HOW TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- It's easy to play the blame game and to remove ourselves from taking responsibility for whatever is happening to us. Before you know it we start blaming our circumstances, people or our environment for not being where we want to be or for not having what we want to have.
In today's class I'll teach you how to recognise the signs that you're playing the blame game and how to instead start taking responsibility for your own journey so you can start taking action and getting the results you want.
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The proof of how easy it is to play the blame game is how my mind automatically went to a different person, thinking they were blaming me, instead of simply thinking that I also have a part in it, and that I am blaming them. Sometimes it's gonna be tough, and I'll probably feel like I'm feeling now - I don't know where to start to fix this and I'm not sure I have the strength to fix it again - but I'll practice the responsibility game and begin to change the way I see things. I'm happy I decided to subscribe. Keep up the good work, congrats.
Thanks Laiz, appreciate it. And although change is never easy, I wholeheartedly believe we all have what it takes to implement this change in our lives. Being able to pause and reflect on what is the 2% truth in what the other person is saying allows us to take a new perspective on the situation. Of course, easier said than done! But I also think if you give yourself the permission to fail at times and don't be so hard on yourself you'll be amazed at what you can achieve. Keep it up!
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Wow great video man! really powerful and true words
Hey, how can I train myself to start taking responsibility? I think I might be little lazy at time and loose my intent from time to time
Great video and thanks a lot! Do you think you could help me with something? So basically I'm araband all my roommates are chinese. I used to hangout with them but i realised how toxic they were and were starting to get worse everyday. One day they pulled a sick prank on me and I haven't talked to them ever since even though the 5 of us stay in the same room. Now i can sense how badly they talk about me and even call me smelly in chinese(they don't know that I know what it means). Once i was just doing my thing sitting on the table eating cheese with headphones on. I sensed they were talking about me and how i was eating the cheese with the bread. They do this like once a week. How do I fix this? I have complained to the management about them being noisy at night and other stuff and they even shook hand with me in front of the management. The next hour i could already sense that they were talking shit about me. They are so toxic that telling them won't fix anything and they will just
There's no point talking to them because they will just giggle around when i leave . Sorry for the long message and I'd appreciate your help. You genuinely feel like a nice guy which I'm sure you are! Lastly, I subbed when i saw this video! Thank you so much.
Hi, it sounds like you're going through some tough times and it's never easy to assume what other people think about us. My suggestion would be to speak with them directly about what your'e sensing. I would look up Non Violent Communication technique to express yourself. So instead of blaming them, simply state that you feel a certain way when you make up that they're saying this about you. And then state what you'd like or what you need. If that doesn't work, then of course I'd suggest to remove yourself from an environment that's not helpful to your growth. Good luck!
Excellent!