The easiest way to understand what a man is saying. This is it

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @The12Believe
    @The12Believe 3 месяца назад +59

    Brutally honesty is the way to go!! Stop listening to your heart and use the brain God gave you. You will be better off !! Thanks 🌹💯🌈💖

  • @sandyrobinson9388
    @sandyrobinson9388 3 месяца назад +30

    I caught on real fast and matched his efforts from the start without saying a word... you're correct energy doesn't lie. When he asked to come over to my place, RED FLAG 🚩I politely said no and ended that nonsense with the quickness‼️

  • @MsEve-zq7vz
    @MsEve-zq7vz 3 месяца назад +61

    My Brotha! YES! I Got It Loud And Clear Now! Similar Happened To Me In A Situationship, I Was In For A Short Time. I Read More Into His Hurt.. I Wasn’t His Person. He Did Things For Me Here And There. I Let My Emotions Catch Me. I Realized I Wanted More Than What The Lie Was… 🤦🏾‍♀️ “Moovin, Moooovin! I Got Out Of The Way 😂😂

    • @jumpsuitsandjeans
      @jumpsuitsandjeans 3 месяца назад +9

      Same thing happened to me, but I wasted three years hoping he would fall for me deep but I think he was just using me because of convenience. It was hard to do but I told him to leave.

    • @classie1-rn1yk
      @classie1-rn1yk 3 месяца назад +3

      Big facts...

    • @classie1-rn1yk
      @classie1-rn1yk 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@jumpsuitsandjeanstrue Story...

    • @francessmith3459
      @francessmith3459 3 месяца назад +3

      This was a great eye opener video, if we listened to what you said, we will be much wiser when it comes to the male. I got it...loud and clear! Thank you Kirk, you are saving us from a lot of heartbreak and wasting our precious time! Love, love, love you ❤️

    • @LethalWeapon73
      @LethalWeapon73 3 месяца назад

      Same here 20+ and married but separated for 7 years waiting to get divorced.

  • @naomihanna7028
    @naomihanna7028 3 месяца назад +31

    That's why the worst thing a woman can do is allow a man who is not committed to her, to have sex prematurely with her. It creates a soul tie, in which she falls in love but the man is not...

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 3 месяца назад +8

      Bingo!!! 🎯 That's exactly what happens and effs it up!!! Se.X truly is establishing soul ties, that is why God established it for marriage only
      So that wife and husband really got that tie!!! Why else,the soul tie to connect husband and wife - to unite them! Gods ways are perfect! Not for us to sleep around and hurt ourselves...and others
      . .

    • @shirleysimmons71
      @shirleysimmons71 3 месяца назад +4

      So true

    • @11Bryght999
      @11Bryght999 3 месяца назад +3

      Exactly

  • @meshameemee
    @meshameemee 3 месяца назад +38

    I don't understand how if someone tells you flat out I DO NOT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP or I JUST WANT A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS, etc., how is that unclear? It's very clear to me. It's the ones who lie for me. I had a guy lie to me for a couple of years, played the part well. Come to find out I was a whole bet between him and his friends cause I was one who wasn't sleeping around. 😡😡🤬🤬😡🤬 But i gotta forgive and move on like crazy stuff doesn't happen. I have, but boy. Some people are low down dirty pieces of sh**.

    • @classie1-rn1yk
      @classie1-rn1yk 3 месяца назад +11

      Exactly,,, bring you around the family and everything. That's a whole psychopath...smh

    • @meshameemee
      @meshameemee 3 месяца назад +8

      @@classie1-rn1yk right, and the family is in on it

  • @elainerobinson5692
    @elainerobinson5692 3 месяца назад +5

    I’m just seeing this video a man actually said that to me we’re just having sex crushed my lil heart I still f#%€> him and felt like shit when I got home I blocked him on everything and haven’t spoke to him since 47 days and counting so it’s still fresh but I know I’m going to be fine cause I’m no longer playing myself and me finding this video confirms that I feel so blessed to have escaped someone like that
    THANK GOD & you for your life changing advice keep up the great work
    REMARKABLE
    ❤️

  • @originalmix2546
    @originalmix2546 3 месяца назад +27

    💎this is one of your best video messages so far, in my opinion!💎 Thank you so much! Very true and I only wish every girl and woman hear this, I'll definitely share this in my women's fb groups! Too many women dismiss what men communicates to them and instead ascribe their own interpretation to it ! And I say this as a woman!

  • @Vanessa-pg9di
    @Vanessa-pg9di 3 месяца назад +22

    Your videos are so insightful, I appreciate you posting these 😊

    • @MegaRose1958
      @MegaRose1958 3 месяца назад +3

      Great video Kirk. 😊😊😊

  • @Yulondia5225
    @Yulondia5225 3 месяца назад +33

    Man, I love non-verbal communication. That’s where the truth and the vibe rest❗️
    Can’t explain it any better, considering the matter of fact nature other than this . Excellent ❗️🥳

  • @oishang2024
    @oishang2024 3 месяца назад +18

    Hi Kirk! That is Factssssssss.....

  • @LoveFaithLive
    @LoveFaithLive 3 месяца назад +2

    He lies to you by omission if he says he doesn’t want a relationship when he means not a relationship With You. Obviously he still wants part of you (that’s why he’s still around), until the next one comes along

  • @deanj0805
    @deanj0805 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for giving me a real reality check lol

  • @constancehaiden7315
    @constancehaiden7315 3 месяца назад +11

    You are so Right.

  • @ullanina1036
    @ullanina1036 3 месяца назад +8

    Mr Kirk , clear message and right on point😳,
    🙏🏽

  • @francessmith3459
    @francessmith3459 3 месяца назад +4

    A true eye opener for us females🤔..thank you Kirk! I love, Love, Love your teaching!❤ I am getting so smart when it comes to the male and how they think and communicate.💯

  • @user-lp8on7qm5x
    @user-lp8on7qm5x 3 месяца назад +5

    Ladies we better listen!!! This is Crystal Clear.

  • @MsEve-zq7vz
    @MsEve-zq7vz 3 месяца назад +10

    💥POWERFUL💥 INFORMATION For ☄️Less Than 11 Mins. 🔥🔥🔥🔥 ❤❤❤IT! THANK YOU 🙏🏾

  • @chatamanu65
    @chatamanu65 3 месяца назад +2

    A person who says, I don't want what you want, but still wants to have physical relations with you, you have to cut them off. A narc love bombs you. You let your guard down, but if you are an independent, intuitive person, you will see the truth. He won't stay around, but get out while you can.

  • @Survival-fr4ow
    @Survival-fr4ow 3 месяца назад +6

    Another reason, (I experienced with my ex husband) is a man will keep you at home is because he doesn't want to share you with anyone. Especially, your family. He will not bring another man home because he doesn't want anyone around or in your presence. Only him...

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 3 месяца назад

      does that means he loves you or he ...what is it about if not too much jealousy from his side?
      My ex bf had a great friend, who wa always hiding his wife.
      . what you described,, reminded me that

  • @cayennesinivassinel6977
    @cayennesinivassinel6977 3 месяца назад +8

    Why would you want to be introduced to anyone? The situation-ship is about you and him. Not others 😊

  • @Livelearnapply
    @Livelearnapply 3 месяца назад +6

    Amen had a guy calling me every day all day never asked me on a date though we hung out a time or two … after a few months of him calling me and not asking me out I cut it off.. men want to see u

  • @oliverfamily7277
    @oliverfamily7277 3 месяца назад +7

    Great video Kirk..... Simple and clear

  • @deec9808
    @deec9808 3 месяца назад +1

    My brotha! You break it down so well that even Stevie Wonder can see it. Clearly men and women don't think alike. We use words but men use actions to communicate. Thank you.

  • @mabel.e.kgalley9710
    @mabel.e.kgalley9710 3 месяца назад +1

    Great insightful information there, thanks a lot for the video. Do more man.

  • @78beckyboo
    @78beckyboo 3 месяца назад +4

    So true & logical...as in really great advice! Thank you Kirk 🙏🏼

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 3 месяца назад +3

    Truth, all truth and nothing but the truth. Wish I listen to this while before. Brilliant advice

  • @kathyshena-dissumbullit8478
    @kathyshena-dissumbullit8478 3 месяца назад +1

    I sooo love you and I've been only tuned into your channel for 2 weeks now. You speak TRUTH and WISDOM to us. If you have e a daughter, she is the so blessed to have you as her father. ❤

  • @Sharron247
    @Sharron247 3 месяца назад +2

    Kirk, I love the way you lay out the truth!!! Silence & Actions speaks a hell of a lot louder than words!!
    The majority of the time, our energy is telling us what's going on. Too often we just don't want to accept the truth!!
    Great content, as usual, Kirk!!✌🏼💞

  • @yobiztransportation5861
    @yobiztransportation5861 2 месяца назад

    Paying close attention thank you so much.

  • @EshStarr6783
    @EshStarr6783 2 месяца назад

    Beautifully Said

  • @a-light4Christ
    @a-light4Christ 3 месяца назад

    Pure Facts 💯

  • @rosalynarrington6818
    @rosalynarrington6818 3 месяца назад +7

    Hello and thank you!!!

  • @cameronb.cameron8177
    @cameronb.cameron8177 29 дней назад

    Thank you for the advice to ladies

  • @ma-flow
    @ma-flow 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank youuuuu 🙌🏾

  • @mwoods2375
    @mwoods2375 3 месяца назад +2

    Spot on....I knew he wasn't interested but I had to know KNOW. Now I know. I knew the stonmve was hot but had to touch it anyway

  • @Ruthforme
    @Ruthforme 3 месяца назад +5

    Thank you

  • @saraaquino1840
    @saraaquino1840 2 месяца назад +1

    I be feeling confused with this man. He tells me he loves me unconditionally like all day everyday but in 5 months going on 6 he has never took me on a date, neither has he planned to spend time with me. The times I did see him was because I came to him

    • @nmania3
      @nmania3 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh then he doesn't like you that much😢 just words. Some men know what women like to hear.

  • @LechelleWhitaker
    @LechelleWhitaker 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you I appreciate you so much I set here listen to very word u say!u really are helping us females out ❤

  • @lifesjoyz4724
    @lifesjoyz4724 3 месяца назад

    This brother spoke facts 💯👍🏽

  • @hasioseel4807
    @hasioseel4807 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Bro to clarify!!! Love and peace to you!

  • @francesh1903
    @francesh1903 3 месяца назад +3

    Smart man 😊

  • @tendaiMufandaedza-ku4gr
    @tendaiMufandaedza-ku4gr 28 дней назад

    Powerful information

  • @mariaclarksoprano7557
    @mariaclarksoprano7557 3 месяца назад +1

    All 100% true.

  • @tenestiathomas
    @tenestiathomas 3 месяца назад +1

    FACTS!!!!!!! Brother!!!!

  • @ronidiabate4576
    @ronidiabate4576 3 месяца назад

    Actions, listen,straight up❤

  • @terrytrowbridge2730
    @terrytrowbridge2730 3 месяца назад +6

    Facts facts facts😊

  • @nikkischannette8475
    @nikkischannette8475 2 месяца назад

    Thank you!😊

  • @rosalindrasberry866
    @rosalindrasberry866 3 месяца назад +2

    You are on it...

  • @user-bw2sd2ik1d
    @user-bw2sd2ik1d 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you. I got it.

  • @danaglover6801
    @danaglover6801 3 месяца назад

    SO ON POINT💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @BodhiDivine
    @BodhiDivine 3 месяца назад

    I enjoyed every minute of this video ❣️

  • @portiagillespie856
    @portiagillespie856 3 месяца назад

    Your conversation piece is Spot On. But WE WOMEN wear so many hats in our home with our partners sometimes we need more help than we are given. Some men are just children all over again!!!!!!!!!!

  • @kathycoates4333
    @kathycoates4333 3 месяца назад

    Facts all those parts 💯 💯💯

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth 3 месяца назад +3

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Recoverywithtamye
    @Recoverywithtamye 3 месяца назад

    I needed to hear this……. Again.

  • @user-db3ql8kt1m
    @user-db3ql8kt1m 3 месяца назад

    Wow wow wow...u r so so correct sis...men communicate even in there silence

  • @stellaeightp8596
    @stellaeightp8596 2 месяца назад

    Amen

  • @dominiquelove1825
    @dominiquelove1825 3 месяца назад

    These are some hard truths…

  • @hajjipowell3234
    @hajjipowell3234 3 месяца назад

    I hope your listening ladies.👂

  • @brandyboone9688
    @brandyboone9688 3 месяца назад +16

    Well I guess that's why I'm single because the man only want to see at night it's crazy I'll wait on my king 😊😊😊

    • @classie1-rn1yk
      @classie1-rn1yk 3 месяца назад +1

      Facts

    • @MamaDee737
      @MamaDee737 3 месяца назад +2

      The best way to stop that is to only do breakfast and lunch dates. That will tell you a lot about his character.

  • @charmainekhupe9051
    @charmainekhupe9051 3 месяца назад +1

    Dude, what did I do? 😂

  • @lindabutler793
    @lindabutler793 3 месяца назад

    Awesome!

  • @darlenewilson3188
    @darlenewilson3188 3 месяца назад +3

    DR k
    Some men might not show a woman because he could be married or he have a girlfriend now I want u to talk about long Distance relationship

  • @maggiemcnally2087
    @maggiemcnally2087 3 месяца назад

    True true

  • @billie-ocean8286
    @billie-ocean8286 3 месяца назад +1

    Well if men stop lying when u ask him anything women wouldn’t have to assume we would know

  • @jeanhernandez4419
    @jeanhernandez4419 3 месяца назад +1

    What if a man say that you're his girlfriend, but always talking about his past sexual escapades and constantly talking about seeing some woman in tight clothing and say, "I wasn't paying her any attention!" I just listen and absorb it all

    • @H_NNY
      @H_NNY 3 месяца назад +7

      He’s just peacocking, it’s his way of trying to get you to compete. It’s just to test where your insecurities are. Leave him where’s he’s at.

    • @jeanhernandez4419
      @jeanhernandez4419 3 месяца назад +2

      @@H_NNY thank you for that bit of information....what is peacocking? I don't know many of today's terms.....

    • @H_NNY
      @H_NNY 3 месяца назад +2

      @@jeanhernandez4419 peacocking is just another word for trying to do things to make them bigger than what they really are. Showing off, basically.

    • @rebeccaadole685
      @rebeccaadole685 3 месяца назад +4

      That’s disrespectful to you. It shows he isn’t satisfied with having just you and is often a tell tale sign of his state of loyalty. He won’t be faithful to you. He’s still on the hunt and is possibly playing games. Save yourself the heartache. He’s so NOT worth it.

    • @JeanHernandez-uo4ky
      @JeanHernandez-uo4ky 3 месяца назад

      ​@@rebeccaadole685thank you Rebecca...I really appreciate you taking time out to let me know what I've been thinking all along...I haven't been intimate with him and he keeps coming back trying to break me. To be honest, he's making me feel uncomfortable. It's time to go completely silent because it's hurting me emotionally and mentally....

  • @user-lc1lm7cq8h
    @user-lc1lm7cq8h 3 месяца назад

    Cognitive dissonance 😕.. this is on point

  • @emmanolan1250
    @emmanolan1250 3 месяца назад +2

    Men don’t think logically they are very emotional

  • @blessingoluchi9155
    @blessingoluchi9155 3 месяца назад

    Good morning,
    Please i need your advice, this guy came to me and said he's looking for a wife! I laughed and stood to listen to him. After two days he collected my contact. He only said Hi Blessing! He doesn't call or chat me up.
    He chats up with me when he want to know when ill be free to come see him.

  • @heck4984
    @heck4984 3 месяца назад +1

    ty

  • @maryburgess2625
    @maryburgess2625 3 месяца назад +1

    👍

  • @rosalindrasberry866
    @rosalindrasberry866 3 месяца назад +2

    He doesn't like me

  • @egyptiangoddest2267
    @egyptiangoddest2267 3 месяца назад

    Bro are you from Harlem 126th street?!

  • @juliashifu6308
    @juliashifu6308 3 месяца назад

    Wonders! Really?🤔

  • @iamsultrie430
    @iamsultrie430 3 месяца назад +3

    What does your shirt say?

  • @margarettyson6556
    @margarettyson6556 3 месяца назад +1

    lol ok you say men are simple yet you say if he doesn’t take you out and show you off he doesn’t care for you. Then you say that if he takes you out but doesn’t open up to you he doesn’t care for you but men are simple 😅😅😅

  • @diamondsas4995
    @diamondsas4995 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this 🖤🫶🏾….you are always on time with the message & your delivery is great

  • @stellaeightp8596
    @stellaeightp8596 2 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @leerussell2539
    @leerussell2539 3 месяца назад

    👍