Wow! It seems so long ago since we made the programme! 😍 We're both very happy to tell you all that after more than 13 years we are still together, blissfully happy in our own home with a Jack Russell to keep us on our toes, and loving the acceptance we now have from our families on both sides 🤗 Thanks to everyone who made those nice comments, and, as always, to those whose comments centered on my weight and other negatives, we'll just say. L.A.F.W.!! 😉🤗😍 Richard and Immy 💖
It's not the age gap that bothers me. It's when it turns into parenting rather than a partnership that creeps me out. The way Pat is ordering him about and speaking for him gives me a weird vibe. Especially when she mentioned he'd never had experience. It sounded like she was kind of mocking him and I know she's had a few hubby's but to not even remember their names?! That's just hurrendous James just reminds me of a guy that never grew out of his "15 year old gamer" phase and he just needs someone to aid that.
This is so sad for james parents i'm sure. You protect your children from preditors their whole life, to then have one come in after the time that you can't protect them. This women is a disgusting narcissistic sociopath. She acts like she is some kind of saint, Sick!!!!
I didn't want to say it. Also I might be wrong about James being maybe a little mentally disabled. And that shes taking advantage of that.. Kind of disturbing
My partner is 19 years younger than I am. I met him when he was 29 and I was 48. We’ve been together now 6 years. I’m 54 and he’s 35. I was very nervous meeting his parents because they’re just 12 years older than I am but we get along really well together and they don’t mind. They said I’m the first woman he’s dated that has her own money, doesn’t require his attention 24/7, doesn’t get jealous and we have no drama. I get him to try new things and he keeps me young. But I must say, I’m Asian and look 38 so people can’t tell we have an age gap. We run 6 miles a day and spend 2 hours at the gym 6 days a week. We go hiking, climbing, camping, hunting, skiing, golfing, dancing… we have a full and happy life. I used to worry about what people thought. Now I I don’t care. ❤
@@Myraisins1 I have 2 kids, he had one. He got a vasectomy, we don’t want anymore children. I wouldn’t have another baby even if I could. Not for all the money on earth 🤣
The poor cattle . Being shoved in a truck , poked with an electric cattle prodder, only to have their throats slit , while their relatives stand there watching
Not being funny but...what happened to the other 8 husbands, was infidelity involved? Did they all die unexpectedly? I think I would want to know if I was going to marry someone who had been married so many times. And poor Mark, he does seem like he may have some learning issues, bless him. Feel like he's been taken advantage of in a way.
Pat has serious problems, i can understand why marks parents were against this, she has been married 9 times and he is slow. Glad he is not my son otherwise pats backside would have been bouncing down my front steps.
Big talk but you wouldn't get away with your aggressive assault on someone."Slow"or not,Mark is an adult,and can do what he likes.So keep your violence to yourself.
@@nonsensetalk8953Some people are really bout that life. That woman is nuts and obviously taking advantage of a mildly disabled person. It's really a shame his family abandoned him.
Hubby & I have almost 18 years between us. Everyone said it will never last. Here we are thirty years later & still say we love each other at least four times a day. Age is just a number.
I don't think age is just a number, your age gap has worked for you, but if everyone thought it was acceptable for a 50 year old man, for instance, to have sex with a 13 year old then that's completely unacceptable, age matters.
Regardless of age, the ones that give me most hope are the couples that really like each other & who appreciate what their partner has brought to their lives. For eg, James put enormous effort into his proposal because Yet Wha means so much to him. He talks in terms of how much she’s bettered him as a man & you can see he truly admires & appreciates her. Age isn’t the issue, true respect, friendship & commitment are & are critical to a couple’s success. If you’re good friends who also happen to passionately love each other, I think you’ve got a better than average chance at success!
I totally caught that too! I thought it was pretty gross, not to mention entirely illegal, that they got together when she was only 17 & he was almost 44 y.o. Then she thought she would say she was 19 when they first met each other. Like the general public can't add & subtract or something. No wonder her family will not associate with them & they prefer to hide away from everyone they know.
17 is legal in the UK, and the relationship is standing the test of time. Also, a female is usually an adult by 18, so, not a big difference. I'm from Europe and dated a 39-year-old when i was 17. He was a bit surprised i was underage, but moved on. Nobody cared. Neither should you with this couple. She's no longer 17 anyway.
When James makes that stupid voice noise when saying "i love you" is enough to want me to knock him into nexr week. Good god he needs a baby sitter not a girlfriend 🙄 . As for Pat she is talking to him as if she is he is her son. Personally i dont think his family care about the age difference it would be more about how she is as a person and i think she comes across as a controlling user. Just my opinion but my gut tells me im right.😢
Holy crap your comment is brutal however you are correct though and tbh I don't think pat and James relationship will last though, I give them about 2 months tops
Is it just me, or is there something odd with Pat and Mark? Anyway, I think if you really love someone and you are adults, go for it! True love is beautiful!
I mean if he’s not able to make an informed decision- it’s wrong. She’s been married EIGHT times and could not remember their names. Not quickly forgotten- she literally couldn’t remember lol. I think she’s odd
Pat the rat is definitely a control freak, been married 8 times before….red flags galore there! Mark is her lil whipping boy, I can see why his parents didn’t attend the wedding
There is a 12-year age gap between my husband and me. I am 59 and he is almost 47. We love each other and that's all that matters to us. We have been married for 25 years and together for 26.
@@becksgroom49 15 years is still possible, but not 30 or 40 years that is even disgusting !! what is possible devide age of oldest by 2 and add 7 years that is the minimum age. So when you are 50 she may be 32y. I am 15 years older than my partner too.
Mark seems a bit slow, in which case he probably doesn't even have the mental capacity to question why his missus has been married so many times. She might even be taking advantage of that.
@@tessrobin4548who isn’t at the beginning of the relationship ?? Studies by law firms show marriages with a 20 year age gap have a divorce rate of 95 % When the gap is 30 years or more the chance is 167 %
I have a 31 year old special needs son he's mentally disabled but you can't tell just by looking at him. Mark reminds me exactly of my son. He even does the same thing with his tongue when he focuses on something. I guess the good thing about Pat and Mark is Mark can't get her pregnant. She's not after his money she's just wanting companionship I think. And his mother I'm sure is not happy she feels like an old lady is taking advantage of her special needs son. But really he has someone to take care of him to show him things to make sure he eats and bathes and all of that good stuff she's taking care of Mark. So Mark's mom can relax I know it's easier said than done. I have never liked a single girlfriend that my son has had. And that's just because with his cognitive disabilities he just doesn't know any better thats all. So I try to stay out of the way when it comes to his girlfriends but sometimes it's absolutely impossible and I have to speak up when they're just way way out there with their behavior or what they're saying I hope Mark and Pat Atlanta's last for a while I think it's good that they both have someone to keep them company and help each other. I don't think it's love I don't think Mark even knows what that means really. And after 8:00 marriages I don't think Pat does either but as long as they're not mean to each other or hurt each other then it's really not hurting anyone
I fell head over heals in love with a 55 year old man when I was 32 years old. I never had a preference for older men. Most of the men I dated were usually 3-7 years younger than me. I was always accused of being a gold digger from others but he wasn't wealthy at all. It didn't last, but the breakup had nothing to do with the age gap. I think it may seem unusual but you can't predict who you will love and sometimes that love can be met with hostility by people committed to societal norms.
@@chadshillAwww is that y’all? You guys are too lovely. 🥰. I hope your days are filled with love and laughter and from the bottom of my heart I genuinely wish you nothing but joy 🥰 🌈
She seems all about it though? Also they are laughing about him not being a sugar daddy but she also doesn’t need to work she just lives off of his income right?
Love the cattle trucking couple .think they are a great match and they both have an amazing sense of humor . Wish them many years of happiness and love .from the UK
I am not good in maths but I must be missing something. Six years ago she would be 17 ,,but you never know with these new generation things must have changed and I am too old to keep up
I am 52 and I have had age gap relationships that have gone both ways. Sometimes I am older by mire then 10 years. Other times they are older by more then ten. I am casually dating someone 20 years older then me, and we are having a lot of fun.
**SPOILER** I can't think of anything worse than popping that GIANT question in front of a load of people. I wonder how old this is and where are they now?
Asian women are usually taught at a young age to look after and cater to their husband but god she will have to have the patience of a saint to take him on this guy lives on cloud cuckoo land plus he’s so annoying
He definitely has mental problems. Maybe not even capable of making a legal commitment like a marriage. The other couples may be outside of the norm, but Pat and Mark being together is sick.
Age isn't just a number, pedophiles use that excuse. Age gap love is appropriate when there are two consenting adults whose mental capacities and values align.
I really liked yetwah ( spelling) and her "toy boy" as a couple until he did that non proposal proposal on her which was absolutely lousy. Asking someone to marry you out of the blue in front of their family and friends isn't a proposal at all it's emotional black mail. They can't say no without putting everyone involved through enormous embarrassment so it's about as far from a genuine gesture as I could imagine. Either he's really too thick to understanding that in which case she's best out of it or he absolutely saw that and that's why he did it - in which she's also best out of it.
She says she doesn’t remember all there names if they are as intelligent as number 9 I’m not surprised I would forget them scratch that I wouldn’t have married them in the first place but some people just can’t live themselves and therefore tend to take what they can get and as a result they end up with a lower intellectual specimen as these people need a mother not a partner and no one of there own age would take them on thank god they can’t procreate
My spouse and I only have an 8 year age gap. I can certainly relate to having many reasons our relationship shouldn't work. It just does. Seventeen years in, and we have the happiest marriage of anyone I know.
Omggggg don't know which is worse...Bob's bum or the tatt on his head 🤣🤣 good luck to em I say. Not sure about Pat n Mark tho...9 times married n can't remember the previous 8 hubbies names 🤔
Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages. As long as both are adults, then it is nobody’s business but theirs. Why do people think they have any business judging who someone loves? As my grandmother used to say, mind your own business and hush. ❤
Poor Bob and Kelly .they seem nice together. And Bob is thinking about her future . That's a really nice thing for him to do. He's thinking about her having babies and a family of her own. The saying if you love someone set them free comes to mind . He knows he's too old to have anymore kids with her . These are the things people don't think about when going into these relationships
We come to this earth at different times. We are ageless spirits, and it is only the body that ages. So if we meet someone of any age that we truly love, the body is not a consideration if both parties want whatever time they can have together. They know they both won't grow old together, and that the younger one may turn into a caregiver or leave if it gets to be too much. They know what can happen. So they are happy right now, and right now is all anyone has anyway. When we go back where we came from, time doesn't matter.
Well, guess what Marilyn? I did, once my steroid treatments had finished I easily managed to drop those extra kilos.. Whilst we're into personal and not particularly pleasant comments, Marilyn, did you ever get around to the botox and fillers you were in need of? 💅🏼
Thank you for uploading yhis, i remember watxhing this documentary ages ago but couldnt find it when i searched. Happy to see someone archived it thank you!
It's not as significant as the age gaps here, but my husband is 13 years my senior and we just celebrated 5 years together. Hands down the best relationship I've ever been in. We met when I was 26 and he was 39. I would find and love him again no matter the age gap in any and every life time.
Same age gap between me and my husband. I've always been drawn to older men. The oldest age gap for me was 20yrs. It's funny because when I first went out with the guy 20yrs. Older than me he subtracted 10 yrs. 😅
The cattle herding couple...that girl couldn't be more young and immature just based on her covnvo flow. He's old and severyly obese obvi taking advantage of that sitch. And hate to point this out but they are probably transporting cows for industrial farming and processing...this is a U.K. series but in the USA esp. up midwest north is where tons of industrial farms and plants are its effing terrible and gross, I've seen many on roadtrips tucked qlong back roads and esp. Near amish towns- so many documentaries on that too. Those poor cows were just probably scared being yelled at and shuttled into unfamiliar boxed in truck that isnt grass. Then having to stand up in that metal crammed for hours. Its a gross industry that I'll never supoort and what led me to be pescetarian😢
This got me all upset, too. She was clearly underage when they got together and those poor cows. You know they're all going to slaughter houses. Also how they hit them with the prods. I used to live in the Midwest and I would see those trucks all the time. They're so upsetting.
When I was growing up my mother always told me to marry a man who was younger. She said that, because generally women live longer than men. I am not sure if I was influenced by her or not, but I have always liked younger men. I have noticed over the years, that alot of older men are grumpy. (not all, but alot of them are)
@sadekHessen If you're not bothered by what either of us say, why bother to make your pointless statement? If you think being a widower of many years is something that appeals to you, good luck to you!
Omg, 9 husbands!!!! 😮 I thought my gran was wild, with three. And she got remarried at 65. But, this woman is really wild!! Marriage is very expensive, emotionally draining in daily life, if not harmonious, and divorce can be even more !! Yikes... And she's not even really pretty nor a hollywood star!! 😂 Plus, I do find it scary, the parenting side of such this relationship. Which also can occur with no age gaps.
Better have kids with him if she truly loves him. Kids will lose dad early, but knowing their parents loved each other would matter. On the other hand, Bob may well live another 20 years, and she'll be too old by then to get pregnant.
Pat has a Saviour Complex , Resucing some one in very dangerous because one day the resentment on both sides kicks in big time and both parties are too exhausted to admit it and too broken to leave.
Mark is a lot like my friends brother who is mentally not all the way up to his age … he was not born that way, blood was in his diaper mom rushed him to the hospital trusting that they was going to treat him accordingly, apparently they dehydrated the baby meaning not giving him fluids 3 days causing brain damage , parents sued the hospital and was granted a large sim but doesn’t even make up the damage that was done :( no amount can :( in any case he is now 44 and looks and talks exactly like mark but keoni had more “ fun side” to him meaning he laughed a lot a bit more playful but over all this guy reminds me a lot of him… ppl may think this woman is taking advantage, maybe she is in a way but honestly he wouldn’t be there with her if he didn’t want her.. he is an adult I would be lie hmmmm no if he was18 but 28 it’s whatever
If I am being honest I find the large age gaps creepy. It just feels very much like fetishism, and the couples are not always at the same level due to the age difference.
Sorry, I can't remember names. The trucker needs to throw out his girly calendar. He has a young woman half his age, and he said they don't have any money, and she lives in a box. He should consider himself Fortunate. The least he can do is throw out that calendar. It's rude and disrespectful flaunting it in her face. The Asian woman doesn't look much older than her boyfriend if any, so I don't feel that she should worry about appearances, and I thought his surprise engagement party was wonderful.
Love, respect, desire for affection, feelings, feelings from within...there is no difference in age, appearance, traditions, etc. I know that love is a blessing. I have seen many people in these successful love stories.. When I find love with a woman, I take care of her, I respect the privacy of life with her, I am jealous. Very much for her. What I mean is love is a blessing that I must take care of. Maybe one day I will find this quickly. Greetings to all of you from an Egyptian young man. I wish you peace, people in the world.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The math isnt adding up with Liz & Richard. She’s 23. She said they’d been married for a year and dating for 7. Which means she was 16. But then she said she met him when she was 19…NONE of that adds up at all!!!🧐🧐🧐
It's because being under age is so frowned upon in the US. I saw a lovely couple on a European talk show (much classier than this one). She was 17 and he 51 when they started dating, and they weren't ashamed about it. I think they had been together for 15 years by then. A 17-year-old female is not a child.
I looooooove the gay couple, they give me hope for the future. They are so cute together and I’m delighted to learn that they’re still together. Yay! 🥳
I wish them all love and happiness for all times. Love is for all, and love is beautyfull is all it forms ❤ Dont let age be another rift between people, dont we allready have enough of that with race, religion, idiology, etc, etc? Love before hate, please.
They do seem suited for each other and happy together. It did seem kinda sketchy that she was a teenager when they met, but it was legal at least according to her.
Wow! It seems so long ago since we made the programme! 😍
We're both very happy to tell you all that after more than 13 years we are still together, blissfully happy in our own home with a Jack Russell to keep us on our toes, and loving the acceptance we now have from our families on both sides 🤗
Thanks to everyone who made those nice comments, and, as always, to those whose comments centered on my weight and other negatives, we'll just say. L.A.F.W.!! 😉🤗😍
Richard and Immy 💖
So happy both families have acknowledged & accepted your relationship. ❤
Jack Russell, great choice!
❤ love a happy ending!
Congratulations!
You are my favourite couple on this video- how wonderful that you are happy and well. Wishing you many more great years together!
Never ask someone to marry you in front of other people. Ever.
Is that because of the pressure to say yes in front of others? (even if they don't want to)
I agree it’s just not right
@@museonfilm8919exactly
It's just a lot of pressure. It's better to have an engagement party afterwards
I have heard of that, Sarah. Not everything has to be out in the open.
It's not the age gap that bothers me. It's when it turns into parenting rather than a partnership that creeps me out. The way Pat is ordering him about and speaking for him gives me a weird vibe. Especially when she mentioned he'd never had experience. It sounded like she was kind of mocking him and I know she's had a few hubby's but to not even remember their names?! That's just hurrendous
James just reminds me of a guy that never grew out of his "15 year old gamer" phase and he just needs someone to aid that.
This is so sad for james parents i'm sure. You protect your children from preditors their whole life, to then have one come in after the time that you can't protect them. This women is a disgusting narcissistic sociopath. She acts like she is some kind of saint, Sick!!!!
You put my thoughts into words, she has the eternal son and he has a replacement mum, I've had big age gaps but I was always the mature one.
I think Pat preys on the low IQ of a man.
And she has been Married 8 times before?? No thats absolute craziness
I didn't want to say it. Also I might be wrong about James being maybe a little mentally disabled. And that shes taking advantage of that.. Kind of disturbing
My partner is 19 years younger than I am. I met him when he was 29 and I was 48. We’ve been together now 6 years. I’m 54 and he’s 35. I was very nervous meeting his parents because they’re just 12 years older than I am but we get along really well together and they don’t mind. They said I’m the first woman he’s dated that has her own money, doesn’t require his attention 24/7, doesn’t get jealous and we have no drama. I get him to try new things and he keeps me young. But I must say, I’m Asian and look 38 so people can’t tell we have an age gap. We run 6 miles a day and spend 2 hours at the gym 6 days a week. We go hiking, climbing, camping, hunting, skiing, golfing, dancing… we have a full and happy life. I used to worry about what people thought. Now I I don’t care. ❤
@naomid Do you have children and has that been a topic of conversation?
@@Myraisins1 I have 2 kids, he had one. He got a vasectomy, we don’t want anymore children. I wouldn’t have another baby even if I could. Not for all the money on earth 🤣
@@SnowWhite717_ Okay. You're an inspiration!
I'm looking for a young woman.. Asian would be great. Do you know any available ???
The poor cattle . Being shoved in a truck , poked with an electric cattle prodder, only to have their throats slit , while their relatives stand there watching
Bob in the shower…..who the hell approved of that scene? 😬
Exactly my thoughts 😅😮
I know I thought the ultimate tmi
He loved it!!
Bob tested mother approved
AI i suppose 😅
I don't like Pat! She seems manipulative. I mean, 8! husbands before her current one?
I wonder if they all ate the mushrooms?
Clever (from an Aussie)
Not being funny but...what happened to the other 8 husbands, was infidelity involved? Did they all die unexpectedly? I think I would want to know if I was going to marry someone who had been married so many times. And poor Mark, he does seem like he may have some learning issues, bless him. Feel like he's been taken advantage of in a way.
But love is love so beautiful 🌹
@@katewolfspirit6722
@@iceladi01Your a Collingwood fan
James and Yet Wah look the same age, despite the 20 year age gap. It’s the youthful Asian genes! 🧬
It's true they have amazing age genes for some reason must be all the seaweed and seafood.
They definitely look and act different ages, even if it's not as pronounced as a larger gap.
The Elmo sounding "I love yew!" Would be a deal breaker.
Pat has serious problems, i can understand why marks parents were against this, she has been married 9 times and he is slow. Glad he is not my son otherwise pats backside would have been bouncing down my front steps.
I wouldn't even give her time to bounce, her sneaky ass would be on the footpath with the tracks of my size 8 on it .
My thoughts EXACTLY!!!
Big talk but you wouldn't get away with your aggressive assault on someone."Slow"or not,Mark is an adult,and can do what he likes.So keep your violence to yourself.
@@nonsensetalk8953oooh, triggered 😂😂😂😂. Jog on
@@nonsensetalk8953Some people are really bout that life. That woman is nuts and obviously taking advantage of a mildly disabled person. It's really a shame his family abandoned him.
I do not agree with public proposals as it puts the woman on the spot.
Hubby & I have almost 18 years between us. Everyone said it will never last. Here we are thirty years later & still say we love each other at least four times a day. Age is just a number.
How did you guys meet?
he prob cheated on you btw
Awww that’s fantastic 🙌🏽😍
Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈🍾☺️
I don't think age is just a number, your age gap has worked for you, but if everyone thought it was acceptable for a 50 year old man, for instance, to have sex with a 13 year old then that's completely unacceptable, age matters.
@charlottebruce979 That's completely different. This is about consensual relationships between adults of different ages, not having sex with a child!
Pat is taking advantage of Mark, he is disabled, it needs to be reported, she knows damn well what she’s doing… disgusting 😢
Totally agree. She’s probably getting some form of carers benefit money too. This isn’t love.
Silly people with silly opinions?.
Controlling and narcissist people isolate you from friends and family to maintain control. He "does as he's told " says a LOT
Mark's family probably has a problem with PAT as a person, not her age.
I was hoping he's just a bit slow & has the disadvantage of a tongue too big for his mouth 🤷🏾♀️
Regardless of age, the ones that give me most hope are the couples that really like each other & who appreciate what their partner has brought to their lives. For eg, James put enormous effort into his proposal because Yet Wha means so much to him. He talks in terms of how much she’s bettered him as a man & you can see he truly admires & appreciates her. Age isn’t the issue, true respect, friendship & commitment are & are critical to a couple’s success. If you’re good friends who also happen to passionately love each other, I think you’ve got a better than average chance at success!
Totally agree 👍🏿😊💕
James and Yet Wha are a cute couple.
Pat is a predator.
Yes! And 8 men were smart enough to find out how manipulative she is. But poor Mark....
I get the feeling she left them given the fact she can't remember their names. She pathological.@@elisabethelias681
like what does he see in her? I am confused
Pat needs to be locked up.....she is taking advantage of this poor boy
And her punishment, should be sharing a cell with James, The Master of SillyBilly Cute Noises
Did anyone else catch that Liz is 23 and said twice that they've been together 6 years...but she was 19 when they met. Something doesn't add up.
I did finger counting and everything when she gave the numbers!
I totally caught that too! I thought it was pretty gross, not to mention entirely illegal, that they got together when she was only 17 & he was almost 44 y.o. Then she thought she would say she was 19 when they first met each other. Like the general public can't add & subtract or something. No wonder her family will not associate with them & they prefer to hide away from everyone they know.
17 is legal in the UK, and the relationship is standing the test of time. Also, a female is usually an adult by 18, so, not a big difference. I'm from Europe and dated a 39-year-old when i was 17. He was a bit surprised i was underage, but moved on. Nobody cared. Neither should you with this couple. She's no longer 17 anyway.
I'm way more shocked about the 55-year-old woman with a 23-year-old boy. But, again, they are happy, so who cares.
Her math skills
I think a few of these people seem to have learning difficulties - or at least something seems amiss.
Agreed. There is some sort of mental and/or social deficiency in most of these couples.
@@marigoldbeam5475I thought the same thing it's sad mark and pat seem she's the boss
You're right.
When James makes that stupid voice noise when saying "i love you" is enough to want me to knock him into nexr week. Good god he needs a baby sitter not a girlfriend 🙄 .
As for Pat she is talking to him as if she is he is her son. Personally i dont think his family care about the age difference it would be more about how she is as a person and i think she comes across as a controlling user. Just my opinion but my gut tells me im right.😢
Pat should spend a week in a cell with James. I think that would be wonderful for them both...
She will be claiming carers benefits for him.
Holy crap your comment is brutal however you are correct though and tbh I don't think pat and James relationship will last though, I give them about 2 months tops
25 years age difference between my partner and myself, and we have a wonderful life together. Both of our families are very accepting and supportive.
Is it just me, or is there something odd with Pat and Mark? Anyway, I think if you really love someone and you are adults, go for it! True love is beautiful!
I got the impression that Mark is mentally challenged.
I mean if he’s not able to make an informed decision- it’s wrong. She’s been married EIGHT times and could not remember their names. Not quickly forgotten- she literally couldn’t remember lol. I think she’s odd
Oh, it's definitely not just you
Pat the rat is definitely a control freak, been married 8 times before….red flags galore there! Mark is her lil whipping boy, I can see why his parents didn’t attend the wedding
He's content and seems to need her.
~ This one will work out, for obvious reasons......
She’s a nutter and lying being married 8 times before .
Please don't call her a rat 🐀 that's insulting rats the four legged kind😅
@@mariabrett6712 agree 😂😂😂😂🐀
This Pat character, taking advantage of a mentally challenged person and cutting him off his family, she is a criminal.
She’s no quite all their herself either.
How have they been together 6 years and she is 23 but they got together when she was 19 ? The math doesn't add up
That's a Great question. I wondered about that math too.
I thought the same thing. Together 6 years and she's 23 😒😒😒
For fear of saying she is/was underage 😂
19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years maybe she is nearly 24
19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years. Maybe she is nearly 24
There is a 12-year age gap between my husband and me. I am 59 and he is almost 47. We love each other and that's all that matters to us. We have been married for 25 years and together for 26.
I'm 57 and my lovely one is 44. It works x
@@becksgroom49 15 years is still possible, but not 30 or 40 years that is even disgusting !! what is possible devide age of oldest by 2 and add 7 years that is the minimum age. So when you are 50 she may be 32y. I am 15 years older than my partner too.
I'm 13yrs. and 1 day younger than my husband and we've been together for 23 yrs now!❤
Kudos to all of these couples for living their lives the way they please-it is their life to live the way they please. They aren’t hurting anybody.
Being married for the ninth time is wild!
you can understand you marry 1 time, when you marry 2 times you are not so smart, but 3 times or more you must have very low IQ
Mark seems a bit slow, in which case he probably doesn't even have the mental capacity to question why his missus has been married so many times. She might even be taking advantage of that.
He may talk slowly but that doesn't mean he's slow mentally. They're in a good place it seems.
It's f*cking disgusting. 32 year age gap 🙄🤢
@@tessrobin4548who isn’t at the beginning of the relationship ?? Studies by law firms show marriages with a 20 year age gap have a divorce rate of 95 %
When the gap is 30 years or more the chance is 167 %
@@Lunchladydoyle167%😅😅😅 what kind of percentage is that
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I have a 31 year old special needs son he's mentally disabled but you can't tell just by looking at him. Mark reminds me exactly of my son. He even does the same thing with his tongue when he focuses on something. I guess the good thing about Pat and Mark is Mark can't get her pregnant. She's not after his money she's just wanting companionship I think. And his mother I'm sure is not happy she feels like an old lady is taking advantage of her special needs son. But really he has someone to take care of him to show him things to make sure he eats and bathes and all of that good stuff she's taking care of Mark. So Mark's mom can relax I know it's easier said than done. I have never liked a single girlfriend that my son has had. And that's just because with his cognitive disabilities he just doesn't know any better thats all. So I try to stay out of the way when it comes to his girlfriends but sometimes it's absolutely impossible and I have to speak up when they're just way way out there with their behavior or what they're saying I hope Mark and Pat Atlanta's last for a while I think it's good that they both have someone to keep them company and help each other. I don't think it's love I don't think Mark even knows what that means really. And after 8:00 marriages I don't think Pat does either but as long as they're not mean to each other or hurt each other then it's really not hurting anyone
I absolutely agree. ❤
Now Bob we didn't need that image of you in the shower
Tattoo of his lady on the head? That shows real class (or should I say NO class!)
@@museonfilm8919 He shows (no) class but lots of ass! ;-))
😂😂😂 and a closeup of his bootie! Oh boy. Lol.
@@museonfilm8919so ppl w tattoos have no class ?😂😂😂
IDK why they wanted him naked, but I didn't.
No judgement on age gap relationships. With that said, Mark seems to have developmental issues, and it seems weird how Pat interacts with and for him…
To me, she too seems to have it.
My Fella & I are 22 Years apart. He is 59 & I am 37.... we have been together 7 years next Saturday
Congrats Karis❤❤❤
bob in the shower like that .... i'm officially dead forever💀☠💀
Oh common!
How silly of you.....good grief
How silly of you.....good grief...🙄
@nnh5050, Thanks for the laugh😂😂😂
A promise of commitment off pat is comfort to a fool
I fell head over heals in love with a 55 year old man when I was 32 years old. I never had a preference for older men. Most of the men I dated were usually 3-7 years younger than me. I was always accused of being a gold digger from others but he wasn't wealthy at all. It didn't last, but the breakup had nothing to do with the age gap. I think it may seem unusual but you can't predict who you will love and sometimes that love can be met with hostility by people committed to societal norms.
“I love Bob’s blue eyes-“ those are cataracts, dear
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMG 🤭 LMFAO 😆😂🤣💀
I have a 17 year age gap....my BF is 20 n I'm 37....but we get along so good n he treats me like a queen 💗
Same here age gap 20 years. I was 17 when I married him at 35. We are now 30 and 50 ❤️
Mark, blink twice if your in danger 💀
OMG LMFAO 😂 Seriously though! Poor guy doesn't know any better 😕
9 times getting married!! There should be a stop somewhere lol 😅
She’s lying she’s a nutter and predator
Omg hahaha she can’t even remember all her husbands names 😂
Exactly. she needs a slap.😮
Because she’s lying she’s a nutter .shes probably been married twice
Bob looks better than me in the shower. Go, Bob, it's your birthday! ❤😊
Okay but the gay couple is too sweet for words 🥹
Thank you 🤗 that's so nice of you to say... 🤗💖
@@chadshillAwww is that y’all? You guys are too lovely. 🥰. I hope your days are filled with love and laughter and from the bottom of my heart I genuinely wish you nothing but joy 🥰 🌈
Yep, that's us! Almost 14 years together now and stronger than ever! 👍🏼🤗😍
I agree. They are the most adorable in this episode.
@annabiotic1078 that's very kind of you to say 🤗 thanks so much 🤗
That trucker couple were very suspect … their relationship definitely started when she was underage 🤮🤮🤮
She seems all about it though? Also they are laughing about him not being a sugar daddy but she also doesn’t need to work she just lives off of his income right?
Ran to the comments so fast 💨 when I heard pats been married FUCKING 9 times goddamn 💀😳
Love the cattle trucking couple .think they are a great match and they both have an amazing sense of humor . Wish them many years of happiness and love .from the UK
She’s 23 and said they’d been together 6 years but then she said she was 19 when they met 🤷🏻♀️
@@ANNtiquerighhtttt, I think she knows how it would look if she said “I just turned 17” so she’s tried to blag it 😬
I am not good in maths but I must be missing something. Six years ago she would be 17 ,,but you never know with these new generation things must have changed and I am too old to keep up
I am 52 and I have had age gap relationships that have gone both ways. Sometimes I am older by mire then 10 years. Other times they are older by more then ten. I am casually dating someone 20 years older then me, and we are having a lot of fun.
WTF!!! Pat has been married 8 times prior? If that isn't a red flag I don't know what is.
I think that truck driver is quite annoying....
He loves himself, and says he has a great sense of humour.
I beg to differ.
Seems like he doesn't give a crap about his wife, looks bored af.
He's thick as they come.
@@katewolfspirit6722I agree.
**SPOILER**
I can't think of anything worse than popping that GIANT question
in front of a load of people.
I wonder how old this is and where are they now?
Made in 2014
But how creating and cute that was 🥹
Pat really loves a wedding! Poor vulnerable Mark.
I think Pat just loves wedding cake 😂
Ok I don’t need to see Bob naked. That said, Kelly looks close to his age. I think they actually were old souls together.🎉
Not as bad as seeing that truck driver in the shower. 😬
The Asian woman does look quite a bit younger than she is.
Asian genes 💪
Asian women are usually taught at a young age to look after and cater to their husband but god she will have to have the patience of a saint to take him on this guy lives on cloud cuckoo land plus he’s so annoying
She’s beautiful!
She is very pretty :)
She seriously picked a total freak, though! He is dumb, and beyond annoying.
That guy with the weird voices. That’ll get old fast..
Everyone should just do what makes them happy; who cares. Just because I don't understand it doesn't mean it's wrong!
This show is from 2014. I wonder how many are still together or even alive ?
They made a documentary on that exact topic
I don’t judge because that’s not my job but I do question Pat…. I wonder if Mark gets like a SSI check every month?
Either way, seems he's the one cooking and cleaning while she just watches.
He definitely has mental problems. Maybe not even capable of making a legal commitment like a marriage. The other couples may be outside of the norm, but Pat and Mark being together is sick.
My grandpa once tried to teach my grandma how to drive. Let's just say that it was a short-lived effort.
True Love overcomes all barriers in age, caste, culture, tradition and language. Love from India❤
Great documentary, i am happy for them❤. Age is just a number when it comes on love.The only limitations are the ones you set for yourself.
Age isn't just a number, pedophiles use that excuse. Age gap love is appropriate when there are two consenting adults whose mental capacities and values align.
So Mark needed another mother 😮
That was my first thought!
I really liked yetwah ( spelling) and her "toy boy" as a couple until he did that non proposal proposal on her which was absolutely lousy.
Asking someone to marry you out of the blue in front of their family and friends isn't a proposal at all it's emotional black mail. They can't say no without putting everyone involved through enormous embarrassment so it's about as far from a genuine gesture as I could imagine.
Either he's really too thick to understanding that in which case she's best out of it or he absolutely saw that and that's why he did it - in which she's also best out of it.
8 times my my something wrong with her
She says she doesn’t remember all there names if they are as intelligent as number 9 I’m not surprised I would forget them scratch that I wouldn’t have married them in the first place but some people just can’t live themselves and therefore tend to take what they can get and as a result they end up with a lower intellectual specimen as these people need a mother not a partner and no one of there own age would take them on thank god they can’t procreate
Her problem is she keeps getting married. It's ok to be single or just dating.
Some people just like weddings - just like some (for whatever bizarre reason) watch Christmas movie channels all year long!!
@@museonfilm8919 Yes, you and I are on the same wavelength! It's a funny old world...
Love the white wedding dress and the long viel, who is this old woman kidding,
Poor Mark is obviously mentally disabled SEVERELY. Who proposed to whom?
My spouse and I only have an 8 year age gap. I can certainly relate to having many reasons our relationship shouldn't work. It just does. Seventeen years in, and we have the happiest marriage of anyone I know.
Eight years is not considered significant by any means.
Me and my partner are 8 years apart, too, it's not really an age gap.
An age gap is like 12 to 15 years at least.
I don’t consider anything under 10 years as significant…
Richard & Immy seem a very happy nice couple ... 😊
Thankyou 🤗 that's very nice of you to say 👍🏼 happily, we're still together and even stronger after 13 happy years ☺️🤗💖
Omggggg don't know which is worse...Bob's bum or the tatt on his head 🤣🤣 good luck to em I say. Not sure about Pat n Mark tho...9 times married n can't remember the previous 8 hubbies names 🤔
That’s what she’s saying we don’t know how many times she’s been married she’s probably lying .shes probably been married twice .shes a nutter .
Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages. As long as both are adults, then it is nobody’s business but theirs. Why do people think they have any business judging who someone loves? As my grandmother used to say, mind your own business and hush. ❤
Mark looks utterly trapped.I've never once described my relationship as my older partner holding a gun to my head 💀
Poor Bob and Kelly .they seem nice together. And Bob is thinking about her future . That's a really nice thing for him to do. He's thinking about her having babies and a family of her own. The saying if you love someone set them free comes to mind . He knows he's too old to have anymore kids with her . These are the things people don't think about when going into these relationships
Yeah, but is she's supposed to wait until he croaks and he lives another 20 years, her window to conceive will be closed.
*if
We come to this earth at different times. We are ageless spirits, and it is only the body that ages. So if we meet someone of any age that we truly love, the body is not a consideration if both parties want whatever time they can have together. They know they both won't grow old together, and that the younger one may turn into a caregiver or leave if it gets to be too much. They know what can happen. So they are happy right now, and right now is all anyone has anyway. When we go back where we came from, time doesn't matter.
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9 times married !
Hey lady what didn't you learn after the 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 marriage...lol
Nuts !
Australia
Massive red flag
If Richard doesn’t lose some weight he won’t be around for much longer.
Well, guess what Marilyn? I did, once my steroid treatments had finished I easily managed to drop those extra kilos..
Whilst we're into personal and not particularly pleasant comments, Marilyn, did you ever get around to the botox and fillers you were in need of? 💅🏼
Thank you for uploading yhis, i remember watxhing this documentary ages ago but couldnt find it when i searched. Happy to see someone archived it thank you!
The truck driver couple is funny.
It's not as significant as the age gaps here, but my husband is 13 years my senior and we just celebrated 5 years together. Hands down the best relationship I've ever been in. We met when I was 26 and he was 39. I would find and love him again no matter the age gap in any and every life time.
Wow! I have a similar story. We have a 12 age gap, I was 26 and he was 38 when we met. Happy to hear you guys are going strong! Us too ❤
Same age gap between me and my husband. I've always been drawn to older men. The oldest age gap for me was 20yrs. It's funny because when I first went out with the guy 20yrs. Older than me he subtracted 10 yrs. 😅
The cattle herding couple...that girl couldn't be more young and immature just based on her covnvo flow. He's old and severyly obese obvi taking advantage of that sitch. And hate to point this out but they are probably transporting cows for industrial farming and processing...this is a U.K. series but in the USA esp. up midwest north is where tons of industrial farms and plants are its effing terrible and gross, I've seen many on roadtrips tucked qlong back roads and esp. Near amish towns- so many documentaries on that too. Those poor cows were just probably scared being yelled at and shuttled into unfamiliar boxed in truck that isnt grass. Then having to stand up in that metal crammed for hours. Its a gross industry that I'll never supoort and what led me to be pescetarian😢
This got me all upset, too. She was clearly underage when they got together and those poor cows. You know they're all going to slaughter houses. Also how they hit them with the prods. I used to live in the Midwest and I would see those trucks all the time. They're so upsetting.
@moniinnola Thanks for bringing this up. I don't eat beef or any mammals for the same reasons.
When I was growing up my mother always told me to marry a man who was younger. She said that, because generally women live longer than men. I am not sure if I was influenced by her or not, but I have always liked younger men. I have noticed over the years, that alot of older men are grumpy. (not all, but alot of them are)
Exactly, on average, women live five years longer, if you want to avoid being a widow for years marry a younger man!!
So what
@sadekHessen If you're not bothered by what either of us say, why bother to make your pointless statement? If you think being a widower of many years is something that appeals to you, good luck to you!
@@charlottebruce979 but love is love
No problem for women if she wants love
Omg, 9 husbands!!!! 😮
I thought my gran was wild, with three. And she got remarried at 65. But, this woman is really wild!!
Marriage is very expensive, emotionally draining in daily life, if not harmonious, and divorce can be even more !! Yikes...
And she's not even really pretty nor a hollywood star!! 😂 Plus, I do find it scary, the parenting side of such this relationship. Which also can occur with no age gaps.
Mandem says the triple warmy... religion, race, age gap, you forgot you are gay mate...some society still have a problem with it!
Yikes , “wont mind having children in the future just not with bob” 🤡😂😂😂😂
Better have kids with him if she truly loves him. Kids will lose dad early, but knowing their parents loved each other would matter.
On the other hand, Bob may well live another 20 years, and she'll be too old by then to get pregnant.
“Mark hadn’t had a relationship…” because he’s developmentally delayed and she’s a serial marrier. She’s taking advantage of him !
Pat has a Saviour Complex , Resucing some one in very dangerous because one day the resentment on both sides kicks in big time and both parties are too exhausted to admit it and too broken to leave.
The 'love you' in a child's voice, no, just no! 😂
Bob and his shower. Lol
I mean....who on earth scripted that? And why did he agree? 😳
It was so hot.
He isn't bad for an old codger 😅
@@cherylween4973 He's got a better bum than many younger men!
🤢 no thanks
That lovely indian man, can't spell his name.... but he's absolutely gorgeous and so handsome ❤❤❤
Aww thank you. My partner Richard still thinks so too 😊
I can confirm that, up close, he's even better looking and has grown even more handsome over the few years since we made the programme 🤗💖
Mark is a lot like my friends brother who is mentally not all the way up to his age … he was not born that way, blood was in his diaper mom rushed him to the hospital trusting that they was going to treat him accordingly, apparently they dehydrated the baby meaning not giving him fluids 3 days causing brain damage , parents sued the hospital and was granted a large sim but doesn’t even make up the damage that was done :( no amount can :( in any case he is now 44 and looks and talks exactly like mark but keoni had more “ fun side” to him meaning he laughed a lot a bit more playful but over all this guy reminds me a lot of him… ppl may think this woman is taking advantage, maybe she is in a way but honestly he wouldn’t be there with her if he didn’t want her.. he is an adult I would be lie hmmmm no if he was18 but 28 it’s whatever
It seems like she is also a carer. So provided she is trustworthy (which she certainly appears to be) Mark would be benefitting.
She has been married eight times before; LOL for her wearing a white dress on the wedding day
If he is mentally disabled, his age doesn't matter. It should have been determined, if he is fit to make the decision to get married.
Quite a few people in these age gap videos seem intellectually challenged in some way.
Pat has been married before….8 times
8 TIMES?!?
Richard and Immy are so cute!
Thankyou 🤗 that's really sweet of you to say 🤗💖
If I am being honest I find the large age gaps creepy. It just feels very much like fetishism, and the couples are not always at the same level due to the age difference.
I agree!
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James and his family are classic examples of the wonders of NHS Dentistry!
Sorry, I can't remember names. The trucker needs to throw out his girly calendar. He has a young woman half his age, and he said they don't have any money, and she lives in a box. He should consider himself Fortunate. The least he can do is throw out that calendar. It's rude and disrespectful flaunting it in her face. The Asian woman doesn't look much older than her boyfriend if any, so I don't feel that she should worry about appearances, and I thought his surprise engagement party was wonderful.
Love, respect, desire for affection, feelings, feelings from within...there is no difference in age, appearance, traditions, etc. I know that love is a blessing. I have seen many people in these successful love stories.. When I find love with a woman, I take care of her, I respect the privacy of life with her, I am jealous. Very much for her. What I mean is love is a blessing that I must take care of. Maybe one day I will find this quickly. Greetings to all of you from an Egyptian young man. I wish you peace, people in the world.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
‘I’m 23, we’ve been together for 6 years… we met when I had just turned 19’. Umm… maths no make sense
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Mark doesn't seem of normal intslligence.
intelligence
Hmmmm.....eat your words sweetheart!!
@@sp-1973awww! It’s just a typo.
@@AidaShawJ.D. yes you are right and it happens often with most of us.😄
@@AidaShawJ.D. you clearly don't understand the irony here!
The math isnt adding up with Liz & Richard. She’s 23. She said they’d been married for a year and dating for 7. Which means she was 16. But then she said she met him when she was 19…NONE of that adds up at all!!!🧐🧐🧐
It's because being under age is so frowned upon in the US.
I saw a lovely couple on a European talk show (much classier than this one). She was 17 and he 51 when they started dating, and they weren't ashamed about it. I think they had been together for 15 years by then. A 17-year-old female is not a child.
I looooooove the gay couple, they give me hope for the future. They are so cute together and I’m delighted to learn that they’re still together. Yay! 🥳
I always enjoy these stories about hedge gap loves. For me, it just does show love overcomes everything when maintained there are.
Age gap
I wish them all love and happiness for all times. Love is for all, and love is beautyfull is all it forms ❤ Dont let age be another rift between people, dont we allready have enough of that with race, religion, idiology, etc, etc? Love before hate, please.
Well said!!!!
*beautiful
Woke.
Mark may need a personal advocate.
I like the trucker couple. They are sweet and the lady seems mature
Me too! Yes she does!
Richard needs to lose weight though, otherwise he won't be with his young bride for long.
They do seem suited for each other and happy together. It did seem kinda sketchy that she was a teenager when they met, but it was legal at least according to her.
@@Sarah24871 yah his weight concerns me. Their life style makes a proper weightloss program tricky though
@@S_H9260if they have been together 6 years, then she was 17 when they got together, not 19 as she said! She must think people can’t do simple math.