How to Hack Your Mind and Live Your Best Life | Coach Mike Bayer on Impact Theory

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  3 года назад +8

    Here are the topics covered in this episode of #ImpactTheory:
    One Decision | Coach Mike defines “One Decision” [1:34​]
    Big Decision | One big decision [2:51​]
    Perspective | Looking at life through the lens of your experiences [5:03​]
    Trauma |Awareness of what you’re thinking and where you’re beginning [7:32​]
    Window | The moment of willingness and trusting the universe to be open for help [10:23​]
    Surrender to Win | the idea of surrendering to a whole new way of life [15:31​]
    Mike’s Window | Coach Mike shares his window of escape and experience [16:43​]
    G.O.D. | Mike shares his take on good orally direction [20:46​]
    Commitment | Mike share how he was able stay committed to sobriety [25:08​]
    Mental Health & Drugs | Mike dives into mental health, drugs and who his book is for [29:25​]
    The Shift | Mikes shares what it means to turn on someone’s light even in suffering [30:42​]
    Best-Self | Mike talks about the constructed image of best self and self signaling [33:50​]
    Anti-Self | Mike explains having people create the worst version of yourself [36:13​]
    F.O.R.C.E. | Mike reveals the framework of the positive and negative force [38:12​]
    O.O.O.O. | Mike connects the obstacles, opportunities, one decision and outcome [45:33​]
    Become Your Own Vehicle | Mike share how became his own vehicle to make change [49:50​]

    • @gambhirvijay
      @gambhirvijay 3 года назад +1

      A

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess 3 года назад +1

      Wow, you edit it soo beautifully...at the very beginning....Tom &Lisa are A Masterpiece.....

    • @lewyfranklin7036
      @lewyfranklin7036 3 года назад +1

      @@westonsellshouses he uses blue fire 7218

  • @david.walters
    @david.walters 3 года назад +42

    it’s nice to heal after a long day at work… Sending everyone who sees this positive energy, stay safe :)

  • @laralebeu36
    @laralebeu36 3 года назад +10

    notes:
    - Making one decision to change life to live true to yourself
    - 100% commitment
    - visualize daily your best-self (give it a name with characteristics)
    - show up as your best self and let go of the outcome
    - know your anti-self which stands in your way (give it a name with characteristics)
    - obstacle -> opportunity -> one decision -> (let go of) outcome
    - doing what you want that feels good even if it's not easy

  • @ProjectEllsworthHorror
    @ProjectEllsworthHorror 2 года назад +1

    I just finished Mike's book 2 days ago. Very, very good read. Thank you for the video, Tom. Be well, my friend.

  • @karengorss6814
    @karengorss6814 3 года назад

    I am so glad that you got over your addiction Coach Mike. You are a true inspiration and you are a very strong person to take that step to get clean.

  • @nielsthorup8388
    @nielsthorup8388 3 года назад +3

    Louise Hay shook me to my core when she asked what the purpose of our lives was...I knew helping people who are deep in the struggle was apart of that, but I didn’t quite know how to word it. Mike stated mine to a literal T. 31:00-31:30.
    Tom.. you’ve rapidly become an immense positive force in my life. I’ve been in the struggle for years and missed many windows of change. Not this one. Truly truly truly thank you both.

  • @irenabaranauskaite1951
    @irenabaranauskaite1951 3 года назад +4

    I don’t have many inspirations around me in my real life. Everyone settles for less and what is comfortable.
    Every episode of Impact theory keeps my spirit up and pushes me to action
    Thank you 🌹

  • @crazy4chingyjg
    @crazy4chingyjg 3 года назад +46

    😂 am laughing because today is my first day I decided to quit smoking through awareness...and then here comes this interview..the universe did that lol

    • @movingonandup322
      @movingonandup322 3 года назад +4

      Good luck! You can do it. I found that the cleaner I ate, and the more I exercised, the less I wanted to smoke. Oh, and avoid hearing a good song on the radio or people who get under your skin or good sex. Lol! You got this Jay! 💪🙏❤👍💪

    • @JessE-mr4yu
      @JessE-mr4yu 3 года назад +3

      Good for you and you can do it the more I Loved myself gave me the motivation to quit my addictions because I appreciated my body more for keeping me alive in spite of me abusing it and now I wanted to show my body how grateful I was by taking better care of it Love and Good Energy to you 💙💖💫💥

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess 3 года назад +2

      Watch this in the morning everyday.....affirmations for women.....

    • @Farahfoodie
      @Farahfoodie 3 года назад +1

      🙏

    • @akhandpratapsingh3369
      @akhandpratapsingh3369 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/jAxJqr5fo40/видео.html

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад +10

    His point on your perspective shaping your life runs so deep. It goes beyond what you consciously choose to focus on and actually builds the natural default habit of positive perspective.

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub 3 года назад +26

    Alcoholics anonymous got this one very right - the first step is "lowering ones defenses" and acknowledging that there is a problem

  • @TylerSinden
    @TylerSinden 3 года назад +6

    This is so great and inspirational! Being authentic to yourself is tough because then you worry people will judge you... block those opinions out and be YOURSELF!
    Have a great day everyone and be you! 😊

  • @heatherdouglas2998
    @heatherdouglas2998 3 года назад

    Thank you brother. I so feel like you're a kindred spirit. There's no better feeling than having some small part in helping a fellow sufferer

  • @nachociatti4401
    @nachociatti4401 3 года назад +3

    This guy is totally amazing. And every interview by Tom gets better and better.

  • @karengorss6814
    @karengorss6814 3 года назад

    It is so awesome that you have a drive to help people that are struggling Coach Mike. You are an awesome mentor and very inspiring..Keep up the great work. ❤

  • @niman6505
    @niman6505 3 года назад +3

    Just starting to watch this episode. Great T-Shirt Tom and happy to see you are recording again on your set 😁

  • @NiDarjeeling
    @NiDarjeeling 3 года назад

    Have been watching Tom's show since 4 years. I am grateful that i found this show. Thanks Tom.

  • @thinktwice888-p4d
    @thinktwice888-p4d 3 года назад +2

    Damn - Tom’s reply at 16:34 - true Tom gold. Respect.

  • @saundrasaumay9767
    @saundrasaumay9767 3 года назад +2

    Love this interview. Thank you Tom & Coach Mike Bayer! (& Mike, love your T-shirt & sneakers)

    • @saundrasaumay9767
      @saundrasaumay9767 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer Loved the interview & just ordered your book : )

    • @coachmike7641
      @coachmike7641 3 года назад

      Hello beautiful lady

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 года назад +11

    Keep up the good content Tom 🙏

  • @IFBBProYeo
    @IFBBProYeo 3 года назад +8

    I've seen this guy on Dr Phil so many times it's really good to have his backstory and why he does what he does ❣️

  • @itzbebop
    @itzbebop 3 года назад +24

    Im a simple guy. I see an Impact Theory video...i click like.

  • @HHNetwork
    @HHNetwork 3 года назад +4

    thank you for this platform Tom,
    it had a positive impact on my life.

  • @Chaz.hands.
    @Chaz.hands. 3 года назад +1

    Amazing chat. Love hearing the stories of people who have overcame adversity. Thank you for sharing. The universe knows what it’s doing.

    • @Chaz.hands.
      @Chaz.hands. 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer Hello Coachmike, I am good thank you. Hope you are well.

    • @Chaz.hands.
      @Chaz.hands. 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer I have neither unfortunately, only RUclips.

  • @talesreis
    @talesreis 3 года назад +8

    Hey Tom! Amazing as always. Here's a constructive advice for you: come back with the epic intros. Those introductions that you used to do they really helped us to get an idea of who the person you are interviewing is (and also they made us even more excited and attentive to the interview). I know it takes a lot of effort to create them, but in my view (and you can ask other people about it) they take the interview to another level. Please, consider this. Anyway, thanks for being amazing and for sharing this so valuable content!

    • @Traveltalk247
      @Traveltalk247 3 года назад

      Not to mention it makes the person being interviewed feel great. Coach had to into himself.
      His wife still gives epic intros on her podcast.

  • @dawnjacobs355
    @dawnjacobs355 3 года назад +3

    I've never heard of you Coach Mike however I found myself smiling while watching you and listening to you!! This was awesome... very clear!! Thank you!💜👣🐾💛

    • @dawnjacobs355
      @dawnjacobs355 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer I'm well! How are you? I loved the podcast and am interested in other stuff you've done! Any suggestions on what to start with??

    • @GenevieveBedggood
      @GenevieveBedggood 3 месяца назад

      Yes stop hitting on your female fans mike it's wrong

  • @alvarojoseortiz
    @alvarojoseortiz 3 года назад +1

    The best interview!!!!
    Why?
    He talks how f**** up he was!!!
    ...not just about all his greatness and achievements.
    Really helpful... THANK YOU!!!

  • @JUICYFRUIT4006
    @JUICYFRUIT4006 3 года назад

    AMAZING INTERVIEW!!!!! Mike, thank you for sharing yourself with us.

  • @user-ks9ft8jg5s
    @user-ks9ft8jg5s 3 года назад +1

    That’s an amazing episode. It has really changed my life. Very powerful tactic.❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kimobush2287
    @kimobush2287 3 года назад

    Eventhough my opinion means nothing, and there is no measurement to know how true, that this guy is one of the best self help gurus or most powerful storytellers in Ive ever witnessed. The power of language and storytelling is the key to our souls

  • @On7D7
    @On7D7 3 года назад +7

    finally I come to conclusion that either I should have to live a life that I want to live or I have to die. I choose to live a life that I am suppose to live. right from this day I am fully commit to being extraordinary! ,nothing will side track me. whether or not the sun comes up tomorrow, Or whether or not the earth stops spinning on it's axis I am fully committed to be the best version of myself.

    • @eddierocksteady5740
      @eddierocksteady5740 3 года назад

      "You're allowed to be both a master piece and a work in progress simultaneously "
      Coach Mike Bayer. His realness resonates.
      The application of the 5 Ts
      .Teacher
      .Tools
      .Techniques
      .Tactics
      .Time
      radiozeaterclub@gmail.com

  • @daliadeak1015
    @daliadeak1015 3 года назад +4

    Please bring in Dr. Gabor Mate; this would tie in beautifully related to the area of trauma as well.

    • @jessruhl24
      @jessruhl24 3 года назад

      you got your wish lol So funny, I just finished reading Hungry Ghosts, highly recommend!

    • @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
      @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/ZUW-OGUeXFU/видео.html

  • @exzavior8142
    @exzavior8142 3 года назад

    Thank you both so much for this... Everyone stay on the path, You got this. You aren't alone.

    • @exzavior8142
      @exzavior8142 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer I'm doing alright, thank you. How about you? Would love to connect further

  • @tamima9844
    @tamima9844 3 года назад

    Super excited to have real-time interviews and not just an online computer screen. March 16th 2021 baby!

  • @anarguedas
    @anarguedas 3 года назад

    Great interview as always Tom! Thank you.

  • @kie1937
    @kie1937 3 года назад +5

    Brilliant from beginning to end

  • @fabianlopez5686
    @fabianlopez5686 3 года назад +1

    Mike's realness resonates!

    • @eddierocksteady5740
      @eddierocksteady5740 3 года назад

      "You're allowed to be both a master piece and a work in progress simultaneously "
      Coach Mike Bayer. His realness resonates.
      The application of the 5 Ts
      .Teacher
      .Tools
      .Techniques
      .Tactics
      .Time
      radiozeaterclub@gmail.com

  • @suzannadwyer3706
    @suzannadwyer3706 3 года назад +1

    His message is priceless!

  • @yusaradesign1
    @yusaradesign1 3 года назад +1

    Love him!!! Love his book!!!!

  • @cardiffsky
    @cardiffsky 3 года назад

    So grateful i found this channel 🤩

  • @kylemedeiros6907
    @kylemedeiros6907 3 года назад +1

    As a recovering addict, addiction counselor SURRENDUR IS KEY! I can attest that everything this man is saying is true. I have extremely high standards on what is viable in discussing recovery and this guy knows what he is talking about.

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow 3 года назад +3

    *Get down to the root cause and gradually work towards it* 🙏❤️

    • @MindNow
      @MindNow 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer good 😄 urself?

  • @karengorss6814
    @karengorss6814 3 года назад

    That's right everyone has a story. Amen to that.

  • @dustinmckennon
    @dustinmckennon 3 года назад +1

    Great interview Tom!

  • @heidireinpold4173
    @heidireinpold4173 3 года назад

    This is an amazing interview, love this

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “In any conversation, it is necessary to allow the other individual’s perspective to permeate your personal prejudices and preconceived notions about other peoples’ opinions and beliefs”
    -forest whitaker

  • @ligaskaba3910
    @ligaskaba3910 3 года назад

    So cool and so real!!! Very much appreciated the raw stories, experience and hope ❣

  • @AlwaysManifesting
    @AlwaysManifesting 3 года назад +2

    Really insightful 😃 thank you.

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “The epitome of self control and owning your choices in life is magnified by an attitude of never being complacent and resting on your metaphorical laurels”
    -tommy hilfiger

  • @НадяНовожилова-ц2к
    @НадяНовожилова-ц2к 3 года назад +1

    Super well done 😎👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @clintonparker4141
    @clintonparker4141 3 года назад +2

    Sad about all the ads

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “One must yearn for satisfaction prior to discovering the knowledge necessary to access inner wisdom”
    -Gary coleman

  • @Matt-yz3iq
    @Matt-yz3iq 3 года назад +2

    This dude fucking nailed it with the rehabs not wanting you to be ambitious. I went to rehab and then dealt with sponsors who always told me to take it easy and just keep it simple. I left all of that but quit drinking and drugging and love competing in my corporate job again.

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “It is important to be authentic and original, creativity is dependent on independence as well as being true to yourself; one can uncover a wealth of information by searching within”
    -yo gabba gabba

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “The ability to admit one’s shortcomings is an important step towards enlightenment”
    -Lao Tsung

  • @lizziehagen2536
    @lizziehagen2536 3 года назад +1

    Love this!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @lizziehagen2536
      @lizziehagen2536 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer im fab thank you, how are you?

  • @otorishingen8600
    @otorishingen8600 3 года назад

    Like Everlast from house of pain was a coach - thank you 👍

  • @nickknox9198
    @nickknox9198 3 года назад +1

    I feel like this one is going to be just what I need today!

    • @nickknox9198
      @nickknox9198 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer I’m doing well, thanks! And you?

    • @nickknox9198
      @nickknox9198 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer no sir.

  • @MaVee3112
    @MaVee3112 3 года назад

    Gotta get this book into my hands OMW 😍

  • @EvangelinaLPorras
    @EvangelinaLPorras 5 месяцев назад

    You live and learn about yourself every day as you lived each day of your life

  • @betterchefs_2405
    @betterchefs_2405 3 года назад +1

    Love you Tom

  • @QDdawg44
    @QDdawg44 3 года назад +1

    Love it!

  • @jhmstagg9104
    @jhmstagg9104 3 года назад

    Relatable journey..sounds honest

  • @blacko88
    @blacko88 3 года назад +3

    Damn tom, what happened?! I've had to cancel so many adverts off today while on my run!!! Dont sell out pllleeeeeeeease haha

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “The key to motivation is perseverance, and the padlock to perseverance is determination, the secret to determination is desire”
    -tai Lopez
    -bo Jackson
    -hand aaron

  • @antonides-official
    @antonides-official 3 года назад +1

    Could someone please tell me, what is Akranin (i don't know how to spell it) but he says he loves it? Is this a medicine, or?

    • @yaelbecknada460
      @yaelbecknada460 3 года назад +1

      Acronyms - they're just the short form for words, like ASAP, PS, and so on.

  • @jeffdorris5321
    @jeffdorris5321 3 года назад

    Nice work 🎇✨🎆

  • @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE
    @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE 3 года назад +2

    The 1% who's reading this may all your dreams come true

  • @jyotikaurlove
    @jyotikaurlove 3 года назад +2

    Tom- could you please invite Caroline Leaf? She has some very interesting information on healing and her views are a bit different.

    • @reneesiahpush2955
      @reneesiahpush2955 3 года назад

      I bought her book. I was so disappointed. 😥

    • @24galia
      @24galia 3 года назад +1

      He has already an interview with her.

  • @osogoodgirl
    @osogoodgirl 3 года назад

    Is the video promo'd at the end about maintaining change one that is coming or is it already posted? Cause if it's already posted I need that link so badly!

  • @OutineNewMedia
    @OutineNewMedia 3 года назад +1

    OMG he is my dream bear!

  • @PoetWithPace
    @PoetWithPace 3 года назад

    Is it just me, but are the mid interview adverts disturbing the flow of the interview? 🤔

  • @subslammed8725
    @subslammed8725 3 года назад +2

    You should do your ad crap at the first. I think it ruins the flow of the conversation when you do during it.

  • @anthony_valera
    @anthony_valera 3 года назад

    This is a great talk but i can’t believe how many ads are on this (on top of your own promotion).

  • @gigiinfinitespirit
    @gigiinfinitespirit 3 года назад +1

    It's not true that we can't change the 100% of who we are. The reprogramming of the subconscious mind and Epigenetics talk very clearly about this. Bruce Lipton & Joe Dispenza + Marisa Peer teach us this.

  • @antonides-official
    @antonides-official 3 года назад

    I think its a good concept but just not explained well, like FORTE or what do they mean? what is the bad self and good self how can they just talk about it, i need it written down on a paper what is this about ? I feel like i need it but i can't follow it.

  • @amryan7571
    @amryan7571 3 года назад

    I don’t want to surrender to anything.

  • @suzannadwyer3706
    @suzannadwyer3706 3 года назад +1

    G.O.D. is Good orderly direction.

  • @KaneODriscoll
    @KaneODriscoll 3 года назад +2

    The head spinning on the picture & mans voice coming out of the girl was no illusion. Demonic activity.

  • @harley_fat_boy2887
    @harley_fat_boy2887 3 года назад

    i love your shows but some of them have too many intermittent ads ... hard to listen at the gym

  • @harryabsy1694
    @harryabsy1694 3 года назад

    Thank god it's not work from home episodes. I hated it. Never felt like the real experience.

  • @beedebawng2556
    @beedebawng2556 3 года назад

    16:21 😂😂😂

  • @wowser44
    @wowser44 3 года назад

    I heard someone say today: when heart is pure and mind is clear, the truth is near. And when you think of a hero, know that you’re the one and the ego is zero. “Don’t think you are. Know you are.”
    #ShowLoveGetLove
    ☄️🏌🏼‍♀️

  • @Mateo-et3wl
    @Mateo-et3wl 3 года назад +2

    why are middle aged men wearing print t-shirts?

  • @howtogrowayoutubechannel7924
    @howtogrowayoutubechannel7924 3 года назад +1

    I love the interview , but there’s to many adds to enjoy it

    • @jj3839
      @jj3839 3 года назад

      amazing life advice for free and you complain about ads 🤔

  • @rileyseaburg5978
    @rileyseaburg5978 3 года назад +1

    I'm not gay but damn coach. 👀👀

  • @ADayintheLifeofRia
    @ADayintheLifeofRia 3 года назад +1

    Addicted to addictions! Lol

  • @samamr5193
    @samamr5193 3 года назад +1

    Nice shoes 👞

  • @Coholbell15
    @Coholbell15 3 года назад

    Getting really annoyed at the end when Tom asks. Before I ask my last question where can people find you!!? Seriously 20 yrs ago okay make sense. It's 2021 I'm pretty sure we all know where to go to. Can u pls ask another question instead of that one. Just my humble opinion 🙃

  • @trevorndhlovu7834
    @trevorndhlovu7834 3 года назад

    "It all comes to one decision to change our lives."Coach Bayer

    • @trevorndhlovu7834
      @trevorndhlovu7834 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer I am fine Coach Bayer how are you doing?

    • @trevorndhlovu7834
      @trevorndhlovu7834 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer The only private line could be on gmail trevormudendandhlovu@gmail.com

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “I’m the richest and most influential important man worldwide and even after I die I’ll just get richer more influential and more important”
    -Donald john trump

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    My grandpa was half bisexual so that makes me a quarter bi
    -Eric cartman

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    “Everybody gay”
    -Peter griffin

  • @romchiks
    @romchiks 3 года назад

    I'm with a pencil takng notes

  • @alexanderberhane436
    @alexanderberhane436 3 года назад

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    Why do ketamine clinics have only Indian doctors it’s kinda weird

  • @UltimateAwe
    @UltimateAwe 3 года назад

    This guy’s ego got in the way of his message. It was painful to listen to so much self-congratulation from someone claiming to be about helping others.

  • @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek
    @KonstantinosSaltouros-bf3ek 2 года назад

    I only listen to people that have at least $700 pentillion straight liquid cash on hand ready to go ready to spend

  • @Kzombie
    @Kzombie 3 года назад

    He doesn’t sound so certain...

  • @FiveDrexler
    @FiveDrexler 3 года назад

    No more hats Tom. 😛

  • @InkBytes
    @InkBytes 3 года назад +2

    Tom thank you for another valuable episode, I swear sometimes it feels like your videos are timed so perfectly to what is going on in my life. I hope to one day be sitting down with you and Lisa and tell you about the impact you guys have made in my life!

    • @InkBytes
      @InkBytes 3 года назад

      @Coachmike bayer Oh my gosh Mike, thanks for all your courage and strength in sharing your life lessons with us all. Incredible!