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Remembering Kobe & Gianna Bryant One Year Later; Protecting Your Social Media Peace
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- Опубликовано: 25 янв 2021
- It’s been a year since we lost Kobe Bryant, Gianna Bryant, and seven others in a tragic helicopter crash. And while we’re all still mourning the loss, Vanessa Bryant offered a few words of encouragement on navigating grief. Plus, we weigh in on what it looks like to protect your peace while on social media. We also share tips on how to get your Girl Scout cookies even during a pandemic.
What Jeanie said is absolutely true, there is a subculture of men who take out their anger and childhood trauma on women. I have seen it, heard it and experienced it. Women deserve better, and men need to learn to do better by getting help.
i just can’t believe it’s already been a year😭
I know right
@@Erline865 so sad...
I can’t believe it myself!!!
I'm so ready to see them in studio again so they can give Loni hugs when she starts to cry. I miss the love between them
Ohh gosh! Loni's tears just broke my heart as well as Garcelle's story about loosing her mother.....i lost my dad, but I think the reason why I was able to get through it is because I was soooo young, about 9yrs so my mother said....( Rest in peace to all gone souls )
Kobe and gigi's legacy will live on forever!!! 💜💛💜💛💜💛
Gigi would have died from a broken heart if she didn’t go with her father. They are soul mates they needed to go together 💜💛💜
Getting Through Grief
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I honestly cannot believe it’s been a year since that horrific helicopter crash... another stage of grief that people go through is that part of denial where it doesn’t sink in just yet.. Ik for me losing my grandfather back in 2012 it wasn’t a easy time... cuz I knew he was gone but I think once his homegoing service happened and knowing that was the final time I was gonna see him on Earth... but even when it comes to a death I remember two years ago my aunt ( my dads sister ) suddenly passed away and I didn’t see my mom crying but to HEAR that sound of someone you’re close to just sob in a very different way than ur used to... I honestly I had chills and almost couldn’t sleep because what do you do... you lose someone in the blink of an eye and you just freeze and wonder if there’s purpose in this life once that person is gone when they’re not by your side... but you have to find something that keeps you going and for most people their kids or other people in their life that look to them as their light... they keep going for them !!! And it’s hard but I think anyone’s passing can teach you to just hold on to the ones you love and appreciate them no matter where they are !!
Protection from Rejection
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I find it very concerning that when it comes to the idea of what it means to be rejected that the immediate reaction is not to respect the woman’s decision... but to actually be salty enough to harm her to insult her afterwards... well guess what my brother those actions are exactly why you probably didn’t get that chance!!! I’m need some of these dudes to have some decorum and stop thinking doing the most pettiest , smallest things like cat calling and buying a drink will get you in a girls panties or get you a chance to be with her... respect her and yourself enough to approach her differently and see if you get the answer you waiting for ! Til then your ass can stay getting rejected with that wack ass sense of entitlement! PROTECT BLACK WOMEN !!!
I Got A New Attitude
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Listen... I’m not sure if anybody else remembers this but like... I remember back in like 2013 Chloe & Halle were on Radio Disney Contest for up and coming singers and even then I can tell they were gonna be stars not only together but in their own way... and even looking at the way they have blossomed together and now seeing their personalities carry on into their music and their own now personal pages... I can tell for some it may seem like a shocker but I always could tell when they were one they are magical but separately they are powerful entities on their own... and just now seeing the way they handle that on their own and are accepting and loving of each other and themselves !!! It’s just they are such good examples to young women out there who fall to the pressure of feeling like they’re stuck in having to produce a certain image to be noticed or liked !! The transparency is amazing
Deyjah’s POV
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I find it honestly so disheartening that Deyjah feels like she has to censor herself and her platform just for the sake of not getting comments from at this point almost two years ago that her father made in regards to her sexual behaviors or lack thereof... I just think she so far gone from it but at the same time the trauma of not feeling like ur personal space/ business or feelings aren’t acknowledged or taken seriously... it just sucks man ! But I gotta respect her for her decision ! 🙏🏾
Better Late Than Never
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Listen so many people were actually upset about the way Keyshia handled the situation in regards to the VERZUZ !!! I know she actually went live to apologize about some of the things went on... but I think as an artist you have to carry on and just give people s good time no matter what’s going on... which is why I think people think Ashanti won by default... because Ashanti was through the roof and trynna maintain the positive energy and synergy and I think Keyshia was just thrown off by all the difficulties and stuff going forward that she couldn’t fake the funk
Girl Scouts New Methods
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Ok I love S’more flavored girl scout cookies !!! So best believe I’m going online and ordering so I can support and get my fix this year 😩
totally relate to this comment especially the part about denial, I'm still in denial about my grandparents sudden deaths and they happened 10 years ago I know that's probably not normal to still be in the denial stage after such a long time but I don't know I think its maybe a coping mechanism just to pretend it's not real and think they are just away on holiday
Garcelle seems like an amazing mother
My heart breaks for Vanessa and all the families that have lost someone I lost my sister last year and I haven’t really grieved but I really have been trying to be strong and keep going not only for myself but for my family as well🙏🏾🙏🏾
So sorry for your loss. I pray you make time to process your feelings. I’m sure this is a difficult time for you and your family.
Must be so hard to lose the head of your household and your beautiful daughter smh she’s so strong for her surviving daughters
God bless Vanessa and her family.
Also all those who lost a loved one on that day 💛
Love is energy and you can send it wherever you are 💗 peace and healing for the Bryant’s, the other passengers and anyone dealing with loss 🙏🏿
Amen ❤
Men (fathers, uncles, brothers, friends, etc.) please teach the boys and young men in your life that women are not your POSSESSIONS! A woman does not owe you a hello, a date, giving you they number, nothing! It's really sad.
Even though its been a year, I still can't believe he's gone!!!!!!! R.I.P Kobe and GiGi you guys are truly missed. Ade, I'm with you I never watched a versus.
I can relate with Loni on her experience, you all had me crying, ..even though I'm small compared to the big impact that all 4 of you are, on your platform, it was bittersweet crying with you guys and revisiting those feelings! Love you all! 💗
Loni I am loving the head wrap. It’s giving me royalty vibes..yas queen.
I am still grieving been three years loosing my parents. So her healing process I respect grieve my love
I lost my father when I was seven years old it still hurts and I am almost 64 years old especially when I remember the tragedy of my divorce I know if my father had lived no one could have hurt me the way my ex husband did but you take a deep breath and move on thanking God for His unwavering love my heart goes out to her and her family
Loni, those guys probably didn't have a father figure growing up but I agree with you. Teach your sons to control their anger.
Not having a father doesn’t lead to this ...
Love you the real and rest and peace together kobe and gigi love you forgive
I love this look on Adrienne ❤️
This is why some women (including me) wear headphones when I go out and don’t even respond to them bc sometimes no response pleases them and u just gotta keep moving before they act up
Exactly I do that on the bus too and I have to set rules for myself like if I’m still on the streets and it’s night I will not approach or talk to anyone until I reach home 💯.
Unless if the place I’m at is safe and I know it’s safe and here’s street lights and people are around me than if necessary I’ll talk to you to only give you directions if you ask for it and that’s that keep it moving 💯. Oh and if the person doesn’t look creepy to me than I’ll stop to help them.
Rules rules rules Dua lipa wrote a whole song about setting boundaries ok ladies. 😆😊👍🏿
Same here! I act like I am deaf or just mind my business. I put in my headphones and keep it moving. No time for small talk 💯 some men need to learn to leave us alone! I hate when they can't go away or keep bothering you. Sir I am not the one 😒
I do the same thing.
💔💔💔 What a loss for so many families.
Its hard to believe its been a year, I still remember that day. My heart breaks for Vanessa especially when she posted about grief and how she has her days where she can barely hold it together. I am sure so many can relate, I mean you saw Loni how talking about her miscarriage is still painful. You saw it with Garcelle as she spoke about when it hit her that her mother is never coming back. Everyone deals with grief differently.
RIP kobe and gigi
And the other souls lost in that helicopter crash
I’m crying with her it’s so painful
Can't believe it's already been a year. They were so cute and iconic. Vanessa is SUPERWOMAN!!!
I miss my grandma soooo much. She was My mom my dad. My guider and protector ❤️ then boom Covid took her. Grief is soooo hard and being 23 it’s harder. How do I go on 20 + years? With no guidance or my grandma.
My prayer for you.I hope you will find strength and peace .I hope you will always find guidance.
🙏❤️ be fine.
May God comfort and strengthen you 💓💓🙏🏾
@@sue0061 thank you. God is soo good and is the only reason I’m able to pass by!
@@danisacademiccorner4493 ❤️❤️
To the families of the victims of the fatal plane crash, I'm so sorry, I wish I knew what I could do to help you to ease and take away your pain (but I know I can't do that) even after a year my deepest condolences and prayers are with you. may God continue to wrap his arms around you & bless and comfort you with his presence, and just remember your loved ones are never fully gone, they are always with you. Try to Stay Strong and hold on. I know it's not easy, ok I know. I've been there more times than I can count. I know the pain never fully goes away and your heart never fully heals but just know you will see your loved ones again one day where there is no pain, no sorrow, no sadness or tears. To Kobe and Gigi, Mamba y Mambacita para siempre. 💜💛💜💛💜💛
Kobe Bryant gone but never forgotten legends never die R.I.P
My parents passed away 7 months apart from eachother n I still pick up the phone n texting my mom. Until I remember she is gone
I'm sending you all my love and prayers Kathy 💝💝💝
@@Simz199x thank you so much
When my mom passed suddenly July 5, 2021 12:54am, my initial reaction was to cry. The next day on July 6th, I had to "get over it," mask my feelings, without missing a beat, to plan and organize my mother's home going. It was 2 years later 2019, when other life events were happening in my life, I truly had real cry. There were nights I cried myself to sleep. I really miss my biggest fan and biggest cheerleader. And I know she's rooting me in the the great grandstand of heaven!
I hope people would take this time for reflection and meditation leave behind our own emotions we have to deal everyday in our life.kobe was a perfect model of great father and player he was so lovely to his family his teammates and everyone else.it was a tragic moment that hurt everyone .i wish god gave Kobe wife so much courage strength I know what she felt .i hope people would learn to be a better human being and looking each other to see we are all go in the same place.lets be united no matter what's your religion origin income or political aspiration .if we start thinking differently the world would be better and we probably erase so much hate division misery .be safe ladies .peace and be smart.
You look absolutely beautiful Loni ♥️
I'm so glad Garcelle brought up the fact that it was black men who did this to black women. Its honestly so disappointing but sadly not surprising :(
It's actually sad. We screaming black lives matter and protect black women but our men are doing the most damage! It's not fair, no one has to ever go through that. I hope she's ok and he is found and locked away and he will pay for this 💯
It's horrible i hope that women is okay, I know some black men aren't good but black women are abusive towards black men as well.
@@Ap-vb4bc always with the whiney rebuttals. We know that black women have flaws because ALL women have flaws but the COLLECTIVE is far more protective of bm the bm are of black women. Right now the person in the defendant's seat are black men and you can't make your case to the jury by saying "but bw can be mean too 🥺👶🚼🍼😭"
🌹❤️🙏🏿Thank you Vanessa🙏🏿❤️🌹
Toxic masculinity is real. I get nervous whenever I see a group of males somewhere. I try to avoid them. One of my biggest fear is denying a guy my number, a dance at a club, etc and he attacks. Many women have lost their lives for males who can't accept rejection
"So Ashanti was ON TIME?" I see what you did there Adrienne. Doesn't seem like anyone else caught it, but don't worry... I did. :D
*Starts humming song*
Kobe's parents must be hurting as well they lost the son🙏
You discussed the topic I had requested 🙌 thank you!
Grief will not be fade away but you learned to live with it.
compassion is what you feel for other people
Loni looks extra beautiful in this episode!
peace is whatt you find within yourself no where else
I hope the streets deals with them first then they get locked up.
Miss you Mamba 🙏💜💛🐐
Loni, you're right. Love you 💜
Garcelle's hair is giving me life 🔥🔥🔥
It feels like we just heard the news right now
We need to also have a memorial for the people lost to covid
Cicely Tyson passed today (January 28). May her beautiful soul rest in peace.
I am never going to get over the fact that he is not here.
I find you girls so lovely in so many ways all jolly happy good to see but do watch your thoughts no negative thoughts as only result in your misery not bliss
Jeannie: You've never watched a verzuz?
Ade: No, never
Jeannie: *What in the my fiance had a verzuz do you mean?*
It is Verzuz.
@@gaila.9852 You really took the time to correct someone on something so miniscule? 😂 Y'all hilarious
@@gaila.9852 thanks. Changed
@@sen-cher It is a simple comment. You are the person making it a big deal.
@@zanellemutoko4372 Any time. :)
Hey beauties 😍 I love girl chat! Rest in peace Kobe and Gianna 🕊 #Mamba #Mambacita & all the other victims as well. May you be at peace ❤ ladies keep the vids coming, love it 😊
Its been a year already?! I remember when the news first hit! Time needs slow down!! 😫
“Do the twerking like everyone else” 😂
So sad rip
Thats why you should think before do so up up upper resensts.😭😄😞😢😢
The only VS I watched was Badu and Jill Scott, and that’s the only one I need to see 😌
I can't believe that its a yr already
V sad
Still heart broken
I was so sad when I heard this happen to that lady but guys really do have issues sometimes being turned down and the sad thing is even if she accepted the offer he could still think she owes him sex or w.e and could lead to something worse
💜💛💛💜🙏
Adrienne said to hold God's hands as well. No, hold God's hands FIRST above ALL. Seek God first above ALL. Period.
Jeannie looks radiantly beautiful!!
IS THERE AN UDPDATE ON THESE ATTACKERS?
The incident that happened at that Liquor store exemplifies self hate point black period no discussion needed I don’t even want to hear it 😊❤️.
Remember: Rejection is God’s protection.
Why not name the 7 others too??
because they're not the focus of this video
@@a.b.5473 all the lost lives should be the focus. I loved kobe too. But it's only right to name them all
Its already been a year? Feels like yesterday
🙏🏽😇❤
Cant believe uou like that in talk pointing ays ✌️😱🤕✌️
When Adrienne grabbed her cup and said “That’s wack” 😂😂😂
Lol. I noticed that too! But what was she referring to? Verzuz or juggling or singing a hymn lol!
@@cynthiavasquez7980 I think she was talking about the verzuz and the fact that people don’t really sing but sit there
oh my God your son is right
I was just talking about why we haven’t had any Girl Scout cookie in a while
I don't know how his wife does it....im still sad over it and its not even my family & friends....💔
Jeanies looks so much prettier now married -
I loved Stephen Colbert’s interview with Anderson Cooper when Stephen was talking about grief 😌🙏🏿 it touched not only my heart and my soul but it opened my eyes 👀 about grief and I found peace hearing his view on grief please check it out on RUclips I highly recommend it 💯.
Ashanti was late too she didn’t get there until almost 9 and then Keyshia at like 930ish because it initially started at 8
The last time I ate Girl Scout's cookies (thin mints) about 2 years ago, it doesn't taste the same anymore! Is it my tongue/tastebuds or they changed the recipe?
Look at Loni looking like a whole African Queen!
Right I thought I was the only one getting those vibes like what??? Loni dressing up in my culture today😄😄😊😊👍
I am Pisces so perhaps you know what they say about Pisces compassion and empathy
How people gonna want Deja to do the Buss it challenge when they bash everything the girl do? People really need to stop
Heyyyy ladies!! 😄🌹
Yassss
Versus can't compare to "Pass the Mic"
🌍❤😂😭🙌💚👼👼👼God bless Kobe and Gianna and the other 7 people that's was on there God is Good Eva said it first it make to much since we all die once but live forever God good I look at heaven ass a Jarassic World but peaceful everything that died here is definitely gone b there 🌍 but better then ever our creators of everything is there we're in Gods hands then🙌God bless everyone ALL Lives Matters All lives mattered All lives meet again to live forever With our Gods in Heaven as it is on Earth but Jarassic 🌍💔🙌👼👼👼
Sorry and bless there families bless all of us we all need your strength faith courage and wisdom bless us with the mindsets that's everything gone b ok everything happens for a reason serenity prayers we should leave it in Gods hands God never fails us All lives matters 🙌
Jeannie should be wearing blue 😝
This is what Mary Cosby was saying on real housewives. That’s why I agreed with her
Jeannie, I agree with you, but women lash their anger out on men too. Even if it's not as often, it still happens and all of it should stop.
Hi edagdwg talking about people race is not a the problem people are people no matter what race you are hurting any one is wrong pay attention to what you do and say to people respect yourself and others linda j. Peace
so many people are dying around the world .. no one talking about them .... it seems we as human ,, interested in discrimination even when we are preaching against it .... publicity stunt ... they need it .............
I almost forgot about the real...without Tamara is not the same😳
Hi edagdwg sad to be soooooooo mad at this women but I feel his wife didn't really love him she gives her daughter but her not showing any thing about his parents and sisters she has to live in her truth sorry as a real loving child of God linda j. Peace
Adrienne’s lips are looking fuller and fuller 😍
There was a black family that was all shot to death in Indianapolis yesterday.
Wow smh I didn't know this. Can you post a link please
horrible 😞
I live here and didn’t hear this. Wow. Just read about it. Horrible
They are always talking over eachother 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Jeannie, I never saw Verzus either. 😱*GASP* Clips of Jeezy and the other guy due to the prior beef and clips of this one (Ashanti) due to the tardiness controversy--but sitting there watching my favorite and nostalgic artists COMPETE is not my thing. COLLAB somehow maybe-- but not into competition and going back & forth on who was better. Obviously it's a matter of opinion.
I’m a live in case manager and one of the clients I live with is a guy he was always trying to get me to like him and he has a girlfriend and is twice my age. I told him to back off because he is my dads age but he is convinced he is closer to my age and keeps trying. So annoying
Black men beat her not surprised...
Not the 7 other passengers... Also people with loved ones who are also grieving!! That s very insensitive