Shift Into a Powerful Mindset at Any Time, in Any Situation | David Bayer on Impact Theory

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2019
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    The personal growth and self-help industry has done a great job of leading people to self-awareness. But being aware of limiting beliefs and actually knowing how to unwind them are two very different things. David Bayer has made it his life’s mission to help people actually unwind their limiting beliefs. On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, David Bayer explains how to use visualization to figure out precisely what you really want, then breaks down the exact steps you need to take to get into a powerful, creative mindset in any situation.
    SHOW NOTES:
    David asks how we can change the habitual methods of thinking that we are addicted to [2:35]
    David describes how beliefs are formed and how beliefs trap people [3:48]
    Tom and David discuss how to unwind limiting beliefs [6:40]
    David advocates that what causes people to regress are thoughts that are simply untrue [11:35]
    David advocates that all unbounded intelligence is all there is [15:11]
    David and Tom discuss evolution, spirituality, and how to view the universe [17:59]
    At any given time, you are only paying attention to what you believe [21:25]
    David explains how to use visualization to figure out what you really want [22:16]
    David and Tom discuss how indecision and procrastination stop people [24:45]
    David shares his story of overcoming addiction [26:36]
    David describes his spiritual journey through meditation and breath-work [29:55]
    David explains the practice necessary to constantly shift into a powerful mental state [33:57]
    David describes the exact steps necessary to shift into a powerful state [36:56]
    David shares the impact he wants to have on the world [38:55]
    QUOTES:
    “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.” [13:52]
    “That which we tend to pay attention to is aligned with what we believe, and so that’s all we get.” [21:44]
    “Most people know what they don’t want, but they don’t know what they do want.” [22:16]
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  • @realcashflowqueen
    @realcashflowqueen 4 года назад +126

    25:58 "fear is wanting to have a predictable outcome around an experience you've never had before" Boom! That line was worth the entire time spent on the video. Gives me great insight. Give thanks

    • @arianareeves3042
      @arianareeves3042 3 года назад +4

      Thank you for time stamping and writing this out. This IS such a great insight.

    • @vincesligo
      @vincesligo 2 года назад +1

      Like paying interest on a loan you haven’t applied for. 🤜🏼🤛🏼

  • @rahuljhajha2791
    @rahuljhajha2791 4 года назад +360

    When I need to clear self doubt.
    I come to this channel

    • @AdamDukes
      @AdamDukes 4 года назад +1

      It's a great channel for that, that's for sure!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +3

      Amazing Mind I always have to translate this for dummies like me, but it made me better in every way.

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 года назад

      Amazing Mind no shit, me too.

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 года назад +1

      Amazing Mind Me too. I recommend it to anyone who is trying to improve themselves.💚☮️

    • @rocpeacelove3544
      @rocpeacelove3544 3 года назад

      Same!!! I can’t get enough

  • @kwalombo_ta
    @kwalombo_ta 4 года назад +306

    This channel changed my life

    • @judededude
      @judededude 4 года назад +2

      Same for me

    • @amkrtchyan13
      @amkrtchyan13 4 года назад +3

      Same here 🙏

    • @brownleeslime5039
      @brownleeslime5039 4 года назад +4

      Yes 100%

    • @sashamotovylets1753
      @sashamotovylets1753 4 года назад +3

      How so?

    • @kwalombo_ta
      @kwalombo_ta 4 года назад +5

      @@sashamotovylets1753 I didn't have direction, didn't know myself, didn't appreciate the world nearly as much as I do now. it's like I have a new set of eyes now, maybe even three(if you also believe in that kind of stuff).. Tom is doing a life changing thing here 🔥

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 года назад +265

    Addictions are just placeholders for the void that humans feel from not having a direction in life and working towards it.
    When you know where you channel your energy, there won't be time for bad habits.

    • @InfiniteTriztan1111
      @InfiniteTriztan1111 4 года назад +3

      Totally agree:)

    • @AllThingsMyTV
      @AllThingsMyTV 4 года назад +5

      Say it louder for the ppl in the back!!💯💯💯

    • @neva.2764
      @neva.2764 4 года назад +10

      It's a bit more complicated than that.

    • @itsjesshart
      @itsjesshart 4 года назад +1

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @neva.2764
      @neva.2764 4 года назад +9

      @Jonathan Bowen:
      The last thing I would want to do after reading such a brainless comment is checking out his channel :-D
      If I would take it seriously then I would have taken the time to elaborate on my answer.
      The fact that I didn't invest more time speaks for itself.
      He's not committing any crime. Just let him be.
      Anyone who uses his/her discerment knows what this is about.
      In my country we have a saying which goes "I'm not from yesterday". It means that you're not easily fooled :-D
      One comment is enough to see right through him.
      Take care and pick your battles/save your energy (he's just not worth it) ;)

  • @texasdiscountland
    @texasdiscountland 4 года назад +249

    This guy's message is powerful. I wish they would teach this type of stuff in schools for kids.

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +8

      Texas Discount Land I’ve been saying this for years. I’m home schooling my daughter and we watch this.

    • @cassandraspooner2573
      @cassandraspooner2573 4 года назад +10

      Texas Discount Land they won’t it’s a evil systems they want workers not learners

    • @kaysalshaar3543
      @kaysalshaar3543 4 года назад +4

      @@cassandraspooner2573 they want workers not learners. Exactly

    • @jimchadwin6943
      @jimchadwin6943 4 года назад +1

      L

    • @maxxpro4
      @maxxpro4 4 года назад +2

      It wont be taught in school for kids.

  • @tuesdayswithed
    @tuesdayswithed 4 года назад +8

    When I was a child I was told by family that I was worthless, that I was not going to amount to anything, and was told I should not try to do anything. Since I was born with a ton of health problems instead of helping me, my family looked at me as I could not do anything. Instead of encouragement I was constantly discouraged. As a result my life went nowhere. This video opens my eyes. Wish I would have heard this 40 years ago. So now my brain is telling me I cannot start over again at 60. Now I know those are lies.

    • @stacielara9856
      @stacielara9856 4 года назад +4

      N2backsplash same thing with me. I didn’t have a ton of health problems but was never encouraged. What helped me believe in myself eventually was God and praying. Now I’m living my dream and doing things I never thought I could do. You can do it!! Believe you can.

    • @tuesdayswithed
      @tuesdayswithed 4 года назад +1

      @@stacielara9856 Thank You Stacie. I'm starting all over after being a care giver to my mother who passed away in January. It's been tough. I gave up my career in IT but that career I now realize was not right for me and was really killing me. I did it to help mom. Now I'm alone, unemployed, and wondering what to do next. I'm
      standing at the crossroads. God will bring me through. I refuse to give up. I'm thinking of starting a business but don't know how to go about it, but I will make it. I promise you and to everybody who reads this. If you or someone you know is in my similar situation tell them they cannot give up because I'm not giving up. God is not through with me yet so I am going to press on. Take Care and God Bless.

    • @serenesongs
      @serenesongs 4 года назад +1

      @@tuesdayswithed All the best to you, You can do what you really want, start slow and small.

    • @rayalanger
      @rayalanger 4 года назад

      N2backsplash
      1- Your mind does not tell you anything, you tell your mind 2- Your mind has no age, only your body gets older 3- Colonel Harland Sanders was 65 when he started the Kentucky Fried Chicken business. 4- From your comments, I can see that you are a strong person, probably even more than you believe yourself to be. Wish you all the best!

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 года назад

      That's horrible - I'm sorry to hear that. It's so unfortunate that the origin of so many people's problems stems from the one place that ought to be anything but the source of all this bullshit -
      The family.
      Unfortunately, it's one of the cruel ironies of life that the people who should love, support and encourage you the most....often, don't.

  • @ayoubgasmi9574
    @ayoubgasmi9574 4 года назад +25

    "You get as clear as you can, then you take action, and more clarity unfolds". I resonate so much with this. Powerful interview Tom, I am forever grateful to your guests and the IT team.

  • @momslikemechicago
    @momslikemechicago 4 года назад +105

    "Clarity is intimately connected to
    imagination." Mind blown!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +1

      Lisa Bakewell I’ve never heard someone put it that way, but it’s so true!

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 года назад

      Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 3 года назад

      doesn't take much to blow your mind, does it?

  • @yugen7147
    @yugen7147 4 года назад +39

    Love the quote “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.”

    • @mrgruffy4499
      @mrgruffy4499 4 года назад +10

      "..to actually see the limiting belief as untrue." This was very true of me. I BELIEVED that I was limited. In my attempt to "re-program" my beliefs, I came up with my own affirmation, which I revised several times. I humbly submit the first two paragraphs:
      "I AM all and complete. I AM enlightened. I AM love. I AM wisdom. I AM understanding. I AM unique. I am an Immortal Spiritual Being having experiences in a physical world. I am grateful to the Universe for the love and wisdom that is already in my life. I attract the love and wisdom of the Universe so that I may better serve others and serve the Universe.
      "I accept the people in my life as they are, not as I would prefer, since they are on their own journeys to enlightenment, and are playing their assigned parts, from which they learn, and from which I learn from them. The actions and beliefs of those around me, are only the reflections of what I once was. What I perceive as “faults” in others, are only the reflections of my own faults. The people in my life recognize the wisdom in me. My energy vibrations overpower their resistance, attract them to me, awaken their desire to learn from me, to follow my lead, and to align themselves with me as I lead by example. I offer them the opportunities to learn, to rise above ignorance, to rise above those around them, to grow in spirituality, and to strive for excellence. Whenever I enter a room or a building, those present are attracted to me by the energy vibrations that I radiate."
      Regarding the "assigned parts" above, I quote Shakespeare:
      “All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances. And one man, in his time plays many parts”. “As You Like It, Act II, Scene V” William Shakespeare (Francis Bacon) www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/you-it-act-ii-scene-vii-all-worlds-stage
      Are we "players" who follow our pre-written scripts? Or can we revise our scripts to reflect who we REALLY are ?

    • @argileaustralia3854
      @argileaustralia3854 4 года назад +1

      Re your final para - yes, we can revise those deep inner scripts. .... it takes time to locate the TRUE deep core beliefs that have become our stumbling blocks, but when they are uncovered it is truly stunning. Then the 're-write' begins... cheers ...

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +1

      Yugen Smartwatches it’s like peeling back the Curtain and seeing what’s real.

    • @daniamorim7547
      @daniamorim7547 4 года назад

      @@mrgruffy4499 wow I really believe that it's a great method to write a story like you did and not simply a phrase.

  • @KwikVideoMaker
    @KwikVideoMaker 4 года назад +22

    WOW!!! "Don't let not knowing how, prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because that's actually what's required
    to happen in order for you to know how." So powerful!! How many of us resist change and opportunities because we are afraid or because we feel we are not ready or we don't know yet how to execute a thing fully? This is a life changing statement right here.

    • @morisventura674
      @morisventura674 4 года назад

      Don't exaggerate

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 года назад +1

      KwikVideoMaker Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!

    • @KwikVideoMaker
      @KwikVideoMaker 3 года назад +1

      @@dorian_tihi5869 thanks for sharing. I like encouraging videos, sometimes it's just what you need to get through the day.

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 года назад

      KwikVideoMaker yeah understandable, i do too! If you like my content feel free to subscribe 🙂 would really appreciate it a lot

  • @alamadakaratihy9312
    @alamadakaratihy9312 4 года назад +528

    "The brain doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality" - THIS!!!!

    • @merncat75
      @merncat75 4 года назад +9

      Check out Abraham Hicks 💞

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +1

      Alamada Karatihy Old quote, but still true!

    • @nickk9499
      @nickk9499 4 года назад +1

      its kinda scary huh

    • @yosmuc
      @yosmuc 4 года назад +7

      @@merncat75 And check out Neville Goddard Imagination Creates Reality

    • @merncat75
      @merncat75 4 года назад +1

      @@yosmuc thank you, I just learned of him a few months ago and have been listening to his talks ever since.

  • @technosteed4644
    @technosteed4644 4 года назад +247

    This is like two Matrix agents having a chat.

  • @abraham_acreationdesign
    @abraham_acreationdesign 4 года назад +21

    This episode was on fire!!! I just watched it twice today!!!
    Some takeaways for me:
    "Believes are that which are true... to us." "The fastest way to eradicate a limiting belief is to actively see the limiting belief as untrue." "When you invest time in getting clear around something or imagining it, you build neuro-networks that represent the memory of an experience that has not happened YET!!!"
    Six steps to get back into a powerful state:
    1. Notice when you move into a primal state.
    2. Know that what it causing you to move into that state is your own thinking (sympathetic nervous system).
    3. Take a look at what the thinking is.
    4. If it is moving you into a primal state, it might not be true.
    5. If that is not true, some form of the opposite must be true. What that might be?
    6. What evidence do you have for the fact that that would be true?

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +1

      Abraham Creation All taken from Tony Robbins first book, Unlimited Power from the 1980’s.

    • @serenesongs
      @serenesongs 4 года назад +2

      @@taoist32 and he has taken it from David Burns and Albert Ellis , they say the same thing with out the Neuro part in their Cognitive therapies, which we make Clients work on.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +1

      serenesongs Yes, that’s true. The thing is, this guy is using very similar words to the ones used in the book. He may be paraphrasing, but it sounds almost the same. Teaching similar stuff is what most personal development speakers do, but to sound almost the same seems like plagiarism.

    • @abraham_acreationdesign
      @abraham_acreationdesign 4 года назад

      @@taoist32 oh, wow! I have no idea!!! Thank you for sharing! I'll read that book then. The content really resonated with me so I will look into it.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад

      Abraham Creation Yes, it’s really cool. The thing is, his book Awaken The Giant Within was much easier to read and had more tactics you could use.

  • @niraj4024
    @niraj4024 4 года назад +27

    "What you believe, dectates your thoughts." That sounds so profound.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +2

      niraj kapadiya It’s a feedback loop. What you think, you believe. What you believe, dictates your thoughts. Start focusing on positive thoughts and everything changes to match those thoughts.

    • @ayoubgasmi9574
      @ayoubgasmi9574 4 года назад +2

      Exactly ! And it's like, if you want to change a belief, you gotta be aware of the thought and question it and reframe it so that it changes your belief in a very powerful way !

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      niraj kapadiya I learned from Weldon Long, “Your thoughts lead to your emotions, your emotion lead to your actions, and your actions lead to your results.” The power of consistency...great book.

    • @JuanTLim
      @JuanTLim 3 года назад

      @@ayoubgasmi9574.

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 года назад +1

      And so true. It even makes sense:
      If you don't believe you can do something, you're not going to take any steps towards achieving it....
      And even if by some miracle you do, you'll screw it up anyways with self-sabotaging behaviours.

  • @amanysuleiman
    @amanysuleiman 4 года назад +35

    This is an amazing coach. I love how he is able to effectively help people outside his own faith, using their faith as leverage. This is the epitome of disagreeing but respecting the beliefs of others. Love this.
    As a Muslim American, I find myself feeling out of place in some ways. I will adopt this affirmation.

  • @abdweblinks
    @abdweblinks 4 года назад +138

    1- notice when you move into primal state
    2-know what put in step 1 is your own thinking 🤔
    3-take a look what the thinking is
    4-if your thinking is moving toward step 1 most likely is not true
    5-if that not true then the opposite must be true
    6- what evidence you have for the fact that maybe true

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +1

      MyYou Tube thank you so much for this breakdown. I copied and pasted everywhere

    • @christabelle3758
      @christabelle3758 4 года назад +2

      Thank you!!! 🙏🏼🙂

    • @owlNolan
      @owlNolan 3 года назад

      How come you made so many mistakes in such little number of short statements

  • @MichaelGordon
    @MichaelGordon 4 года назад +148

    Step 1: Notice when you move into a primal state.
    Step 2: Know that the only thing that caused you to move into that emotional state (sympathetic) is your own thinking.
    Step 3: Take a look at what the thinking is.
    Step 4: Be willing to be open to the fact that the thoughts may not be true.
    Step 5: If that’s not true, so form of the opposite may be true. What's that?
    Step 6: What evidence do you have that may be true?
    ~~Its been said before, by different coaches and different teachers, it must have some truth in it :-)

    • @asharockz7
      @asharockz7 3 года назад +2

      Thank you 🤗

    • @derlycampos7489
      @derlycampos7489 3 года назад +3

      Thank you for taking the time and writing these down🙏

    • @vikaskashikar7986
      @vikaskashikar7986 Год назад +1

      Thanks for the efforts in summarising this. 👌

    • @shadwkookie7255
      @shadwkookie7255 Год назад

      Thanks for your summary. Makes it easy to remember the thought processes.

    • @flipsdivesandjumps
      @flipsdivesandjumps Год назад

      Brilliant theory

  • @joshmatthew9319
    @joshmatthew9319 4 года назад +48

    Today I'm grateful and it is going to be a winning day. I'm not going to hope I'm in a good state I demand I'm going to be in a good state. Decision is the ultimate power so decide right now to settle for nothing less than living your best life today.

  • @superpasi7315
    @superpasi7315 4 года назад +961

    David Bayer looks like Tom Bilyeu’s brother

  • @bphifer
    @bphifer 4 года назад +92

    I felt like Tom approached this interview like “okay, prove to me you know what you’re talking about.”
    I don’t know if it was because of their differences on a Higher Power or what, but it was cool because it kind of forced him to explain things. At first he was throwing out big terms that most people don’t hear to much, but Tom kept digging to get more helpful explanations.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +12

      Brandon Phifer Tom is becoming the new Larry King in personal development interviews.

    • @oa2621
      @oa2621 4 года назад +17

      Tom knows his audience. He is always a learner.

    • @janechiu370
      @janechiu370 4 года назад +3

      This is why I like Tom’s interviews, I can always take away some stuff that are accessible instead of the big terms which I already know. His wife is the same way, I like her interviews too.

    • @Thedirtylittletruth
      @Thedirtylittletruth 4 года назад +1

      I felt that too...

    • @fearlessmindsetfamily5269
      @fearlessmindsetfamily5269 4 года назад +2

      You are right and that's why i like Tom watching him!

  • @tmac6464
    @tmac6464 2 года назад +6

    This is so powerful! I feel like I’m always in the fight or flight response everyday. Being a nurse is super stressful! There’s some real change that I can make today. Thanks for sharing all this great information 👊🏻

  • @nathansweeting123
    @nathansweeting123 4 года назад +5

    I always love listening to these interviews. Changing my self-belief is exactly how I quit my 18 year smoking addiction. Our beliefs really dictate our entire life, and we start forming them from we're very small children (many times subconsciously without even being away of them).

  • @MaktMakt
    @MaktMakt 3 года назад +2

    "How do i go beyond self awareness and actually begin to change the way I think" that's gold right there

  • @therealdealholyswillreside1571
    @therealdealholyswillreside1571 4 года назад +44

    We got Toms Doppleganger on today folks, Watch out Now! best way to start the day! Bless up Impact Fam!!

    • @coleciarobinson227
      @coleciarobinson227 4 года назад +3

      As soon as I noticed I came to check the comments. I knew I wasnt the only one lol🤗

    • @trueblue1359
      @trueblue1359 4 года назад +2

      SAME!!

    • @Alex-sz6oj
      @Alex-sz6oj 4 года назад

      Impact the rehab???

  • @riaanvanniekerk6507
    @riaanvanniekerk6507 4 года назад +10

    So powerful !!! The part that he said: Don't get caught up with the how, when you are imagining a specific outcome, your brain build neurological pathways so that you can achieve the end goal in mind. So you will become more aware of opportunities regarding that goal...... So powerful and Life changing

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      Riaan Van Niekerk I didn’t understand that till the fog analogy. But reading about it now, it makes so much since.

  • @ChefMANrgee
    @ChefMANrgee 3 года назад +3

    Bro you pick some very interesting and inspirational guests. I have been checking you out for a few months now. First thing totally flipped the mindset. Secondly... Your sneaker game is on point!! Kudos good sir.

  • @NathanaelMorton
    @NathanaelMorton 4 года назад +2

    I listen to pretty much every episode. Some stuff sticks, some doesn’t. But often times I will catch myself using techniques that I learned and I’ll say “Hey! I remember back when so and so said this. Now I’m using it.” I think it’s pretty cool to recognize when something hit home for you and how at one point you didn’t even know about it, but now you’re using it to live a better life.

  • @highpranarecipes8342
    @highpranarecipes8342 3 года назад +1

    David is one of the at articulating what he knows. They say how simply you can explain something is how deeply you have understood it, so true with David.

  • @karischwear2572
    @karischwear2572 4 года назад +24

    David is MY coach and I will be the first to tell you - he is the REAL DEAL! I'm in his year-long Legendary coaching program. My life has completely shifted and changed because of David, his beautiful soon-to-wife, Carol, and his entire team.
    @tombilyeu, I adore you! Such a great interview!!!! As always! One day, I will be sitting in the chair next to you. :)

  • @lanishamallett1080
    @lanishamallett1080 4 года назад +6

    Tom, I can not thank you enough for this platform and the people you have shared it with. My spiritual awakening and mindset shift started after I became obsessed with impact theory. My life have forever changed💜 Thank you!

  • @KathyMcDevitt
    @KathyMcDevitt 4 года назад +1

    Just listened to this for a third time. What i love about this interview is that they are giving us actual SIMPLE tools that we can put into practice. What would be great someday is if tom invited people who were actually stuck in whatever they were talking about and showed in real time how a novice would actually do it. This if my favorited channel. Thanks Tom

  • @HusseinBarbaar
    @HusseinBarbaar 4 года назад +36

    Thank you. This was amazing, especially being a Muslim living in America, I often feel like I don't belong but now realize I believe everywhere.

  • @zapbodyandmind
    @zapbodyandmind 4 года назад +197

    ‘Guest farts’
    Tom: “yeah, that’s super powerful”

    • @JimmySpann
      @JimmySpann 4 года назад +13

      Idk why but this made me bust out laughing

    • @benmuir2407
      @benmuir2407 4 года назад +8

      How on earth has this comment not got a shit-tonne of likes - it’s so incredibly funny!
      I’m being totally serious - fucking crack-ups.

    • @GleN95o
      @GleN95o 4 года назад +1

      LOOOOL

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 года назад +9

      It was powerful. I felt it at one point, goosebumps is an understatement. Definitely resonates with me.

    • @shannonkingston2658
      @shannonkingston2658 4 года назад +3

      Thanks for the good laugh!!!

  • @skipper523
    @skipper523 4 года назад +27

    I can actually “see” how this talk has changed my thinking pattern. I just have to (obviously) learn more, but the explanations w/in this video, really explained things very well. Thank you for sharing the video, and the knowledge!! ❤️

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      skipper523 There’s a great book called “The Power of Consistency” by Weldon Long that broke their down for me. Check it out and let me know what you think.

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 4 года назад +65

    The mind is a very POWERFUL asset, but only when we make it work for US, and NOT against us!! Who agrees? :)

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi Thats 100% true! I wished I would’ve the power of self talk years ago.

    • @ikeman9784
      @ikeman9784 4 года назад +3

      Your mind can be your greatest asset or your worst liability...

    • @chantellmoody828
      @chantellmoody828 4 года назад +1

      It’s powerful on both ends 🌺

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 3 года назад

      Tone down the all-caps a couple notches

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 года назад +1

      I would say it's powerful both ways:
      Working for us, it's a very positive power -
      Working against us, it's very powerfully negative.

  • @junepeyer1200
    @junepeyer1200 4 года назад +1

    Great talk!!! Disarming the Amygdala Hijack!!!!!
    The important message in your talk is to, as I like to say, find a way to ‘self generate’ and create a positive state for ourselves.
    Freud had it right when he asked about the childhood of his patients. Murray Bowen hit the nail on the head with Family Systems Theory. I grew up in a home headed by a very narcissistic mother and codependent father. Needless to say this was not an ideal situation for me and my 6 siblings. There was emotional and physical abuse by my mother towards all of us, including my father.
    After my mother’s death 3 years ago, I decided to explore what caused her behavior. The things I learned about her AND myself were incredible. I decided to write a book about growing up with a narcissistically injured parent and it’s nearing completion. I’m also studying psychology (my second ‘career’- I’m a retired police officer)
    After writing for a few months and understanding the causes for my mother’s behaviors and how her childhood totally shaped the behavior, I have a deep sense of sadness for the abuse she suffered in her own childhood. Understanding those factors led to an incredible reframing for me that allowed me to get myself ‘off the hook’ that kept me in shame with low self esteem.
    I learned better self differentiation, an aspect of Bowen’s Family Systems Theory. I also took strides for my self care by going Keto and IF- a perfect marriage to my better mental health!

  • @zmadani341
    @zmadani341 9 месяцев назад +3

    It’s simple folks: whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right

  • @gloriamariadc7757
    @gloriamariadc7757 3 года назад +3

    Tom’s objective practicality is what makes him so bleepin awesome!! He’s zero jaded!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌 I luv how Tom toes th line & doesn’t slack no matter how authoritarian & confidently his guests speak.🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 года назад +23

    There are NO LIMITS of what you can create, you are POWERFUL and there is nothing that you can not have or achieve! Believe in your power, believe in yourself and let go of what no longer serves you! ♡ design your life, create your reality

    • @drenee1416
      @drenee1416 4 года назад

      This is my new affirmation.. restructuring it with "I Am" statements!
      Powerful.. thanks! 👌

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      Erika K I use to believe I wasn’t deserving of having a dream. But you are 100% right. Thanks for sharing this.

    • @charmainebwowa2470
      @charmainebwowa2470 3 года назад

      🙌🏾♥️✨

  • @HoneyB93
    @HoneyB93 4 года назад +1

    Toms embodiment in each interview he has is something amazing. Be proud of yourself man!

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 года назад +5

    Great point on seeing the limiting self belief as untrue, when you take away it's references that build it up, it's hard to give it any importance

  • @dkidde
    @dkidde 4 года назад +3

    I am 51 years young. I have been a impactivist for a couple of years. I love Tom is seeking to find the Truth! Tom has given so much to the world already! Deep Deep well to drink from!

  • @ademenchuk
    @ademenchuk 3 года назад +1

    The most important decision you make is whether you live in a friendly or hostile universe. Wow. Amazing!

  • @emsdodson
    @emsdodson 4 года назад +5

    Tom, I've watch you for a long time. This guy was one of the TOPS. Thank you

  • @eworld5661
    @eworld5661 4 года назад +44

    "Move and the way will open." -Taoism.

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +7

      E World Dammit! Now you got me lookin up Taoism! I’m sure I’ll thank you later lol

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 года назад +8

    It’s amazing what we can do with the power of the mind. If we can simply learn to control it.

  • @David-ib8ek
    @David-ib8ek 4 года назад +1

    The section about the clarity concept made me consider how faith works; believing something will happen and not worrying about the how but also how important movement is. This must be what they mean when they say taking a "leap" of faith.

  • @victoriaholden7774
    @victoriaholden7774 4 года назад +2

    This is gold. I have been on this journey to rewire and retell my stories and how I think and this is the first time something has resonated with me on every level. I have tried to reframe and all those things but couldn't quite get it. But this has really helped!!!! Thank you so much!

  • @InnerVisionStudios
    @InnerVisionStudios 4 года назад +22

    I think that this message that David shares about changing our beliefs to change our lives is one that can help anyone transform their lives in 2020. Thanks for the video Tom. Glad we found this episode.

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 4 года назад +50

    Once your mindset and belief system changes everything on the outside will shift along with it

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 года назад +1

      Authentic Self Guide True. Had it happen many times. It’s automatic. Literally everything changes when the shift occurs.

    • @tamimhusain3376
      @tamimhusain3376 4 года назад

      @Jonathan Bowen all sorts of people advertise on channels, social media etc. You probably have no clue about marketing. At least he's doing something even if his advertising is basic. What are you doing in life? The people that do nothing productive in life like yourself do things like projecting their ego in a negative way, patronise people and do time wasting things like "look out for other people's comments" 😂

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      Authentic Self Guide 100% Truth. I didn’t learn this till I read BriN Tracy’s “No Excuses” changed my life

  • @noelleb9020
    @noelleb9020 4 года назад +2

    I really appreciate the depth of your questions and the insight they bring forth. Thanks for being part of the LIght.

  • @harshitanand673
    @harshitanand673 4 года назад

    At 24.53, is why I love the host, we could understood that people won't make sense of what he said, asked his guest to simplify the thing, and it's so powerful message. This is what I love about Tom. He does the best for his viewers.

  • @daisyuyirwoth6387
    @daisyuyirwoth6387 2 года назад +3

    WOW ! this is one of the most powerful messages that I have ever had the privilege of receiving Tom ..thank you and David. Will certainly be stepping things up several notches from this point onwards.

  • @RossQuintana
    @RossQuintana 4 года назад +7

    Great interview, when I thought about "I belong everywhere I am" I thought it was powerful but I actually see myself as an outsider but I see more value in that vs belonging so it is interesting for people looking for one right answer because it depends what you associate with things. Growth creates unique expressions of life.

    • @silverhopeful
      @silverhopeful 4 года назад +2

      everyone is either an outsider and belong. Its an illusion you have about yourself. It's as you say an association and an association is limiting, not a truth. You belong. That's not saying you aren't unique.

  • @Fywl92
    @Fywl92 4 года назад +2

    "Practice". Thank you! Finally mentioning practice, as with everything you need to be good at physical or mental, it is all practice. Love this episode too! Reading a lot of books thanks to these videos Tom! Keep up your great work!

  • @muffinberg7960
    @muffinberg7960 4 года назад +1

    Amazing episode! Thanks for having this episode

  • @meshackpaul9050
    @meshackpaul9050 4 года назад +5

    THANKS TOM FOR THE EPISODE

  • @AllThingsMyTV
    @AllThingsMyTV 4 года назад +160

    *"OMG, I belong everywhere I am"*
    *👆THIS RIGHT HERE...PRICELESS*

    • @lottiecooper5634
      @lottiecooper5634 4 года назад +4

      That line hit me hard as well!

    • @David-ib8ek
      @David-ib8ek 4 года назад +2

      I thought it was just me ha...Im surprised how common this must be and how much we live in our thoughts.

    • @johnbuchananart6932
      @johnbuchananart6932 4 года назад +2

      And everywhere you find yourself is but more possible fuel to further a powerful life.

    • @SunniT.Connor
      @SunniT.Connor 4 года назад +1

      This point stuck out to me too!

    • @NathanaelMorton
      @NathanaelMorton 4 года назад

      Number one point for me too!

  • @SIMCostello325
    @SIMCostello325 11 месяцев назад +1

    I had paused this interview to be loving and supportive to a team member by telling him my thoughts on his failure repeatedly and even brought up the topic of successfully dying from a planned suicide.
    The moment I told him I saw NOTHING on the other side he became argumentative based on what I told him.
    I asked him: Do you remember ANYTHING when you were in a coma for 17 days?
    He said I remember NOTHING.
    I said that's TRUE DEATH.
    EMPTINESS. NOTHING.
    So anytime I do a medical procedure requiring anesthesia that's what I'm brought to by the hands of man.
    So my goal is a NATURAL DEATH so I can make a TRANSITION not being drugged.
    So every medical procedure I endure that involves anesthesia is a reminder of the mistakes I made to my natural health.
    I'm reliant on a man to revive me. There can be many reasons why I'm not revived.
    Therefore I have to remember daily the FAITH that awakes me from sleep.
    Technically I die every time I go to sleep.
    Sometimes I remember another realm. Sometimes I don't.
    But when I wake up I have been resurrected into this existence one more time.
    I can WASH RINSE REPEAT or do something different.
    Otro Dia, Otto Aventura
    Another day, Another adventure.
    I have a chance daily to LIVE a NEW LIFE by being ONE PERCENT BETTER than the day BEFORE.
    So dwelling on yesterday is a TRUE WASTE unless it is a step to LIVE BETTER.
    I can say it to you and you will reject or accept MY TRUTH.
    That's the frustration for a leader.
    It's that TRUTH that let's me know if you are going to FOLLOW me in MINDSET.
    I look for MINDSET more now in my team members more than EVER BEFORE.
    You GET it or You don't.
    I have to see progress or CUT THE TEETHER.
    I no longer can AFFORD to waste time on those who don't want to MOVE FORWARD.
    It wastes SO MUCH energy that can be GIVEN to someone else.
    You are ONLY as powerful as your weakest LINK.
    Two choices REPAIR and RESTORE that link or PREPARE or PREVENT it from being broken.
    I choose being MORE selective when building a TEAM.

  • @CLOS2310
    @CLOS2310 4 года назад

    I have seen almost every Impact Theory. This was probably the best about mindset and beliefs. I will be downloading this ebook!

  • @VeltisAngel
    @VeltisAngel 4 года назад +21

    He's dropping amazing knowledge bombs on this show! Wow!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      Veltis Angel This was super dope! Not everyone breaks things down like this. I always appreciate that

  • @craftycrafty9903
    @craftycrafty9903 4 года назад +3

    I rate this as one of the most important videos I have ever watched. Thank you Tom and David. I'd downloaded the book before this had even finished!

  • @winnertchegyeu3703
    @winnertchegyeu3703 3 года назад +2

    "I belong everywhere I am"

  • @GH-so9gi
    @GH-so9gi 3 года назад +1

    This is POWERFUL.
    So far, one of my top 5 talks from this channel.

  • @NockseeGee_
    @NockseeGee_ 4 года назад +22

    “Say that in a real basic bitch way” lmfaoooooo
    Very informative interview wow thank you guys

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад

      NockseeGee _ lol that’s how I translate everything I learn. It’s easy to get lost. I know I’m slow lol

  • @tiffanimae7993
    @tiffanimae7993 4 года назад +6

    "I experienced what it's like to be a turtle." 😂❤ unexpected & made me lol. Love this episode!!

  • @NathanaelMorton
    @NathanaelMorton 4 года назад +1

    Listening to these episodes is very similar to meditation for me. They both help me get back to baseline at overwhelming times.

  • @springfieldFlute
    @springfieldFlute 4 года назад +1

    Thank you, for this. This reinforces what I've learned and believed in, just never seem to be able to do it because the steps can be convoluted. David explains it in a straightforward manner! Thank you, David and Tom!

  • @lolar6085
    @lolar6085 4 года назад +4

    Thank you, this is great deep stuff, it reminds me Byron's Katie The Work in which she teaches how to question negative thoughts that cause anxiety. This is not positive thinking but deeper. It starts with awareness first and then questioning false believes which makes us feel like victims and helpless . Only changing those believe true change can happens.

  • @naturalforlife6741
    @naturalforlife6741 4 года назад +4

    I'll have to watch this everyday.

  • @nestorqa1681
    @nestorqa1681 4 года назад +1

    Really amazing and well articulated, thanks Dave and Tom and IT team. You've done it again!!!

  • @kab59592
    @kab59592 4 года назад +1

    One of the best Impact Theory interviews to date! Awesome. Learned soooooooo much!

  • @xayavon2
    @xayavon2 4 года назад +6

    Love says “I am Everything”. Wisdom says “I am nothing”. Between the two, my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj #XAI

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 года назад +1

      Xai Von Thisbis such an awesome quote! Thank you for sharing this

    • @xayavon2
      @xayavon2 4 года назад

      LaughAtChaz you’re very welcome🕺🏼Enjoy the Flow👁⚛️👁

  • @TiffanyHallmark
    @TiffanyHallmark 4 года назад +3

    I really needed this message today. I'm currently working on my belief system. There's some real change that I can make today. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @joyfulsavage9905
    @joyfulsavage9905 4 года назад +1

    Love the mindset and the 6 step process. Super powerful. This stuff is hugely underrated.

  • @MindNutritionBody
    @MindNutritionBody 4 года назад +1

    Definitely one of your best episodes Tom! You are in my opinion THEE best at asking your guests the best questions.

  • @drumzomario
    @drumzomario 4 года назад +8

    I like the way this guy thinks - his concepts are easy to grasp and make perfect sense to me. Thanks for the interview Tom 🤘🏻

  • @bnsgokugreat
    @bnsgokugreat 4 года назад +18

    Update guys! Completed reading another book. Book count: 161 :)

    • @babblingidiot7903
      @babblingidiot7903 4 года назад +1

      You still alive and going? How the brain doing? And eyes?

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 года назад +1

      @@babblingidiot7903 Yup :) They are doing awesome! Thank you for asking!

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 года назад +2

      @Amor Fati Hey!!! I still remember you! Top 5 right now are: 1) Untethered Soul 2) Mindset 3) Atomic Habits 4) Deep work 5) Digital minimalism :)

    • @DaPoopIsInDaPudding
      @DaPoopIsInDaPudding 4 года назад

      bnsgokugreat I’m on 162 😜

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 года назад

      @@DaPoopIsInDaPudding Me2 :) Now I am reading my 163rd book :)

  • @alphanumericalalias
    @alphanumericalalias 4 года назад

    Tom's humility is refreshing

  • @kanchisharma130
    @kanchisharma130 3 года назад

    "Quality of the thinking is that in that moment you think it's not true even though it's true for you!"
    Blown away!..

  • @special_spaces
    @special_spaces 4 года назад +3

    Honestly the respect with which these dialogues are kept in, is remarkably.

  • @FreeD00M
    @FreeD00M 4 года назад +5

    Its like future Tom Bilyeu came back to teach his past self :-)

  • @AllanM444
    @AllanM444 4 года назад

    I loved this. I have been working on modifying my belief systems for months now, and he is right. Everything in your life hinges on the fact that your actions and emotions are a chain reaction of your beliefs. I see everything differently now

  • @UltimateAwe
    @UltimateAwe 2 года назад +2

    This really hit me. I can sense how centered he is. Great conversation. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @nadiag366
    @nadiag366 4 года назад +5

    I cant get over how powerful this interview is and I'm only at 13 minutes 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

  • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
    @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 4 года назад +5

    This was superb. Tom's life would be changed for the better if he tried psychedelics. Tony Robbins did 5-MEO and it was one of the most transformative experiences of his life (source: Hotboxin with Mike Tyson 33:50). 5-MEO "The God Molecule" or 1g dry of magic mushrooms with contemplation. Have a shaman for any large doses. GL

  • @whtwz5187
    @whtwz5187 4 года назад +1

    this is so good that i am downloading this video even if i know it will probably be never deleted from RUclips..but aboslutely downloading it

  • @CRUISEGRAFFITI
    @CRUISEGRAFFITI 2 года назад

    The idea of clarity and knowing what you want to achieve and then creating fake memories basically is actually insane and so brilliant. Thank you.

  • @NickChase
    @NickChase 4 года назад +4

    Hey Tom, I love your work so much. Tell me please, what's your policy if I want to use some fragments from this kind of speeches you make, in order to make motivation video on my channel? I'm composing music so motivation videos will be perfect for that music I want to promote. So I was wondering where you stand with using small fraction of this awesome speeches by other RUclipsrs? Thank you in advance.

  • @mimiBirkin
    @mimiBirkin 4 года назад +9

    Something fun to watch would be Tom interviewing Abraham Hicks :D

    • @sosha4050
      @sosha4050 4 года назад +1

      Mimi Stojanoska she wouldn’t let him speak! 😂

    • @violetj09
      @violetj09 4 года назад

      @@sosha4050 why?

  • @raph009
    @raph009 4 года назад +1

    i love how your videos are always imprinted with some much positivity! I'm a biology student, so I'm always skeptical about things that are not deeply grounded into science, but I'm always impressed at how even more spiritual subjects are introduced in your videos. I liked the "We agree it exists, but don't about why" part. I think it's so important in communication, even among scientists.
    Edit: I've tried the primal thought method today and I managed to get back in control 3 times today, mainly in moments where I felt overwhelmed or just "threatened" for no reasons lol Great way to reset your thoughts! :)

  • @k-turner
    @k-turner 4 года назад

    I appreciate all that you do! I watch your interviews all the time and love the insights that you and your guests give!

  • @stephaniehart5568
    @stephaniehart5568 4 года назад +8

    He broke that shit down! You pulled that out of him that's a life meme Yep

  • @biblicalgodisonlytruegod
    @biblicalgodisonlytruegod 4 года назад +6

    Wish “Mind Hack” was on Audible!

  • @penelopespaperproductions1115
    @penelopespaperproductions1115 4 года назад +1

    Tom, David explained our existence perfectly, you should do more shows on it.

  • @jacklantow2869
    @jacklantow2869 3 года назад +1

    This was fantastic. Ty very much for opening doors I thought were closed forever. Ty

  • @spotlessmind7681
    @spotlessmind7681 4 года назад +4

    powerful state: 1) notice primal state 2) notice cause of primal state 3) realize cause of primal state is not true 4) what IS true ? 5) evidence of possible truth

  • @shannonlstephens86
    @shannonlstephens86 4 года назад +4

    I think this is my favorite guest of them all

  • @danepaulstewart8464
    @danepaulstewart8464 3 года назад

    Wow! Getting into a powerful state of being. That really IS the key. Once you get yourself there you can do almost anything.

  • @carloflores2490
    @carloflores2490 2 года назад

    God bless you Tom! This world needs people like you!! Keep up with your amazing journey 🙏😇😊