After 26 years my husband and I have never learn to communicate effectively without arguing that’s really sad but I really appreciate what you had to say today and I’m going to try in a moment of quietness to see if he will listen to this with me if not at least I will have the knowledge myself and I thank you
I have bad habit when my wife and I start having an argument and I start to feel my thoughts and opinions don’t matter I shut down and stop talking or when she makes me feel like my opinions are just influence from the things I read and watch therefore it’s stupid. What should I do? I thought that’s how you form and opinion or thought on things by seeing or reading something and making up your own mind.
My husband is always triggered with anytime am expressing my feelings this turnout to become argument.its really heart broken.l think your teachinhs are clear and precise l think l will try and identify and avoid triggers.and though he never listen to me to end my message before he draw conclusion,l will try .
My husband never look me in the eyes when we are talking he always put his head down and if I said to him can you please look at me when I’m speaking to you he would say I don’t have to look at you I can hear you I would view my point then I would say do you have anything to say then he will say no I don’t have anything to say is there anything or any help that you can give to me that I could able to understand this man. Thank you Danny
Hi me and my husband argue to much . we both don’t have respect towards to each other . I argue more than him because I would like for him to spend time with me and he don’t .. so I start questing him about why this and that. He tells me to leave him alone … I do love my husband maybe it’s me I don’t leave him alone. I want my marriage to work out what should I do?
Hi Priscilla, Thank you for sharing your story. When there is a breakdown in the relationship, it's important to take inventory. What are the primary issues in the relationship? What needs are not being met on both sides? Have you tried communicating with him in a way that is not aggressive? I understand that there is accountability on both parts, however, someone will need to take the lead first in order to see change. I would recommend giving him some space, focus on positive conversation, and prioritize your own mental/emotional wellbeing. Do this for a period of time, something that feels comfortable for you. If you don't see a change at that point, a new approach is needed. Hope this helps! -Coach Danny
How do you actively listen to someone who needs to give an explanation for everything and also repeats themselves over and over for about 20mins and then does not want to hear what you have to say? After that then your accused if not listening .I WOULD BE GREAT FULL FOR ANY SUGGESTIONS I feel like I'm going around in a circle.
What do I do when I try to communicate my emotions to him and he doesn’t even understand a thing and what can I do I. A relationship where I’m trying to resolve an issue then we end up having another issue???
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After 26 years my husband and I have never learn to communicate effectively without arguing that’s really sad but I really appreciate what you had to say today and I’m going to try in a moment of quietness to see if he will listen to this with me if not at least I will have the knowledge myself and I thank you
Excellent advice, The triggers section made me realize one of the areas I have really been over looking!!!
I have bad habit when my wife and I start having an argument and I start to feel my thoughts and opinions don’t matter I shut down and stop talking or when she makes me feel like my opinions are just influence from the things I read and watch therefore it’s stupid. What should I do? I thought that’s how you form and opinion or thought on things by seeing or reading something and making up your own mind.
This was very helpful for my marriage ❤❤❤❤
My husband is always triggered with anytime am expressing my feelings this turnout to become argument.its really heart broken.l think your teachinhs are clear and precise l think l will try and identify and avoid triggers.and though he never listen to me to end my message before he draw conclusion,l will try .
Thank you for this. Arguing is hard to deal with and this video helped.
Happy to hear the video was helpful for you, Chris.
Coach Danny
Thanks for your advices
My pleasure!
- Coach Danny
Thank u soooo much I can’t wait to use these tips in my marriage just watching
I really love your approached. I could resonate from it. Thank you for sharing.
You are so welcome!
Thank 😊 u for your advice Danny
My husband never look me in the eyes when we are talking he always put his head down and if I said to him can you please look at me when I’m speaking to you he would say I don’t have to look at you I can hear you I would view my point then I would say do you have anything to say then he will say no I don’t have anything to say is there anything or any help that you can give to me that I could able to understand this man. Thank you Danny
Incredible
Thank you !
You are very welcome!
Thanks for sharing this is awesome , keep sharing Danny
You're welcome, Jay. Thank you for watching.
Coach Danny
Hi danny coach this is First video of urs that I have seen... Its really useful
I appreciate your feedback, Deepu.
Coach Danny
Bro you where smooth in wiping your nose at 0:29 into the video but other than that love the topic
Awesome advice ❤️
very good
Hi me and my husband argue to much . we both don’t have respect towards to each other . I argue more than him because I would like for him to spend time with me and he don’t .. so I start questing him about why this and that. He tells me to leave him alone … I do love my husband maybe it’s me I don’t leave him alone. I want my marriage to work out what should I do?
Hi Priscilla,
Thank you for sharing your story. When there is a breakdown in the relationship, it's important to take inventory. What are the primary issues in the relationship? What needs are not being met on both sides? Have you tried communicating with him in a way that is not aggressive? I understand that there is accountability on both parts, however, someone will need to take the lead first in order to see change. I would recommend giving him some space, focus on positive conversation, and prioritize your own mental/emotional wellbeing. Do this for a period of time, something that feels comfortable for you. If you don't see a change at that point, a new approach is needed.
Hope this helps!
-Coach Danny
How do you actively listen to someone who needs to give an explanation for everything and also repeats themselves over and over for about 20mins and then does not want to hear what you have to say? After that then your accused if not listening .I WOULD BE GREAT FULL FOR ANY SUGGESTIONS I feel like I'm going around in a circle.
What do I do when I try to communicate my emotions to him and he doesn’t even understand a thing and what can I do I. A relationship where I’m trying to resolve an issue then we end up having another issue???
Hi
Hi, Deepu. Thank you for watching.
Coach Danny
Just change the subject