My partner was 19 years older then me, but he passed away and now I’m alone… I wish things were different, but this is just how things are now. I still cry and miss him everyday. I’ll never have anyone like him again. When you find love, don’t ever let them go. Because some day you might not see them again.
I was married to one man who died at 49. We had been married 21 years. I felt lost especially going out to eat, etc. I then noticed all the couples, not to mention, the women who were “friends,” change and stopped seeing me. They actually had jealousy if one husband out of kindness mowed my lawn just to help a grieving widow out. He never asked me, he just did it. I cried as you said. The only thing that restored me was my relationship with God and my job as a nurse. It turned out the unit I would at times be pulled to, the nurses there wanted me to be the nurse of a woman who just had shock treatments from losing her spouse. I didn’t know that someone told her about me and as I proceeded with taking her vitals, she asked so sadly, how does one heal? I asked her if I could sit on a portion of her bed & she nodded. My message as I held her hand was that it’s never easy but with the help of Jesus Christ, I am able to go day by day. She asked me for prayer and prayer I did. There was a sweet presence she and I felt. She said, I know now I will be alright. I knew she would as well. I was a widow for 3 years and remarried a Christian man, who loved God. He didn’t take the space away for my previous loss but added everything I needed. I didn’t think I could love again, but God.
We don't choose love. Love chooses us. My mother never married after Dad died. A young man in our neighborhood started seeing my mother. The age gap was 40+ years. My siblings and I had a crazy fit. My brothers hurt him. Still they would see each other. We thought it was him pursuing her but it was the other way around. After seeing how happy our mother was, we gave in. Love conquers all. He was good to her. He gave her companionship. Helped her around the house. They were together until she passed away but never married. ❤
Nothing against age gap relationships in most cases, but that woman being 45 and dating a 16 yo and then marrying him is disgusting and shows just how disturbed she is. Even if he kisses you or whatever, you are supposed to be the ‘adult’ and say no and walk away. I’m 42 and the thought of dating a teenager is quite disturbing to be honest.
Agreed. It is abuse, actually. I don't care what some random legislators who probably only wanted to get into kiddies' knickers, say, is the age of consent. A 16 year old is a child. Even the previous age of consent at 18 was dicey. I remember what I was like even in my early 20s, so naive and impressionable. Thank goodness I had a stable, secure childhood in a protective family. I wasn't exposed to or vulnerable to seeking love in inappropriate places.
Yeah I agree I feel bad just dating a 19 year old cause hes still teens too but I will never go 17 and under that's a rap case there. I would of had to say no to that for sure. 16 is way to young. That's even to young if you were 18 and trying to date a 16 or 15 year old.
My husband is 22 years older than me. It was love at first sight. We became engaged within a 5 week span, and married after spending just 17 days in each others company, 4 months after that. (he lived in New Zealand, I was in England, he was visiting his family after the death of his first wife from cancer and had to go home for work, before returning to marry me!) We now live in New Zealand and have been married for 36 years. So it can work.
@@AT-eu4zu My husband is my life. I nursed him through cancer 12 years ago - he wasn't meant to survive more than 5 years, but he is here and now considered cancer free. You have to weather the storms as well as enjoying the sunshine. xx
@@lizg5574 that is amazing that it has worked for many decades - 🎉 congrats, Your ages 83 and 61 ... those are the ages between myself and my parent, which you probably have realised from the get go that he is old enough to be your father,so it's nothing new to you.. Curious, how were your parents about it?
I'm happy for everyone who finds love no matter what age they are. I would never judge, I'm not that type of women. My husband is ten years older than me and i love him with all my heart ❤ Been married close to twenty years. Enjoy the love of your life everyone and God Bless You All ❤
Agree. I would never judge too. I've been through age gap relationships and they are really the best. Unfortunately, I had to break up with each of them, as it's unacceptable in the Asian culture. I am still single and I wish that everyone would find that deep love at least once in their lifetime.
@@kimberlite_66 Love, affection and feelings. There is no problem with the age difference. I think it is better than a person who lives alone. What is funny about that? It was an honor to meet you.🌹
I am 15 yrs older than my hubby. He was 26 i was 41 we met at a birthday party, i was most definitely NOT looking for any involvment with anyone. We became friends and married in less than a year. We've been together 31 years now. We've had our ups and downs like anyone but we're still together and in love.
Fair play to you, be happy don't worry what others think, I'm almost 48 and there is a 24 year old who is interested me and I am interested in her, nothing has been confirmed but I might well ask her out , stay happy, love and light
@@jaykaye7025 Gross! That girl is young enough to be your daughter! 😖 If you had/have a daughter would you want one of your friends hitting on her? Time for you to grow up!
@@jaykaye7025 My man... You will quickly find out that sex does not make for a long lasting relationship. She will realize you are old. You are lying to yourself because you are lonely. I am not being mean... I am being honest.
I love this so much! It is a real lesson to everyone about how judging people is always cruel, heartless and wrong! Plus these wonderful couples are amazing in so many ways! We all need to follow our hearts more!
16 isn't even leg@l...age of consent doesn't make it leg@l, sleepin with sum1 under 18 is ill3gal n considered p3d0philia. Consent just means they're old enuf to be able can consent so it's not also gRape..so both are illeg@l but under 18 is just p3d0phealia n under 16 is p3d0 nd gRape
1 6 isn't even leg@l...age of c0nsent doesn't make it leg@l, sleepin with sum1 under 1 8 is ill3gal n considered p3d0philia. Consent just means they're old enuf to be able can consent so it's not also 'grape'(w/o the G)so both are illeg@l but under 1 8 is just p3d0phealia n under 1 6 is p3d0 nd 'grape'
Joan’s husband blessing. I mean what a cool guy. What a personality. That’s a positive way to deal w/ death. He wanted her not to sulk, but enjoy life. I like that.
Joan take some advise. Your eyeliner is too harsh Tanning booths are illegal in Australia, they are cancerous. Tanning makes your skin look old. Your hair is overbleached and it looks brittle. Go to a salon get your hair well cut, soften your eye make up and dont tan. Use a artificial tanning lotion, its much safer.
Im a 70 yr old woman chubby and in a motorized scooter but can still walk. Ive been told im attractive non the less Its not my fault a 28 yr old handsome man came up and ask if i like younger men!!! I burst into giggles at how sillly it was. I said " im old and poor!!' He says he wants fun not money.
@@Marigold502Love, affection and feelings. There is no problem with the age difference. I think it is better than a person who lives alone.🌹 that? It was an honor to meet you.
the younger men all seem like they have learning difficulties which is very sad. Perhaps the people giving them a hard time are actually people looking out for them?
i disagree. the 29 has epilepsy and the 22 year is totally normal and a wise young men. both are good looking. i just think they have a mother komplex. looking unconsious more for a mother figure. and the older women looking for young men bc they feel desired, young and sexy.
I noticed the same thing on this show on other episodes. The older women quite often end up with boys/men that seem to have learning disabilities - like Joan with Phil. He definitely has a problem.
The only problem is when age takes over. My husband is 10 years older than me. I got married the 2nd time 2 years after my spouse died at 55. I married a 65 year old vibrant man. He is now 85 and has dementia. I am now his caregiver for the past 2 years. He has no memory of anything in the past or day before. He says I am the one who tells him what to do. It is like taking care of a toddler but I made my vows at marriage and I care deeply for him. But people here need to think about the near future. Can they take care of the aged spouse? It is a very hard job, mentally and physically.
Sorry he’s got dementia and that you have to manage that, I know it’s hard. Very glad to hear you’re honouring your vows though. I wish you both the best.
I think Joan is stuck a decades or two back on what was seen as attractive, but I personally think her skin looks older than her years and I wonder if the tanning has helped with that. Also her hair looks very thin, and again I wonder if years of bleaching hasnt helped that either. If only she learnt less is more!
@@pashapushkin6386 a 16 year old could never be more mature than a 45 year old unless that elder is mentally challenged. A 16 year old has not lived long enough to gather life experiences which matures an individual. This is just not true.
They are cute, and I’m not one to typically buy in to the age gap thing. It always seems like one person is in it for money, but Edna and Simon are genuinely in love. I wish them well!
The irony of Joan , is she’d probably look amazing for her age if she gave up the sun beds , the eyeliner,& skin tight clothes and got her hair sorted out. What she is doing ,is making her look much older.
@@mythoughts6922 She probably can't grow the eyebrows back. She lived her youth during an era where everyone plucked their brows to pencil-thin lines and many weren't able to regrow their brows later in life. My aunt is the same way - pencil brows forever.
It's Awesome to see people who Really Love each other💝 And to All of those people that Don't Agree or Support these Couples.... to HECK with them All! Love has NO Age Boundaries and I Wish Nothing but Great Memories and a Life Time of Love for each of them 🤗❤️💛
I’m all for it people doing whatever the heck they want to do but if that was my kid at with a grown woman at 16 I can guarantee she wouldn’t want to meet me. I know in her eyes she said well if the roles were reversed, people wouldn’t look down at me than. Well atleast for me id still feel the same. I think she should’ve at least let him grow up first. Just because you can have sex with somebody when they’re 16 and you’re an adult doesn’t me you do it.
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After my divorce younger men pursued me more than men my age and asked me out on dates. It boosted my self esteem for sure when post divorce most women are not in a great state of mind. It was fun and I am still friends with most of them. I enjoy older men due to the maturity of conversation etc but if they are young at heart only which is what these older men seem to be with the younger women. Ultimately do what makes you happy and dont care what everyone thinks.
Deliah, you look tasty and i can see why you'd be on lots of men's radar. but you can have a fine mature converstion with a bloke 10-15 years younger . The french president and his wife are 20 years apart , she was his teacher though and its the only thing made me go eek . I don't lie the bloke at all but i find it remarkable that they've been together for 25 years.
Nah. I met my husband at 16. I went to see him with my crackhead bestfriend who was 34. She took me out there,I touched his hand. Later momma had a dream that she married someone. I ballface told her she lying. It was me she saw. I married him in secret after living with him while recovering from addiction. So if he goes to jail,take me too. I have 12 years of marriage,no it's not easy. And I give him hell 🙋♀️
I was sure I would find something wrong with these couples, but I can't. They do seem to be genuinely in love. The only thing I can fault is, sometimes love is not a good enough reason to pursue a relationship, but on the other hand there's no guarantee any relationship will last.
@@isabellavalencia8026 you could be in love with an underage person or you could be in love with an abuser, drug addict, pedophile, wife beater a so no, sometimes love is not enough.
@@isabellavalencia8026 What is important in this is love and affection, feelings and desire for everything. Someone who loves you, fears for you, and is very jealous of you. This is the most important thing, I think. Greetings to you from the city of Luxor, Egypt.🌹
I honestly have no issues with age gaps and they can be lovely and adorable. When both parties are sincere adults. Of course you can tell when somebody’s being used or it’s it’s not genuine but when it is, both people can be really happy.
I’ve seen a woman who married a man so much older than her, and when he got old old, she treated him disgustingly. I was sure she was putting stuff in his drinks. Waiting for him to die. N
A truly love knows no age and no bounderies.Nothing against age gaps like our love story 32 years of age gap i'am 25 but she is 57 years old but we are very happy now.Simple living and contented to each other is the secret of our relation .
It's beautiful, they understand what love is and go for it. Most people are too scared to do this, because they are afraid they will get labeled by society. Which is really sad. Don't let this joke that's called society bring you down people !
What is important in this is love and affection, feelings and desire for everything. Someone who loves you, fears for you, and is very jealous of you. This is the most important thing, I think. Greetings to you from the city of Luxor, Egypt.
" When I met Marilyn I was 16 " " And I was 45 " If it was a 45 man dating a 16 years old girl , you will certainly call this peadophilia but when the predator is a woman it's ok . It's so disgusting !!!!!!!!
I'm sorry, my son will b 16 this march n I'm turning 44 this march if a b**** my age try hook up with my underage son she will not b living. So, age does matter!! Its nasty!
I'm 25 years older than my partner, and we have no issues at all. Age is just a number. 2 consenting adults decide to date even with an age difference, so be it!
Yes happiness and all the best for all these copulas. Nobody has the right to tell someone else who is for them and who is not for them. What they should or shouldn't be doing , or how they should or shouldn't be living. I'm seeing much more respect and love between these lovely people than your average joe relationships. No Taking for granted here.
My fiancé is 10 years younger than me, but we look the same age lol 😂 and he’s so much older in his ways! We’ve been together 10 years with a daughter.❤
Sounds similar to me .... Am 44 and he's 37 we been together 14 years and have 3 kids . Yet am older than him in our pictures we look about the same . And we are unbelievably alike . X
@@jadebel7006and why is that gross ? How can a 10 year age gap be gross ? A ten year age gap is fine it makes zero difference as long they both adults in fact a 10 year age gap shouldn’t even be considered a big age gap cos it’s a normal age gap
@@trojanx7723 In my early fifties I had a two year relationship with a man ten years younger. I somehow looked younger than him. He finished our very good relationship as he could not cope with the age difference. Three years ago he contacted me saying that he had regrets. I ignored him, as the break up nearly killed me and I had lost all trust.
I know it's politically incorrect to say so, but I cringe at age gaps this large. Why would anyone want to date someone who has so much less life experience than you? What about meeting of the minds? equal maturity level? Male or female, I don't care...It's disturbing to me. I couldn't imagine dating someone of my daughters age; it's gross.
Agreed.... people say "age is just a number" and i'm like, yeah, it's the number of years you've been on earth lol 🤣 Why would anyone purposely go after someone more inexperienced than them? Seems fishy.
My Husband Is MUCH Younger And There Is Truth To What You Are Saying. In Some Ways, The Age Gap Is An Advantage Though-I Educate Him & His Youthfulness, Well, Let’s Say That Is To My Advantage. I Married Him Because He Pursued & Courted Me, Is Kind And Decent And Made Me Fall In Love With Him. He Is The Provider Cause I Sho Ain’t Got No Money. Do People Look? Yes! I Feel God Gave Me A Mutual Love-Finally
I don't think you're giving the young people enough credit. we are not all dumb bimbos, with zero life experience, living in naivety. 🙄. Age really isn't so important at the end of the day.
For some people can work for some not! My husband is 19 years older then me and i don’t like it anymore even though we are married for 21years , I stil do not like him anymore and cannot stand him and looking forward to separate hopefully in a very near future. Good luck to all!
Live and let live. I was in my 50s and met my now husband who was on his 70s. I can’t help it ! I love him. And we never know who will go first anyway. Often times the younger one goes first.
@@jewels3895 Soul connection? Can you explain to me how is it remotely possible two people with an age gap big enough to be a mother and son would somehow make a romantic connection? Not to mention the fact of how illegal it would be
I have naturally large boobs. I so wish I didn't. They are heavy and clothes don't fit me properly. If I try to wear the same as my smaller breasted friends, my clothes either look untidy or obscene 🙄If my friends got what they wished for they would soon understand that they are nothing but a nuisance!!
Easy to say when you don't have any to speak of, like myself. 😂😂😂😂 most small chested women WANT larger chests. Most large Chested women want smaller chests. 😂🤷♀️. It's just one of those funny things. Lol
All theese people as married couples deserve full respect. 1. They live their own lifes not my, not yours. 2. They love each other respect each other, and support each other. 3. They accept each other inspite of big deferences in their age. 4. They accept to tell us their own love and life stories. 5. But you who made interview made horrible mistake. You hadn't ask them about their sexual and intimacy life. You must respect only one roule that you should respect their intimacy. 6. Becouse, they are normal people like us and respect that fact in the name of the God. 7. Esspecialy ,they suffered so much at their begginings coused by famillies, friends, and neiboroughs.
Honestly with all the games and dishonesty I get from younger women around my age, I understand these men a bit more. Time to give up on my generation and go for the grannies.
I think an age gap is alright if your both over i would say 25 maybe even 30 but when ur 16 thats too young and she should have been locked up a man would have been
@@PHlophe But it's the U.K. What law was broken? Age of consent is 16 there. So there's nothing that could have been done, legally speaking. But they were socially ostracized and the guy said all his teenaged friends deserted him. In the past, in the U.K., it was extremely common for 16yr olds to finish school and then go into fulltime employment, move out on their own, maybe even get married. In the past, like the 60s, 70s, 80s, 16 yr olds were seen as pretty much adults - young adults at the start of their adult working lives, but still adults. Not children.
As we‘ve seen in other episode, there were enough men, who dated a 16-year-old girl. Otherwise i agree with you: over 25 years old, then age gap years don’t matter.
@@SY-ok2dq I remember that, weird how now 16 year olds are seen as totally different, like they're no different from 8 year olds who play with action figures or Barbie dolls.
My partner was 19 years older then me, but he passed away and now I’m alone… I wish things were different, but this is just how things are now. I still cry and miss him everyday. I’ll never have anyone like him again. When you find love, don’t ever let them go. Because some day you might not see them again.
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I was married to one man who died at 49. We had been married 21 years. I felt lost especially going out to eat, etc. I then noticed all the couples, not to mention, the women who were “friends,” change and stopped seeing me. They actually had jealousy if one husband out of kindness mowed my lawn just to help a grieving widow out. He never asked me, he just did it. I cried as you said. The only thing that restored me was my relationship with God and my job as a nurse. It turned out the unit I would at times be pulled to, the nurses there wanted me to be the nurse of a woman who just had shock treatments from losing her spouse. I didn’t know that someone told her about me and as I proceeded with taking her vitals, she asked so sadly, how does one heal? I asked her if I could sit on a portion of her bed & she nodded. My message as I held her hand was that it’s never easy but with the help of Jesus Christ, I am able to go day by day. She asked me for prayer and prayer I did. There was a sweet presence she and I felt. She said, I know now I will be alright. I knew she would as well. I was a widow for 3 years and remarried a Christian man, who loved God. He didn’t take the space away for my previous loss but added everything I needed. I didn’t think I could love again, but God.
Bless u. Yes, I suppose it's hard for us to understand. Sorry for your loss and I hope u find someone else ❤
My husband was only 2 years older than me and died of cancer at 55... .you never know what the future holds
How old are you
I sincerely want Joan to have a makeup and hair makeover.
I KNOW, RIGHT???? SHE LOOKS 90!
She just needs to tone down the bronzer.
@mercyme8014 it's the eyeliner for me. It's too much!!! She has beautiful eyes, but the thick ancient Egyptian eyeliner does nothing for them.
Yes, it would give her a different look and enhance her natural beauty.
Just thinking the same the eyeliner and her hair shocking she looks very old needs a good wig,loose the eyeliner.
We don't choose love. Love chooses us. My mother never married after Dad died. A young man in our neighborhood started seeing my mother. The age gap was 40+ years. My siblings and I had a crazy fit. My brothers hurt him. Still they would see each other. We thought it was him pursuing her but it was the other way around. After seeing how happy our mother was, we gave in. Love conquers all. He was good to her. He gave her companionship. Helped her around the house. They were together until she passed away but never married. ❤
My god, what a story.
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When humans connect they connect. Size age ethnicity ain’t nobody’s business but their own
@@tubethiskettlebell ♥WORD♥
Dang it. Common law married. As soon as intercourse happens then God sees married 🙋♀️
"Normal" is boring. Kudos to these couples and anyone else who follow their hearts in the name of love. When you know, you know. ❤
Nothing against age gap relationships in most cases, but that woman being 45 and dating a 16 yo and then marrying him is disgusting and shows just how disturbed she is. Even if he kisses you or whatever, you are supposed to be the ‘adult’ and say no and walk away. I’m 42 and the thought of dating a teenager is quite disturbing to be honest.
Agreed. It is abuse, actually. I don't care what some random legislators who probably only wanted to get into kiddies' knickers, say, is the age of consent. A 16 year old is a child. Even the previous age of consent at 18 was dicey. I remember what I was like even in my early 20s, so naive and impressionable. Thank goodness I had a stable, secure childhood in a protective family. I wasn't exposed to or vulnerable to seeking love in inappropriate places.
it's only a crime when a man does it
if a man did this....he would be in jail that same day
Yeah I agree I feel bad just dating a 19 year old cause hes still teens too but I will never go 17 and under that's a rap case there. I would of had to say no to that for sure. 16 is way to young. That's even to young if you were 18 and trying to date a 16 or 15 year old.
@warriorprincess83b79
But love is love
My husband is 22 years older than me. It was love at first sight. We became engaged within a 5 week span, and married after spending just 17 days in each others company, 4 months after that. (he lived in New Zealand, I was in England, he was visiting his family after the death of his first wife from cancer and had to go home for work, before returning to marry me!) We now live in New Zealand and have been married for 36 years. So it can work.
How old are you and your husband currently? Congrats on your long term marriage 🙏
@@dovegoddess1100 He is 83, I am 61. He was widowed at 47 and I was almost 26 when we married.
Gives me hope thank you. My partner is 29 years older than me and I love him dearly ❤️
@@AT-eu4zu My husband is my life. I nursed him through cancer 12 years ago - he wasn't meant to survive more than 5 years, but he is here and now considered cancer free. You have to weather the storms as well as enjoying the sunshine. xx
@@lizg5574 that is amazing that it has worked for many decades - 🎉 congrats, Your ages 83 and 61 ... those are the ages between myself and my parent, which you probably have realised from the get go that he is old enough to be your father,so it's nothing new to you.. Curious, how were your parents about it?
God bless them i was 28 when i got married my wife was 43 now i am 57 if she was still alive she would been 70
Think you failed maths
@@hjad2625stop hating MF
Te casarias con otra mujer mayor?
No, she'd be 72
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I'm happy for everyone who finds love no matter what age they are. I would never judge, I'm not that type of women. My husband is ten years older than me and i love him with all my heart ❤ Been married close to twenty years. Enjoy the love of your life everyone and God Bless You All ❤
100% agree as long as both people are consenting adults.
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Agree. I would never judge too. I've been through age gap relationships and they are really the best. Unfortunately, I had to break up with each of them, as it's unacceptable in the Asian culture.
I am still single and I wish that everyone would find that deep love at least once in their lifetime.
Oh my!!!! Mikes baby girl is beautiful! What a blessing for he and his wife!
The baby girl is gonna be about 9 years old now
@@Rebecca_Baileyand heil be 90 the weirdo
@@maddogmclean-ce8cd he’s 84
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Joan said she didn't want to look like mutton dressed as lamb .TOO LATE!!!
so true
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@@kimberlite_66
Love, affection and feelings. There is no problem with the age difference. I think it is better than a person who lives alone. What is funny about that? It was an honor to meet you.🌹
I am 15 yrs older than my hubby. He was 26 i was 41 we met at a birthday party, i was most definitely NOT looking for any involvment with anyone. We became friends and married in less than a year. We've been together 31 years now. We've had our ups and downs like anyone but we're still together and in love.
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sama as here.,,we got married when he was 26
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@@kerenwintersI got question for both of you. Was it your first marriage?
Irrelevant question
My husband is 19 years older than me and there's nothing I would change... he's an amazing husband
19 years is a HUGE age gap. Most I ever had was 14 years.
Fair play to you, be happy don't worry what others think, I'm almost 48 and there is a 24 year old who is interested me and I am interested in her, nothing has been confirmed but I might well ask her out , stay happy, love and light
@@jaykaye7025
Gross! That girl is young enough to be your daughter! 😖
If you had/have a daughter would you want one of your friends hitting on her?
Time for you to grow up!
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@@jaykaye7025 My man... You will quickly find out that sex does not make for a long lasting relationship. She will realize you are old. You are lying to yourself because you are lonely. I am not being mean... I am being honest.
I don't care what people say you can't help where your heart goes
I love this so much!
It is a real lesson to everyone about how judging people is always cruel, heartless and wrong! Plus these wonderful couples are amazing in so many ways!
We all need to follow our hearts more!
I've always wanted a mature woman I'm 49 now and wish I could find one 60 plus
Age gap love is the couple's business only so the rest of us should just butt out !
Well said.
@@johnballard6725 Not when a 40 year old woman goes after a 16 year old family friend... WTF is wrong with you?
@nmonchak104 They both liked each other, what's the problem ? If they are both ok with it, who are you to say it's not?
Great to see so many couples happy together . Love is a great gift to anyone whatever the age difference. ❤❤❤❤
16 -45??? That's predatory, even with roles reversed
PERIOD
Why?
100% it wouldn't even talk to anyone that age at 16
16 isn't even leg@l...age of consent doesn't make it leg@l, sleepin with sum1 under 18 is ill3gal n considered p3d0philia. Consent just means they're old enuf to be able can consent so it's not also gRape..so both are illeg@l but under 18 is just p3d0phealia n under 16 is p3d0 nd gRape
1 6 isn't even leg@l...age of c0nsent doesn't make it leg@l, sleepin with sum1 under 1 8 is ill3gal n considered p3d0philia. Consent just means they're old enuf to be able can consent so it's not also 'grape'(w/o the G)so both are illeg@l but under 1 8 is just p3d0phealia n under 1 6 is p3d0 nd 'grape'
Will not let jealousy get the best of me, but they are really cute couples. I wish to be as happy as they are.
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I’m happy for them. They have something I never will, I respect that.
Joan’s husband blessing. I mean what a cool guy. What a personality. That’s a positive way to deal w/ death. He wanted her not to sulk, but enjoy life. I like that.
I would say the same if I was on my deathbed, go out and enjoy life don’t sulk after me because I’m gone because it’s not going to bring me back
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That black eyeliner under Joan’s eyes doesn’t look good at all, it makes her look older and doesn’t do her any favors 😢
I’m glad I’m not only one who thinks that makes her look a lot older
Very true
She still got that 90s make up going on lol
Less is more, black eye liner is too severe on Joan
@@drdeborahhockney5609
and loads of a strange bright makeup...🤔
This program was made in 2014 would be interesting to see an update in 2024
Apparently as of 2022, Simon and Edna Martin are still happily married and enjoying a 'physical relationship' as she was then 87 yrs old.
Yup would be lovely
Probable she is now in bed 😢
Ironically, that's the year I met the love of my life. 30-year age difference, and we are stronger than ever. ❤
Thank you ny thought was the same just now....😂❤
It would be interesting to get an update on all these couples as ten years has now passed!!😳
maybe some of them already passed on too lol
Joan take some advise.
Your eyeliner is too harsh
Tanning booths are illegal in Australia, they are cancerous.
Tanning makes your skin look old.
Your hair is overbleached and it looks brittle.
Go to a salon get your hair well cut, soften your eye make up and dont tan.
Use a artificial tanning lotion, its much safer.
And no more mini dresses either.
Mind your own business...she's not hurting anyone and he likes her to look like that.
It's not Australia...And Australia has enough sun not to need tanning places, surely, unlike here.🌞
I’m happy for all of these couples and wish them the best life can offer, love and happiness❤
As a woman, let’s also start calling out predator women. 45 and 16?????????
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I get if they met or at least started dating when he’s well capable of making adult decisions but ooof
Women have a pass for everything.
@@TheAcadianGuy Like leaving her kids with the dad like dads do? Yes, woman sure get that pass like man do.
My husband is 23 years younger than me. Been together 9 years almost married 8 years. Very happy. Couldn't imagine like without him
that’s cute!
Im a 70 yr old woman chubby and in a motorized scooter but can still walk. Ive been told im attractive non the less Its not my fault a 28 yr old handsome man came up and ask if i like younger men!!! I burst into giggles at how sillly it was. I said " im old and poor!!' He says he wants fun not money.
are you still single by any chance? Would love to get connected
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Nahh careful too nice young men will steal from your pocket ✋
Be careful
He wants to put a policy on you and toss you down the stairs.
How could anyone not like Simon and Edna❤
I know, it’s not typically an age gap that I would go for, but them two are adorable!
@@Rebecca_Bailey They make a good couple, he’s a card short of a full deck 😂
They are cute together❤
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They are!
@@Marigold502Love, affection and feelings. There is no problem with the age difference. I think it is better than a person who lives alone.🌹 that? It was an honor to meet you.
the wispy see-through cotton candy hair is killing me looooool 😂😂😂
I was actually thinking instead off looking for bigger boobs, get a hair transplant 😂👩🦲👩🦲👩🦲👩🦲
Sorry but the eyeliner 😂not a good look
if she likes to look so good for her toy boy. , she can use some hair extentions or a wig
@@leniyemsvictorero2360 agree
Agree 100% ...🤦🏻♀️
We shouldn’t laugh, until we‘ve reached that age of 68.
And even then, we shouldn’t laugh.
the younger men all seem like they have learning difficulties which is very sad. Perhaps the people giving them a hard time are actually people looking out for them?
I though the same as you because those younger men do not look too bright. Perhaps they have some type of mental issues.
Agreed
i disagree. the 29 has epilepsy and the 22 year is totally normal and a wise young men. both are good looking. i just think they have a mother komplex. looking unconsious more for a mother figure. and the older women looking for young men bc they feel desired, young and sexy.
I'm thinking Asperger's or somewhere on the autism spectrum.
I noticed the same thing on this show on other episodes. The older women quite often end up with boys/men that seem to have learning disabilities - like Joan with Phil. He definitely has a problem.
My Dad was 50 when I was born and he died 10 years later, which made my life a misery growing up fatherless.
Think of your children.
My aunt and uncle decided to adopt a tiny child from Ethiopia in their FIFTIES. Like what the hell??
@@britpoppansyWhy the hell not?Fifties isn't old,for Gods sake.
Don't be ridiculous.
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Im 52, believe me I dont want to have children at my age.I dont know what my Dad was thinking,
Your parents can be young and die young
Simon and Edna are the sweetest couple.. 💮
The only problem is when age takes over. My husband is 10 years older than me. I got married the 2nd time 2 years after my spouse died at 55. I married a 65 year old vibrant man. He is now 85 and has dementia. I am now his caregiver for the past 2 years. He has no memory of anything in the past or day before. He says I am the one who tells him what to do. It is like taking care of a toddler but I made my vows at marriage and I care deeply for him. But people here need to think about the near future. Can they take care of the aged spouse? It is a very hard job, mentally and physically.
Okay but life not stop for what you want 🙂
im need woman maered wold 60aerth im45aerth
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Sorry he’s got dementia and that you have to manage that, I know it’s hard. Very glad to hear you’re honouring your vows though. I wish you both the best.
Hello Dear Will you merry me???
Joan says she feels young after being in a sunbed, but it actually has the opposite effect on the skin.
She looks like a burn victim 😒
Oh dear I think less eye make-up and a better hairdo may make her look and feel younger! 😮
@@Sue-vh5fcI couldn’t agree more. That eyeliner is so hard and ageing. I don’t understand why she is blind to it!
I think Joan is stuck a decades or two back on what was seen as attractive, but I personally think her skin looks older than her years and I wonder if the tanning has helped with that. Also her hair looks very thin, and again I wonder if years of bleaching hasnt helped that either. If only she learnt less is more!
@@lozzylolsexactly my toughts...she's stuck in 70's...
16 year old
W 45? That’s just not normal she’s twisted & a predator. I don’t care that’s his mums age
💯 agree with you
If she we're a guy he'd be in Jail
Some 16 year olds are more mature than 45 year olds. Some never mature at all.
@@pashapushkin6386 a 16 year old could never be more mature than a 45 year old unless that elder is mentally challenged. A 16 year old has not lived long enough to gather life experiences which matures an individual. This is just not true.
its giving Brigitte macron and her emmanuel macron energy
Life is for living whichever way you choose.Happiness is a gift. 💝
Edna & Simon are just adorable, I believe they are still together 💕
They are cute, and I’m not one to typically buy in to the age gap thing. It always seems like one person is in it for money, but Edna and Simon are genuinely in love. I wish them well!
The irony of Joan , is she’d probably look amazing for her age if she gave up the sun beds , the eyeliner,& skin tight clothes and got her hair sorted out. What she is doing ,is making her look much older.
As well the shaved eyebrows! That will age every woman greatly!
Agree agree agree
I agree..all the eyeliner and thin hair n false tan does her no favours.
@@mythoughts6922 She probably can't grow the eyebrows back. She lived her youth during an era where everyone plucked their brows to pencil-thin lines and many weren't able to regrow their brows later in life. My aunt is the same way - pencil brows forever.
@@Kristin2885 Yes agreed. My grandma did the same thing, awful.
It's Awesome to see people who Really Love each other💝
And to All of those people that Don't Agree or Support these Couples.... to HECK with them All!
Love has NO Age Boundaries and I Wish Nothing but Great Memories and a Life Time of Love for each of them 🤗❤️💛
我が家も、私が５０歳夫が3３歳の１７歳年の差夫婦です。世界には素敵な年の差夫婦の方がたくさん存在して励みになります！
This documentary is at least 12 years old. Where are these couples now?
Made in 2014, so nearly ten years ago. I'd also like an update on where these couples are now.
Most of the elders probably deceased.
The world has changed for good after covid. Not sure i'd like an update though...
Dead
6ft under.
Mike may be in his 70s, but he doesn't seem to have any trouble keeping up with the little ones.
And I love seeing how he loves the kids and wife.
I’m all for it people doing whatever the heck they want to do but if that was my kid at with a grown woman at 16 I can guarantee she wouldn’t want to meet me. I know in her eyes she said well if the roles were reversed, people wouldn’t look down at me than. Well atleast for me id still feel the same. I think she should’ve at least let him grow up first. Just because you can have sex with somebody when they’re 16 and you’re an adult doesn’t me you do it.
It's creepy...horrible.
Agreed she took advantage of a child
No mother would want her son to marry a woman who is a generation older.
Same, not my son!!
If it were my son, I would be going to jail after meeting the woman
Be as young as you feel. I do at 63.
Lol I'll put some youth in you 😉 you look gooood
Good on you 😊
Yes you are right about that Nice to see you I'm interested you 🌹
Hi how are you
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After my divorce younger men pursued me more than men my age and asked me out on dates. It boosted my self esteem for sure when post divorce most women are not in a great state of mind. It was fun and I am still friends with most of them. I enjoy older men due to the maturity of conversation etc but if they are young at heart only which is what these older men seem to be with the younger women. Ultimately do what makes you happy and dont care what everyone thinks.
Deliah, you look tasty and i can see why you'd be on lots of men's radar. but you can have a fine mature converstion with a bloke 10-15 years younger . The french president and his wife are 20 years apart , she was his teacher though and its the only thing made me go eek . I don't lie the bloke at all but i find it remarkable that they've been together for 25 years.
Hi beauty ur looking gorgeous
Agreed. It's all about chemistry and these look like committed relationships that work which is precious
You are a wonderful woman
You are a wonderful woman
16!!! That predator should be in jail!!!!!
Although it's not illegal in this country,the government says..👀
Nah. I met my husband at 16. I went to see him with my crackhead bestfriend who was 34. She took me out there,I touched his hand. Later momma had a dream that she married someone. I ballface told her she lying. It was me she saw. I married him in secret after living with him while recovering from addiction. So if he goes to jail,take me too. I have 12 years of marriage,no it's not easy. And I give him hell 🙋♀️
The way I see it ,if they are happy ,that's got nothing to do with anyone .
I was sure I would find something wrong with these couples, but I can't. They do seem to be genuinely in love. The only thing I can fault is, sometimes love is not a good enough reason to pursue a relationship, but on the other hand there's no guarantee any relationship will last.
Love is not a good enough reason? I would say it should be the most important reason
You don't find something wrong with the woman who was 45 knowing her boyfriend since he was a child?
@@isabellavalencia8026 you could be in love with an underage person or you could be in love with an abuser, drug addict, pedophile, wife beater a so no, sometimes love is not enough.
@@firebenderkitty313 not really. If nothing happened between them until both are grown and one wasn't groomed in some way?
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What is important in this is love and affection, feelings and desire for everything. Someone who loves you, fears for you, and is very jealous of you. This is the most important thing, I think. Greetings to you from the city of Luxor, Egypt.🌹
I think it's great. What is most important is peoples happiness. Some people are mentally mature, others less so and the mix can work well.
I honestly have no issues with age gaps and they can be lovely and adorable. When both parties are sincere adults. Of course you can tell when somebody’s being used or it’s it’s not genuine but when it is, both people can be really happy.
I am 80 and my wife is 33. Been together 9 years. Married for 5 years.
We are very happy.
Disgusting.
I’ve seen a woman who married a man so much older than her, and when he got old old, she treated him disgustingly. I was sure she was putting stuff in his drinks. Waiting for him to die. N
@@azazello1784 You are just jealous.
Omg her tattoo on eye liner is HORRIBLE HORRIBLE 😂😂😂
Yeah she found her makeup style in 1973 and never looked back...or in the mirror!
Is it really tattooed on? I thought she just was heavy handed with the liquid liner. It looks very harsh 😒
@@JaguarRacingTeamXit's definitely a 1960s hangover of the babydoll look. Think Twiggy.
@@i4j11j2do5 I reckon she made it up. I would think it would be the last thing on one's mind!
Do you think you are perfect? You are not. Only god is.
No matter what their age is they all seem to be much happier than Ben and JLo.
Salut ❤
I have a 30 year age gap with mine. I’ve never been more madly in love. Sue me.
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Wait until you have to change his diapers
@@azazello1784I don't mind cnaing for my spouse. He cnaed me already 🙋♀️
A truly love knows no age and no bounderies.Nothing against age gaps like our love story 32 years of age gap i'am 25 but she is 57 years old but we are very happy now.Simple living and contented to each other is the secret of our relation .
It's beautiful, they understand what love is and go for it. Most people are too scared to do this, because they are afraid they will get labeled by society. Which is really sad. Don't let this joke that's called society bring you down people !
What is important in this is love and affection, feelings and desire for everything. Someone who loves you, fears for you, and is very jealous of you. This is the most important thing, I think. Greetings to you from the city of Luxor, Egypt.
Listening to their stories, those people are made for each other.
it wont last
@@MOAB-UT nothing last forever
Till death do us part 😅@@valentinataneva2283
They just found their perfect mother.
The perfect mother is that exactly.😂
@@LayaTetai 😝
Yet men are not made fun of for taking on women 40 years younger.
uh nope, that's a bit twisted
Sorry, but nature didn't create us equal.
All of these people seem in love and it’s genuine. It’s all consensual so it’s nobody’s business…
There's no sin in happiness. It's nobody else's business.
Absolutely true, it's their life n nobody should interfere with them
49 vs 16 is overall abuse !! That lady knew better !!
16 is not an adult.
@@SherryHill-k5y so sickening
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" When I met Marilyn I was 16 "
" And I was 45 "
If it was a 45 man dating a 16 years old girl , you will certainly call this peadophilia but when the predator is a woman it's ok . It's so disgusting !!!!!!!!
Then she said “16 is the legal age isn’t it”
just because it’s the age of consent doesn’t make it morally right
I think it's worse, actually, because a boy is still in mid-adolescence at 16, hence a child, whereas a girl is in late adolescence at the same age.
I can think of worse things between 2 people 😮
Technically it's not pedophillia but ephebophilia.
To each his own. They are all happy so everyone should just deal with it? Have a wonderful life to all of the couples.❤
If they love eachother fair play, it is true that love is blind and it is true beauty is in the eye of the beholder, happy days
I'm sorry, my son will b 16 this march n I'm turning 44 this march if a b**** my age try hook up with my underage son she will not b living. So, age does matter!! Its nasty!
As long as both are at a consenting age, more power to them!
I'm 25 years older than my partner, and we have no issues at all. Age is just a number. 2 consenting adults decide to date even with an age difference, so be it!
It works for them. They feel happy and they aren't hurting anybody.
Good luck to them all hope they remain happy for their rest of their days ❤❤❤❤
16 AND 45!!!!! You have GOT to be kidding. This is illegal
Got to be!
The age of consent in England is 16.
@@kdnick8584 well I guess it is legal but it. Certainly isn’t ok
Yes happiness and all the best for all these copulas. Nobody has the right to tell someone else who is for them and who is not for them. What they should or shouldn't be doing , or how they should or shouldn't be living. I'm seeing much more respect and love between these lovely people than your average joe relationships. No Taking for granted here.
Simon and Edna are actually so adorable and perfect for each other. Marilyn and William is very predatory and gives me the ick.
I have always preferred older women
My fiancé is 10 years younger than me, but we look the same age lol 😂 and he’s so much older in his ways! We’ve been together 10 years with a daughter.❤
Gr0 ss
Sounds similar to me .... Am 44 and he's 37 we been together 14 years and have 3 kids .
Yet am older than him in our pictures we look about the same . And we are unbelievably alike . X
@@jadebel7006and why is that gross ? How can a 10 year age gap be gross ? A ten year age gap is fine it makes zero difference as long they both adults in fact a 10 year age gap shouldn’t even be considered a big age gap cos it’s a normal age gap
@@trojanx7723 In my early fifties I had a two year relationship with a man ten years younger. I somehow looked younger than him. He finished our very good relationship as he could not cope with the age difference. Three years ago he contacted me saying that he had regrets. I ignored him, as the break up nearly killed me and I had lost all trust.
It's not gross, but it is significant when the female is older.
I’m 15 years older than my husband. We’ve been married for 30 years. At the age I am now, I’m scared because I know I’ll die pretty soon.
I know it's politically incorrect to say so, but I cringe at age gaps this large. Why would anyone want to date someone who has so much less life experience than you? What about meeting of the minds? equal maturity level? Male or female, I don't care...It's disturbing to me. I couldn't imagine dating someone of my daughters age; it's gross.
It isn't ideal I agree
Same
Agreed.... people say "age is just a number" and i'm like, yeah, it's the number of years you've been on earth lol 🤣 Why would anyone purposely go after someone more inexperienced than them? Seems fishy.
My Husband Is MUCH Younger And There Is Truth To What You Are Saying. In Some Ways, The Age Gap Is An Advantage Though-I Educate Him & His Youthfulness, Well, Let’s Say That Is To My Advantage.
I Married Him Because He Pursued & Courted Me, Is Kind And Decent And Made Me Fall In Love With Him.
He Is The Provider Cause I Sho Ain’t Got No Money. Do People Look? Yes!
I Feel God Gave Me A Mutual Love-Finally
I don't think you're giving the young people enough credit. we are not all dumb bimbos, with zero life experience, living in naivety. 🙄. Age really isn't so important at the end of the day.
I just love to see happiness in ppl no matter the circumstances I mean as long as it’s legal 😅
I feel happy if u agree with my friendship
Thanks for Sharing this Beautiful story. ❤❤❤
Simon is an old soul ❤. Sweet
It dont sit right with me a bit. But who am I to judge. No ones hurting anyone I suppose. Live and let live
For some people can work for some not! My husband is 19 years older then me and i don’t like it anymore even though we are married for 21years , I stil do not like him anymore and cannot stand him and looking forward to separate hopefully in a very near future. Good luck to all!
Perhaps you lack love, respect, affection, feelings, and a desire for everything. I think you lack that. Greetings to you from the country of Egypt.🌹
Live and let live.
I was in my 50s and met my now husband who was on his 70s. I can’t help it ! I love him. And we never know who will go first anyway.
Often times the younger one goes first.
I would. If it wasn´t for the fact that this woman was in her 40s and HE WAS 16. That´s literally my age, wtf
That man just getting his ps5 leave him alone 😂😂😂😂
If these people are happy, then I am happy for them. Whatever they do is none of my business. Live on!
Mike does not move like a 74 year old. He's young. Congratulations!!
I´m 16 myself and I find it extremely disturbing that a woman in HER 40s would find someone my age attractive.
It's the soul connection
@@jewels3895 Soul connection? Can you explain to me how is it remotely possible two people with an age gap big enough to be a mother and son would somehow make a romantic connection? Not to mention the fact of how illegal it would be
Yep!
She's 68, had a marriage of 50 years and became a widow 4 years ago? Then she was 14 when she married?
she was married off at 14 . , clearly brainwashed
I wondered about that too
So what,I am 79 my husband is 43,we have been married 11 years,and very happily.
You said it very well. Congratulations to you.
Well atleast you meant the person when he was and adult you didn’t meet him when he was 16 or younger lol
yeahh! me too,i'm happy for them.regardless of their age gap, they are all happy and in love.leave them alone and be happy for them.love is great!!
Simon is such a lovely man..funny too.
Am i the only person alive who does NOT want large boobs
Medium looks more in proportion
I like to look balanced
those jugglers were huge
I have naturally large boobs. I so wish I didn't. They are heavy and clothes don't fit me properly. If I try to wear the same as my smaller breasted friends, my clothes either look untidy or obscene 🙄If my friends got what they wished for they would soon understand that they are nothing but a nuisance!!
Easy to say when you don't have any to speak of, like myself. 😂😂😂😂 most small chested women WANT larger chests. Most large Chested women want smaller chests. 😂🤷♀️. It's just one of those funny things. Lol
Yes, you are the only one!
@@Nimue333 😏🌶️😅😅😅😅
Joan looks like an Egyptian mummy
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Bwahahaha! I can't with this comment 😂
When the uk government says 16 year old can have s3x and start a family but cant smoke or drink? We got a problem….
All theese people as married couples deserve full respect.
1. They live their own lifes not my, not yours.
2. They love each other respect each other, and support each other.
3. They accept each other inspite of big deferences in their age.
4. They accept to tell us their own love and life stories.
5. But you who made interview made horrible mistake. You hadn't ask them about their sexual and intimacy life. You must respect only one roule that you should respect their intimacy.
6. Becouse, they are normal people like us and respect that fact in the name of the God.
7. Esspecialy ,they suffered so much at their begginings coused by famillies, friends, and neiboroughs.
Are you married beautiful lady
All I can say is good luck to them….love is love ❤️
It certainly is
Agree!
Honestly with all the games and dishonesty I get from younger women around my age, I understand these men a bit more. Time to give up on my generation and go for the grannies.
I think an age gap is alright if your both over i would say 25 maybe even 30 but when ur 16 thats too young and she should have been locked up a man would have been
girl i tell ya this is wild. But the way i would have pressed charged on her ass if he was my child. Home girl would have have skipped town entirely.
@@PHlophe But it's the U.K. What law was broken? Age of consent is 16 there. So there's nothing that could have been done, legally speaking. But they were socially ostracized and the guy said all his teenaged friends deserted him.
In the past, in the U.K., it was extremely common for 16yr olds to finish school and then go into fulltime employment, move out on their own, maybe even get married. In the past, like the 60s, 70s, 80s, 16 yr olds were seen as pretty much adults - young adults at the start of their adult working lives, but still adults. Not children.
As we‘ve seen in other episode, there were enough men, who dated a 16-year-old girl.
Otherwise i agree with you: over 25 years old, then age gap years don’t matter.
You can't press charges here because the legal age of consent is 16.
@@PHlophe
@@SY-ok2dq I remember that, weird how now 16 year olds are seen as totally different, like they're no different from 8 year olds who play with action figures or Barbie dolls.
Love is the greatest thing in the world. Wherever it comes from one should grab it and enjoy.
Love doesnt kill you. It is a beautiful thing with or without age gap.❤
Pete and Niki look the same age…sorry if that comes as an insult…but I think people are mad because he was still married..not age difference…..
Thát’s what I allso thought, if you see them, you wouldn’t think about a big age gap…
Older women is where it’s at. I am 40, I am dating a 49 year old. She doesn’t play games and tells it to me straight. I love it.