Me and my loves in that Italy clip! That was an amazing trip. And I’m going to Spain and Italy this year with 2 awesome girlies from the Shallontourage this fall.
EVERYONE! That dude is 35 -- not 53, he's 35. I feel like when women get money they often try to improve themselves, but when men get money, they often carelessly destroy themselves.
This is SO true. They either eat or drink themselves to death. Or they gamble or get really fat or just do something absolutely ridiculous, and women like drape themselves in Chanel and get a trainer they end up sleeping with and get a facelift 👏🏻
Yes! The ex from my twenties did that. After he dumped me he released over £15,000 of equity from the house and blew it on partying and coke! Now a house worth £50,000 has a debt of over £80,000 hanging over it as he'd also gotten a £15,000 loan to fix it up too😂😂😂😂😂 Thank god my name was never anywhere near it 😂😂😂😂 Oh and he gained 5st in weight post break up, because I wasn't there doing the grocery shopping or taking him to the gym with me. Seriously he's like a 44 year old toddler thinking he can live off burgers and fries alone 😂
@@shallonlester This is so true ! Look at how many female celebrities are older and still look incredible and then look at many of the older male celebrities 🤣 women in general age better because most of us take better care or ourselves .
But she's not some random girl he found after Taylor. She's the girl he dated before he dated Taylor. He went back to her. I honestly think that's more of a slap in the face. It says, he really didn't want Taylor, he wanted this other girl the whole time. Or it took dating Taylor for him realize he wanted this other girl the whole time.
No he ran to Meredith the girl he ghosted for Taylor, then ghosted Taylor then went back to Meredith, dropped Meredith now he’s dating Gabriette and Gabriette had a boyfriend (who Meredith is now dating) she’s been waiting for Matty for 4 years which makes it worst it just seems like Matty is settling cause he didn’t get what he wanted (Taylor) and petty
“Matty didn’t get what he wanted”. GIRL, the lyrics of Taylor’s album make it clean she’s obsessed with him and he wanted nothing to do with her. Ex, the “I can’t do it with a broken heart” lyrics.
I'm so obsessed with him but he avoids me like the plague (he avoids me)- Taylor, on the album about Matty. He didn’t want her, end of story. He was dating Gabriette years ago, and around the same time that he was casually hooking up with Taylor last summer, (according to one of them, they began talking again about repairing their relationship, and got back together a month after Taylor and Him stopped hooking up. His team recently told the press he was blindsighted by Taylor’s album because they were never official, nor had they ever talked about commitment.
Do you still find her pretty? We all have different views on beauty, to me it's not just shapes and colours, but also the class, a charm of a person, how they speak, what they stand for. She posted disgusting things online, even screaming like crazy, when was high on something. She is doing everything to be not pretty. I understand that it's an 'aesthethic' (disgusting on purpose). Women shouldn't be judged only based on beauty and beauty shouldn't be our only priority, but beauty, fashion is her job and she is influencing young girls, in my opinion in a bad way. I don't buy this brat summer thing.
The man who treated you like crap and moves on quickly to an escalated relationship is not suddenly who you wanted him to be. He most likely just found someone who tolerates the things you couldn’t/wouldn’t. Edit: Some people are not getting this comment. And aren’t reading below. The woman not being able to tolerate something is not just a dig at the guy per se. Sometimes it’s a big ass flaw of HERS. If what you can’t tolerate is abuse or something negative, yes it’s good for you get out of there. But sometimes what we “can’t tolerate” is a result of our own impatience! We want the person to be exactly what we want RIGHT NOW. Won’t let them grow, or won’t even let ourselves grow enough to realize that dealbreaker isn’t a deal breaker. Also this new girl looks like a fit for Matty. Taylor was not.
unfortunately i dont think thats true :( men are much better at being someone they dont see a future with without getting attached, just to enjoy the benefits of sex, nurturing, companionship, encouragement, even if they know they can and will do better with someone else, who provides all that and then some for them. and to that person, they show their best side.
@@marykay7878*showing* their best side is exactly what it is. Making an effort for someone they want 'seriously' ...yes, but that won't last. A crappy person is a crappy person and it will show sooner or later. A good, respectful person is not crappy to someone they are not serious about. It is simply not in their nature.
@@exactly... thats not what i meant. i would consider myself an authentic person, yet i am way more generous and patient and devoted and loving to people i LOVE compared to people i like. i am not unkind or cruel to people i like, but also not devoted to and invested in them. and men can be in a long term relationship with someone they just like
@@marykay7878 I agree with you. When they're with someone they see a future with, they put in the effort and they show up. With someone they don't, they're either with them because of guilt, not ready to be alone yet, etc, they give the bare minimum, because they know you'll put up with it. Once they're no longer showing their best side, give them chances but after three strike, it's time to give them the boot.
So nice to see everyone standing up for Gabriette in the comments! One beautiful thing about the shallontourage is we are not afraid to speak up, even if it's against our own fave content creator !! 💖👏
Trashing Gabriette is so lame. I’m pretty sure Taylor is comparing herself to her, we all do when someone moves on. I wouldn’t be surprised if Taylor changes her look to become more edgy too. She definitely watches what her exes do and who they’re with.
Taylor already started doing that. Gabriette is known for posting cooking videos, and Taylor RANDOMLY posted a Instagram story of her cooking with Travis 😑, when she literally barely ever posts anything, let alone cooking vidoes.
It's giving 90s Kate Moss in her Johnny Depp era - or vintage Angelina and Billy Bob. I think she's stunning. I'm always here for your messy moments Shallon but don't get it twisted 😂 you seem bothered and sad by being so mean about her. Alpha females don't need to take cheap shots.
I get the hating on Matty, he slayed the Queen as far as Swifties are concerned. But unless I missed something I really don’t understand ripping his fiancée to shreds, for her appearance especially. I usually love your takes but this is giving bitter, mean girl vibes.
It’s because her situationship moved onto a girl like his fiancé. She’s taking out her anger on an innocent bystander . She needs to put the anger back on the one who ran her heart around.
I don’t see why anyone’s looks need to be trashed, Gabriette’s or Taylor’s. They are both fine looking, they just have different appeals. Taylor is girl next door, Gabriette is grunge. One isn’t right or wrong, they are just different. And what they look like has no bearing on who Matty would want to be with. In my opinion, Taylor, despite her occasional party-girl moments, is too straight and clean-cut for Matty. And that’s fine. It’s also fine that Gabriette chooses to have those tattoos and lack of eyebrows. That’s the look she wants, she’s happy with it, and clearly many people find it attractive. In sum , Taylor isn’t “basic” or “mid” just because she doesn’t look like Gabriettr, and Gabriette isn’t trashy just because she doesn’t look like Taylor
@@salamander8301 Gabriette isn’t the only one whose looks were being trashed, though. The women who think Gabriette is gorgeous are calling Taylor “basic” and “plain” because she’s ….white
Um listening to all the irational hate towards the total stranger and fhinking "ohhh this is hitting home for Shallon, it has nothing to do with this girl"😮😮😮
Shallon is projecting so hard by hating on Gabbriette. Her ex left her for an alt girl and seeing Matty choose the younger hotter alt girl over Taylor hit too close to home.
I think Gab is gorgeous, there’s a reason she’s a model. She seems a lot more interesting than Taylor. I’m not sure what she’s done to deserve being called ugly and trashy. Life would be so boring if we all looked the same.
Shes more his type imo. Shes like an edgey cool girl fits his asthetic. I see why they are together. Taylor is just not that vibe :/ idk why they were even involved in the first place. Taylor is sooooo different than matty. Her and her current man fit better. they are their perf asthetic
Mmm I disagree. I think Joe was her true match. Travis is too “high school fantasy” and meathead for her. She seems to like good looking guys that she can have thought provoking conversations with.
Trashing his fiance is low ball. She didn't do anything. I don't know anything about her but I do find her quite attractive. She's got that gothic aesthetic going on. Not a style I can pull off, but it really suits her.
Agree with you. Gabriet didn’t do anything wrong except get the guy who didn’t work out with someone else. The displaced anger needs to focus back on the guy. Also I like her aesthetic; I don’t like a lot of other aesthetics but every one has the right to present how they choose as long as it’s not harming anyone.
What’s the problem with buying a black diamond? If you are gothic, you are into that. Money spent on a ring does not equal love. It’s funny you say this when you are always repeating the idea that men can buy you flowers and expensive stuff to make up for their cheating and all that, but we shouldn’t accept those apologies because we are worth more than a purchase. This “cheap” ring correlates with her tastes and shows that he cares enough to find something she likes. Also, why are you trashing this woman and her looks? She’s beautiful. Maybe as a Latina she doesn’t fulfill your American ideal of peroxide blonde, but many can agree, even if we don’t like her style, that she’s beautiful
I’ve followed gab for a long time cause she used to do cooking videos etc and she’s actually the sweetest most wholesome girl lol. I actually love her look 😂 I think it suits her haha! Nothing against Taylor, they are just different categories of hot
@@princessmorebucks well both gab and Taylor chose him at different points 🤣 what does this say about either of them? Leave them alone. Everyone can be moved on and happy with the person they are compatible with.
So if he choses another woman over you , all of a suden he is a mediocre loser? come on😆 ! you dont have to be every man's idea of a perfect life partner. Take this oppertunity as a moment for introspection.
@@culturalresponse2447shallon often lies a lot about having boyfriends in one video and on the next she’s sniffling & crying about being broken up. A week long hookup session is not a relationship 🤡
Maybe Taylor and Gabrielle are wearing two different masks. Taylor seems to “put together on the outside” and is cold and calculating in intimate relationships. Then you have Gabrielle she could have a certain “look” to her and is actually warm and kind in her intimate relationships.
I so agree with you but I think it's a point of view thing. I've been a goth girl and because of that I can see how 10/10 beautiful she would be considered in those circles. And she clearly has very attractive features, her face is just stunning. But also I can see what others mean, she looks like she is on death's door. Her skin is sallow, her eyes look exhausted and she looks like she hasn't had a full meal in years. That's the aesthetic in Goth circles though. You know she kind of reminds me of a 90s Billy Bob era Angelina Jolie. I think her and Matty's aesthetic matches perfectly and I can see how they might be very happy together because they come from the same circles/interest groups
The majority of the public thinks Gabrielle is gorgeous and like-able and that’s why they are not attacking them. Because he’s with her, the public is wishing them the best, despite his problematic past. Her shine is enveloping him
Swifties love to bash and insult all women but they expect people to be kind and respectful towards Taylor?😂 please. For every woman that the “girls girl feminist” Swifties bash, Taylor forever the victim swift is gonna get double the hate. 🤷🏻♀️
It’s funny because Shallon only became a swiftie after Taylor started dating Travis because she’s now projecting herself and her ex, and seeing herself in Taylor. Before she used to be a raging Taylor hater.
As a person who works in high fashion, I find gabriette’s aesthetic so much cooler and relevant than Taylor’s Jo-Ann fabrics X magpie Martha aesthetic. Please stop projecting your own insecurities because you are so basic.
Unpopular opinion but I think this Gabriette is ethereally stunning. To me, she is art. But then I also don't care one bit about Taylor Swift or her boyfriend or anyone they are associated with.
I hate people trashing on other’s engagement rings. Like why the fact it is cheaper is wrong? What did anyone expect that girl to wear? Basic gold band and clear diamond? It would be completely clashing with her. I come from a country where amber is a big thing. It comes in so many different colors. The one that works best for me is actually the cheapest too (dark green one, instead of all yellow/gold/brown ones). Do I care it is cheaper? No, I actually don’t.
I know! If she likes the ring that is all that matters. I personally love alternatives for diamonds. If I was engaged I would probably want a blue sapphire which is cheaper than a diamond but it’s just more my taste. I think the ring should show that the guy knows what the women he is going to marry actually likes.
Also Shallon mocks Gabbriette for being "so alternative yet wants to walk down the aisle saying vows to God and priest" lmao marriage existed long before Christianity was even a thing. Even pagans got married.
I had a miscarriage with an ex-boyfriend that I never want to see ever again. A baby is a threshold, a bigger milestone yes, but not necessarily in a good way.. that ex will always be in your life.. Mine was a shady character and everyone said the miscarriage was protection from God.
I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I've had 2 & know how devastating they are. One of them was w/ the guy I was in a " situationship" w/ for 2 1/2 yrs. Surprisingly he was actually really excited about the baby. But he couldn't give me what I wanted, needed & deserved, which was someone who was proud to say they were my boyfriend. He wouldnt even acknowledge we were dating, so I finally did the hard thing & ended it. Hurt like hell that he was married less than a year later & now has 2 kids. He had me meet his mother, I spent holidays w/ his family, took me on romantic dates, including on V-Days, which even included a horse & carriage ride one year ❤️ went on trips together, we literally spent all our time together & it was monogamous, he just said he wasn't ready to be someone's "boyfriend" or rather, have that label of boyfriend. Yet, less than a year later he was ready to be someone's HUSBAND. That hurt like hell 💔
Babies don't trap men. I had a baby and the father has never met his child and the child is almost 4 years old. I think the best way to get rid of a man is to tell him that you are pregnant.
yeah let’s not compare gabbriette and taylor and try and call her ugly.. gab is 1000x prettier and more unique, which clearly is what he was looking for. he wants to be the rock star with a rockstar’s gf. taylor was never his type and won’t ever be.
This!!! Why is everyone calling her ugly? I love shallon and 9/10 times agree with her. Maybe it’s a generational thing? I’m not sure. But I’ve known of both Gabriette and Taylor before anything to do with Matt, and although I think Taylor looks polished I don’t find any sex appeal to her looks or aura. As a bi woman, gabriette is both beautiful and seductive! She wins hard for me 🤷♀️
@@HannahHavenga 100% agree. taylor was too “basic” for him, it was simply a fling that she read too much into. gab is his true type, she has much more sex appeal and i like the grunge look
Shallon, I hope you read this. My bf and I love watching your videos. During this one, he paused it and told me “you know how employers don’t want to hire someone who is overqualified? Bc employers know that person will up and leave once they find the job they actually want, the one they are actually qualified for”. He brought this up to explain why loser pigeon men don’t put the effort into us beautiful eagle women. They feel we are only there until we get someone of our caliber. Your ex always knew you were too good for him and assumed you would leave when you found the right guy on your level.
The funny thing is that eagles are very single minded in reality and pigeons have way more cognitive skills and abilities similar to humans and are way smarter than most dogs for example.
@@joannawinters6592 Yeah, LOL. I hate this pigeon trashing thing she keeps doing. Pigeons are quite intelligent, social, skill navigators, adaptive creatures.
@@joannawinters6592 same, I love pigeons lol. I get Shallon is making a metaphor but I want to take big sis Shallon birdwatching so she can learn more about birdies
My thoughts exactly. People are deeper than their style or appearance. Sometimes people are more compatible with someone else. Some of the most amazing people I ever met have tattoos, ex addicts, ex felons, mentally ill. You need to have humility to dig deeper. Being "square" doesn't automatically make you classy or a better person
It has nothing to do with her being “the one.” He’s 35 (despite looking 45) and feels it’s time to settle down and she just happened to be there and available. He’s also way more famous than her which means he holds more of the power
Agreed. I think knowing he could get Taylor was an ego boost, but he’s said publicly before that he doesn’t want to be “Taylor Swift’s Boyfriend”. You’re right, he has more money and fame than her. He holds all the cards.
adventureskatekat- your concept that men dont marry THE ONE, they marry who is in front of them when they are ready is very true and as a exotic dancer ,ive also seen this same habit in men at the strip club. IVe seen men that might be attracted to a dancer and like her yet he is not ready to commit to a dance with her because the timing was wrong. Yet when he is ready to blow all his money, and the timing is right for him, whichever dancer is in front of him he will usually commit to a dance, it doesn't matter how ugly or how fat the dancer is or if he is even attracted to her. if she is in front of him when the timing is right, he usually will take her to the champagne room or go to the atm machine and give her $
First of all engagement is not marriage. It could be just future faking. If he does actually marry her it's because he assessed that that was the way to get her under control. Sticking it to Taylor was just the cherry on top. I'll believe it when I see it.
yeh, i agree, it's a stunt to counter the shallow image. he knows now, his image is just used condoms on a conveyor belt. He's trying to look like he can form an attachment with another human.
THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME!! I was absolutely infatuated with my last boyfriend. I was the rebound after he got separated from his wife. He told me he didn’t want to commit, which I understood. Two months later, he put a ring on someone else’s finger and they had a baby. I was FLOORED !! Apparently he just did not want to commit to ME 😮 This analysis was so on point. TRASHY Healy and his emo 🖤 Go ahead if ya want to
BLECHHHH i’m so sorry you’ve been through this also it is absolutely gut wrenching. But like I said in this video, don’t believe everything you see. Sometimes people are just cosplaying as the healthy settle down guy because they desperately want to be but they’re just not. No one can keep that act up for long…
Sometimes, being the rebound is like being the “buffer”- the one that “healed” him & got him over his ex & then suddenly he is emotionally available for the next one. It’s like you get to be the cleanup crew & then when they’re done using you & they’re “all better” they want to start fresh with a shiny new partner. I think timing of when you come into their lives sometimes plays a role in things as well. I’m sincerely sorry you went through that.
Happened to me too, I got pursued, chased etc, then suddenly months later after they were obsessed with me, “I’m not ready for a relationship, I still need to heal” out of fuck no where and wanting me. Got with another girl, they got their same karma (discarded) and then they came crawling back to me. Fixed their self esteem, etc (they went back to briefly love bombing me) saying they always secretly want me, and all that garbage. Only to switch up again (mind you, randomly decide to show me another woman flirting with them, and wanting them) out of no where (I think they were a narc, they like to triangulate), and so I told them ok, get with them, “oh I don’t know if I’m ready.” Only for weeks later or not even a month for them to tell me they’re going on dates, by Feb, when I wouldn’t meet up with them, as soon as I said no; they were suddenly ready again, got with a new girl, made her gf. My person they launched quickly on social media was posting how “happy” they are, and the new gf talking about how happy they make them. That same person after I cut them off, directly bragged to me how they have a great life, and then randomly sent me a photo of their luxury car, and then had the very need to tell me they were out with the gf. Horrible people. Sometimes I can’t tell if they changed, despite their non-stop rebounding or monkey branching; and maybe I wasn’t good enough or if the next girl will treated exactly as the last.
@shallonlester But it's not always an act. I know through mutual friends that my commitment phobic, douchebag ex of 2 1/2 yrs who wouldn't even acknowledge me as his gf, but then was married less than a year after we broke up & has 2 kids w/ her actually went from that to faithful, loving husband in less than a year & now loving father as well. WEEKS into them dating he was calling her his gf as well & I gave him 2 1/2 YEARS & he never acknowledged me as such. Talk about a knife in your heart. Ugh.
You’re trippin, I don’t even know who this dude is and don’t follow Taylor swift but his new GF is gorgeous! How can you even say otherwise wtf?? I’m confused 🤷🏻♀️
I'm a dude and I'm beginning to realize this but I've only been actually trying for a couple years. This amount of time has shown me that it's better to make a relationship with someone mediocre and be happy than it is to love bomb with someone irresistible and hope it never fades. Who knows though what I will end up choosing.
Shallon thanks for all the realness about your own life. I remember I found out an ex of mine had a baby and it sent me for a spiral….until I found out he’s not taking care or claiming the baby and his mom told the girl his baby is not his responsibility. And it brought me right back to all the reasons I never wanted to be with him long term. Thanks again Shallon!
As beautiful and talented that i think taylor is. When i found out that matty and taylor got together it took me by a suprise because he doesnt usually go for girls like taylor and he literally said how he doesnt think he could ever date someone as famous as taylor. Matty usually goes for an ultra skinny model that is almost unknown. Matty and Gabriella make so much more sense than him and taylor. However taylor does usually date guys that give off tortured poets or alternative like john mayer and harry styles
Nah they had history in the past (2014) then she moved on to Calvin cause he couldn’t handle his ego and he was in hard drugs. Apparently he’s been having sobbing breakdowns on stage whenever he performs the songs about Taylor so he probably isn’t as happy as he seems and looks like he heavily aged.
Taylor’s fans are claiming those songs are about her with absolutely no proof. and the drinking and crying on stage thing seems to be his signature style/performance choice
@NostalgiaStarfish he was know to sob on stage but I don't think that was about taylor it was just him being sad and being really into drugs. He has been opened about doing hard drugs in the past but has been sober from them for now. I do believe he write songs about her tho but I don't think he was crying about her. And yeah his ego got in the way of them being able to date and close this chapter YEARS ago.
I guess bc taylor looks more like you shes the hotter one. Taylor is pretty. Gabriette is a smokeshow. Girl what are you on about😭 Did you lose an ex to a goth hottie or what? Such an odd angle... Edit: i love being right LMAO. Being bitter and basic isnt cute.
The sad part is, the goth GF of the 23 year old guy Shallon was never in a relationship with to begin with… is also I’m sure, his age. Attacking a woman half your age is SO BOTHERED
If they tell you what they should have been doing, they ~knew~ the whole time. The harsh truth is, they were ~choosing~ not to do it. They ~chose~ to stand by and watch you in pain because they thought you would never leave. He didn't love you, he *owned* you. Choose freedom.
Some people are just more compatible together and it looks like these two are. If an ex gets a new gf and gets married the chances are they just found someone more compatible that’s not a bad thing. The world doesn’t revolve around us, we are not the centre of the universe and not every guy is better off with us than the next girl.
Going after the fiancé is immature. For what? She is beautiful. To me, Taylor looks plain asf. She looks like every other blonde white girl. But to you apparently she is stunning. lol
if your definition of beautiful is meth head bumming a cigarette outside the liquor store. and taylor is in fact objectively beautiful. she looks like she flosses and doesn’t do coke for breakfast. shallon is 100% justified going after these losers.
So being blonde and white means you are not attractive? I agree that no one should attack anyone’s looks, because beauty is so attractive. And fine if you don’t think Taylor is gorgeous, but being blonde and white doesn’t automatically make someone plain
@@samanthau1380 Did I say she looks unattractive? She just looks plain. She’s not exciting to look at to quote Kim Kardashian. But I’m saying in my opinion the girl she is dogging looks better to me than Taylor does. If that offends you, okay then. 🤷🏽♀️
@@nubieblack886 I didn’t say she was gorgeous. I don’t happen to think she is. I just think that saying it’s immature to after the fiancés look and then going after Taylor’s looks (for being *gasp* blonde and white) is not cool either
I really love your videos when i am in the right mood. I even suggest your videos to the young adult girls that i know. I dont know these people you are talking about but, what did they ever do to you? Lol... Videos like these, that you upload, make it seem like you are so unhappy and no one should be taking your advice. This is simply just Bullying.
you literally just said so simply exactly what ive been thinking for years. I love shallow and have been watching her videos for years but once in a while there will be a video where she's so off the rails and genuinely just pure cruel and vicious for NO REASON like right now. she's showing pictures of this girl who's absolutely drop dead gorgeous and calling her a tramp, clown ugly and a "chola" because of her brows, and for what because she's with Taylors ex? or is there a deeper reason because this is unjustified. but I know shallon doesn't always do this so I can let this go and move on but when these videos do happen I just move on. sorry for the novel lol
I like to say when my exes get married the new partner doesn't get a better them, just a bigger dose of what I got. And if I am honest, the doses I got were already too much. So guess they just have a higher B.S. tolerance than I do. I sincerely wish them good luck! And honestly, worry a bit for the new partner, some of my exes it was a good thing I could get a quick exit, but spouses are not so lucky....
I get the anger and frustration, but why diss on the eyebrow-less girl or the face tattoo chick? In all seriousness, the girls came after the previous relationships ended, they are not homewreckers. They are just a better fit for the guy, and that's ok, considering that by society's standards, the guys are low value. What hurts is that we know that by society's standards, we are the highest value ones, but love is not a check list of qualities and it cannot be forced, it just is and it has nothing to do with who's better, prettier, wealthier or smarter. It's attraction, compatibility, and seeing a happy future with that person.
Yeah, I didn't get this either. I have to be honest, I think that woman is better looking than Taylor. She's got this mysterious vibe. Yes, not everyone's vibe, but gorgeous.
I only am WOWED by the most feminine delicate celebs like Miranda Kerr, and even I could see that Gabrielle is beautiful and magnetic. The fact that she can pull off that grungy look when 99.9% of the public couldn’t, proves she’s beautiful
Shallon, given your own emo phase (as a full grown adult) you are the LAST person to be judging Gabriette's looks. Do you miss that era? Still not over that ex that cheated? Bitter that she got a ring and you didn't? Not fun to think about....but bitterness is not your best look either. Matty and Joe have been finally giving Taylor a taste of her own medicine.
I’m surprised Shallon hasn’t learned her lesson yet given that she has told us horror stories of all the guys she’s been with (excluding her husband whom I believe she broke up with).. where cheaters, domestic abusers, addicts, who mostly didn’t claim her and didn’t make her their girlfriend, etc. She needs to settle down with a 50-60 year old man and be happy, and leave the 20 something year olds in the past!
@@culturalresponse2447 it's so sad because she knows all the answers and gives fantastic advice.. Just doesn't seem to follow it herself when it comes to her own life. And we're all guilty of this to some extent. The bashing of Gabriette was unnecessary though. Like Taylor is not worth all of that lol. we truly are rooting for Shallon though 💖.
The most humble thing is to see or hear your exs that are "happily married, taken, or just had a baby" on dating sites. Actively cheating and lying. It happens so much. It is very scary and creepy.
@saratemp790 true. I don't. I think it is truly sad but it helps realize what people post in socials is not reality. The ex that is "happy" with their new girl is not giving her the princess treatment
It’s comforting for you to see that another woman is going to suffer due to infidelity? Gee, I wonder why you attract horrible people, maybe because like attracts like. (And don’t try to say you meant it’s comforting because you got away from it. You really meant that you enjoyed that the other women is getting treated badly too and your ego doesn’t have to take a hit).
@@culturalresponse2447 yes it's comforting because if you see him be a jerk to every other woman, you know it wasn't your fault. Like he tried to make you believe when you were with him. That's comforting.
I heard from fans of the 1975 that matty is actually a long term relationships guy. People that are familiar with his past (i do not care for him at all and will not fact check this) say that all his relationships last longer than 1 year or more. Which makes what happened with him and taylor even stranger???? Like huh?? If its true. (These fans also say that him and taylor’s breakup probably had more to do with his sobriety and he couldnt handle the attention and it took a toll on his health)
It’s very mature tearing down a woman because of who she is with. Taylor Swift is a grown woman in her mid-thirties who chose Matty Healy. To my knowledge his fiancée has not said or done anything to Taylor so why the personal insults? Taylor Swift is a carefully crafted product and none of us know her personally so comparing her to Gabriella and calling it a downgrade is just unnecessary and disgustingly malicious. Taylor has her own toxic relationship patterns and would we have liked Matty Healy better if he put a ring on it then ghosted her? It’s one thing to dislike this guy for the stuff he has said about other matters than Taylor, but to rip Gabriella apart because he chose her rather than Taylor regardless of whether he has changed seems like punching down for absolutely no reason.
Omg her name is GABRIETTE and she's one of the Nasty Cherry gals, cute girl band 😍 She's also friends with Charli XCX, who had a tour with Taylor Swift... all the same circle. Love you Shallon!
All the swifties blowing up Matty’s ig with comments saying he needs to apologize to Taylor and he’s broken her heart😂💀meanwhile Taylor has been dating Travis for like half a year💀
@@LittleRedMoon16 Let's not forget about Joe Alwyn who Taylor dumped like trash. She admitted cheating on him at least emotionally. Why doesn't she apologize for that???
@@Rosie-rx5ry deep down they know, Taylor ain't into that culture vulture. Shouldn't they be grateful that all the years with Joe & the Matty situationship led her to Travis? Even they don't believe he's the wattpad version they've created 😂
I had an ex who I dated for about 6/8 months while in college. We had many convos of our future, making plans, having a family. He was my first love. We drove out state for me to meet his dad just for him to break up with me a week later. 2 weeks after our break up I found out he got another chick pregnant and the timeline absolutely overlapped with the end of our relationship. So I knew he cheated on me. I realized when we spoke about having kids he had an urgency about it because he felt he needed kids by a certain age and I wanted to finish college and get a good job before starting a family. A couple months later he was married to the chick he knocked up. At first it was heartbreaking because that was everything I wanted with him.. But I realized putting me first was always the best option. Now instead of a kid and subpar relationship I have a college degree and career. He ended up with 3 step-kids, 1 child of his own and grandkids at the age of 31. Soooooo moral of he story is sometimes people are moved out of our lives for a reason.
If this was a comedy set you would kill!! (The bit with his Mum and tying it back to dental floss and her eyebrows 🤌🏼) The way you structure and deliver sentences is so funny 😂
I still think this, what is this strange person? Beauty and taste must be more subjective than U thought, to me It's not beauty. They look sad together. And yes, it's a trashy style
You’re only thinking that because you don’t like “her style”. If she was had the stereotypical celerity hair, makeup, weight, clear skin, eyebrows, etc… no one could ever say she’s not beautiful.
The look of Gabriet was a trend for some models in the '90s. If I remember correctly, it was called "heroin chic" and President Clinton said something about it, like it was irresponsible to present drug use as glamorous.
Not the biggest Taylor fan but I think they are both dating in "their own lane" right now. Taylor, a country-pop American sweetheart is dating a buff red blooded American football player. Matty, a subway station-esque "Sex, Drugs, Rock n Roll" guy is dating a woman that would be a passer-by of his underground "concerto" It sure is annoying facing the When Harry Met Sally moment but this would be for the best. Dodged a bullet there with your blonde locks and flowy dresses hun!
taylor is such a hypocrite. only she's allowed to move on and be happy in a relationship but he can't? if she was happy in her relationship, she wouldn't even care or think about her exes. maybe she doesn't like travis that much after all, just the attention
I just wondering how men's taste in women sooo different. No shade to Swifts style but she's wearing like 2009. And his new girlfriend is really into fashion and trends. (Yes, to be look like drug addict in 2000 is trendy now, not for everyone)
Sorry but Gabriette is way more attractive than Travis ever was. To start with, she doesn’t run her mouth and talk like she fell on her head as a baby… contrarily to Travis. Plus they seem into each other and like they match… Travis and Taylor seems real PR or like a rebound( from Taylor’s side)
Right?!! All those pictures of Travis also look like they were from years ago. That’s not what he looks like now. He has a major beer belly now. Plus Travis is violent when he gets angry which he does easily and seems like he has CTE which is like the biggest red flag. Gabriette has a very interesting and memorable face. I’m not a fan of the blonde hair she has now. The dark hair makes her look strikingly beautiful
Gabriette is actually stunning! Not all women have to be butterflies and rainbows. Shes a rock chic and better looking than Taylor swift. Why you lying😂
I think this Matty guy is telling the truth. Taylor really seems the kind of person who imagines things and writes her name with his surname in her diary after the first date. Also, him and the girl really are a great fit, just like Taylor and Kelce. Taylor needs to boss around her men, but likes bad guys. In the end, they get tired of the bs,because she seems very plain, boring and self-centered
This video is tempting me to unsubscribe tbh. I hate the word 'nice' and I don't think people shouldn't be honest...but at the same time...the criticism of people who aren't really relevant to the overall message you're trying to convey seems...superfluous. You've gone in so hard on his new fiancé...wtf has she done? Has she even said anything? It's like her mere existence has triggered you? I wish them good luck. She's clearly a better match for him than TS. And I am not a TS hater, at all, I'm seeing her Eras Tour in August. Can't wait!
Shallon mocks Gabbriette for being "so alternative yet wants to walk down the aisle saying vows to God and priest" lmao marriage existed long before Christianity was even a thing. Even pagans got married.
Make a video on guys tricking girls to pay 50-50 on dates in terms of equality + they are asking for cheap coffee days. How to set the tone from the start
Setting the tone is stupid AF. Take it from a woman who never had a bad relationship and always is treated as others would want to. You don't set anything, you watch, you understand the implications and you throw the man away if he doesn't match already, naturally what you want.
@@joannawinters6592 I'm doing that. I'm cutting them off but nowadays everyone seems like that only ..also on setting a tone I mean how to act before dating them. It matters. Human psychology works
@@joannawinters6592 I want to ask you as well what do you think you do different than other girls? In terms of setting boundaries or standards which are your naturally yours ofcourse! But that will others as well because circumstances, or location or anything can make a woman anxious. If we talk about me, I'm pretty but I live in a conservative environment and I can barely go out and because of that I talk to people online and they are all behaving like that so you know where I'm coming from
For real. This is bull. Any man that wants to go 50/50 is addicted to porn, pays for Onlyfans, and exs lol. They cheat and bleed you dry. Do not do it. A man should be financially stable without a womans help.
the tone needs to be set. Married 12 years and he still does no housework. We both work full time and for a few years I made more money and had a more demanding job. He is just always so “tired”. It gets old
VERY unpopular opinion here, but this is why you don’t “play house” or commit to one man for that many years without a marriage license AND a prenup. So that, if he wants to take that many years/money/investment from you and then run away from it, you have some type of protection while he has real consequences for that
I had an epiphany moment about Taylor, she’s never grown up when it comes to men. She gets obsessive, cringy, whenever she’s dating a guy. That’s how I acted in high school, not as an adult in dating. She never learned to set a bar of “You don’t get x, y, or z from me until I get a, b, and c.” The Tortured Poets Department is like changing your opening song on your MySpace page and writing a cryptic, emo status. The guy you’re writing about either doesn’t care enough about you to see it or thinks you look like an idiot. Same with Travis, she’s giving him everything. Changing the lyrics in her songs when she’s performing, staring at him the whole time. Then I see some headline “Travis says he has no plans on proposing to Taylor.” No shit! He knows he has her! He doesn’t have to put in anymore effort than what he’s already doing. Don’t go to all his games Taylor, keep the lyrics to karma the same, don’t even look at him when he’s there. It’s not a fool proof system, but something I appreciate about dating in the orthodox Jewish system is the boundaries. You don’t touch the person you’re dating until you’re married. You don’t have to go to that extreme, but it teaches you to set your bar of what is and isn’t tolerated. You will not even so much as hug me until you give me that commitment. It’s quite empowering. Taylor needs to start setting some boundaries and let men chase her.
I agree, the fact that she went to all of his games sets an unrealistic bar. Because now Travis feels he has to go to all her shows, and she probably expected him to go to many of them. But he probably doesn't feel like going to a lot of her shows because he's got his own stuff to do. So now they are already fighting over that conflict. What if she kept things more separate, this wouldn't be an issue so early. So she shouldn't have gone to any of his games, or maybe just like you know a couple. So yeah, better to keep it slower.
Yeah definitely, I cannot even listen to the title song of TTPD because it's too cringe as she just basically gives Matty all the power and says 'No one will love you like I do', I mean come on Taylor! I am such a huge fan and it hurts me to see her go through something in her thirties that I went through in my twenties. I finally learned the hard truth at 26 and started to set boundaries and give the bare minimum to guys until they stepped up, or would ghost them if they didn't. Now at 31 I am getting married in September to an amazing guy who definitely stepped up. She can have it all if she just understands how to set boundaries.
Gabrielle and Matty are much better suited to each other. Taylor is too much of a good girl for him and runs on a treadmill for 3 hours a day. He has substance issues. It’s also known that Matty doesn’t want to deal with the Swifties. Wishing happiness to them both.
It's the age-old trope of Big choosing Natasha over Carrie; it just got so hard with Carrie and Natasha's easier. But....Carrie was always on his mind/heart.
I think Carrie was the backup always. He has a type and it's not Carrie, although Carrie explained it away this way to feel better. Because she knew she was inferior.
Carrie was the place holder, never chosen just like a back up. He married her eventually when he was at an age he couldn’t be bothered running after models anymore and might not get them anymore, step up Carrie, that’ll do bc I can convince her what I want is what she wants.
Never heard of this Gabriette person, but she reminds me of Angelina Jolie in the late 90s when she was sporting shoe-polish black hair, overplucked eyebrows, overly pale foundation, tattoos, vials of blood around her neck, black leather pants, and flaunting weird PDA with Billy Bob Thornton.
I don't see the big deal here. It's one thing if he wasted years of her life, but a few months seems normal for someone to get to know if they want to keep seeing each other. Taylor's career is impressive, but she's just a person like everyone else. She's not going to be compatible with or seem like a catch for everyone.
Travis gives me aggressive vibes tbh like even looking at him he's not a golden retriever at all... definitely upgrade from Matty but idk I think this guy is dangerous
His whole post Taylor phase is starting to look like a big knee jerk reaction to her, he's trying way too hard to make it appear as if he's not looking back. My ex did the exact same thing and then 5 years after he dumped me he had the nerve to have a complete PUBLIC meltdown when I got engaged. When I got married HE PUT OUT A BAR WINDOW WITH A BEER BOTTLE when he saw the picture of me getting married on my sister's Instagram. He was so busy "living it up post break up" he forgot to deal with the reality of it. "Matty" looks like he's doing his version of the beer bottle through the bar window by getting engaged
Shallon i adore you and have followed you forever but i think you were a little harsh on this girl. I think she's absolutely stunning and love her Alt girlie vibe.
Shallon I know you’re triggered and come from a different generation but are we looking at the same girl?😭 Gabriette is GORGEOUS. She reminds me of young Angelina Jolie, so unique. She’s iconic and a trendsetter right now, I’m sorry. I don’t see how any of these women would want this tuna sandwich left on the hood of a car on a summer day sort of a man
Shallon, why are you hating on Matty's fiancé? What exactly has she done? And you low-key hate on Matty's mom as well who seems to be a perfectly lovely person. You are entertaining and funny but try to stay on target, please, and leave people who really have nothing to do with the situation alone. Matty is his own person, a full-grown adult. His mother and his fiancé are not responsible for his messy behaviour.
Perfect video for people who loved and took seriously wrong person. I was weirdly trigerred by this story, even if I don't ussualy care about celebrities, it reminded me my heartbreak. You made me feel better ❤️
Lol everytime i hear the pigeon analogy i laugh because I have a pet pigeon and he is the man of the house. He bullies the cats, theyre actually scared of him, hes the ballsiest MF of a bird ive ever seen. He would probably try attack an eagle if it entered his domain 😂
Me and my loves in that Italy clip! That was an amazing trip.
And I’m going to Spain and Italy this year with 2 awesome girlies from the Shallontourage this fall.
OMG V please give them hugs and kisses for me! Maybe we’ll run into each other!
EVERYONE! That dude is 35 -- not 53, he's 35. I feel like when women get money they often try to improve themselves, but when men get money, they often carelessly destroy themselves.
This is SO true. They either eat or drink themselves to death. Or they gamble or get really fat or just do something absolutely ridiculous, and women like drape themselves in Chanel and get a trainer they end up sleeping with and get a facelift 👏🏻
Matty Healy was born into money. His parents are successful actors in the UK. He’s actually a nepo baby..
Yes! The ex from my twenties did that. After he dumped me he released over £15,000 of equity from the house and blew it on partying and coke!
Now a house worth £50,000 has a debt of over £80,000 hanging over it as he'd also gotten a £15,000 loan to fix it up too😂😂😂😂😂
Thank god my name was never anywhere near it 😂😂😂😂
Oh and he gained 5st in weight post break up, because I wasn't there doing the grocery shopping or taking him to the gym with me.
Seriously he's like a 44 year old toddler thinking he can live off burgers and fries alone 😂
Check out his father's looks. I think he's going that way, I mean he already looks similar
@@shallonlester This is so true ! Look at how many female celebrities are older and still look incredible and then look at many of the older male celebrities 🤣 women in general age better because most of us take better care or ourselves .
But she's not some random girl he found after Taylor. She's the girl he dated before he dated Taylor. He went back to her. I honestly think that's more of a slap in the face. It says, he really didn't want Taylor, he wanted this other girl the whole time. Or it took dating Taylor for him realize he wanted this other girl the whole time.
Oh!
Interesting twist.
No he ran to Meredith the girl he ghosted for Taylor, then ghosted Taylor then went back to Meredith, dropped Meredith now he’s dating Gabriette and Gabriette had a boyfriend (who Meredith is now dating) she’s been waiting for Matty for 4 years which makes it worst it just seems like Matty is settling cause he didn’t get what he wanted (Taylor) and petty
Fantastic. They will all get married and divorce between each other in the future
“Matty didn’t get what he wanted”. GIRL, the lyrics of Taylor’s album make it clean she’s obsessed with him and he wanted nothing to do with her. Ex, the “I can’t do it with a broken heart” lyrics.
I'm so obsessed with him but he avoids me like the plague (he avoids me)- Taylor, on the album about Matty. He didn’t want her, end of story. He was dating Gabriette years ago, and around the same time that he was casually hooking up with Taylor last summer, (according to one of them, they began talking again about repairing their relationship, and got back together a month after Taylor and Him stopped hooking up. His team recently told the press he was blindsighted by Taylor’s album because they were never official, nor had they ever talked about commitment.
I might disagree for Gabriette, I find her pretty.
I do too
I think shes beautiful but would look healthier and more alive with a different aesthetic lol
Do you still find her pretty? We all have different views on beauty, to me it's not just shapes and colours, but also the class, a charm of a person, how they speak, what they stand for. She posted disgusting things online, even screaming like crazy, when was high on something. She is doing everything to be not pretty. I understand that it's an 'aesthethic' (disgusting on purpose). Women shouldn't be judged only based on beauty and beauty shouldn't be our only priority, but beauty, fashion is her job and she is influencing young girls, in my opinion in a bad way. I don't buy this brat summer thing.
Yess!! She’s really pretty!!❤
I think your rage is misplaced, attack the man, the woman did nothing to you
Gabbriette triggers her insecurities and reminds her of the girl her ex left her for
@@isa12rae oh I understand, same happens to me when I meet a tiktok "dancer". I wish to feel envy rather than shame
@@cct306 it's actually very clear that Shallon is projecting.
The man who treated you like crap and moves on quickly to an escalated relationship is not suddenly who you wanted him to be. He most likely just found someone who tolerates the things you couldn’t/wouldn’t.
Edit: Some people are not getting this comment. And aren’t reading below.
The woman not being able to tolerate something is not just a dig at the guy per se. Sometimes it’s a big ass flaw of HERS. If what you can’t tolerate is abuse or something negative, yes it’s good for you get out of there. But sometimes what we “can’t tolerate” is a result of our own impatience! We want the person to be exactly what we want RIGHT NOW. Won’t let them grow, or won’t even let ourselves grow enough to realize that dealbreaker isn’t a deal breaker.
Also this new girl looks like a fit for Matty. Taylor was not.
Exactly!
unfortunately i dont think thats true :( men are much better at being someone they dont see a future with without getting attached, just to enjoy the benefits of sex, nurturing, companionship, encouragement, even if they know they can and will do better with someone else, who provides all that and then some for them. and to that person, they show their best side.
@@marykay7878*showing* their best side is exactly what it is. Making an effort for someone they want 'seriously' ...yes, but that won't last. A crappy person is a crappy person and it will show sooner or later. A good, respectful person is not crappy to someone they are not serious about. It is simply not in their nature.
@@exactly... thats not what i meant. i would consider myself an authentic person, yet i am way more generous and patient and devoted and loving to people i LOVE compared to people i like. i am not unkind or cruel to people i like, but also not devoted to and invested in them. and men can be in a long term relationship with someone they just like
@@marykay7878 I agree with you. When they're with someone they see a future with, they put in the effort and they show up. With someone they don't, they're either with them because of guilt, not ready to be alone yet, etc, they give the bare minimum, because they know you'll put up with it. Once they're no longer showing their best side, give them chances but after three strike, it's time to give them the boot.
So nice to see everyone standing up for Gabriette in the comments! One beautiful thing about the shallontourage is we are not afraid to speak up, even if it's against our own fave content creator !! 💖👏
Not everyone wants to be Miss Americana who wears florals all the time.
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Trashing Gabriette is so lame. I’m pretty sure Taylor is comparing herself to her, we all do when someone moves on. I wouldn’t be surprised if Taylor changes her look to become more edgy too. She definitely watches what her exes do and who they’re with.
Taylor already started doing that. Gabriette is known for posting cooking videos, and Taylor RANDOMLY posted a Instagram story of her cooking with Travis 😑, when she literally barely ever posts anything, let alone cooking vidoes.
Gabbriette is an absolute baddie
Shallon's ex left her for an alt girl so that's why she's taking it out on stunning Gabbriette
Whats " alt" girl? How do u know how she looks? I want to see lol@@isa12rae
Omg actually - look at the song its ruining my life! - vid is with taylor tatooed in a mental hospital... Remands me of matts now gf
It's giving 90s Kate Moss in her Johnny Depp era - or vintage Angelina and Billy Bob. I think she's stunning. I'm always here for your messy moments Shallon but don't get it twisted 😂 you seem bothered and sad by being so mean about her. Alpha females don't need to take cheap shots.
Yes especially with that red hair 😍 she looked like a siren
People may not like Gabbriette's esthetic but she's naturally drop dead gorgeous.
I get the hating on Matty, he slayed the Queen as far as Swifties are concerned. But unless I missed something I really don’t understand ripping his fiancée to shreds, for her appearance especially. I usually love your takes but this is giving bitter, mean girl vibes.
Straight up. We're not meant to look & act the same.
Thank you. Like what did she do?
It’s because her situationship moved onto a girl like his fiancé. She’s taking out her anger on an innocent bystander . She needs to put the anger back on the one who ran her heart around.
I’m actually concerned for Shallon that she seems to think this guy who clearly doesn’t care about her, “is her soul mate”. I hope she wakes up!
Shallon's ex left her for an alt girl so that's why she's taking it out on stunning Gabbriette
When did you start liking Taylor swift?! 😭 you were the only real one who called her out for childish behavior 😢
I know right? Shannon related to Taylor's songs on bad situationships. Taylor finally got her. Taylor is a Mastermind, she has a song for everybody!
I used to watch every video now I have hardly watched any as there are so many on her inspired by her. 🙄🙄
I don’t see why anyone’s looks need to be trashed, Gabriette’s or Taylor’s. They are both fine looking, they just have different appeals. Taylor is girl next door, Gabriette is grunge. One isn’t right or wrong, they are just different.
And what they look like has no bearing on who Matty would want to be with. In my opinion, Taylor, despite her occasional party-girl moments, is too straight and clean-cut for Matty. And that’s fine.
It’s also fine that Gabriette chooses to have those tattoos and lack of eyebrows. That’s the look she wants, she’s happy with it, and clearly many people find it attractive.
In sum , Taylor isn’t “basic” or “mid” just because she doesn’t look like Gabriettr, and Gabriette isn’t trashy just because she doesn’t look like Taylor
That's too much logic for Shallon.
Shallons a boomer wierdo when it comes to people's looks. She literally thinks people's worth cones down to looking like her
Yeah it's coming off a bit euro centric beauty standards
@@salamander8301 Gabriette isn’t the only one whose looks were being trashed, though. The women who think Gabriette is gorgeous are calling Taylor “basic” and “plain” because she’s ….white
Agree. I was getting second hand embarrassment from the way she was being so harsh judgemental and rude over Matty and his fiancée.
Um listening to all the irational hate towards the total stranger and fhinking "ohhh this is hitting home for Shallon, it has nothing to do with this girl"😮😮😮
Yes, and she explained how and why.
Shallon is projecting so hard by hating on Gabbriette. Her ex left her for an alt girl and seeing Matty choose the younger hotter alt girl over Taylor hit too close to home.
I think Gab is gorgeous, there’s a reason she’s a model. She seems a lot more interesting than Taylor. I’m not sure what she’s done to deserve being called ugly and trashy. Life would be so boring if we all looked the same.
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She looks very sickly though but I think that's her body fat percentage as a model. I think she just has a beautiful face if that makes sense
What’s fun about this is that she is actually from the oc just like shallon is and is rich af
I have the same thoughts. Shallon seems bitter. We are all unique and beautiful in our own ways and not trying to all look the same
Yep
You’ve done it again, Shallon. Nailed it: They didn’t evolve, they just found someone who required less of them 🙌🏻
Exactly!
They found their match. Compatibility is the word.
BOOM! Said perfectly!
Shes more his type imo. Shes like an edgey cool girl fits his asthetic. I see why they are together. Taylor is just not that vibe :/ idk why they were even involved in the first place. Taylor is sooooo different than matty. Her and her current man fit better. they are their perf asthetic
Some of his previous girlfriends looked like normal nice girls.
You think that yet he looks miserable, cries on stage and looks aged and now of his closed friends even congratulated him on his engagement
I feel like love and relationships go beyond aesthetics though, it’s more about emotional compatibility than similar packaging
@@lorenahernandez9501 Exactly. People say they are a great match and base it on their similar clothes 😆
Mmm I disagree. I think Joe was her true match. Travis is too “high school fantasy” and meathead for her. She seems to like good looking guys that she can have thought provoking conversations with.
Trashing his fiance is low ball. She didn't do anything. I don't know anything about her but I do find her quite attractive. She's got that gothic aesthetic going on. Not a style I can pull off, but it really suits her.
Agree with you. Gabriet didn’t do anything wrong except get the guy who didn’t work out with someone else. The displaced anger needs to focus back on the guy. Also I like her aesthetic; I don’t like a lot of other aesthetics but every one has the right to present how they choose as long as it’s not harming anyone.
Gabbriette is just making some PR moves here and I lover her for that, next IT GIRL
Yea she’s just different - she’s very cute 😍
Agreed Gabriette is beautiful, could care less about Matty Healy.
also can't agree with shallon on this one. i personally think taylor is basic af. it's a matter of taste.
What’s the problem with buying a black diamond? If you are gothic, you are into that. Money spent on a ring does not equal love. It’s funny you say this when you are always repeating the idea that men can buy you flowers and expensive stuff to make up for their cheating and all that, but we shouldn’t accept those apologies because we are worth more than a purchase. This “cheap” ring correlates with her tastes and shows that he cares enough to find something she likes. Also, why are you trashing this woman and her looks? She’s beautiful. Maybe as a Latina she doesn’t fulfill your American ideal of peroxide blonde, but many can agree, even if we don’t like her style, that she’s beautiful
At first I thought they both use drugs. They look unhealthy and sad together. Maybe it's not my 'aesthetic'.
None of that changes the fact that her features are beautiful
Gabbriette is gorgeous.
I’ve followed gab for a long time cause she used to do cooking videos etc and she’s actually the sweetest most wholesome girl lol. I actually love her look 😂 I think it suits her haha! Nothing against Taylor, they are just different categories of hot
Yes she seems really sweet and a wonderful cook !
Someone's taste in men says a lot about them...
@@princessmorebucks well both gab and Taylor chose him at different points 🤣 what does this say about either of them? Leave them alone. Everyone can be moved on and happy with the person they are compatible with.
@@cilovesit says a lot about both of them yes. This scumbag deserves no women.
@@princessmorebucksTay Swift has tasted a lot of men, what does that say about her then?
So if he choses another woman over you , all of a suden he is a mediocre loser? come on😆 ! you dont have to be every man's idea of a perfect life partner. Take this oppertunity as a moment for introspection.
She was calling him “her soul mate” just last week, but I guess she ran into him a few days ago and he let her know he has a girlfriend.
@@culturalresponse2447shallon often lies a lot about having boyfriends in one video and on the next she’s sniffling & crying about being broken up. A week long hookup session is not a relationship 🤡
Maybe Taylor and Gabrielle are wearing two different masks. Taylor seems to “put together on the outside” and is cold and calculating in intimate relationships. Then you have Gabrielle she could have a certain “look” to her and is actually warm and kind in her intimate relationships.
gabriette is like really really hot though why are you lying 😭😭
I so agree with you but I think it's a point of view thing. I've been a goth girl and because of that I can see how 10/10 beautiful she would be considered in those circles. And she clearly has very attractive features, her face is just stunning. But also I can see what others mean, she looks like she is on death's door. Her skin is sallow, her eyes look exhausted and she looks like she hasn't had a full meal in years. That's the aesthetic in Goth circles though. You know she kind of reminds me of a 90s Billy Bob era Angelina Jolie.
I think her and Matty's aesthetic matches perfectly and I can see how they might be very happy together because they come from the same circles/interest groups
The majority of the public thinks Gabrielle is gorgeous and like-able and that’s why they are not attacking them. Because he’s with her, the public is wishing them the best, despite his problematic past. Her shine is enveloping him
Well, Beauty is in the browless eye of the beholder
@@faechan92 it’s called high fashion girlie. brows or no brows her features are exquisite and you can’t deny that
i mean compared to taylor, i think objectively people know who are more traditionally beautiful. gabriette appeals to merely certain groups of people.
Swifties love to bash and insult all women but they expect people to be kind and respectful towards Taylor?😂 please. For every woman that the “girls girl feminist” Swifties bash, Taylor forever the victim swift is gonna get double the hate. 🤷🏻♀️
fr 😂 the hypocrisy is sending me
Yeah I agree it’s very hypocritical but then again Blondie tends to be one as well so it makes sense lol
It’s funny because Shallon only became a swiftie after Taylor started dating Travis because she’s now projecting herself and her ex, and seeing herself in Taylor. Before she used to be a raging Taylor hater.
As a person who works in high fashion, I find gabriette’s aesthetic so much cooler and relevant than Taylor’s Jo-Ann fabrics X magpie Martha aesthetic. Please stop projecting your own insecurities because you are so basic.
Her drug addict goth look has been done before.
🙄🙄 she does not look healthy. Period
The people who have tattoos and goth up the ass are making up for a lack of being interesting inside
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Unpopular opinion but I think this Gabriette is ethereally stunning. To me, she is art.
But then I also don't care one bit about Taylor Swift or her boyfriend or anyone they are associated with.
Same. I’ve met her she is lovely too real sweetheart.
Right. Taylor is so basic looking. I don't like Gabriette's aesthetic but she's very beautiful underneath that weird makeup
Thank you for sharing this.
Yes she has that dark seductive energy, beautiful bone structure and I love her style
She looks hot!
I hate people trashing on other’s engagement rings.
Like why the fact it is cheaper is wrong? What did anyone expect that girl to wear? Basic gold band and clear diamond? It would be completely clashing with her.
I come from a country where amber is a big thing. It comes in so many different colors. The one that works best for me is actually the cheapest too (dark green one, instead of all yellow/gold/brown ones). Do I care it is cheaper? No, I actually don’t.
I know! If she likes the ring that is all that matters. I personally love alternatives for diamonds. If I was engaged I would probably want a blue sapphire which is cheaper than a diamond but it’s just more my taste. I think the ring should show that the guy knows what the women he is going to marry actually likes.
Also Shallon mocks Gabbriette for being "so alternative yet wants to walk down the aisle saying vows to God and priest" lmao marriage existed long before Christianity was even a thing. Even pagans got married.
I had a miscarriage with an ex-boyfriend that I never want to see ever again. A baby is a threshold, a bigger milestone yes, but not necessarily in a good way.. that ex will always be in your life.. Mine was a shady character and everyone said the miscarriage was protection from God.
Been there. Totally get it. It’s a bond you don’t want but I also agree, sometimes god was protecting you.
I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I've had 2 & know how devastating they are. One of them was w/ the guy I was in a " situationship" w/ for 2 1/2 yrs. Surprisingly he was actually really excited about the baby. But he couldn't give me what I wanted, needed & deserved, which was someone who was proud to say they were my boyfriend. He wouldnt even acknowledge we were dating, so I finally did the hard thing & ended it. Hurt like hell that he was married less than a year later & now has 2 kids. He had me meet his mother, I spent holidays w/ his family, took me on romantic dates, including on V-Days, which even included a horse & carriage ride one year ❤️ went on trips together, we literally spent all our time together & it was monogamous, he just said he wasn't ready to be someone's "boyfriend" or rather, have that label of boyfriend. Yet, less than a year later he was ready to be someone's HUSBAND. That hurt like hell 💔
Babies don't trap men.
I had a baby and the father has never met his child and the child is almost 4 years old.
I think the best way to get rid of a man is to tell him that you are pregnant.
@winning3329 they won't necessarily trap a man, but they can trap a woman into wanting to make things work with a toxic man for the sake of the baby
Gabbriette is much hotter than Taylor. Her cooking videos are amazing.
yeah let’s not compare gabbriette and taylor and try and call her ugly.. gab is 1000x prettier and more unique, which clearly is what he was looking for. he wants to be the rock star with a rockstar’s gf. taylor was never his type and won’t ever be.
This!!! Why is everyone calling her ugly? I love shallon and 9/10 times agree with her. Maybe it’s a generational thing? I’m not sure. But I’ve known of both Gabriette and Taylor before anything to do with Matt, and although I think Taylor looks polished I don’t find any sex appeal to her looks or aura. As a bi woman, gabriette is both beautiful and seductive! She wins hard for me 🤷♀️
She’s def NOT ugly..she’s just different.
@@HannahHavenga 100% agree. taylor was too “basic” for him, it was simply a fling that she read too much into. gab is his true type, she has much more sex appeal and i like the grunge look
@@wakeupcecil i fully agree on gab but i don’t see it with matty 😭 travis is better imo but neither are my type
I think her age doesn’t allow her to appreciate Gabriette aesthetic unfortunately… 🥲
Shallon, I hope you read this. My bf and I love watching your videos. During this one, he paused it and told me “you know how employers don’t want to hire someone who is overqualified? Bc employers know that person will up and leave once they find the job they actually want, the one they are actually qualified for”.
He brought this up to explain why loser pigeon men don’t put the effort into us beautiful eagle women. They feel we are only there until we get someone of our caliber. Your ex always knew you were too good for him and assumed you would leave when you found the right guy on your level.
Interesting
The funny thing is that eagles are very single minded in reality and pigeons have way more cognitive skills and abilities similar to humans and are way smarter than most dogs for example.
@@joannawinters6592 Yeah, LOL. I hate this pigeon trashing thing she keeps doing. Pigeons are quite intelligent, social, skill navigators, adaptive creatures.
Oooh this is a good/interesting perspective!
@@joannawinters6592 same, I love pigeons lol. I get Shallon is making a metaphor but I want to take big sis Shallon birdwatching so she can learn more about birdies
It’s such nasty behaviour to sh!t talk Gabriette simply because she is the new girlfriend
My thoughts exactly. People are deeper than their style or appearance. Sometimes people are more compatible with someone else. Some of the most amazing people I ever met have tattoos, ex addicts, ex felons, mentally ill. You need to have humility to dig deeper. Being "square" doesn't automatically make you classy or a better person
The funny thing is, Gabriette isnt even new. They dated before Taylor came in the picture.
It has nothing to do with her being “the one.” He’s 35 (despite looking 45) and feels it’s time to settle down and she just happened to be there and available. He’s also way more famous than her which means he holds more of the power
Agreed. I think knowing he could get Taylor was an ego boost, but he’s said publicly before that he doesn’t want to be “Taylor Swift’s Boyfriend”.
You’re right, he has more money and fame than her. He holds all the cards.
adventureskatekat- your concept that men dont marry THE ONE, they marry who is in front of them when they are ready is very true and as a exotic dancer ,ive also seen this same habit in men at the strip club. IVe seen men that might be attracted to a dancer and like her yet he is not ready to commit to a dance with her because the timing was wrong. Yet when he is ready to blow all his money, and the timing is right for him, whichever dancer is in front of him he will usually commit to a dance, it doesn't matter how ugly or how fat the dancer is or if he is even attracted to her. if she is in front of him when the timing is right, he usually will take her to the champagne room or go to the atm machine and give her $
@@maybememory1exactly! 🤮 he’s confident now. Meanwhile Travis Kelce has let himself go 🫣 yep, I said it! Too comfortable.
Exactly. All about timing and him being ready. There was a line in Sex and the City once referring to this. I think Carrie called it "his light's on"
First of all engagement is not marriage. It could be just future faking. If he does actually marry her it's because he assessed that that was the way to get her under control. Sticking it to Taylor was just the cherry on top. I'll believe it when I see it.
SO true. This could just be a huge stunt with a tacky ring and a tacky fiancé from a tacky man
yeh, i agree, it's a stunt to counter the shallow image. he knows now, his image is just used condoms on a conveyor belt. He's trying to look like he can form an attachment with another human.
2 of my exs did the same thing after our breakup and they immediately got engaged to the next women and of course it didn't last.
THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME!! I was absolutely infatuated with my last boyfriend. I was the rebound after he got separated from his wife. He told me he didn’t want to commit, which I understood. Two months later, he put a ring on someone else’s finger and they had a baby. I was FLOORED !! Apparently he just did not want to commit to ME 😮 This analysis was so on point. TRASHY Healy and his emo 🖤 Go ahead if ya want to
Like Justin Selena
BLECHHHH i’m so sorry you’ve been through this also it is absolutely gut wrenching. But like I said in this video, don’t believe everything you see. Sometimes people are just cosplaying as the healthy settle down guy because they desperately want to be but they’re just not. No one can keep that act up for long…
Sometimes, being the rebound is like being the “buffer”- the one that “healed” him & got him over his ex & then suddenly he is emotionally available for the next one. It’s like you get to be the cleanup crew & then when they’re done using you & they’re “all better” they want to start fresh with a shiny new partner. I think timing of when you come into their lives sometimes plays a role in things as well. I’m sincerely sorry you went through that.
Happened to me too, I got pursued, chased etc, then suddenly months later after they were obsessed with me, “I’m not ready for a relationship, I still need to heal” out of fuck no where and wanting me.
Got with another girl, they got their same karma (discarded) and then they came crawling back to me.
Fixed their self esteem, etc (they went back to briefly love bombing me) saying they always secretly want me, and all that garbage.
Only to switch up again (mind you, randomly decide to show me another woman flirting with them, and wanting them) out of no where (I think they were a narc, they like to triangulate), and so I told them ok, get with them, “oh I don’t know if I’m ready.”
Only for weeks later or not even a month for them to tell me they’re going on dates, by Feb, when I wouldn’t meet up with them, as soon as I said no; they were suddenly ready again, got with a new girl, made her gf.
My person they launched quickly on social media was posting how “happy” they are, and the new gf talking about how happy they make them.
That same person after I cut them off, directly bragged to me how they have a great life, and then randomly sent me a photo of their luxury car, and then had the very need to tell me they were out with the gf.
Horrible people. Sometimes I can’t tell if they changed, despite their non-stop rebounding or monkey branching; and maybe I wasn’t good enough or if the next girl will treated exactly as the last.
@shallonlester But it's not always an act. I know through mutual friends that my commitment phobic, douchebag ex of 2 1/2 yrs who wouldn't even acknowledge me as his gf, but then was married less than a year after we broke up & has 2 kids w/ her actually went from that to faithful, loving husband in less than a year & now loving father as well. WEEKS into them dating he was calling her his gf as well & I gave him 2 1/2 YEARS & he never acknowledged me as such. Talk about a knife in your heart. Ugh.
“You wouldn’t know brat until you’ve met me” She doesn’t want to meet you Shallon, stop tearing her down for literally no reason
Lol
I don’t think Shallon understands that Brat is a slang word right now, with a special meaning
You’re trippin, I don’t even know who this dude is and don’t follow Taylor swift but his new GF is gorgeous! How can you even say otherwise wtf?? I’m confused 🤷🏻♀️
is the gorgeous in the room with us?
@@pabloescobarschanclasimagine someone saying this about you for no reason. Don’t be hateful like shallon or you will end up alone like her.
@@Jyotsiee imagine typing all this out for someone who doesn’t give a damn LMAOOO.
@@pabloescobarschanclasand yet you're here
@@laura-zo4ry yeah i am, i wanted to watch the video. tf are you even talking about?
The king of periodontal disease 😂😂 Taylor dodged a bullet.
Shallon is so frickin funny
I screeched
Guys settle down whenever they finally realize their time and options are running out. It just takes some longer than others.
I'm a dude and I'm beginning to realize this but I've only been actually trying for a couple years. This amount of time has shown me that it's better to make a relationship with someone mediocre and be happy than it is to love bomb with someone irresistible and hope it never fades. Who knows though what I will end up choosing.
@@elwing07why are you here? This is a girls page
Call me crazy, but… I think Gabriette is hot lol she reminds me of Angelina Jolie in her goth phase
I love Gabbriette. I love Nasty Cherry and Charli XCX
Yes yes yes
Yes she is quite beautiful but I'm not a goth fan hate that look
Yes!!! Exactly what I was thinking
Have you ever considered your non committal ex may have done you a favour? Sit back and wait ..
girl... taylor is not worth all of this
Shallon thanks for all the realness about your own life. I remember I found out an ex of mine had a baby and it sent me for a spiral….until I found out he’s not taking care or claiming the baby and his mom told the girl his baby is not his responsibility. And it brought me right back to all the reasons I never wanted to be with him long term. Thanks again Shallon!
What the actual f*ck
As beautiful and talented that i think taylor is. When i found out that matty and taylor got together it took me by a suprise because he doesnt usually go for girls like taylor and he literally said how he doesnt think he could ever date someone as famous as taylor. Matty usually goes for an ultra skinny model that is almost unknown. Matty and Gabriella make so much more sense than him and taylor. However taylor does usually date guys that give off tortured poets or alternative like john mayer and harry styles
Nah they had history in the past (2014) then she moved on to Calvin cause he couldn’t handle his ego and he was in hard drugs. Apparently he’s been having sobbing breakdowns on stage whenever he performs the songs about Taylor so he probably isn’t as happy as he seems and looks like he heavily aged.
Taylor’s fans are claiming those songs are about her with absolutely no proof. and the drinking and crying on stage thing seems to be his signature style/performance choice
@NostalgiaStarfish he was know to sob on stage but I don't think that was about taylor it was just him being sad and being really into drugs. He has been opened about doing hard drugs in the past but has been sober from them for now. I do believe he write songs about her tho but I don't think he was crying about her. And yeah his ego got in the way of them being able to date and close this chapter YEARS ago.
I guess bc taylor looks more like you shes the hotter one. Taylor is pretty. Gabriette is a smokeshow. Girl what are you on about😭
Did you lose an ex to a goth hottie or what? Such an odd angle...
Edit: i love being right LMAO. Being bitter and basic isnt cute.
The sad part is, the goth GF of the 23 year old guy Shallon was never in a relationship with to begin with… is also I’m sure, his age. Attacking a woman half your age is SO BOTHERED
I feel like they’re both equally pretty in different ways
A villain doesn't become a hero overnight 👏🏼👏🏼
If they tell you what they should have been doing, they ~knew~ the whole time. The harsh truth is, they were ~choosing~ not to do it. They ~chose~ to stand by and watch you in pain because they thought you would never leave. He didn't love you, he *owned* you. Choose freedom.
Yes. Preach.
Some people are just more compatible together and it looks like these two are. If an ex gets a new gf and gets married the chances are they just found someone more compatible that’s not a bad thing. The world doesn’t revolve around us, we are not the centre of the universe and not every guy is better off with us than the next girl.
Exactly
👏 👏 👏
Going after the fiancé is immature. For what? She is beautiful. To me, Taylor looks plain asf. She looks like every other blonde white girl. But to you apparently she is stunning. lol
if your definition of beautiful is meth head bumming a cigarette outside the liquor store. and taylor is in fact objectively beautiful. she looks like she flosses and doesn’t do coke for breakfast. shallon is 100% justified going after these losers.
So being blonde and white means you are not attractive?
I agree that no one should attack anyone’s looks, because beauty is so attractive. And fine if you don’t think Taylor is gorgeous, but being blonde and white doesn’t automatically make someone plain
@@samanthau1380 Did I say she looks unattractive? She just looks plain. She’s not exciting to look at to quote Kim Kardashian. But I’m saying in my opinion the girl she is dogging looks better to me than Taylor does. If that offends you, okay then. 🤷🏽♀️
@@samanthau1380she is mid far from georgous stop it 🙄
@@nubieblack886 I didn’t say she was gorgeous. I don’t happen to think she is. I just think that saying it’s immature to after the fiancés look and then going after Taylor’s looks (for being *gasp* blonde and white) is not cool either
I really love your videos when i am in the right mood. I even suggest your videos to the young adult girls that i know. I dont know these people you are talking about but, what did they ever do to you? Lol...
Videos like these, that you upload, make it seem like you are so unhappy and no one should be taking your advice.
This is simply just Bullying.
I have recommend her as well. I would be embarrassed if anyone I recommend watched this video…
you literally just said so simply exactly what ive been thinking for years. I love shallow and have been watching her videos for years but once in a while there will be a video where she's so off the rails and genuinely just pure cruel and vicious for NO REASON like right now. she's showing pictures of this girl who's absolutely drop dead gorgeous and calling her a tramp, clown ugly and a "chola" because of her brows, and for what because she's with Taylors ex? or is there a deeper reason because this is unjustified. but I know shallon doesn't always do this so I can let this go and move on but when these videos do happen I just move on.
sorry for the novel lol
I like to say when my exes get married the new partner doesn't get a better them, just a bigger dose of what I got. And if I am honest, the doses I got were already too much. So guess they just have a higher B.S. tolerance than I do. I sincerely wish them good luck! And honestly, worry a bit for the new partner, some of my exes it was a good thing I could get a quick exit, but spouses are not so lucky....
I get the anger and frustration, but why diss on the eyebrow-less girl or the face tattoo chick? In all seriousness, the girls came after the previous relationships ended, they are not homewreckers. They are just a better fit for the guy, and that's ok, considering that by society's standards, the guys are low value.
What hurts is that we know that by society's standards, we are the highest value ones, but love is not a check list of qualities and it cannot be forced, it just is and it has nothing to do with who's better, prettier, wealthier or smarter. It's attraction, compatibility, and seeing a happy future with that person.
Yeah, I didn't get this either. I have to be honest, I think that woman is better looking than Taylor. She's got this mysterious vibe. Yes, not everyone's vibe, but gorgeous.
Yep that model is so pretty 😻 she is hot in sexy mysterious way but if i follow tooo much alt fashion so
craziest thing is that taylor basically cheated on joe yet u see swifties defending her actions
The sheer number of women bashing this woman who did nothing but get engaged to her man is wild.
I only am WOWED by the most feminine delicate celebs like Miranda Kerr, and even I could see that Gabrielle is beautiful and magnetic. The fact that she can pull off that grungy look when 99.9% of the public couldn’t, proves she’s beautiful
The pigeon imitation gets me every time 🤣🩵
I have a crazy idea, you should be Gabriet for Halloween 😂
She can't coz gabriete is cool and skinny. Shallon is toxic and fatty
Shallon, given your own emo phase (as a full grown adult) you are the LAST person to be judging Gabriette's looks. Do you miss that era? Still not over that ex that cheated? Bitter that she got a ring and you didn't? Not fun to think about....but bitterness is not your best look either. Matty and Joe have been finally giving Taylor a taste of her own medicine.
I’m surprised Shallon hasn’t learned her lesson yet given that she has told us horror stories of all the guys she’s been with (excluding her husband whom I believe she broke up with).. where cheaters, domestic abusers, addicts, who mostly didn’t claim her and didn’t make her their girlfriend, etc. She needs to settle down with a 50-60 year old man and be happy, and leave the 20 something year olds in the past!
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@@culturalresponse2447 it's so sad because she knows all the answers and gives fantastic advice.. Just doesn't seem to follow it herself when it comes to her own life. And we're all guilty of this to some extent. The bashing of Gabriette was unnecessary though. Like Taylor is not worth all of that lol. we truly are rooting for Shallon though 💖.
I'm a Swiftie and I definitely think Gabriette is GORGEOUS! 😇
okkkk girl shallon. Tell us who hurt you. had to unsubscribe.
I believe she’s getting rejected a lot these days!
Shallon's ex left her for an alt girl so that's why she's taking it out on stunning Gabbriette
Cry
The most humble thing is to see or hear your exs that are "happily married, taken, or just had a baby" on dating sites. Actively cheating and lying.
It happens so much. It is very scary and creepy.
Comforting actually, if you have schadenfreude
@saratemp790 true. I don't. I think it is truly sad but it helps realize what people post in socials is not reality. The ex that is "happy" with their new girl is not giving her the princess treatment
I agree, it feels like justice sometimes 😄
It’s comforting for you to see that another woman is going to suffer due to infidelity? Gee, I wonder why you attract horrible people, maybe because like attracts like. (And don’t try to say you meant it’s comforting because you got away from it. You really meant that you enjoyed that the other women is getting treated badly too and your ego doesn’t have to take a hit).
@@culturalresponse2447 yes it's comforting because if you see him be a jerk to every other woman, you know it wasn't your fault. Like he tried to make you believe when you were with him. That's comforting.
I heard from fans of the 1975 that matty is actually a long term relationships guy. People that are familiar with his past (i do not care for him at all and will not fact check this) say that all his relationships last longer than 1 year or more. Which makes what happened with him and taylor even stranger???? Like huh?? If its true. (These fans also say that him and taylor’s breakup probably had more to do with his sobriety and he couldnt handle the attention and it took a toll on his health)
I think Halsey would like a word with them.
It’s very mature tearing down a woman because of who she is with. Taylor Swift is a grown woman in her mid-thirties who chose Matty Healy. To my knowledge his fiancée has not said or done anything to Taylor so why the personal insults? Taylor Swift is a carefully crafted product and none of us know her personally so comparing her to Gabriella and calling it a downgrade is just unnecessary and disgustingly malicious. Taylor has her own toxic relationship patterns and would we have liked Matty Healy better if he put a ring on it then ghosted her?
It’s one thing to dislike this guy for the stuff he has said about other matters than Taylor, but to rip Gabriella apart because he chose her rather than Taylor regardless of whether he has changed seems like punching down for absolutely no reason.
Omg her name is GABRIETTE and she's one of the Nasty Cherry gals, cute girl band 😍
She's also friends with Charli XCX, who had a tour with Taylor Swift... all the same circle.
Love you Shallon!
It probably hurts Taylor even more because Gabriette is hot af
Yeah they are hating so hard. If Taylor is so happy with Travy then why do they even care??
All the swifties blowing up Matty’s ig with comments saying he needs to apologize to Taylor and he’s broken her heart😂💀meanwhile Taylor has been dating Travis for like half a year💀
@@LittleRedMoon16 Let's not forget about Joe Alwyn who Taylor dumped like trash. She admitted cheating on him at least emotionally. Why doesn't she apologize for that???
@@Rosie-rx5ry deep down they know, Taylor ain't into that culture vulture.
Shouldn't they be grateful that all the years with Joe & the Matty situationship led her to Travis?
Even they don't believe he's the wattpad version they've created 😂
@@Rosie-rx5rySwifties ruined Taylor and Matty relationship. And Tay got bored with Joe and should not have to apologize for that
Don’t worry. They’ll be divorced in 2-5 years
I give it 18 months
If that long. Not sure I could stomach Denise Welch as MIL.
taylor and travis will be broken up before the end of the year
Maybe not, that’s what we all thought about Justin and Hailey
Bitter hag vibes
I had an ex who I dated for about 6/8 months while in college. We had many convos of our future, making plans, having a family. He was my first love. We drove out state for me to meet his dad just for him to break up with me a week later. 2 weeks after our break up I found out he got another chick pregnant and the timeline absolutely overlapped with the end of our relationship. So I knew he cheated on me. I realized when we spoke about having kids he had an urgency about it because he felt he needed kids by a certain age and I wanted to finish college and get a good job before starting a family. A couple months later he was married to the chick he knocked up. At first it was heartbreaking because that was everything I wanted with him.. But I realized putting me first was always the best option. Now instead of a kid and subpar relationship I have a college degree and career. He ended up with 3 step-kids, 1 child of his own and grandkids at the age of 31. Soooooo moral of he story is sometimes people are moved out of our lives for a reason.
You passes the test. Congratulations girlie pop
@@iamdisgusted thanks :) lol
If this was a comedy set you would kill!! (The bit with his Mum and tying it back to dental floss and her eyebrows 🤌🏼) The way you structure and deliver sentences is so funny 😂
Thank you!!
i actually think matty’s partner is more beautiful than taylor 🫢
same. calling her ugly and trashy is insane..
100%
Beauty is really subjective, my first throughts on her was what a strange person is this
I still think this, what is this strange person? Beauty and taste must be more subjective than U thought, to me It's not beauty. They look sad together. And yes, it's a trashy style
You’re only thinking that because you don’t like “her style”. If she was had the stereotypical celerity hair, makeup, weight, clear skin, eyebrows, etc… no one could ever say she’s not beautiful.
Gabriette is gorgeous! Taylor needs to grow up. This is why nobody wants to marry her. She's a 35 year old teenager
Being "le hot" isn't everything
right!!! she keeps writing about men who don't care about her sad
And she admits to being a cheater with a permanently wandering eye
@@watermelonlover745Taylor has a boyfriend. I'm sure she's over it.
Gabbriette is the next IT GIRL.
She is just making some PR moves and trying to get her name out there... good for her. I love her, I hate Matty. Yuck
The look of Gabriet was a trend for some models in the '90s.
If I remember correctly, it was called "heroin chic" and President Clinton said something about it, like it was irresponsible to present drug use as glamorous.
Not the biggest Taylor fan but I think they are both dating in "their own lane" right now. Taylor, a country-pop American sweetheart is dating a buff red blooded American football player. Matty, a subway station-esque "Sex, Drugs, Rock n Roll" guy is dating a woman that would be a passer-by of his underground "concerto"
It sure is annoying facing the When Harry Met Sally moment but this would be for the best. Dodged a bullet there with your blonde locks and flowy dresses hun!
Matty's girlfriend is also in a band, like he is.
Well said!
@@joannawinters6592 Good for her
taylor is such a hypocrite. only she's allowed to move on and be happy in a relationship but he can't? if she was happy in her relationship, she wouldn't even care or think about her exes. maybe she doesn't like travis that much after all, just the attention
I just wondering how men's taste in women sooo different. No shade to Swifts style but she's wearing like 2009. And his new girlfriend is really into fashion and trends. (Yes, to be look like drug addict in 2000 is trendy now, not for everyone)
Just like women’s taste in men is different. Some women like British rockstar look, some like the All American football player look. Some like both!
@@blakerobinson5084 😂oh yeah
Sorry but Gabriette is way more attractive than Travis ever was. To start with, she doesn’t run her mouth and talk like she fell on her head as a baby… contrarily to Travis. Plus they seem into each other and like they match… Travis and Taylor seems real PR or like a rebound( from Taylor’s side)
Travis is better looking by far. His blue eyes are beautiful, and broad shoulders, he's a very good looking man
Right?!! All those pictures of Travis also look like they were from years ago. That’s not what he looks like now. He has a major beer belly now. Plus Travis is violent when he gets angry which he does easily and seems like he has CTE which is like the biggest red flag. Gabriette has a very interesting and memorable face. I’m not a fan of the blonde hair she has now. The dark hair makes her look strikingly beautiful
Shallon, when are we (the people who bought the tickets for your meetup) getting our refunds please??
Gabriette is actually stunning! Not all women have to be butterflies and rainbows. Shes a rock chic and better looking than Taylor swift. Why you lying😂
I think this Matty guy is telling the truth. Taylor really seems the kind of person who imagines things and writes her name with his surname in her diary after the first date. Also, him and the girl really are a great fit, just like Taylor and Kelce. Taylor needs to boss around her men, but likes bad guys. In the end, they get tired of the bs,because she seems very plain, boring and self-centered
This video is tempting me to unsubscribe tbh. I hate the word 'nice' and I don't think people shouldn't be honest...but at the same time...the criticism of people who aren't really relevant to the overall message you're trying to convey seems...superfluous. You've gone in so hard on his new fiancé...wtf has she done? Has she even said anything? It's like her mere existence has triggered you? I wish them good luck. She's clearly a better match for him than TS. And I am not a TS hater, at all, I'm seeing her Eras Tour in August. Can't wait!
I actually like Gabbriette but ngl “Are you traditional or the queen of Spencer’s gifts?” has me howling😭😂
What is Spencer's gifts?
@@bluecollarlit a store- it’s kind of like Hot Topic!
@@l0v3existsXOXO thank you
Shallon mocks Gabbriette for being "so alternative yet wants to walk down the aisle saying vows to God and priest" lmao marriage existed long before Christianity was even a thing. Even pagans got married.
Make a video on guys tricking girls to pay 50-50 on dates in terms of equality + they are asking for cheap coffee days. How to set the tone from the start
Setting the tone is stupid AF. Take it from a woman who never had a bad relationship and always is treated as others would want to.
You don't set anything, you watch, you understand the implications and you throw the man away if he doesn't match already, naturally what you want.
@@joannawinters6592 I'm doing that. I'm cutting them off but nowadays everyone seems like that only ..also on setting a tone I mean how to act before dating them. It matters. Human psychology works
@@joannawinters6592 I want to ask you as well what do you think you do different than other girls? In terms of setting boundaries or standards which are your naturally yours ofcourse! But that will others as well because circumstances, or location or anything can make a woman anxious. If we talk about me, I'm pretty but I live in a conservative environment and I can barely go out and because of that I talk to people online and they are all behaving like that so you know where I'm coming from
For real. This is bull. Any man that wants to go 50/50 is addicted to porn, pays for Onlyfans, and exs lol. They cheat and bleed you dry. Do not do it. A man should be financially stable without a womans help.
the tone needs to be set. Married 12 years and he still does no housework. We both work full time and for a few years I made more money and had a more demanding job. He is just always so “tired”. It gets old
VERY unpopular opinion here, but this is why you don’t “play house” or commit to one man for that many years without a marriage license AND a prenup. So that, if he wants to take that many years/money/investment from you and then run away from it, you have some type of protection while he has real consequences for that
Shallon this Video is not you come on... It's giving bitter because you feel like a Taylor that didn't get picked yet
I had an epiphany moment about Taylor, she’s never grown up when it comes to men. She gets obsessive, cringy, whenever she’s dating a guy. That’s how I acted in high school, not as an adult in dating. She never learned to set a bar of “You don’t get x, y, or z from me until I get a, b, and c.” The Tortured Poets Department is like changing your opening song on your MySpace page and writing a cryptic, emo status. The guy you’re writing about either doesn’t care enough about you to see it or thinks you look like an idiot. Same with Travis, she’s giving him everything. Changing the lyrics in her songs when she’s performing, staring at him the whole time. Then I see some headline “Travis says he has no plans on proposing to Taylor.” No shit! He knows he has her! He doesn’t have to put in anymore effort than what he’s already doing. Don’t go to all his games Taylor, keep the lyrics to karma the same, don’t even look at him when he’s there. It’s not a fool proof system, but something I appreciate about dating in the orthodox Jewish system is the boundaries. You don’t touch the person you’re dating until you’re married. You don’t have to go to that extreme, but it teaches you to set your bar of what is and isn’t tolerated. You will not even so much as hug me until you give me that commitment. It’s quite empowering. Taylor needs to start setting some boundaries and let men chase her.
I agree, the fact that she went to all of his games sets an unrealistic bar. Because now Travis feels he has to go to all her shows, and she probably expected him to go to many of them. But he probably doesn't feel like going to a lot of her shows because he's got his own stuff to do. So now they are already fighting over that conflict. What if she kept things more separate, this wouldn't be an issue so early. So she shouldn't have gone to any of his games, or maybe just like you know a couple. So yeah, better to keep it slower.
Yeah definitely, I cannot even listen to the title song of TTPD because it's too cringe as she just basically gives Matty all the power and says 'No one will love you like I do', I mean come on Taylor! I am such a huge fan and it hurts me to see her go through something in her thirties that I went through in my twenties. I finally learned the hard truth at 26 and started to set boundaries and give the bare minimum to guys until they stepped up, or would ghost them if they didn't. Now at 31 I am getting married in September to an amazing guy who definitely stepped up. She can have it all if she just understands how to set boundaries.
@@katiavoznaya2395 Yaaasss girl 👏🏻👏🏻
Gabrielle and Matty are much better suited to each other. Taylor is too much of a good girl for him and runs on a treadmill for 3 hours a day.
He has substance issues.
It’s also known that Matty doesn’t want to deal with the Swifties.
Wishing happiness to them both.
It's the age-old trope of Big choosing Natasha over Carrie; it just got so hard with Carrie and Natasha's easier. But....Carrie was always on his mind/heart.
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I think Carrie was the backup always. He has a type and it's not Carrie, although Carrie explained it away this way to feel better. Because she knew she was inferior.
Carrie was the place holder, never chosen just like a back up. He married her eventually when he was at an age he couldn’t be bothered running after models anymore and might not get them anymore, step up Carrie, that’ll do bc I can convince her what I want is what she wants.
Do you think Big would have worn a mask 😷 during covid
Never heard of this Gabriette person, but she reminds me of Angelina Jolie in the late 90s when she was sporting shoe-polish black hair, overplucked eyebrows, overly pale foundation, tattoos, vials of blood around her neck, black leather pants, and flaunting weird PDA with Billy Bob Thornton.
I don't see the big deal here. It's one thing if he wasted years of her life, but a few months seems normal for someone to get to know if they want to keep seeing each other. Taylor's career is impressive, but she's just a person like everyone else. She's not going to be compatible with or seem like a catch for everyone.
Travis gives me aggressive vibes tbh like even looking at him he's not a golden retriever at all... definitely upgrade from Matty but idk I think this guy is dangerous
Same! He's aggressive and creepy to me
That’s not gonna end well
she used the better pics of him for the video as opposed to the red-faced alcoholic bloat ones lmao. he’s a menace.
Good point. He's a football player...notoriously aggressive and knocked in the head.
Lately Ive been observing him and I think he's genuine. They're a beautiful couple.
You are so bitter, thats sad
Whoa😮..... Bitter much???
His whole post Taylor phase is starting to look like a big knee jerk reaction to her, he's trying way too hard to make it appear as if he's not looking back.
My ex did the exact same thing and then 5 years after he dumped me he had the nerve to have a complete PUBLIC meltdown when I got engaged. When I got married HE PUT OUT A BAR WINDOW WITH A BEER BOTTLE when he saw the picture of me getting married on my sister's Instagram.
He was so busy "living it up post break up" he forgot to deal with the reality of it.
"Matty" looks like he's doing his version of the beer bottle through the bar window by getting engaged
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Me being an avid fan of Shallons for the past 5 years while simultaneously being heavily tattooed with "ear spacers"
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Same girl😅
Shallon i adore you and have followed you forever but i think you were a little harsh on this girl. I think she's absolutely stunning and love her Alt girlie vibe.
Meth chola is hilarious 😂
She’s gorgeous though.
Why would Taylor want to be with him. Says more about her.
Watch his chicken shop date. He has a charm
Shallon I know you’re triggered and come from a different generation but are we looking at the same girl?😭 Gabriette is GORGEOUS. She reminds me of young Angelina Jolie, so unique. She’s iconic and a trendsetter right now, I’m sorry. I don’t see how any of these women would want this tuna sandwich left on the hood of a car on a summer day sort of a man
Shallon, why are you hating on Matty's fiancé? What exactly has she done? And you low-key hate on Matty's mom as well who seems to be a perfectly lovely person. You are entertaining and funny but try to stay on target, please, and leave people who really have nothing to do with the situation alone. Matty is his own person, a full-grown adult. His mother and his fiancé are not responsible for his messy behaviour.
Wow didn't expect the video to go so deep and raw. Thank you Shallon, you are amazing!
Still watching half way through. Just had to say your hair looks so pretty and the whole look is very beautiful 🎀
Thank you so much!!
@@shallonlester You're welcome!! ❤
Perfect video for people who loved and took seriously wrong person. I was weirdly trigerred by this story, even if I don't ussualy care about celebrities, it reminded me my heartbreak. You made me feel better ❤️
Lol everytime i hear the pigeon analogy i laugh because I have a pet pigeon and he is the man of the house. He bullies the cats, theyre actually scared of him, hes the ballsiest MF of a bird ive ever seen. He would probably try attack an eagle if it entered his domain 😂
Maybe she treats him nicer?