Men Who Shoot Their Shot Too Soon; Don’t Call Dionne Warwick ‘Auntie’ in Real Life
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- Опубликовано: 21 янв 2021
- After a breakup or a divorce, it seems as if men are just waiting to shoot their shot as soon as you let it be known you’re single. But is there ever a time when it’s too soon? Plus, the “auntie” debate returns, and this time it’s Dionne Warwick dishing out the rules. We also weigh in on Sephora’s new diversity and inclusion plans.
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It was so awkward growing up because all of my white friend stole because they could get away with it, but when we walked into a store together, I was the one followed. I’ve never stolen in my life lol.
I remember in high school, it was the richest white girls that would brag about stealing things like it was a personality trait lol
They were terrible friends to you. I’m sorry that you had to go through that.
Same all my white homegirls would steal every time we was in Victoria Secret but as soon as I would even touch something they would follow me.
How about not buying their products and take our dollars somewhere else and support our own.
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So many people would love to but the problem is that a lot of black owned businesses actually rely on the big names white stores to promote their products rather than other black OWNED businesses. The problem comes right from the top before getting to the consumers
Here in Hawai’í nei we use “Aunty” and “Uncle” as a term of endearment and respect for our elders. It’s not meant to make you feel old😂😭😂
I remember the first time a teenage addressed me as “Aunty” I was in my late 20s and I knew it wasn’t meant to be offensive bc I was taught to treat elders with the same love and respect.
Same with Africans
Yes, I don't know why Lonnie said it wasn't cultural....it definitely is a cultural thing..and in the black community too...which was naturally passed down from their african roots.....as this is quite common in most african cultures...
Yeah in UK my Thai friend and family we call that too
In African cultures, everyone older than you is auntie also.
Same in arab cultures
Same with the Caribbean
Same in Asian
Hollywood is too damn sensitive. Auntie is not a bad word at all.
@@nkt.11 That’s the way we grow up .calling everyone auntie and uncle.
Calling people “Auntie” or “Uncle” is definitely a cultural thing for a lot of people depending on the age. If I don’t know you and/or you’re older, in my Senegalese culture, it’s respectful to refer to the person as auntie ...
The auntie thing is definitely cultural because I’m African and you can never call anyone older than you by their first name
Stores just need an actual blasted cctv to find out who ACTUALLY stealing instead of being prejudice to people who pay their bills
That’s what I’m saying. We are in 2021. How do these big retailers not all have 4K quality cctv?
Right like target takes a pic of everyone who walks through their door and keeps track of who steals and when you reach a certain threshold that's when they confront you.
Agreed!!
I'm Jamaican and "auntie" and "uncle" is just a sign of respect for a person who is significantly older than you when you are young. Def a cultural thing!
I used to work with kids with special needs where I would go into their homes and help them with basic skills. It was the most incredible thing when the parents would slip up and say to their kids “Auntie Wonton is here!”
This was especially true with my Asian and Indian clients, and since I’m neither one of those races, it really warmed my heart that they would think of me like that
Even Oprah got refused to buy something at a store in Sweden AND Italy, they never assume we got money
Tameri Harding...... 😔 Sad but true
Yep, I remember, soooo sad and very degrading to black ppl!
All these white women or whoever stealing in their MK bags while the manager following Jamal
Tameri Harding....... They are thankful for Jamal,😂😂he keeps them distracted 😂😂while they walk out with the whole shelf. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
That reminds me of that episode of the show smart guy 😂
Loni’s suggestion for statistics to be taken on which stores get the most pilfering is brilliant !🤎👏🏾
I would love if we saw more representation in the beauty industry!
It’s definitely a cultural thing. As an African, EVERYBODY is auntie. When I was learning about aunties uncles and cousins in 3rd grade I was so confused cuz I didn’t understand my actual aunties and uncles were my parents siblings
Really?? That’s so interesting, you didn’t know which were their siblings and which were their friends?
@@tamerilee no, I knew who their siblings were. I just couldn’t grasp the concept that their friends who I call auntie and uncle weren’t actually considered my aunties and uncles
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This is pure facts... growing up and living in Kenya I don't call older people by their name...I either call them auntie or mum if I know them personally or address them with their kids name like mama so and so
@@tamerilee yeah 😂 my mom's friends are aunties and uncles. It's disrespectful in most if not all African cultures to address anyone older than you without a title. So it's Aunty Jane or Sister Ann. There's always a title.
Garcelle hit the nail on the head. Did somebody say black people cant afford to buy nice things?? Cus peep our clothes, shoes, bags, hair, house, car 💰
Exactly! We just gotta learn how to prioritize it better
I feel sorry for those ppl!🙄🙄
Jake W...... Facts 👍🏽👍🏽
Of course we can, but we need to pick one: either black people are just like everyone else or we're overwhelmingly poor and underprivileged people who need extra help and/support....it can't be both! Js.☝🏾
I’m obsessed w Garcelle’s jacket!!!! The whole lewk!! 🤍🤍
I had a classmate who used to work at Macy’s told me that during their new hire training she was told to keep an eye on black and Hispanic shoppers!!
Jeannie you look stunning with this two tone sweater !! These are totally your colors they make your skin tone look glowing !
Just noticed Jeans sweater is 2 shades 🥰 prettyyy
Giving me mad valentines day vibes lol 💗❣️
They don't need to reduce security they just need to stop following me around like we're doing the conga when Karen is on the next isle ACTUALLY stealing🙄🙄
My best guy friend asked me out once I broke up with the guy I was with. I said no and he got so mad. He said he deserved a shot because he was there for me when I was sad.
That’s what I don’t like. Like some men think they are entitled to a chance when they have female friends.
I have been called an "auntie" from relatives since I was little girl. Some of them aren't much younger than me but they still call me aunt out of respect due to family rank.
What about..Maam?? I don't know about you all but I remember the first time someone referred to me as Ma'am and I was like 😟
Adrienne is funny🤣🤣🤣 "here's my shouldaa"
I feel like it’s definitely a cultural thing. Many cultures refer to their elders as “aunt” “uncle” out of respect
Absolutely agree!
That’s how Middle Eastern culture is you call auntie/uncle that’s older
Garcelle was so on point 🙌🏽 the devaluement of our community is so discouraging.
Adrienne is hilarious and doesn't even know 😂😂😂
Yes. Smoochie smoochie.
It’s call “shrinkage”.Theft rates tend to be higher in poorer neighborhoods. Annoying but reality.
To answer Jeanies question about why certain things at certain pharmacies are chained up. If that store has a high report of certain items being stolen. The store sends them a case for that item to help prevent those items from being stolen again.
I’m a Ghanaian and when I go to the mall with my friends here in Ghana, the security personnel’s follow we the citizens who are black around and let the white foreigners walk around freely.... It pisses me off sooooooo much....
Being called Auntie is a cultural thing. I’m from East Africa and now that I’m 26 I’m being called auntie by a lot of kids under 12yrs.... I never ever call someone who is 35+ by their first name, I say auntie -- (unless that women says Don’t call me auntie)
I was in Philly years ago visiting my sister from Washington state and a black girl who worked in the store was following me and my sister around the store and she was not hiding the fact that she was watching us. I really wanted to buy this t-shirt with a girl wearing an afro sometime that I could not find in the northwest but I didn't buy it simply because how she was treating us. I refuse to spend my money at any place that follows me as if I am going to steal something and it made me even madder cause it was a young black girl doing it to me. Black folks need the training also!
Loni is 49, she's actually the same age as my mom and I'm in my mid 20's so she is auntie. Auntie can be anyone 10 years or older than you. Ms Warnick I'd probably call granny.
Do not buy at these stores, your money, your time.
I love Jeanie and Adrianne but.....no one is following you around the store 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I'm Asian and I get followed. Smh
@@Chouayang2012 😮, sorry to hear that.
Maybe what goes around comes back around to you, 🤷♀️🤷🏻♀️because Asians follow black people around their stores. I’ve seen it.
Sorry 😐, just a observation.
Adrianne is most likely telling the truth. I have worked in retail black and brown people would get followed all the time the moment they hit the door. Even Selena pointed this out in biopic how that clerk treated her friend and her purely because they were not white girls shopping in top class store.
@@vtheteaqueen3708 that doesn’t mean they deserve to get that treatment just cuz some Asians do that to black folks....
Yes! WALMART treats all their customers like thieves. Really degrading
I still have Salt n Pepa CD somewhere in my house. I was such a young child and barely understood the meaning of their lyrics but listened to them anyways and tried to sing along lol. My mom doesn't know English well so she didn't know what my sister and I were blasting on speakers haha.
I really like Garcelle. She’s so pretty and poised.
In most African culture east or west we call our elders aunties or uncles I could never call my moms friends or an elder by their first name as a grown man I still hear my mama in my head pressing me to show that reverence
I saw in a store in the US that all the hair products for curly hair were locked up!!!!!! Like really that there is a racist statement
Regarding the Sephora topic and having Black employees and manager as Garcelle and Adrienne suggested, let's make sure that they are Black people who LIKE Black people. Lets be real. There are Blacks who don't like their own color and remain prejudice to their skin color, particularly those who come in a darker hue, hence colorism in the Black community
That is so true
I have a real life aunt who's 1-year younger than me and I refer to her as my "aunt" but I call her by her name. So it's possible to have an aunt who's close to your age.
I love being called auntie even when someone is just a few years younger. It creates boundaries.
The Ladies look beautiful it is annoying going into a store and being labeled are follow because of my color but I agree with loni when that happens I take my business elsewhere !!!!!
The 'aunty' thing is not a black thing. Maybe black American but in the Caribbean we call everyone aunty, black, Indian, family, neighbors, everyone that's significantly older than you. If you're my parents age, you're aunty.
Americans always want to claim something I am from the Caribbean too and we do say that from since I could remember
I fucking love Adrienne!!!! She bring so much life to the convo. She’s funny!!! :) love you A!!!!!!!!
Once some it's older than you in a black home you need to address then with auntie's and uncle and also black people are facing hard times in this country we are always seen as the main suspect in a crime sense and also black brother aids in making life hard for us by getting a black woman pregnant and living them all alone to raise their kids am a single parent and it's really hard for me but thank God lately I got into bitcoin and it's helping me in paying bills
Honestly living in america with a black skin you are always on watch 24 hours . There's this movie don't be a menace to South Central while drinking your juice when Marlon Wayne and his brother entered a store to buy some ice cream the moment the owners of the store saw them the wife of the store owner was just following them around to check if they'll steal not knowing that the white man in the store is stealing everything with a big sack bag
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Black people are not the only people facing hardship in america please
I’ve met 2 year old aunties
Hate that "can I help you??"" (Feeling them following)
Anybody else feel like this is all they talk about? And are over it lol
Omg! Yesss! Been sayin that 😒
@@wendyfan8071 I’m glad they are all about supporting all kinds of people and people of color like me haha but I already feel what each and one of them are about to say when they give out their opinions
@@Liz-qs6gw yes I agree im all for it!!! Support! But with any subject they tend to do that a...lot ike enough! 😄
Now Loni is old enough to be my aunt. I'm only 22.
Sephora’s Statement
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As much as I would like to think these changes are positive I can’t help but feel dumbfounded that in 2020 all of sudden after the BLM movement reigniting over th summer that now companies feel th need to cater back to the black community..l it’s a nice gesture... but it seems top little too late! And noticed how most of the policies actually subconsciously affect the black community and that to me I’m glad was acknowledged in some form... I think companies should take heed to making sure all consumers feel safe , regarded and understood and not misjudged and targeted the moment they come in the store
Will You Accept This Dm?
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I mean getting together for the sake of a show just to end breaking up just to end up that same day and DMing a whole other person and being like “ Wsg Mamas I’m readily available “ idk that just I couldn’t do it... I remember a couple of seasons ago I would say don’t hate the player hate th game... but at this moment I hate both lol
Bike Gate
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When I tell you SO MANY PEOPLE actually got a good laugh cuz the last administrations scandals and stories that hearing Biden’s story although actually very important was very “ boring “ if you will and to hear something so normal compared to Trumps time in office it as just a relief lol
Auntie Etiquette
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Some people don’t like being considered terms cuz it makes them feel older and other just don’t want to be called names like elder or auntie by strangers cuz it’s like idk you so don’t feel comfortable to call me that
Salt N Pepe’s Biopic Preniere
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Loni doing a lot of big things on lifetime from hosting the after show for Little Women to This movie... I’m here for it lol
Thank you like how dumb are you now as a company to now realize that black people matter. 🙄 It’s so disgusting seriously.
@@C2G2 .....,Facts 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
I don't see why us as black people still shop at these kinds of stores. We see how they treat us and these stores have a history of discriminating us and treating us horrible. I don't see why we as a people continue to give them our hard earned money.
We spend more money in these stores that goes towards the wages of these .... that have biases about black people. Great topic ladies. It's an ongoing struggle. Yes, Loni. Policies. #blackowenedbusinesses
Trust me, we will see changes when we stop patronizing these stores.
Tamera could’ve never handled all of these race conversations so directly. So glad Garcelle is here to bring the real real.
Loved the topic 👍 no more F discrimination!
Garcelle looking hot with the long hair 😍😍
I was mistreated Sephora in Canada.
Sadly that doesn't surprise me, Canada is just about as racist as the U.S. Sorry you were mistreated :(
@@EmaMalik As a Canadian, I agree, but the racism in Canada is more covert.
Hey Jeanie! In Caribbean culture, EVERYONE is your Auntie related or not, lol. I have so many “Auntie’s” that I cannot count them, 😂
THERE IS A BEAUTY SUPPLY STORE IN MY COMMUNITY THAT I GO TO ALL THE TIME, I swear by this place it has everything. ONE DAY I went shopping there and I was inside longer than usual and I I noticed I was being followed...I finally went to the register when I looked up and saw the man who was following me there too. The lady behind the register asked if I found everything okay... I said yes I did and I don't appreciate being followed around the store when I was only in here longer than usual trying to get things for my daughter's prom...I could feel the guys embarrassment because he heard me and NOW HE says hello every time he sees me...
Adrian looks amazing with less make up 🤤
Love this fresh face look on A 💖💖
A guy once shot his shot during my brother's wake and admitted he didn't before because nyy brother didn't like him... seriously. If you had a chance before, you lost it... but you didn't
boy i hate going to sephora they always following me 😒 never stole from there in my life
I think 🤔 it’s a start, but I would like to see this in other stores as well. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Adrienne is on fire 🔥 I love it 😻
People spend a boat load on sephora
I work at a Walgreens and we have people who come in and fill trash bags with stuff which is the only reason why we locked everything up
FOR SURE! In the Asian culture calling someone Aunty/uncle is a form of respect for elders.
Love the passion in their voices when speaking on racial inequality and improving society
The locks on make up is because people are stealing and they don’t always have workers in those isles. It is annoying. Maybe they should give workers a job to look over those isles? Cause that makes me just want to go to Ulta
Y’all crack me up 🤣 there’s definitely no guy code, never was one! That’s guys for you.
Loni you are much more bubblier these days 🥰
There is NO GIRL CODE AT ALL! Um SIDECHICKS?! Flirting at work?!ETC...
I have this one memory when I was a child. I was in a CVS and I picked up some candy and was thinking if I wanted it or not so I can give it to my mom to buy. She was at the register. A random old white female said "you know it's cameras all around this store that's watching you" I was like oh wow really because I already knew that but I didn't know at the time why she said that. Until after I got older I realized what was done and it stills bothers me as to why my mother said nothing
Let's just create our own and take our money there...
Aww I’m happy for Loni to have that hosting gig! S&P
Being Asian we do call everyone auntie right on Jeannie 💯 it’s def. a cultural thing.
A - with the shoulder comment 😂
Also, Adrien should know that. She stole a hot oil treatment and they locked up or had reinforcement because of the “young kids coming in there all the time stealing stuff”.
After dating this guy, three of his best friends where shooting their shot. One actually even WHILE we were dating. Honestly, I was questioning them hard like if you that friend not following the brocode, what boyfriend u than? OR who was that guy I was dating that he didn’t get the respect from his friends to have the code followed for?
If somebody's older than me I'll call them my auntie our Uncle
Literally not even surprised that Clare and Dale broke up...hope they are okay.
I have a friend whose now husband was the best friend of her former boyfriend...he said he didnt treat her right...and stepped in and stepped up and wifed her up.
A salt with a deadly pepa was my album back in the day
Where is spinderella though?🤔🤔🤔
They split up...and last I heard she has a lawsuit against Salt n Pepa.
They are never going to change it's been going on right from before you were born as you guys they are laughing and eating popcorn 🍿 you just don't give them power over you and don't you ever feel bad just keep being happy. Please don't expect a change just yet.
Loni said it's hard to be black in America. Please try any of the African countries, where the abuse, war, child trafficking, many more horrendous things going on, but don't go to a hotel and safari, go to the villages with one public sewer and LIVE over there to experience the REAL every day life of black people NOT in America.
Or live in any of the Asian countries -- where you will be OPENLY discriminated against plus more.
This OBVIOUSLY coming from a person that doesn't have any international LIVING experience.
Please listen to Jason Whitlock in contrast to this ignorant show with the people that aren't eligible to discuss politics and only pushing the divisive brainwashing to the individuals that don't have a mind of their own.
Hello ladies!! 💖💖💖💖👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🌹🌹🌹🌹
Everyone (exept Loni) cutting the others off
Exactly...and all the yelling
Beautiful Garcelle 💖
In South Africa out of respect, er have to say aunty or tannie, no matter how old you are. It's out of respect. Or Uncle so and so or Oom, it's the respectful way to speak.
thank you miss Jannie same in my culture is just giving someone respect that we do that,,unless they do not wanna my feel old ,i think is here thing
Until they change we need to stop spending our money with them.
Auntie Garcelle sounds nice 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Lol
It does but no😊 because she said so😄
I guess it is cultural because in African culture you call any older woman or man “aunty” or “uncle” even if it’s your first time meeting them. you don’t call any person 10+ years older by their first name. It’s seen as disrespect.
Only maken it difficult for self bunch up without knowing in a sudden gets difficult to realize it can deal with emotionaly😢😂
The whole auntie/uncle thing comes from Asia/Africa mostly, and it just waved to the west i guess.
I don't understand why it's viewed negative to be called auntie. I was an auntie before I was 1 year old. Whats the issue
The old adage comes to mind
If the head of the river is dirty it will filter down to the bottom
People at the top need to change things
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Anyone a certain number of years olderthan you is aunt you. It's called respect.