Thank you Kirk, I was silent, didn't say a word, I left, no contact, nothing ,been gone for 4 months now, I don't want him back, same story, different day. You right ❤
Cheating is a personal choice. There are some people that do not cheat. What's not understood is the problem lies within. Don't own someone else problems. Excecise YOUR choice and leave.
I agree with Mr. Kirk. Ladies you need to let him go if he cheats. You don't owe him a second chance. Most men will dump us women if we even think of cheating so be more like men in the same way. Don't put up with his cheating and abusive ways if he is that type. Also, remember ladies... Don't think like men in an eye for an eye way of thinking .That's wrong. Just leave if he isnt treating you right with respect.❤❤❤
Silence is truly a great strength and honor❤ A man that cheats, LEAVE and let BE. Bad habits are bad habits. Only changes by CHOICE. Women have to learn to BE their own love line for life❤ love to be loved by SELF. (this is not a selfish act) Loving self is an amazing attribute. #StayVirtuous
So true my man I been living with him for 7 months now but what he does to me shows he ain't interested at first the love was blossoming for one month the second month after meeting him everything changed but now I have learnt not to put my hopes onhim coz he calls other ladies on phone recently I discovered that his been cheating on me now I am giving him the silent treatment he deserves and soon am gonna walk away I am stronger each day he pushes me away
The way my brain is wired as a woman and stoic also, when it comes to matters of infidelity, there's no debate about it and I'll be gone so fast without looking back and for good...
You're right on the money Kirk! In a case I know of, the husband who is versed in psychology used it against his spouse making it harder to know what's going on, until far into the cheating. The wife then has to rebuild ( mentally and otherwise) before leaving. Some pretty devious behavior exists in relationships. You ARE so very right though, about the insecurities, nagging etc. I hope women are listening AND taking actions accordingly.❤❤❤
Kirk you are 1000% right I know a big big cheater and it’s almost a sickness… his life is an absolute mess… his finances sucks, everything you said is just like you know that person 😂😂😂 I think they have a strong insecurity that’s why they do this. But often ladies get hurt messing with these type of guys.
My ex-husband called me a couple of times a year for a long time after the divorce. He didn't get the point the first time I told him I was remarried. The last call he mentioned my "boyfriend" and I corrected him and told him I've been remarried for years. The lightbulb went off and he so did he. Asking me did I divorce him to marry my hubby. I didn't waste time explaining. Just said yes and I wasn't about to argue. Thank God that was the last call from him.
I know a guy that been with a chick 30yrs and he left her for 6 mos. and came back to her. He been cheating and having kids with other women since they been together. What do you call her? What do you call him? He cheats all the time for 30 yrs. He ain't changing for no one.
YOU ARE RIGHT BROTHER!!!! Coming from the field of mental health, where we are trained everything psychology. I do agree that it is all psychology. Thanks for sharing knowledge!! 🎉
I wish I was strong enough to do that with my ex a few years ago. I did that near the end of our relationship when I no longer wanted to work it out. This definitely makes sense. Thank you. 🙏🏾
I told him don’t come back, he called a few times with other women interfering in the conversations, nice way to piss you off even more, its been a year haven’t seen or talked to him., had a call from a fiancé few months later and he is still married to me🤣psychopath He can experience everyone on the street he meets now
Yes let me give u something get your self new lover and maker yourself happy please stop the excuses you sound silly there are No excuses when a man find out that his woman got another man löving her he's ready to take her down what's good for the große is good for the gander learn how to control your life men there are No No No excuses Get new man that truly loves u and want u okkkk and ask God for directions in this life he have No Respect Done😊
My silence is louder and more powerful than words could ever be.
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no one can stop anyone from cheating.
Cheating is a personal decision
Thank you Kirk, I was silent, didn't say a word, I left, no contact, nothing ,been gone for 4 months now, I don't want him back, same story, different day. You right ❤
The "AGAIN" part is wild in of itself.
I chose the leave-and-never-come-back technique lol🤣
Cheating is a personal choice.
There are some people that do not cheat.
What's not understood is the problem lies within. Don't own someone else problems.
Excecise YOUR choice and leave.
There Will Be No Not Next Time. I'm Out!!!
💯
A cheater needs the Lord God in his life, this decision is up to him. 💯
I agree with Mr. Kirk. Ladies you need to let him go if he cheats. You don't owe him a second chance. Most men will dump us women if we even think of cheating so be more like men in the same way. Don't put up with his cheating and abusive ways if he is that type. Also, remember ladies... Don't think like men in an eye for an eye way of thinking .That's wrong. Just leave if he isnt treating you right with respect.❤❤❤
People do what they want. Leave them alone, they'll straighten up if they feel a loss, are mature & truly want.
Silence is truly a great strength and honor❤ A man that cheats, LEAVE and let BE. Bad habits are bad habits. Only changes by CHOICE. Women have to learn to BE their own love line for life❤ love to be loved by SELF. (this is not a selfish act) Loving self is an amazing attribute. #StayVirtuous
So true my man I been living with him for 7 months now but what he does to me shows he ain't interested at first the love was blossoming for one month the second month after meeting him everything changed but now I have learnt not to put my hopes onhim coz he calls other ladies on phone recently I discovered that his been cheating on me now I am giving him the silent treatment he deserves and soon am gonna walk away I am stronger each day he pushes me away
First of all if a man cheats on you.... give him distance... FOREVER!
If someone cheats on me, I'm done with the relationship. 2nd chances are not allowed.
"Slince is powerful "❤
Cheats on you, AGAIN... 🤮🤮🤮.
Love this comment lol. Agreed. 💯
Thank you I appreciate your honest male perspective. I needed to hear these things.
I think im falling inlove with this guy. ❤
💅 DOES IT LOOK LIKE "🍭" IS STAMPED ACROSS OUR FOREHEADS!!🤣😂🤣
The way my brain is wired as a woman and stoic also, when it comes to matters of infidelity, there's no debate about it and I'll be gone so fast without looking back and for good...
Yes Sir You ON Point AGAIN. I Pray Women Out There Take Your Advice!!!!❤🎉🎉
You're right on the money Kirk! In a case I know of, the husband who is versed in psychology used it against his spouse making it harder to know what's going on, until far into the cheating. The wife then has to rebuild ( mentally and otherwise) before leaving. Some pretty devious behavior exists in relationships. You ARE so very right though, about the insecurities, nagging etc. I hope women are listening AND taking actions accordingly.❤❤❤
First of all nobody must accept to be cheated or used, NOBODY, WITH ME IS NO CHANCE, NO MERCY !!!!!
This means SELF RESPECT
Kirk you are 1000% right I know a big big cheater and it’s almost a sickness… his life is an absolute mess… his finances sucks, everything you said is just like you know that person 😂😂😂 I think they have a strong insecurity that’s why they do this. But often ladies get hurt messing with these type of guys.
My ex-husband called me a couple of times a year for a long time after the divorce. He didn't get the point the first time I told him I was remarried. The last call he mentioned my "boyfriend" and I corrected him and told him I've been remarried for years. The lightbulb went off and he so did he. Asking me did I divorce him to marry my hubby. I didn't waste time explaining. Just said yes and I wasn't about to argue. Thank God that was the last call from him.
Big men will be angry for you giving this truth!! 😊
Yes teach these young men! God bless
That line was fron Method Man. Ft. Mary J. Blije. " Your all I need". Thanks for all of the advice. ❤
I have learnt to love myself and forget about a cheat.😢😢
I know a guy that been with a chick 30yrs and he left her for 6 mos. and came back to her. He been cheating and having kids with other women since they been together. What do you call her? What do you call him? He cheats all the time for 30 yrs. He ain't changing for no one.
Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the insight.
YOU ARE RIGHT BROTHER!!!! Coming from the field of mental health, where we are trained everything psychology. I do agree that it is all psychology. Thanks for sharing knowledge!! 🎉
Thank you so much, silence is Golden
🎯💯🗣Facts!
Well said brother Kirk!
Silence is golden...im as quiet as church mice.
Thanks, Kirk!
I wish I was strong enough to do that with my ex a few years ago. I did that near the end of our relationship when I no longer wanted to work it out. This definitely makes sense. Thank you. 🙏🏾
I told him don’t come back, he called a few times with other women interfering in the conversations, nice way to piss you off even more, its been a year haven’t seen or talked to him., had a call from a fiancé few months later and he is still married to me🤣psychopath
He can experience everyone on the street he meets now
Thank you!
Thank you ❤❤❤❤
Thankx❤
You are so peacefully I love it❤❤
Preach!
Tnx King
Facts!!!!!!! All day!!! !!!!
Agree 💯
I'm taking a break, silence time.
Makes perfect sense
You are such a handsome men. I really listen too.....but yes..very cute❤
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This is good
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Yes let me give u something get your self new lover and maker yourself happy please stop the excuses you sound silly there are No excuses when a man find out that his woman got another man löving her he's ready to take her down what's good for the große is good for the gander learn how to control your life men there are No No No excuses Get new man that truly loves u and want u okkkk and ask God for directions in this life he have No Respect Done😊
Again?! 😂😂😂😂
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💋💕❣️💖
😂😂😂😂
Grey is your color
I see Kirk..i never understood why..
RUclips wont let me be great. Stay missing the live. Smh
Awwe lol
I always get cheated guys so stupied❤❤❤❤
Thank you!