Are men only drawn to you for 1 thing? This might be why

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @Ms.Kelle_
    @Ms.Kelle_ 6 месяцев назад +47

    That’s why it’s best to be celibate. I have my own business and I use my creative energy daily. And it gives me balance. I also have other hobbies I partake in that keep me balanced energetically

    • @catrinamarcel3834
      @catrinamarcel3834 5 месяцев назад +2

      I'm 5 years celibate!

    • @Ms.Kelle_
      @Ms.Kelle_ 5 месяцев назад

      @@catrinamarcel3834 3 for me….you definitely manifest faster

    • @novizivot3631
      @novizivot3631 3 месяца назад

      @@catrinamarcel3834 I am in celibate since 2005.

  • @Moi-io7yi
    @Moi-io7yi 6 месяцев назад +45

    My mind is the magnet. A lot of single women don't realise how much easier it is to draw men in with your mind, far more than with your body.

  • @user-jx8vx8jk6j
    @user-jx8vx8jk6j 6 месяцев назад +38

    Please do a video on how to heal in this area

  • @colettemitchell3412
    @colettemitchell3412 6 месяцев назад +24

    You're right it's a big problem. You're the first person I've heard directly address this. Thank you!!!

  • @evalinesasheenemelgar1380
    @evalinesasheenemelgar1380 6 месяцев назад +25

    Wow! What a clear explanation.👏 Moving on, how do we fix such stagnation of energy?

  • @amberensminger7247
    @amberensminger7247 6 месяцев назад +9

    This is so accurate even down to the sexual abuse as a child part. As a grown woman I am successful,kind,many people enjoy my over the top personality/energy. I keep myself up including my body. However , when it comes to men I only affect men who want to sleep with me. How do we heal this Kirk?

  • @liahknowsbest5092
    @liahknowsbest5092 5 месяцев назад +9

    😮Wow I never thought about my sexuailty that way. I alway wondered why men only compliment how sexy I look and talk sexual. It's a turn off to me. Thanks for letting me know. 🙏🏽

  • @nadanuff5973
    @nadanuff5973 6 месяцев назад +10

    Fast and pray ppl!

  • @macm2373
    @macm2373 6 месяцев назад +10

    It’s like that Peaches song…”F#&* The Pain Away!” 🙃I come from a creative Italian family, Italians are sensual. Culture plays a role in sexuality. In my youth, I played sports, cooked, danced, acted, read, & a writer. Still do many of these activities in my 40’s. A quote that enhances creativity & combined sensuality, when dancing, comes to mind: “Dancing is a vertical interpretation of a horizontal intention.” -Fred Astaire

  • @MageTheGoddess
    @MageTheGoddess 6 месяцев назад +8

    I began to understand this energy once I looked into my birth chart I have Lilith in Scorpio this pair makes my energy sexual without trying I have dealt with this since I was a kid I suggest you ladies learn your birth chart and see what energies are influencing you this will help you be more aware of yourself I also have a womb cleanse playlist that helps with healing

  • @KelseyDelas
    @KelseyDelas 5 месяцев назад +4

    Wow, sadly I felt like you were speaking directly to me. 😢 Appreciate the knowledge though. Hoping for a change within myself 🙏.

  • @deeo-howard4608
    @deeo-howard4608 2 месяца назад +1

    Powerful message as usual! Thank you for explaining this in such a beautiful way. Your teachings are so valuable to the emotional support/healing of so many. May you continue to be blessed as you continue your own journey while blessing others 🙏💙

  • @IntentlyPurposeful
    @IntentlyPurposeful 6 месяцев назад +4

    I have been diagnosed. Thank you!

  • @SatumainenOlento
    @SatumainenOlento 6 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent video! This is me. I have come to the realisation a long time ago and started to heal this, but it is good to hear an other person explaining it so well and confirming it to me! Extremely useful video and it helps many to rise their vibration so that they can live more full lives! ❤❤❤ Thank you so much!

  • @blah7834
    @blah7834 6 месяцев назад +17

    But how do you heal your sacral is the question? Good video

    • @GoddessEnergy333
      @GoddessEnergy333 6 месяцев назад +7

      To heal your Sacral chakra you can start with first eating, raw and organic fruits and vegetables maybe you can fast… Then you want to surround yourself with colors, such as orange… Revisiting, childhood, or adulthood trauma that may have attributed to sacral chakra un alignment alignment..
      Usually when you’re sacral, chakra is out of alignment you experience, physical dysfunctions, such as pelvic pain, sciatica, impotence, urine, bladder, and kidney problems, chronic lower back pains, and gynecological problems.
      The location of the sacred chakra is usually 2 inches below the navel the element you should be working with is water like when you meditate maybe you can go to upon the beach just sit there and meditate on issues that you may need to heal and transmute into power… It’s all about transmuting pain into power..
      Essential oils such as Yiang yiang, lemon, sandalwood, rosewood, patchouli are good with working with the healing of the sacral chakras

  • @bosstravels3625¹
    @bosstravels3625¹ 6 месяцев назад +21

    So how do these men heal themselves of this low vibration energy seeking behavior

    • @stepfaniehawkins205
      @stepfaniehawkins205 6 месяцев назад

      They don't, that's a man's nature, it can't be changed...... But there are occasionally exceptions to the rule, men with a naturally elevated nature, that's like maybe 3% of dudes.
      God did not make men to be elevated and to have higher levels of consciousness....... Go read the Bible the only reason a man was made was to be a worker, man was not even created to love a woman. When he was created woman didn't even exist.
      This guy is full of crap anyway...... Sex elevated nothing but a man's ego for a moment........ What you're witnessing here is just straight-up male lies and gaslighting.
      Men rarely, if ever..... "elevate" above the 1st two or 3 chakras.

    • @dcaramelone
      @dcaramelone 6 месяцев назад +8

      Most men who suffer from this aren't trying to be healed. They see it as being a man.

  • @rebekahjette6304
    @rebekahjette6304 5 месяцев назад +1

    This makes a lot of sense!

  • @SD-rm5ty
    @SD-rm5ty 6 месяцев назад +9

    I had an ex say I reminded him of a sexy deer in headlights which after several very negative disrespectful interactions with men I'm understanding now what he meant by that basically that I give off prey vibes. Hopefully I don't anymore that was a few years ago.

  • @meektheminx
    @meektheminx 4 месяца назад +2

    Dammit kirk where were u last year 😂😂😂😂 I done learn this lesson the hard way

    • @buttaflyantics8618
      @buttaflyantics8618 3 месяца назад +1

      Last year!!?! Where's he been My whole life!!! 😂

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is so deep! This is very informative and wise! Ty for dropping 💎

  • @sonyablack6188
    @sonyablack6188 6 месяцев назад +10

    I don’t know a thing about chakras. I have not tried to understand that subject bc no one has ever said these words to me before this video. BUT I am every bit of the woman u described. All of it. Have even gained alot of weight and let myself go to try to avoid these types of men, how is this healing u speak of done? Can u explain it where women will understand? I wish someone could tell me how to fix myself from childhood sexual traumas. Talking about it does not fix it. Ignoring it does not fix it. I’m lost. And I want to hear ur thoughts…::

    • @juanitagonzalez8333
      @juanitagonzalez8333 6 месяцев назад +2

      How sad, invite Jesus into your heart.find you a king James Bible open it & .Read proverbs ask God to speak to your heart.he can heal the part of you that you didn't even know you needed to heal.

    • @Padel78
      @Padel78 Месяц назад

      Or healing via Therapy?

  • @tawandahaulcy8700
    @tawandahaulcy8700 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you..Next video can you explain how to get the energy flowing

  • @butaflydivat673
    @butaflydivat673 5 месяцев назад

    I needed this !!

  • @Hairitage2023
    @Hairitage2023 5 месяцев назад

    This content is extremely helpful. I have never heard this explanation from a man, about men who behave on a lower level all the time. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @natashaalexander694
    @natashaalexander694 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are freakin amazing!!!! God bless you in all areas of your life 🎉❤

  • @lindazeisky3845
    @lindazeisky3845 5 месяцев назад

    Wow, thank you!

  • @buttaflyantics8618
    @buttaflyantics8618 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow this was very interesting.

  • @eveimaginaire
    @eveimaginaire 6 месяцев назад +1

    woooow thank you soooo much.. i was wondering about this for the past 2 days and i couldnt figure it out but now i understand so much better! love ur videos very inspiring and refreshhhing😇🫂🙌🏿

  • @whitneybrown3225
    @whitneybrown3225 6 месяцев назад +3

    And I saw the energy as well, but once I learned how to transmute that energy and focus on my other gifts and talent, I stopped thinking about sex and found myself happier than before!

  • @kingltllifalami6884
    @kingltllifalami6884 6 месяцев назад

    😮 i encountered that problem, Thank you for helping me 🙏

  • @Finefiftyplus
    @Finefiftyplus 5 месяцев назад

    Well said, true, I've learned thanks👍

  • @alomalashley1185
    @alomalashley1185 6 месяцев назад +3

    Potent advice😮 thank you. How to heal the sacral chakra tho?

  • @Ms.Kelle_
    @Ms.Kelle_ 6 месяцев назад +1

    Very deep message

  • @deeo-howard4608
    @deeo-howard4608 2 месяца назад

    Healing begins with self-care and self-love. When you accept your self awareness you'll have the option to stop allowing sexual attractions to become distractions. The power is in the choices you make. Your choices may negatively affect others as well (karma). Be conscious of when to put your emotions aside, otherwise you will cloud your thoughts of making the right choices. Some men have trauma energy as well so be careful you don't become the dump site for that energy as well. Be safe.

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 5 месяцев назад

    So True

  • @Netta322
    @Netta322 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you Kirk!! 🥰

  • @tendaiMufandaedza-ku4gr
    @tendaiMufandaedza-ku4gr 5 месяцев назад

    Very true

  • @katrinadent953
    @katrinadent953 6 месяцев назад +2

    Well said. How do we release that energy?

  • @sunamethyst283
    @sunamethyst283 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx 6 месяцев назад +6

    @00:30 females are supposed to be sensitive and emotional, heck males are emotional! Hint: anger and hatred are emotions, and hint, males do get sad and/or nervous, they were just taught to hide it best! Btw, being hot-headed is extremely emotional, and many males operate out of this sad/insecure place!
    What do you mean by sensitive or emotional? Females should Not have any feelings?

  • @michelleneal8363
    @michelleneal8363 6 месяцев назад

    Such a strong word....

  • @changingworldllc1157
    @changingworldllc1157 5 месяцев назад

    Wow these videos next level

  • @hope-miracles
    @hope-miracles 6 месяцев назад +2

    Big bro!! You out here saving lives!! Please keep doing this work. I’m learning so much. N for the record your delivery is very genuine so even though it’s a little bitter it’s def easy to receive. Much thanks 💯💪🏾🪴✨

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 6 месяцев назад +2

    Yep I hear you. I think I got that and I think I like it 😊
    What? I'm just saying !!!

  • @selenarivers4262
    @selenarivers4262 6 месяцев назад

    Yes happy i ran cross this page first person i heard speak on this some i been saying

  • @aspiringrootwoman24
    @aspiringrootwoman24 5 месяцев назад

    I think I'm using it to elevate too 😮 at least the dopamine spikes ... But lately I'm letting that sacral chakra energy drive my creativity to new heights. I want to be powerful in both creativity and sexual energy though. Balanced but high in both.

  • @GwendolynPearson-wo9cx
    @GwendolynPearson-wo9cx 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow wow it amazing how you know aĺ of this

  • @tanesharichardson9487
    @tanesharichardson9487 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is me! Thank you for this truth!,, 🙏🏽❤️✊🏽. How do I heal now? How do get the sexual energy unstuck? Thank you so very much!

  • @angieD9674
    @angieD9674 6 месяцев назад +3

    Maybe its just their dirty minds it's for them to keep in check & control

  • @Shantalle-tk9vc
    @Shantalle-tk9vc 6 месяцев назад +2

    So how do you fix that area to unblock so it flows freely?

  • @dona_grace
    @dona_grace 6 месяцев назад +5

    Baby I don’t know what you’re doing but you rushed thru that too fast. We need an hour long of this one, with a bit more of an explanation of how to raise my vibration after such traumas. And on why abstaining from sex affects our creativity. This me and I’m as tired as you said. I’ve made a decision to remain abstinent until further notice, self control never stronger, but I do still like to flirt, I love the chase and I like to be in male company. It’s all so frustrating at times.

  • @cherihopkins9278
    @cherihopkins9278 5 месяцев назад

    💯‼️

  • @napagaportuphy8509
    @napagaportuphy8509 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @ml07
    @ml07 6 месяцев назад +1

    And here I was thinking it was because of my body type or at least it’s what I’ve always been told 👀
    I am not emotional though and stay reserved and to myself to avoid any attention, very do it myself type of person but this makes sense… how to I release this energy stored?

  • @novizivot3631
    @novizivot3631 3 месяца назад

    This is me.

  • @keonarackley9961
    @keonarackley9961 6 месяцев назад

    Confirmation 🙌❤️

  • @sylviabarnett760
    @sylviabarnett760 6 месяцев назад +1

    Good evening Kirk

  • @kathycoates4333
    @kathycoates4333 6 месяцев назад

    Facts💯💯💯❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @denises3779
    @denises3779 5 месяцев назад +1

    Men are drawn by energy...ladies be conscious of your energy

  • @starduster2138
    @starduster2138 5 месяцев назад

    Do shadow work. Also scientifically men were created for procreation so by nature they will be sexually driven. This I say with all do respect and the intention to use logic verses emotions. Much of what we’ve learned is white male patriarchal philosophy and we all outta whack at present. This is a great topic and a loaded discussion. Hopefully we’ll get there someday real soon to overstand. Peace Love Power and Protection 💫👏🏽 Gratitude for my sisters AND brothers 💚💜💪🏽

  • @MsLeBra-qj9pn
    @MsLeBra-qj9pn 4 месяца назад

    This video is for me,today
    Some one just told me this....04/24/24
    T.Y.

  • @Soul.Is.Willing
    @Soul.Is.Willing 6 месяцев назад +1

    What does one do?

  • @cheryljoseph726
    @cheryljoseph726 4 месяца назад

    How do you change/raise your Chakra

  • @Jacqxzdiva1
    @Jacqxzdiva1 6 месяцев назад

    Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. That is how we rise. Release your distractions. They are wasting your time.

  • @sweetpea7362
    @sweetpea7362 6 месяцев назад +1

    How do you balance your energy?

  • @cheryljoseph726
    @cheryljoseph726 5 месяцев назад

    How do you raise your energy

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx 6 месяцев назад +3

    How the heck is sexual and creative energy aka 🎨 related?

  • @sagittariuswoman8766
    @sagittariuswoman8766 6 месяцев назад +3

    Can you talk about men who only 🤔 wants one night 🌙 stands. Do they have remorse on how they treat a woman during a one night stand. Why disrespect a woman, when they have been friends for years.

  • @yudollia
    @yudollia 6 месяцев назад +1

    I dont understand why sensitivity equals sexual availability

    • @sonofhibbs4425
      @sonofhibbs4425 6 месяцев назад +4

      I don’t know why either but I’m guessing sensitivity reads as vulnerability, which to a predator reads as sexual availability. Just guessing though. Femininity is vulnerability.

    • @yudollia
      @yudollia 6 месяцев назад

      @@sonofhibbs4425thats makes a lot of sense! I guess they think sensitivity = no logic which is completely wrong because having emotions is a completely logical response . Fortunately for me I have never been easy for anyone , ever

    • @yudollia
      @yudollia 6 месяцев назад

      Sensitivity also means some are more disgusted by the thought of sex or sharing bodily fluids 🤣🤣🤣

  • @prettytings8216
    @prettytings8216 5 месяцев назад

    Men are visual. When i got fat and my butt got big nasty men who like butts. I'm skinnier now i like being skinnier. If I'm celibate and dont release it they pick up on frustration. When i dated my ex and was unsatisfied with him maube guys felt it.

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 6 месяцев назад

    I got no traumas excuse me please

  • @sarahm8595
    @sarahm8595 6 месяцев назад +1

    4:10 this sound like blaming. I think you bring a lot to your channel. Men are made the way they are...hunters. women can say "No"

  • @saratalibi2935
    @saratalibi2935 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you