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More women than men go to university... quick! We have to make this into a negative for women!
yeah.. actually isnt' this the kind of "equality" they fight for? The kind that defines equal outcomes as long as it means women out number men and that equal opportunity is just some crazy thing western civilization fought for over centuries to make it what it is (or was) today! and as expected, they are still not happy when they get what they ask for.
As pointed out, why is it that when women dominate, it's written down to female strength, intelligent etc., but when men dominate, it's patriarchy and suppression?
Likewise if women are bad its because of something fucked-up that happened to them in the past or because some man behind the scenes makes them do bad things. Men simply choose to be bad because they are bad. They have no backgrounds. Especially true TV/movie fiction.
As someone who's been to college, I can't think of anything more negative than being in college. Well, prison, maybe.
because they made universities feminist hellholes - males try to skirt the edges to get where they want.
a millionaire may marry a waitress, but a waitress won't think of dating the dishwasher. love and romance huh?
Gotta love hypergamy
@Lee J equalizing the figures won't make a difference. women just need to change their expectations and priorities. You could have a 9 to 1 ratio of men and women in universities and that 1 woman will still be single and mope about it.
@Lee J This works for marriage (which is financial contract in the first place), but doesn't work for sex. Woman could be fucked by poor guy without job, but she will marry someone who can give stability to children. And for the sake of being fair - most people still marry on people of equal economical and social standing. It just so happens what men on average have higher position and more resources, so of course we will marry down. Because most of them choose wife based on her looks and personality - if you are already wealthy man then why would you need wealthy wife? You'd rather marry someone hot and cool to be with.
Aint that the truth!
Bitches be wanting to go to college to find a husband. I just want to go so I can fucking quit starving in-between jobs.... Hahaha, life.
Two things women always complained about my whole life was men can't handle smart women, and women who earn more. I always replied I'm broke and stupid, marry me.
No takers.
adolthitler "you can't handle dumb or broke men. See the hypocrisy?"
Thank you!!!
LMAO...!!
Oh god this is so good
Women want a physically attractive man who will give them free shit and kiss their ass. Everything else is a lie.
I have got an Electrical Engineering degree and the dumb girl in the class who couldn't do an easy lab assignment now has a job and I can't find a job because the "Asian man engineer" quota for the company has already been filled.
#ASIANENGINEERSMATTER
kaziabir1 Now that’s gotta be really fucking aggravating- meritocracy has gone out the window and the progression of civilisation with it eventually.
It's because females refuse to date DOWN. They will not date a man who is less successful than she is, generally speaking. She MAY take a man who is as successful as she is, but only if he has good potential and only if he has made strides toward realizing that potential. Men don't have a problem dating down, and in fact prefer to have someone who is at their level or lower.
The same thing happens with regards to looks. women tend to overvalue their looks. A woman who is a 6 thinks she is worth attracting a man who is an 8.
This is routed in evolution. however with the equity movement raising women up, the evolutionary instincts will suddenly work against women. Time to ditch bullhit studies, make more room for sciencesengeneering, doctors..., studies that will get you an actual job and rate on educational needs only. If everyone can get a college degree it becomes the next highschool diploma, worthless.
That changes as they get older.
@bonesthecat Maybe so, but haven't you heard? 30 is the new 20, 40 is the new 30, etc... It is now happening at least 10 years later than it used to.
But the eggs are green.
I hate to sound crass, but the reason we still bother is because we're hard wire to seek out pussy. If it was a simple case of *deciding* not to bother anymore, and switching off the desire for sex and companionship, the human species would have been extinct a very long time ago.
Women are like the Agents in The Matrix; with respect to sex, they guard all the doors and hold all the keys. It's easy for someone with a vagina to muse over why men still bother, but probably you don't have to work too hard to find companionship. If you're half way attractive, you probably have to fight men off at times. It probably even gets annoying to you. Be honest, have you ever found yourself rolling your eyes when some dude does a drive by on you, while thinking to yourself, _'shit, now I have _*_this_*_ guy to deal with'_? Most women have that experience. Most men NEVER have that experience. Unless we chase women, we end up sexless monks who loath their own existence. We don't chase women because we want to, we chase because we HAVE to. That desire is what keeps this whole human race debacle going.
I think you are missing a pretty big point and that is the percentage of men who actually want to marry. The legal system has been stacked against men so much that many men have just given up marriage as a bad deal.
So I take it you didn't watch the whole video?
That is not a true statement - I did. I think the point I was making is that your entire video was discussing the marriage gap because of fewer educated men than women. You did not explicitly point out that men simply do not want to marry women because overall it is a huge headache. I was on the market for over a decade and because I am patriarchal, the local women simply were not interested in me, so I ended up marrying an East Asian. I never looked back.
What do you mean "you think the point you were making," how could you make a point and not be sure the point you were making? You said, *I think you are missing a pretty big point and that is the percentage of men who actually want to marry*
I explicitly included the percentage of men that think marriage is important to them. Here's a tip just because a thought popped into your head, don't feel compelled to blurt it out.
Okay - point taken.
Okay, so the title of the presentation was the "the dating gap", and you primarily restricted the topic to college educated men and women. You provided some facts and statistics, but you did not answer the question of why the men are not dating the women. From your own statistics you indicated that there are 4 women out there for every three men, and indicated that this was not a huge difference, so the question that has to be asked is where did all of the men go, and you did not answer this question. So, where did all the men go? I think the partial answer was discussed and that was the men are dating around before getting married, but that is a euphemism for sleeping around with other women.
Also, because men's sexual market value increases as they gain resources and women's decrease, men are far more likely to date younger women and ignore those college educated women who are in their mid thirties or early forties and their sexual market value is cratering. Reference Jordan Peterson's tape from Ryerson University where he talks about how men will marry someone with equal education or lower whereas a woman wants to marry a man with equal education or higher. The numbers are really working against her.
You also did not talk about the fact that many men are opting out of the marriage market entirely because of the fear of the state. Stefan Molyneux has discussed this at length. Women can marry a man and then divorce him and take his resources. This has gotten so bad that many men will not even consider marrying in the first place.
I am not even going to talk about the MGTOW movement which is taking men completely out of the marriage market. This is similar to the herbivore men of Japan who have retreated to their parents house and play video games all day long.
So I think your video was interesting but I felt that you left too many unanswered questions on the table. Additionally, there are some obvious answers which you did not even touch on.
This is how ridiculous its gotten. You could be sitting at a table on a first date with one of these gals and she brings up some obscure 18th century English poet she learned about in college. You say, "Hmm. I never heard of him". She looks at you a minute and makes up her mind right there and then that you couldn't possibly be boyfriend material because you dont know who this obscure English poet is. Obviously (in her mind) its because you never went to college. All of a sudden the rest of the evening is very quiet and awkward. You almost get the feeling she is looking down on you. After the dinner she politely thanks you for a nice time and takes off. Never to be heard from again. Now flip the script. You are at a table on your first date. You bring up some obscure French film director from the 1940s. She's never heard of him before. She's a college grad, you are not. Yet Instead of judging her negatively, you take this as an exciting opportunity to turn her onto this directors films. Thus sharing something you are passionate about with the hopes that maybe she will like them as well. See the difference? The above happened to me. And believe me, the dichotomy didnt go unnoticed!
At least the gal who brought up the 18th century English poet knows about western culture. But that's not likely anymore.
Rod Well, the social sciences have their importance as well. While indeed, obscurity is a pain, if you don’t understand how people think you end up running into brick walls. I’m no english major, but I do study History, Philosophy, and Political Science. Historical thinking has a different nature to mathematic thinking, the same with philosophy and ect. The sciences, math, and any product there of (tech) is extremely important, but if you don’t understand how we got to these bits or the people behind them, then the creative spirit of innovation is lost, and we are thrusted into a stagnated age of mediocrity. Now, I won’t lie, my field is littered with bastardized interpretations, and I disagree with most of them for their ignorance on the subject matter. As a good meme once said, “It’s rough buddy”.
never happend to me, the moment i sense she looks down on me, i make clear who is smarter and stronger, if she can not accept that fact, she will begone......
@@TheOneG36 What if she genuinely has a higher I.Q. than you ?
@@davidthorp01 In my experience, mathematicians and scientists know a lot more about history than historians know about math or science.
26y old, Major in computer science, average looking. Single since inception of time. I didn't noticed any woman fighting for me anywhere, stopped bothering looking for such.
Fartuess well guys are forced to step out and ask women and also out yourselves in situations when she's bound to do something stupid (or less restrained). It's why people go where women drink and do drugs. And why so many of the date rape things nowadays turn out to be women regretting their choices when they were looser.
But I'd anyone's been drunk you know you don't do stuff cause you didn't think about it or aren't prone to be a bit stupid. And I don't mean full on drunk. I mean giddy buzz.
Wait a year, once your 27 and graduated, you will have many women checking out your six figure income. Yep, you will have to turn away all the single mothers, the leeches both mentally and monetarily. Also you will have more time to date once you are done with school. Looks wise, if you are not at least a 5 of 10. Healthy looking, good complexion, clean, nicely dresses, etc, you can't even get a 1 of 10 woman, just look at the value women place on looks. Now if you are a 5 of 10 and you have a six figure income, getting a girl with 6 or 7 on looks is likely, and those women might chase you! Why? Cause they want a family and someone to care for them as they age and get fat and become a 3 of 10. But as you age and take care of yourself, be dignified, and earn more, you will be able to attract 8's, but if your looks go to 6 or 7, thru healthy living, you could get a 9, but those woman will require special effort on your part to resist the sirens song and get burned!
Don't worry mate, things shift when you get older. Early in life computer science sounds boring and nerdy. It takes some time for people to figure out that it's a very important, competitive field where you can make lots of money because you can actually do something important.
When you are 30, traveling from one important conference to another while making 6-figure incomes even women will understand that. Besides that at that age it's fun to watch female desperation manifest itself. Once you turn 30 you can feel the desperation in their heartbeats. I can tell from experience because I've also majored in computer science.
There's a funny video online where some MGTOW guy explains his view on the wall (for men and women). Basically it comes down to women having an advantage on men from birth that's shifting at about age 30. While women are naturally born attractive, men have to become attractive by being successful. The good thing is: Success doesn't depreciate. So you get more attractive over time while women get less attractive.
Major in "Computer Science" is your answer I'd reckon
just wait. In the next 5-10 years women, especially women from your past, will be coming out of the woodwork for you. Of course, theyll also be bringing along the offspring of the burnt out losers they shacked up with in their 20s. As Leykis said, "hit it and quit it." Also, never trust a single mother to either provide or dispose of the contraception.
It's the flaw of the the Disney generation. Every girl wants a rich prince to take care of them so they can focus spending their own money on useless shit.
Mulan was the most Badass character on Disney
Mulan wasn't a princess though, haha she was a peasant turned army veteran.
Is having the same degree as somebody considered important in dating now? People will find the most arbitrary things.
a men usually don't care, women do, it's human evolution
Sounds like a reason to go and get that gender studies degree then, I think ?
Sandwich McNugget seriously, what's wrong with waiting to go till you know what you want to do or have the money? seems smarter.
maillaarni, what can women give men? It's not vagina is it because it takes two to tango.
Women don't have parcels of sex locked away in their armoires. It does not belong to them. They need men for sex as much as men need women for sex. To be clear I'm not talking about how horny they are. What do women have on their own that men want? Nothing as far as I can see.
I asked a female friend why she thought I wasn't getting any matches on Tinder, she looked thru my photos and said that I didn't look rich enough.....so ye...
ragglefraggle
I make a decent enough income to live comfortably but I tend to drive beaters because I love working on vehicles and I live way bellow my means because working on vehicles is an expensive ass hobby.
I have no interest in waisting my money on trying to attract some gold digging whore who wants a free ride
Artemis Ameretsu - ye good point although I suppose she was just being honest....
Artemis Ameretsu - ye it's weird, I am financially stable, I have my own place, a decent car (not fancy), I have good habits etc but if you don't look like Brad Pitt or some celeb then you're still not good enough (I'm not considered ugly I don't think). 2 Years on Tinder and maybe 5 matches, zero dates or hookups.....*sigh*
ragglefraggle - quite correct
Ye, I've been on Badoo and OkCupid for a few years but it seems the same people are on the same sites. I'm also older and haven't dated in years so no idea what the hell is going on or what women want/expect these days. At this point I've given up, I only stay on the sites out of a morbid curiosity. I accept that there might not be anybody suitable out there but ja, a one night stand might be nice now and then :p
Oh no, my single friends can't find a boyfriend among the 1% best looking most successful men out there? What is going on?
And who would want to marry a feminist? That's just asking for a life of lies, false accusations, and misery.
If these women are using education to attract a partner, then they have their priorities mixed up and would not be a good choice in the first place. So many nuances go into attraction that someones level of education is basically irrelevant and mainly a reflection of their own vanity.
What ever happened to trust, respect and loyalty? These thing aren't determined by the persons IQ.
It's not that they are using IQ to ATTRACT a partner, it's that they judge a guy on HIS education (earning power really), and wont "date down".
Sooty Grunter neither is how many degrees you have
killcat1971 - The scary thing is that they actually ARE using IQ/degrees to attract a partner, because of how self-absorbed they are. They assume that since this is how they judge men, men must be judging them by the same criteria. There is absolutely no understanding of the preferences or nature of men, or that men and women are different in any way. It's like when Homer buys Marge a bowling ball for her birthday becuase HE likes bowling.
Han Lockhart
You missed out the ability to be a good conversationalist.
Doesn't matter how good in bed she was the night before or how well she cooks breakfast, you still have to talk to her in the morning.
Highway83. I assume they use their education as a filter a in "I'm this educated, if you can't match me I'm not interested" but your right, modern feminism has convinced women that they not only are they entitled to "Mr Perfect" but that men want a woman to be a "Modern feminist woman", like we care as much about her education as how hot she is.
Its nice to be able to wear makeup to hide your flaws in denial without criticism isn't it? We men have to rely on genetics, not masks.
Chin-chin with men you get what you see
Chin-chin it's funny when I hear women say u can wear makeup too. I'm a woman and I would not be attracted to a man if he were wearing the same amount of makeup other women do to hide their flaws, In denial
why would a man do that ? he is comfortable with who he is and what his goals are - if you don't like his looks move on please
There's a makeup spectrum ranging from It the clown to professionally done makeup. Many are closer to the It side than they believe themselves to be.
Chin-chin all hail papa franku
_''too clever to find a partner''_
classic.
Narcissism + hypergamy = crazy cat lady
Meow...
Yeah, leave our little fluffy overlords out of this!
8 Bit Thoughts - now now, I'm a 260 pound man who loves cats and has two - it isn't the cats fault, they're hostages
And in the paper today, 29 year old women with the world's longest cat, yes Australia is really going there.
Ramon S, what was it's name again? All I remember was that the cat's on a diet.
If I could find a presentable woman who was well educated in a useful field like plumbing or roofing, block laying or deep sea fishing, I'd give marriage a go. You know, someone who could penetrate the glass floor.
lol penetrate
Glass floor...nice.
Eh most of that is south central. If you go to far West, you start getting more girls complaining about being oppressed while talking about starbucks in the same paragraph.
Jaricko It's those kinds of entitled cunts that make we wish I was a guy.
why would you want to be a guy in this day and age?
It's more difficult to find a confident, assertive man, because we drum those attributes out of our young boys. Then women grow up and work hard, and when they come home, they want all those attributes we've deemed dangerous, or a perpetuation of rape culture.
Good point. I grew up in Sweden. It took me many years to shed off all feminist nonsense I got taught as a kid throughout school. Some things you learned quickly, as always showing initiative, but other things I wished someone would have told me earlier, for example the positive aspects of male aggression.
The basic answer of marxists / social justice indoctrinates is: We don't need those attributes anyway. Assertiveness shouldn't be needed because we shouldn't be competing with one another in the first place. Nevermind that humanity itself is in competition with every single species on this planet. Nevermind evolution. What the fuck is that anyway? Probably a social construct.
I was also unfortunate enough to not be taught those qualities. I had (and have) to struggle until I was 30 to get somewhat disciplined. And even that probably isn't discipline but the joy of work. I think I'm more disagreeable than most and probably very industrious. Not because I work so much but because I hate slacking.
Even though that is a very good combination of traits it's nothing that's valueable in the social justice universe. In this universe things just create itself and therefore beeing lazy is a good thing (at least as good as everything else according to the doctrine). Those people have contempt for hard working successful people while loving the lazy unsuccessful guys. It's completely ridiculous.
Why don't these amazing women with college degrees just date working class men?
They have steady jobs. They can take care of themselves. Oh, but they don't make enough money, right? I mean, that's the only real difference between a working class man (who is actually working) and a doctor: income.
I don't have a problem with gold diggers, I do however have a problem with hypocrites. Although I think it might be even worse, maybe these women aren't even aware of their own instincts.
Nerobyrne I don't think they are aware.
Nerobyrne I think one aspect of this is never mentioned anywhere -- it's the "girlfriends" factor. Every woman wants a guy she can brag about to her girlfriends. Hooking up with a blue-collar dude doesn't raise her status among her idiot friends. They're actually that soulless and shallow.
Notice how if there's a lower ratio of men at uni the problem focus is female dating prospects (not male education)
And if there a lower ratio of women (like Stem) then the problem focus is not male dating prospects but female education.
Harry S that's because society doesn't care about men.
Harry S that is probably one of the most insightful and intelligent things I have ever heard about this subject
Its actually a huge problem that is being discussed and researched. The system is stacked against boys within the k-12 education system.
Harry S literally my first thought
An educated career woman should consider marrying down. Then she can have babies and go back to work while her husband stays home with the children........seems like a win/win to me.
If she's a nice lady I wouldn't mind, kids are fun most of the time and I'd have time to do stuff I want to do other than work. :p
Yuri- I can assure you as an older man that women are never comfortable with you at home and them being the wage earner. In our cave man/woman brains. They are hunting down game and you are in the cave staying safe behind a big fire.
Two friends were stay at home dads and the women never stopped about the quality of care for the children and making snipes at her working and them not. Both of my friends wives have also had affairs. In one instance it was the beginning of the discussion that she is not satisfied (finally admitted)in the roles they are playing and so he went back to work and she changed jobs and went casual employment to become the primary parent again..
Nearly all the couples that I have seen where the woman earned more than the man had significant troubles which ended up breaking the relationship, unless the man started bringing home the bacon (metaphorically). This includes sincere left-wing people who took a pride in challenging gender stereotypes. On factor is that when a woman decides that she would like children at some point, the difference between his and her pay becomes very noticeable when considering taking a few months or a couple of years off to look after her baby.
Yuri Gregorian The "educated" women with a degree in sociology or worse is not likely to make as much money as her "uneducated" electrician husband.
Not only that, but if it is truly a symbiotic relationship then surely a man with a completely different skillset to theirs makes more sense, say the woman is educated and get a job as a librarian, marrying another librarian brings nothing extra to the relationship, a sewage worker would at least bring manual labour into the relationship.
Also not all people had the opportunity to go into further education, they are assuming someone with no diploma has no intelligence yet I have met many intelligent menial workers in my time. The women who think this way wouldn't even give them the time of day or try to get to know them because of some words on a bit of paper, that's quite sad.
Some say it's because women refuse to "date down", but I beg to differ. I believe a large portion of women have unrealistic views of their own attractiveness as well as what they believe they "deserve", both of these likely contributing to the numbers from Tinder and OkCupid. There's a huge difference between self esteem/self confidence, and delusion.
George Walser Spoken like a true beta. If you see something you like, pursue it.
Will Hoon For Food They don't want to date outside their Disney/feminist fantasy. Looking for a white knight who is also a highly educated rich simp. Yeah...a unicorn driving a Lambo'. Uh huh.
It's not unrealistic when their are ten men lined up to lick the arse hole of an average looking woman. Us men are at fault for women thinking their shit doesn't stink.
That is why I like bringing to light a woman’s true value on a dating site.
You all try to put smart comment on most basic thing in the world. Girl was pampered whole her life, there was aline of guys waiting to fuck her, so she thinks she must be amazing... That is it. And it is our, men, fault. If we ever get our dicks under control- those bitches would have NOTHING on us. When she tells crap, call her out on it.
I was least popular guy in my class in highschool. Why? I am more or less average looking, yet i refused to back down fro mthose "femminists" who haven`t seen shit, didn`t read a book, yet they knew everything, because "INTERNET". My favourite argument to that was " i read on the internet you take it up the ass all the way to the elbow. It must be true- someone have said so". That forced them to think, after they got over the fact i could care less about their feelings
And worst part is that quite a lot of them are not treated like that in her 20s oly reinforcing "i must be awesome" way of thinking, because guys are fucking idiots. I mean, i don`t care- don`t want to date me? Fine. Life goes on. But they have audacity to complain?! Women, you wanted everything we had. Now you have it, and suddenly you discovered guys aren`t into you, that they will go after somebody more "traditional" whatever the fuck it means, and that is a TRAGEDY. Fact that there are men, who will fucking die alone, after brothel visits whole life, because that is only way of getting some for them is A-OK, but fact that WOMEN are dying alone... That is something to cause an ALARM... Well, should have thought about it, before you started to climb up, only to realize that this way there is noone above you, so only possible partners are "down"
I really don`t understand, why they are surprised. I was told my whole life, that i am inferior creature, driven by my dick, that barely crawled out of the ocean, and they are complete, ideals, gift wrapped by the God. But then they look at me and go: why aren`t you better?!
Fuck you, that is why. I am exactly where you put me, and i have no desire to go where you are :)
My favourite thing- since i am nearing my 30th year of age- is how EVERY woman i know, and quite a bit of men asks me, why am i still single. To which is respond "i preffer to be free, than domesticated. I can fucking kill myself if i want too, and i will not destroy someones life". "But if you find someone to love, you`ll be healthier and happier...". "Who says so? You, the woman/man already in jail that is pissed i can go wherever i want?". Drives them insane
And it is fine- if i find somebody to love, then i`ll be happy to forget about my freedom. But i haven`t yet. I found egoistic cunts, who always keep me as a second or third choice, because "maybe there will be something better around the corner?". I ain`t piece of furniture
For both sexes - If you want to widen your dating pool, take care of yourself, be social and socially aware, have goals and standards, and become a better person. Sitting and complaining is just as cancerous as an SJW protest - all these facts and figures just get used to spread division and justify blame. Both sides are telling the other what they're looking for - there's your dang recipe, so get cookin'! Still can't find anyone? Try something new, be flexible, and adjust your current strategy. ------ Working on yourself is attractive to everyone. Perceived victimization is not going to help you.
Self-awareness is essential. Sober reflection.
Women are on the top floor trying to break the glass ceiling. Men are on the floor below trying to break the concrete ceiling
im the 69th like on this comment
uhuhuhuhuh thats the sex number
Women are in a comfy office with AC trying to break the ceiling, while the men are out working and actually getting shit done.
Why the fuck are a Geometry Dash player here? Woah
Drop your mic & walk off stage.... smuggly! 🤣
I'm totally spreading that!!!
The most judgemental people are women not men, we already knew this despite the typical narrative that women have unrealistic standards of beauty, which is actually true because who makes the clothing and photoshops the magazines that women read? WOMEN!
Correction, women, and gays make them!
Another correction: women make men gay
Testify.
lol even gay men aren't as superficial as much
Cronos Trigger that's so true. Gay man are judgmental at all they are very flexible.
More women go to university, yes, but they also make up the vast majority of liberal arts majors with no (or low) career prospects.
Apparently, all they are getting out of it is a sense of entitlement.
They were going for the MRS degree.
I am a single rich white male seeking women graduates for cooking and cleaning duties.
Dont forget child birthing
@Junkyard Dog Christain university?
Dave Freeman best remark I have heard today. Continue to be choosy.
She must have a degree in sandwichology.
I’ll call you daddy as a bonus if you pay for my student debt
Been dating my man for a little over a year now, he's an alt right Nazi according to feminists since he's on the right side of the political spectrum. He's also a gamer which means he "doesn't respect women" and a white man which means he's "racist". He's everything I've been taught to avoid because I would be better off a "strong, independent woman". I say fuck that, I've never been happier ;) He's everything I could ever want and more. He's kind, protective, patient, strong willed, and honest. I could gush about him all day but the point is if I had listened to that rhetoric I wouldn't have him in my life. I know it's anecdotal, but I wanted to share a more positive love story that spit in the face of feminists against all odds.
MissEdge102 lets hope you don't think of divorcing him
Chances are that doing the exact opposite of what leftist activists proclaim is a good strategy. I went to university for 7 years doing nothing (or not much), somewhat following their slackers attitude. Now that I'm working 40-60 hours a week I feel alot better. And the time I don't spend working I spend in the gym or hiking. Guess what, I've never felt better in my life.
In university I spent my free time doing nothing or getting drunk. That was fun, but now I see that it was holding me back. When I spend time drinking with my friends I am literally getting weaker. I can feel it physically and mentally. It takes me a few days to regain my motivation and my verbal skills.
But hey, according to leftist activists that's great. Why would you want to be productive anyway? When you can spent your time sitting on your couch and meeting your slacker friends in the bar for 10+ beers.
After the countless number of contact drop offs I have had because I'm a gamer, your comment gives me a small sliver of hope.
Hans Wurscht same for me lol, my life came to a virtual standstill during my time at college, now that I’m working I’m finally moving forward and actually getting more skilled in my field. Also that about drinking and friends is very true although they could say the same about me of course.
They are miserable and want to make you miserable too. Happy to hear you broke free of their mentality.
If you're a guy who's a 6, good luck getting a girl who's a 6. You usually find 2 guys who are 8s biting and scratching for a date with one 6.
Currently, men don't have a very good selection of women and the decent women don't quite have a good selection of men either. gee thanks feminism....
This is how the human species becomes extinct, we are too good to continue our existence.
Sydnee Mikumuren lol you nailed it.
@Alex @acrobatsutr it will probably be more like this ruclips.net/video/YwZ0ZUy7P3E/видео.html
Reality check: it's all women, not just feminists. It just seems like it's all feminists because they're the most vocal. The women who watch daytime TV, where much of the misandry is learned, are overwhelmingly NOT feminists. Male-bashing is rampant, even among conservative "christian" women.
@acrobatsutr Yeah, like "supply side economics" and "free markets"
I wouldn't classify someone with a college degree as "educated" simply for that. Hell, I'm a plumber and I'm far more intelligent and educated than the vast majority of my college 'educated' friends and acquaintances.
I have to agree with you on that. I'm 20 and going to college, and I can tell you that there are so many stupid idiots, it's embarrassing.
Lol! Thank you :)
I guess water is kind of important, even if you do work with million dollar IT equipment. And with the levels of combined physical effort, manual dexterity, and on-the-fly problem solving, I'm pretty confident that no robot or computer will be taking my job any time soon!
Hopefully when you get older and retire and some plumber that is crap at his job comes to your house and you show that scrub how it is done
Hey I'm cool with women getting all the degrees. I have nothing against them doing all the work. I'll stay home with the kids and make sandwiches, gladly. When the old lady isn't as hot as she used to be, I'll ditch her and still reap the benefits of her work. I'll enjoy spending time with my beloved kids while the ex brings me my income. I love feminism, why is there such hate towards it?
Wait, have you been reading my diary?
Ik I’m 6 years late but wow amazing comment. I’m proud of this as if I made it 😂
Who will pay off the student loans from her useless degrees if there isn't enough men? SOMEBODY FIX THIS
Someone somewhere once explained this perfectly. I can't remember exactly how they explained it, but it essentially comes down to the fact that the more successful a woman is, the smaller their dating pool becomes. Women tend to only date laterally or up, which means it becomes more and more difficult for a woman to find an acceptable partner, whereas men are more comfortable dating laterally, or down, which increases their chances of finding someone within their acceptable range. If a woman is a multi millionaire with several PHD's, she's essentially cut off 99% of men from her dating pool because she's more likely to only date up or across, whereas men are comfortable dating down no matter how successful they are. A woman could be a jobless bum, but as long as she's attractive the man will still probably be into her. Women want the guy with a great job, and serious life goals, houses, vehicles, education, the works.
Dating is too expensive, Hooker's cost less and are paid to leave, thank God.
Quinten Berry
Cheaper by the hour!!! - winning!!
illegal
@@terrythompson7535 At least a hooker is honest about being a hooker. That's way more than you can say about the so called free women...
If, as a man, you gave been on a date with a woman (and you paid for whatever y'all did) then got laid later on. You paid for that sex. It was just in a more round-about way.
Lol
"I'm pretty, and smart, and perfect, marry me and let me ruin your life"
You’ve just said my line for me, now how about we stop this flirting and take it straight to marriage
Here is another theory for the author to consider. Perhaps men are finding the mindset of a women that has gone through the 'benefit' of social 'sciences' education to be extremely disturbing. Seems to me that women that graduate from STEM fields don't have 'can't get a man-itis'. Just a thought for him to ponder for his next book.
Robert Hill, interesting point. I'm conservative, always have been, and have tertiary education in a STEM field. No time for any Marxist/lefty SJW and modern feminist lunacy. Happy to be in a traditional supporting role to a man. We need to consider intellectual/social/emotional intelligence apart from university education. The latter is not a proxy for the former (...even in STEM these days).
They fell under the logical fallacy of taking someone's authority telling them the lies as proof of credibility. Unless an old ass college professor that's got picture proof of protesting against civil rights injustices tells them they're wrong they'd sooner label the person a bigot than accept being incorrect.
honestly I've spoken to college kids and I've never been to college but I can't talk to them about quantum mechanics, astronomy, evolution, even things like politics lack of intellect in college nowadays is shocking and I'm only 23, my brother's in college studying to be an advanced marine engineer, we quite often talk about things like hydrodynamics and other mathematical theories, if you're going to college to study something in stem, otherwise you should just do what I did and learn all my information from the Internet.
You're lucky if you've never been to college. Take it from someone who has.
So you talk to someone studying a specific field about hydrodynamics and they don't care or know anything about it and you assume they're an idiot.
Negative Energy This is too damn true. Can't find many people interested in talking about subjects with substance.
Agree entirely, I'm doing online classes mostly and I'm not looking forward to on campus classes later on when I need more specific courses. Even the online discussions show some really fucked up attitudes women in the class have especially in the philosophy course I did. Downright narcissism and apathy from them and they're totally unaware of it.
I'm going into psych and I did have to take a turned SJW class, turns out it's really hard to memorize misinformation like women are treated like 'minorities' or the 'number of the week' the instructor claimed the gender wage gap was. I've been an autodidact since middle school, I understand politics, marketing, journalism, and philosophy better than pretty much anyone who spent the same amount of time learning it in a college course really. You find out really quickly certain courses have a lot of 'filler' they shove at you early on to extend the number of courses you need to actually understand the material.
Like journalism, it's really not that fucking complicated you could do a crash course on it pretty effectively. Of course medicine and sciences do require you know every nuanced little detail, but I don't need a long winded history lesson for two weeks of a course to teach one basic point of journalism ethics I already know lol.
It seems a lot of people go to college because their parents saved up the money for them or they're told they 'need' to if they want any decent job rather than having any desire at all to learn. I have a strong desire to learn so much so I've found many college courses wanting compared to if I just looked shit up at my own pace on my own time.
All those educated women end up in dating sites... and you'd be amazed how many of them state, at 40+, that they "might want children someday"
there will always be some idiot who will take used merchandise
Right, so women want smart men, now I have absolutely NO chance
i have lost money and made it back. what did i learn? women want money not brains! You cant be that smart anyway otherwise they cant run your show. One cant get smarter but one can make money. So there is hope!
Now if you cant get rich consider doing as a former business partner did. He hocked himself to the eyeballs in debt and so secured fast cars, property and clothing. Then Banged the hottest birds until the debt caught up with him. claimed bankruptcy. went overseas back packing and returned when his time was up (5 years) and started all over again. Before he went down he enjoyed 8 years of the high life.
He is at it again on the base of an inheritance. I asked him if he learned anything. He replied that he will spend less this time on hot women so he lasts longer than 8 years. That's what he learned!
Has his life been more enjoyable than mine? yes, by about 2000% but i have my standards and he doesn't.
Oh shit what have i done????
don't worry, with the kind of "smart" that women are... you can fool them into thinking you're as smart or smarter then they are regardless. ;)
dragenfire68 - I might adopt that idea in later life, but I'm 17 and I haven't even kissed a woman, that makes me feel pretty lonely, especially when my friends are talking about how they're in relationships and going to be getting laid ect.
Andrés De la Oliva Guzmán - Oh I can handle it, I have been for ages, it's just the feeling of loneliness I can't shake of, I'm trying to work on my body because I want my future to be in the Army but I'm pretty lazy so I don't exercise then my mind drifts and I feel lonely, it's a circle I go through every day but I handle it
Then here are some tips for you my contemporary friend! First step, find a lady that attracts you. Most likely it will be partially her personality and partially her looks. It will be easier if she is easily socially accesible (for example she's in the same school as you or has friends that are people you know)
Secondly, take care of your appearence. By female standards, you can't do anything about your genetics, but believe me when I say that taking care of yourself such as grooming your beard (if you have one), dressing nicely but not too nicely (a t-shirt and a pair of jeans is plain, not nice. Throw a jacket that matches in color to the rest of your attire on top and vuala, you're much better looking, depending on if you chose the right jacket that complements the rest of your attire. You can look up these things in google).
Again, on the dressing department, make sure your clothes are clean and that you bath regularly enough that you don't smell. Don't wear cologne regurarly, the odor is strong and distracting many a times. A simple aromatic spray to guard against sweat smell (I don't know how this particular product is called in english, my apologies) will do just fine.
Thirdly, build up your confidence. Many people have probably told you that, but none have probably explained exactly how. There are many great guides on the interwebs, but a good rule of thumb is just to talk to people. Yes, it's that simple. Just talk to people. Whomever and whenever, especially since you are still in school, start chatting with people other than your friends. Make acquantancies and sure you'll stumble a lot along the way, but in the end you'll be much better at talking and portraying confidence in speaking to strangers.
Fourth, about charisma and confidence, do your best to try things you haven't done in a social context. Going out to karaoke but are too shy to sing? Believe me, your friends are just as awful at singing as you are, but at least you'll have the balls to put your voice out there and be laughed at and laugh with them at how awful you all are at it :D
So, to sum up, find a gal and learn about her, try to get closer to her one way or another. Respect her boundaries but make sure that she respects yours too. If you treat her like a human being then you have to expect her to do the same, otherwise she really isn't worth it.
Take care of yourself and your wardrobe. Being perfect isn't necessary, but be presentable, even in every day school. Always try to look fine and dandy when around her.
Learn how to be confident. Being cheery and open is another good point, people tend to like that and be more open to you when you show a smile and interest in them.
Lastly I would add that you educate yourself as much as you can, but I do know that most school curriculums are parrot material, so I would recommend looking outside the school enviroment for knowledge, although much of it does require a good basis in order to be understood.
In conclusion, first learn how to love yourself and be proud in yourself. Think it over, mull it over and discuss it if you will. The rest will come as a consequence of the above. Good luck mate!
Top comment on here talks about dominance hierarchy. "It's because females refuse to date DOWN." In my 44 years of anecdotal experience, this is only part of the picture.
If you add to this the fact that women have been told all of their lives that they're beautiful and they can do no wrong, then you're starting to get a picture of where we're at. I call it the Princess syndrome.
The last 3 long term relationships I had, the longest being 6 years, I ended the relationship because of this Princess syndrome. Not even counseling would help these women get off their soapboxes and accept my wants and desires as 50% of the relationship. Who in their right mind would want to put themselves in a relationship where what their partner wants and desires is supposed to be seen as 100% of the picture and yours are irrelevant?
Funny enough, the current relationship I'm in, we were just recently talking about our past relationships and why they ended. I told her what I just told you in the previous paragraph. Irony abounds. She and I have been seeing a counselor for the SAME DAMN THING! She just looked down at the ground, and said she was sorry.
Yeah, female Princess syndrome. It's a real problem, and men are extremely aware of it now, so we're avoiding women who are like this, most especially those who are now higher educated and who carry an ego the size of a planet. I'm not a f servant, and I'm going to avoid with every fiber of my being women, and there are so many that do this, who stand on their soapbox and espouse indicator after narcissistic indicator that their perspective is the only valid perspective.
This is an excellent perspective. However, it is not only college-educated women who experience "Princess Syndrome," but less-educated women as well, at least in the United States.
Many women have overly high expectations and a sense of entitlement regarding their male partners, but bring little to the table themselves. Your statement about men being perceived by women as servants is spot-on.
Many women in the U.S. would probably be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder if psychologists were being honest.
I experienced this problem as well. I believe the problem lies in the destruction of the marriage system. When marriage was still around, girls got way less attention because it was only from men who were seriously thinking of marrying them. Now girls get attention in boat loads just from putting up a selfie on the internet, and it's giving them a perception of increased demand. If there is an increase in demand, then there isn't enough pressure on them to restrain themselves from bad behavior in relationships, because they think thousands of guys want them.
Marriage has nothing to do with it. Women are instinctively wired to be narcissistic because of their nesting instinct: their urge to create a nest for themselves and have it protected at all costs. The men they recruit for this process are just assets, whether it's to provide them with a family, a lifestyle, or simply nightly orgasms.
MEN, always remember...WE ARE THE PRIZE !
Me - 33 years old, PhD, over 100K/year, into fitness
Women - Hey! How are you....
Me: 5'8"
Women - oh, ew.
Men pursue success to attract dumb, young supermodels while women pursue success to attract smart, same age successful men but unfortunately successful men are more interested in younger, prettier girls.
I read an article where they were rambling about how they've dumped so much money and effort into getting chicks into middle and upper management and it hasn't changed ... at all. They're scratching their heads why this is. They seriously don't get it.
This is just a clear problem with logic from women. For some reason they think that men like women for the same reason women like men: socioeconomic status. By increasing their education levels and income, they become indoctrinated in this idea that they have increased their status, which is true, but does not translate into dating them.
Smart men want women who are (in order):
1. Loyal
2. Beautiful (to their taste)
3. Kind
4. Generous (with their time and affection)
5. Humble
6. Nubile (young enough to start a live/family with if you want children)
I have noticed this even when it comes to presents: Women in our family give men clothes and shampoos for christmas, while men give the women cameras and phones and computers - Every christmas I have to laugh at the egocentrism of our family members :D
@@okshadowbannedjet7981 Men tend to buy gifts that either fulfill a need or want of the person receiving it. Women tend to buy gifts they themselves would like or in the very least "wouldn't mind". Unless you specify what you want directly, you're not getting what you need or want. The best gift I ever received from a woman was tickets to Six Flags for a day. She loved amusement parks and I had never been to a Six Flags so it worked out. But I doubt my gift would have been different had I been to Six Flags a bunch of times beforehand. I think this just boils down to men and women valuing different things in life. So when I get socks, flip flops, and shampoo for Christmas from a girlfriend, I tend not to sweat it. I tell them not to get me anything just to avoid all this but they always think it's a trick.
Been in engineering classes for a couple years and having a girl in class is like finding a unicorn..... Until that unicorn turns out to be a male student with long hair then you just get angry light a cigar and put it out in his eye for getting your hopes up.
Most men just cant understand the mindset of making private problems public problems. What an absurd idea that the government would make you happy. It never will! Governments are people, too, and people are assholes, especially those with the do-gooder halo and the sanctimonious smile. On the contrary you condemn yourself to eternal self-pity, envy, hatred, and misery.
There is only one way to achieve happiness: through suffering, learning, adapting, growing, working, and fighting. This requires modesty and patience, courage and the readiness to take hardships upon yourself. And nothing is more attractive than a person who radiates these virtues.
This is such a great channel, and a fellow aussie too. I am so glad I am at my age now, doing well for myself, very very happy too. I have an old friend who asks me sometimes if I miss waking up next to a woman. I say "no". He says "not even a little bit?" I say "no". He said "does it not even cross your mind at all?" I replied, "well, yes, but not in the way you think. I often wake up and think - I am so glad I am waking up alone". And I say that with total honesty.
When I was younger, I was co-dependant, had a long term relationship that was abusive, then I got over that and am at a place that when I really think about why I would want a relationship with a woman, for me personally there is no reason. Sex really isn't a factor for me anymore, I just don't care. I have all the money I need, I don't need constant companionship and if I do, I prefer hangin out with men anyway as my friends are more logical, interesting and relaxed to be with. I have no desire for children either. So why would i bother? Women had the chance years ago but were bitches and didn't see what i had to offer, and now I am passed caring. I used to think it was sad, but if this is how it is with womens attitudes, there is nothing sad about it, as there is no loss to the current state of affairs.
This makes me want to do pushups for no reason
Easy there, soldier.
don't listen to tech, do them
give me 25
I could have wrote this book 30 years ago before the sociologists came up with terms like hypergamy, rand k selection, etc. Back then we called snooty women snooty and left them to their own devices. Now younger women are skipping their own age group of less educated and therefore less wealthy males and seeking older males who are economically established who were rejected by their own age group as 'unattractive' for various reasons mostly based on female hypergamy. Back then it was called finding a sugar daddy who they can marry and then divorce to take half their husband's net worth to move on to the next older sugar daddy.
Alright single ladies. Masters degree here and runs 4 companies. The catch is, I laugh at the irrationality of feminism on the reg and I don't put up with BS. Anyone left? Prob not...
Do you wanna try to date a man? ;P
I will settle for you. You can be my best last resort after I am done wasting my prime with beautiful fools and will reward you with my golden bagina if you are a good boy
So what.
*How do you run 4 companies?*
@@haza123b4 I knew a man who ran 73 companies. However, sadly, he went to prison.
I suspect I'll end up a cat man. My standards are probably higher than my "market value", but I don't really mind too much. Relationships really do eat into free time a lot.
Dude, lizards...get lizards, don't be generic. Start with a bearded dragon, then get a small monitor.
Hell yeah, cats are awesome. They give nearly unconditional love, and they don't get half your wealth if they start acting crazy two years in and you want to leave!
Hahaha
Points I got from this video:
1. Women need to realise they are being fed BS by the women's movement as to the reasons why they are 35 and single;
2. Men who study hard at school and go to university are more likely to get laid.
🤔
3. women are instinctively looking for men who are either higher placed on the social ladder or so damn attractive, that even straight men turn around
4. Men care less about attractiveness in a potential partner than women do
Also:
Men don't want women who are above their social ladder (but less so than women)
You could always go back no? Many companies over there are looking for westerners, even if only to make them (and by extension their company) look important (this is really big in China apparently). I guess you'd eventually have to learn the language though.
2. Is false, men who study hard tend to have more money, so later in life they are more attractive. But in the meantime, they are actually less likely to get laid, mostly woman doesn't want to help a guy develop himself, they try to hit on him when he's already set up. So when younger they tend to choose good looking, more social oriented guys, and when older search for guys who studied hard and now earn more. But in that time, actually what's the point for you? In your 30 you have lower libido, and care less about this things, also studying doesn't guarantee a sucess, so you have to find balance betwen learning and going out.
Oh my god the self entitlement in the article is mind boggling. Since when does a piece of paper mean someone's intelligent? Now sure you have to have a certain mindset to get through university but graduating doesn't mean you're intelligent. This is the overblown value of a degree, and I'm saying that as someone who's graduated university. Seriously the snobbiness at universities is astounding. I guess that's why they rage when a guy who drops out of high school becomes an entrepreneur and then a millionaire. "How come I don't get millions for being a social commentator?" - too many university graduates. Honestly I'm torn on the changes to the hex debt, I don't think the gov't should change the deal after it's been struck, but on the other hand it would keep people out of these meaningless sociology degrees, honestly an arts degree is worth more than sociology, it's not even a science, it's a joke. If less funding means less sociologists fucking go for it I say.
Dr Perry Cox during the first year in college i found it extremely hard to talk to some classmates or even new friends i made in my residence. i was baffled by my own assumption that i suppose all college are the same with similiar topics and intelligence. But it didnt turn out this way and i found it hard to maintain relationship with a whole bunch of people, while i found it super easy to hang out with another bunch. But then it really hit me when i went on the exchange program in europe, because thats when i met a bunch students who shared almost identifical shit we had (love traveling/outdoor shit/learning about new cultures/making or organizing trips/joking about stereotypes/are open just about trying anything) thats when i learned that college students are so as much as a representation of society, where you have a great variety of people you dont necessarily associate with, and thats totally fine! you dont have to tag along coz everyone's interest is fucking different! we all graduating from the same fucking college but it doesnt mean we are the same fucking bunch. Call me retarded for figuring out this concept very late, but hey, at least i figured it out!
Yawn. Will the last human being please remember to switch off the lights.
when i was in college (2004-2010) there were plenty of single guys. the girls all seemed to go for the same few TYPES of guys, who were getting outrageous amounts of attention. the disparity to me was clear, and i figured it was because what women had to find men so absolutely attractive in order to even display interest. but for the most part, if a woman found something unattractive in a guy, even small, then that was it. he's out. they know it's a buyers market for them and they use it.
Yeah I've seen this a lot. My experience is there's lots of young aged guys out there who are perpetually single. They aren't bad guys either, they just don't fit the typical boyfriend (or f'buddy) 'mould' and have no game or experience to fill that role. Meanwhile a subset of guys who do fit the 'mould' suck up all the attention from practically all girls.
This gap doesn't appear to exist so much on the other side of the gender divide. It's rare to see girls that can't pick up a guy and most complaints are second order "I can't find a *desirable* partner". Well, guys have that concern too, but sometimes they can't even meet someone in the first place.
I was in the first group for a while, and saw basically no action till about the age of 23 (for the record I had a good STEM degree by 21 and a good job after). After a ton of work and failed dates I'm more towards the other side now. Looks help as much as you can change them, and practice helps.
26 yo engineering degree holder(masters degree) and bloody hell I must be either blind or deaf or both because i never saw or heard the horde of educated women chasing me down the street! And dating apps are like the most depressing shit ever. I saw my friend using tinder and I was honestly astonished that she was swiping left to most guys who looked quite good(no homo). When I asked her, she gave reasons like " oh this guy's third picture isn't good so not going to work for me" and most of the times it's just swiping left for them. And then they cry why can't I find a guy?? Like lower your expectations buddy! Not everyone is going to get a guy with the looks of a hollywood star having a PhD and 50 patents to his name. But yeah, keep living in a fool's paradise.
That is exactly where the problem is. All women drool after the hot guy who has hundred of options who fucks them and then dumps them for some new fresh meat while she jumps on the next good looking guy. Then at one point they hit 28+ and start complaining that there aren't any good men because the best looking men rejected them for a long term relationship. It never hits them that there simply aren't enough attractive men to go around and when you tell it to them they respond with 'But I can't force myself to love this average looking dude... look at him! Don't you know I fucked a professional model/football player etc. once? That means that i deserve that top tier guy not this average looser!' bitch... you are a fucking 5/10 at best! A 5!!! Yeah he could fuck you for one night but he will NEVER marry your or be in a long term relationship with you because he is a 9/10 and he drowns in pussy! Why would he want you when he can fuck a different woman every 2 days or so? You are not special for meeting him on tinder this is where he met all the other women a lot of which were better looking than you!
@@frikabg yup, it is astounding how people don't see the massive difference in expectations vs reality. Dating apps make this divide even worse. An okay to decent looking guy would hardly get any matches. Whereas the guys who are really good looking get all of the attention (kinda like women) and then women are like why don't I find a good guy who's loyal. If you won't lower your superficial standards, that's what is going to happen. Deal with it like the rest of us do.
I appreciate the no homo
I'm in university currently and I can already see this happening
"not enough men TO GO AROUND".
now THAT'S objectification if i've ever seen it.
on the matter of highly educated females, i'm actually very insecure when it comes to women being much smarter then me. makes me feel inadequate and not good enough for them.
I like how they assume that going to college automatically means you're more "educated" than those lowly peons who don't. I graduated with a degree from a University (not going to name it just to be nice), and I can honestly say it was one of the "dumbest" experiences in my life. It was a huge mistake.
The lower standards, and the emphasis on "diversity of skin color and gender" instead of emphasizing pure intelligence/hard work, regardless of gender or skin color, has made the university system much worse.
And now women are assuming men with a supposed "lower level of education" are beneath them lol. Get over yourselves ladies. College isn't a magic wand that makes you better than other people.
Women don't care about the journey, they only care about the destination. If a boy/guy is in the process of becoming a man the chick won't even bother. She wants the guy to become a man, then she wants piece of the action. Too many girls around me who didn't even bother flirting with me until I "made it."
Tsar Marklovski they wait at the finish line bro. They don’t want to help you reach the finish line.
@Rick O'Shay they only show idealization,
Well she isn't exactly interested in raising you. And if a guy acts like a boy he isn't a man and women want men because they don't have to raise him and the kids at the same time
@@anastasiawortham8833 no one is asking her to raise him. Ideally you both grow and support each other however that's not how this works women will jump to a guy who's already completed the process and have him support her while she grows but won't support a guy as he grows.
@@anastasiawortham8833 women are born men are made is a phrase for a reason I guess
This classism doesn't affect men? Except that men are more willing to date and marry below their means than women are.
The harsh truth is that, men are less attracted to woman with college degrees. Let me explain.
1. Men are biologically wired to be the protector and provider. They're less attracted to females with skills or degrees because, these women are essentially perceived as competition,(other men) or just less feminine. You have to understand that men are biologically designed to compete with each other, not women. They want to be needed, they NEED to be needed, and the independent educated woman doesn't need them, and therefore she is perceived as less desirable. College educated women are also older than other marriage prospects. Let me define the parameters for male attraction for you.
In order of general emphasis:
-Beauty
-Youth, or Neoteny
-Virtue (loyalty/virginity)
-Personality(subject to change from male to male)
University educated ladies already have two strikes against them, being 4 to 6 years older than those pretty 18 year olds, and the loss of virtue and virginity that accompanies the hedonistic lifestyle of the average collage student nowadays. Not to mention that anybody who wants to marry her, may end up paying off her staggeringly large college loan debts. That's a large factor that deserves not to be ignored.
It's also worth mentioning that, SJW activists and Radical Feminists are both constant presences on College campuses. Therefore, dating a college girl exponentially raises the risk of the man getting involved with an educated women who has been exposed to multiple ideologies that are totally destructive towards traditional marriage and the family unit.
To summarize. The modern educated woman is perceived as more of a liability than a benefit to any potential husband. It's not at all fair. These women have worked hard to improve themselves, but it needs to understood, that a degree does not improve the value of the female in the eyes of the male, quite the opposite in fact. It increases all the risks.
Society has broken down that the problem
Educated women also tend to have much more of an exaggerated sense of value. They've been taught that both genders are the same and thus think that men value the same things in a partner as women do. (success) They also think that their degree means they "deserve" a long list of unrealistic things.
Educated women also tend to have much more of an exaggerated sense of value. They've been taught that both genders are the same and thus think that men value the same things in a partner as women do. (success) They also think that their degree means they "deserve" a long list of unrealistic things.
I agree. Men don't want these college educated feminists.
I hate SJWs but sorry this is entirely bullshit
These women are never having a dynamic careers they are barista's at best
I think the "Crazy cat lady" thing has to be abandoned and re-named. Its all about the dogs now. Because dogs are much better at giving them the attention they crave than cats. Crazy dog ladies! Every single one of these angry, single female types I know are surrounded by dogs. Lots and lots of dogs! The extreme ones dedicate their entire lives to "Dog rescue".
The Angry French Existentialist (AKA The Frenchistentialist) I love animals, but I am beginning to see dogs and cats both as parasites, as they stand in for white children when these dumb feminists decide to forgo their natural purpose. A smart (white or Asian basically) child brings so much more value to the world than a fucking dog or cat, no matter how cute or nice the animal is. It’s not the animal’s fault at all, but their presence can get grating - they are just sucking resources away from the continued existence of the most advanced and capable known species in the universe.
Rick O'Shay that sometimes happens 🤢
@@imperialsecuritybureau6037 ha. "A smart (white or Asian basically)" you realize how ridiculous you sound and how all credibility goes out the window with comments like that, right?
A dog will lick anything, if it has peanut butter on it.
Womansplaining at its best. If universities would eliminate all the silly degrees with which no one can make a living, the ratio of men to women would be reversed.
as an educated man in the sciences i'm very hesitant about looking for an educated women to date, i've encountered many that believe that because they are educated means they are smart, but in reality they are just pompous and ignorant, and worse of all extremely opinionated. and most don't look that great either.
i much rather have a sexy bimbo who just goes with my flow and isn't trying to start shit with me. idk if it's because they feel inferior because they lack a proper education so they act better or they just feel less entitled.
Oh look, another Guardian article....about inequality in dating....because of education. The feminisim cancer has metastasized.
It would be funny, if it wouldn't be reality.
My last gf was not only pretty but considered a genius and worked in a govt. think tank approving/disapproving large projects incorporating enormous amounts of govt. funding. She had 3 Degrees.
I don't have a degree but I retired at 36 (same age as she was) and I invested some money to keep me busy here and there.
From wise investments I was earning more than her and the 2 words "income disparity" never stopped coming out of her mouth, and she thought she was so awesome because of her brain. (But she had this huge issue with income disparity).
Her lifestyle consisted of morning coffee with alcohol before work, weed, gym, eating healthy, work, valium and Xanax. Turns out she was also seeing 4 female therapists.
Then one day she comes over shaking and says she wants to break up. I said ok, why? Her first reason was she thought she wanted this, but she doesn't. Her second reason was, her therapists said she should. (No it wasn't another guy, she's still single now, thank fuck).
I've met others not as bad but all having issues in some way shape or form.
Question:
Wtf is wrong with females today? I'm now 38 still retired, I get taken for either a fitness model/UFC fighter/military because of my build and size and looks, I'm clearly successful, and I don't take drugs or anything for anything, but I do go out and have fun and meet a lot of women when I do.
Women on he other hand have more issues than they even know. It's almost like, they're all lost little girls that can't and will never find their way no matter what logical reasoning you give them, because let's face it, you're all illogical. (Not having a go).
Any females out there care to give any feedback?
It's because Feminism has screwed with their brain.
MrPinbert thanks for your reply and it's my thoughts too. It's like they got what they wished for, but now they hate it because they're not wired for it and don't know how to escape. We men can naturally handle being the dominant species as it's natural but they're in this conundrum of still wanting to be equal, but not. (Aka wanting it when it suits them). When that doesn't happen they can't cope and go bonkers!
What's worse I believe is they don't have the logical brain to recognize this so they keep on going competing against us and nature.
Chameleon X just gonna to that first girl and try to convince her not to see that one therapist. My guess is that she told that therapist something about you that made the therapist consider you a hinderance but you didn't even talk to her about it. She's the one you should be asking questions.
Regardless of what she is, if you like her and want her, just see that as what has to be done.
Overthinking? Maybe you're way more laid back, unlike her
You reap what you sew.
sow
*ram
No, that's a ewe :)
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**Smug grin**
Yeah but she already sowed it, so it's sew if you mean it past tense and sow if she has yet to reap the shit.
There is a guy for EVERY woman out there... just not always the man they WANT. Toughen up buttercup.
Women and education is an oxymoron. Everytime I ask a woman a bit deeper about her field of study she has no clue. The corporations love to hire bachelors for simple work. It never occurs to them that you don't have study to become a secretary with the title something something manager.
I remember on one dating site this one women made the minimum requirements to dat her.
Have a car
Have a good sized house
Get paid at least $13 an hour
Be a christian
Be able to cook
Be at least an 8/10 in appearance
Graduated college
Yet she would complain all the time about how there are no "good" men and so forth... she literally cut out a good portion of men then wonder where they all are lol.
I think the worst part is most people have a misconception on the term "being educated". I've met people with masters who aren't qualified for their work and are wrong way more often than hey should be. I've also met drop outs who are very educated and spend their life learning and studying.
I believe the recommended course of action for these women is cake, cats and lesbianism.
Career women shop for a husband like shopping for a fashion accessory to be worn when an occasion arises. Men recognize this and have no desire to spend most of their time in the closet.
"Get an entire gender studies undergraduate degree and never be taught the difference between feminisim and misandry!"
I'm a stem educated man. Men and women in stem vary from very intelligent to dumb as stump. To assume someone who has completed even a top program is intelligent, is moronic.
Idk about that one chief. Not sure what kind of program you went through but in software engineering over half of people who take the entry course either drop out or fail. That's just the entry course. Only about a 5th of people who actually get into college (the first screening) and attempt to get that degree actually get that degree from that program, and it's not even a top level program. Idk what you consider intelligent, but at the very least we know they've for sure gained a skill if they get that degree.
@@jordanneedscoffee What he means is that you have people in STEM who are feminist and socialist, can you really call such people smart?
@@wanded I've found the word "smart" to be subjective. No one is "smart" in every subject. We have words for this. "book smart". "Street smarts". "Common Sense". Someone can be smart beyond reasoning when it comes to composing music, but dumb as a rock when it comes to calculating the angle a bridge's support pillar needs to be at. You have to be smart at mathematics and logic to be in STEM, but you don't have to be intelligent in economics. Besides, the reality is Socialists and Feminists get priority in hiring at most tech companies.
@@jordanneedscoffee I was explaining to you what he meant since you obviously didn't understand, thinking people can't be stupid because they have X degree is stupid.
I've found the word "smart" to be undeserving of people who believe men are oppressing women in the current western world and that we should cater to the same ideology which murdered over 60 million people, i find the word "stupid" to be more fitting.
According to your logic such people can't be called stupid because they hold a STEM degree, agree to disagree.
Wanded -- it depends on what your definition of "smart' is. There are many people who work in fields that require intelligence but are completely dumb when it comes to politics. As Jordan Peterson says, there is no relationship between IQ and common sense.
I have higher education, but woman scared me out of it, completely demolished my confidence and didn't let develop skills necessary to properly function inside of "dating scene". Now i'm sitting on the internet and doing my own projects.
So yeah... i pass the "education" requirement, but they put me in place of "undatable loser", and wouldn't be surprised if notice'able fraction of other stem fields male students where in simmiliar situation.
Maybe situation descirbed in article isn't he case in Poland (where i'm coming from), but if it were... Most of girlfriends of friend from my year whom i met i would rate below average or average. Above average is rare as hell and 8+/10 is pretty much non existent. Potential explainations are:
- 8+/10 woman are generally super rare.
- Highly educated woman are generally below average looking.
- Good looking higly educated women are not willing to date the ugly nerds from stem fields, where the most of higly educated men are.
Fartuess you're just going after the 8s? You could be happy like your friends even if your girl was "average".. cos you're a 10 I bet.
You’re luckier than you imagine.
Fartuess Women don't like dating ugly guys regardless of their field of study.
Stop chasing super models and try to find geek girls like your friend, what they lack in looks they make up for it with interesting hobbies and funny conversations.
If ugly date ugly. Half the problem is trying to date out of your league. There's a lot of nice chicks but tend to be hairier or heavier than you. Get a lot of practice chicks, it doesn't matter how ugly they are, practice is the key, and it is a numbers game, even the lamest line will work with some girl eventually, If you want a 8-10 woman you must be a 8-10 man yourself. But looks are not everything, fade away rather quickly. Talk to as many women as you can, young and old, find your niche. The average man is not even trying so is not hard to be above average.
I find it funny that the study focuses on educated men and women. Just because you couldn't afford to go to college or chose not to doesn't mean you're not intelligent. Putting in the time and having the financial ability doesn't make you smart.
Education and a career are achievements that add points to a man but not to a woman; as much as feminist try to convince themselves it does. A woman who is a 6.5 in looks and personality will be a 6.5 as long as she graduated high school and has any kind of employment. A 6.5 female with a masters degree and a solid career is still a 6.5 to men. She may believe she is an 8, but sadly men do not feel that way. So we have loads of average women believing they are a great catch holding out for top tier men. Keep dreaming ladies.
As a male PhD student in engineering, I'd like the Guardian to explain to me where all of these single, attractive, non-choosy women because I don't see them
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I'm undateable, so it's all the same to me.
who want a smart lady that can do high level passive aggression on you
The reason those dating apps dont work and why the women judged harsher than men is because women love men for other reasons than their appearance while men will fall in love with a woman's attractiveness before knowing the type of person she is. What I`m saying is that women need to get to know the person before being comfortable enough to sleep with them rather than finding them attractive enough to sleep with right off the bat. These dating apps are more for hooking up and not actually finding love.
In addition to what I said, it`s not typically narcissism depicted by the judgement of these women but more so flat-out discomfort
"aren't enough of him"
what's enough? lol:
10 women to 1 man = "man drought"
1 woman to 1 man = "not enough choice"
1 woman being pounded by 100 men = "now it's ok-ish"????
cat ladies and happy single men
"I like bad boys." "I also want him to have a college degree."
*2010 Jackie Chan Meme*
Having money is literally the biggest determining factor between guys who can and cannot have a woman. More than education, more than looks, more than any positive type of personality.
so is it a good thing or a bad thing? Can you please further explain your point of view.
Meteor Destroys Earth! Still Affects Women More!
This stuff gets so tired and old.
It doesn't mater how "educated" a women is. They still fail at logic and reason. And this, is a problem (for at least the near two decades i put a lot of time and effort into finding such unicorns).
And no, saying "but i know this one chick that's..." doesn't negate my point. A massive majority are like this so your single exception to that rule means diddly squat and the point still stands tall.
this guy gets it ;)
Women don't innately value logic and reason; they learn these values from male role models, usually their fathers. I believe that so many women today are messed up because their fathers either weren't around or didn't bother to teach them anything useful.
Finding a logical, libertarian girl who works out is my dream. Shame the planets need to align while 83 armadillos simultaneously retract into their shells for such a mystical creature to be concieved.
Robert Jackson Good luck. I know some women like this, and they tend to be career-obsessed and stubbornly independent...you'd have an easier time catching a great white shark.
"I believe that so many women today are messed up because their fathers
either weren't around or didn't bother to teach them anything useful."
Stop blaming men for women's problems. I'd like to say a bit of what you say has some truth to it. But i wouldn't' be so hasty as to put the blame on those men when those men were most likely accused of being child molesters for holding their daughters hand in public or weren't there because the wife wouldn't let him be there and the law says he has no say in it more often then not. Hardly the fault of them "not teaching anything useful" don't you think?
I'd go so far as to say that many women won't even let the fathers teach them reality. Because its to harsh and to "nasty" for them to handle themselves. Instead it all falls back on the participation trophy and everyone's a princess mentality. Again, hardly the father's fault when he gets put in jail for being a "big mean nasty man" for wanting to teach them how to actually use logic and reason to determine a actual sincere guy from a dickhead in her later dating years.
And these are just the reasons can pen just in a hasty response.
Imagine the shitstorm if men started being picky in who they date and start deleting eyebrows of their dates.
3 things to make you high on dating
1 have a steady job
2 live on your own not with parents
3 get along with parents
I'll just file this under "Reasons I'm Glad to be Gay".
Can you please turn me? Or is it really a from birth kind of thing.
7:55 men mostly care about looks on first sight, women need to know first if the guy makes good money to find him attractive.
If education is the only factor then my wife married down. When we met, she had her Bachelors and was finishing up her Masters while working multiple part time jobs. I was unemployed with no solid prospects having only an associates from a community college. I still have not gone back to school and have no plans to do so. I currently bring in just under the median family income for our state of Utah. In addition to being a stay at home mom expecting our 4th child, my wife is starting her own business while subbing at a local university as an adjunct professor and starting her own business out of our home.
Though I'm not university educated, my wife agrees I'm intelligent. Though home schooled through high school my wife is wonderful with people and pleasantly naive on some of the social things I learned in public school. My wife and I also agree religiously, politically, and in our family values. We regularly support and encourage each other. We work regularly to understand each other's views when we disagree no matter how small or big the subject. We come first to each other. Even if we disagree, we 100% support the other in front of anyone else, even our children.
There's so much more to relationships to limit yourself based on school education alone.
"Cat, who works in social media..."
There it is.