I think it goes without saying though. You have an empathic attitude? Always putting others before you? You will be taken advantage of. Not necessarily by questionable men, but people in general. Because people will always want to test you, once they notice you keep going out of your way to please them. Your value in their eyes, decreases. It’s human nature. That which is given freely and too readily, isn’t really appreciated. And familiarity breeds contempt. Great content brother. I just stumbled across you few days ago and you speak- wisdom. Good counsel. God grant you more insight.
I agree with most except the attracting yourself piece. I just left a relationship of a very toxic person. I absolutely refuse to believe I’m that person. I fell in love with a representative. While my “good heart” was broken badly I’m grateful for the pain because it has taught me to exercise boundaries, address red flags immediately and most importantly……WALK AWAY!!!
My goodness you're right 💯...I kept saying why do I attract heartless men when I care so deeply, now I know why 😮. Time I redirect my energy to think positive self love👍🏼
It is AMAZING how the Lord uses people to reach you! This message brought so much clarity for me! You would not believe it even if I tried to explain. This is my first time watching and I am so grateful that I listened until the end and did not receive it in the wrong way. Your insight has definitely blessed me. Keep spreading these messages because you ARE reaching someone. Thank you so much and God bless you.
I raised both of my children with this understanding, 'who you meet and date is a reflection of what you truly feel about yourself. You can only get from a person what you give and feel about yourself. '
I DO AGREE BUT I ALSO THINK SOULS ARE DRAWN TOGETHER TO HELP EACH OTHER HEAL AND GROW NO MATTER HOW IT STARTED AND THANKFUL FOR THE LESSONS TO MAKE BOTH BETTER FOR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS OR THAT RELATIONSHIP,ALL ABOUT GROWTH FORGIVENESS AND HEALING
I enjoy Kirk Hazell's videos. I needed this realization along time ago. I would have fixed myself and been happily married now. I guess it's better late than never🤷🏽♀️
You and I both! It's crazy how I can see a male friend or co-worker from the past, and they will tell me, "I'd thought you'd be happily married with 2 kids by now". If they only knew I'm the problem due to my poor picking 😩. Wishing you the best on your journey ❤
@@jan854 I believe it is going to happen for us. Just like Kirk said. We have to put out the energy we want to attract. I must say that is a process. We (GOT🙂) this, though.
Good women attract all kinds of attention period it’s what she allows to happen is what she will end up with. Her boundaries or lack thereof determines who stays. If she respects herself she won’t allow anyone to play with her heart so it won’t ever get to the point of being with a crappy person. Unfortunately, because most people are wounded and haven’t done the healing nor do they know their own energy they can’t discern correctly. But beauty is beauty, whether it’s a good man or a crappy one both have eyes and both gon try to see where she’s at with herself. It’s whether that crappy person resonates with her energy in some way. But I agree with everything else.
You're spot on. Perfectly said. There's no good or bad person. It's the energy you carry that draws people with the same energy to you. The solution is to work on ourselves. Thank you so much for this realisation. I'll make better decisions in the future.
I innerstand from an adult perspective. But how can you explain this when being a child that is loving, innocent and pure of heart and mind, yet finds that their parents start abusing or even raping them later on? The energy of the child, could not be the attraction of that evil energy of the parent. So there is something else in this world outside of us that is doing this as well. Once traumatised we keep "attracting" the same.. but it started while being pure... Can you explain this?
I concur. I Feel like this topic should be discussed more thoroughly because a lot of people experience trauma from growing up with a very narcissistic disfunctional Family and what's more, a narcissistic parent; The very person that's supposed to teach you and inculcate within you these things: Love selfrespect, discernment, etc, is the very One taking the lead in misguiding, manipulating and deceiving you. Now it can go either way, however, a lot of people in that Family Dynamic do not At All want to grow up being The replica of a manipulative parent; if fact that can make one be very passionate about JUSTICE; amongst other things. With that being said, I don't feel That that should be a blanket statement for everyone, but addressing how to heal and draw high vibrational people to you after being around low vibration people for the majority of one's life is definitely a topic that the dial needs to be turned up on. One thing i do know about people that have suffered narcissistic abuse trauma Is that they're very in tune with feelings or emotions, and the feeling or ENERGY of others and they're highly empathetic. And yet, even with all that trauma they are still very resilient Wanting to thrive and have Meaningful and BEAUTIFUL relationships with people, and want to live very productive, happy, healthy lives. SO HOW TO GET TO THAT? Because I'm pretty sure that low-vibrational/ low Energy is not the way to happiness for people of this kind of background, and they really want more.. .. IM JUST SAYING 🤷🏾♀️
Dont get me wrong I AGREE with you. Its just not simple to undo years of learned behavior and the proper support is necessary to PROPERLY HEAL. VALIDATION has a human is necessary to heal. And It takes time and patience to overturn strongly entrenched things.
Thanks so much for this. 🙏🏽 You are correct 1 million%. It was not until I took responsibility for my internal stuff....that my life changed! Now....I attract what I am on the inside. I am thankful for all of the experiences that brought me here...painful but needed. I had to look at me! I am still growing and learning daily. I am thankful for your channel and for speaking the Raw Truth! It is needed for those who are ready to receive it and change their lives. Will continue to tune in and Subscribe!
The idea I’ve been pondering is that we attract who we are AND we attract what we judge- due to the law of polarity. I understand in this moment that we also attract what we judge to cleanse that judgement from our spirits and the collective consciousness.
What kind of malarkey is that thinking?😮 I think I need a science textbook just to get a glimmer of understanding about what the heck you're talking about 🥴 Can you say you're thinking in layman's terms?
@@tamitatangoto5134 lol The idea of “we attract what we judge” came from something I watched with Robert Edward Grant. Search his interviews on here. Also the law of polarity means that 2 different ideas can exist at the same time. Example: we are all one AND we are each individual expressions of God
I honestly don't believe there aren't good nor bad women! Lots of horrible men and horrible women out there. If a murderer murders people but in his spare time he does charity work is he still a bad person! Smh
Facts! If you want to heal change your reaction to what you "don't want" and eventually those bad people won't show up anymore. Discipline is real. The Bible says don't throw your pearls to swine ...... following God is a good way to raise your standards for yourself if you don't know how to do it on your own. However let's not let these predators off the hook, these men are watching u come out of church to take and use. Why you don't address that?
This is such an eye opener ✨ I have been doing this all wrong, I thought I had to understand men. But i spent so much time, ppl pleasing, I forgot the relationship with myself. It comes down to understanding myself. Not trying to understand someone else.
I have been in the States for 28 years and what have not broken me has definitely made me stronger and I came across your video tonight after deciding yesterday that maybe it would be for me to be a single mother, cause even no matter how hard I try to give men a chance, they really do end up being the wrong one, by how they treat me in the end. At first they act wonderful and kind and all that they want to, to reveal the acts of attraction but when you give them a chance they turn out worst than you expected and end up treating you badly; then act like why are you mad and you are overreacting and exaggerating. Let's talk about it then forget and move on. And then history repeats itself no matter how much we talk about it, maybe it is better to be single cause you do not have to deal with the drama that a man puts you through. For instance my now ex, has had two marriages that failed and now he thinks that I am one who is doing something, even though I am not and he is so insecure and untrustworthy that I could not even hold my friendship with a long lost friend of mine that is in another continent. The relationship is damaged cause he is damaged goods and my good character does not deserve to be treated the way he does, cause I have been through too much in my past to deserve it. I believe that maybe, just maybe, God does have a soul mate for everyone else, but if so, mine would have to find me cause I give up on looking. I know that there are good men out there but with all I have been blessed in with the knowledge of God, I doubt they may have the same mindset and they would have to be accepting my kids as a package deal.
Good for you. You're learning how to love yourself.. most man in today Society really don't love themselves.thinking their are prize & very feminine.Its best to be single. Rather put up with drama & bad vibes,feel lonely just to say you have a man. You can do bad all by yourself. Most woman in society say they're tried of man boys & rather single 😂 I feel the same..I have a guy trying to talk.to me . He is in The friend Zone. You have to 🐝 Friends first. As time passes I'm good not getting Excited just b/c he came into my world. Only time Wil tell if he.step.it up and act like he wants to invest in me for the long man run. . I have to pay attention to a man actions & N🚫T words.😅 ✌️🌺 Out 🙂 🌺 .
I do somewhat agree. "Vibrations" is a term used in new age philosophy. Best rule of thumb, reciprocate towards those who do the same. Most people I know, seem to just LOVE folks who abuse them. I don't play that. Stop wasting time on losers. Just STOP it and cut them off unceremoniously. People do The Lord the same way. Then when times get hard they want to question God. I know folks who live all their lives and NEVER ONCE stop and thank God for His mercy. In the words of someone I heard, "God's not going to pay the rent and you're laying up with the devil." In the song, "Stars" (with Kendrick Lamar and SZA), You can tell what kinda person you're dealing with, by giving them a gift. Not several. Test character. If a person can't accept a gift WITHOUT it corrupting their hearts, they have low character. You owe nobody anything.
I went on a 3 miles run and listened to this 3 times. This a mirror check for me. I could set better boundaries and take more responsibilities and hold myself accountable. I've been doing this work for about 2 years now. I went celibate to focus on me and deal with me and love me. This reminds me of the 4 agreements. I read this book at least once a year. As i was running and listening, i was reminded to read it. I just picked it up yesterday wheb i was doing my new year eve: feng shui
I'm so broken after over a century of situationships. I feel like it's to late for me. I'm tired of tired to "talk" and work it out or trying to find anything worth hanging onto. He's made me feel so bad about myself, even though I've been through hell and back working on myself and my character flaws. But it's him who hasn't worked on him and he says just look pretty and skinny. And that just killed me inside. Because when I was younger and skinnier nobody treated much different it's it's all bullshit. So I shook God and I found him but now I feel unworthy of anyone's love. I feel so low and insignificant I feel unworthy of anything. I cry a lot and hate my life because I'm stuck and it's all my fault even though I tried to run away multiple times. Now I'm in a foreign country
Plain truth we are leaving in denial. Exactly this is me thank you very much. Am in a toxic relationship for almost 10 years trying to be be good but is not working. Is hard but I have to move and for myself
Your 💯 I’ve been there 2 as well for years n it’s crazy how this starts of small n you really end up wit a sociopath one day. Women really need to wake up. I nearly lost my life & my son.
Let focus to the question, shall we?....Why women with the best heart always meet the worse type of men? Because, women with a best heart, not easy very hard person from the outside but it good from the inside. " They have recognise that finding someone like me again might be impossible." ( Seraphic Soul). Few women one or two or three in each country...not many of them include Pacific island women.... Why women with the best heart... Understand in this, the rest of women... because they are famous, celebrities, Princess, Business, good workers.. actress, lawyer, millionaire etc. This why friends depart or split etc Always meet the worse type of men.... I don't think there is worse type of men in the world. But, I found out that they made decisions, in doors, out doors, and they are the head of families... Another words, they are people choose the best woman for themselves, or hold authority in all circumstances..Not bad at all... So answer the question, a men know to communicate to get the best, he made it the hard way, chatting with woman for three to four years, not see her face but work faithfully on her... that man tie the knots..he know how to work with the woman... The man have to understand the woman and respect her, not look at in some way but create his trust on the woman patiently. To the woman she settled, she not fight back again, she knew how to work everything, and know the truth of relationships..she know the trick of the family, between her and the man..Yeah! That woman is attractive, from wisdom and knowledge..she form peace, not running after wealth but enjoy the life with the man. ❤❤❤❤. Another word, happy with the man but she not accept the happiness of the man, wealth. ❤❤❤. This is the true woman but to find again, might be impossible. ❤❤❤.
Idk why but I keep attracting men who don’t like their mothers. Like it’s insane to me. I look back in high school- my 2 boyfriends from then both loved their mothers, but once I got into serious relationships they had such huge problems with their moms and idk why it really sucks
When you set your self free,is there a need to text or call them to tell them your mind and let them know, you know about their lies,or you just remove yourself completely from the picture? A response will be good. Dalu.
Man, when you meet someone and you think, I would’ve entertained this person 2 years ago…now, you restricted the emotional response and upped the logical response. You get the emotional discipline to reject what you know you don’t want. Not acting out of desperation. Know you’re the ish and protect/respect yourself. Ask yourself, would you want your daughter/niece to be in this situation? If not be brave enough to leave it and know you’re still the ish. I recognize light and I recognize when someone is emotionally peaceful. I’ve seen so much dysfunction I can spot it now and think more of myself to avoid it.
I've been lately watching videos and subscribed to your channel. I don't what to say. I got the worst. As you say it's my behaviour too adding the fuel. Neither he's allowing me to get separated nor living with me happily. I want help and support from my Indian orthodox family but they're only calculating based on their theory of money. Because Indian law doesn't allow straight away divorce even after 18 months of application. My government counsellor is not capable of Counselling me. Because she is kind of protecting the predator and his dignity because he's earning money and not I.
So how do you heal from the pain and trauma what would you suggest in regards to that to take accountability for picking that one person and establishing that you can’t fix them? That’s the only grey area 17:26
We some of U.S. women are building up illusions about the ideal man in our minds mr perfect what we won’t get some end finding another marriage next woman
Didn't you say that there is no good woman and he got this it from the bible in another video??? Man make up your mind or stop speaking in circles we are paying attention.
I have been in the States for 28 years and what have not broken me has definitely made me stronger and I came across your video tonight after deciding yesterday that maybe it would be for me to be a single mother, cause even no matter how hard I try to give men a chance, they really do end up being the wrong one, by how they treat me in the end. At first they act wonderful and kind and all that they want to, to reveal the acts of attraction but when you give them a chance they turn out worst than you expected and end up treating you badly; then act like why are you mad and you are overreacting and exaggerating. Let's talk about it then forget and move on. And then history repeats itself no matter how much we talk about it, maybe it is better to be single cause you do not have to deal with the drama that a man puts you through. For instance my now ex, has had two marriages that failed and now he thinks that I am one who is doing something, even though I am not and he is so insecure and untrustworthy that I could not even hold my friendship with a long lost friend of mine that is in another continent. The relationship is damaged cause he is damaged goods and my good character does not deserve to be treated the way he does, cause I have been through too much in my past to deserve it. I believe that maybe, just maybe, God does have a soul mate for everyone else, but if so, mine would have to find me cause I give up on looking. I know that there are good men out there but with all I have been blessed in with the knowledge of God, I doubt they may have the same mindset and they would have to be accepting my kids as a package deal.
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I think it goes without saying though. You have an empathic attitude? Always putting others before you? You will be taken advantage of. Not necessarily by questionable men, but people in general. Because people will always want to test you, once they notice you keep going out of your way to please them. Your value in their eyes, decreases. It’s human nature. That which is given freely and too readily, isn’t really appreciated. And familiarity breeds contempt. Great content brother. I just stumbled across you few days ago and you speak- wisdom. Good counsel. God grant you more insight.
True
Thank you for your wise words and videos. Really helps a lot.
I agree with most except the attracting yourself piece. I just left a relationship of a very toxic person. I absolutely refuse to believe I’m that person. I fell in love with a representative.
While my “good heart” was broken badly I’m grateful for the pain because it has taught me to exercise boundaries, address red flags immediately and most importantly……WALK AWAY!!!
Yes maam! Duly noted 😤
Same here❤
My goodness you're right 💯...I kept saying why do I attract heartless men when I care so deeply, now I know why 😮. Time I redirect my energy to think positive self love👍🏼
Real talk, I learned the hard way but I learned. Still working on myself. You help me keep my balance. Thank you 😊
Thank you 🥰
It is AMAZING how the Lord uses people to reach you! This message brought so much clarity for me! You would not believe it even if I tried to explain. This is my first time watching and I am so grateful that I listened until the end and did not receive it in the wrong way. Your insight has definitely blessed me. Keep spreading these messages because you ARE reaching someone. Thank you so much and God bless you.
I’m honored🙏🏾
I raised both of my children with this understanding, 'who you meet and date is a reflection of what you truly feel about yourself. You can only get from a person what you give and feel about yourself. '
I DO AGREE BUT I ALSO THINK SOULS ARE DRAWN TOGETHER TO HELP EACH OTHER HEAL AND GROW NO MATTER HOW IT STARTED AND THANKFUL FOR THE LESSONS TO MAKE BOTH BETTER FOR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS OR THAT RELATIONSHIP,ALL ABOUT GROWTH FORGIVENESS AND HEALING
Definitely
Puh..!! . Another masterpiece delivery. Speaks straight at me, Kirk❤
I enjoy Kirk Hazell's videos. I needed this realization along time ago. I would have fixed myself and been happily married now. I guess it's better late than never🤷🏽♀️
You and I both! It's crazy how I can see a male friend or co-worker from the past, and they will tell me, "I'd thought you'd be happily married with 2 kids by now". If they only knew I'm the problem due to my poor picking 😩. Wishing you the best on your journey ❤
@@jan854 I believe it is going to happen for us. Just like Kirk said. We have to put out the energy we want to attract. I must say that is a process. We (GOT🙂) this, though.
Good women attract all kinds of attention period it’s what she allows to happen is what she will end up with. Her boundaries or lack thereof determines who stays. If she respects herself she won’t allow anyone to play with her heart so it won’t ever get to the point of being with a crappy person. Unfortunately, because most people are wounded and haven’t done the healing nor do they know their own energy they can’t discern correctly. But beauty is beauty, whether it’s a good man or a crappy one both have eyes and both gon try to see where she’s at with herself. It’s whether that crappy person resonates with her energy in some way. But I agree with everything else.
You’re Absolutely Right Thank You For This Message
You're spot on. Perfectly said. There's no good or bad person. It's the energy you carry that draws people with the same energy to you.
The solution is to work on ourselves.
Thank you so much for this realisation. I'll make better decisions in the future.
Facts
There is good women and bad women. Just like there is good men and bad men.
I innerstand from an adult perspective. But how can you explain this when being a child that is loving, innocent and pure of heart and mind, yet finds that their parents start abusing or even raping them later on? The energy of the child, could not be the attraction of that evil energy of the parent. So there is something else in this world outside of us that is doing this as well. Once traumatised we keep "attracting" the same.. but it started while being pure... Can you explain this?
I concur. I Feel like this topic should be discussed more thoroughly because a lot of people experience trauma from growing up with a very narcissistic disfunctional Family and what's more, a narcissistic parent; The very person that's supposed to teach you and inculcate within you these things: Love selfrespect, discernment, etc, is the very One taking the lead in misguiding, manipulating and deceiving you. Now it can go either way, however, a lot of people in that Family Dynamic do not At All want to grow up being The replica of a manipulative parent; if fact that can make one be very passionate about JUSTICE; amongst other things. With that being said, I don't feel That that should be a blanket statement for everyone, but addressing how to heal and draw high vibrational people to you after being around low vibration people for the majority of one's life is definitely a topic that the dial needs to be turned up on. One thing i do know about people that have suffered narcissistic abuse trauma Is that they're very in tune with feelings or emotions, and the feeling or ENERGY of others and they're highly empathetic. And yet, even with all that trauma they are still very resilient Wanting to thrive and have Meaningful and BEAUTIFUL relationships with people, and want to live very productive, happy, healthy lives. SO HOW TO GET TO THAT? Because I'm pretty sure that low-vibrational/ low Energy is not the way to happiness for people of this kind of background, and they really want more.. .. IM JUST SAYING 🤷🏾♀️
Dont get me wrong I AGREE with you. Its just not simple to undo years of learned behavior and the proper support is necessary to PROPERLY HEAL. VALIDATION has a human is necessary to heal. And It takes time and patience to overturn strongly entrenched things.
Thanks so much for this. 🙏🏽 You are correct 1 million%. It was not until I took responsibility for my internal stuff....that my life changed! Now....I attract what I am on the inside. I am thankful for all of the experiences that brought me here...painful but needed. I had to look at me! I am still growing and learning daily. I am thankful for your channel and for speaking the Raw Truth! It is needed for those who are ready to receive it and change their lives. Will continue to tune in and Subscribe!
🙏🏾🙏🏾
👏👏👏 beautiful speech on importance of energy we emit
This is powerful. Thank you ❤
The idea I’ve been pondering is that we attract who we are AND we attract what we judge- due to the law of polarity. I understand in this moment that we also attract what we judge to cleanse that judgement from our spirits and the collective consciousness.
What kind of malarkey is that thinking?😮
I think I need a science textbook just to get a glimmer of understanding about what the heck you're talking about 🥴
Can you say you're thinking in layman's terms?
@@tamitatangoto5134 lol The idea of “we attract what we judge” came from something I watched with Robert Edward Grant. Search his interviews on here. Also the law of polarity means that 2 different ideas can exist at the same time. Example: we are all one AND we are each individual expressions of God
Thank you for shredding light on what I'm attracting and what I'm allowing into my life. I will now be more cautious of who i'm entertaining and why.❤
First video Kirk that I have watched that you present with no interruptions of constantly stopping and giving Shout outs! Great!!
Thank u. I really needed to hear this message today. Straight truth.
I honestly don't believe there aren't good nor bad women! Lots of horrible men and horrible women out there. If a murderer murders people but in his spare time he does charity work is he still a bad person! Smh
Facts! If you want to heal change your reaction to what you "don't want" and eventually those bad people won't show up anymore. Discipline is real. The Bible says don't throw your pearls to swine ...... following God is a good way to raise your standards for yourself if you don't know how to do it on your own. However let's not let these predators off the hook, these men are watching u come out of church to take and use. Why you don't address that?
This is such an eye opener ✨
I have been doing this all wrong, I thought I had to understand men.
But i spent so much time, ppl pleasing, I forgot the relationship with myself.
It comes down to understanding myself. Not trying to understand someone else.
I’m so glad I found your channel! Very eye-opening for me !! ❤
🥰❤️
I have been in the States for 28 years and what have not broken me has definitely made me stronger and I came across your video tonight after deciding yesterday that maybe it would be for me to be a single mother, cause even no matter how hard I try to give men a chance, they really do end up being the wrong one, by how they treat me in the end. At first they act wonderful and kind and all that they want to, to reveal the acts of attraction but when you give them a chance they turn out worst than you expected and end up treating you badly; then act like why are you mad and you are overreacting and exaggerating. Let's talk about it then forget and move on. And then history repeats itself no matter how much we talk about it, maybe it is better to be single cause you do not have to deal with the drama that a man puts you through. For instance my now ex, has had two marriages that failed and now he thinks that I am one who is doing something, even though I am not and he is so insecure and untrustworthy that I could not even hold my friendship with a long lost friend of mine that is in another continent. The relationship is damaged cause he is damaged goods and my good character does not deserve to be treated the way he does, cause I have been through too much in my past to deserve it. I believe that maybe, just maybe, God does have a soul mate for everyone else, but if so, mine would have to find me cause I give up on looking. I know that there are good men out there but with all I have been blessed in with the knowledge of God, I doubt they may have the same mindset and they would have to be accepting my kids as a package deal.
Good for you.
You're learning how to love yourself.. most man in today
Society really don't love themselves.thinking their are prize & very feminine.Its best
to be single. Rather put up with drama & bad vibes,feel lonely just to say you have a man. You can do bad all by yourself. Most woman in society say they're tried of man boys & rather single 😂
I feel the same..I have a guy trying to talk.to me . He is in
The friend Zone. You have to 🐝 Friends first. As time passes I'm good not getting
Excited just b/c he came into my world. Only time Wil tell if he.step.it up and act like he wants to invest in me for the long man run. . I have to pay attention to a man actions & N🚫T words.😅
✌️🌺 Out 🙂 🌺
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Such an amazing video how true 👍 Thank you for educating me and realizing I'm accountable for myself.
God bless you, thanks for being real.
This is just amazing, I really needed this. I am so glad that I stumbled upon your content. 😊
Thank you.. Some of these messages is what i needed. 🙏🙏
Thank you
Thank u so much, well received🙏🏿
Wow, this is good! Thank you!
Thank you Sir this so powerful
I do somewhat agree. "Vibrations" is a term used in new age philosophy. Best rule of thumb, reciprocate towards those who do the same. Most people I know, seem to just LOVE folks who abuse them. I don't play that. Stop wasting time on losers. Just STOP it and cut them off unceremoniously. People do The Lord the same way. Then when times get hard they want to question God. I know folks who live all their lives and NEVER ONCE stop and thank God for His mercy. In the words of someone I heard, "God's not going to pay the rent and you're laying up with the devil." In the song, "Stars" (with Kendrick Lamar and SZA), You can tell what kinda person you're dealing with, by giving them a gift. Not several. Test character. If a person can't accept a gift WITHOUT it corrupting their hearts, they have low character. You owe nobody anything.
THANK YOU, BROTHER!! Ice shared this a FEW friends! Maybe someone they DON'T know saying it may help!!❤❤❤
Well said my Brother. I love the way you break things down!
Awesome energy. Like your style😊
Ah my God. This guy like angel ❤❤❤❤
Great wisdom bro
These messages are so true
Very inspired
God bless...
GOOD MESSAGE....THANKS!!!!this has been my issue all along and you are offering some thought provoking input!
Thank you for your honesty, I agree and I am going to work on myself so i can receive better. I want better for myself.
Thanks for talking to me i really need to do some soul searching 🙏
Thank you for this message!!! You are Amazing and very much needed and appreciated!!!
Thank you!
I went on a 3 miles run and listened to this 3 times. This a mirror check for me. I could set better boundaries and take more responsibilities and hold myself accountable. I've been doing this work for about 2 years now. I went celibate to focus on me and deal with me and love me. This reminds me of the 4 agreements. I read this book at least once a year. As i was running and listening, i was reminded to read it. I just picked it up yesterday wheb i was doing my new year eve: feng shui
I'm so broken after over a century of situationships.
I feel like it's to late for me.
I'm tired of tired to "talk" and work it out or trying to find anything worth hanging onto.
He's made me feel so bad about myself, even though I've been through hell and back working on myself and my character flaws. But it's him who hasn't worked on him and he says just look pretty and skinny. And that just killed me inside. Because when I was younger and skinnier nobody treated much different it's it's all bullshit.
So I shook God and I found him but now I feel unworthy of anyone's love. I feel so low and insignificant I feel unworthy of anything. I cry a lot and hate my life because I'm stuck and it's all my fault even though I tried to run away multiple times. Now I'm in a foreign country
I love your advise bàad u inspires me o can listen to u all the time u comforts me touches my points
How do we let go of this trauma and response? Thank you for this lesson, you really opened my eyes. I’ve been praying for this answer
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you sir for this
this message was from God's heart !!!
Plain truth we are leaving in denial. Exactly this is me thank you very much. Am in a toxic relationship for almost 10 years trying to be be good but is not working. Is hard but I have to move and for myself
Truth indeed
I hear you sir
Bravo I gat you sir
I needed to hear that. Thank you.
I have a lot of healing to do I love your posts they make sense ❤
Wow! Good to know you are a fellow Scorpio.. No wonder you are so good
Wow I learned alot from this… thank you!
Amazing ❤! Thank you
Plain truth
Your 💯 I’ve been there 2 as well for years n it’s crazy how this starts of small n you really end up wit a sociopath one day. Women really need to wake up. I nearly lost my life & my son.
I get it. A savior mentally 😢
Let focus to the question, shall we?....Why women with the best heart always meet the worse type of men?
Because, women with a best heart, not easy very hard person from the outside but it good from the inside.
" They have recognise that finding someone like me again might be impossible."
( Seraphic Soul). Few women one or two or three in each country...not many of them include Pacific island women....
Why women with the best heart... Understand in this, the rest of women... because they are famous, celebrities, Princess, Business, good workers.. actress, lawyer, millionaire etc. This why friends depart or split etc
Always meet the worse type of men....
I don't think there is worse type of men in the world.
But, I found out that they made decisions, in doors, out doors, and they are the head of families... Another words, they are people choose the best woman for themselves, or hold authority in all circumstances..Not bad at all...
So answer the question, a men know to communicate to get the best, he made it the hard way, chatting with woman for three to four years, not see her face but work faithfully on her... that man tie the knots..he know how to work with the woman... The man have to understand the woman and respect her, not look at in some way but create his trust on the woman patiently.
To the woman she settled, she not fight back again, she knew how to work everything, and know the truth of relationships..she know the trick of the family, between her and the man..Yeah!
That woman is attractive, from wisdom and knowledge..she form peace, not running after wealth but enjoy the life with the man. ❤❤❤❤. Another word, happy with the man but she not accept the happiness of the man, wealth. ❤❤❤. This is the true woman but to find again, might be impossible. ❤❤❤.
Thank you ❤
Idk why but I keep attracting men who don’t like their mothers. Like it’s insane to me. I look back in high school- my 2 boyfriends from then both loved their mothers, but once I got into serious relationships they had such huge problems with their moms and idk why it really sucks
I love it 🎉
Amen
I don’t want men I have to fix so I don’t know why I get them broken? I don’t have time for thst
I can't fix a person I'm not a veteranarian or doctor lol just kidding Kirk this is absolutely TRUE thank you.
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When you set your self free,is there a need to text or call them to tell them your mind and let them know, you know about their lies,or you just remove yourself completely from the picture? A response will be good. Dalu.
Man, when you meet someone and you think, I would’ve entertained this person 2 years ago…now, you restricted the emotional response and upped the logical response. You get the emotional discipline to reject what you know you don’t want. Not acting out of desperation. Know you’re the ish and protect/respect yourself. Ask yourself, would you want your daughter/niece to be in this situation? If not be brave enough to leave it and know you’re still the ish. I recognize light and I recognize when someone is emotionally peaceful. I’ve seen so much dysfunction I can spot it now and think more of myself to avoid it.
I've been lately watching videos and subscribed to your channel.
I don't what to say. I got the worst.
As you say it's my behaviour too adding the fuel.
Neither he's allowing me to get separated nor living with me happily.
I want help and support from my Indian orthodox family but they're only calculating based on their theory of money.
Because Indian law doesn't allow straight away divorce even after 18 months of application.
My government counsellor is not capable of Counselling me. Because she is kind of protecting the predator and his dignity because he's earning money and not I.
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Got it
u are saying right
Correct
So how do you heal from the pain and trauma what would you suggest in regards to that to take accountability for picking that one person and establishing that you can’t fix them? That’s the only grey area 17:26
I get what you're saying. Dalu
Facts✔️
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There is good woman and bad women . Look at their values or lack of. Morals or lack of .
How I’m I now finding u..
We some of U.S. women are building up illusions about the ideal man in our minds mr perfect what we won’t get some end finding another marriage next woman
Oooh, that was powerful.
I dont think any man oht there for me
You look like you be preying on women with good hearts , you’re probably a professional at spotting them.
Didn't you say that there is no good woman and he got this it from the bible in another video??? Man make up your mind or stop speaking in circles we are paying attention.
Thank you Love with love what you're sayand I'm learning.
Man this is amazing 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
POWERFUL!!!❤️🩹
Thank you...the vibration is high❤❤❤ im loving it Please continue to bring more food for the soul.
Where have you been ???🙏🏽🙏🏽 Teach
Food for the soul❤
I have been in the States for 28 years and what have not broken me has definitely made me stronger and I came across your video tonight after deciding yesterday that maybe it would be for me to be a single mother, cause even no matter how hard I try to give men a chance, they really do end up being the wrong one, by how they treat me in the end. At first they act wonderful and kind and all that they want to, to reveal the acts of attraction but when you give them a chance they turn out worst than you expected and end up treating you badly; then act like why are you mad and you are overreacting and exaggerating. Let's talk about it then forget and move on. And then history repeats itself no matter how much we talk about it, maybe it is better to be single cause you do not have to deal with the drama that a man puts you through. For instance my now ex, has had two marriages that failed and now he thinks that I am one who is doing something, even though I am not and he is so insecure and untrustworthy that I could not even hold my friendship with a long lost friend of mine that is in another continent. The relationship is damaged cause he is damaged goods and my good character does not deserve to be treated the way he does, cause I have been through too much in my past to deserve it. I believe that maybe, just maybe, God does have a soul mate for everyone else, but if so, mine would have to find me cause I give up on looking. I know that there are good men out there but with all I have been blessed in with the knowledge of God, I doubt they may have the same mindset and they would have to be accepting my kids as a package deal.