualification not worthy. I said those lines about myself since I was not the one born with silver or gold spoon. I hope you would agree.
Excellent video. I have seen this play out in my own life. Consistent hardwork is not sustainable. Life is full of peaks & troughts. There will be periods of very hard work & stress followed by relaxation & less work. Knowing when to work hard and when to sit back and relax is key to a good life.
Very true words. One needs to take an hard, however unpleasant, look into one inner self and drop the false Selfillusions to discover the real strengths.
This is my every time argument with my mom. I always tell not to put pressure on my niece. I give her my eg. That she never put pressure on me but on other hand she is putting pressure on her. No degree or diploma required. I’m earning with my skills.
Sir its better to open a small business of your own and try to adjust your Kid in the same and he will enjoy a better life financially and also nice family life
Sir, I try to put my child through different experiences and let him choose what he loves. Never pressurize him. Only thing I ask him to learn irrespective of his interest is his mother tongue and Basic maths.
This is very counter to excellence. I believe anyone in life can change his circumstances and really push himself to get excellence. I have worked very hard in my 20s and of course I did party hard, and I am reaping its rewards. I am in favor of experimenting but you have to decide to be excellent in at least one thing , I do not resonate with this school of thought as well, ab agar kisi ko muhalle ka best sprinter ban ke rahna hai to rahe, but if you listen to this man, you will embrace mediocrity
Rank of IITs in the world -> 155/174/197 World's toughest entrance exams -> IIT This means to take entrance in 197th ranked college you need to give world's toughest examination This means a cucumber worth 10 crore and due to propaganda people wants to buy it
True af I realised it in early stages of my life makhan ki tarah cheezen hon tabhi Karo warna haath paaon marte raho, whenever I forget the lessons which I learnt in life I come on this channel to revise
Same thing my father told few years back, We are 2 brothers and both no need to do job, 1 can do agriculture and other who is interested in studies can study hard.
I too recently understand this by observing my previous year performances.But I want to add one more thing in this aspect .That is age , you should make your kids work hard in their growth periods which is upto the age when they hit their puberty.when you reach beyond age of 18 your body and mind growth will start decreasing.
I agree with sango ji, i am an nit+isb grad and make 1 cr package in india. But it is not worth it. My friends in family business or other relaxed jobs are happier. My social circle is also small owing to moves between 3 countries and many cities
Its very true. One has to work hard but only to the extent where you dont get burnt. Even if you achieved something after lot of struggle, you wont be able to enjoy it. Coz the bitterness created by that hard work and time spent doint it, will always triumph the sweetness of the results.
Yes bro, studying hard in primary or even high school gives a false impression that we are intelligent. While the fact is we are just doing too much ratta of easy knowledge. Real education only starts in college onwards that too for only science fields. So kids should be encouraged to play more and develop extra curricular talents during school years or findout their fields of interest and focus on study only during college years.
Oh My God!! So true!! I can totally relate to this!! We need thoda paisa and thoda sukun... I have gone through this process... So hopefully I won't force my kid for his career choice... Big like to this video...
College selection in US for higher education has an old mantra : Don't go to a super top university where you will be in bottom... (Even if you have been offered admission)... It's better to join a lower grade univ where you can be in comfortable top 25% . Standford has a syndrome called ' Duck Syndrome ' where univ students sit like zombies in parks... cool from exterior but frantically paddling like a duck from inside. Long term sustainability of sustained high pressure 😁 has never been achieved by anything or anyone on this earth... volcanoes erupt, earthquakes come...when tectonic plates are under tremendous stress... Work smart ....not hard. Be a professional...not a labourer (even if you are running a Fortune 500 company or a sandwich shop). Reason for this is Cortisol: an emergency hormone which takes over after adrenaline phase...it is catabolic in nature and slowly destroys you from inside if sustained pressure is there leading to sustained cortisol levels. Adrenaline+ Cortisol are by definition Emergency Hormones.
Absolutely amazing Amitji…🙏🏻✨🙏🏻 My son just entered in 9 Th standard. Aapne meri aankhe kholdi.. Mera beta bach gaya mere torture se, aap ki vajah se…😀🙏🏻 UPSC ke baat posting me pankha dekhega!!!!😂 I am a doctor, professor and worked hard in life, but I was blessed that everything happened smoothly for me.. Everything happens with smooth flow of life, that is the best and most satisfying way of life.. God bless you..🙏🏻
Very good information sir , I am feeling today that I have not taken a wrong decision for my child, he did what he wanted to do with his heart, God bless him
There are some tendencies that are commonly found in hard working studying students: 1. Most of them are nerds. 2. They frequently ignorant about the concept of sex education, sex chats or sex awareness which will affect their life in the future. 3. They are very serious about something went wrong even, like comming late in office , talking with their politely even if their parents talking nonsense. 4. They just obey the boss and their shitty office work like heaven and think that this is the best job in the world 5. They just want to become something great but not like to do something great except their educational curriculum 6. Their risk taking ability is very low and they are very much defensive about their carrier. 7. They just want to marry after achieving something desireble position or money in corporate like even after earning 50-90k pm they do not marry because they set a criteria that it is suitable for him if he will be earning approx 1.5l pm etc. and I am sure that this will ruin their life once again. 8. They thought that life is all about study but the reality is study is just part of your life.
Yeah.. and also they f*CK up their health and sleep cycle due to their commitment to working hard or study hard. I have seen many such people in their late 20's or early 30's having lifestyle diseases like Bp, diabetes, thyroid issues, depression, etc.
You always should not be stressing out. If working hard for an year makes a good way for you to earn well then its worth doing. Realisation is the key.
Exactly Sir. Son of my colleague is too good in studies but he is too introvert. No communication or speaking skills. He just keeps on studying and his parents get very happy on his high marks. But his social skills is zero. My kids r good, their social skills r so good. Though my boys r 5 and 8 yrs .
You are wrong Amit, Efforts works if we do on right way and direction. I was undergraduate from commerce. I saw some web designing tutorial on youtube searched more and learned slowly slowly. after some hard work and consistent efforts I could manage to get 6 digit salary job in big 4 company even though I was an average student who had 66% in 10th Marathi Medium, 63% in 12th commerce and 43% in TYBCOM. Just want to convey that anybody can do beyond his/her natural potential by doing enough well aligned efforts. Yet over Obsession of efforts, learning or money making is not good.
@@NikhilYadav-ko3ir no dude, I had no interest in coding initially but when I heard about salaries in IT, I feels, ke isme try karte hi. It was too difficult to learn coding languages fir me yet I learnt using free sources. And the fact is I am a good learner also. Now also new things are difficult to me but yet I could survive till now because of hard efforts. So Efforts are required but along with right direction.
Hi Sir, Thank u so much for the practical gyan u shared in the video which is priceless ... this is very useful for young parents like me.. Plz make more such videos on practical parenting of all aspects... my thoughts on this topic are same... thank u so much once again for letting me know that I am not thinking weird in any way and this is completely practical... so i request u to do more such video... that would be a great guide for the parents to raise the upcoming generations in a better way ... making the world a better place
What sir is saying is 💯 percent correct now I as general category student work hard for jee and now I am in Iiit college but now I think how much I work hard more for survive here I am suffering from migrane and depression due to long term preparation and struggle now I have not seeing any path to come out from this now I understood that work that much which will not exhaust you and save you for future struggle ,understand what he is saying
One of the best videos 🙏 Again you are speaking my mind! All along I have repeatedly said we cannot manufacture intelligence? Geniuses are born and not made! Yes training is necessary for polishing them and not for making them ! I wonder why cannot most of the parents understand this simple logic🙄
I have gone through this. every parent who likes to push their kids to study hard must watch this video . I can relate with every word said here. Life can be easy , we don't need to make it hard for ourselves .
One major observation what I did and felt its correct by listening to you sir is, we should fix the routine like farmers who work only those many hours and same time wakeup, sleep, eating time etc fixed... Like this for kids and even we working professional should stick to routine only this much time for work/reading after that play , household stuffs, socializing , exercise, preparing good food, relaxing etc should not be taken for granted ... Within that much time how much we can understand is what our capacity thats it.... No need to burn out... Life is marathon not short sprint......
Very True Sir. वही चीज करनी चाहिए जो स्वाभाविक हो। थोड़ा बहुत सुधार मुमकिन है, जबरदस्ती खुद को वो बनाने की कोशिश करना जिसके लिए हम बने ही नहीं है अवसाद की ओर ले जाता है और कुछ नहीं।
Sir I agree ki there are many things to do but if you have to achieve certain things in life it would require that much amount of efforts only.. You cannot skip it
Yes sirji i agree with you 100 percent correct. Nowadays studying hard is the motto word for every student studying in college, schools and than to get chosen for competitive exam. This goes on in life so much hard work no enjoyment no social life only parents topic is what your child is doing. The mindset has to be changed and suddenly we hear that boy or girl committed suicide for obtaining less mark becoz pressure of parents society and competition. So try things which come smoothly for you and easily you can achieve that.
Real clarity. What a insight. Parents and our youngsters should understand this. These motivational and RUclips gurus are the biggest culprits who preach - that anything can be achieved if you put your mind ,soul and effort in it. Not really! Unless you have a natural talent and therefore a relative advantage tgan everyone else in the race.
Maza ayega sir....har jagah mehnat hi mehnat hai...school ke baad clg lene ke liye mehnat..fir job interview ke liye mehnat fir job mein kaam samajhne ki mehnat and then job switch karne ki mehnat...imp is we lookout for paisa and sukoon❤
Thomas Sowell in US has covered this very well, with quantitative well documented results: where black students got in on quota system, there are worse outcomes in final, many drop out, they don't get jobs or are not able to keep their jobs. Where they join courses without quotas, even if not top level but which are matching to their abilities, black and minority students excel, graduate with flying colors, get good jobs and have a much better life outcome.
Force with no direction is zero (your point) Direction with little force is also not that much (do this, stay mediocre, enjoy life) but Direction + Force takes you places (only some are able do it, that is why their are few geniuses)
Very sad to say that in our school education system there is no such scope to indetify children natural skill. It is rote memorization, both teaching and evaluation, even upto UG PG.
अती सर्वत्र वर्जयेत.एकदम पढाई,पढाई करके पिछेभी नही पडना और अगर बच्चा सिख रहा है,कर रहा है तो करने देना.जितना अपने आप हो रहा है खुश रहना.किसीके भाग्य मे क्या लिखा है हमे मालूम नही रहता.
Superb video Sir...u should have made it a decade ago ..many would have benefitted ...nevertheless it's an eye -opener for new generation generation parents n kids.. thank u😊
Sahi nabaz pakad li apne. Government should introduce agriculture in studies. Two things important .burn out is due to India’s so increased population. All around competition.
When my son entered BArch I told him only one thing plz clear every year without any reappear or repeat that will be best as even in IITs 30 percent is having repeat or reappear in course. B coz I told when you will gofor any job the moment they will see clear in all years without any repeat . That will be a very big Plus
I have always advised my child to do his best as per his capabilities ! If he understands the subject he will go a long way ! If not the bridges will collapse !
Though the intention of ur msg is correct the way its presented people might take it negatively. If a hardworking person cannot do well compared to a not so hardworking person (say in IIT) it doesn't mean the former cannot do/meant for that thing, it just means the later was tought/knows better/smart approach to learn/do that thing. People should not be discouraged and stop persuing their interest comparing to others. Hardwork definitely is necessary for success but in right/smart approach.
totally agreed,i joined a good college after doung do much hard work,and i college i wete not being able to compete need to do more hard work,now in job also getting burnout..totally agreed wuth the messaged shared.
This is sooo true. I am the live example 😅 i never used to study hard. Always scored around 75-85% marks. And I’m doing a pretty good and relaxed job. Having fun in my life ☺️ My parents n elder sisters used to tell me if u study just a little bit then u will be topper of ur class, but i never fell for it. And I’m glad i never did😎
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Chuttiyo ke baad bacho ke school Jane ke baare me video honi chahiye.
Life is marathon not a sprint. Do what you can over long term. Don’t run behind artificial life. Super message Amit ji.
good compilation
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I lost my entire childhood in this. Couldn't watch tv for more than an hour couldn't play as much as I want because middleclass parents think if their kids do good in school they'll become super successful but they should understand nobody cares about marks. Don't steal their childhood from them because once it's gone it's gone.
Too much of tv or phone addiction will cause lack of attention or distraction issues..we should be able to focus on doing work without distraction and with full concentration. Watching you tube shorts and other such format videos will cause issues..i think your parents are right in what they were doing.. childhood have to be used for learning and for social interaction with others..this will help us in our adult hood.
Any child left on its on will will destroy itself.
@@joevarghese1978 exactly 💯💯
@@joevarghese1978there is a region between too much and only 1 hour he is talking about that.
I am also same bro
100% sir.., IKIGAI book summerrised in simple words with Indian touch .... As I am born and bought in village I always used to think why People in village won't get burned out and people like us working in big MNC with bit big paycheck studied hard don't know how to live life
So True. I was about to say that. The Japanese are so ahead of its time. Be it technology or Moral Values or Life Rituals.
@@ajaykumarkonkatibut people in villages always ask for money from their hard working relatives in cities
Sir, you are right sir. 💯%
1. Smart study students are sustainable in any field and practical Life.
2. But Hard study students are not sustainable in any field and practical Life.
I was a mediocre student till 10th class....then i started enjoying my studies, got 85% in 12th,(that time 89% was the board topper) .....m now doing sufficiently good in my life......my cousins say.....u saved ur energy for 12th class n we exhausted our's in childhood by coming Ist in 2nd, 3rd, 4th classes😂😂😂
Same with me, I had put all energy after 12th
I am in total sync with your thoughts. I never studied hard, yet I was always a topper. I retired as a senior Customs Official. There never was any burnout. I advised my children to be relaxed and enjoy life without worrying about the future.
You can't compare yourselves ( very intelligent) with medium persons . Your statement applies to only 5 percent . Whereas sango 95 percent
Uncle apke zamane me targets ya to hote hi nahi the ya fir bilkul strict nhi the... Aapke time ka ek bhi Banda humne burn out hote hue nhi dekha isiliye aap comment na kariye ... Aaj ke time me job kriye burnout ka matlab samajhme aa jaega ...
@@careermining8404 I got your point as you are too RUDE in your expression it shows your burnout attitude jn life. God bless you.
@@gopendrapondropove No I am not burn out of job. But yes burned out of these sarkari employees. I hate them due to these idiots I wasted my initial years in so called sarkari officergiri. WTF. So whenever I see them boasting of their jobs I take them in arena.
I never studied hard either cause i wasn't as smart as other intelligent academic students and now i am regretting my life as i couldn't do anything in life with no aim and vision. Have suicidal thoughts.
Exactly... I never worked so hard... Done things smoothly according to my comfort... Earning around a lakh and living a happy life. Don't do hard work, work smartly😊
I am a medical student worked extremely hard(didn't care for my mood, emotions, comfort) because of emotional pressure from my mother in my life. Today(Final yr of mbbs) I feel stuck, burnt, emotionless, without any hobbies, likes, without any opinion, without self-esteem. And truly suicidal. But sangwanji's perspective really helping me out of this situation otherwise things might be worse. Thank you sir
Go for counseling brother, u ur self will have to fight this.. And please don't treat ur parents as gods.. They are humans and cannot be always right, so be independent and take ur own decision. I can understand ur prblm bcoz i too was under immense pressure, i studied hard and cracked govt job when i was 21 yrs.. Today i am 30 yrs old and no charm is left in my life due to expectations and constant pressure.. I became like a robot.. Just getting ready, going office, traffic.. Everything in loop.. I sometimes cry for no reason.. I was never interested in typical job.. I always wanted to go for creative field,.
Recently i have started painting in free time and slowly trying to change my life.. Now i do what makes me happy.
Counselling is a must for you.
Communication and expressing your regret,which you have done here is a big release. You are and remain strong. Maybe tell your mum how you feel, that'll help.
Your future life will be full of joy happiness and dream life...your sacrifice will be give you good results now ...
@@Crispr_cas9th itte dukhi kyu ho aap?
Education is not all about schooling studies. Children also need to be taught about how to manage their emotions, thought processes, little bit of psychological strength is very important. I was a victim of being a smart student and I was emotionally and psychologically not strong enough. I had to go through the cycle of depression to understand these things. I learnt to observe myself and my cognitive biases. Still learning. But it’s more important than the marks you see on your mark sheets or packages and money.
Harsh reality amith ji, beautifully explained. In south india the trend of preparing for IIT/NEET from 6th class onwards is taking a toll on the kids and the whole family. No social movement, no social skills, and burnout above all. Time for us to wakeup to the real life.
Omg 6th standard unbelievable😱here in Delhi 9th standard is the time ppl jump into coaching centres for iit/neet
It's reality
I think this video is most relevant till date in my opinion becoz growing years of a kid determine it's future .Parents play most imp role in this regard. I see many parents in my circle who themselves set a career for their kids & being dependent upon parent kids have to obey them.This one mistake ruins the whole life of their kids in every aspect . My D-in-law was forced to do medical coaching at kota .But thank God she had the guts to say No after one year & pursuaded Fashion Designing fm NIFT. Now she is very happy working as fashion designer. We as parents never forced our both sons & let them to follow their dreams . Our D-in- law is so happy with our way of thinking that only in one year marriage she became so close to us
So True. I'm from Telangana, i can feel this. Be it neighbor and relatives all are curios to know what are your weekend Test scores at mock exams of Sri Chaitanya or Narayana.
@@krox477 living a zombie life
You are right sir.
1. Very Hard study students no sustainable in any field and practical Life.
2. But Smart study students are sustainable.
no body talks about burnout in software engineers in IT industry.. I did my engineering from tier 3 college, studied hard, got into a good company and switched, came to australia and now working in a very reputed software engineering company as senior staff engineer. But it is so tough... the work is super challenging and colleagues are super competetive.. it reduces your quality of life
True in free time studying about new techs / clearing fundas / doing POC or thinking about ongoing challenge, feels like one is becoming digital sahus / sanyasi doing tapasya
I understood this in college, inspite of being a class topper in medical college I moved out of it and took up BBA, because I realised that is not the life I want to have. After struggling so much to get into medicine, I realised there was even more levels of challenges and that is never ending, and I don't have the mental peace. I am a very empathetic person and I can't work in sad environment every day.
Medical chodne klie jigar chahie
Will you do mba from IIM?
Some people cant work in medical field. Its not very easy energitically to be around sick people. On has to be quite strong or numb to pain to work in that field. Its not for soft people.
It takes courage to say Bhai nahi karna hai.Nahi Banna hai hero. Love happiness.
Very good decision.
Brave person, you are. Kudos!
Just 2 days ago I had this same discussion with my wife because she was putting pressure on my son. I told her that I myself was a mediocre in academics but good in art. However I pursued computers (my passion that grew automatically) without much struggle and have been doing good since 15 years in it now. However, I see some of my relatives who struggled a lot but couldn't achieve much in life. It seems life is simple, but we make it complicated, which is what I learnt.
very true and down to earth thinking like a blessing for child.
I agree. I was also an average commerce graduate. Got bank job. Wife got insurance job. Led a peaceful life. Both of us were useful to our parents at their old age and our many siblings.
My son a pg engineer settled in a metro.
no bro , you are wrong , you became successful because your interest was in computers , which gives high paying jobs , if someone wants to pursue poetry as his passion , he will be fucked up. passion which don't give you money should never become your active occupation , it should be practiced as a side hustle or just as a hobby
correct thinking you are brother 🙌🏻
on our son*
I have seen in my life those students who were backbenchers have faired superbly in professional
field...bright students are working under them ...I don't know the reason till now ...If I conclude... the only word comes in my mind is DESTINY....
Your points are very valid ... Coaching institute industry is behind this , their strong marketing misleading parents...
But other side of coin is
Now a days very vital issue is smartphone... Kids get addicted to smartphone easily... Forget about IIT NIT, above average college also difficult because of smart phone addiction.
Wow. This is an extremely bold n contradictive issue . U have touched the core of our society rather mindset. My daughter is in 9th grade. I have enrolled her in an 1 hour of swimming session instead of any coaching class since last 3 months. We are not taking studies very lightly but not seriously too. She is at par with most of those going for coaching.. I intend to follow the same in her Xth too. I was doubting myself whether I m not inculcating hard work in her whereas her cousins passed out with good % this year with entire year being sleep deprived. Thanks for this video. Though it is difficult to implement what you are trying to say yet we keep our fingers crossed
Wow that's great, plz don't fall for the peer pressure and avoid joining any coaching especially foundation classes . Let her pursue what she wishes after X and also there are tons of options to choose after XII. Also do seek for a career counselor before taking any big decision. I wish her all the best .
Ps- I have just graduated (engg) heavily burned out and not interested in joining corporate sector for now. This video resonates with me very well. It's not that I'm a bad student bt I'm not interested to toil this hard for something I don't like. Kind of fallen into a boring lifestyle without any motivation to do anything. But it's not very late, I'm trying to figure out things which will make me feel alive more. Also taking care of my mental health and body. Hope things come out well
With all that % of marks , IIT and Coaching, India hasn't been able to secure a Nobel prize in science since 1930.
You have done absolutely right for your kid . It's not worth having high blood pressure, Anxiety and diabetes ,just to gain some extra marks.
@@doctorpanigrahi9975 Thanks
Thank you so much sir for your valuable guidance sir
I am UPSC aspirant given 4th attempt this year but unfortunately not able to clear pre once so many coaching institute says lage raho usne 6th attempt me clear kiya but after watching ur videos in "clarity for youth" channel i decided to switch my career in forward direction hona hoga to Nokri kar k hoga ab khali nahi baithana 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏☺️
All the best to you, Sir..Keep moving forward
Yes sir you can do anything because good life means not just position or job, how you defines good life thats really matters. If we decided to lead good valued life then we surely can with whatever we have and if we have misconception like materialist things means good life then after becoming DM also it's not enough. So for me doing as much as we can do, do it best with whatever we have and creat some value in society and lead peaceful life.
Acceptance ourselves completely and trust the god and surrender on god.❤🙏
All the best brother there are so many options available I was in the same situation a few years ago now no longer into this I have moved forward and am doing good and really happy
Good decision .
Ur just awesome u will reach very good position in your life 👍
Additionally if you work hard initially in school you won’t want to work hard afterwards in your job, when it’s actually needed because you become tired of working hard and want to just take it easy.
Better be mediocre in schools and colleges and give it your best later in your job where it really matters!
You are so right, sir. I was a 'brilliant' student in primary school and middle school, always at the top of my class. By high school, I started facing competition. I did okay in my board exams, but others in my class did better than me. In college, I became completely average, struggling to pass, even though I studied just as hard as before. Looking back now, I think it was because I studied too hard when I was very young due to parental pressure, at an age when other boys and girls were enjoying themselves. In Class 12, others also began studying hard and so did better than me. I could not improve because I had already peaked. It got worse in college. It took me a long time to reconcile to my own mediocrity.
Same happened with me
@@husky5912 Thanks! I will
Yes bro, studying hard in primary or even high school gives a false impression that we are intelligent. While the fact is we are just doing too much ratta of easy knowledge. Real education only starts in college onwards that too for only science fields. So kids should be encouraged to play more and develop extra curricular talents during school years or findout their fields of interest and focus on study only during college years.
@@husky5912whats huberman can offer him bro? kucch bhi? ek content khatam toh dusra dekhlo. Ek Netflix ki series khatam toh dusri dekhlo. problem of this generation too much information
+1
I struggled alot in medicine, because I was an average 75% student. Cracked neet in 2 yrs , then PG in 3-4yrs, got into best branch of Radiology but having troubles during residency.
Bro, salute to your hard work.
but it is not worth nor advisable to spend 2 years for N
You will clear radiology anyway, so it doesnt matter now. Life after pg will be less stressful in radiology
@@SmackreckerNeega Please ! He is screwed.
@@doctorpanigrahi9975 why
@@Smackreckerhe will do best😅
I frequently have argument with my mom regarding the same. I tell her that every one has limited capacity to work hard and the capacity is different for everyone. And there is no point working harder nd harder for a task that outweighs one's capabolities. But she doesn't understand. She says "mehnat se sab kuchh hasil kiya ja sakta hai". Ab unhe kaise samjhau ki har kisi ka dimag ek jaisa nhi hota. Aur har koi same level ki mehnat bhi nhi kar sakta. Machhli kabhi ped pe chhad sakti hai kya chahe jitna bhi 'hard work' kare😂
This is one of the best advise videos you've given. I wish I had this advise when I was young. Burnout and loss of motivation does more damage. You lose time and energy. The brain is like a muscle, it also needs rest. If you overuse it, it becomes tired. It's important to focus your energy and time on things which matter and play according to your strengths.
I do totally agree with you. I could never go to a public school (financial Issues) and regular collage post that since I was an average student thus could not score required marks to get admission to a DU collage. However I am now working with those regular MBAs/CAs. They are reporting to me, also on same level with me along with less or similar salary. They do not believe me when I tell them that I had been to a government school with a graduate from correspondence school. Poor fellas. I feel pity.
Just wait and compare ur position at middle of ur career with those ca /mba working under u .
@@manojmittal6214 I don't know if I got your comment right. actually they are earning more or less same what I was earning at the middle of my career... buddy I mean if you compare what industry used to pay while I was at the middle of my career from now. And its not to demean any one. All I was trying to say is after some time in the industry...what matters is experience. It does not mean qualification not worthy. I said those lines about myself since I was not the one born with silver or gold spoon. I hope you would agree.
Excellent view sir...ek dum sahi...1000%.....but no one understands 😮
Only thing in hands of middle class for their children is study .. I hope its not paradoxical statement
Excellent video. I have seen this play out in my own life. Consistent hardwork is not sustainable. Life is full of peaks & troughts. There will be periods of very hard work & stress followed by relaxation & less work. Knowing when to work hard and when to sit back and relax is key to a good life.
Very true words. One needs to take an hard, however unpleasant, look into one inner self and drop the false Selfillusions to discover the real strengths.
This is my every time argument with my mom. I always tell not to put pressure on my niece. I give her my eg. That she never put pressure on me but on other hand she is putting pressure on her. No degree or diploma required. I’m earning with my skills.
Chal ab ja kar padh le 😂😂
@@comicsmania5458ban gya cool?
@@TechMohitmisca😂😂😂😂
@@comicsmania5458Tumhare jese log es channel me kya kar rhe ? First order thinking Wale.
Sir its better to open a small business of your own and try to adjust your Kid in the same and he will enjoy a better life financially and also nice family life
Sir, I try to put my child through different experiences and let him choose what he loves. Never pressurize him. Only thing I ask him to learn irrespective of his interest is his mother tongue and Basic maths.
This is very counter to excellence. I believe anyone in life can change his circumstances and really push himself to get excellence. I have worked very hard in my 20s and of course I did party hard, and I am reaping its rewards. I am in favor of experimenting but you have to decide to be excellent in at least one thing , I do not resonate with this school of thought as well, ab agar kisi ko muhalle ka best sprinter ban ke rahna hai to rahe, but if you listen to this man, you will embrace mediocrity
While studying in India parents usually think," bacha kahi ghus jaye but later on bache me koi ghus gaya😅"
😂 ya fir bacha kisime ghus jaaye.
@@anonymousanonymous6424 🤣 kuch Na kuch, kahi na kahi ghuse ga jaroor...
😂😂 true
Rank of IITs in the world -> 155/174/197
World's toughest entrance exams -> IIT
This means to take entrance in 197th ranked college you need to give world's toughest examination
This means a cucumber worth 10 crore and due to propaganda people wants to buy it
So relieved😅..as a parent of two teens... Thank you sir🙏
True af I realised it in early stages of my life makhan ki tarah cheezen hon tabhi Karo warna haath paaon marte raho, whenever I forget the lessons which I learnt in life I come on this channel to revise
Exactly.... Be Practical and understand your limits.
6:19 गुरुजी ने दिल की बात बोल दी 😂😂
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Same thing my father told few years back, We are 2 brothers and both no need to do job, 1 can do agriculture and other who is interested in studies can study hard.
I too recently understand this by observing my previous year performances.But I want to add one more thing in this aspect .That is age , you should make your kids work hard in their growth periods which is upto the age when they hit their puberty.when you reach beyond age of 18 your body and mind growth will start decreasing.
I agree with sango ji, i am an nit+isb grad and make 1 cr package in india. But it is not worth it. My friends in family business or other relaxed jobs are happier. My social circle is also small owing to moves between 3 countries and many cities
Its very true. One has to work hard but only to the extent where you dont get burnt. Even if you achieved something after lot of struggle, you wont be able to enjoy it. Coz the bitterness created by that hard work and time spent doint it, will always triumph the sweetness of the results.
Yes bro, studying hard in primary or even high school gives a false impression that we are intelligent. While the fact is we are just doing too much ratta of easy knowledge. Real education only starts in college onwards that too for only science fields. So kids should be encouraged to play more and develop extra curricular talents during school years or findout their fields of interest and focus on study only during college years.
Only science 😂😂😂
Law school ka naam suna hai??
Contradictory but factual! You can deny accepting it but can't ignore. This is so reassuring coming out of from an expert. Thanks sir 🙏 🙏
Sir you always talk about reality, not trends. Thanks for valuable guidance.
Oh My God!! So true!! I can totally relate to this!! We need thoda paisa and thoda sukun... I have gone through this process... So hopefully I won't force my kid for his career choice... Big like to this video...
College selection in US for higher education has an old mantra : Don't go to a super top university where you will be in bottom... (Even if you have been offered admission)...
It's better to join a lower grade univ where you can be in comfortable top 25% .
Standford has a syndrome called ' Duck Syndrome ' where univ students sit like zombies in parks... cool from exterior but frantically paddling like a duck from inside.
Long term sustainability of sustained high pressure 😁 has never been achieved by anything or anyone on this earth... volcanoes erupt, earthquakes come...when tectonic plates are under tremendous stress...
Work smart ....not hard.
Be a professional...not a labourer (even if you are running a Fortune 500 company or a sandwich shop).
Reason for this is Cortisol: an emergency hormone which takes over after adrenaline phase...it is catabolic in nature and slowly destroys you from inside if sustained pressure is there leading to sustained cortisol levels.
Adrenaline+ Cortisol are by definition Emergency Hormones.
Nice analysis
Very well said
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Brilliant analysis as always. Yes, I rather be able to do pull-ups than be an exam nerd.
Fantastic!
Absolutely amazing Amitji…🙏🏻✨🙏🏻
My son just entered in 9 Th standard. Aapne meri aankhe kholdi..
Mera beta bach gaya mere torture se, aap ki vajah se…😀🙏🏻
UPSC ke baat posting me pankha dekhega!!!!😂
I am a doctor, professor and worked hard in life, but I was blessed that everything happened smoothly for me..
Everything happens with smooth flow of life, that is the best and most satisfying way of life..
God bless you..🙏🏻
MAG , Yes, If a person lives according to his unique nature ( swa bhav) , then things start happening by itself or effortlessly.
Guru Ji🙏🏼🙏🏼Shat shat Pranam , very detailed and ground reality 👍🏻
Absolutely aggree Sir , will follow your golden advice for my kids 🙏
Respected Sir, I really appreciate your thought process...I hope people who are in their 20-30s understand this🙏
Very good information sir , I am feeling today that I have not taken a wrong decision for my child, he did what he wanted to do with his heart, God bless him
There are some tendencies that are commonly found in hard working studying students:
1. Most of them are nerds.
2. They frequently ignorant about the concept of sex education, sex chats or sex awareness which will affect their life in the future.
3. They are very serious about something went wrong even, like comming late in office , talking with their politely even if their parents talking nonsense.
4. They just obey the boss and their shitty office work like heaven and think that this is the best job in the world
5. They just want to become something great but not like to do something great except their educational curriculum
6. Their risk taking ability is very low and they are very much defensive about their carrier.
7. They just want to marry after achieving something desireble position or money in corporate like even after earning 50-90k pm they do not marry because they set a criteria that it is suitable for him if he will be earning approx 1.5l pm etc. and I am sure that this will ruin their life once again.
8. They thought that life is all about study but the reality is study is just part of your life.
Good observations. Thanks for comment
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Yeah.. and also they f*CK up their health and sleep cycle due to their commitment to working hard or study hard.
I have seen many such people in their late 20's or early 30's having lifestyle diseases like Bp, diabetes, thyroid issues, depression, etc.
You always should not be stressing out. If working hard for an year makes a good way for you to earn well then its worth doing. Realisation is the key.
Exactly Sir. Son of my colleague is too good in studies but he is too introvert. No communication or speaking skills. He just keeps on studying and his parents get very happy on his high marks. But his social skills is zero. My kids r good, their social skills r so good. Though my boys r 5 and 8 yrs .
You are wrong Amit, Efforts works if we do on right way and direction.
I was undergraduate from commerce. I saw some web designing tutorial on youtube searched more and learned slowly slowly. after some hard work and consistent efforts I could manage to get 6 digit salary job in big 4 company even though I was an average student who had 66% in 10th Marathi Medium, 63% in 12th commerce and 43% in TYBCOM.
Just want to convey that anybody can do beyond his/her natural potential by doing enough well aligned efforts. Yet over Obsession of efforts, learning or money making is not good.
the thing is you had interest in web dev it came naturally to you he is saying to do not work hard but working hard in the right direction
@@NikhilYadav-ko3ir no dude, I had no interest in coding initially but when I heard about salaries in IT, I feels, ke isme try karte hi. It was too difficult to learn coding languages fir me yet I learnt using free sources. And the fact is I am a good learner also. Now also new things are difficult to me but yet I could survive till now because of hard efforts. So Efforts are required but along with right direction.
Hi Sir,
Thank u so much for the practical gyan u shared in the video which is priceless ... this is very useful for young parents like me.. Plz make more such videos on practical parenting of all aspects... my thoughts on this topic are same... thank u so much once again for letting me know that I am not thinking weird in any way and this is completely practical... so i request u to do more such video... that would be a great guide for the parents to raise the upcoming generations in a better way ... making the world a better place
What sir is saying is 💯 percent correct now I as general category student work hard for jee and now I am in Iiit college but now I think how much I work hard more for survive here I am suffering from migrane and depression due to long term preparation and struggle now I have not seeing any path to come out from this now I understood that work that much which will not exhaust you and save you for future struggle ,understand what he is saying
Such a realistic analysis...hats off to you 😀
One of the best videos 🙏 Again you are speaking my mind! All along I have repeatedly said we cannot manufacture intelligence? Geniuses are born and not made! Yes training is necessary for polishing them and not for making them ! I wonder why cannot most of the parents understand this simple logic🙄
Very practical advice, my 19 yrs son use to say the same but I ignore him ...... ultimate is Earning let us work on our own fields
Sir - A very rare and great advice!, hardly anybody gives like this. Hats off to you for this kind of guidance always!!!. Thank you!
sir apki baten sun k dimag hill jata hai. but ek naya perspective milta h society ko dekhne ka
I have gone through this. every parent who likes to push their kids to study hard must watch this video . I can relate with every word said here. Life can be easy , we don't need to make it hard for ourselves .
सुनने में कड़वी लग रही है लेकिन no one can beat his potentials beyond a limit .
Very nice message Sir!! You are doing great work. Much appreciated
One major observation what I did and felt its correct by listening to you sir is, we should fix the routine like farmers who work only those many hours and same time wakeup, sleep, eating time etc fixed... Like this for kids and even we working professional should stick to routine only this much time for work/reading after that play , household stuffs, socializing , exercise, preparing good food, relaxing etc should not be taken for granted ... Within that much time how much we can understand is what our capacity thats it.... No need to burn out... Life is marathon not short sprint......
Very True Sir. वही चीज करनी चाहिए जो स्वाभाविक हो। थोड़ा बहुत सुधार मुमकिन है, जबरदस्ती खुद को वो बनाने की कोशिश करना जिसके लिए हम बने ही नहीं है अवसाद की ओर ले जाता है और कुछ नहीं।
Very smoothly delivered, just the thoughts of my mind
No one listens...
And my life is already destroyed
My passion is still my passion but I don't have energy to pursue it anymore.
Yes I m a burnout
Same here
Koi baat nahi burnout mat ho yaar
Sir I agree ki there are many things to do but if you have to achieve certain things in life it would require that much amount of efforts only.. You cannot skip it
Wonderful message. What a funny way of giving such a serious message in a very relatable manner
Totally agree with you Sir...👍 Got the message and heartfelt thanks .
Absolutely correct point of view . I agree 💯
Yes sirji i agree with you 100 percent correct. Nowadays studying hard is the motto word for every student studying in college, schools and than to get chosen for competitive exam. This goes on in life so much hard work no enjoyment no social life only parents topic is what your child is doing. The mindset has to be changed and suddenly we hear that boy or girl committed suicide for obtaining less mark becoz pressure of parents society and competition. So try things which come smoothly for you and easily you can achieve that.
So real and fact-based... Hats off for explaining such a crucial and contradictory topic in a simplest manner.
Real clarity. What a insight. Parents and our youngsters should understand this. These motivational and RUclips gurus are the biggest culprits who preach - that anything can be achieved if you put your mind ,soul and effort in it. Not really! Unless you have a natural talent and therefore a relative advantage tgan everyone else in the race.
Maza ayega sir....har jagah mehnat hi mehnat hai...school ke baad clg lene ke liye mehnat..fir job interview ke liye mehnat fir job mein kaam samajhne ki mehnat and then job switch karne ki mehnat...imp is we lookout for paisa and sukoon❤
Extremely educating and funny as well. Thank you sir.
Thomas Sowell in US has covered this very well, with quantitative well documented results: where black students got in on quota system, there are worse outcomes in final, many drop out, they don't get jobs or are not able to keep their jobs. Where they join courses without quotas, even if not top level but which are matching to their abilities, black and minority students excel, graduate with flying colors, get good jobs and have a much better life outcome.
Force with no direction is zero (your point)
Direction with little force is also not that much (do this, stay mediocre, enjoy life)
but Direction + Force takes you places (only some are able do it, that is why their are few geniuses)
Force is vector , you can't add force directly
@@ronydey8826 talking about the magnitude
Add English captions, it will reach a broader audience. Applicable to every human , any stage of life
Very sad to say that in our school education system there is no such scope to indetify children natural skill. It is rote memorization, both teaching and evaluation, even upto UG PG.
Thanks Sir for sharing your experience it is changing my mind to look towards life
Whatever you have said sir is 100% true... All the parents should realize this. Thanks you sir for making video on this topic 🙏
अती सर्वत्र वर्जयेत.एकदम पढाई,पढाई करके पिछेभी नही पडना और अगर बच्चा सिख रहा है,कर रहा है तो करने देना.जितना अपने आप हो रहा है खुश रहना.किसीके भाग्य मे क्या लिखा है हमे मालूम नही रहता.
I will. Suprisingly, I had similar thoughts.
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa, Amit Guru Ji! 🔥💥🔥
Superb video Sir...u should have made it a decade ago ..many would have benefitted ...nevertheless it's an eye -opener for new generation generation parents n kids.. thank u😊
Sahi nabaz pakad li apne. Government should introduce agriculture in studies. Two things important .burn out is due to India’s so increased population. All around competition.
The problem is that teachers and parents tell children to study. But no one tells them how to study. Nobody explains the approach. Which is silly
When my son entered BArch I told him only one thing plz clear every year without any reappear or repeat that will be best as even in IITs 30 percent is having repeat or reappear in course. B coz I told when you will gofor any job the moment they will see clear in all years without any repeat . That will be a very big Plus
I have always advised my child to do his best as per his capabilities ! If he understands the subject he will go a long way ! If not the bridges will collapse !
Though the intention of ur msg is correct the way its presented people might take it negatively.
If a hardworking person cannot do well compared to a not so hardworking person (say in IIT) it doesn't mean the former cannot do/meant for that thing, it just means the later was tought/knows better/smart approach to learn/do that thing.
People should not be discouraged and stop persuing their interest comparing to others. Hardwork definitely is necessary for success but in right/smart approach.
totally agreed,i joined a good college after doung do much hard work,and i college i wete not being able to compete need to do more hard work,now in job also getting burnout..totally agreed wuth the messaged shared.
you're right sir..sahaj jo mile wo sambhalana sahaj hota hai...sahajta ka example great singer Kishore da singing his own way
This is sooo true. I am the live example 😅 i never used to study hard. Always scored around 75-85% marks. And I’m doing a pretty good and relaxed job.
Having fun in my life ☺️
My parents n elder sisters used to tell me if u study just a little bit then u will be topper of ur class, but i never fell for it. And I’m glad i never did😎
What is your job brother?