@@javiahschleibs4590 yes I agree and have seen those videos. I was just curious as to like what kinds of discipline. Like time out, spankings ... That kind of stuff. Not who does the discipline. 😁 Because a lot of momma's and dads don't have the easiest kids. I think it would be interesting to hear it from a momma. Or her thoughts on discipline in general. Because children are a blessing but also can be a handful. I have two godson's and one has a behavioral issue. But he is doing much better.
@@shannonannescriptauthor211 There's one video where she talks about the difference between punishment and discipline, and from that I would assume that there's no corporal punishment involved. I don't know them personally though, but either way I think it's wise to not "promote" physical forms of punishment with such a big following. When people talk about a biblical approach to discipline I believe it's important to remember the intention behind the written word. "Sparing the rod" in our time, knowing what we know about children psychological og kognitive development, should mean guidance and gentle corrections. We need to remember that children model our behaviour. You don't hand a baby a book on walking and speaking, or tell them to "speak or else...". They learn by seeing. If they see someone treat them gently, with respect and understanding, then that's most likely what they will do as well. I know that this is still a controversial topic in North America and honestly I find it heartbreaking that it is. Corporal punishment is forbidden by law in most other industrialised countries. Zero tolerance for violence, in any shape or form (also discipline) is the best way to go for secure and thriving children. Parental Magic by Hedvig Montgomery is a great book on the topic. All love
@@Idadaist interesting. Could you link the video of this topic by her? I would like to review it. 😀 And thank you for the book reference but I don't intend to read that author if they have "magic" in the name. I am a Christian and I don't believe in magic. And if by happenstance, that author is Christian or giving Christian advice on parenting, he is misleading his audience by using Magic as a lure. Christians aren't supported to believe in magic and parenting isn't about magic. There is nothing about "magical" about parenting. There is joy, peace, love, discipline, growth and so much more. Kids aren't magic and shouldn't be parented as such. (None of that was rude in any way. Just speaking the Christian truth 😀)
Ida Krogstad you don't change the meaning of Scripture based on "scientific" "evidence" from so-called "experts". You know who is THE ultimate Expert? THE LORD.
I'd like to add this as well. There is no such thing as a "bad" kid. There are only frustrated kids, scared kids, neglected kids, tired kids. Children don't know how to regulate their emotions, and don't always know the appropriate thing to say or when to say it. Doesn't make you a bad mom, and it doesn't make them bad kids. We're ALL just learning.
Happy Holistic Housewife yes That was the only thing that I didn’t like. I would of used the word challenging and your exactly right children behave for a reason
Just a reminder that it's also a good idea to show physical affection to your older sons as well! Let's show the men of our world that physical affection is a good thing!
1) Get on your kids level 2) Stop saying the word "no" 3) How often do you physically show affection to your kid? 4) Be a present parent 5) Bad kids don't mean a bad mom 6) Be more organized 7) Use statements and reduce questions 8) Your child needs space 9) Encourage them to entertain themselves 10) Guve your kids responsibility
Very guilty of watching too many shows during the day. I need to reduce to 30min a day as well. It really does just take a little bit of time to set up something fun and they are usually good. Thanks for your mom talk!
i'm a kid whose parents did not use the word "no." i wasn't spoiled, and i was daily, frequently, told that i was not allowed to do certain things, always for logical and very good reasons. i'm with you totally, Sarah, and i'm here to say i'm gonna follow your tips and tricks on my future kids. you are very wise. keep loving Jesus! *hugs!* xoxo
Sarah, I just found you and I am so grateful. You are so young yet so wise. Thank you for sharing this. I'm a 40 year old momma of one super sweet 2 year boy and so grateful. Love and hugs!!
I wish there was a 'love' button on RUclips like there is on Facebook because I swear 'liking' your videos is just not enough. You are an amazing mama and so inspirational! ❤
Thank you for making this video! I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I get so overwhelmed with fear of becoming a mom sometimes. I'm sooooo excited and my husband and I tried for a long time to get pregnant. But sometimes its terrifying but this video grounded me a little bit. I just need to do my best and a lot of being a mom will come naturally. These were all great tips!
Me too, I work in a school as a caretaker and a school crossing patrol, and mom pick up their children and the mom are on their phones ignoring the poor children who are trying to tell them about their day.
Aww. @6:50 ♡ sending love to all the mommas out there! The struggle to feel like we are enough is real. YOU ARE ENOUGH! love the "asking questions" part.
A+ Sarah! God is definitely working through you. We too had no t.v. til about 5 years old. A game my kids and I played when I was really tired was "American Idol". I could lay on the bed and they would have to state their name, where they're from and then sing or dance. Kids LOVE performing for their parents:) . I also brought them to the adoration room at our local Catholic church and they'd have to self-entertain for one hour in front of Jesus:)
Completely agree with all of this! We don’t own a TV but I do let my toddler watch a show here and there throughout the week on our family shared iPad. I can definitely work on putting my phone down more often at home : I get so into researching things, just get so sucked in but for sure no phones at the park or when out with the family. Love it, thank you Sarah 💕
GOOD job mama , I love the growth that happens as a Mama. I have 5 years under my belt Haha and have had so many breakthroughs in parenting just in past year . So much i wish i knew ...then
I'm not a mom yet and probably won't be for a couple years, but every now and then I think about what kind of a parent I would like to be and this video definitely made me more confident about some things and taught me others!
Sarah, love your videos. I'm not sure if you have one, but could you make a video on tips for first time mommas? Any books that really helped, blogs, how to find momma friends, etc? Your kids are so beautiful and I would love to have some insight on how you and Kieran raised them, especially cause I know the first can be quite a bit scary! Much love and blessings, so thankful to have found your channel!
The introoo ❤️❤️ I so agree on the phone thing, i hate it when parents are on their phones and ignore their children. And i also hate it when they constantly give phones to a 1 or 2 year old child because its a quick and easy way of distracting them. Would love to see more of these videos, i loveeed this one, such great tips and advice 👌❤️
"How precious is the flow, that made us white as snow. No other foun't I know. Nothing but the blood of Jesus!!" Amen amen. 😍 keep singing those Hymns Ivy!
Judgemental much. You have no idea what that parent at the park, on their phone, has dealt with that day. You have no idea how much attention and love they have given their children that day. I am actually a parent that participates at the park with my child but I sure as hell don’t judge someone that isn’t.
Yes! I take my kids to the park when I am physically and emotionally exhausted. I’m still watching them but I don’t need to be right next to them. Why’s it ok at home for them to play alone but not at the park? 🙄
I have been trying to change the way things are in my house. I’m also a younger (25) mom of three and I’m working to set a no yelling household and it’s really hard not to yell when I see my kids doing something that is dangerous or hurting each other. I really feel like a bad mom all the time.
Chloe Grant I thought it was creepy until i realized that it was a religious song. In ny church since we talk spanish most songs are usually highly happy and up beat. Kinda like asking jesus if he wants to dance (thats a weird way to explain,,,) anyway i just wanted to talk for a bit. this coment mostly has nothing to do with the song lol :) Have a nice day!
I agree with much of these tips but as a mum of two I do feel that some of the ways in which you are communicating in this video comes across as a little bit judgemental. Perhaps there are other ways to deliver some of these tips without judging other ways of doing things so much. I believe motherhood is the most important role I have on the planet and I take it very seriously but it's also the hardest thing I have ever done. It's all too easy to feel mum guilt and as if others are judging you about everything you do as a mother. I would love to see some more content like this that is uplifting and supportive rather than judgemental of other mother's. Thank u for your videos Xx
I believe she tried so hard in this (and all her videos) to NOT BE JUDGEMENTAL of anyone, especially moms (sorry phone addicts - you deserved that) so only your own guilt can make you feel this. No need for anyone to feel looked down on, nothing but good intentions in this and only here to reminds us of what sometimes forget ❤
@@kokosalexa6517 I agree that no one can make someone feel any certain way without their permission and we are all responsible for our own emotions, but where motherhood is concerned, some women are extremely vulnerable especially if they have experienced postnatal depression, anxiety, ocd or other mental health conditions. Perhaps a degree of mindfulness of this and how delicate a subject it is would be helpful. I feel some of these ideas are expressed in a way that may be detrimental for some to hear, as well as the community as a whole. I have no doubt that the intentions are pure and most of the principles are of value however I think perhaps there are ways of delivering these messages without such negative associations or comments. I love to see uplifting and supportive content especially where motherhood and parenting is concerned. 💜
@@Ejcfarley Tip #11 for moms like Emily: Stop being a snowflake. Stop looking for things to be offended by. Show a little gratitude when somebody offers you 10 great tips for free instead of criticizing the mom giving the tips. By personally attacking an individual who was sharing her experience as a mother with the public in order to try to be helpful, you are demonstrating what a hypocrite you are. Shame on you.
Loved this video Sarah.👍🏻 I totally agree with all 10 of these. And for me number 4 Really sticks out to me. Probably because like you, I see parents on their phone with blinders on. Basically ignoring their kids. It’s actually really sad.
Hey Sarah I’m a new mumma and super interested in how you teach your kiddos responsibilities. Keen on doing a video specifically on that topic? 😊 Bless you beautiful
Allowing my boys to be bored is the BEST THING for them. The games they come up with are so creative and wouldn't happen if I was working to entertain them 24/7. Great tips!
My boys are teenagers and they still want physical touch from both mom and dad. They were raised with a ton of affection. Agree with you on being present. It’s so important and I can see the difference in my kids when I’m not fully paying attention. Great video as always. Bless you. ✌🏼
Great video! My only issue with this video is that you talk about "Bad Kids". I was always told by my mom that there is no such thing as a bad kid, juts a kid that makes bad choices.
The part about moms on phones at parks contradicts #8 and #9. Maybe those moms are giving the kids space and encouraging independence. European moms are very hands off at parks for those reasons and think American/Canadian moms are weird for hovering and not encouraging outdoor independence. Just some thoughts to encourage others not to judge other moms so much.
In my culture not holding your baby too much (from birth) is encouraged so the child doesn't grow clingy 😰 I cringe every time someone gives me this advice or see them practicing it.. If it was to me I would never stop cuddling my baby
This is so wrong!! Many studies have shown that babys tha have been given cuddling your baby and carrying it (a lot of physical contact) are more intelligent and also social stabil in their whole life. So cuddling your baby doesn't only feel good but it's actually very crucial to your babys development!! This has to stop! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, trust your momma instincts, your doing great!! ❤❤
A baby also needs space to be itself. How would you like to be held all the time? I did this with my first daughter who was a premie and I was also held her all time, she didn't have enough floor time and so she didn't learn to crawl or walk in a timely manner. Put you children down on the floor with toys and let them explore their world.
DENISE JONE I held my son almost constantly and if I put him down I sat right next to him. He walked at 11. It wasn’t safe for my to leave him on the floor alone. He’s almost 3 and pretty independent now.
Young babies need a lot of physical attention, as they get older they clearly need the space to explore and to develop themselves. Usually a baby indicates what he or she needs: cuddling or going out for an investigation. A one-month-old baby is not yet exploring the world and is still busy getting used to the world outside the womb. An 11-month-old baby is usually busy packing things and walking or trying to walk.
Billie my older son has autism. He’s oblivious to things around him. 2x he ran right over the baby. He would also try to look at him in the pack n play but tip it trying. So I had to keep him with me.
You are wise beyond your years Sarah! As someone with a degree in adolescent cognitive psychology, you couldn’t have given a list of ten better tips for parents. You’re amazing, and it’s going to reflect in your kids.... heck it already does!
I'm nowhere near being a mother myself, but God willing I might have kids someday and I'll save this video to rewatch it when my time comes, because these tips are huge. I love how you treat your children and how you raise them. Lots of love to you and your family!
Learning to say no is so important for children. Why would you not want your kids to learn to set boundaries? Isn't this part of a healthy upbringing? Sure it's understandable that you wouldn't want to use it against you as in saying no to what you suggest they do all the time, but in general I don't understand how learning to say no could be a bad thing.
Yeah I didnt get that a whole lot either. I mean I would say that I'd rather teach my kids to communicate boundaries more with the language she uses, but more of a direct vocabulary situation not a "not to use against me" sort of way. They can use "do not touch that" against you as well if you are taking away a toy if they throw it too lmao so yeah I dont get that part of the video.
Being more organised is definitely something I need! And my daughter needs too! It’s just her and I but things are a bit crazy! Definitely need to get rid of some crap 💩 🤣 Also less Tv! I’m guilty of it cause I enjoy it too but I have noticed if I don’t turn it on, she won’t ask for it hmm 🤔 funny that haha Love your videos!
I absolutely love your videos, they really inspire me! But I have to agree with a comment below about bad kids. Yes, my children can certainly be naughty, but they are not bad kids. There's usually an unmet need that is causing their naughtiness & you need to figure it out.
The fist point in this video reminds me of the things in Islam. For us it is recommended to do those things too. Very beautifull video and a beautifull human 💙
Letting children learn how to entertain themselves (and outdoor playtime) also has a major impact on their capacity to learn and gives them a great start when they enter school! Love your posts.
I am against tv/cellphones for kids but what if there are other people in the house who give them cellphones and make them watch TV? The country where we live, elders would get offended if we share our opinion for the kids as they think we are being disrespectful. Help please
Kids model their parents so if they see their parents constantly on their phone, they will do the same with whatever technology they have. This becomes really troublesome when the kiddos start to go to school and they are forced to step away from technology.
SO GOOD, Sarah! I loved your arguments regarding the word “no.” While I’m probably not going to remove it from my vocabulary, I am going to try more often to phrase things differently. Several other points were helpful, too, and I’m saving this video to watch again later. 😉😁👍
I really like the things that you've said. The only thing i don't it's true is about the number 3. I think also boys need to be shown affection even if they're grown up. Maybe they don't show up that need (society teach that, i think) but they need love demostrations as much as girls.
Miharu 97 yes i think boys sometimes need it more. Just because people think girls need more attention. Both genders have the need of affection. Because we are people.
Ever since I was a kid and I'd see my mom really stressed out I'd hug her thinking to myself "she really needs physical attention". I still do this at 21 and it still works. lol
Thank you so much for this ❤️ I respect you so much, and believe you're very wise. That being said, I do believe humility is very important, especially when giving advice, given you're such a young mama :) So maybe changing the title of your advice videos is a good way to show respect to other people's journeys and let your advice come off as a humble opinion rather than coming off as if you were looking down on the way other people parent or do life. ❤️
That sounds like a "them" problem, not her problem tho. I like her no BS attitude/personality and more people -- esp mamas -- these days, need more of that. Just take what rings true to you and disregard the rest.
@@kathryncoursey8066 I get what you're saying. But as a Christian, she needs the advice I gave. Because we're not representing ourselves, but Him. So it's very important to have the right heart attitude toward others, and also to make people feel appreciated and not judged or looked down on. I do agree though that many people these days are overly sensitive. My point however was for her to check her heart in why she posts the content she does, and how that affects the people she influences.
Maybe the parents at the park HAVE been playing with their kids all day and just want a minute to themselves or are on a very important phone call (someone is dying or hurt, selling or buying a house, work call, ect)
I like to remind my kids when they do something unacceptable that I don't dislike them, I dislike what they did. I will always love them but not always love their actions. I think this is very important when building trust with your kids.
Each one of these tips I will be working on each day. I wrote them down and will focus on one a day + repeat until I start doing it without having to remember.
@@MrsTediCole Exactly. And at the same time trying to focus on improving instead of dwelling on past as well as current mistakes. Deep breaths mamma. Never give up trying to be the best for my babies I try to always remind myself☺️
What a great Video! I just started to get serious about my channel and looking for great Channel examples. Thank you for being such a great role model !
Can i just say? Amazing!!! I have only one thing to day i didnt like... when children are bad" children are never bad, they just missbehave. Patent or angíne should never tell a chile you are bad!
I am due with my first baby in 2 days (!!!) and my husbands uncle told us we were going to have to get cable once she was here. We said no, we have Netflix and that's enough for us and he was genuinely concerned that she would watch EVERYTHING ON NETFLIX. I had to explain to him that we didn't plan on letting her watch a lot of TV to being with (especially as an infant & toddler). It kind of blew my mind.
Congrats! Its so hard for children not have technology. But I also believe that the smartest choice. We currently live with family and they have it and its a little hard to stay from it because they have it on all the time.
Am i a momma?? Nope
Did i watch the whole video? Yes
Yep. And I loved it 😂
Same
Same lol
Same 😂
Iq Ra ME. HAHAHAHA
Sarah : I'm crying.
Ivy : it's ok, mom.
Me : 😍 soooo sweeet!!!!
That moment made the whole video! It was just so cute!
I would maybe like to see a video on how you and Kieran discipline your kiddos.
ShannonAnne J I think she has mentioned that Kieran takes on the main role of deciding how to discipline and she follows it
@@javiahschleibs4590 yes I agree and have seen those videos. I was just curious as to like what kinds of discipline. Like time out, spankings ... That kind of stuff. Not who does the discipline. 😁 Because a lot of momma's and dads don't have the easiest kids. I think it would be interesting to hear it from a momma. Or her thoughts on discipline in general. Because children are a blessing but also can be a handful. I have two godson's and one has a behavioral issue. But he is doing much better.
@@shannonannescriptauthor211 There's one video where she talks about the difference between punishment and discipline, and from that I would assume that there's no corporal punishment involved. I don't know them personally though, but either way I think it's wise to not "promote" physical forms of punishment with such a big following. When people talk about a biblical approach to discipline I believe it's important to remember the intention behind the written word. "Sparing the rod" in our time, knowing what we know about children psychological og kognitive development, should mean guidance and gentle corrections. We need to remember that children model our behaviour. You don't hand a baby a book on walking and speaking, or tell them to "speak or else...". They learn by seeing. If they see someone treat them gently, with respect and understanding, then that's most likely what they will do as well. I know that this is still a controversial topic in North America and honestly I find it heartbreaking that it is. Corporal punishment is forbidden by law in most other industrialised countries. Zero tolerance for violence, in any shape or form (also discipline) is the best way to go for secure and thriving children. Parental Magic by Hedvig Montgomery is a great book on the topic. All love
@@Idadaist interesting. Could you link the video of this topic by her? I would like to review it. 😀 And thank you for the book reference but I don't intend to read that author if they have "magic" in the name. I am a Christian and I don't believe in magic. And if by happenstance, that author is Christian or giving Christian advice on parenting, he is misleading his audience by using Magic as a lure. Christians aren't supported to believe in magic and parenting isn't about magic. There is nothing about "magical" about parenting. There is joy, peace, love, discipline, growth and so much more. Kids aren't magic and shouldn't be parented as such. (None of that was rude in any way. Just speaking the Christian truth 😀)
Ida Krogstad you don't change the meaning of Scripture based on "scientific" "evidence" from so-called "experts". You know who is THE ultimate Expert? THE LORD.
I'd like to add this as well.
There is no such thing as a "bad" kid. There are only frustrated kids, scared kids, neglected kids, tired kids.
Children don't know how to regulate their emotions, and don't always know the appropriate thing to say or when to say it.
Doesn't make you a bad mom, and it doesn't make them bad kids. We're ALL just learning.
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I love that ! I am almost a college graduate In education and I completely agree! Do you have any children ?
Thank you! 👍
Yes yes yes I was going to comment this.
Happy Holistic Housewife yes That was the only thing that I didn’t like. I would of used the word challenging and your exactly right children behave for a reason
Just a reminder that it's also a good idea to show physical affection to your older sons as well! Let's show the men of our world that physical affection is a good thing!
Yes!! Me and my teenage son hug every morning before school and every time he leaves!
Yes! :) This is SO important if we want to change the way fathers take care of their sons as well!
The ten people who disliked this video are the parents who sit on their phone instead of giving their kid attention😊
Love this advice❤️
1) Get on your kids level
2) Stop saying the word "no"
3) How often do you physically show affection to your kid?
4) Be a present parent
5) Bad kids don't mean a bad mom
6) Be more organized
7) Use statements and reduce questions
8) Your child needs space
9) Encourage them to entertain themselves
10) Guve your kids responsibility
Justine Snyder Thank You!
Thanks 😍
Very guilty of watching too many shows during the day. I need to reduce to 30min a day as well. It really does just take a little bit of time to set up something fun and they are usually good. Thanks for your mom talk!
i'm a kid whose parents did not use the word "no." i wasn't spoiled, and i was daily, frequently, told that i was not allowed to do certain things, always for logical and very good reasons. i'm with you totally, Sarah, and i'm here to say i'm gonna follow your tips and tricks on my future kids. you are very wise. keep loving Jesus! *hugs!* xoxo
Wow,you're going crazy with the videos lately, love it❤
Sarah, I just found you and I am so grateful. You are so young yet so wise. Thank you for sharing this. I'm a 40 year old momma of one super sweet 2 year boy and so grateful. Love and hugs!!
I wish there was a 'love' button on RUclips like there is on Facebook because I swear 'liking' your videos is just not enough. You are an amazing mama and so inspirational! ❤
“It’s okay momma” 😍
For 3, I do think it depends greatly on your Love Language. Some people don’t like physical love or attention.. xx lovely video, Sarah!
Completely agree. I didn't like to be touched as a child, and still do not enjoy it.
Thank you for making this video! I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I get so overwhelmed with fear of becoming a mom sometimes. I'm sooooo excited and my husband and I tried for a long time to get pregnant. But sometimes its terrifying but this video grounded me a little bit. I just need to do my best and a lot of being a mom will come naturally. These were all great tips!
Congrats!! I have a one year old and love being a mama!
That phone point you brought up really annoys me too!
My #1 pet peeve in parenting!!!
same!!!!
Me too, I work in a school as a caretaker and a school crossing patrol, and mom pick up their children and the mom are on their phones ignoring the poor children who are trying to tell them about their day.
Aww. @6:50 ♡ sending love to all the mommas out there! The struggle to feel like we are enough is real. YOU ARE ENOUGH! love the "asking questions" part.
how did you form your parenting philosophy ? did you read books, have a mentor, etc. you seem like such a natural mother
A+ Sarah! God is definitely working through you. We too had no t.v. til about 5 years old. A game my kids and I played when I was really tired was "American Idol". I could lay on the bed and they would have to state their name, where they're from and then sing or dance. Kids LOVE performing for their parents:) . I also brought them to the adoration room at our local Catholic church and they'd have to self-entertain for one hour in front of Jesus:)
Completely agree with all of this! We don’t own a TV but I do let my toddler watch a show here and there throughout the week on our family shared iPad. I can definitely work on putting my phone down more often at home : I get so into researching things, just get so sucked in but for sure no phones at the park or when out with the family. Love it, thank you Sarah 💕
GOOD job mama , I love the growth that happens as a Mama. I have 5 years under my belt Haha and have had so many breakthroughs in parenting just in past year .
So much i wish i knew ...then
I'm not a mom yet and probably won't be for a couple years, but every now and then I think about what kind of a parent I would like to be and this video definitely made me more confident about some things and taught me others!
Your children are very, very fortunate.
The intro was so cute. Both of you have lovely singing voices.
Sarah, love your videos. I'm not sure if you have one, but could you make a video on tips for first time mommas? Any books that really helped, blogs, how to find momma friends, etc? Your kids are so beautiful and I would love to have some insight on how you and Kieran raised them, especially cause I know the first can be quite a bit scary! Much love and blessings, so thankful to have found your channel!
The introoo ❤️❤️
I so agree on the phone thing, i hate it when parents are on their phones and ignore their children. And i also hate it when they constantly give phones to a 1 or 2 year old child because its a quick and easy way of distracting them.
Would love to see more of these videos, i loveeed this one, such great tips and advice 👌❤️
Oh man I am so glad this wasn't a 'you need to get a mani pedi to be the true you' video lol!
MissAuckland what does this mean lol
What? 😅 Who said that?
Hahaha did someone really say that?
Yes! There's too many of those. It's so disappointing to search for solid advice only to find useless, clickbaity fluff.
your mom videos are helping me learning to be a mom in the future i love it Sarah
"How precious is the flow, that made us white as snow. No other foun't I know. Nothing but the blood of Jesus!!" Amen amen. 😍 keep singing those Hymns Ivy!
Judgemental much. You have no idea what that parent at the park, on their phone, has dealt with that day. You have no idea how much attention and love they have given their children that day. I am actually a parent that participates at the park with my child but I sure as hell don’t judge someone that isn’t.
Yes! I take my kids to the park when I am physically and emotionally exhausted. I’m still watching them but I don’t need to be right next to them. Why’s it ok at home for them to play alone but not at the park? 🙄
Exactly!
I have been trying to change the way things are in my house. I’m also a younger (25) mom of three and I’m working to set a no yelling household and it’s really hard not to yell when I see my kids doing something that is dangerous or hurting each other. I really feel like a bad mom all the time.
Wow, I like every single one of these advices!
Yes!!! nothing but the blood!!! love that old song.
Chloe Grant I thought it was creepy until i realized that it was a religious song. In ny church since we talk spanish most songs are usually highly happy and up beat. Kinda like asking jesus if he wants to dance (thats a weird way to explain,,,) anyway i just wanted to talk for a bit. this coment mostly has nothing to do with the song lol :) Have a nice day!
I agree with much of these tips but as a mum of two I do feel that some of the ways in which you are communicating in this video comes across as a little bit judgemental. Perhaps there are other ways to deliver some of these tips without judging other ways of doing things so much. I believe motherhood is the most important role I have on the planet and I take it very seriously but it's also the hardest thing I have ever done. It's all too easy to feel mum guilt and as if others are judging you about everything you do as a mother. I would love to see some more content like this that is uplifting and supportive rather than judgemental of other mother's. Thank u for your videos Xx
I believe she tried so hard in this (and all her videos) to NOT BE JUDGEMENTAL of anyone, especially moms (sorry phone addicts - you deserved that) so only your own guilt can make you feel this. No need for anyone to feel looked down on, nothing but good intentions in this and only here to reminds us of what sometimes forget ❤
@@kokosalexa6517 I agree that no one can make someone feel any certain way without their permission and we are all responsible for our own emotions, but where motherhood is concerned, some women are extremely vulnerable especially if they have experienced postnatal depression, anxiety, ocd or other mental health conditions. Perhaps a degree of mindfulness of this and how delicate a subject it is would be helpful. I feel some of these ideas are expressed in a way that may be detrimental for some to hear, as well as the community as a whole. I have no doubt that the intentions are pure and most of the principles are of value however I think perhaps there are ways of delivering these messages without such negative associations or comments. I love to see uplifting and supportive content especially where motherhood and parenting is concerned. 💜
@@Ejcfarley Tip #11 for moms like Emily: Stop being a snowflake. Stop looking for things to be offended by. Show a little gratitude when somebody offers you 10 great tips for free instead of criticizing the mom giving the tips. By personally attacking an individual who was sharing her experience as a mother with the public in order to try to be helpful, you are demonstrating what a hypocrite you are. Shame on you.
Sarah: Your favourite drink?
Ivy: *slaps sippy cup*
Sarah: Almond milk?
Ivy: Yeah.
Loved this video Sarah.👍🏻
I totally agree with all 10 of these. And for me number 4 Really sticks out to me. Probably because like you, I see parents on their phone with blinders on. Basically ignoring their kids. It’s actually really sad.
I think that asking questions, in the case of bad behavior, can make the child take responsibility in a way which is very important in my opinion
Hey Sarah
I’m a new mumma and super interested in how you teach your kiddos responsibilities. Keen on doing a video specifically on that topic? 😊
Bless you beautiful
omg the beginning of the video was so freaking cute Sarah💗
Allowing my boys to be bored is the BEST THING for them. The games they come up with are so creative and wouldn't happen if I was working to entertain them 24/7. Great tips!
Is that your son in the picture? He is beautiful.
Bad behaviour doesn’t mean bad kids :)
literally was getting on here to say this!
Agreed!
That's why she put it in quotation marks while she was talking, to show that "bad" isn't the implied form of what people think.
My boys are teenagers and they still want physical touch from both mom and dad. They were raised with a ton of affection. Agree with you on being present. It’s so important and I can see the difference in my kids when I’m not fully paying attention. Great video as always. Bless you. ✌🏼
Great video! My only issue with this video is that you talk about "Bad Kids". I was always told by my mom that there is no such thing as a bad kid, juts a kid that makes bad choices.
I think that's what's she's getting at too.. just because kids make bad choices doesn't make you a bad mom.
That's why she put it in quotation marks with her hand while she was talking to prove the point that there are no "bad" kids
I love watching your content. Literally wait all week
I'm 22 I still love when my Mommy gives me love and affection.
I agree with every word! You are a wise mom! Thank You for sharing
Awww that intro. Made my night
Amazing!! My husband and I don't have kids yet, but we love this! You are amazing! I know I always say that but it is so true!
Loved every tip! Always impactful to hear another moms perspective!
The part about moms on phones at parks contradicts #8 and #9. Maybe those moms are giving the kids space and encouraging independence. European moms are very hands off at parks for those reasons and think American/Canadian moms are weird for hovering and not encouraging outdoor independence. Just some thoughts to encourage others not to judge other moms so much.
Kristina Wiedenhoeft It doesn’t necessarily. You might be able to tell when they want your attention and when they want some space.
In my culture not holding your baby too much (from birth) is encouraged so the child doesn't grow clingy 😰 I cringe every time someone gives me this advice or see them practicing it.. If it was to me I would never stop cuddling my baby
This is so wrong!! Many studies have shown that babys tha have been given cuddling your baby and carrying it (a lot of physical contact) are more intelligent and also social stabil in their whole life. So cuddling your baby doesn't only feel good but it's actually very crucial to your babys development!! This has to stop! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, trust your momma instincts, your doing great!! ❤❤
A baby also needs space to be itself. How would you like to be held all the time? I did this with my first daughter who was a premie and I was also held her all time, she didn't have enough floor time and so she didn't learn to crawl or walk in a timely manner. Put you children down on the floor with toys and let them explore their world.
DENISE JONE I held my son almost constantly and if I put him down I sat right next to him. He walked at 11. It wasn’t safe for my to leave him on the floor alone. He’s almost 3 and pretty independent now.
Young babies need a lot of physical attention, as they get older they clearly need the space to explore and to develop themselves. Usually a baby indicates what he or she needs: cuddling or going out for an investigation. A one-month-old baby is not yet exploring the world and is still busy getting used to the world outside the womb. An 11-month-old baby is usually busy packing things and walking or trying to walk.
Billie my older son has autism. He’s oblivious to things around him. 2x he ran right over the baby. He would also try to look at him in the pack n play but tip it trying. So I had to keep him with me.
You are wise beyond your years Sarah! As someone with a degree in adolescent cognitive psychology, you couldn’t have given a list of ten better tips for parents. You’re amazing, and it’s going to reflect in your kids.... heck it already does!
I'm nowhere near being a mother myself, but God willing I might have kids someday and I'll save this video to rewatch it when my time comes, because these tips are huge. I love how you treat your children and how you raise them. Lots of love to you and your family!
Timea Püsök 🙌🏼 I have a RUclips 📂 named “if I ever have kids”
Learning to say no is so important for children. Why would you not want your kids to learn to set boundaries? Isn't this part of a healthy upbringing? Sure it's understandable that you wouldn't want to use it against you as in saying no to what you suggest they do all the time, but in general I don't understand how learning to say no could be a bad thing.
Yeah I didnt get that a whole lot either. I mean I would say that I'd rather teach my kids to communicate boundaries more with the language she uses, but more of a direct vocabulary situation not a "not to use against me" sort of way. They can use "do not touch that" against you as well if you are taking away a toy if they throw it too lmao so yeah I dont get that part of the video.
I love these tips, and already use most of them! But the ones I don’t I am going to definitely try to use more! Thank you!!
This was fantastic. I need to work on all of these things everyday! Especially saying no...
I agree with everything 100%!! The hardest thing for me is to not be on my phone so much!
Ivy’s cup and your shirt match 😂
I’m only half way through but wow thank you for this. I needed to hear some of these things.
Being more organised is definitely something I need! And my daughter needs too! It’s just her and I but things are a bit crazy! Definitely need to get rid of some crap 💩 🤣
Also less Tv! I’m guilty of it cause I enjoy it too but I have noticed if I don’t turn it on, she won’t ask for it hmm 🤔 funny that haha
Love your videos!
I absolutely love your videos, they really inspire me!
But I have to agree with a comment below about bad kids. Yes, my children can certainly be naughty, but they are not bad kids. There's usually an unmet need that is causing their naughtiness & you need to figure it out.
I'd like to modify number 5 bad behaviour from a kid does not mean you're a bad mom. I would rather define the behavior rather than the entire person.
I don’t see why anyone would get hot in the comments about these tips! The best tips ever!!!
The fist point in this video reminds me of the things in Islam. For us it is recommended to do those things too. Very beautifull video and a beautifull human 💙
Not a mom, but I am a daycare teacher. The point you had about not asking them questions is SO helpful.
awe the opening clips with ivy were so adorable ! I was laughing out loud
There are not bad kids. There are kids of need of love and attention!
Fantastic tips! Thanks for all the inspiration!!
Were y’all singing Jump5 at the beginning before “Nothing But the Blood of Jesus”?! 😂 I LOVED them!!!!
I would like to see a vid about your family eating but not the dishes or eaten products but the rules that are present at your table
This is basically Montessori education! Please look into it I’m sure you’d love it!
(No it’s not a cult, and it also has nothing to do with religion)
Loved all these tips! Thank you 😊
Wow I loved this video! One of my most favorite ones!
Letting children learn how to entertain themselves (and outdoor playtime) also has a major impact on their capacity to learn and gives them a great start when they enter school! Love your posts.
I am against tv/cellphones for kids but what if there are other people in the house who give them cellphones and make them watch TV? The country where we live, elders would get offended if we share our opinion for the kids as they think we are being disrespectful. Help please
I am a teacher and most of it also applies to me. ❤️
Amazing mom advice! Thank you ♥️
🙌 YES YES YES 🙌 this video 💕 And I can't stand parents on their phones while their kids want their attention!
How often do you work? I'm wondering how to create a good part time work from home balance.
Kids model their parents so if they see their parents constantly on their phone, they will do the same with whatever technology they have. This becomes really troublesome when the kiddos start to go to school and they are forced to step away from technology.
SO GOOD, Sarah! I loved your arguments regarding the word “no.” While I’m probably not going to remove it from my vocabulary, I am going to try more often to phrase things differently. Several other points were helpful, too, and I’m saving this video to watch again later. 😉😁👍
The perfect video, damn you're my kind of Mom!
There is no such thing as a “bad” kid.
Not trying to be “philosophical” was just saying. Also it wasn’t loud and clear when she kept saying bad kid over and over...
I AGREE!
This is amazing, I hope I can be an amazing mumma like you one day!
I really like the things that you've said. The only thing i don't it's true is about the number 3. I think also boys need to be shown affection even if they're grown up. Maybe they don't show up that need (society teach that, i think) but they need love demostrations as much as girls.
Miharu 97 yes i think boys sometimes need it more. Just because people think girls need more attention. Both genders have the need of affection. Because we are people.
I am not a mom yet haha but I watched this because I'd like to learn and get tips, so that way when I am I'll remember them! Great video :)
Haha the Jump 5 Spinning Around in the beginning had me so nostalgic! Oh my word. Good times...
Ever since I was a kid and I'd see my mom really stressed out I'd hug her thinking to myself "she really needs physical attention". I still do this at 21 and it still works. lol
Thank you so much for this ❤️
I respect you so much, and believe you're very wise.
That being said, I do believe humility is very important, especially when giving advice, given you're such a young mama :)
So maybe changing the title of your advice videos is a good way to show respect to other people's journeys and let your advice come off as a humble opinion rather than coming off as if you were looking down on the way other people parent or do life.
❤️
That sounds like a "them" problem, not her problem tho. I like her no BS attitude/personality and more people -- esp mamas -- these days, need more of that. Just take what rings true to you and disregard the rest.
@@kathryncoursey8066 I get what you're saying. But as a Christian, she needs the advice I gave. Because we're not representing ourselves, but Him. So it's very important to have the right heart attitude toward others, and also to make people feel appreciated and not judged or looked down on.
I do agree though that many people these days are overly sensitive. My point however was for her to check her heart in why she posts the content she does, and how that affects the people she influences.
Agree
My due date is in two days so I loved this video, especially that part where u say you didnt let Ivy watch tv until she was 2 👍👍🥰
Maybe the parents at the park HAVE been playing with their kids all day and just want a minute to themselves or are on a very important phone call (someone is dying or hurt, selling or buying a house, work call, ect)
I like to remind my kids when they do something unacceptable that I don't dislike them, I dislike what they did. I will always love them but not always love their actions. I think this is very important when building trust with your kids.
I needed to hear this, thank you 💕
Each one of these tips I will be working on each day. I wrote them down and will focus on one a day + repeat until I start doing it without having to remember.
I hope to the same. All the best to us mamas
tata puwa exactly ❤️ it’s easy to get frustrated and do/say the “wrong” thing without realizing.
@@MrsTediCole Exactly. And at the same time trying to focus on improving instead of dwelling on past as well as current mistakes. Deep breaths mamma. Never give up trying to be the best for my babies I try to always remind myself☺️
What a great Video! I just started to get serious about my channel and looking for great Channel examples. Thank you for being such a great role model !
Can i just say? Amazing!!! I have only one thing to day i didnt like... when children are bad" children are never bad, they just missbehave. Patent or angíne should never tell a chile you are bad!
I am so guilty about the phone..
Because I work from home and it is so difficult to separate life with work.
I am due with my first baby in 2 days (!!!) and my husbands uncle told us we were going to have to get cable once she was here. We said no, we have Netflix and that's enough for us and he was genuinely concerned that she would watch EVERYTHING ON NETFLIX. I had to explain to him that we didn't plan on letting her watch a lot of TV to being with (especially as an infant & toddler). It kind of blew my mind.
Congrats! Its so hard for children not have technology. But I also believe that the smartest choice. We currently live with family and they have it and its a little hard to stay from it because they have it on all the time.
I LITERALLY LOVE YOU SO MUCH SARAH!!!!! You are such a good mom and have the cutest kids! I love your way of parenting💕
These tips go for dads as well!