He's right. Every time I had a really strong insta attraction to a dude, I was always riddled with anxiety because you KNOW it won't work out. Luckily, I have healed my attachment wounds and have the strength to LEAVE those situations quickly, that's why I don't get badly hurt. Still hurt though since I'm sensitive
Timely Message, Kirk! Thanks so much! Qualities to Look for in a Partner ✅Takes accountability ✅Driven ✅Emotionally available/stable ✅Keeps his word ✅Decently attractive ✅Kind ✅Humble ✅You feel calm in his presence There you have it!
Kirk--- I am so grateful that I found your channel! This video about what to look for in a man is VERY essential for females of ALL ages to listen to! Neither of my parents ever had this type of talk with me. I also feel like the pre teenage girls, need this video to be recorded in their heads repeatedly in order for more of them to have greater self respect and self esteem! Thank You! ❤❤❤
This is my list!! Thankfully, I’ve had parents that were married for 61 years, until my dad passed, beautiful example. ❤ (I don’t want someone who talks a lot either, introvert here, that’s draining). 🤣
THANKS 🙏🏾 ❤🙏🏾IMister Kirk!! 1) ACCOUNTABILITY In A Man IS BEAUTIFUL And EPIC When It’s A SUSTAINABLE QUALITY. 2) DRIVEN! He WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN! -GOING SOMEWHERE! I Don’t Mind SWITCHING ROLES! We Can HELP EACH OTHER! 3) EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE ❤4) A Man w A DEPENDABLE Word!! 5) KINDHEARTED Man-Who LOVES in The ToughParts. 6) A Man That Makes Me Feel AT HOME In My Heart. MAKE ME FEEL CALM 🤩😄 Wooooo! 7) CONSISTENCY!! ❤❤❤. I Take FULL RESPONSIBILITY For My Past Choices In Relationships That Didn’t Work Like I Thought It Would.. To Know BETTER Is To DO BETTER 💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
I like your style of presentation You present sound good advice about consistency, and calmness. He is a man of his word and someone that listens to you and makes you feel safe and secure.
And social media hasn't ruined it for men!? Instagram models, "pick me's" willing to accept anything, the traditional, submissive woman, etc... when it comes to trying to find someone to be in a relationship with social media has ruined it for BOTH women & men. #facts
Kirk, you are really great at what you do. Very informative videos and life changing content. You're like the older brother I never had.😊 your amazing to watch.
Even if parents were there it does not mean they knew what they were doing. A reason some people come together is due to pregnancy etc. On this journey we must be willing to adapt to positive behaviors which is a healthy foundation. Reading and focusing on why we came here is VIP...😊 To Know ThySelf is to Know Inner Guidance & Universal Energies at work for us if we make time to be quiet or meditate. This journey is about Knowing ThySelf ✔️💯🎤 and the more we bypass ourselves to look to others to be our knights in shining armor...the more disappointed we will be. Know Thyself ✔️💯🎤
I love your honesty and I agree with most of what you said. But there is one thing ...which is yes in the past most men are known as not being big talkers but the truth is in my experience I've seen that some guys love to talk about lots of things and if they don't... learning how, especially if that's something that helps your relationship isn't a bad thing to learn. There are adjustments constantly happening on both sides so instead of feeling like we are trying to change you..., the same way you would like for us to understand that that is who you are maybe exercise some understanding that that is who we are and we need to get on a journey of finding a common ground rather than just telling us to accept you and don't try to change you. We are simply trying to have our needs met and wanting to be affirmed by the person we love and revere is not trying to change you, it is a way that women feel good in your presence and safe in your presence with all the hormonal and mindful stuff that we are experiencing outside of our household. Women are not just coming to our men for protection and providing, we are coming to you for emotional and self-development the same way you are coming to us. We are raising each other no matter what other people are trying to say it as and neither side needs to be vilified for that. Just a different way to look at things.
You are always saying the right thing. This are the things I’m always looking for. Guess what I have him . I pray we get married because he is my dream man .
A different type came to me, i rated him bad, but something brought us together and now, he is my best!🎉❤ though it scares me but i m loving him so much.
I seem to attach men in a relationship already and I don't want that. I want to let go that energy 😢. I will be friends to them but I don't want them. I don't know what to do. 😢
You will find your answer by praying, and God will show you! I was attracting unavailable men as well. The same men with different faces for years! I ask God to show me what I was doing wrong! And he showed me!! FACT! Start with your childhood! Trauma bond! You need healing!You attract what you are!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You to old to be creating friendships with men. Especially, when you’re looking for a relationship. You’re wasting your own time by splitting your time working on friendships while claiming to want a serious relationship. Not many men out here wife-ing women with a Harlem of men friends. And men know you’re desperate and they’re going for the low hanging fruit. Good luck to you.
Thanks for the information and teaching women what to look for in a man. My father and I didn't have this talk. I was married to an awesome man for 41years including dating. He has passed. I'm staying Single. Men these days are like little boys. They play games. Im good. God is the Only men that we need. Think about it. Ladies stop chasing. Replace. Lessons learned. Self love ladies. Amen 🙏 😊❤❤❤❤ Thank you Sir, rhetw need to be more men luke You. 🙏 ❤😊
It's not just the type of guy . I believe everything starts with oneself. A few ways a lot of people are single,the type of person they are looking for,they first need to love there self,be honest to they self and look for negative ways about them self that need to change,another way we need to look at how we treat people especially the homeless people how do we treat them do we show them love. we want love. Another way is knowing that life is spiritual so we need to look at soul ties from the past. Also take a closer look at who we call our friends, even our own families. It have jealousy and wicked people and those are some of the ways that can be the reason for a lot of single people. The less you know the less you function the more you know the more you function. I'm a female, so my brother and sister look into those things. Be careful who you tell your private stuff to
I surely didn’t know what to look for in a man; I failed myself, had no brothers, no father- I had not a clue, picked someone who wanted nothing at all- was scared of success, lazy and self serving, non driven, knew nothing of saving for a rainy day.. he wasn’t emotionally available even though he wasn’t married.. so sorry I married him & should have kept running from the courthouse…I should have nurtured not being married- the con’s outweighed the pro’s and I should have followed my instincts and intuition- his verbalizing was lazy, however he was gifted in his profession- he didn’t want to do anything extra
The only two pieces of advice I was given by the sperm donor was to keep my legs closed and make sure I don't need a man. Now I'm his walking karma that I'm healing from.
7 brothers 7 sisters i make 8 I'm the 15 th and last child all from my mom none of them taught me nothing about relationships i had to learn on my own 😐
He's right. Every time I had a really strong insta attraction to a dude, I was always riddled with anxiety because you KNOW it won't work out. Luckily, I have healed my attachment wounds and have the strength to LEAVE those situations quickly, that's why I don't get badly hurt. Still hurt though since I'm sensitive
Sometimes no uncles, brothers, cousins, or fathers or talk to us about these things. I am so grateful.
So true never had these types of conversations I'm 44 yrs old my children all grown up dating and it's so much to take in
The energy doesn’t lie.
How true is this.
He communicates in the way he touches you. Yes! Words lie, energy cannot ever lie.
so so true!!!
Timely Message, Kirk! Thanks so much!
Qualities to Look for in a Partner
✅Takes accountability
✅Driven
✅Emotionally available/stable
✅Keeps his word
✅Decently attractive
✅Kind
✅Humble
✅You feel calm in his presence
There you have it!
Kirk--- I am so grateful that I found your channel!
This video about what to look for in a man is VERY essential for females of ALL ages to listen to! Neither of my parents ever had this type of talk with me.
I also feel like the pre teenage girls, need this video to be recorded in their heads repeatedly in order for more of them to have greater self respect and self esteem!
Thank You! ❤❤❤
Agreed
Amen!❤️❤️🙏🏽 ..
A man who generous not a man who just have resources. A person can still have a lot and still not offer you anything.
Yes add that to your standards!! Take what you can and make your own list of great qualities
This is my list!! Thankfully, I’ve had parents that were married for 61 years, until my dad passed, beautiful example. ❤ (I don’t want someone who talks a lot either, introvert here, that’s draining). 🤣
In Christ alone all hope is found. Let the word of God be the head of your lives
Yes and Amen FACTS ONLY💯💯💯❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes Jesus! Praise the Lord!
Yes amen
No.
What's Jesus' middle and last name?
I ❤ this message
It’s so true
I ❤ a peaceful man
THANKS 🙏🏾 ❤🙏🏾IMister Kirk!! 1) ACCOUNTABILITY In A Man IS BEAUTIFUL And EPIC When It’s A SUSTAINABLE QUALITY. 2) DRIVEN! He WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN! -GOING SOMEWHERE! I Don’t Mind SWITCHING ROLES! We Can HELP EACH OTHER! 3) EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE ❤4) A Man w A DEPENDABLE Word!! 5) KINDHEARTED Man-Who LOVES in The ToughParts. 6) A Man That Makes Me Feel AT HOME In My Heart. MAKE ME FEEL CALM 🤩😄 Wooooo! 7) CONSISTENCY!! ❤❤❤. I Take FULL RESPONSIBILITY For My Past Choices In Relationships That Didn’t Work Like I Thought It Would.. To Know BETTER Is To DO BETTER 💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
I like your style of presentation You present sound good advice about consistency, and calmness. He is a man of his word and someone that listens to you and makes you feel safe and secure.
I like your video. Very realistic you deserve thousands subscribers
Wow, thank you!🥰🥰
Truth be told. His videos are calm and very essential. Much love Kirk!
Feeling calm around a man is the bomb ❤✨ #Good energy
I found him😩❤️🤞🏾
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U are TRULY THE MAN ❤ GOD BLESS YOU 💯
This video was solid gold. Thank you!
Thank you so much❤️❤️
"That kind of Man his mine" ❤❤❤❤❤
And social media hasn't ruined it for men!? Instagram models, "pick me's" willing to accept anything, the traditional, submissive woman, etc... when it comes to trying to find someone to be in a relationship with social media has ruined it for BOTH women & men.
#facts
I'm so happy to fine this channel Kirk excellent advice I needed to hear that I'm scared of getting into a relationship after 4 yrs of being single 🙏👍
God Bless you for making it crystal clear that even a “baby” can understand.
I took this advice and now I’m talking to someone who’s not completely my type different race but he’s so different calm and warm so genuine and sweet
Totally agree with your list of what to look for in a man 🎯👏🏾
Excellent point that communication is not just talking...👍
Thank you bud for the wisdom of knowing ❤❤ what to look for in this life time
You are so welcome
Thank You we need this
I love and APPRECIATE your content!!! Thanks for sharing your insight. It helps me a lot. Thank you!
You make me laugh 😂 it’s good ❤ but yes a Man of his word driven with a calm spirit, emotionally stable ! Think I know one ☝️
IT'S THE
LOCS
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ME 😂❤
Wow I'm so happy someone talk sense, these thing we we're not taught wow I so moved Thank you so much for this information .❤
Thank you kirk and you always right on time with the teaching
LOL..that type is a typo!! 😂😂 Good stuff...
I had no brother's but grew up with 4 sister's and both parents my dad told us about men but it's great to have a modern perspective Thanks KK😊
Amazing advice, "catching a ride", now reviewing my type! Thank you Sir! ❤
Thank you! And I agree! I also love your shirt!
Excellent piece of Information. Thank you ❤️
The part about a type!!!!!! Speaks to me❤
You’re so wise. Thanks for the information 💯
Thanks!you said so much TRUTH!
Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love this video... so true, every word!!! Keep making videos I'll keep watching ❤
Thank you for all your teaching. Im really learning and unlearning a lot. I love you kiki
💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥 You have so much wisdom, thank you for always sharing!
I love your straight up videos 💜
The best programming. Thank you!
Thanks for advice. I'm on the right track
Also, women want to ignore behaviors.
You have been such a inspiration for me God bless you❤️🙏🏽
This video is very true. I really like your videos.its true we was never shown what to look out for❤
Kirk, you are really great at what you do. Very informative videos and life changing content. You're like the older brother I never had.😊 your amazing to watch.
you hit the nail on the head 😅😅😅
Great video. I shared this video with friends and family.
I just recently found you. Love your practical insights. ❤🇨🇦
Thankyou for knowledge! You are beautiful!🌹
Who can't say this is not true??? Keep it up sir🙏👍
You're amazing, i love your videos, and they do hit close to home.❤
Love this truth💙
The bag example was good 👍🏾
Even if parents were there it does not mean they knew what they were doing. A reason some people come together is due to pregnancy etc. On this journey we must be willing to adapt to positive behaviors which is a healthy foundation. Reading and focusing on why we came here is VIP...😊 To Know ThySelf is to Know Inner Guidance & Universal Energies at work for us if we make time to be quiet or meditate. This journey is about Knowing ThySelf ✔️💯🎤 and the more we bypass ourselves to look to others to be our knights in shining armor...the more disappointed we will be. Know Thyself ✔️💯🎤
I love your honesty and I agree with most of what you said. But there is one thing ...which is yes in the past most men are known as not being big talkers but the truth is in my experience I've seen that some guys love to talk about lots of things and if they don't... learning how, especially if that's something that helps your relationship isn't a bad thing to learn. There are adjustments constantly happening on both sides so instead of feeling like we are trying to change you..., the same way you would like for us to understand that that is who you are maybe exercise some understanding that that is who we are and we need to get on a journey of finding a common ground rather than just telling us to accept you and don't try to change you. We are simply trying to have our needs met and wanting to be affirmed by the person we love and revere is not trying to change you, it is a way that women feel good in your presence and safe in your presence with all the hormonal and mindful stuff that we are experiencing outside of our household. Women are not just coming to our men for protection and providing, we are coming to you for emotional and self-development the same way you are coming to us. We are raising each other no matter what other people are trying to say it as and neither side needs to be vilified for that. Just a different way to look at things.
Facts❤
Thank you this helps
You are always saying the right thing. This are the things I’m always looking for. Guess what I have him . I pray we get married because he is my dream man .
You are so right
Type is your childhood unmet needs come to life.
Choose higher principles.
Thankful
I found You❤
A different type came to me, i rated him bad, but something brought us together and now, he is my best!🎉❤ though it scares me but i m loving him so much.
God bless you so much for the good work, keep it up
Thank you 🙏🏽
You are so welcome
I seem to attach men in a relationship already and I don't want that. I want to let go that energy 😢. I will be friends to them but I don't want them. I don't know what to do. 😢
To let go of that energy, don't try to be friends with a man who is in a relationship. Because.. why do they need a new female friend? 🤔
You will find your answer by praying, and God will show you! I was attracting unavailable men as well. The same men with different faces for years! I ask God to show me what I was doing wrong! And he showed me!! FACT! Start with your childhood! Trauma bond! You need healing!You attract what you are!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You to old to be creating friendships with men. Especially, when you’re looking for a relationship. You’re wasting your own time by splitting your time working on friendships while claiming to want a serious relationship. Not many men out here wife-ing women with a Harlem of men friends. And men know you’re desperate and they’re going for the low hanging fruit. Good luck to you.
I like this ❤
I agree
Thank you
Thanks for the information and teaching women what to look for in a man. My father and I didn't have this talk. I was married to an awesome man for 41years including dating. He has passed. I'm staying Single. Men these days are like little boys. They play games. Im good. God is the Only men that we need. Think about it. Ladies stop chasing. Replace. Lessons learned. Self love ladies. Amen 🙏 😊❤❤❤❤ Thank you Sir, rhetw need to be more men luke You. 🙏 ❤😊
Thanks ❤❤❤
You're welcome 😊
thank you
True ❗️
Think I'm onto a winner then as he's showing up with all what you have mentioned
It's not just the type of guy . I believe everything starts with oneself. A few ways a lot of people are single,the type of person they are looking for,they first need to love there self,be honest to they self and look for negative ways about them self that need to change,another way we need to look at how we treat people especially the homeless people how do we treat them do we show them love. we want love. Another way is knowing that life is spiritual so we need to look at soul ties from the past. Also take a closer look at who we call our friends, even our own families. It have jealousy and wicked people and those are some of the ways that can be the reason for a lot of single people. The less you know the less you function the more you know the more you function. I'm a female, so my brother and sister look into those things. Be careful who you tell your private stuff to
That last one started out gun hoo. He just left me, I didn't understand why 😢
If he just left, he wasn’t for you. Blessing in disguise.😅
Sweetie it is sooooo simple. He left you because he wanted to. It is as simple as that.
Very good!!!!!!!
Thankyou
I surely didn’t know what to look for in a man; I failed myself, had no brothers, no father- I had not a clue, picked someone who wanted nothing at all- was scared of success, lazy and self serving, non driven, knew nothing of saving for a rainy day.. he wasn’t emotionally available even though he wasn’t married.. so sorry I married him & should have kept running from the courthouse…I should have nurtured not being married- the con’s outweighed the pro’s and I should have followed my instincts and intuition- his verbalizing was lazy, however he was gifted in his profession- he didn’t want to do anything extra
The only two pieces of advice I was given by the sperm donor was to keep my legs closed and make sure I don't need a man. Now I'm his walking karma that I'm healing from.
Facts
Daddy Hazell ❤❤❤
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Dose Kirk do personal readings???
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A man with an easy temperament. Does he have the ability to forgive or does he harbor things?
My type is Spanish man and ut haven't got me anywhere frfr no more type wow🤯🤯
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Omg yes on dating sites are low value people so I stay away from them
7 brothers 7 sisters i make 8 I'm the 15 th and last child all from my mom none of them taught me nothing about relationships i had to learn on my own 😐
You're so right. I just want to be alone.
Me too. Being alone is better
There’s no man lol.
😂😂
I knew this was gonna be good by the 1st point. Accountability
So t👍❤
🎉they may date ù but most m. seem to be only looking for wm that look like instagram models to marry.
So kind but pretty disrespectful, we as women test you, to,we listen to you well communicating aloud is the key recognize
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