I panicked what. My wife said she wanted to separate. I did everything I could, positive and negative, to change her mind. I opened up to people I never thought I would open up to. I did everything she has asked me to do for years, even when those things contradicted each other. It took months, but it worked. She decided she wanted me back. By that time I had realized that I didn't really need a fat, old,.lazy, crabby, critical, saggy women in my life. As a well employed, fit, intelligent, caring, considerate man in my late 30s, my relationship value is much higher than hers is. I was so sad for so long. She can enjoy her freedom, I don't care anymore.she honestly has very little to offer me, only demands.
My wife has filed but says she is keeping her options open. I will be leaving as she requested for hopefully a short while as she and my 15 year old daughter require space …I’m scared and want to find something to make me feel hopeful
It's been a year since my husband left, but he doesn't even want to talk to me or even reply a text msg. When I send a message he only opens and never respond. We've been married for 28 years
Hi so me and my wife separated a month ago and she moved out, things got worse quickly and now my marriage therapist told us to cut contact for atleast a month to self reflect and have a "cooling off period". Do you suggest this is a good idea because in your video you said to keep contact. Originally, we had a plan when she moved out and it changed quickly and now she wants a divorce.
I’m going through something like this. My wife and I are going through it. She is considering divorce but I know that I want to make it work. We car talking civilly but I feel that she is leaning more towards divorce. What should I do?
Hey Paul. I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know how painful and hard this must be. We have several videos on our channel that I think you can benefit from watching. The first one is a video about how to get your wife back while the other talks about divorce and what to do. ruclips.net/video/9UrGuHdeEM8/видео.html ruclips.net/video/PYLGXzn8dIE/видео.html
I’m am in the exact same boat as you. 21 years together, 2 kids 17years old, (twins). I am having a hard time with this, however,, I care for her so much,, that ultimately her happiness is my salvation. I would rather see her happy without me, or with someone else,, than unhappy with me. That’s just me. If it’s meant to be,, we will end up back together,, if not,, we weren’t meant to be
An excellent video on separation and a lot to reflect here. My spouse and I are going through a separation phase since a year now (11 months). I have a small kid who is just 3.4 years old. My spouse has always been very miserly in his spending. However, I am not so. We both are highly educated people though. I am non working at present. I am trying my best to make him understand we have a small son to raise but he seems to just show superficial love for the child and none for me. I am trying so hard since over a year. What do I do? We both have on-going Court cases against each other in the same light. He has not paid a single penny for my son or me in the last 1 year. Pls guide me.
Hi there! I know our coaches would love to guide you through this but they would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to give you propper advice. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with them using this link: happilycommitted.com/coaching/ -HC Team
Thank you for reaching out, Naomi. Please take a look at this video to understand how to get unblocked. ruclips.net/video/2IPAC4OSrjU/видео.html Coach Natalie
Thank you Danny i under why he had to block me after I watched the video should I be hopeful with my marriage cause the last time we talked he really abused and reminded of my past mistakes and told I should not me hopeful of our marriage again what should I do am scared to loose my marriage
Remember NO Contact isnt designed so you can get your spouse Back. Its Designed so you can get YOU back
I panicked what. My wife said she wanted to separate. I did everything I could, positive and negative, to change her mind. I opened up to people I never thought I would open up to. I did everything she has asked me to do for years, even when those things contradicted each other. It took months, but it worked. She decided she wanted me back.
By that time I had realized that I didn't really need a fat, old,.lazy, crabby, critical, saggy women in my life. As a well employed, fit, intelligent, caring, considerate man in my late 30s, my relationship value is much higher than hers is.
I was so sad for so long. She can enjoy her freedom, I don't care anymore.she honestly has very little to offer me, only demands.
Re-evaluation, Re-focus, Re-invention 🥰
I would say this was one of the best seperate on videos I’ve seen. Thank you for making it, and having it be more optimistic.
My wife has filed but says she is keeping her options open. I will be leaving as she requested for hopefully a short while as she and my 15 year old daughter require space …I’m scared and want to find something to make me feel hopeful
32 years and going through divorce. I love him . He ghosted me
Wonderfully helpful!!
It's been a year since my husband left, but he doesn't even want to talk to me or even reply a text msg. When I send a message he only opens and never respond. We've been married for 28 years
What if we are separated and she filed and said she’s done?
What to do when your spouse doesnt want to speak to you at all? Any other methods we could try?
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Hi so me and my wife separated a month ago and she moved out, things got worse quickly and now my marriage therapist told us to cut contact for atleast a month to self reflect and have a "cooling off period". Do you suggest this is a good idea because in your video you said to keep contact. Originally, we had a plan when she moved out and it changed quickly and now she wants a divorce.
I’m going through something like this. My wife and I are going through it. She is considering divorce but I know that I want to make it work. We car talking civilly but I feel that she is leaning more towards divorce. What should I do?
Paul, sorry you are going through this. The best advice I've heard is work on yourself & set a time to talk.
Hey Paul. I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know how painful and hard this must be. We have several videos on our channel that I think you can benefit from watching. The first one is a video about how to get your wife back while the other talks about divorce and what to do.
ruclips.net/video/9UrGuHdeEM8/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/PYLGXzn8dIE/видео.html
I’m am in the exact same boat as you. 21 years together, 2 kids 17years old, (twins). I am having a hard time with this, however,, I care for her so much,, that ultimately her happiness is my salvation. I would rather see her happy without me, or with someone else,, than unhappy with me. That’s just me. If it’s meant to be,, we will end up back together,, if not,, we weren’t meant to be
great video
Glad you enjoyed it!
I both love each other now talk ex boyfriend she lie to me she like to be free she talk ex boy friend tell leave me that still love him
An excellent video on separation and a lot to reflect here. My spouse and I are going through a separation phase since a year now (11 months). I have a small kid who is just 3.4 years old. My spouse has always been very miserly in his spending. However, I am not so. We both are highly educated people though. I am non working at present. I am trying my best to make him understand we have a small son to raise but he seems to just show superficial love for the child and none for me. I am trying so hard since over a year. What do I do? We both have on-going Court cases against each other in the same light. He has not paid a single penny for my son or me in the last 1 year. Pls guide me.
Hi there!
I know our coaches would love to guide you through this but they would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to give you propper advice. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with them using this link: happilycommitted.com/coaching/
-HC Team
What if the spouse doesn't want to talk and has blocked all means of communications? What should one do
Thank you for reaching out, Naomi. Please take a look at this video to understand how to get unblocked. ruclips.net/video/2IPAC4OSrjU/видео.html
Coach Natalie
Thank you Danny i under why he had to block me after I watched the video should I be hopeful with my marriage cause the last time we talked he really abused and reminded of my past mistakes and told I should not me hopeful of our marriage again what should I do am scared to loose my marriage
What if their's a fudging restraining order? What then, genius? 😡
I would like to talk to you Danny because I'm going through a lot
I hate break up
I hate separated
I hate cheating
Only I love stay long relationship than after marriage