While most women appreciate these videos on how to engage with men romantically, I have to dispel a little gaslighting when I see it: Ladies, let’s not fall for the okey-doke about a man’s testosterone controlling his conscious mind. If a man sees you, is attracted, approaches you and leads you to believe he wants a relationship but then as soon as he gets the loving, leaves you…he was scheming all along. Let’s not blame a hormone over the powerful mind and choices of a whole grown man. If we keep our legs closed until commitment, that will ward off a lot of playas.
Just stay single and don't ever give him anything. Even if you wait to give him what he wants, the guy still ends up getting bored and moving on to the next. It's not worth the BS.
Even us men feel like that. We are here dealing with women who want no commitment, they look you dead in the eyes and tell you they will bang you but they want no strings attached, but they want to waste your time and have you take them out to expensive resturants, shopping and all that crap. Money I can make back but time is precious when you have 2 jobs and a business to run to be wasting time on women that are liabilities rather than assets to your life. I see your point don’t get me wrong but both genders are playing games and are both losing
I think the key to life is too not expect anything from any human except for yourself. Men are not worth the stress they give. It’s better to keep yourself healthy and happy.
Absolutely, it's beautiful you get to see the side they pretend to be, charming delightful and generous. If you slow it down the fake ones, players, those in relationships will get tired of play acting 🎬 and disappear. They will ALWAYS show their true self eventually if you observe and let them lead.
Some men intentionally do this. I had one guy say, why don’t you chase me. Turns out, he had mental problems, very insecure and always needed reassurance and someone chasing him.
I'm glad I no longer care. When a man pull back he gets BLOCKED AND DELETED. It's sad relationships now are nothing but mere games instead of partnership
@@ninaziva4639 False and I'm saying this as a woman. Most men do, and those most men aren't just ready. That same man who ghosted you, you'll find him after a few years with woman, married and all. He wasn't meant for you, that's all. As soon as we understand this, all is good... just move on and meet people, be good and work you keeping yourself healthy (mind and body), a man who's ready (who might have ghosted or ended stuff, "pulled back",etc) will definitely stick up with you.
Love this message and love that women are realizing that giving it up is a bad idea. Make him wait and prove that he's serious. If he's not, he'll drop off.
The consistency and reassurance is missing from a lot of men. They don't understand that is what is needed if they want women to tolerate distance. Distance to us seems like men are hiding how they really feel. Sure, you can sort out your emotions on your own, but honest, deep communication is still needed. That is the foundation of a healthy, mature, emotionally safe relationship.
I’ve learned their communication is through action. I’ve rarely met a man who could match my verbal communication. As this man implies, pay attention to what they DO. When a man is consistent, he wants you. When he’s distant, he doesn’t.
I understand what he's talking about now. The feminine energy and the masculinity of a man in giving to him. I realize this, I would be on 💯 and he would be way behind . I have to look back and check myself. If I want to give I will give to myself.
Last summer I hit it off with a family friend. I knew him for a while but we never hung out. We decided to date and he sent me flowers and took me out often. Well as soon as he gave me the key to his house he pulled back his energy. Idk if he wanted me to chase him but I let him know I dont chase. He said he didn't know how to be in a relationship so I gave him his key back until he's ready 😊 He made me feel inadequate
So true... Never lower your standards, want for nothing, and you do see it's all friends with benefits. Marriage is investing in each other to accomplish more together. ❤️💜❤️
I’m 53 and these videos have helped me so much. After divorcing I admit I became a lil desperate to want someone, ended up with a whole narc and dabbled in that over a year. A year of mostly misery. Discovered these coaches and became so much wiser and smarter when it comes to dealing with Men. New subbie 🎊 you make much sense.
It’s best to accept the reality/outcome often times we are driven by our egos/neediness that we over do our role. I leave people alone often & do my own thing & if they want to talk then we talk. When you chill out folks come back real quick lol I apply this to all interpersonal relationships.
Men put women in categories almost immediately. Men usually don’t tell you their intentions but they know very quickly and post-nut clarity is absolutely a real thing. Understand that if the energy is not “hell yes” then assume it’s “hell no”.
Many men do not want to give, they will lift their hat and leave quickly even at the thought of giving..They will only stay as long as there are no indications of them giving...
The last time I told my ex partner I don’t want to be in a relationship, I was fighting for my life in hospital, he didn’t try to change he just got violent
Thank you Sooooo much Good Man ❤ i truly appreciate ALLL ur videos especially this one bc im a BIG GIVER, bc thats just who i am but THISSS helps out a lot!!! Ur the only one keeping it THIS real... Most men will NEVER say they fell in love wit ur "hand" but keep taking but MATCHING the EFFORT males soooo much sense!!! Yessss!!! Ladies BOSSS UP 💯 THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL KING 👑 and GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY 🙏
Thank you for dapling more into that topic of matching the effort. I was just meeting someone when I first heard it from another video of yours, and I actually decided to bow out of that situation being that it was just 3 days from the number exchange to his good mornings without further conversation.
I really like the things you've been saying on your platforms. You popped up on my feed when I was listening to Miss Faye, and I must say, I've been listening to you ever since. I did that exercise you suggested about looking in the eyes of my ex on their pictures and saying that I rebuke them being in my mind, spirit and ORA! Really needed to hear what I've been hearing from you. Bless ed. 🤗
Testosterone ugh. Hate it. Ooh so i should make him believe i am desperate then he will leave me alone. I don't want him but he keeps pushing. So peaceful without his vampire energy clouding my space.
What’s annoying is many of millennials grew up in an era where we were encouraged to explore our sexuality. One night stands could lead to relationships they said. And truly in my youth, there weren’t any consequences, guys always stuck around. However, in my thirties it’s been harder, things feel heavier. People have less opportunity for mistakes plus everything is more consequential. You have to go back to the 90 days.
I think about that sometimes....My experience was the guys sticking around too. Times have changed for sure and I'm not good at playing this new game of relationship monopoly; where there's a gamble at every turn and the game never ends. I rather stay single 🩷💜🩷💜
Women need to accept men for what they naturally are!! We have to understand how their biologically wired so we can move accordingly. Princella Clark teaches this beautifully
Unfortunately the wonderful, prolonged eye contact, smiles and hugs were simply manipulation. It started after MONTHS of knowing him. It was great til I figured him out. It is what it is.
Love is not all over the place , it's consistent and unchanging, Love is God . Seems like you've never experienced true love so you shouldn't speak on it and lead people down a path of destruction, be careful when you speak on Love because you speaking on God . ❤ All respectfully
Yes. His, this man's hormones may be speaking. His Libedo may be screaming... but he still can choose what Half of his body is he, allowing to be in control, . Lust of the Eyes & of the Flesh. This may partly a psychological, mental thing... but it's also a "Supernatural spirital Soultie power of wills. Power struggle. You want what you want when you want it... even of sex or whatever., of I ME MY Selfish intent agenda You know how far you want to go....!? But there's more than the art of Pursuasion Seduction Inticement. & for some, the Spirit of Entanglement. Set boundaries, don't be so easy hungry or thirsty. Don't give mixed signals. Only you need to know who & what & when you want to move. So there's no mixed signals. No assumption, or presumption pressure. So your not sorry for anything.
Think of it like entertaining a little boy. When little boys don’t get their way/the toy they want, they’ll try to charm their parent, they’ll beg, then if that doesn’t work, they’ll throw a fit. But if you ignore it and don’t give in they calm down or move on. He told you everything you need to know about his character..a big ass baby 😂
idk where those men at who want to give?>. Kirk bee mentioning them but - fr tho - where? ESPECIALLY with modern ''dating coaches', who now been teaching men to mistreat and degrade women @@saras.2173
Its true! You cannot chase anyone! Noatter howuch you like em DONT CHASE OR PUSH FORWARD! KEEP IT CUTE, SEXY AND STAY FLY ALWAYS! IF HE WANTS , HE WILL PURSUE YOU!
While most women appreciate these videos on how to engage with men romantically, I have to dispel a little gaslighting when I see it: Ladies, let’s not fall for the okey-doke about a man’s testosterone controlling his conscious mind. If a man sees you, is attracted, approaches you and leads you to believe he wants a relationship but then as soon as he gets the loving, leaves you…he was scheming all along. Let’s not blame a hormone over the powerful mind and choices of a whole grown man. If we keep our legs closed until commitment, that will ward off a lot of playas.
YES! THANK YOU!!
Let him go stop wasting your time move on with your life
Just stay single and don't ever give him anything. Even if you wait to give him what he wants, the guy still ends up getting bored and moving on to the next. It's not worth the BS.
I agree some men just don't care no matter what
Eye
Bull's eye
Even us men feel like that. We are here dealing with women who want no commitment, they look you dead in the eyes and tell you they will bang you but they want no strings attached, but they want to waste your time and have you take them out to expensive resturants, shopping and all that crap. Money I can make back but time is precious when you have 2 jobs and a business to run to be wasting time on women that are liabilities rather than assets to your life. I see your point don’t get me wrong but both genders are playing games and are both losing
Amen to that
Agreed
I think the key to life is too not expect anything from any human except for yourself. Men are not worth the stress they give. It’s better to keep yourself healthy and happy.
Yes exactly! And I couldn’t help but notice how beautiful you are! @Leahmoonbeamflower
@@vmjames712 oh ☺️thank you.
I never chase a man. I have my pride. If he pulls back,I pull back too.
I LOVE matching a man's efforts. I will fall back, its an art.
I dont lol but I'll do it til i get bored myself too...where i just stopped caring anymore
Like a slow dance. I didn’t understand the energetic dance until my mid 30’s.
Absolutely, it's beautiful you get to see the side they pretend to be, charming delightful and generous. If you slow it down the fake ones, players, those in relationships will get tired of play acting 🎬 and disappear. They will ALWAYS show their true self eventually if you observe and let them lead.
I think he is dead on with this video.
IN REAL LIFE
Some men intentionally do this. I had one guy say, why don’t you chase me. Turns out, he had mental problems, very insecure and always needed reassurance and someone chasing him.
😅
Don’t GIVE IN AT ALL to avoid this ladies!!!
“You’ve been distant, I don’t want you no more.”
I'm glad I no longer care. When a man pull back he gets BLOCKED AND DELETED. It's sad relationships now are nothing but mere games instead of partnership
If a man pulls back, block and delete. There is absolutely no time for this.
🎯
All men do that at some point. So you'll just end up alone if you do that.
@@ninaziva4639 how do you know its all men?
@@ninaziva4639 so?
@@ninaziva4639 False and I'm saying this as a woman. Most men do, and those most men aren't just ready. That same man who ghosted you, you'll find him after a few years with woman, married and all. He wasn't meant for you, that's all. As soon as we understand this, all is good... just move on and meet people, be good and work you keeping yourself healthy (mind and body), a man who's ready (who might have ghosted or ended stuff, "pulled back",etc) will definitely stick up with you.
Love this message and love that women are realizing that giving it up is a bad idea. Make him wait and prove that he's serious. If he's not, he'll drop off.
The consistency and reassurance is missing from a lot of men. They don't understand that is what is needed if they want women to tolerate distance. Distance to us seems like men are hiding how they really feel. Sure, you can sort out your emotions on your own, but honest, deep communication is still needed. That is the foundation of a healthy, mature, emotionally safe relationship.
Pepo
So true!
I’ve learned their communication is through action. I’ve rarely met a man who could match my verbal communication. As this man implies, pay attention to what they DO. When a man is consistent, he wants you. When he’s distant, he doesn’t.
I love these types of videos on men. It really helps me understand
I understand what he's talking about now. The feminine energy and the masculinity of a man in giving to him. I realize this, I would be on 💯 and he would be way behind . I have to look back and check myself. If I want to give I will give to myself.
Same! I'm all in
Men in there 60s still trying to play games as well they are no different
Amen
Amen Amen Amen!
True
Last summer I hit it off with a family friend. I knew him for a while but we never hung out. We decided to date and he sent me flowers and took me out often. Well as soon as he gave me the key to his house he pulled back his energy. Idk if he wanted me to chase him but I let him know I dont chase. He said he didn't know how to be in a relationship so I gave him his key back until he's ready 😊 He made me feel inadequate
I know how you feel
So true... Never lower your standards, want for nothing, and you do see it's all friends with benefits. Marriage is investing in each other to accomplish more together. ❤️💜❤️
I’m 53 and these videos have helped me so much. After divorcing I admit I became a lil desperate to want someone, ended up with a whole narc and dabbled in that over a year. A year of mostly misery. Discovered these coaches and became so much wiser and smarter when it comes to dealing with Men. New subbie 🎊 you make much sense.
This is sooooo true. I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE. IM 47 YO. THIS IS FACTS. I ENDORSE THIS MESSAGE....
It’s best to accept the reality/outcome often times we are driven by our egos/neediness that we over do our role. I leave people alone often & do my own thing & if they want to talk then we talk. When you chill out folks come back real quick lol I apply this to all interpersonal relationships.
This is the sort of thing that makes me glad I'm ace. If there's no sx there's no bull 💩.
Men put women in categories almost immediately. Men usually don’t tell you their intentions but they know very quickly and post-nut clarity is absolutely a real thing. Understand that if the energy is not “hell yes” then assume it’s “hell no”.
Many men do not want to give, they will lift their hat and leave quickly even at the thought of giving..They will only stay as long as there are no indications of them giving...
If a Man says he found someone then I will certainly leave him alone. Thank You.
Such beautiful truths, Boss! I am so eager to understand this! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽💯🥇👏🏽
You are so welcome
Put feelings to the side match a man's effort that part thank you sir
The last time I told my ex partner I don’t want to be in a relationship, I was fighting for my life in hospital, he didn’t try to change he just got violent
The thing with women... it's my opinion...we are wired to Love unconditionally our babies...to see and project their potential!
Be a woman...not a Mom
Thank you Sooooo much Good Man ❤ i truly appreciate ALLL ur videos especially this one bc im a BIG GIVER, bc thats just who i am but THISSS helps out a lot!!! Ur the only one keeping it THIS real... Most men will NEVER say they fell in love wit ur "hand" but keep taking but MATCHING the EFFORT males soooo much sense!!! Yessss!!! Ladies BOSSS UP 💯 THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL KING 👑 and GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY 🙏
I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THESE FUKED UP GAMES
DAMN RIGHT!!
I love listening to this man talk. His voice soothes my spirit for some reason.
Thank you, I appreciate what you
had to say.
You are so welcome
I experienced it. I wish I heard your message before.
😂Wow that is true my Teacher❤️
🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Love your advise....great stuff....refreshing info....thx
Glad it was helpful!❤️❤️
Thank you for dapling more into that topic of matching the effort. I was just meeting someone when I first heard it from another video of yours, and I actually decided to bow out of that situation being that it was just 3 days from the number exchange to his good mornings without further conversation.
Thanks for sharing! Very smart of you to do. Sometimes we just gotta bow out
Thank you for helping women understand men. Loved this
Facts💯💯💯 so true especially for a giver from the heart 😯😊 not speaking of the sex😂
😂😂😂We say curiousity killed a cat
I can see clearly now. Thank you Kirk!!
Beautiful 🥰 Thank you so much coach 🙏🏽💖 I'm learning, healing. I feel calmer in dating.
It’s so true. Thank you brother ❤
I just love the stuff you say
I really like the things you've been saying on your platforms. You popped up on my feed when I was listening to Miss Faye, and I must say, I've been listening to you ever since. I did that exercise you suggested about looking in the eyes of my ex on their pictures and saying that I rebuke them being in my mind, spirit and ORA! Really needed to hear what I've been hearing from you. Bless ed. 🤗
I'm so happy that I found and subscribed to your channel. ❤ I always learn something new. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. 😊
You are so helpful!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!
Wow . Super. Amazing 🎉well said 👏
This was a really good message.
Thank you brother!!
Wisdom we need to practise
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NOTHING BUT FACTS BEING SPOKEN HERE
This has helped me so much today ❤😊
Awesome ❤️❤️
When I say THANK U,THANK U! for your teachings. ❤❤❤
Kirk, Thank you for your time, God bless you😊
Great video. Just plain and straight to the pointe.
Thank you. Very straightforward and simple advice.
Good teaching 🔥🔥🔥‼️
Wonderful video for all ladies.
Thank you
I enjoyed listening to your information.
Thank you🙏🏾
Never thought about matching his effort...sage advice i will practice from now on🫶🏾
I need this word thank you first he give consistency then he stop fall back
I will maych the effort from now on. Thank you, appreocated you.... more power 😊
From 🇵🇭
Thank you ❤.
Thanks very much for sharing your knowledge 😇👍❤
True words
So true 👍
You're excellent
🌿🙏❤️🤲🙂🌿
🥰🥰🙏🏾
In the end there will be two people who are interested in each other but will not show interest to „keep the other one chasing“🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
indeed and - what a waste of time!
Very well said.. keep it up
Testosterone ugh. Hate it. Ooh so i should make him believe i am desperate then he will leave me alone. I don't want him but he keeps pushing. So peaceful without his vampire energy clouding my space.
Yes I'm matching efford
Match his energy every time
I can’t wait to take your class, sensai!
SO......TRUE
This is GOOD 👍🏾
What’s annoying is many of millennials grew up in an era where we were encouraged to explore our sexuality. One night stands could lead to relationships they said. And truly in my youth, there weren’t any consequences, guys always stuck around. However, in my thirties it’s been harder, things feel heavier. People have less opportunity for mistakes plus everything is more consequential. You have to go back to the 90 days.
Men bond through vasopressin. Sex is never a feature of this.
Do activities together outside the bedroom.
I think about that sometimes....My experience was the guys sticking around too. Times have changed for sure and I'm not good at playing this new game of relationship monopoly; where there's a gamble at every turn and the game never ends. I rather stay single 🩷💜🩷💜
@@LovelyLisha3 indeed. The men were different too.
I needed this
LOOOOVVE IT❤❤❤
Women need to accept men for what they naturally are!! We have to understand how their biologically wired so we can move accordingly. Princella Clark teaches this beautifully
❤❤❤❤
Unfortunately the wonderful, prolonged eye contact, smiles and hugs were simply manipulation. It started after MONTHS of knowing him. It was great til I figured him out. It is what it is.
Thats right ladies. Dont sell yourself short.
Love is not all over the place , it's consistent and unchanging, Love is God . Seems like you've never experienced true love so you shouldn't speak on it and lead people down a path of destruction, be careful when you speak on Love because you speaking on God . ❤ All respectfully
Facts
Very good 👍
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If you give to fast people fall in love with your hands and not your heart.
Facts❤
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Subscribed 👀
I need your shirts!
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Yes. His, this man's hormones may be speaking.
His Libedo may be screaming... but he still can choose what
Half of his body is he, allowing to be in control, .
Lust of the Eyes & of the Flesh. This may partly a psychological, mental thing... but it's
also a "Supernatural spirital Soultie power
of wills. Power struggle.
You want what you want when you want it... even of sex or whatever., of I ME MY
Selfish intent agenda
You know how far you want to go....!?
But there's more than the art of Pursuasion
Seduction Inticement.
& for some, the Spirit of Entanglement.
Set boundaries, don't be so easy hungry
or thirsty. Don't give mixed signals.
Only you need to know who & what & when you want to move. So there's no mixed signals. No assumption, or presumption pressure. So your not sorry for anything.
This is sad but true in my marriage now.
💯👏
Truth
I matched effort and didn't have sex. He became angry and disrespectful.
At least you know he is not the one, good thing you ruled him out.
Think of it like entertaining a little boy. When little boys don’t get their way/the toy they want, they’ll try to charm their parent, they’ll beg, then if that doesn’t work, they’ll throw a fit. But if you ignore it and don’t give in they calm down or move on. He told you everything you need to know about his character..a big ass baby 😂
You dodged a bullet. He was always there to exploit, to receive. Never was there to give to you or to make you happy.
exactly @@queencup1181
idk where those men at who want to give?>. Kirk bee mentioning them but - fr tho - where? ESPECIALLY with modern ''dating coaches', who now been teaching men to mistreat and degrade women @@saras.2173
❤❤
I clicked the like button so fast.
Its true!
You cannot chase anyone!
Noatter howuch you like em DONT CHASE OR PUSH FORWARD!
KEEP IT CUTE, SEXY AND STAY FLY ALWAYS!
IF HE WANTS , HE WILL PURSUE YOU!