It's 2024 and there are so many ways a man can cook for himself. Air fryers and RUclips and so many different ways. Why is it cooking has to just honestly be a womans job?? Since you said which I agree we should take financial responsibility for ourselves. However your ability to cook and feed yourself is just as equally viewed the same. 💜✌🏾
prolly a lot of boys been raised without this life skill. So they develop into men who cannot feed themselves and need the opposite sex to meet those needs.
Well said, I was thinking the same thing. It's 2024, and a woman should be able to provide for herself. Otherwise, it's a red flag. Hum! But at the same time, she MUST cook because these same men consider themselves traditional. Finally, it's a "pick and choose" mentality! Me, I will always stick to my standards: a man is supposed to do the 3Ps: provide, protect, and provide. A woman: submit, respect, and manage the vision of her husband and household. Put the people and things in their right places!
None apply to me but im single and cant get a man to commit. Im also feminine, submissive, no kids, have a career, patient, kind, softspoken,all natural, never wear wigs or makeup ( just lipstick) and generous. They always commit to woman with all the opposite qualities. Im not excited about the man that is interested in me now , i know he will not choose me. He will more than likely choose someone with the opposite qualities. 😢
Exactly, they say one thing, but do another. This is exactly why I'm myself and don't behave a certain way just because a man wants me to. I'm not submissive, I'm not always quiet, I have a great sense of humor, I'm smart, I'm sometimes goofy and when I'm quiet, you better watch out. This is me and if a man doesn't like it, he can step off. 🤷🏾♀️🥴
Exactly this! I don't care what comes out of men's mouths anymore. They consistently choose the type of women they claim are red flags, and WHEN they get burned, they claim ALL women are the same instead of the ones they choose. They're full of it!
I'm told that I'm intimidating by several men. I'm 69, you would think I should have a house, car, n no medication, work out, no bills and some learned sense. You would think that this is good,- I am thinking mature power couple, but they run as fast as possible to get away from me. It's not fair, that we should be needy to have a man , just because I have these things doesn't mean that a man is not needed or wanted in my life. I have stopped trying to figure men out. 🤔🤔🤔
Maybe change your mindset don't always expect the worse if you take you serious and think you qualify no matter what the situations is and you really believe you a wife and carry that out and stand on it then someone will take you serious have to go to the man that also serious thay exactly want marriage and to be a husband. Theres plenty of women waiting to like you and now are also waitin till they find the that person and they stil waiting and there's women that waitied n have received so stay encouraged some receive al little sooner but if they can get that chance so can you. Pray as well on it ans let God lead you in that area i know that im working on me before so when i do run into that man i know im ready i have a understanding of these things with marriage relationships remember God made you with a plan and a purpose !!!! Jeremiah 29:11
Even if it takin a little longer do you mind embracing the journey the process of where you are at. Continue to feed your mind and spirit with things that helpin you gain more confidence love insight self awareness and encouragement. . Of course you dont have to be perfect for the one that takes you serious he just has to see that you serious about you you love you first and take care of you first and fittin for his life. purpose and vision . . Theres men all.over the world for not atleast one to take you serious.. you have to neglect and tune out them negative repsonses and voices in your head to the questions you have or whatever concerns you .. sometimes we can feed on a lie not even know it. I know alot of times some women who was in they prime will.have alot of men in they prime and even dated good ones and sometime we miss those opportunities and chances. And what you sayin it being jaded you are gettim jaded because of the men that have ran off walked out ya life. Dont make that make you feel unsure about yourself and what you bring and pay attention to these situations with men you do deal with to figure out whats causing these things to go bad and another thing most importantly there intentions. .. words and actions should line up!
I had a guy I was talking to who told me that I was one of 4 women that he was talking to and that every woman that he ended up in a relationship with he claimed he slept with on the first night or within 2 weeks of knowing each other. I told him that I thought men didn’t respect women like that and he said that wasn’t true. Long story short he stopped talking to me since I told him that I had never had a one night stand and would never sleep with a man on the first night, nor would I sleep with him within two weeks 🤦🏽♀️ I definitely dodged a bullet! I also met a guy who said he didn’t care whether or not a woman had a job and a car. I’m so confused.😂
You give a refreshing basic look not complicated on the relationship unlike a lot of these youtubers causing confusion thats way people cant stay together now getting the wrong info i love your simple break down very refreshing and stimulating i am definitely all in 👀💪👍💯.
NONE OF THESE APPLY TO ME.... I work....no kids...can cook ..don't go out..have one good friend because ppl these days can't be trusted....my home is clean...I love to cut grass and do yardwork...( I was raised in the country in a farm) when I cook all a man has to do is come to the table...plate is there waiting on him ...and I have to go through it because other women hurt this man and he's afraid....tells me my love is scary because of all the things I'll do for a man ...like bruh.....just enjoy it!!! WHY are you afraid??!!!! You're gonna miss out!!!!🥴
As a woman, one thing that’s so important is to cook, and not just for your men. What if the power goes down? No Doordash, no fast food, etc. Do yourself a favor and learn. Great video and points mentioned. 🙌🇯🇲🇹🇹
Amen Kirk!!! 🙌 Agreed with all! I can cook & was raised in the kitchen with my huge Italian family; will only cook for those that are worth now. 😂 Dumped men who are messy! I’m too OCD, it’s gross! No excuse for a mess. The rest I can’t relate to as I’ve been choosy who gets my time, attention, & energy since childhood. My parents raised me with the mentality, “Better a Snob than a Slob!”😂😜
On so many levels, you are so on point❤ thanks for sharing. And any woman that feel a certain way about any of these red flags prolly need to get their act together if they want a quality relationship, periodt
I would like to say that ALL he has said is definitely TRUE. If women stuck to the rules like men have for women, many women would be in a successful relationship. So I have sarcastically wrote the points he said to not do. (Disclaimer: all comments are texted in fun.) I support and listen to his advice because truth doesn't change or pass away. 10 major red flags 🚩 men perceive with women they’re dating. 1.) Many Male friends- Male Insecurities. Males are waiting for their turn. 2.) Asking for Money Early- She knows what she wants. 3.) A woman Gives up the sex to early- Experienced, looking for a team player. 4.) Many Kids- Of course baby daddies are around. Doesn't matter if she was married twice and both husband are remarried and she is a foster mom. And takes care of her sisters kids because the mom lost custody. 5.) She loves to dance- No more house parties. Or Stepping 6.) A Lady that has been lied to so much- she is caution. She just needs to observe quietly. men can usually keep up a front for about 6months then true colors shows. 7.) Exes are trash-Men believe you pick badly. . . . Stop looking for the good in everyone- trauma bonding. 8.) Can't provide for self- might have an illness. or play to many scratch offs, 9.) Messy house- no excuse running late for work because she came home late from a church revival.And she works 2 jobs. 10.) Has to cook- subway, KFC, Popeyes, Grocery store buffett is out the window. having a private chefs are no excuse. 11.) Outside Half dressed, always twerking and butt pics- means your one step away from an Only Fans Page. LOL
🎉 any man that puts u down & don't want u bc of ur divorces or baby daddies etc. He's very weak. Ur past won't turn-off a real m. aka the m. GOD has for u. Period!
No man wants marriage nowadays. Should I conform to this living-together lifestyle ? 2. I always got lil compliments and gazes. Nobody tried to have conversations with me beyond a greeting. Now, others are all up in my face until since this one man started giving me consistent public attention. What is that ?
There is much more to be said about this very issue you raise, but to put it super shortly - Don't conform! Thrive and vibe and work on getting your life together, your education, your livelihood and - your relationship with your Creator! That is the most important for every human,at the end of the day, beyond the grave we won't take any bf/GF/wife or husband! This lifetime is given to each one of us to prepare for eternity.
What if they just invite him over and they have conversation laugh and talk and it's too late for him to go home is it okay that this person would let them lay in the bed with their clothes on and sleep beside each other I feel that it's a red flag and the person never called this person back anymore
You lost me a couple of times, and I disagree with you on these points. Even in this day and age, women still don't get paid equally to men. If a man is expecting a woman to cook then why isn't he providing for her? You're saying a woman has to work and then come home and cook. How about a man cooking for a woman? That would be nice for a change.
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It's 2024 and there are so many ways a man can cook for himself. Air fryers and RUclips and so many different ways. Why is it cooking has to just honestly be a womans job?? Since you said which I agree we should take financial responsibility for ourselves. However your ability to cook and feed yourself is just as equally viewed the same. 💜✌🏾
prolly a lot of boys been raised without this life skill. So they develop into men who cannot feed themselves and need the opposite sex to meet those needs.
Well said, I was thinking the same thing. It's 2024, and a woman should be able to provide for herself. Otherwise, it's a red flag. Hum! But at the same time, she MUST cook because these same men consider themselves traditional. Finally, it's a "pick and choose" mentality! Me, I will always stick to my standards: a man is supposed to do the 3Ps: provide, protect, and provide. A woman: submit, respect, and manage the vision of her husband and household. Put the people and things in their right places!
I agree and these same red flags are vice versa for a man!!!
Equally applicable 💯
None apply to me but im single and cant get a man to commit. Im also feminine, submissive, no kids, have a career, patient, kind, softspoken,all natural, never wear wigs or makeup ( just lipstick) and generous. They always commit to woman with all the opposite qualities. Im not excited about the man that is interested in me now , i know he will not choose me. He will more than likely choose someone with the opposite qualities. 😢
Exactly, they say one thing, but do another. This is exactly why I'm myself and don't behave a certain way just because a man wants me to. I'm not submissive, I'm not always quiet, I have a great sense of humor, I'm smart, I'm sometimes goofy and when I'm quiet, you better watch out. This is me and if a man doesn't like it, he can step off. 🤷🏾♀️🥴
Exactly this! I don't care what comes out of men's mouths anymore. They consistently choose the type of women they claim are red flags, and WHEN they get burned, they claim ALL women are the same instead of the ones they choose. They're full of it!
I'm told that I'm intimidating by several men. I'm 69, you would think I should have a house, car, n no medication, work out, no bills and some learned sense. You would think that this is good,- I am thinking mature power couple, but they run as fast as possible to get away from me. It's not fair, that we should be needy to have a man , just because I have these things doesn't mean that a man is not needed or wanted in my life. I have stopped trying to figure men out. 🤔🤔🤔
Maybe change your mindset don't always expect the worse if you take you serious and think you qualify no matter what the situations is and you really believe you a wife and carry that out and stand on it then someone will take you serious have to go to the man that also serious thay exactly want marriage and to be a husband. Theres plenty of women waiting to like you and now are also waitin till they find the that person and they stil waiting and there's women that waitied n have received so stay encouraged some receive al little sooner but if they can get that chance so can you. Pray as well on it ans let God lead you in that area i know that im working on me before so when i do run into that man i know im ready i have a understanding of these things with marriage relationships remember God made you with a plan and a purpose !!!! Jeremiah 29:11
Even if it takin a little longer do you mind embracing the journey the process of where you are at. Continue to feed your mind and spirit with things that helpin you gain more confidence love insight self awareness and encouragement. . Of course you dont have to be perfect for the one that takes you serious he just has to see that you serious about you you love you first and take care of you first and fittin for his life. purpose and vision . . Theres men all.over the world for not atleast one to take you serious.. you have to neglect and tune out them negative repsonses and voices in your head to the questions you have or whatever concerns you .. sometimes we can feed on a lie not even know it. I know alot of times some women who was in they prime will.have alot of men in they prime and even dated good ones and sometime we miss those opportunities and chances. And what you sayin it being jaded you are gettim jaded because of the men that have ran off walked out ya life. Dont make that make you feel unsure about yourself and what you bring and pay attention to these situations with men you do deal with to figure out whats causing these things to go bad and another thing most importantly there intentions. .. words and actions should line up!
I had a guy I was talking to who told me that I was one of 4 women that he was talking to and that every woman that he ended up in a relationship with he claimed he slept with on the first night or within 2 weeks of knowing each other. I told him that I thought men didn’t respect women like that and he said that wasn’t true. Long story short he stopped talking to me since I told him that I had never had a one night stand and would never sleep with a man on the first night, nor would I sleep with him within two weeks 🤦🏽♀️ I definitely dodged a bullet! I also met a guy who said he didn’t care whether or not a woman had a job and a car. I’m so confused.😂
You give a refreshing basic look not complicated on the relationship unlike a lot of these youtubers causing confusion thats way people cant stay together now getting the wrong info i love your simple break down very refreshing and stimulating i am definitely all in 👀💪👍💯.
Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾
You just confirmed what i already felt about men’s general red flags and it makes sense honestly.
NONE OF THESE APPLY TO ME.... I work....no kids...can cook ..don't go out..have one good friend because ppl these days can't be trusted....my home is clean...I love to cut grass and do yardwork...( I was raised in the country in a farm) when I cook all a man has to do is come to the table...plate is there waiting on him ...and I have to go through it because other women hurt this man and he's afraid....tells me my love is scary because of all the things I'll do for a man ...like bruh.....just enjoy it!!! WHY are you afraid??!!!! You're gonna miss out!!!!🥴
I feel you on that. It’s sad
AMEN 🙏 PRAISE THE LORD FOR OUR BEAUTIFUL QUALITIES ❤️
That means he’s not the man for you
@@brielax4441 you're entitled to your opinion but you don't know the WHOLE story...and he IS the man for me.
" but damn"😂😂 " too much"
As a woman, one thing that’s so important is to cook, and not just for your men. What if the power goes down? No Doordash, no fast food, etc. Do yourself a favor and learn.
Great video and points mentioned.
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I totally agree sensei! I do the same for men. I’m glad you are being honest and transparent, like always!
Amen Kirk!!! 🙌 Agreed with all! I can cook & was raised in the kitchen with my huge Italian family; will only cook for those that are worth now. 😂 Dumped men who are messy! I’m too OCD, it’s gross! No excuse for a mess. The rest I can’t relate to as I’ve been choosy who gets my time, attention, & energy since childhood. My parents raised me with the mentality, “Better a Snob than a Slob!”😂😜
Agree 💯 u explain very well I do like your video nuff information. Thanks💯
Good video and valid points! 🎯
On so many levels, you are so on point❤ thanks for sharing. And any woman that feel a certain way about any of these red flags prolly need to get their act together if they want a quality relationship, periodt
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Exactly because the combative comments are very telling
That's why alot of men in old age end up on their own, too busy Judging women in their past relationships....
You're correct these things should be looked at before getting into a relationship
I would like to say that ALL he has said is definitely TRUE. If women stuck to the rules like men have for women, many women would be in a successful relationship.
So I have sarcastically wrote the points he said to not do. (Disclaimer: all comments are texted in fun.)
I support and listen to his advice because truth doesn't change or pass away.
10 major red flags 🚩 men perceive with women they’re dating.
1.) Many Male friends- Male Insecurities. Males are waiting for their turn.
2.) Asking for Money Early- She knows what she wants.
3.) A woman Gives up the sex to early- Experienced, looking for a team player.
4.) Many Kids- Of course baby daddies are around. Doesn't matter if she was married twice and both husband are remarried and she is a foster mom. And takes care of her sisters kids because the mom lost custody.
5.) She loves to dance- No more house parties. Or Stepping
6.) A Lady that has been lied to so much- she is caution. She just needs to observe quietly. men can usually keep up a front for about 6months then true colors shows.
7.) Exes are trash-Men believe you pick badly. . . . Stop looking for the good in everyone- trauma bonding.
8.) Can't provide for self- might have an illness. or play to many scratch offs,
9.) Messy house- no excuse running late for work because she came home late from a church revival.And she works 2 jobs.
10.) Has to cook- subway, KFC, Popeyes, Grocery store buffett is out the window. having a private chefs are no excuse.
11.) Outside Half dressed, always twerking and butt pics- means your one step away from an Only Fans Page. LOL
"Nailed It"!!
I agree thank you!
No.9 reminds me of that Friend's episode with Ross and the dirty girl 😂 🤣
Great video,very informative 👍thanks for sharing Sir ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
I agree all the red flags is true❤
🎉 any man that puts u down & don't want u bc of ur divorces or baby daddies etc. He's very weak. Ur past won't turn-off a real m. aka the m. GOD has for u. Period!
That’s not true. Many women don’t wanna deal with a man with multiple baby mommas either. It doesn’t make them weak, it’s a preference.
I agree.
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“Raggedy” dudes 😂😂😂
No man wants marriage nowadays.
Should I conform to this living-together lifestyle ?
2. I always got lil compliments and gazes.
Nobody tried to have conversations with me beyond a greeting.
Now, others are all up in my face until since this one man started giving me consistent public attention. What is that ?
There is much more to be said about this very issue you raise, but to put it super shortly - Don't conform! Thrive and vibe and work on getting your life together, your education, your livelihood and - your relationship with your Creator! That is the most important for every human,at the end of the day, beyond the grave we won't take any bf/GF/wife or husband! This lifetime is given to each one of us to prepare for eternity.
@@AmericanDreamer thank you so much !!!
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😂😂😂 would you just list😂
What if they just invite him over and they have conversation laugh and talk and it's too late for him to go home is it okay that this person would let them lay in the bed with their clothes on and sleep beside each other I feel that it's a red flag and the person never called this person back anymore
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What about when you just meet a man in 3 weeks and he’s already asking for some money from you.
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Haha seems like to me the toys are the one that’s getting married these days 🤷🏽♀️
You lost me a couple of times, and I disagree with you on these points. Even in this day and age, women still don't get paid equally to men. If a man is expecting a woman to cook then why isn't he providing for her? You're saying a woman has to work and then come home and cook. How about a man cooking for a woman? That would be nice for a change.