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r/entitledparents - EM and Son Demand $12K from My Dad
r/TIFU - TIFU by sending tuition to a church
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That father breaks my heart. He did everything he could to provide for his extended family, and they treated him like he was a monster and a beggar for needing assistance during a short span of market collapse. Then he paid back everything and gave some extra and they still had the nerve to march to his doorstep with their hands outstretched. That father has done more for his family than anyone ever had any right to expect, but, like the family in Kafka's The Metamorphosis, they grew to expect him to give them whatever they demanded. Mom is a real one, and thank goodness she was willing to stand up to the awful relatives. I hope that the father has the peace he deserves. He's a good man who truly embodied the spirit of looking out for his family, and it's long past time for him to shut his door to the ungrateful.
Seriously. IDK what this theory is called but it's basically the more people get things for free, the less they appreciate it, respect it or take it for granted. It sucks
My granny used to say that helping ungreatful people is like throwing pearls to pigs or pouring water in a basket.
First story sounds like they spoiled him too much. There's a such thing as too nice. It creates people who think everything should be given to them.
Nah he was 12. He was too damaged by that point from his mom. Her resentment seeped into him and turned to entitlement.
Wife nailed it. People feel entitled. Also the nephew is stupid. Location is everything
@@tedybomber1713In a way I suppose. But his _continued_ contact and constant enabling by his mother, is what rotted him. But that _awful_ dynamic of her clearly resenting him, and him desperately seeking her approval, rots people who are totally raised in poverty _just_ as thoroughly.
Of course a 12 yo will absorb the trauma of their upbringing… But I used to work in a rehabilitation facility for teens and young adults, many of whom had survived even more toxic childhoods, but were able to recover. Several of whom I follow on Facebook to this day (almost a decade later) and have accomplished SO much more than we generally let ourselves even hope for while we work with them. Not because we felt it wasn’t possible, but simply because it hurt so much already, to see if someone who was doing so well, fell back into drugs or crime. Or even died, or disappeared all together, as a result of what they were going through. If anything. From my anecdotal experience, the families that had more overall wealth, DID typically end up with better long term results for the kids that ended up at our facility. It just mainly depended on the love and support for them on the outside.
But while I would say that _statistically,_ a 12 yo who’s lived through such crap, DEFINITELY has a harder time? It’s not true that they are a lost cause, simply because of what they’ve been through. For most younger age groups, with a proper amount of love and support, them growing into rotted adults is by NO means a given. Thankfully so 😊
Hopefully this doesn’t come off as an over correction. I just knew so many kids at that age that had already internalized this idea that they were already ‘too broken to be worth anything.’ It was so awful to know the pain they felt from that idea, especially after seeing so many times for myself, that it wasn’t even true. 🤍
@@delilahevil5089 Just so you’re aware, the term “location is everything” is a slogan that was used by realtors, property investors, and bankers, to *racially* profile and divide up cities, jurisdictions, and neighborhoods, during later racial segregation eras. They became not able to _legally_ say “This is a white neighborhood, and you’re black, so we won’t be loaning to you.” Or “This neighborhood has a lot of black and brown folks, so as a white family, you shouldn’t live here.” Ergo, this slogan and several like it were created. (ie “location location location” etc)
I doubt that’s how you meant it lol. Just figured you might want to know!
Op is definitely sounds Nigerian. Sadly it’s so typical seeing this back home.
Yep! Sounds like Nigeria.
oh yeah once they brought out the igbo i knew immediately
Very typical it happens even in South Africa
Exactly. One they mentioned training them through school or starting a business, everything led me to them being Igbo tribe in Nigeria
We pray for people like his Dad and to know his own family couldn’t even see his genuineness is sickening ❤ goes out to him for caring the pain he never caused
I’m Southern African, I have an uncle who is like OP’s Dad and the entitlement some family members have for his money is mind boggling.
The dad was kind but not wise, and that put his own family under threat. If those entitled cousins could have taken the money, they would have. Screw OP and his siblings. Shoutout to the mom who said “if you want to start talking debts you better be sure you have as good of an account as mine”.
The mom was right he did too much for them they felt they didn’t have to do shit for themselves
The first story, the person is Definitely a Nigerian (West African). The fact that he said "Tufiakwa" means that he's Igbo. Shout out to my Igbo brother right there ✊🏼✊🏼
Omg I figured before even getting to that part. Just from the part about taking your extended family through school and the bags of rice. Sounded awfully familiar.
@@tembybeeHaha, yeah. I figured out too, but I just wanted to be very sure
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PLEASE PUT TIMESTAMPS FOR YOUR STORIES IN YOUR VIDEOS THANKS AGAIN :)
The entitled mother and son story made my blood boil.
Story 1 is the reason a lot of wealthy people don't go out of their way to help family/friends out because a few bad people take advantage and ruin it for other's. I know without a doubt if I had money my family would turn into monster's.
My ACT’s I got a 35. In my area we didn’t do SAT’s, which I think are harder. But my cousin, the brainiac, got an almost perfect score on the SAT and became a physicist.
We stopped doing SATs after middle school where I'm from. On my ACT I got a 22, but I was on a homebound plan due to my health. I was told I was coming in to fill out some paperwork, and I suddenly hear on the intercom "Seniors report to your advisory class for ACT testing". I had 4 hours of sleep, no breakfast, no study time. Most of my classmates scored lower, but if we had the money I still would've wanted to retake it. 35 is the highest you can get, so to get a 35 means you're most definitely a smartie.
He also took risks allowing the entitled son moving in becuase if he did commit the murder then he could murder someone in his family
I love John and Riley getting confused by six kids over 20 years.....my dad is the oldest of 10 and is 3 weeks short of being 20 years older than the youngest.
And I'm the oldest of three - my sister is 3 years younger than me, but my brother is almost 18 years younger......
I just see it as normal! Ha ha ha
Lol same! In my family my siblings and I are 43 40 36 35 33 23 21 lol my mom literally had minor children in her home for 40solid years
Same-I am the oldest of 9 (Im the reason my parents got married😂), and they had my youngest brother when I was 23 (he’s 36 now)-just regular, no worries….😂
I never send a payment to the wrong person but i have sent a online purchase to the wrong house
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What I learned at church is tithe is 10% of your earnings and a personal choice which goes to some kind of godly service, which can be to the church or to charity or other service to others.
Wait wait wait... You're gf is SUDANESE?! I've been lusting after you for the longest and you like us chocolate girls?! Love it 🥰
I was also in shock in the best way.
Hell no that's exactly what they want. This is exactly what entitled people do.
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 the mom is my hero what a lady 👏
I like to think Riley's mis-sent money was a huge blessing for the person whose account it ended up in. Like he put food on someone's table and kept a roof over their head that month. Probably got some good Karma by not pursuing getting it back
I feel so bad for the dad he did all this for his family and not even a thank you from the family
First story: I can relate to this so much! I know an entitled lady like this aunt. They think they deserve everything even after being super rude to everyone all the time.
I meant to pay my friend back but accidentally sent it to my partner 😅 we have combined finances, so it was whatever, but transfer fees were paid 🤦♀️
I think you guys are thinking in USD. OP had said the properties both sold in the low 6 figures. I think the dad is probably at like under 5 million. But I think it would translate to like $10-15 mill
Yaaay perfect timing guys! 🎉🫶🏻♥️😊
SATs and acts r two different types of testing. Most colleges will take either one but not all do.
It’s insane to me how people can be so entitled and rude when literally I would cry over $4000 dollars and give every bit of gratitude and respect for that. I just could not imagine having such ungrateful family members.
19:00. Wow. Nope, I'd be so done. He could rent a truck, pack up, and leave right now or his stuff can be thrown onto the street. Either way he wouldn't spending another night in my house. He can go live with his mom for all I care and I'd never speak to either ever again. What an ungrateful leeches.
First story is saddly common in west african countries. Youll take care of a person your whole life and they treat you back as an enemie
Guys please get Riley a sturdier production desk the camera jiggles every time he moves. No judgment😂
31:33 no entitled son’s mom that’s talking right now is not the wife’s sister. It is the dad‘s cousin who he always treated like a sister.
Drowning pools great
First story: I have a kind hearted husband who will help anyone who asks, and I have had to basically gatekeep him to keep him from being run ragged.
Secons story: I did the reverse - I accidentally sent my tithe to my choir. It was easily sorted though - we pay a fee to the choir every semester to cover costs, and it was coming up shortly and the treasurer just marked me as "paid." The church just got their tithe a tiny bit late 😀
37:45 not only that, would the entitled dude have a working business if it weren’t for the uncle?
I love watching you all every day
Narcissism .... so sad. Yes, fabulous parents
Op’s cousins mom definitely had her hooks too deep in him when by the time they picked him up. I’m sure he exhibited some signs that the rest didn’t pick up on but ops mom def did.
Anyone who demands 29,000 dollars from me should I ever be so lucky to have that level of stacks I’d say okay and pay them exactly $1 a day so in about 80 years they’ll have the amount in full provided they hold onto their daily allotment
I agree with Big Protine. Angry moms are scary af
I was wondering where y'all were!
When I was in school we had both of those tests and they were worth 100 points and you needed to take them to graduate. But I lucked out because of COVID. So they couldn't hold them.
The country is Nigeria and it’s insane if you’re given 12k(18 million naira) for business and he’s acting entitled🤦🏽♀️
No boys the SAT and the ACT are 2 completely different tests.
Ummm no, you should not give them the money. Because what's going to stop them from coming back and harassing you for more knowing that the first time they asked for money you gave it to them just to shut them up? They know that it was easy the first time, so why wouldn't they come back and demand more money? Even if you tell them this is it do not ask for more go away and leave me alone and stop bugging me That's not going to stop them.*before watching whole story*
My dad's oldest sister is 32 yrs older than him. It wasn't unusual for people to have large families or for women to have both early and late children in their lifetime.
Plot twist he's using all of them to build multiple businesses that he could never do by himself and they're just unwittingly really employees who think they own the business but everything is probably in his name
I got a 32
The sat and act are 2 different test
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Day 3 of requesting they bring back "Spill that tea"
It dosent really make a lot of sense but maybe if they have a different catch phrase
Nah bra
@@tacooflove6175yes brah
@@angelfierro2951why? They listen to drama stories on reddit. Spilling tea is talking about drama. That's what they're doing
@@angelfierro2951right- spill that tea wasn’t on brand. It didn’t sit right
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Oooo first?!!?? Am I actually first? Lmao.. hi ❤️
I love Riley but his whole demeanor in the last story... really rubbed me the wrong way.
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Sam I see you have hairy arms do you have a hairy chest also???
😅 I just woke up and read hairy nips 😅
Woahh talk about an intrusive question 🫥
Still stuck on the Sudanese girlfriend 🎉
Really upsetting to hear you guys bring politics into your podcast... making that snide remark about how Trump pays people off in the beginning was very distasteful.
I also don't like that they make fun of conservatives too but not liberals. If they do it again I'm unfollowing.
@@BarelySleeping oh definitely, I'm already considering unfollowing
Trump has been caught paying people off. What's political about a true comment?
I'm a little confused about how stating something that has been proven is true political.
@@chubs191 so should we mention how Biden is selling us to China. Or money laundering tax payer money to Ukraine. Or how the bill he signed incarcerated thousands of black Americans. Or how he openly sniffs children and clearly has dementia. I mean what does this have to do with people telling their personal life events. Politics has nothing to do with this channel. Nobody followed this channel because of their one side political views. People follow to hear funny or unfortunate stories.