What do men really look for in their women? What do they want?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @Peaceful-rv1tb
    @Peaceful-rv1tb 7 месяцев назад +24

    A man wants a woman who is:
    1) A very attractive woman.
    2) A feminine woman - both internally & externally. She's relaxed, understanding & kind.
    3) A peaceful lady with kind vibes. Humble, but confident. She is loving. Has standards.
    4) A lady with a sweet Spirit. Not argumentative. Calm.
    Ladies understand that your true 'feminine energy' is most powerful; and, not weak at all.
    ❤🎉

  • @guestguest3756
    @guestguest3756 8 месяцев назад +19

    If that's all men want, then I should not be single right now.

  • @DeAnnaLJackson1978
    @DeAnnaLJackson1978 8 месяцев назад +36

    Thank you for speaking truth!!❤❤❤ But it seems like the women that are humble and submissive are the ones that get taken advantage.

    • @DD-uk7gz
      @DD-uk7gz 7 месяцев назад +2

      👁 Comcur!! 💯Trruth

    • @juliemcdaniel499
      @juliemcdaniel499 4 месяца назад +1

      U ain't neva lied. 😊

  • @justicevibes1252
    @justicevibes1252 8 месяцев назад +24

    The sad fact about toxic men is that they will pretend to be that caring man you've been looking for. When it's only so they can get in your pants. And you can't let that happen. These men should be honest towards women when they're not interested instead of lying and wasting her time. I'm so happy I walked away because I deserve better!!

    • @incognitionx
      @incognitionx 8 месяцев назад +6

      Facts. Protect yourself 24/7

  • @MsUniqueSparkles
    @MsUniqueSparkles 8 месяцев назад +14

    I had a guy tell me that exact thing. Men have to provide a space for that. I know I walk in my feminine energy, but I have stepped out of it when upset.

  • @Sister-talkHS
    @Sister-talkHS 8 месяцев назад +38

    Women, the thing about what he’s saying for those of us who are in our feminine energy, we must not allow dissapointments from past relationships to be the deciding factors in how we carry our energy, carry it regardless, because it’s who we were meant to be.
    Adam’s help mate❤

  • @iyoserhuns1231
    @iyoserhuns1231 7 месяцев назад +2

    From Nigeria, this man speak facts.if all men could listen to him

  • @AllGoodThingz
    @AllGoodThingz 8 месяцев назад +5

    You can be all that and still be lied to and cheated on. What they really want is to taste the whole menu, not just the dish they said they wanted. Their appetite seems to change often.

    • @yahwehissalvation1
      @yahwehissalvation1 7 месяцев назад

      Agreed 👍🏾Most of the men in my life like my father, grandfather, bros, uncles, cousins, friends, etc has shown me this and Yah allowed them to speak on it truthfully as well. You know I ask all the damn questions that made them uncomfortable and upset with me. Damn yall really don't care. Even if that happened to us, the women in your lives. I'm like are yall for real? They told and shown 🥺me some shit like damn don't none of us have a damn chance. Yah have mercy on all l🙏🏾

  • @Yulondia5225
    @Yulondia5225 2 месяца назад +1

    #MasterClass 🔥🔥🔥 Method Man raps, "Nothing makes a man feels better than Woman." I wholeheartedly believed it for sure when I heard this Masculine Man said it❗

  • @Sister-talkHS
    @Sister-talkHS 8 месяцев назад +11

    My Queen/ sister you mentioned your energy decreases when you are surrounded by men with feminine energy, it’s still ok to walk in your energy…..it’s who you are!
    Regardless of what fills the room, make your feminine presence felt, be who you were meant to be each and every day and as a matter of fact do it better and better each opportunity your given when you wake up, it’s your birth right and your purpose.

    • @shandavance6516
      @shandavance6516 8 месяцев назад +4

      I agree with that...I guess it's just a matter of me figuring out how to turn off what seems like an automatic switch that comes on when I have to be in spaces where the masculine energy is lacking...I find myself just naturally taking the lead to accomplish whatever the agenda, when I don't even necessarily prefer that... thank you for that comment Queen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @aprilchow-chee5281
    @aprilchow-chee5281 8 месяцев назад +4

    You won't get any peace if you don't give any peace. There's a difference with a woman being in her feminine energy and at peace than being weak, a woman in her feminine energy will know her worth and walk out from crappy men who take her out of that

  • @relaxbebe
    @relaxbebe 8 месяцев назад +5

    The secret is as soon as a man step out or down and you feel like you have to step in to be in survivor mode leave that relationship because your femenino energy will screammmm leave!

  • @khristalwoodall6679
    @khristalwoodall6679 6 месяцев назад

    Femininity =peace..masculinity =security

  • @celyandrade8239
    @celyandrade8239 8 месяцев назад +3

    I totally agree! But nowadays some man consider weakness when you open up to them, be vulnerable, kind and try to be there for them. 😢

  • @ayyb6789
    @ayyb6789 8 месяцев назад +12

    From my experience, most men do care about how much money you make. They seem to want a woman with a good paying job. And if you own a home.

    • @triplegrace155
      @triplegrace155 3 месяца назад +1

      Those men want a mommy and not a wife.

  • @jewellennmccormick7206
    @jewellennmccormick7206 8 месяцев назад +10

    I hear you brother speak truth 💖

  • @kekekeys2102
    @kekekeys2102 8 месяцев назад +9

    You’re preaching real good!! Thank you for giving us these gems!!!❤

  • @shandavance6516
    @shandavance6516 8 месяцев назад +19

    I believe that my feminine energy drastically decreases in the presence of men that may be lacking masculine energy regardless of their sexuality. It's not a conscious thing, just something I have observed about myself. How would you suggest a woman maintain her feminine energy in these situations?

    • @tdatda410
      @tdatda410 8 месяцев назад +9

      Get away from them.

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@tdatda410That's It.👌🏿

    • @goddessinfinity1
      @goddessinfinity1 8 месяцев назад

      Why are you around feminine men should be the first question to ask yourself 🧐🤔? Are you really in your feminine energy is the second question because truly feminine woman stay feminine unless they are in combat. So are you threatened by these men 🤔?

  • @mousebr549
    @mousebr549 7 месяцев назад +6

    I've noticed a lot of women have a long checklist of every thing a man MUST BE, and if he fails on even one thing on the list, he's out! But when a man tells us what he wants, women get defensive and exclaim "Well, I ain't changing myself for any man!" But, to Kirk's point, if a man wanted to be with a person who is displaying masculine energy, he could just go and be with another man. He gets challenged enough when he goes out into the world, at his job, everywhere he goes. A man comes home, he wants a soft place to land. He doesn't want more stress, more confrontation, more drama. And to be honest, who wants more of that in their lives, male or female. Every woman should know when they need their masculine energy (at work) but when you get home, and you're with your man, turn on that feminine energy and make him feel like he is the King of your castle. What man doesn't long to be acknowledged for slaying all the dragons all day? And if you give that man a few hours of love and respect, you will get it all back, and more for a lifetime.
    I lost my first husband after 35 years of marraige. He was 56. He would die for me, and I knew it. I took him for granted. Two days after I lost him, I had an anxiety attack. I was standing at the counter in the kitchen, my mind flooded with all of the memories of the things he did for me, without even being asked to. Changing the oil in the car, making our worn out mower work until we could afford another one, getting up at 5 am to go to work to provide for us. And I thought, it's all on me now. And I felt the weight of the burden men carry, suddenly on my shoulders, and I wondered if I would be able to fill his shoes.
    I see men working in the hot sun, building bridges and paving roads. Come on ladies, do you really want to be doing all that? It's much easier to build your man up; make him feel like he can conquer the world, and he will. And he will bring a piece of it back home, just for you.

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  7 месяцев назад +3

      Yesssss

    • @mousebr549
      @mousebr549 7 месяцев назад

      @@konsciousKirk ❤️

    • @yahwehissalvation1
      @yahwehissalvation1 7 месяцев назад +4

      Ma'am some of us know how to maintain all that if we have a husband or not. The men in my life past, present, told me that every woman needs to be able to be independent when the man is not around. I chose to learn everything that my ex shown me and others to be able to maintain so I won't be out here panicking, falling apart, and etc... the men in my life shown and taught me how to be more sufficient. They said I needed to know this just in cause I'm left alone and by myself. Even my next door neighbor shows me and respects that I can do alot of things on my own little to no help. I ❤️ when the men help me but prefer to do it myself cause I know its getting done and to my liking.

    • @mousebr549
      @mousebr549 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@yahwehissalvation1 Yes, I understand what you are saying. I was on my own after my husband passed and I have learned to do it all, all on my own. But do I want to? Yes, I am strong, independent woman. But the context of this video is the fact that men love feminine energy. Men don't always say "I love you" so much. They show it. And one of the ways they show us is by doing things for us. Yes, we can do it all, all by ourselves. However, I prefer to do things together. And I really appreciate the things men do for us, especially the hard things. My late husband replaced a transmission in our car. Now, I don't think very many women can, it would, do that. Any woman who wants to do it all by herself, ain't nobody stopping you. I prefer to be in a relationship where we do things together, and we also do things for each other.

  • @relaxbebe
    @relaxbebe 8 месяцев назад +3

    The thing is that most of women are created bitter, uneasy because a toxic man, she is not calm anymore! A real man needs to step in to calm her down!

  • @user-bkc
    @user-bkc 8 месяцев назад +9

    I hear u and I agree, however some men who wants a feminine woman needs to provide a woman with security in every area, specifically emotionally from my point and resolve issues that satisfy her so she won't have to go into her masculine energy where she feels the need to protect herself. What do think?
    I have a SERIOUS story to tell and would like to get your perspective on it. It RESONATES with this topic 💯
    Is there a way to communicate with you?

    • @relaxbebe
      @relaxbebe 8 месяцев назад

      You are so right! It happened to me!

  • @JacquelynNewmandivine
    @JacquelynNewmandivine 8 месяцев назад +2

    I appreciate the message!
    Especially the part about when we have turmoil on the inside, we deliver chaos to everybody in our life basically
    T turmoil,shows on the outside makes a lot of sense.

  • @baileyb8619
    @baileyb8619 7 месяцев назад +1

    I need to know what a true high value man is. I keep meeting men who are well off, have it all together professionally, but they seem full of chaos and restlessness. And dare I say, anger. These men do not bring peace and protection.

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 7 месяцев назад

      true...high value also is subjective..these false alpha alpha Bros are trying to tell to men that high value means to be a rich show off, men who runs after materialistic stuff and builds his life based on material perception. Not the right crowd to take advise from.

  • @novizivot3631
    @novizivot3631 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Kirk.

  • @mytomp
    @mytomp 8 месяцев назад +3

    I Totally Agree With You On This 💯

  • @charisse234
    @charisse234 8 месяцев назад +4

    That's the point i was trying to make to on your previous video about negativity. I feel exactly as you have just said.i firmly believe in positivity and that is why i feel such a inner peace and yes in this video you are right one million percent!

  • @CalidaFortune
    @CalidaFortune 8 месяцев назад +1

    I can agree 💯 melt his heart 💯% with the feminine energy.

  • @amouralove9857
    @amouralove9857 8 месяцев назад +2

    INTERESTING KNOWLEDGE SHARED FROM A MAN’S POINT OF VIEW ,THANKS

  • @charmelknight2433
    @charmelknight2433 7 месяцев назад

    A lot of truth to what he said.

  • @elvirasimmons9112
    @elvirasimmons9112 7 месяцев назад

    😅😅😅 cirregtte burns on your back You're so kind

  • @SelfcareForTheMind
    @SelfcareForTheMind 8 месяцев назад +1

    Feminine is subjective

  • @ingridfrancetravels
    @ingridfrancetravels 5 месяцев назад +2

    No cigarette burns on chest and back 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @AutumnRain1111
    @AutumnRain1111 8 месяцев назад +1

    I think you’re 100 percent accurate

  • @rosalindhicks5386
    @rosalindhicks5386 8 месяцев назад +4

    I love your content❤

  • @nhouston7
    @nhouston7 8 месяцев назад +2

    Sir, Drop the gems!!!❤

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 2 месяца назад +1

    No lies! That’s why it’s so important to keep your looks top tier. Love it or hate it but looks and being feminine to a masculine man is your currency. Period.

  • @kaygholer1103
    @kaygholer1103 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wow that was so real that was like one time I was dating this young lad and he's handsome so I feel if he's handsome to me he's handsome to them the others so one day I walked down the street and there he is in the car with someone else I'm in the first thing I said was oh my God God and I ask God what did he want me to do, God told me what to do and I walked right on by as if I didn't see nobody and when he got home he thought I was going to argue but I ask him do he know why I didn't say anything and it is the most aggressive way he said no why?! Am I reply was because I love you and respect you baby that's why I didn't say anything. And only thing he could do was look at me and grabbed me and hug me with the biggest hug.😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ satellite you're saying femininity wins I was telling this female she's not a lady but she thinks she's the highest thing walking. I told her I said you know who is winning the hearts of hearts and she got she got quiet and she said no who I said ladies I went in the hearts of hearts. Cuz they will never do what females and women do. And I try to walk in those classes ladies cuz the first man that I'm really trying to impress is the most high God then I win hands down from there. So I had to change a lot my toxic waste in order to come into some type of understanding to have self love I have experienced that and I have thought that was very thoughts that you're speaking of now and you you're probably a decade or so younger than me so that means you're very intelligent and wise before your time as well. And I say keep up the good work continue to step into your greatness in order to exemplify being great😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ndestine
    @ndestine 8 месяцев назад

    He told no lies!!! I know for a fact that what he's saying is true because I've seen it for myself.

  • @JozzyJah111
    @JozzyJah111 7 месяцев назад

    I love this!

  • @user-wn3mf6hh5y
    @user-wn3mf6hh5y 8 месяцев назад +3

    He's got to be one hell of a man if he wants a woman like that. But not in the sense one would typically expect with that expression. Just paying for what she needs... For "a woman who doesn't talk back" etc as mentioned in the video, is abuse and he'd better be ready for prison.

  • @Menoweightloss
    @Menoweightloss 6 месяцев назад

    He had that!
    Then he put her down
    He manipulated
    He cheated
    Then he says I like it when you’re happy
    Wtf!
    You just ruined me then want me to be the woman I was when you met me…no
    I don’t even know myself anymore

  • @Melli510
    @Melli510 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks Kirk Namaste. I amm trying.

  • @empressboateng7098
    @empressboateng7098 8 месяцев назад

    Bro , may God bless you beyond your imagination , 🙌🙏🏿👋🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kafuiquist5199
    @kafuiquist5199 2 месяца назад

    Your words are like knife 🔪. Sharp and honest

  • @originalmix2546
    @originalmix2546 7 месяцев назад

    💛 Hi, can you talk a bit in detail about the fine line between wanting non argumentative woman and forming a pushover for a man that he will himself later resent? When a man wants to get his way or highway.

  • @angjar
    @angjar 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing all your knowledge etc kirk. It helps. I agree with you.

  • @belindamarie3222
    @belindamarie3222 8 месяцев назад

    Yes! I'm the one you are describing 🙂🎯

  • @elainebuchananart4757
    @elainebuchananart4757 8 месяцев назад

    I agree a guy told me this before..

  • @ChantaGeorge3
    @ChantaGeorge3 8 месяцев назад +2

    The cigarette on the back took me out…

  • @LadyMargaretSteppin
    @LadyMargaretSteppin 8 месяцев назад

    Great video

  • @8490podcast
    @8490podcast 8 месяцев назад

    Facts

  • @yvettedupree3675
    @yvettedupree3675 7 месяцев назад

    ✌️

  • @honeyccampbell8687
    @honeyccampbell8687 7 месяцев назад

    Cigarette 🚬 burns 😂😂😂😂

  • @jackiewesterfield358
    @jackiewesterfield358 8 месяцев назад

    ❣️

  • @narviaflournoy3869
    @narviaflournoy3869 5 месяцев назад +1

    🛞🎁🙏🏼

  • @liannsambu7264
    @liannsambu7264 8 месяцев назад

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 CRAZY

  • @narviaflournoy3869
    @narviaflournoy3869 5 месяцев назад +2

    Yep, him delivery is right on point. "If receiving a package 📦 you have arrived I expected this" !! 🧭🪭🌠