Kirk you are on a different level. I have listened to hundreds of videos on dating and relationships yet you are the only person that clearly articulated the source of a very serious issue and how to resolve it. You are brilliant. Thank you so much.
Ouch - this resonated so much! I'm never placing my feelings over my self respect ever again! It's not even about the narcissists, it's about 'us' and our fears and childhood traumas we haven't dealt with. But once we start thinking logically without emotion, things become crystal clear. Wishing everyone all the best for the new year🎉🎉❤
If you never saw love as a child or shown love as a child, and didn’t have a father figure, I didn’t know how to love myself properly. I would take a lot of abuse and mistreatment before finally leaving. Sometimes they would leave me. It’s been a difficult journey for me as far as relationships go. I find it hard to trust now. My guard is up again after being betrayed once again by a narcissist that I was with for 6 years. Your words are truth!…I became an over thinker and insecure due to the games, manipulation, verbal abuse, belittling, gaslighting and rage fits. I am learning now and walked away from the last narcissist I will ever let near me.
It looks like emotions are the issue... but its not its lack of self knowledge....When you are educated, trained on the purpose of feelings you will thrive. Your feelings are there to service you. Your feelings are your guidance systems. Emotional feelers are powerful in manifesting only if masterful. Feelings are not the issue untrained minds are. Low esteem lack of self regard is this issue not your feelings. Feelings are to support you to focused inward not outward.
I really needed to hear this. Out of all of the great videos you've posted, this is the one I needed the most. I am very emotionally sensitive. I grew up in many dysfunctional households as a child going from place to place where the environment was hostile and invalidating. I never learned to regulate my emotions, rather I just adapted to monitoring other people's actions and how they make me feel to evaluate self-worth. I've been on a healing journey for years and within that time I felt I was healed enough to try a mature and loving relationship, but keep attracting men that devalue me and treat me like an object. Your video has given me something to think about and to pay attention to when seeking romantic relationships. My current boyfriend treats me well, but I almost pushed him away. My anxiety made me speak to him about what I was "feeling" because his actions made me suspicious. He was understanding about my bad experiences and told me to just trust him. He said if he didn't care about me, he would say so. Says he really has been just busy during the end of the year. I thought that could be the case because the change in routine seemed to happen overnight and he had consistently communicated with me at a regular time every night prior. Past trauma made me accuse too readily without proof. Sorry, I seemed to have gotten off topic, but your video has really been helpful.
This is great advice!!. I've been practicing walking away from toxic folks for about 11 years now , racist, gossips, jezebel spirits, liars, any strange or disrespectful energy I don't hang around . Sometimes people get ANGRY 😡 when you Walk away because they can't minipulate you to do what THEY WANT you to do. They'll get together and invite you out with them and I don't go trying to get them to like me and see that I'm a nice person because when you've shown me who you are I believe you. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS BE STRONGER THAN YOUR SELF RESPECT., including with your family. Practicing walking away and giving it to God in prayer 🙏🏾 has been a life changer for me. Ask Holy Spirit to comfort you don't go looking for a man , woman or any human being to comfort you. Some church folks are predators too so the same rule applies to them.
❤ MaaaaAn, you have told me about myself!!! THANK YOU for sharing your wisdom! This is me all day!! We will be moving forward with self-love and making decisions logically; not emotionally! I HAVE SELF- RESPECT! I needed to hear this today!!! ❤💯You saving souls out here!!! ( I needed to hear this when I started dating....👀)
🧿THISSS ! ! ! By Far,...🧿 THEE HARDEST LESSON I've had to learn in My Entire LIFE...! ......☄☄☄....... But, THIS YEAR....... I Finallyyyyy got it...!!!!! And I'm Proud of Me..!!!!! I cut EVERYBODY OFF ! ! ! THIS Time, Its For Me..... And I need to heal. Shoutout to All My Teachers... 🎉🎉 Cuz I know the right people will find me! 🔮🦋 💯💯 I Ain't worried abt a Thang! (For once in my Life) I Ain't worried AT ALL..!!!!! ☄🧿👄👅♥️💕🌜🌚🌛🧿
DAMN I wish I had you to save my life and family. You are so right because I know the people that have treated me horribly and treated others like royalty. You are BRILLIANT
Assalamualakium Mr. K this is Fatimah from W Africa 😊. I truly enjoyed this message. I hope you add more to this. I found so much I needed in this one and I've watch you seems like forever. I am learning a so much from you. Instead of using my feelings to think use common knowledge. 😮wow! Thank you.
Thank you so much! You speaking nothing but facts . I appreciate you taking the time to explain and add value to our lives so we can think and do better! This definitely helps. 🙏🏾✨🙌🏾💯✨💫
Excellent insight! I'm trying to visualize Empaths without use of their feelings & emotions. Or their GPS system. Which helps to ID and set their truths, facts, high standards, boundaries, etc The Emotional, Intuitive and Physical Empaths often deal with Compassion Fatigue from nurturing and healing people. Until the prioritize self-care and boldly saying NO. Kindly, share
I found you a while back and you have helped me tremendously with me separating and now going through a divorce. I have always attracted manipulative people even with friendships, relationships that are one sided. More content on how to master emotions/feelings please. I have read books, in therapy and no one has addressed how to stop this behavior you mentioned. I want to think logically without compromising my loving nature. Great video because what you said is very true, I feel like my ex husband is very good at this and until recently I just noticing how everything he does has an agenda and affects my mood. Thats too much control for anyone to have over myself. Thank you Kirk.
Had one come at me the other day told him he had alot of hurt emotions he needed to heal before he even thought of trying a relationship Well...... He went offffff pmsl told me all i needed to know about who he is plus he was moving over warp speed to get in me and i wasnt having it creeped me out
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I know the guys are PISSED at the fact that uncle Kirk don't play about us! Giving us all this free game and awareness
Kirk is helping me more than he knows!!! This really resonated with me. Thank you!
Kirk you are on a different level. I have listened to hundreds of videos on dating and relationships yet you are the only person that clearly articulated the source of a very serious issue and how to resolve it. You are brilliant. Thank you so much.
Ouch - this resonated so much! I'm never placing my feelings over my self respect ever again! It's not even about the narcissists, it's about 'us' and our fears and childhood traumas we haven't dealt with. But once we start thinking logically without emotion, things become crystal clear.
Wishing everyone all the best for the new year🎉🎉❤
I AGREE ,LEARNED HARD LESSONS,GET OUT OF YOUR FEELINGS MOVE WITH LOGIC
Very hard lessons for myself,and sadly my kids had to go through it with me! I'm so thankful and grateful today for growth and innerstanding
@@AliciaAli478 KIDS ARE RESILIENT,BEST THING YOU MADE A CHANGE FOR A HEALTHIER YOU SO THEY ARE HEALTHIER,HEALING WILL COME FOR ALL OF YOU,STAY STRONG
@@amouralove9857 Thank u so much for such powerful feedback! Wishing you and yours an Amazing, prosperous New Years!
If you never saw love as a child or shown love as a child, and didn’t have a father figure, I didn’t know how to love myself properly. I would take a lot of abuse and mistreatment before finally leaving. Sometimes they would leave me.
It’s been a difficult journey for me as far as relationships go.
I find it hard to trust now. My guard is up again after being betrayed once again by a narcissist that I was with for 6 years.
Your words are truth!…I became an over thinker and insecure due to the games, manipulation, verbal abuse, belittling, gaslighting and rage fits. I am learning now and walked away from the last narcissist I will ever let near me.
It looks like emotions are the issue... but its not its lack of self knowledge....When you are educated, trained on the purpose of feelings you will thrive. Your feelings are there to service you. Your feelings are your guidance systems. Emotional feelers are powerful in manifesting only if masterful. Feelings are not the issue untrained minds are. Low esteem lack of self regard is this issue not your feelings. Feelings are to support you to focused inward not outward.
Thanks! Thank you!🙏🏽
Thank you so much.
Very deep yet emotionally powerful message. You’ve over-delivered again Kirk 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
I really needed to hear this. Out of all of the great videos you've posted, this is the one I needed the most. I am very emotionally sensitive. I grew up in many dysfunctional households as a child going from place to place where the environment was hostile and invalidating. I never learned to regulate my emotions, rather I just adapted to monitoring other people's actions and how they make me feel to evaluate self-worth. I've been on a healing journey for years and within that time I felt I was healed enough to try a mature and loving relationship, but keep attracting men that devalue me and treat me like an object. Your video has given me something to think about and to pay attention to when seeking romantic relationships. My current boyfriend treats me well, but I almost pushed him away. My anxiety made me speak to him about what I was "feeling" because his actions made me suspicious. He was understanding about my bad experiences and told me to just trust him. He said if he didn't care about me, he would say so. Says he really has been just busy during the end of the year. I thought that could be the case because the change in routine seemed to happen overnight and he had consistently communicated with me at a regular time every night prior. Past trauma made me accuse too readily without proof. Sorry, I seemed to have gotten off topic, but your video has really been helpful.
Thanks for going off topic bc others might need your message as well
This is so true. I never thought of things like this. I know these are my feelings but I love you. 😅 Thanks for the knowledge!!!
This is great advice!!. I've been practicing walking away from toxic folks for about 11 years now , racist, gossips, jezebel spirits, liars, any strange or disrespectful energy I don't hang around . Sometimes people get ANGRY 😡 when you Walk away because they can't minipulate you to do what THEY WANT you to do. They'll get together and invite you out with them and I don't go trying to get them to like me and see that I'm a nice person because when you've shown me who you are I believe you. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS BE STRONGER THAN YOUR SELF RESPECT., including with your family. Practicing walking away and giving it to God in prayer 🙏🏾 has been a life changer for me. Ask Holy Spirit to comfort you don't go looking for a man , woman or any human being to comfort you. Some church folks are predators too so the same rule applies to them.
❤ MaaaaAn, you have told me about myself!!!
THANK YOU for sharing your wisdom! This is me all day!!
We will be moving forward with self-love and making decisions logically; not emotionally!
I HAVE SELF- RESPECT!
I needed to hear this today!!!
❤💯You saving souls out here!!!
( I needed to hear this when I started dating....👀)
Wow this resonates. I am learning so much from you Kirk. Thank you for this message.
It's amazing how you hit right on it like an angel ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You've helped me more than you'll ever know. Thank you ❤️🥰
Kirk, you help me either.
Greetings from Romania!❤
Thank you, i needed to hear this ...
Sometimes you feel crazy not wanting to deal with people trying to treat you any kind if way
This is so true. ❤
It was more than helpful Kirk. Thanks a lot. You stay blessed. Nuf respec! Cheers.
Daaaaaaaaamn!!!!!! This one was goooooooooooooooood!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂
Amen you are Speaking Truth 🙏🏽❤️
Excellent thank you 😊 so much Kirk ❤️ I needed this and want to learn how to stop feeding etc
Deep deep deep deep another narcissistic is not going to enter my life no more forget emotions I'm going. On facts for now on this moment day forward😊
I like the way you explain very clearly and straight to the point, I can immediately understand and realize it... thank you very much🙏
I like your BEAST Mode T- shirt. I knew a trainer from St. Croix that's Amalie's logo.
The best way to put it 💯💯
🧿THISSS ! ! ! By Far,...🧿
THEE HARDEST LESSON
I've had to learn in My Entire LIFE...!
......☄☄☄.......
But, THIS YEAR.......
I Finallyyyyy got it...!!!!!
And I'm Proud of Me..!!!!!
I cut EVERYBODY OFF ! ! !
THIS Time, Its For Me.....
And I need to heal.
Shoutout to All My Teachers... 🎉🎉
Cuz I know the right people will find me! 🔮🦋
💯💯
I Ain't worried abt a Thang!
(For once in my Life)
I Ain't worried AT ALL..!!!!!
☄🧿👄👅♥️💕🌜🌚🌛🧿
DAMN I wish I had you to save my life and family. You are so right because I know the people that have treated me horribly and treated others like royalty. You are BRILLIANT
Thank God for this message
Yes sir 👏 Accountability time. All points noted and taken. Its tight but its right. Thank you ❤
Thanks Kirk I really needed this message
Assalamualakium Mr. K this is Fatimah from W Africa 😊. I truly enjoyed this message. I hope you add more to this. I found so much I needed in this one and I've watch you seems like forever. I am learning a so much from you. Instead of using my feelings to think use common knowledge. 😮wow!
Thank you.
Great vid..thanks
Lord help me I over think am imotionally hurt . I got to pull myself out.
Thank you so much! You speaking nothing but facts . I appreciate you taking the time to explain and add value to our lives so we can think and do better! This definitely helps. 🙏🏾✨🙌🏾💯✨💫
Excellent insight! I'm trying to visualize Empaths without use of their feelings & emotions. Or their GPS system. Which helps to ID and set their truths, facts, high standards, boundaries, etc The Emotional, Intuitive and Physical Empaths often deal with Compassion Fatigue from nurturing and healing people. Until the prioritize self-care and boldly saying NO. Kindly, share
I'm an INFP. Guess I'm screwed.
Thank you for that I needed that
333 as I listen to this msg. Namaste ❤
Download worthy... thank you Sir ❤
Wow..wow..wow...wow ❤
Thank you babe 😢❤
Bravo! I just subscribed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I needed to hear this ! Ur so right! Sometimes, I don't like this about myself. Working on it. Can u talk more about this topic???Thank you! 🤗
Thank you know I understand
God bless you.
Thank you brother. You have open my eyes. Reality hit me through this message.
Thank you 💞
I found you a while back and you have helped me tremendously with me separating and now going through a divorce. I have always attracted manipulative people even with friendships, relationships that are one sided. More content on how to master emotions/feelings please. I have read books, in therapy and no one has addressed how to stop this behavior you mentioned. I want to think logically without compromising my loving nature. Great video because what you said is very true, I feel like my ex husband is very good at this and until recently I just noticing how everything he does has an agenda and affects my mood. Thats too much control for anyone to have over myself. Thank you Kirk.
Thank you so much
Had one come at me the other day told him he had alot of hurt emotions he needed to heal before he even thought of trying a relationship Well...... He went offffff pmsl told me all i needed to know about who he is plus he was moving over warp speed to get in me and i wasnt having it creeped me out
God bless you
I am empath working on healing
😂 Wish I had this video before I learned the hard way.
Buy you did learn and you should be proud of that...
Thanks!
TRUTH
Ty needed to hear this right now
Helpful. Thanku ❤❤
This is such a nugget
Facts
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Thank you❤