My heart breaks for OP in the first story! She is surrounded by horrible people. She deserves all the happiness in the world! I hope karma gets the sister, ex and the rest of the family supporting them.
Love you guys!! Can I please request time stamps! I listen while I work and sometimes need to restart a story if I’m not paying enough attention! It would be awesome to know where that is quickly !! Just a selfish request , thanks for posting daily 👏💕
My cousin stole my first boyfriend and everyone told me I was dramatic and for the sake of the family I should forgive her. The betrayal literally cuts so deep. Op should get therapy because without it she might spiral. Her situation is way worse than mine was and I can’t even describe how I felt. In the end, she is now married to a guy that laughs at his own jokes and lights his farts on fire so.. blessing in disguise for me I guess. But I still get mad thinking about it. Op deserves so much better
I feel you...! 😣 Your situation sounds way worse than mine... Hope you're way better nowadays. A friend of mine dated my ex one week after I broke up with him. After I told her he beat me, and showed her the bruises of where he grabbed me before throwing me to the ground. She was shocked. And still dated him days after I left him. They were together for 4 years, and he beat her and called her names, way worse than he did to me. She saw what he did to me and still wanted that. She felt sorry for him after she broke up with him... Ugh
@PrismCasillica And people shouldn't tell you how to feel. If you wanna forgive then fine. But why should you be always the bigger person and mercifully forgive assholes ?
For the story 1 : ngl I wish there's a follow up where the ex-husband discover that the sister faked her personality to seduce him or smt cause she seems to have IT against OP, and that OP moves on by then and is not even phased by the news. I hate when cheaters (even emotional) gets an happy ending, because they don't need/have to face the consequences of the actions of hurting their spouse.
You know the song called "Freewill" by Rush? Listen to the line "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice"...and that's what the first OP's father did. Not only does she need to cut the ex, the sister and the mother out, she should cut him out, too. My heart breaks for her, holy shit.
In the first story, the guy married op to settle down, not because he was in love, at least that's how he comes out after confessing. Also, I personally would have made their life hell on earth for the betrayal
As soon as they were reading that part... The caressing the hand and grabbing fingers part... My heart broke for OP. That is so intimate and so tender. It was obvious to me that he was in love, or at least infatuated with the sister. Way worse than if they had a makeup session or had sex. Way more emotional.
Not standing up for yourself is just enabling the bully. When the bully hits you and you hit back, the bully generally stops hitting you to pick an easier target, cause bullies are cowards
Though I agree with your point.. I also disagree. It just depends on the circumstances honestly. People are usually a bully because of their own insecurities and their own pain. Sometimes killing them with kindness cuts them deeper than you giving them exactly what they want. If you cut them down to pieces, sometimes they want that because then they can claim victim. Especially if they are a narcissist. Sometimes bullies are hurting other people because they feel like negative attention is better than no attention at all. Killing them with kindness in a situation like that could actually save them. It could change their entire life. So where I can see your point… I also think it’s not a black or white kind of answer to the problem.
Story 2 - saying it's wrong to clap back at people is wild. Should people just lay down and take verbal abuse? If you're going to dish it out, you better be prepared to take it.
My and my siblings group chat is called “winning swimmers” and also my sisters and I all have different types so luckily we’d never have to worry about that, but that first story ripped my heart out 😭😭 OP deserves someone who doesn’t even think about looking in someone else’s direction…..never settle kids it causes resentment and sadness in most cases, you deserve the world and should be the world for someone❤️
I WILL ALWAYS CLAP BACK TO A PERSON THAT I DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT OR IS OVERALL TOXIC IN MY PRESENCE. PPL will treat you how you let them...sometimes their own medicine does the job! Now if it's a relationship I care about, I will proceed differently and set those boundaries respectfully.
First story. Same exact thing happened to me, with my now ex-fiance of 9yrs and 3 kids, and my sister. I would be lying if I said she didn't break my heart. Men can come and go, but your family, especially your sibling, should be forever.
I think the sister in first story is the "golden child." She is used to getting everything she ever wanted and her mother will always back her up no matter what. She is feeling entitled to what her sister has.
our family group chat is called "East Tennessee Weather." lol. my daughter in law changed it to that because we all drive her nuts during severe weather. if there are tornadoes or bad storms, the messages scroll constantly. we're making sure everyone is safe and everyone knows how strong the next storm is going to be. plus we're all weather geeks. i have no idea why, we just are (except for my DIL lol)
I think the sister is used to being the favorite and thinks she's "better" than her sister. She feels like she deserves to take everything from her. She is completely heartless and selfish at her core. That relationship long-term is gonna be a mess for the both of them.
I love how cheaters will never nurture the relationship with their partner and then complain that the love is gone and that’s why they cheated. The love is gone because YOU stopped being an active part in the relationship, it’s YOUR fault
I used to take care of the owners/founders of in and out at the nursing home I used to work at. They were the cutest couple and so sweet and genuine people! I think of them often! ❤
My older brother married a horrible excuse of a human being. She did a lot of mean things but to list a few, she would talk about having him killed for his life insurance and then dating a cute guy at work and then laugh it off as a joke. She kicked both of our cats and kept telling me she would get me a puppy if I let her take my cat and drop my precious baby out on the streets somewhere. She went through our mail and I caught her and my brother on my birthday looking at my disability check mom was getting. They talked to me about moving in with them in their house that looks frighteningly like the basement would collapse any day. I remember she would talk about having sex with my brother and one time said everyone in Oregon was bad in bed. I had had enough so I just said "You would know." Three words and she shut up about it. This other time she threatened to bite me so I told her to do it so I can have her pet down. She critised my mom's cooking but then asked me the recipe for something so I told her to add Powdered Root of Asphodel to an Infusion of Wormwood, which in Harry Potter makes The Draught Of Living Death. So, yeah, I am not opposed to clapping back sometimes. This all pretty much happened when I was a teen and the two of them are no longer in our lives. Edit: I am 30 now and my cats are still affected. My female black cat is unfriendly towards visitors and the male tuxedo will hide until the visitor is long gone.
I love all you guys BUT Big Protein's energy is so chaotic in this episode i love it ❤ Riley made me laugh so much this episode espeically in the second story 😂 love you all
My brother courted a few gals when i lived with him who specifically said living with his sister was a green flag 😂 my ocd stepped up his bachelor pad in my year long stay lol
If one of my sons did that to the other 😡 (the sister stole the husband story) i would not support the relationship makes me so angry and my heart is literally broken for op i had something similar happen to me my first love ended up with my best friend (who told me she spent months trying to get him coz she cant find her own damn boyfriends i was the 2nd friend she had done it to) i cant imagine your sibling doing it that must be so much more painful 💔
So what happened between the parents for the dad to white flag it and mother to agree with the sister 🤔 the moral line was erased somewhere. Just a thought
SHAME on the mother in the first story. S H A M E. cheating to me, is NEVER ever ok even. No family member is sage from my wrath if cheating is involved. I am actually disgusted by the family. Shame on the father too. If he loved OP in any way, he would take her side. I’m so furious. This would be a villain origin story for me and this is a villain I would ONE HUNDRED percent back up. Wow that was a lot. Sorry bout that
I know I don’t have a perfect relationship with my only sister but she would never ever try to steal my partner. I just can’t imagine the pain that op is feeling. Not just from the cheating husband but her own family!! I hope her dad does wake up and realize what her other daughter did.
I have not mentioned it yet, but I like the non fake back ground as red flags actually look red. Plus I like the castle and the colouring of the background due to the lighting. 😍
When John said “all my cousins are 40” 😂😂 I felt that. My gma somehow conceived my dad at age 45 so my cousins are literally grandparents haha I grew up thinking 1st cousins were aunts and uncles and their kids were my cousins
My ex friend was engaged and cheated with the guy I was starting to date. Not mad about it because she’s a single mom now. I’m more mad at the other stuff she stole in the process because she took 2 of my pets when she moved out.
Ex- Husband is trash, sister is trash. Someone who would do something so underhanded...to purposely hurt their sibling. You need to cut ties with that person, for your mental health. You can be cordial when other fam is around bu nah. I would not call that person sister. Because no sibling of mine would do hat to me
In high school, I was seeing this guy. I really and I mean really like him. He was an absolute dream to me. We liked all the same things and got each other into stuff we never would have realized we'd like. We were so sweet on each other. We'd go on walks to this playground and just talk and have fun. It was so pure and simple. I really fell for him. One day, at that playground, he told me he liked me. I'd never actually thought I could end up in a relationship, being young and dumb, let alone with him. It was everything I could have hoped for. But then, he told me he was in love with someone else. I'd never felt so betrayed in my life. Then he told me it was a friend of mine, which made it hurt so much more. She had even told me she didn't like him like that. She wasn't lying, they didnt end up dating. At least not until we graduated. Which I thank her for, it would have hurt even worse if they had dated and I could see them together. I've never felt that away with anyone since. I haven't gotten over the feeling of not being good enough. How could I when we were everything I ever wanted, but I wasn't enough. I don't like him that way anymore, I don't even talk with him. It just broke me.
I wish I could find the thread of levels of talking / conversation/ talking shit/ gossiping / giving the t was to a complete stranger and more like a trauma dump for low key advice I feel
My heart goes out to OP from story 1... that poor lady :( Punishment I would do: 1. Changing the will to favor OP for all the years she's not getting back 2. If the sister comes to events, the ex-husband isn't allowed back the family.
Do you think that if the cheater sister knew or had an idea that if she pursues her sister's spouse and knew the family wouldn't hold her accountable, it would make her (and maybe him too) more comfortable in her fucked up mind that it's OK and to continue? Like she has no remorse because she has no examples from the authority figures in her life that this is wrong, and if she did, would this have ended in a different outcome? Or are people like this just rotten to the core 😅
Story 1: knowing that op's soon to be ex-husband has been cheating on her for months, i can say with 95% certainty that he will cheat again sometime in the future (maybe not weeks but months or years down the line)
My sister's ex husband is a cheating piece of garbage. He made moves on me multiple times but because of the relationship I had with my sister at the time, I never told her because I didn't think she would believe me and I was living with them at the time. It got so bad that I started sleeping with my bedroom door locked because I found a drawing that he's done, he's an artist, that looked like a nude picture of me sleeping. I moved out as soon as I could. Their relationship didn't last because she caught him talking to 14 other women. So thankfully they divorced. When I finally told her years later, she was very angry that I never told her and that I thought she wouldn't believe me. But even through all of this, I never once accepted his advances or reciprocated in any way. My sister comes first. Always.
7 habits of highly effective people, great read! My favorite is “who stole my cheese?” “PREMARITAL HANDHOLDING?!?!” - Rylie Reynolds ❤😂❤ SAAM! Saying someone so flat is NOT the same as a gerbiling story… 😬
My friend's BF pulled a similar trick. She made him do all the work and the two lovebirds rode off into the sunset. But in due time my friend quietly revealed his history of drinking and his DWI's, something he had gone to great lengths to hide, and which took a toll on his reputation and employability. TOUCHE, mon amie.
21:57 how does your husband and sister get together (they are miserable, horrible people) and then mom is favoring the horrible sister?! How does that happen?!
OP should toss a match, say right well since this happened its only fair father you know mother took her side because of that affair she had a few years back she asked us to hide. Even if it didnt happen. IT might spark OPs father to question why he is ok with it.
Riley failed to pull out the "no sex" sign again. He needs a new GF. The worst part about the sister stealing OPs husband is the entire family suffers. How could they ever see the family together again. Now the family either has to choose sides and exclude someone or try to stay neutral and try to keep both separate. Everyone loses.
First story: there is no way that OP should ever forgive her witch sister and her ex. OP's sister is a vile, vile person, and apparently, so is OP's mother. OP needs to go no contact with her family. There's a zero percent chance that I'd be going to spend any holidays with my family in case they would be there.
As Johnny Depp said; if you are in a relationship and fall in love with another person, leave the first one. If it were meant to be, you wouldn't have fallen for the second person. Husband should've left her before anything happened.
My God how could that mother treat one of her daughter s like that. I adore both my girls equally. Hell my oldest adores her sister and wouldn't ever do anything to hurt her. Hell my oldest would more likely then not hurt someone very badly if the hurt her sister. She threatened to walk off a guys junk just for hitting on my youngest
I love how the cheater never has any kind of relationship with their partner and a closeness wise and they’re like oh I’m so close with them. I can’t talk to you. It’s like what the f is wrong with people.
@@GuineaParents I am also a headphone user, to me I just have the volume at a good setting, and spilling tea is just telling people gossip or something interesting, you can't really use it wrong
@@GuineaParents i guess we can agree to disagree I suppose, but to me it is just a cool catchphrase, kind of like any idiomatic sentence out there, they really aren't meant to be taken literally, and in essence are purely figurative. Still, if that's how you feel that is fine. I would like to see it brought back though.
24:24 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Is OP not their daughter as well? You don't need to disown the other daughter but the mom approves of it and the dad is neutral, letting the behavior slide. Not even a ban from Christmas, since they're such wussies, a simple conversation with OP's sister just showing basic human empathy and parenting skills, like a: "what you did was wrong" conversation. that's it. obviously, most of us wouldn't let that much slide but if I were in OP's situation, I wouldn't even feel as though my parents saw me as a human being, much less their daughter. And OP's sister is truly evil. Acting smug after doing all that and parading it around social media, no wonder she has the audacity to do that- no one has ever told her no in her life. Not to mention, it seems like the sister might've just had an inferiority/superiority complex about OP and that's why she chose to do this because, at least from OP's retelling of the events, it doesn't seem like OP ever *did* anything to make this sister react like this. She was even being helpful by using connections (her husband) to get the sister a job when she was in a rut. Also, the ex-husband is just as bad. I'm not going to say that dating a former partner's sibling is inherently bad or off limits but having an affair with your wife's sister, hiding it from her, then not protecting her from the subsequent fallout of your affair partner's gloating is objectively shitty. Like the few situations where it would be ok to date an EX's (not current partner. your EX. EXX) sibling is 1) your partner is dead and you found love through the grieving process or 2) you met separately after a split, then find out they're siblings later. 3) knowingly dating an ex's sibling would be ok after a period of time... like I'm talking *years*. even then that's really iffy. "falling in love" while you're still together or even right after will always be shitty. The husband was just quiet, he is not neutral at all in this situation. the right thing to do would've been to divorce OP first and even then OP would've had all the right in the world to resent her sister & ex, still.
The hand thing would have confirmed it for me. Idc what he says. I do the same thing with my boyfriend when I leave a room and he is near the exit and vice versa. Glad she got confirmation but I would have confronted as soon as I saw that Also the dad is the mom's flying monkey and the mother is to her sister
So for the first story, The Mom is choosing her favorite child and the Dad basically took his golden child side by neutrality. Tbh, since cheating leads to more cheating I'm giving the sister's relationship a short life span. I do hope that OP is in therapy and she starts to move on. I hope that her story closes as is that the sister isn't going to do something crazy now she "won",but can't rub it in OP's face.
Disagree with their take that the father doesn't have to cut his daughter out in story 1. OP didn't do anything wrong, your other daughter did. Something should be done to done to dhow that it's not okay. If it were me, I would be full no contact with the daughter until OP has decided to she is willing to accept an apology and move on
In the last story I think the husband overreacted because he was accepting of the situation however, the wife said she needed a brake and was looking forward to going out. Then the sister had a brake. And looking forward to being with his wife who needed the time at the last moment stays. He snapped. Throwing the roses down and saying what he said ...not ok, but the wife needs to help the sister cope and use skills to get through not just stop her life. They could have amended the plans and still do something together. The wife didnt make any effort to do so or to have the sister be accountable for her own decisions. That to me part of the healing process. Tough spot, but honestly they all a bit jerks in this story.
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If your husband would even consider cheating, especially with your sister... He's trash. You deserve better.
Bagging a cheater is not a flex- Charlotte Dobre
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All hail the potato queen! 😂
My heart breaks for OP in the first story! She is surrounded by horrible people. She deserves all the happiness in the world! I hope karma gets the sister, ex and the rest of the family supporting them.
Love you guys!! Can I please request time stamps! I listen while I work and sometimes need to restart a story if I’m not paying enough attention! It would be awesome to know where that is quickly !! Just a selfish request , thanks for posting daily 👏💕
I agreee!! 🎉
I'll third that request
Yes please 🙏
Yes same!
Yes please!!
My cousin stole my first boyfriend and everyone told me I was dramatic and for the sake of the family I should forgive her. The betrayal literally cuts so deep. Op should get therapy because without it she might spiral. Her situation is way worse than mine was and I can’t even describe how I felt. In the end, she is now married to a guy that laughs at his own jokes and lights his farts on fire so.. blessing in disguise for me I guess. But I still get mad thinking about it. Op deserves so much better
I feel you...! 😣 Your situation sounds way worse than mine...
Hope you're way better nowadays.
A friend of mine dated my ex one week after I broke up with him. After I told her he beat me, and showed her the bruises of where he grabbed me before throwing me to the ground. She was shocked. And still dated him days after I left him. They were together for 4 years, and he beat her and called her names, way worse than he did to me. She saw what he did to me and still wanted that. She felt sorry for him after she broke up with him... Ugh
When the rest of the family betrays you is what hurts the most. I'll never get over the betrayal nor forget it.
@PrismCasillica And people shouldn't tell you how to feel. If you wanna forgive then fine. But why should you be always the bigger person and mercifully forgive assholes ?
For the story 1 : ngl I wish there's a follow up where the ex-husband discover that the sister faked her personality to seduce him or smt cause she seems to have IT against OP, and that OP moves on by then and is not even phased by the news. I hate when cheaters (even emotional) gets an happy ending, because they don't need/have to face the consequences of the actions of hurting their spouse.
I bet you her sister started off calling him her "work husband"
You know the song called "Freewill" by Rush? Listen to the line "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice"...and that's what the first OP's father did. Not only does she need to cut the ex, the sister and the mother out, she should cut him out, too. My heart breaks for her, holy shit.
23:01 “It's hard to win an argument with a smart person, but it's damn near impossible to win an argument with a stupid person.” - Bill Murray
In the first story, the guy married op to settle down, not because he was in love, at least that's how he comes out after confessing. Also, I personally would have made their life hell on earth for the betrayal
Yup I agree. A lot of men do that.
"It was just a high five" 😅😂.. . the whole story is a big red flag...
As soon as they were reading that part... The caressing the hand and grabbing fingers part... My heart broke for OP. That is so intimate and so tender. It was obvious to me that he was in love, or at least infatuated with the sister. Way worse than if they had a makeup session or had sex. Way more emotional.
Not standing up for yourself is just enabling the bully. When the bully hits you and you hit back, the bully generally stops hitting you to pick an easier target, cause bullies are cowards
Though I agree with your point.. I also disagree. It just depends on the circumstances honestly. People are usually a bully because of their own insecurities and their own pain. Sometimes killing them with kindness cuts them deeper than you giving them exactly what they want. If you cut them down to pieces, sometimes they want that because then they can claim victim. Especially if they are a narcissist. Sometimes bullies are hurting other people because they feel like negative attention is better than no attention at all. Killing them with kindness in a situation like that could actually save them. It could change their entire life. So where I can see your point… I also think it’s not a black or white kind of answer to the problem.
Story 2 - saying it's wrong to clap back at people is wild. Should people just lay down and take verbal abuse? If you're going to dish it out, you better be prepared to take it.
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Amen! Totally agree!
My and my siblings group chat is called “winning swimmers” and also my sisters and I all have different types so luckily we’d never have to worry about that, but that first story ripped my heart out 😭😭 OP deserves someone who doesn’t even think about looking in someone else’s direction…..never settle kids it causes resentment and sadness in most cases, you deserve the world and should be the world for someone❤️
I WILL ALWAYS CLAP BACK TO A PERSON THAT I DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT OR IS OVERALL TOXIC IN MY PRESENCE. PPL will treat you how you let them...sometimes their own medicine does the job! Now if it's a relationship I care about, I will proceed differently and set those boundaries respectfully.
First story. Same exact thing happened to me, with my now ex-fiance of 9yrs and 3 kids, and my sister. I would be lying if I said she didn't break my heart. Men can come and go, but your family, especially your sibling, should be forever.
OMG, I’m so sorry. I feel sick to my stomach hearing these stories. I pray for Karma!
Riley talking about Tiffany was so adorable lol.
I think the sister in first story is the "golden child." She is used to getting everything she ever wanted and her mother will always back her up no matter what. She is feeling entitled to what her sister has.
Finally! I've been waiting for the last 2 hours.. I need to sort my room & pack for going away tomorrow. This is the motivation I needed 🎉
1st story honestly brought me to tears 😢
our family group chat is called "East Tennessee Weather." lol. my daughter in law changed it to that because we all drive her nuts during severe weather. if there are tornadoes or bad storms, the messages scroll constantly. we're making sure everyone is safe and everyone knows how strong the next storm is going to be. plus we're all weather geeks. i have no idea why, we just are (except for my DIL lol)
I think the sister is used to being the favorite and thinks she's "better" than her sister. She feels like she deserves to take everything from her. She is completely heartless and selfish at her core. That relationship long-term is gonna be a mess for the both of them.
Premarital hand holding 😂😂😂
I love how cheaters will never nurture the relationship with their partner and then complain that the love is gone and that’s why they cheated. The love is gone because YOU stopped being an active part in the relationship, it’s YOUR fault
The gasp at the smirk 😂
Sammy happy birthday hope you're getting the support you need during this time of heartbreak. Sending love from this member of the okOp fam
I used to take care of the owners/founders of in and out at the nursing home I used to work at. They were the cutest couple and so sweet and genuine people! I think of them often! ❤
“She got fake tiits bro,she a fake person!” Made me laugh so much😂 Riley’s tone & face expression was perfect. Make it a Short please! 33:44
Story 1: OP deserves better, glad she c_t ties with those PO§ and I hope she gets better. This story was just wow.
It’s not a clap back, it’s standing up for yourself! Don’t let people get away with talking to you like that!
Brain wash 😂🤣😂🤣 so perfect.
Watching ok op on my birthday 🎁 love watching these stories
I’m sure first OP is older than me but IM HER NEW MOM I can’t imagine going through that and then on top my own family betraying me like that
Thanks Tiffany!
My older brother married a horrible excuse of a human being. She did a lot of mean things but to list a few, she would talk about having him killed for his life insurance and then dating a cute guy at work and then laugh it off as a joke. She kicked both of our cats and kept telling me she would get me a puppy if I let her take my cat and drop my precious baby out on the streets somewhere. She went through our mail and I caught her and my brother on my birthday looking at my disability check mom was getting. They talked to me about moving in with them in their house that looks frighteningly like the basement would collapse any day. I remember she would talk about having sex with my brother and one time said everyone in Oregon was bad in bed. I had had enough so I just said "You would know." Three words and she shut up about it. This other time she threatened to bite me so I told her to do it so I can have her pet down. She critised my mom's cooking but then asked me the recipe for something so I told her to add Powdered Root of Asphodel to an Infusion of Wormwood, which in Harry Potter makes The Draught Of Living Death. So, yeah, I am not opposed to clapping back sometimes. This all pretty much happened when I was a teen and the two of them are no longer in our lives.
Edit: I am 30 now and my cats are still affected. My female black cat is unfriendly towards visitors and the male tuxedo will hide until the visitor is long gone.
Loving the set up! You two looking so professional! Especially love the edition of props like red flags and that guy with headphones on
Her sister must be the golden child
Riley's intrusive thoughts have won this day. 😂
0:50 Riley’s laugh at that 💕🤣
“Break up right now….OR Sisterwives.”
Sam, why are you like this?
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I love all you guys BUT Big Protein's energy is so chaotic in this episode i love it ❤ Riley made me laugh so much this episode espeically in the second story 😂 love you all
Lots of love and thanks to Tiffany! ❤❤❤
omfg that first story….. my heart was beating so fast and i felt sick by the end of it.
First story pissed me tf off
Ain't no way man I feel so bad for OP
My brother courted a few gals when i lived with him who specifically said living with his sister was a green flag 😂 my ocd stepped up his bachelor pad in my year long stay lol
*brain* washing is WILD 😂😂
When it’s the other way around it’s called being Dickmatized 😂
Sam’s face at 3:36 to Riley’s horrific question 😂
Wow could you imagine if op and him had kids together on top of having an affair with the sister.
Y’all are so nice lol I have never felt bad on a clap back
Geez getting through the first story was brutal. Too many breaks and tangents
Happy birthday Sammy 🎉
Happy belated birthday Sammy!
If one of my sons did that to the other 😡 (the sister stole the husband story) i would not support the relationship makes me so angry and my heart is literally broken for op i had something similar happen to me my first love ended up with my best friend (who told me she spent months trying to get him coz she cant find her own damn boyfriends i was the 2nd friend she had done it to) i cant imagine your sibling doing it that must be so much more painful 💔
So what happened between the parents for the dad to white flag it and mother to agree with the sister 🤔 the moral line was erased somewhere. Just a thought
SHAME on the mother in the first story. S H A M E. cheating to me, is NEVER ever ok even. No family member is sage from my wrath if cheating is involved. I am actually disgusted by the family. Shame on the father too. If he loved OP in any way, he would take her side. I’m so furious. This would be a villain origin story for me and this is a villain I would ONE HUNDRED percent back up.
Wow that was a lot. Sorry bout that
I will be more lenient if abuse is involved
I know I don’t have a perfect relationship with my only sister but she would never ever try to steal my partner.
I just can’t imagine the pain that op is feeling. Not just from the cheating husband but her own family!! I hope her dad does wake up and realize what her other daughter did.
I have not mentioned it yet, but I like the non fake back ground as red flags actually look red. Plus I like the castle and the colouring of the background due to the lighting. 😍
When John said “all my cousins are 40” 😂😂 I felt that. My gma somehow conceived my dad at age 45 so my cousins are literally grandparents haha I grew up thinking 1st cousins were aunts and uncles and their kids were my cousins
Riley: did you start that family group chat?
I love the sexy talk!! Don't let them stop youuu lol xoxo
My ex friend was engaged and cheated with the guy I was starting to date. Not mad about it because she’s a single mom now. I’m more mad at the other stuff she stole in the process because she took 2 of my pets when she moved out.
Ex- Husband is trash, sister is trash. Someone who would do something so underhanded...to purposely hurt their sibling. You need to cut ties with that person, for your mental health. You can be cordial when other fam is around bu nah. I would not call that person sister. Because no sibling of mine would do hat to me
In high school, I was seeing this guy. I really and I mean really like him. He was an absolute dream to me. We liked all the same things and got each other into stuff we never would have realized we'd like. We were so sweet on each other. We'd go on walks to this playground and just talk and have fun. It was so pure and simple. I really fell for him.
One day, at that playground, he told me he liked me. I'd never actually thought I could end up in a relationship, being young and dumb, let alone with him. It was everything I could have hoped for.
But then, he told me he was in love with someone else. I'd never felt so betrayed in my life. Then he told me it was a friend of mine, which made it hurt so much more. She had even told me she didn't like him like that. She wasn't lying, they didnt end up dating. At least not until we graduated. Which I thank her for, it would have hurt even worse if they had dated and I could see them together.
I've never felt that away with anyone since. I haven't gotten over the feeling of not being good enough. How could I when we were everything I ever wanted, but I wasn't enough. I don't like him that way anymore, I don't even talk with him. It just broke me.
I wish I could find the thread of levels of talking / conversation/ talking shit/ gossiping / giving the t was to a complete stranger and more like a trauma dump for low key advice I feel
My heart goes out to OP from story 1... that poor lady :(
Punishment I would do:
1. Changing the will to favor OP for all the years she's not getting back
2. If the sister comes to events, the ex-husband isn't allowed back the family.
Do you think that if the cheater sister knew or had an idea that if she pursues her sister's spouse and knew the family wouldn't hold her accountable, it would make her (and maybe him too) more comfortable in her fucked up mind that it's OK and to continue? Like she has no remorse because she has no examples from the authority figures in her life that this is wrong, and if she did, would this have ended in a different outcome? Or are people like this just rotten to the core 😅
*Boop*
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Story 1: knowing that op's soon to be ex-husband has been cheating on her for months, i can say with 95% certainty that he will cheat again sometime in the future (maybe not weeks but months or years down the line)
Riley misses his family ❤
I’ve never been so glad that I don’t have a sister 😅
My sister's ex husband is a cheating piece of garbage. He made moves on me multiple times but because of the relationship I had with my sister at the time, I never told her because I didn't think she would believe me and I was living with them at the time. It got so bad that I started sleeping with my bedroom door locked because I found a drawing that he's done, he's an artist, that looked like a nude picture of me sleeping. I moved out as soon as I could. Their relationship didn't last because she caught him talking to 14 other women. So thankfully they divorced. When I finally told her years later, she was very angry that I never told her and that I thought she wouldn't believe me. But even through all of this, I never once accepted his advances or reciprocated in any way. My sister comes first. Always.
Are you covering this story a second time? Because I remember listening to this from you like a week ago
7 habits of highly effective people, great read!
My favorite is “who stole my cheese?”
“PREMARITAL HANDHOLDING?!?!” - Rylie Reynolds ❤😂❤
SAAM! Saying someone so flat is NOT the same as a gerbiling story… 😬
Riley with the UK sweatshirt GO CATS lolol
My friend's BF pulled a similar trick. She made him do all the work and the two lovebirds rode off into the sunset. But in due time my friend quietly revealed his history of drinking and his DWI's, something he had gone to great lengths to hide, and which took a toll on his reputation and employability. TOUCHE, mon amie.
On the topic of the 2nd story: my general rule of thumb is, if they can talk shit about someone, they've already talked shit about you.
21:57 how does your husband and sister get together (they are miserable, horrible people) and then mom is favoring the horrible sister?! How does that happen?!
OP should toss a match, say right well since this happened its only fair father you know mother took her side because of that affair she had a few years back she asked us to hide. Even if it didnt happen. IT might spark OPs father to question why he is ok with it.
The evil here, but might be needed here
I love you guys. Where's Sophia 😂😭😭
That sister was never told no by the mother
Riley failed to pull out the "no sex" sign again. He needs a new GF.
The worst part about the sister stealing OPs husband is the entire family suffers. How could they ever see the family together again. Now the family either has to choose sides and exclude someone or try to stay neutral and try to keep both separate. Everyone loses.
The thing about this is that being neutral is, in my opinion, choosing a side
Pretty much@@tayflowers13
Sam/Sophia to SO: Would you still love me if I had my sibling's face?
SO: Duh! Y'all have the same one. 😅
Wow. So evil...the mom and sister of first op
First story: there is no way that OP should ever forgive her witch sister and her ex. OP's sister is a vile, vile person, and apparently, so is OP's mother. OP needs to go no contact with her family. There's a zero percent chance that I'd be going to spend any holidays with my family in case they would be there.
Story 1. How on the heck does the parents think that is normal behavior. Just beyond 🗑 I feel so bad for OP
As Johnny Depp said; if you are in a relationship and fall in love with another person, leave the first one. If it were meant to be, you wouldn't have fallen for the second person.
Husband should've left her before anything happened.
Love your videos!
My God how could that mother treat one of her daughter s like that. I adore both my girls equally. Hell my oldest adores her sister and wouldn't ever do anything to hurt her. Hell my oldest would more likely then not hurt someone very badly if the hurt her sister. She threatened to walk off a guys junk just for hitting on my youngest
Sammy I'm so sorry 😔😔
I love how the cheater never has any kind of relationship with their partner and a closeness wise and they’re like oh I’m so close with them. I can’t talk to you. It’s like what the f is wrong with people.
Id disown my whole family.
Day 2 of requesting they bring back "Spill that tea"
Please no, I'm a head phone user and it was much louder. Also they were using it kinda wrong lmao 😂
@@GuineaParents I am also a headphone user, to me I just have the volume at a good setting, and spilling tea is just telling people gossip or something interesting, you can't really use it wrong
@@Absolute_Melancoly1813 you literally can. Tea is gossip, not people's loves falling apart on Reddit
@@GuineaParents Tea is drama, reddit stories are defo drama. Dont act like that's not why you're listening to it in the first place.
@@GuineaParents i guess we can agree to disagree I suppose, but to me it is just a cool catchphrase, kind of like any idiomatic sentence out there, they really aren't meant to be taken literally, and in essence are purely figurative.
Still, if that's how you feel that is fine. I would like to see it brought back though.
Oh and BTW I don't think he and his new love will last since has seriously jeopardized his career--DON'T GET YOUR PINK WHERE YOU GET YOUR GREEN.
We want Sam to do a full wardrobe tour cos his outfits are so cool and he's so hot 😊
24:24 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Is OP not their daughter as well? You don't need to disown the other daughter but the mom approves of it and the dad is neutral, letting the behavior slide. Not even a ban from Christmas, since they're such wussies, a simple conversation with OP's sister just showing basic human empathy and parenting skills, like a: "what you did was wrong" conversation. that's it. obviously, most of us wouldn't let that much slide but if I were in OP's situation, I wouldn't even feel as though my parents saw me as a human being, much less their daughter. And OP's sister is truly evil. Acting smug after doing all that and parading it around social media, no wonder she has the audacity to do that- no one has ever told her no in her life. Not to mention, it seems like the sister might've just had an inferiority/superiority complex about OP and that's why she chose to do this because, at least from OP's retelling of the events, it doesn't seem like OP ever *did* anything to make this sister react like this. She was even being helpful by using connections (her husband) to get the sister a job when she was in a rut. Also, the ex-husband is just as bad. I'm not going to say that dating a former partner's sibling is inherently bad or off limits but having an affair with your wife's sister, hiding it from her, then not protecting her from the subsequent fallout of your affair partner's gloating is objectively shitty. Like the few situations where it would be ok to date an EX's (not current partner. your EX. EXX) sibling is 1) your partner is dead and you found love through the grieving process or 2) you met separately after a split, then find out they're siblings later. 3) knowingly dating an ex's sibling would be ok after a period of time... like I'm talking *years*. even then that's really iffy. "falling in love" while you're still together or even right after will always be shitty. The husband was just quiet, he is not neutral at all in this situation. the right thing to do would've been to divorce OP first and even then OP would've had all the right in the world to resent her sister & ex, still.
I have just came up with a saying for cheaters. If they’re willing to cheat with you they are willing to cheat on you!
Okop lore: Tiffany is God ❤
The hand thing would have confirmed it for me. Idc what he says. I do the same thing with my boyfriend when I leave a room and he is near the exit and vice versa. Glad she got confirmation but I would have confronted as soon as I saw that
Also the dad is the mom's flying monkey and the mother is to her sister
So for the first story, The Mom is choosing her favorite child and the Dad basically took his golden child side by neutrality. Tbh, since cheating leads to more cheating I'm giving the sister's relationship a short life span. I do hope that OP is in therapy and she starts to move on. I hope that her story closes as is that the sister isn't going to do something crazy now she "won",but can't rub it in OP's face.
Disagree with their take that the father doesn't have to cut his daughter out in story 1. OP didn't do anything wrong, your other daughter did. Something should be done to done to dhow that it's not okay. If it were me, I would be full no contact with the daughter until OP has decided to she is willing to accept an apology and move on
In the last story I think the husband overreacted because he was accepting of the situation however, the wife said she needed a brake and was looking forward to going out. Then the sister had a brake. And looking forward to being with his wife who needed the time at the last moment stays. He snapped. Throwing the roses down and saying what he said ...not ok, but the wife needs to help the sister cope and use skills to get through not just stop her life. They could have amended the plans and still do something together. The wife didnt make any effort to do so or to have the sister be accountable for her own decisions. That to me part of the healing process. Tough spot, but honestly they all a bit jerks in this story.