I think a baby just wanting mommy certainly is a legitimate need of theirs, and when you respond to their need for your presence, you are not spoiling them but making them feel secure which will pay off in the end.
She says ' your babies needs are met but she just wants you' yes your baby wants you because she wants your love and attention what's wrong with that? That is a NEED, LOVE is a primary NEED, this leaving your baby to cry method teaches your baby that they arnt heard and actually leaves leaves over time having rejection and abandonment issues. A baby cannot and is not spoilt. A baby was in your womb for 9 months and wants to feel safe and close to you. Your his/her life line.. fully dependant on you. This method is just cruel. I'd never do that to my baby.
Something about putting adult like standards on a baby just doesn’t sit right with me lol. Training babies like their a puppy or something. Who’s to say what a baby “doesn’t need”? To me sleep training just sounds like let the baby cry to the point of exhaustion so you think that they “soothed” themselves but really they just got wore out 🤨 “you’re baby needs your comfort but ignore them” that sounds right to people? lol they’re a BABY. It’s like suggesting that they’re manipulative or something. Stop forcing independence.
Lol I agree with this as well. Babies aren’t trying to be manipulative maybe they still want comfort from mom or dad?? I mean I have an almost 6 year old and she’ll STILL want my comfort at night sometimes . Because that’s her personality
i agree. i don't want my baby to be busy freaking out if i'm not there but i also think it'll help both my baby and me to relax if we do this much more slowly than recommended. rn i'm suffering too much anxiety to even sleep more than 2 hours a night but maybe upwards of 6 months i'll take more time to help him have supervised away time.
“Let them cry its not going to hurt them” well you certainly don’t know how trauma is formed in early childhood if you wont cater their needs they will learn feel unworthy of it which will be an issue all their life
Sorry but this is absolutely bullsh*t! “Let them cry its not going to hurt them”. Yes it will! Neuroscience have shown that letting baby cry when they need you actually hurt them and the bond with their parents. Yes it “works” in the sense they will stop crying but it is because they don’t trust their parents to respond to their needs anymore. And they don’t trust themself to be capable of communicating their needs. If a baby needs comfort, he needs comfort! Babies don’t take bad habits or manipulate you, they only express needs. Letting them cry increase their cortisol level which can lead to a lot of problems later on.
do yk where i could find more information on this subject? my 2 month old isn't so needy but i personally suffer with intense anxiety and stress from the possibility that i'm not meeting my babies needs.
I think my baby (2 wks exactly) is going thru this. He’s feeding constantly and very tired but won’t sleep during day. But this just happened today. I thought maybe my milk wasn’t enough but i pumped 2 oz. We are wondering why he’s yawning and fussy but won’t sleep and feeding hourly
Glad I found this video I was starting to think something was wrong with my almost 8 week old. Last week she was very fussy and always hungry every hour now all of a sudden she’s sleeping alot she waking still for feedings but going right back to sleep after she’s usually alert for an hour at least. Hopefully it is just a growth spurt.
@@sayraventura2435 there's a book called The No Cry Sleep Solution. It has really helped me with my toddler, and it helped me establish healthy sleeping habits with my newborn of 7 weeks. Hope it helps you.
Letting them cry? She needs to get updated. They get stressed, free cortisol hormones and this DOES hurt baby development and a lot of stuff. Dont attack my comment, because im using my husband's youtube. Look for updated pediatricians.
i've been banking on 1-2 hours of sleep bc i have too much anxiety about leaving baby alone. i think if i don't check then my mind goes to the worst possible outcome (if any moms could shed some light on how to soothe anxiety i'm all ears).
Maybe a baby monitor and a baby oxymeter can give you comfort at night! These can be expensive so there’s always the alternative of second hand items in FB market, OfferUp or Tiktok Good luck and hang in there momma!
My 6 week old baby started to become fussy and needs frequeng feeding for more than a week already . He doesn't also wants to be put to bed ny himself so since we share bed, i put him on side lying position
@@mecimarie8907 lol I’ll have to take your advice for sure! She’s my second baby but I swear I feel like a first time mom. She’s definitely giving me a run for my money.
Hello! My boy is now 3 months old his belly button is continuously little wet no redness not even he doesnot respond when to touch there. Iam so worried about it. Could you help me please!!!
I’m scared my period hasn’t come and the day before it usually comes which was today but it happened at night I had a little brown gooey stuff and it was white and brown and usually that happens but it was small and I’m scared I’m a virgin I haven’t ever had se* and nothing rude with boys I am not like that I will never do anything rude ever i don’t know why I’m scare an my boobs hurt an I am craving food all th time and I have mood swings and my stomach hurts and grumbles help please I’m scared!! I’m only 15 I’m only a kid I am scare if I am pregnant and it’s only been a year ever since I had my period so it is changing I guess cause I just got it first 1 year ago
It’s not good to let a baby “cry it out”. I’m surprised you even said that. It makes a baby’s cortisol levels spike up. 😭 definitely won’t leave my baby crying. Babies cry for a reason and us mothers need to be there to nurture them. Self soothing is a skill that they start learning when they are much older starting as a toddler. Horrible advice.
My baby fall asleep while nursing in the morning after 2 minutes.unable to wake her up.though I tried hard she takes milk for another 3 minutes.but in the night she drinks for 20 mins.what to do?
Does anyones baby have a very sudden and lod cry at night out of nowhere... Not like the gradual ones that they usually have. I mean I goes from 0 to 100 in a second...Is this normal during growth spurts? My baby is doing this when she is in her sleep and wakes up out of nowhere. And she doesn't even need to eat when it happens most of the time..Any idea?
Every 2 hours :') My baby feeds nonstop during growth spurts! It can literally be for 24 hours straight.
I think a baby just wanting mommy certainly is a legitimate need of theirs, and when you respond to their need for your presence, you are not spoiling them but making them feel secure which will pay off in the end.
She says ' your babies needs are met but she just wants you' yes your baby wants you because she wants your love and attention what's wrong with that? That is a NEED, LOVE is a primary NEED, this leaving your baby to cry method teaches your baby that they arnt heard and actually leaves leaves over time having rejection and abandonment issues. A baby cannot and is not spoilt. A baby was in your womb for 9 months and wants to feel safe and close to you. Your his/her life line.. fully dependant on you. This method is just cruel. I'd never do that to my baby.
My 3 week old is going through a growth spurt. He usually eats every 2 hours. He now eats almost every hour. 😞🥱 so exhausted.
Same
Something about putting adult like standards on a baby just doesn’t sit right with me lol. Training babies like their a puppy or something. Who’s to say what a baby “doesn’t need”? To me sleep training just sounds like let the baby cry to the point of exhaustion so you think that they “soothed” themselves but really they just got wore out 🤨 “you’re baby needs your comfort but ignore them” that sounds right to people? lol they’re a BABY. It’s like suggesting that they’re manipulative or something. Stop forcing independence.
Agreed
Totally agree, sounds like torture to me. I'd never do that to my baby 😭
Lol I agree with this as well. Babies aren’t trying to be manipulative maybe they still want comfort from mom or dad?? I mean I have an almost 6 year old and she’ll STILL want my comfort at night sometimes . Because that’s her personality
i agree. i don't want my baby to be busy freaking out if i'm not there but i also think it'll help both my baby and me to relax if we do this much more slowly than recommended. rn i'm suffering too much anxiety to even sleep more than 2 hours a night but maybe upwards of 6 months i'll take more time to help him have supervised away time.
“Let them cry its not going to hurt them” well you certainly don’t know how trauma is formed in early childhood if you wont cater their needs they will learn feel unworthy of it which will be an issue all their life
Sorry but this is absolutely bullsh*t! “Let them cry its not going to hurt them”. Yes it will! Neuroscience have shown that letting baby cry when they need you actually hurt them and the bond with their parents. Yes it “works” in the sense they will stop crying but it is because they don’t trust their parents to respond to their needs anymore. And they don’t trust themself to be capable of communicating their needs. If a baby needs comfort, he needs comfort! Babies don’t take bad habits or manipulate you, they only express needs. Letting them cry increase their cortisol level which can lead to a lot of problems later on.
do yk where i could find more information on this subject? my 2 month old isn't so needy but i personally suffer with intense anxiety and stress from the possibility that i'm not meeting my babies needs.
Amen mamma!
My 18 month old does eat a lot more. And fights his sleep a lot. This is helpful.
thank you so much for the video! my baby started having her 4-6 week growth spurt yesterday !
Mine started today and been feeding him nonstop.
I absolutely love all your videos. You are so thorough and clear. Thanks you so much for sharing all this info!
I think my baby (2 wks exactly) is going thru this. He’s feeding constantly and very tired but won’t sleep during day. But this just happened today. I thought maybe my milk wasn’t enough but i pumped 2 oz. We are wondering why he’s yawning and fussy but won’t sleep and feeding hourly
Glad I found this video I was starting to think something was wrong with my almost 8 week old. Last week she was very fussy and always hungry every hour now all of a sudden she’s sleeping alot she waking still for feedings but going right back to sleep after she’s usually alert for an hour at least. Hopefully it is just a growth spurt.
It's 2018. It's very disappointing that you would still advocate sleep training techniques involving letting the child cry it out. How unfortunate.
What do you suggest? I hate hearing /letting my baby crying 😭😭
@@sayraventura2435 there's a book called The No Cry Sleep Solution. It has really helped me with my toddler, and it helped me establish healthy sleeping habits with my newborn of 7 weeks. Hope it helps you.
Letting them cry? She needs to get updated. They get stressed, free cortisol hormones and this DOES hurt baby development and a lot of stuff. Dont attack my comment, because im using my husband's youtube. Look for updated pediatricians.
How do you sleep train if you share a room with your baby?
Amanda Sprouse check out more intermountain moms about sleep training also sleep sense is great and there are a few other good ones on RUclips too
At what age shall I start with self soothing training my baby is 10 weeks now??
Way to young
i've been banking on 1-2 hours of sleep bc i have too much anxiety about leaving baby alone.
i think if i don't check then my mind goes to the worst possible outcome (if any moms could shed some light on how to soothe anxiety i'm all ears).
Maybe a baby monitor and a baby oxymeter can give you comfort at night! These can be expensive so there’s always the alternative of second hand items in FB market, OfferUp or Tiktok
Good luck and hang in there momma!
Prayer
What age do you suggest getting a convertible car seat? And what kind?
My 6 week old baby started to become fussy and needs frequeng feeding for more than a week already . He doesn't also wants to be put to bed ny himself so since we share bed, i put him on side lying position
Btw he sleeps at night and wakes up every 3 hrs . But in the morning he's very fussy..
My 6 month old is fighting his sleep so much and is a lot more fussy 😩
Girl same! How did you get through it?!
@@Miimiii___ lots of warm baths and wine for me lol
@@mecimarie8907 lol I’ll have to take your advice for sure! She’s my second baby but I swear I feel like a first time mom. She’s definitely giving me a run for my money.
@@Miimiii___ oh yeah! Don’t be too hard on yourself either mama ❤️❤️ you got this
My babies sleep alot in every spurt like for like 24 to 48hrs
Hello! My boy is now 3 months old his belly button is continuously little wet no redness not even he doesnot respond when to touch there. Iam so worried about it. Could you help me please!!!
Go to his pediatrician
I’m scared my period hasn’t come and the day before it usually comes which was today but it happened at night I had a little brown gooey stuff and it was white and brown and usually that happens but it was small and I’m scared I’m a virgin I haven’t ever had se* and nothing rude with boys I am not like that I will never do anything rude ever i don’t know why I’m scare an my boobs hurt an I am craving food all th time and I have mood swings and my stomach hurts and grumbles help please I’m scared!!
I’m only 15 I’m only a kid I am scare if I am pregnant and it’s only been a year ever since I had my period so it is changing I guess cause I just got it first 1 year ago
You're having s growth spurt
@@Secretgardenerjoe 🤣😭🤣
How much should she eat at 1 year old
I’m a virgin and my period is a week late they usually come around the 9th-13 and it’s not the 15 and I’m freaking out a lot
At what age (weeks) should i let the baby cry to sleep to train her?
Thank you 🌸🌸🌸
Thank You 🙏 so much 😁
It’s not good to let a baby “cry it out”. I’m surprised you even said that. It makes a baby’s cortisol levels spike up. 😭 definitely won’t leave my baby crying. Babies cry for a reason and us mothers need to be there to nurture them. Self soothing is a skill that they start learning when they are much older starting as a toddler. Horrible advice.
My baby fall asleep while nursing in the morning after 2 minutes.unable to wake her up.though I tried hard she takes milk for another 3 minutes.but in the night she drinks for 20 mins.what to do?
Does anyones baby have a very sudden and lod cry at night out of nowhere... Not like the gradual ones that they usually have. I mean I goes from 0 to 100 in a second...Is this normal during growth spurts? My baby is doing this when she is in her sleep and wakes up out of nowhere. And she doesn't even need to eat when it happens most of the time..Any idea?
I didn't like this video ... why can't we comfort OUR OWN BABY .. ridiculous... we aren't robots ...
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