Sitting here alone(currently in the process of getting a divorce after 22 years of marriage due to my drinking) at my kitchen table watching this show with a massive hangover and tears in my eyes. I have decided that today will be the first day in a sober life for me. this show has been both inspiring and a wakeup call.
I listened to this several years ago after my sister was found unresponsive due to alcoholism. I tried again and again to not drink. Today I am almost 365 days alcohol free.
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someone wanted to expose her cause he felt that elizabeth was getting special treatment and he was not. so elizabeth got ahead of everything and released her story herself, allegedly.
“I would die for my children, but I couldn’t stop drinking for my children.” Last time I watched this I was in the middle of a full blown addiction. I remember this hitting me like a ton of bricks. This was the simplest way to describe my addiction. I’m almost 8 months clean now
I think only those who’ve been in the throes of addiction can truly understand the stranglehold it has over us! I always say these 3 things... 1. Hate the addiction/disease not the addict! 2. Addiction is science/ brain chemistry and physiology! It is not a choice to “just suck it up/or stop” 3. Tolerance is not a moral issue! Also, as with any disease, relapse is part of recovery ...yet remorse, guilt and shame are absolutely paralyzing to addicts! Congratulations on your sobriety! 8 months is no small feat! One day at a time right!??!!
Small business owner, I lost huge contract, facing eviction, crazy stress. Walked to liquor store and stared at the beers for 20 mins. I survived - I walked out. 2 yrs and still sober.
I am in tears. I stumbled upon this, and reading everyone's comments... I am 8.5 years sober and I couldn't be happier. I was so deep in alcohol, it was my life. If you would have tole me then that I could be happier than I have ever been in my life without it, I would have laughed. Sobriety sets you free. It's a hard road, it's not easy getting sober. You don't just go to rehab and you are cured. You have to WANT it more than anything. The only one who can get you sober is YOU. If you are struggling, don't wait. You CAN do this. I was an absolute MESS. Shame, guilt, anger, anxiety. There are so many layers to this that you have to peel through. I hit rock bottom too many times. One thing pulled me out of it and I said enough is enough. Don't wait, your next drink could be the end of you, don't take that chance. Much love to you all here. All who are lost and hurting. ❤
@Laura Carlson, I stumbled on this too. Her doing this is so courageous. I have 11+ years, and while I can't say I've never been happier--because life gives everyone a different test and I could never have anticipated what mine would be--I can certainly say I've never been more grateful. She says that it is grace--indeed!! Why do some people stay sober while others don't? My getting sober allowed me to deal with an emergency. Had I been drinking at the time, I don't even want to consider what could have happened. And while I can't say I never want a drink, I can surely say I never want to be even remotely like that, and the best way is just never even take a sip. If I were to have one drink, I'd be in trouble sooner or later. I'm allergic to certain fish, deadly allergic. There is no question in my mind that I can't and won't ever eat it. Yet, we lack that understanding when it comes to whatever we are addicted to. To all of you out there struggling, as has been said, if you're going through Hell, keep going. ❤❤❤
I want to get sober, I have been to treatment twice, and failed both times. I am so full of guilt, shame and worthlessness. I hate my life. A friend relationship I am in keeps dragging me down. I'm lost. I'm tired of lying and being a fool. Laura I Love your message ✌️
@@Ryan-mn1kn Nobody gets sober in treatment. (Residential) You get medical attention, rest, nutrition, and knowledge...but you don't get sober. It's what we "DO" after we walk out that determines life, or death. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". All the best to you Ryan! Mark 5/8/1994
That is wonderfull. My grand mother used to say that alcohol is the devil's blood. And I believe this to be true. 90% of all deadly accidents or crimes is because people being under the influence.
YOu Didnt become addicted to Acholol The first time you Drank! Hang in there! Perservearance! you will learm toLive with out itJust like ou learned to Live with IT!! LET GO and let GOD wagonburnereb May God bless you with Soberity!
@Cheryl Love Our Mom and Dad seemed to Become Adicted to the meetings! Whenever we had "Family" Events like our Childrens Birthday party for one of our babies I swear The Entire AA group would be there! NO presents, just invasion! As Adult Children of Alcoholics We seriously felt replaced! point here is WE accepted everything the Group offered to Our Dads sobetity! It was keeping him Sober and mother Stress free! This is All their 4 little girls ever wanted! For Daddy to be Sobor and Momma to be Worry free from Alcohoism. the Jelli"" of the AA family was the best sacrifice we made to this horrible addiction And most likely the last! WE still Invite The AA "kids" FAMILY to our Family functions! . Daddy has 27 sober years in March! Happy Birthday Daddy. RIP Momma!
Alcohol makes anxiety so much worse, especially when your hung over and haven't slept very much. It absolutely heightens the effects of anxiety and depression.
UY Scuti I’m not trying to preach or offend but I hope you ask the lord to remove the addiction and help you find even public mental health care to get to the REASON YOU feel compelled to self medicate best wishes. Jesus wants you to talk to him.
Every time a person overdrinks, brain cells die. Many people still think addiction is a moral issue. It's a medical and psychological issue. Never be afraid to ask for help.
It can certainly be a conditioned response like Pavlov's dogs. But most alcoholics, including myself, are dealing with underlying mental health issues -- and booze is usually the first prescription we encounter that works.
I just lost my brother to this. He was my best friend. He was a good father, brother, and son. He died December 15th. It killed our mother on 1/23/21 a month and 8 days after she lost her only son. Her heart couldn’t take it. He was the most caring, loving, funniest, great big brother ever. I take his ashes everywhere with me. We put his asked in the ocean because that’s what he wanted. He loved all animals and nature. He loved to fish. I took care of him the last few years of his life. I wish I could hear him one more time. I too was a alcoholic. I’ve been sober since 2012. You can do it I miss my brother
I have been sober for 28 years now, one day at a time.... I will always be an alcoholic. My mother died of wet brain at the age of 46. I understand what you are going through. ..
I am 5 years sober. Alcohol consumed me and my marriage. My husband and I were both alcoholics but only I was physically addicted. He went to prison and I went to treatment. He’s been out of jail for almost 5 years years and we are going strong. This story is such an inspiration! #wedorecover
One thing you'll realize is that no matter how many minutes/hours/days/years you have...you really only have today. The person who has 20 years...only has today. Today you'll go to sleep and say thank goodness I have today......
Both of my parents were so-called "functioning" alcoholics, and although they were never cruel to us as kids, I was embarrassed that I couldn't have friends over after school or on weekends. My father was a psychologist, and he explained to me that both sides of the family had strong genetic tendencies toward addiction, so I decided I'd just never tempt fate and drink. The only alcohol I've ever had has been in cooked food. Some people call me boring, and I'm fine with that. I prefer boring to chaos any day of the week.
I can so relate to her story. I was a functioning alcoholic for years. Raised 3 kids, worked, did everything any other person would do. But boy did I drink. One day, I told my kids I had enough, and passed out. I was in the hospital on my back for 2 weeks. I got out and just never looked back. It's a very personal addiction. It becomes your best friend. I am sober over 18 months now, and have no cravings or desire at all by the grace of fate. If you are in this position, please seek help.
"I would die for my children..I would kill for mr children but I couldn't stop drinking for my children." THAT's addiction. Brava for sharing, being SO strong & quitting.
I drank enough to harm my cerebellum in my brain and soon will have to use a wheelchair. Just have a hard time walking even with a walker! Stop-it’s just not worth it. If anyone has a cure for this disability kindly let me know. A cure for cerebellum damage
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TO ADMITTING THIS TRUTH. I ALSO LOVE AND KILL FOR MY CHILDREN BUT SOMEHOW EVERY PINKY PROMISE THAT I WOULD NOT USE AGAIN WAS BROKEN THE NEXT DAY. ONLY TURNING TO GOD HAS GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH TO TURN MY LIFE AROUN.
I have never been a drinker. During our shelter in place last year, being isolated from my family while working in urgent care, I started drinking, just to relax. I was very surprised at how quickly the thoughts of alcohol would enter my mind after work, almost immediately. For me, it's best I just stick with a Christmas toast. I'm so grateful to be aware of that.
Happy for you to have been able to recognize it and deal with it before you had to suffer from the consequences of addiction. Hope you're still doing well.
Omg I was just about to comment that the exact thing started happening to me in 2020. I'm glad I caught myself, and shortly after I decided not to drink again. I haven't had a drink in 3 years.
Thanks.. same here: specifically @ BIG TIME BUSY Pharmacy ……. THOUGH had cut back ethanol, (* side effects,etc.) to less toxic chemicals(* esp. diazepam, Hydrocodone)……
I just want to add this tidbit about drinking alcoholic beverages at your company Holiday Parties: I was new to a company & was invited to a nice Holiday Party, but the very well-dressed female employee sitting at my table warned me whispering "Don't drink beer or wine or mixed drinks--the staff is watching to see who imbibes in those types of drinks so they will be ready to fire you easily when their funds are reduced or grants are not renewed!".
Wrong. I'm not an alcoholic or recovering. I totally support her because she has probably helped people by doing this. Life isn't just about my personal experiences.
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KA go to the AA web site> find a meeting> online and telephone meetings and just listen to people like yourself. block the video on Zoo if you don't want to be seen. I'm 28 years sober and love/ need these meeting everyday. WE can do it :)
It's amazing that she did this interview so many people need to hear this. From day one alcohol was a problem for me I was a monster at 14 the moment it touched my lips it was over I was blackout drunk and it led to a drug addiction that ruined my life thank God I got out and I have 5 years clean 🙏
DaDennyH the night I called the AA hot line in despair the person on the phone told me the only person on this earth that can get me sober is me. I have to want it. I celebrate 16 years of sobriety tomorrow. It was difficult the first year, but SO worth it.
My friend died from alcoholism days ago. She was 45 years old. My dad died from alcoholism one week after his 49th birthday. My sister is in deep denial and drinks until she passes out regularly. She says she doesn't have a problem.
Married to a recovering alcoholic. You have some serious guts, and I commend you for putting yourself out there for others to see. I was in the same boat as your husband. Raising 2 kids while mommy slept it off, just to start again as soon as she got up. It nearly destroyed our marriage. But, my wife had the courage and ability to quit and I thank God everyday for that. Thank you so much for sharing this story Elizabeth. I hope it helps people take their lives back.
My parents stuck it through- 45 years. My dad didn’t ask to be an alcoholic. I’m sure his father and HIS father didn’t either. I sure didn’t ask for it. It took a lot of strength and self-control and it just not being acceptable in my family for me to finally get the right kind of help and stick with it.
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Jenna Mahanay, Curt Christensen: Each individual who deals with addiction has their own words to describe their experience and they are all 100% right--for themselves. No one else can describe it for anyone else--only for themselves.
I used to work with her and she was such an absolute professional, never knew she was going through this. This was a huge surprise, happy she is doing better.
I know deep down in her beautiful troubled heart this had to be one of the toughest interviews she's ever done because for once The roles are changed Elizabeth 's the one being interviewed & asked tge tough questions .HOLD YOUR head up high Elizabeth ! You're winning the battle & sweet lady you have more support then you'll ever know. I struggled with it for years til I moved & made the decision I wanted to make a change in my life 2 decades later I can walk down the beer isle or sit with folks who are drinking and it doesn't bother me & I can't stand the smell of it.
Today is Day #7 of being sober, this show meant so much to me. Gives me strength to know I belong to a group of very brave people. One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. Thank you Elizabeth!!
7 days is huge! Keep it up one day at a time. If one day is too much, take a half a day at a time. You can do this. This was such a real wakeup call for me. Hang in there 💖💙
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
Just finished reading Elizabeth's book, it was so, so good I highly recommend it to anyone but especially those who are dealing with addiction, either themselves or someone they love. I'm six months (seven in less than week) sober from heroin today!
God is good keep up the good work stayed bless I lost my uncle to that stuff and not a day goes by we don’t miss him his daughter is having the hardest time ever ! God bless you!
My son and daughter in law just passed 7 yrs herion free..as you know it takes a lot of work but it's possible. Keep up the good work sending positive thoughts your way!
She has a drinking problem - i wouldn't call her an alcoholic based on the amounts she mentioned. And her big 'horror' story was being at the lethal limit one time. It is EASY to be at the lethal limit. Probably one bottle of wine for a woman her size and you could get there if you drank it within an hour. That is NOT real alcoholism. Laura Duhe same deal.
they got to do it on their own. No one can help someone out of this, unless they are willing and THEY have to do 90 percent of the work, if not more...
I like your comment to Seven Six... I'm an addict and trust me me it is hard work... You hit rock bottom and then realise there is a basement below so you fall even deeper... I'm just being honest... :-)...
She was dissociating from the anxiety and the grabbing of the desk and her engagement ring brought her back. I had no idea I was doing the same thing, dissociating. This is so relatable it hurts.
I am an alcoholic. This woman is so spot on in the way she describes how it feels when you realize you're too far gone and can't stop drinking. Great interview.
I love how ABC really stood by her and let her fumble a few times. That is very rare. Most companies would get rid of you the second they heard of your sickness. Way to go corporate!!
that is now, and then, true. But there were several decades before that when doing that kind of job required a high alcohol tolerance level. Then things changed radically, which makes this story that much more poignant.
I remember watching this when it first aired. I was so blown away at her level of honesty, vulnerability class and grace during this interview. Tbh, I still am and even more impressed. What a wonderful woman who is helping so many with her story!
I’ve been sober 14 months. It’s truly, every addict only has today. I’ve said many times I’m only one broken heart away from relapse. It’s amazing the things humans do to avoid or stop pain.
Hopefully you have found what works for you now. If by chance you haven't and are still searching don't give up it does come sometimes it just takes awhile. Life is such a precious gift but so darn difficult to unwrap.
I feel her pain. I was brought back to life with a defibrillator about 6 years ago, due to a car accident. If it wasn't for a 16 year old with a cell phone on a bike at 2AM, passing by that night, I'd be dead. All caused by alcohol. It didn't scare me out of stopping. Fast forward 6 years later, detox. 12 days under medical supervision. Still didn't scare me. Tonight, marks day 1. I'm done with the cycle. It ends today.
My son's overdose didnt make him stop either. He used heroin. Eventually he decided to stop. They say "you gotta want it." He white knuckled it for at least a year. There is a lot of good people ready to help you. Alone it's almost impossible. Trust me, my other son sits on my piano in a box. The pain is indescribable. Good luck.
I hear you.. I often (jokingly, because I don't believe in reincarnation) think that in my next lifetime, I'll have great skin (I had horrible acne as a teenager and it left scars), great hair (mine is fine and thin), and I WON'T be an alcoholic! (lol). Not necessarily in that order.....
I’m so glad she came out of alcoholism. I grew up with an alcoholic mother and she is still one until this day. My grandmother had to raise me and my sister because of it. It’s scary because I was starting to drink a lot too to the point where I needed wine next to my nightstand at night to feel “secure” when going to sleep in case I “needed” it. A friend saw how much I was drinking on a one girls night out and called me out. It changed everything. I haven’t drank in over a year. Please tell your family and friends what you see. You don’t know how much it can impact their life.
Everyone that's being hateful should be ashamed of yourselves. Just because she is rich doesn't mean her battle was less than. She has a problem and addiction is not only a poor man's problem. And the fact that she is well known I think is even more of a brave act to make her struggle public.
She still suffered a lot, lost her husband, almost lost her career. Could have lost her boys. Even money can't stop alcoholism. I'm glad she was finally willing to stay sober one day at a time.
When I think about all the times I was alone and blacked out, wandering around downtown Seattle streets, or alone on vacation in Mexico, I know that I had guardian angels watching over me. I really should be dead.
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@@Empen2013 thank you. Two weeks ago I finally decided to try something. I'm 21 days sober right now. It's been annoying, my journey has just started. But, so far this has been great. I gave disulfiram a try and I'm two weeks into it. Gotta do some test on my liver tomorrow make it it doesnt hurt more than help. But, so far it's been great. While on these meds I literally cant drink or I'll get sick. Its helped me knowing I literally cant drink at all or suffer horrible consequences.
@@RH-qx7wm thanks for the advice. I tried AA a couple times where I lived an the atmosphere just felt not satisfying to me and felt like a cult. I don't know how to explain it honestly. I'm currently 25 days sober right now. I take one of those pills every other day right now and that makes it where I literally cant drink. Or if I was to, there wouldn't be at fun in it. Straight to sickness from one drink. Once I get the testing finished an blood work back seeing how this is effecting my liver, I'm going to start going through a Christian program at a church in the town i work in. I already talked to the guy twice so far. Hes an ex alcoholic. Was supposed to die, his liver was just dead. Doctors said he had only a few weeks to live. He ended up praying knowing he was going to die and was asking for forgiveness an such for what hes done with his life. And he said a few days later after passing out due to pain he woke up and his liver was no longer not functioning at all. 100 percent functional. Doctors couldn't explain it. I'm a Christian. So you might think stuff like this doesnt happen. But anyway, after talking to him I believe this is more of a program I'm willing to try. AA just didn't feel right. I need to not only stay sober but I need to correct my life in this aspect too. I've been back sliding. Anyway, sorry for the long reply. I just randomly woke up, kinda not awake yet. I appreciate the comment. :)
@@henrywhh oh I'm not giving up. Currently 25 almost 26 days sober right now. :) But if something happens an I fail again. I'll get myself back up and keep moving forward.
I to have anxiety and an alcoholic. So sick of drinking and I'm sitting here feeling sick from a few days before. I'm glad I stumbled across this story 🙏🏽
I stumbled onto this unexpectedly. I can relate to so many things she said...,the hiding, the shame when my secret was out, etc. My problem was with pain pills, my job as a nurse gave me easy access. I worked for several years before I crossed the line and became addicted. I had to be confronted several times before being able to admit I had a problem. My nursing license was suspended and I went to rehab so I could get reinstated. Ironically, I made the difficult decision not to go back to nursing because I couldn't say if I could handle being around the drugs again and I knew I wouldn't be able to handle hitting bottom a second time. I do share my "sobriety time," which is 26 years and 6 months and I have been a substance abuse counselor for the last 18 years.
My 30 year marriage broke up due to the excess drinking of the ex wife. She is also a nurse. No one can ever tell her she needed help. I was left with 4 adult angry children. The children refused to allow her back into their life. When they tried, she would become a drunken mess and cause a really bad scene. I begged the children to not hold a grudge, because it would hurt them in a long run. It pains me that this women is alone. She was not invited to two college graduations and two weddings. We have not spoken for years. We all know a phone call is coming......I still prayer for her every Sunday.
@@Fly_Navy praying for your kids. My exhusband is an alcoholic and had a liver transplant 3 years ago. He's back to heavy drinking and my daughter repeatedly tells me she hates him and never wants to see him. I tell her that it's okay to be angry but to hate the addiction and hate how it's made her feel, but don't hate him. It's a horrible illness that has robbed my daughter of a father she deserves. I don't know if it's wrong or right, but I don't force her to see him. It breaks my heart knowing how much pain his drinking has caused her.
I drank like I have never seen anyone drink. I by the grace of God am free of that Devil. Hate it now. I lost my daughter to prescription drugs 5 months ago but never drank because of it. I am as free as I will ever be.Thank you, Jesus.
I pray for you. I hope you keep being strong. I am sorry for your loss. It hurts but feel it like we all do (i also lost a baby). Dont be afraid of the feeling. Its hard but it will pass and you will be fine. Sad but fine. Sadness is part of everything we need to experience. It hurts but we are made to overcome it also. Just keep being aware of it. You don't need to escape or numb the pain. Just feel it and it will pass. May God bless you.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Addiction .... such a horrible and devastating disease, whether it's alcohol or drugs or over eating or gambling, etc. It doesn't discriminate and affects all walks of life. I'm glad you're sober today. Again, I'm sorry for your huge, huge loss of your daughter.
I remember when she announced to the world that she was an alcoholic. I was surprised because to me, she always looked so put together & a successful, professional. It opened my eyes to the fact that alcohol can affect ALL people, regardless of the advantages or disadvantages you have in life. I applaud her courage and she has helped people by sharing her story. We should be proud of her for that & not be critical. Just my thoughts.......
December 29th 2018 ...I just decided I wasn't drinking alcohol anymore, Jan 2nd 2019 my husband said he wasn't drinking anymore ( both of us drank many bottles of wine a day for years) I met and married him last year. Its now 31st. January 2019 and neither of us have thought about alcohol since we made our decision. We drink mostly water and enjoy remembering our day and our time together. Since December 29th 2018 I have lost 24lbs and my husband has lost 16 lb, and gone down 2 sizes☺ I had an alcohol dependant father and myself and brother were given alcohol as children with no limits. It has affected me all my life and how i'm still alive i'll never know. This year I feel like myself and husband are begining a new life and we feel great☺
Jayne Pete did you have serious problems coming off of it. I drink a few beers a night, for 2 years. I want to stop but am afraid. Cannot go to rehab and don’t want to have seizures and etc.... i hope you see this,
I’m almost 68 and struggled with alcohol for over 40 years. I’ll be sober 4 years August 20 2024. To share your story took so much strength. God Bless you ❤
Thanks for sharing. I too am an alcoholic. I self medicated my panic disorder with vodka. I got liver disease and was on my last legs. I am now 8 years, 6 months and 1 day sober. I am studying for a degree in Psychology and behavioural science and addiction.
@@LSUN118 you cant. It is something she has to do of her own accord. If you quit drinking for someone else you'll never succeed. All you can do is give her information, tell her that support and help is there if and when she chooses. I know being a family member of an alcoholic is soul destroying and believe me, your mum knows shes hurting you but until she has the resolve to do it herself I'm afraid you have to sit back and watch. Dont enable her though. Dont give her anymore money or supply her with booze. Cut her off from that. Be there for her to lean on but refuse to be part of the problem anymore. Good luck
Rebecca seppanen I got caught up in going to 70s concerts, I was breaking the law drinking beer at 16. I surprised myself how much I could drink being only 5'6" Tall. Also surprised I had Girlfriends being that small. Doesn't help coming from an IRISH Family. I think IRISH People are SPECIAL born with Red Hair & Freckles. We have our flaws our skin burns easily in the sun, REDHEADS do get made fun of. Had a sister obsessed with Long Hair Rock Stars. Alcohol Addiction is real, I would drink 12 cans & still wanted more. 1 time on New Years Eve I was so drunk I kissed a stranger instead of my Girlfriend. I had lots of blackouts if you don't know what that is you cant remember anything you did that night. Aside from my Drinking I kept my job for 28 years. This is silly when I had to go to Court I thought I would be in more trouble cause of my IRISH name. Lucky DWI laws weren't that bad in 70s & 80s. Going to AA meetings got me sober, those meetings were so helpful everybody is so Friendly. Congrads on quiting smoking. Im live near INDIAN RESERVATIONS TAX Free CIGERETTES only $ 14.00 dollars for a carton. I live in NEW YORK 12 dollars for 1 pack. Sorry for all IRISH Stuff IM JUST A PROUD IRISH AMERICAN
What was harder, quitting drinking or smoking? Did you find that it was a cross addiction & quit both at same time? I'm not a big drinker but I find smoking hard to quit & I like to have a beer when I smoke.
My dad lost his battle with alcoholism not long before this documentary was uploaded. To those fighting now: Alcoholism kills. Get help if you need it. Keep trying till you succeed. Someone out there loves you and wants you back.
I am seeing so many sobriety dates! Congratulations to you all! And to those still struggling, I am with you, you are strong, and I believe in you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I remember watching this years ago and I cried like a baby bc I ADMIRED HER soo much! I saw someone with so much compassion, STRENGTH, & COURAGE, etc. I don’t think I have EVER been so PROUD of a woman behind the screens in my life. I’ve struggled with addiction for 13 years. I lost my little brother to ONE pill laced with Fentanyl during the 2020 pandemic- & couldn’t even give him a real funeral. I got clean a few months before he passed. And it’s been the absolute HARDEST to stay straight but TODAY, I can say I feel confident enough that I believe I may make it. I think of this woman so much during my journey. For the rest of you- YOU ARE WORTH GETTING HELP!
@@suchabadkitty1293 She did not go to a luxury resort. I just finished reading her book. She could have afforded luxury. But someone encouraged her go to some treatment center that turned out to be not so great.
Love this. Especially the child dynamic. I was six years sober when my only child, a son, was born. It’s been 15 years since my last drink. My life’s goal is that he never sees me with a drink in my had or booze on my breath. It’s the greatest gift I can give him. For anyone struggling, don’t give up. One more try is always worth it. ❤️
Hello Diane, I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
Wow! OMG, I am brought to tears watching this. I have suffered from anxiety and panic attacks but only as a middle-aged (40's and 50's) woman and it is TERRIFYING. I don't know how she managed to go on air like that. How she hid the trembling, the heart pounding, the fast shallow breathing. In my experience, you can almost pass out from the lightheadedness and the waves of nausea are miserable. And I can't IMAGINE the horror of experiencing that as a child! No WONDER she started drinking! She was not getting any relief whatsoever! That's unimaginable! No human being should have to suffer that way, especially a child! What an amazing, strong woman! She is so full of love and courage! Her story just shows you the amazing resilience of human beings. I am wishing for her all the happiness in the world, every day. She deserves to feel happy. We ALL do. The same for all those other people out there struggling with addiction. You ARE LOVED. You CAN heal. You don't HAVE to beat yourself up for your horrible mistakes. You were doing the best you could. Take care of yourself. And as a nation, we need to STOP treating mental illness as a crime and STOP stigmatizing and judging people and start HELPING these people and their families get help. It's called compassion and humanity! We REALLY need a single-payer health care system so that EVERY person can get the treatment they need, whether they are working in a job with good benefits or not! Healthcare should not be tied to your job. As an aside, I found TREMENDOUS relief from my anxiety and panic attacks by taking magnesium powder (magnesium citrate), one of the essential minerals/electrolytes. Turns out MOST human beings are magnesium deficient or on the verge of being so. This depletion happens due to stress as well as a deficiency in the diet. Our soils are much lower in magnesium and other nutrients than they used to be a few decades ago due to over-farming and non-organic farming practices, so we are simply not getting the nutrition we need, including this essential, vital mineral. And add the extra stress in our lives and our magnesium, normally stored up in our bones, is being depleted. The more stress you endure, the more likely you are depelting your magnesium. Magnesium is said to be like oil is for a car, making all kinds of functions run more smoothly. One of these is your mental health and brain functioning as well as heart functioning. Magnesium is also the calming mineral that has receptors in the brain to help our brain deal with stress. When magnesium gets depleted, we start having anxiety and depression because the mineral is no longer there to act on the brain the way it is supposed to. So, if you are having anxiety or depression, LOOK INTO MAGNESIUM! Please, I urge you! If you had a stressful childhood, then you are no doubt depleted. I literally almost cured my daily anxiety attacks within a couple of days. I have not had a full-blown panic attack since I started taking magnesium in my water bottle twice a day, once in the morning and once at night. I take it with a sugar-free pink lemonade crystal light packet for flavoring. I consider it my homemade, healthy version of Gatorade. I try to make sure I am eating a better diet with more vegetables high in magnesium and other nutrients as well. Check your diet too. Peace.
Thank you 4 sharing. This is indeed useful information. Just wanted to note that there are certain autoimmune conditions that can have a worsening of symptoms from taking magnesium (even though will always test low in it). Myasthenia Gravis, for example. Taking magnesium with MG can be life threatening.
Aubrey - Thank you so much. I’m going to try it. Where can I purchase magnesium? Just at my local grocery store? Is there a specific brand that you like?
@@sabrina.natalie There are TONS of options, different formulas of magnesium, some absorb better than others, some in powder form, others in pill. I like the Magnesium Citrate powder because I just put it in my water bottle with a little Crystal Light flavoring and it seems to take effect pretty quickly that way, usually within about 45 minutes I feel more calm. I buy the Spring Valley (Walmart) brand in the vitamin aisle. Kroger (our grocery store) has a name brand called "CALM" that works good too but it costs twice as much. I think that one is Magnsium Oxide. They're both good though. Just get one of them to get started and then you can research the others if you want to optimize it. I know there is one form that is more expensive and it's supposed to absorb into your brain very quickly so if you have really bad anxiety/panic, try that one. Just google search on "forms of magnesium". Take good care!
I am losing my mom, age 70, to alcoholism. As I grew up, she never drank, we never really had alcohol in the house..she always said she hated the taste of all alcohol. She'd had a long and successful career, which she was retiring from...and suddenly somehow she discovered she no longer loathed alcohol, and over the space of 2 or so years, she immersed herself into full throttle alcoholism. Weddings, funerals, holidays, she has missed or destroyed many of them. Our family is in shambles, relationships destroyed. She has done several stints in rehab, one for 3 full months. She got her 3rd DUI recently. Then in January 2021, a few months ago, the unthinkable occurred, and I don't think we will ever have answers. She has hid so much of her life from us, her friends, etc....but a friend we know came to visit her after not hearing from her for days, and found her in her apartment, brutally beaten, barely conscious, blood just everywhere. He called the squad. My alcoholic mother had received a Traumatic Brain injury, not even speaking to the multiple fractures, contusions- all of it. She has no idea who has done this to her, and after a month in hospital, she was released, was staying with my aunt, and now she drinks openly, the only change was her efforts to conceal her addiction. If my aunt took her Vodka, she tried to leave, said she would walk . The Dr's told us how incredibly important it is the she does not sustain another fall, is very careful...but she can't be controlled. We called the police, there is nothing they could do,it isn't illegal to drink yourself to death. Finally she got so intoxicated we were able to have her taken in as a threat to herself physically, and we scrambled, began the process of filing for guardianship, which failed. She has been taken back to the hospital easily 20 times in these 4 months, and keeps getting out. We make her the neurologist appointments she was supposed to have, she cancels them. She will have 5 minutes occasionally of sounding somewhat like the person we remember..maybe some vague discussion of wanting to get sober, then she drinks. The Doctors have said there was very little chance that her brain will ever heal, likely has gotten worse, we are out of legal options, and are aware that we probably do not have very long, as her labs have slowly gotten worse each hospitalization. Barring a miracle..even the realization that her life is unmanageable due to alcohol is unlikely to happen due to her TBI. My heart is broken, but I will still hope, and still cheer for everyone and anyone who has even 1 day sober..please keep trying.
Wow that's crazy. Your mum sounds like Frank Gallagher from shameless. I guess you've gotta give her credit for not boozing while she was raising you? I wonder if she drank before you were born
I am so sorry for your families lost of your mother. The personality you’re living with isn’t her. I am the daughter of two functioning alcoholic parents. Functioning in that my dad worked everyday and drank on weekends Friday through Sunday morning. The same for my mother. Then gradually my mother started everyday all day. My dad lost his job 3 years from retirement and had to get one with less pay. They separated and things went totally to hell in a hand basket. I drink an occasional glass of wine maybe 4 a month. I have one brother that is dying from alcoholic medical problems. One brother that started drinking at 14, falling down drunk at times( still did until 2 years ago( had a stroke). And one the would only drink at home, violent drunk. 2 out of 5 brothers didn’t drink at all. One girl out of 5 drank heavily ( drink of choice, beer, and she was diabetic). The rest of us drink some wine now and than. I have a nephew( sisters son) that is a drunk, flat out, doesn’t drink going to work but has lost his drivers lic and has his car booted. Mom takes him to court and dad takes him to work. So It can be a family problem through generations.
Wow I had NO IDEA. She has been so wonderful on air and in her work. Of course, none of us could know she had this problem. I am a US Army Sergeant, 9th Infantry and was also an alcoholic killing pain from things I've lived through, From childhood trauma,. Divorce of my parents at age 6. Living in 12 homes with a single mom who was mentally ill RIP. An alcoholic father, so possibly genetic. And military missions, ELIZABETH HAD ME IN TEARS through this entire show. It showed exactly how we all live and hide sneak and hurt people and most of all those WHO LOVE US THE MOST. Then we lose them. She is lucky she kept her family. Her husband, well, I won't say anything. Bless you Elizabeth Vargas, We have all loved you and always will. Stay with it we want you around for another 100 years. Bless you and by the way haven't had a drink since 1997. Thank Almighty God.
I long ago decided that some people probably hit the thumbs down button just to be contrary. Which reminds me, have you ever heard of Oppositional Defiant Disorder? I can see someone with ODD giving thumbs down because that’s just how they roll.
I cried watching this. I could feel her pain and shame, I knew it all to well😢. I have been sober going on 13 years and I am finally finding the grace to forgive myself. Thank you Elizabeth for your incredible strength in sharing your story. You are a beautiful soul ❤️🙏❤️
She needs to join LLAA Lying liberal assholes anonymous She drink out of guilt for lying for an agenda driving media group on a daily basis and she has to sit next to that hack stupidoppolus
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
“The grace to forgive myself” That is the most beautiful expression I’ve encountered in over 35 years of sobriety. You, sir, are a beautiful soul. Thank you.
Her story is so familiar. I'm sober a little over 10 years and I'm so grateful for the Salvation Army where I went to rehab. If you can't afford or don't have health insurance the Salvation Army is the only place that will take you when you don't have a penny to your name. You have to work for just about free but they will provide you with a place to stay, food and spiritual education and rehabilitation education. But you have to want to be sober or it won't work. It's not a miracle you have to work really hard, but in my opinion it's worth it.
This is one of the most moving news pieces I've ever seen. Congratulations to Elizabeth for her strength and rediscovered grace. And what a mammoth job for Diane Sawyer. That's not an easy interview at all. Hang in there Elizabeth. We all love you.
I cried through this entire interview. Sounds like me so much. Livingva double life until it all falls down and you have to face yourself foe who you are. The shame, humiliation and regret becomes unbearable at times.
Your anxiety was never cured by alcohol - it has gotten worse. Without alcohol anxiety and withdrawal take over. So instead taper slowly. Consider looking into The Sinclair Method to eliminate cravings and obsessive thoughts for alcohol. TEDx talk ruclips.net/video/6EghiY_s2ts/видео.html Documentary www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B07NBWMH9D "The Cure" by Dr. Roy Eskapa PHD: tinyurl.com/y2n6nufe
I learned in AA that an alcoholic is anyone who takes a drink and then cannot stop. It doesn't matter how often one binges in this manner, even if just a couple of times a year. I had not known this, but looking back, this was my history. So Elizabeth's question, when did she become am alcoholic if she could control her drinking early on? She was always an alcoholic....stopping off at the bar before going home was an early indication. She drank before going home so she could drink more at home, unnoticed. I am sure any alcoholic can relate to her story. She is brave to tell her story to the world. I am also one of the lucky ones, sober now for 20 years. To all of you here who have said you relate to her story yet are still drinking, make this moment the beginning of your new life without alcohol. Get help somewhere...you are worth it.
We all have to get to the bitter end, however we get to the bitter end, and whatever that entails. Very few people will take any action, until they are backed into a corner. The reality of alcoholism is that many people will die, despite multiple opportunities to recover. THAT is why I practice gratitude every morning, and live in the bosom of the Fellowship. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". Simple! All the best to you Janet!
@Mark-pp7jy I agree. Everyone's bitter end is different and their own. I was at the end but also remember had one person who gave me a little push. Never know what a bit of encouragement can do. Thanks for sharing. Best to you, Mark.
@@yvonneanderson7032 No not really. If one drinks and cannot stop, one is an alcoholic. If one can stop, then no, not an alcoholic. I think AA knows. Been around for years and the program helps millions of people. Alcohol is cunning, baffling and powerful. I had to believe the truth to get help and live a better life. I am grateful today.
Sitting here alone(currently in the process of getting a divorce after 22 years of marriage due to my drinking) at my kitchen table watching this show with a massive hangover and tears in my eyes. I have decided that today will be the first day in a sober life for me. this show has been both inspiring and a wakeup call.
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Praying for you I too knew I needed to give up and surrender to God's will and not my own. By the help of the Holy Spirit it's been almost 2 years.
Wish you all the best in this fantastic path you have tread upon👍
God Bless You and watch over you.
Pray, every day. Wishing to peace and strength.
I listened to this several years ago after my sister was found unresponsive due to alcoholism. I tried again and again to not drink. Today I am almost 365 days alcohol free.
Congratulations! Keep it up!
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
That's awesome. Happy Birthday!!!
well done...keep going. x
@@susanrowley8375 thank you so much. I’m now 420 days alcohol free and I am so happy and grateful 💕
I watched this a year ago...while drinking a bottle of wine. I knew it then.
Today I am 193 days sober.
Wery good, keep up the good work ❤️
Christina Suchon congrats! One day at a time and easy on your self.
Well done, keep going, you dont need it.
Congratulations
Thank you, I see it's possible. 😊
Three days clean. It’s nothing in the big picture but it means the world to me. Thanks for sharing.
It is a big thing!!!
Keep going. Bless you 🙏
I'm proud of you.
Good job I’m right there with you.
Keep going! I’m proud of you!
This lady has balls! She really didn't have to expose her private life like this but she did to help others..👏👏👏
she also has a donger
So sad authority no a copy
We have to "give it away to keep it"!
She was already caught but I do admire her for putting her side of the story
someone wanted to expose her cause he felt that elizabeth was getting special treatment and he was not. so elizabeth got ahead of everything and released her story herself, allegedly.
“I would die for my children, but I couldn’t stop drinking for my children.”
Last time I watched this I was in the middle of a full blown addiction. I remember this hitting me like a ton of bricks. This was the simplest way to describe my addiction. I’m almost 8 months clean now
good xxxxxxxxxxxx
I think only those who’ve been in the throes of addiction can truly understand the stranglehold it has over us! I always say these 3 things...
1. Hate the addiction/disease not the addict!
2. Addiction is science/ brain chemistry and physiology! It is not a choice to “just suck it up/or stop”
3. Tolerance is not a moral issue!
Also, as with any disease, relapse is part of recovery ...yet remorse, guilt and shame are absolutely paralyzing to addicts!
Congratulations on your sobriety! 8 months is no small feat! One day at a time right!??!!
So proud of you! Sober by Wyatt Coates ruclips.net/video/klt8auU9WM8/видео.html
You’re human! Forgive yourself.
Wish you the best. I am going through it also. Don't know how to stop.
Small business owner, I lost huge contract, facing eviction, crazy stress. Walked to liquor store and stared at the beers for 20 mins. I survived - I walked out. 2 yrs and still sober.
Keeping going...you can do it.
hopefully things are ok now with the virus situation. i'm into digital marketing if u need help at all.
❤️🙌🏻
Proud of you Erik!!!!
Good for you! Keep on keeping your health and family in mind
I am in tears. I stumbled upon this, and reading everyone's comments... I am 8.5 years sober and I couldn't be happier. I was so deep in alcohol, it was my life. If you would have tole me then that I could be happier than I have ever been in my life without it, I would have laughed. Sobriety sets you free. It's a hard road, it's not easy getting sober. You don't just go to rehab and you are cured. You have to WANT it more than anything. The only one who can get you sober is YOU. If you are struggling, don't wait. You CAN do this. I was an absolute MESS. Shame, guilt, anger, anxiety. There are so many layers to this that you have to peel through. I hit rock bottom too many times. One thing pulled me out of it and I said enough is enough. Don't wait, your next drink could be the end of you, don't take that chance. Much love to you all here. All who are lost and hurting. ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm 4 months strong now
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@Laura Carlson, I stumbled on this too. Her doing this is so courageous. I have 11+ years, and while I can't say I've never been happier--because life gives everyone a different test and I could never have anticipated what mine would be--I can certainly say I've never been more grateful. She says that it is grace--indeed!! Why do some people stay sober while others don't? My getting sober allowed me to deal with an emergency. Had I been drinking at the time, I don't even want to consider what could have happened. And while I can't say I never want a drink, I can surely say I never want to be even remotely like that, and the best way is just never even take a sip. If I were to have one drink, I'd be in trouble sooner or later. I'm allergic to certain fish, deadly allergic. There is no question in my mind that I can't and won't ever eat it. Yet, we lack that understanding when it comes to whatever we are addicted to. To all of you out there struggling, as has been said, if you're going through Hell, keep going. ❤❤❤
I want to get sober, I have been to treatment twice, and failed both times. I am so full of guilt, shame and worthlessness. I hate my life. A friend relationship I am in keeps dragging me down. I'm lost. I'm tired of lying and being a fool. Laura I Love your message ✌️
@@Ryan-mn1kn Nobody gets sober in treatment. (Residential) You get medical attention, rest, nutrition, and knowledge...but you don't get sober. It's what we "DO" after we walk out that determines life, or death. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". All the best to you Ryan! Mark 5/8/1994
Full blooded American Indian 20 years sober this September 2019. Thanks to my creator and the awesome fellowship I’m in.
That is wonderfull. My grand mother used to say that alcohol is the devil's blood. And I believe this to be true. 90% of all deadly accidents or crimes is because people being under the influence.
Amazing!! Keep coming back!!
YOu Didnt become addicted to Acholol The first time you Drank! Hang in there! Perservearance! you will learm toLive with out itJust like ou learned to Live with IT!! LET GO and let GOD wagonburnereb May God bless you with Soberity!
@@gigietc One day at a time!
@Cheryl Love Our Mom and Dad seemed to Become Adicted to the meetings! Whenever we had "Family" Events like our Childrens Birthday party for one of our babies I swear The Entire AA group would be there! NO presents, just invasion! As Adult Children of Alcoholics We seriously felt replaced! point here is WE accepted everything the Group offered to Our Dads sobetity! It was keeping him Sober and mother Stress free! This is All their 4 little girls ever wanted! For Daddy to be Sobor and Momma to be Worry free from Alcohoism. the Jelli"" of the AA family was the best sacrifice we made to this horrible addiction And most likely the last! WE still Invite The AA "kids" FAMILY to our Family functions! . Daddy has 27 sober years in March! Happy Birthday Daddy. RIP Momma!
I just wanna say ABC thank you for
giving her another chance ❤️😭
They let her go two years ago
I thank ABC News for giving her another chance. Liz vargas is a pretty lady with beautiful heart
Fickle are the news stations.
@@isabellind1292 Fucking A. So true. She made it out, and Barbara is trying to shame her back in or something.
@@DGNYY27 why did they let her go. She fell off the wagon.
Day 1 of being sober! Pray for me! This ones for myself, My daughter,My Sons and My Fiancee
OFFICIALFTINCREDIBLE how you doing?
Prayers 🙏 I am also an alcoholic. I want help and so ready after 18 yrs.
This gives me hope Elizabeth thank you
Hope your doing well still please update us
You can do it. Stay strong...all the best to you!🙏🌹
Alcohol makes anxiety so much worse, especially when your hung over and haven't slept very much. It absolutely heightens the effects of anxiety and depression.
Alcohol makes it worse because you're actually suffering from withdrawal.
@rubar1025 alcohol will raise cortisol levels so it is increasing anxiety 100%
Serial relapser here! Currently 26 days sober. I want to make it this time!
UY Scuti I’m not trying to preach or offend but I hope you ask the lord to remove the addiction and help you find even public mental health care to get to the REASON YOU feel compelled to self medicate best wishes. Jesus wants you to talk to him.
15+ years . find a sponsor
You have to believe you deserve it, Uy. You do deserve a sober good life.
You are named after a star, that's fantastic! 😁
@Liz P. what makes you say that
18 years, 4 months and 13 days. Miracles do happen.
I'll have 2 years this July 15th!
ODAAT! Way to go! I'm 16 years sober.
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES! CONGRATS! Keep-It-Up!!!!!!!
WELL DONE!!!🌺🌺
YES THEY DO. CONGRATS.
Over 5 years sober. Best 5 years of my life.
Every time a person overdrinks, brain cells die. Many people still think addiction is a moral issue. It's a medical and psychological issue. Never be afraid to ask for help.
It can certainly be a conditioned response like Pavlov's dogs. But most alcoholics, including myself, are dealing with underlying mental health issues -- and booze is usually the first prescription we encounter that works.
Alcohol kills brain cells ... and they cannot grow back.
I just lost my brother to this. He was my best friend. He was a good father, brother, and son. He died December 15th. It killed our mother on 1/23/21 a month and 8 days after she lost her only son. Her heart couldn’t take it. He was the most caring, loving, funniest, great big brother ever. I take his ashes everywhere with me. We put his asked in the ocean because that’s what he wanted. He loved all animals and nature. He loved to fish.
I took care of him the last few years of his life. I wish I could hear him one more time.
I too was a alcoholic. I’ve been sober since 2012. You can do it
I miss my brother
You are a beautiful person.
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your brother and mom rest in peace.
Prayers
I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP to your brother and mom. Losing people really sucks.
I have been sober for 28 years now, one day at a time.... I will always be an alcoholic. My mother died of wet brain at the age of 46. I understand what you are going through. ..
Today I'm 30 years sober.♥️
XXX congratulations!
Congrats
Buena vida felicidades:).
@Lorraine Cortes, way to be. Keep going & never look back. That it very cool.
Way to be! Keep on going & never look back.
26 years, 7 months, 6 days. By the grace of my higher power.
Struggling with inanimate objects? Are you a powderpuff?
I am 5 years sober. Alcohol consumed me and my marriage. My husband and I were both alcoholics but only I was physically addicted. He went to prison and I went to treatment. He’s been out of jail for almost 5 years years and we are going strong. This story is such an inspiration! #wedorecover
30 days sober but I guess we gotta start somewhere...
i hope you’re ok!
@@abbyrosenbaum thanks for asking!! ❤️
@Allison Bauch too kind thank you so much ❤️🥰
One thing you'll realize is that no matter how many minutes/hours/days/years you have...you really only have today. The person who has 20 years...only has today. Today you'll go to sleep and say thank goodness I have today......
Keep going strong 💖
Both of my parents were so-called "functioning" alcoholics, and although they were never cruel to us as kids, I was embarrassed that I couldn't have friends over after school or on weekends. My father was a psychologist, and he explained to me that both sides of the family had strong genetic tendencies toward addiction, so I decided I'd just never tempt fate and drink. The only alcohol I've ever had has been in cooked food. Some people call me boring, and I'm fine with that. I prefer boring to chaos any day of the week.
I don't consider you boring but very smart due to your genetics.
Thanks, Pam.
Excellent comment
Wow you are amazing.
SmittenKitten is the best name :)
It's my anniversary today. 2 years with no alcohol :)
🤗🌻
Keep coming back!! One day at a time.
Do u do meth
Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈 you are strong., you new life start right now.
@@amazingsweet4125 Different program for that.
I can so relate to her story. I was a functioning alcoholic for years. Raised 3 kids, worked, did everything any other person would do. But boy did I drink. One day, I told my kids I had enough, and passed out. I was in the hospital on my back for 2 weeks. I got out and just never looked back. It's a very personal addiction. It becomes your best friend. I am sober over 18 months now, and have no cravings or desire at all by the grace of fate. If you are in this position, please seek help.
24 years 4 months thank you Lord for keeping me.
You're awesome! Congratulations :)
That is amazing!🎉
Amen. To God must go the glory. Well done!
Bless.
alvera orr really? “The lord” you’re REALLY not even gonna give yourself the credit you deserve? Why?
I've been sober for four years, nine months. So glad I survived.
Struggling with brainless things? How do you deal with teenagers, dude?
"I would die for my children..I would kill for mr children but I couldn't stop drinking for my children."
THAT's addiction.
Brava for sharing, being SO strong & quitting.
Perfectly Said
I drank enough to harm my cerebellum in my brain and soon will have to use a wheelchair. Just have a hard time walking even with a walker!
Stop-it’s just not worth it. If anyone has a cure for this disability kindly let me know. A cure for cerebellum damage
It’s not god it is yourself that gets one to stop
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TO ADMITTING THIS TRUTH. I ALSO LOVE AND KILL FOR MY CHILDREN BUT SOMEHOW EVERY PINKY PROMISE THAT I WOULD NOT USE AGAIN WAS BROKEN THE NEXT DAY. ONLY TURNING TO GOD HAS GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH TO TURN MY LIFE AROUN.
Well said!
I have never been a drinker. During our shelter in place last year, being isolated from my family while working in urgent care, I started drinking, just to relax. I was very surprised at how quickly the thoughts of alcohol would enter my mind after work, almost immediately. For me, it's best I just stick with a Christmas toast. I'm so grateful to be aware of that.
Happy for you to have been able to recognize it and deal with it before you had to suffer from the consequences of addiction. Hope you're still doing well.
Omg I was just about to comment that the exact thing started happening to me in 2020. I'm glad I caught myself, and shortly after I decided not to drink again. I haven't had a drink in 3 years.
Thanks.. same here: specifically @ BIG TIME BUSY Pharmacy ……. THOUGH had cut back ethanol, (* side effects,etc.) to less toxic chemicals(* esp. diazepam, Hydrocodone)……
I just want to add this tidbit about drinking alcoholic beverages at your company Holiday Parties: I was new to a company & was invited to a nice Holiday Party, but the very well-dressed female employee sitting at my table warned me whispering "Don't drink beer or wine or mixed drinks--the staff is watching to see who imbibes in those types of drinks so they will be ready to fire you easily when their funds are reduced or grants are not renewed!".
Ur so brave
Thank you Ms. Vargas for your courage.
I admire her. This openness about one's mistakes is rare, especially in the US (I guess).
Cheyann Doyle Most of ya'll are alcoholics or recovering that support her!!!!!
Wrong. I'm not an alcoholic or recovering. I totally support her because she has probably helped people by doing this. Life isn't just about my personal experiences.
Cheyann Doyle they don’t eat
Ughh. I’m watching this in 2020. I’m an alcoholic and struggling horribly
Thank you Elizabeth Vargas. You’re my HERO
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Be a winner and join AA
Prayers 🙏🏻 you get help. It's out there. Go to an AA meeting. It will help.
🙏❤
KA go to the AA web site> find a meeting> online and telephone meetings and just listen to people like yourself. block the video on Zoo if you don't want to be seen. I'm 28 years sober and love/ need these meeting everyday. WE can do it :)
I haven't had a drink for 3 years best thing I ever did
Congrats! So happy for you!
Way to go my dear.
I was the same and then I drank for a friends birthday and I went downhill. I have a lot to lose too!! More than most people
That is so awesome! You have chosen for yourself to stay sober!! WAY TO GO!
Emme Turner Bales congrats
It's amazing that she did this interview so many people need to hear this. From day one alcohol was a problem for me I was a monster at 14 the moment it touched my lips it was over I was blackout drunk and it led to a drug addiction that ruined my life thank God I got out and I have 5 years clean 🙏
Good for you! What a triumph:) keep in going!
@@MiniM69 thank you!
Awesome so proud of you!
well done
this is awesome and I'm so happy for you! 14 is so young but you got through it and I am so happy!
Dont quit quitting. If it takes 100,000 tries it's worth it.
Join AA and be a winner, dude.
I've been in recovery for quite a while if it wasn't for A.A. I'd be dead but it takes more than that you have to learn how to be happy 🎇
Thank you for the pep talk.
💞
That's The best advice 👌🏼😍
Currently drunk alcoholic here. I hope I can join you sober guys soon! I'd like to escape this, as you have.
I’m struggling too but I have cut back. Start small by having even one less drink. We can do this!!
DaDennyH the night I called the AA hot line in despair the person on the phone told me the only person on this earth that can get me sober is me. I have to want it. I celebrate 16 years of sobriety tomorrow. It was difficult the first year, but SO worth it.
@@mychellefitzgerald that's amazing! I'm struggling with alcohol.. 😢
You can do it!!
My friend died from alcoholism days ago. She was 45 years old. My dad died from alcoholism one week after his 49th birthday. My sister is in deep denial and drinks until she passes out regularly. She says she doesn't have a problem.
Just over 1 year sober and watching this is so inspiring and hopeful.
Hello Kerry
Don't let any negative comment send you back.. I'm on day one and waiting... Be prepared for battle against arseholes
God has blessed us both 🙏 6 1/2 months without that poison called alcohol for me!💜 stay free 💜
Keep.strong
Married to a recovering alcoholic. You have some serious guts, and I commend you for putting yourself out there for others to see. I was in the same boat as your husband. Raising 2 kids while mommy slept it off, just to start again as soon as she got up. It nearly destroyed our marriage. But, my wife had the courage and ability to quit and I thank God everyday for that. Thank you so much for sharing this story Elizabeth. I hope it helps people take their lives back.
My parents stuck it through- 45 years. My dad didn’t ask to be an alcoholic. I’m sure his father and HIS father didn’t either. I sure didn’t ask for it. It took a lot of strength and self-control and it just not being acceptable in my family for me to finally get the right kind of help and stick with it.
Omg!! This comment section is CATHARTIC!!!!
LOVE AND STRENGTH AND LOVE TO YOU ALL!!!
I'm in this war as well
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
Life is such a precious gift but so darned difficult to unwrap. Never give up.
I cannot imagine the courage it took for her to do this. She's so strong.
Jenna Mahanay don't let the dog.
BuyTheTicket TakeTheRide huh??
okay Curt, you're right.
Beautiful answer Curt. Perfect.
Jenna Mahanay, Curt Christensen: Each individual who deals with addiction has their own words to describe their experience and they are all 100% right--for themselves. No one else can describe it for anyone else--only for themselves.
I used to work with her and she was such an absolute professional, never knew she was going through this. This was a huge surprise, happy she is doing better.
Thanks for sharing. She seems so beautiful inside. Where it counts.
Thank you for sharing that- even the most functional can be hiding a terrible addiction.
My mom was a very aknowledged school teacher, but at home she had a abusive side (drinking in the closet) and violent relationships.
I know deep down in her beautiful troubled heart this had to be one of the toughest interviews she's ever done because for once The roles are changed Elizabeth 's the one being interviewed & asked tge tough questions .HOLD YOUR head up high Elizabeth ! You're winning the battle & sweet lady you have more support then you'll ever know. I struggled with it for years til I moved & made the decision I wanted to make a change in my life 2 decades later I can walk down the beer isle or sit with folks who are drinking and it doesn't bother me & I can't stand the smell of it.
Today is Day #7 of being sober, this show meant so much to me. Gives me strength to know I belong to a group of very brave people. One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. Thank you Elizabeth!!
7 days is huge! Keep it up one day at a time. If one day is too much, take a half a day at a time. You can do this. This was such a real wakeup call for me. Hang in there 💖💙
Today is my day one with out a 🍻 I can't do this anymore please pray for me and god bless you all..
You posted this a week ago so now you should be 7 or 8 days.. wishing you strength
You can do it!
Im in your boat lets do this please god im terrified at the amount i drink one day i wont wake up xx
I'm praying. For you. One day at a time.
I’m on day two today. With Gods Grace I will make it this time. I believe in you too Rami!!
what a brave women to share her story...I am also a alcoholic. .15 months sober
Congrats! Keep it going.
Nancy Marin 1 year sober! We can do it. PTL.
I'm an addict and good on you for getting sober... It is a rough ride and I hope you keep it up...
you are amazing!!
Nancy Marin - you are not an alcoholic- you WERE an alcoholic! I’m so happy for you, my sister is currently an alcoholic and not seeking treatment
Sober since 2/28/88. Thank you, God and the fellowship of AA.
And your willingness to do what you had to do to stay sober. GREAT JOB!
Colleen Monahan AA save my life . Got a God of my understanding, 19 years sober, by Gods gift to me One day at a time. Eh
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
A brave woman bearing her soul to tell everyone her darkest demons. So glad to hear she has turned her life around.
This August I'll be 4 years clean.
I salute you !
U mean dry, drug addiction is clean, your not the same as a alcoholic,
@@johnwilliams2479 all labels suck.
@A D I'm correct
Awesome!
Just finished reading Elizabeth's book, it was so, so good I highly recommend it to anyone but especially those who are dealing with addiction, either themselves or someone they love. I'm six months (seven in less than week) sober from heroin today!
Losers are powderpuffs who struggle with inanimate objects.
That is so good to read, not many can get off heroin, you are now on my prayer list until the day I die. Well done
How are you doing? May God bless you and help you daily to succeed and stay healthy 🙋🙏🙏🙏
God is good keep up the good work stayed bless I lost my uncle to that stuff and not a day goes by we don’t miss him his daughter is having the hardest time ever ! God bless you!
My son and daughter in law just passed 7 yrs herion free..as you know it takes a lot of work but it's possible. Keep up the good work sending positive thoughts your way!
21 years this December, was my last drink. I really went through the wringer. Life is so much better now. I can relate to her story. She has courage.
28 years for me... Awesome, isn't it? Good job! ..... One day at a time!
Congratulations, that's so awesome
holy marbles, 21 years? That is absolutely amazing and do not forget that!
❤️
@@DeeDee-nn4ff ❤️
People who judge don't matter and people who matter don't judge!
Sober recovery date: December 23, 1978 with gratitude !
Dont bash her. She is been honest and no matter how ptoviliged she is. Alcoholism is what it is
She has a drinking problem - i wouldn't call her an alcoholic based on the amounts she mentioned. And her big 'horror' story was being at the lethal limit one time. It is EASY to be at the lethal limit. Probably one bottle of wine for a woman her size and you could get there if you drank it within an hour. That is NOT real alcoholism. Laura Duhe same deal.
Shiawasenaneko omg ... AGAIN do your research you don't have a clue !
Shiawasenaneko With respect you don't know what the fuck you are waffling on about. Your whole post is just assumption.
Shiawasenaneko WRONG! SHE IS A FULL BLOWN ALCOHOLIC!
I hope you don't try to help anyone with that kind of thinking!
they got to do it on their own. No one can help someone out of this, unless they are willing and THEY have to do 90 percent of the work, if not more...
18 months sober after 40 years of black out, broken bones, angry kids and multiple detoxes, treatment centers and jails, one day at a time
Excellent. You can do it.
How's it going Bill? I hope you're doing well!
Proud of you Bill! ruclips.net/video/klt8auU9WM8/видео.html
Take it to a meeting!! Not a public forum.
One day at a time brother.
We fall down differently, but the ground still feels the same for everybody.
SEVEN SIX you'll be fine, stupidity is not a crime as of yet:)
Mary's World Beautifully said:)!!!
SEVEN SIX what? You're not old enough to say shit are you? Now run along you blouse.
love this.
I like your comment to Seven Six... I'm an addict and trust me me it is hard work... You hit rock bottom and then realise there is a basement below so you fall even deeper... I'm just being honest... :-)...
She was dissociating from the anxiety and the grabbing of the desk and her engagement ring brought her back. I had no idea I was doing the same thing, dissociating. This is so relatable it hurts.
15 years and counting. Bipolar, anxiety disorder, and ADD, but thanks to my loving higher power I remain sober. Truly a miracle.
Yes,,, it is,,,,hang in there,,,,
Beautiful lady......but we are all the same.... Aren't t we? It's all about the reality of life.
that’s really great
I am an alcoholic. This woman is so spot on in the way she describes how it feels when you realize you're too far gone and can't stop drinking. Great interview.
tardigrade how are you doing now? Care to share?
he's passed out.
Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood, everywhere you look Miriam Lancewood. Damn a Miriam Lancewood !
The jittery/shaky feeling all over your body is spot on.
@@emlove6010 and the heart fluttering
I love how ABC really stood by her and let her fumble a few times. That is very rare. Most companies would get rid of you the second they heard of your sickness. Way to go corporate!!
ABC
That was awesome
ABC!
that is now, and then, true. But there were several decades before that when doing that kind of job required a high alcohol tolerance level. Then things changed radically, which makes this story that much more poignant.
Lol... Because she is high up..... She's been in the industry for a looong time, when you're that high up, you can do anything
I remember watching this when it first aired. I was so blown away at her level of honesty, vulnerability class and grace during this interview. Tbh, I still am and even more impressed. What a wonderful woman who is helping so many with her story!
yea...until you realize she's selling a book and this a standard media plug/cashgrab
I’ve been sober 14 months. It’s truly, every addict only has today. I’ve said many times I’m only one broken heart away from relapse. It’s amazing the things humans do to avoid or stop pain.
Miss Jones is that you in your profile photograph?
Join AA and see a psychologist. That's for normal people with issues.
Yes! I am only a heart break away from a relapse. Love that
Proud of you sweetie ruclips.net/video/klt8auU9WM8/видео.html
Hopefully you have found what works for you now. If by chance you haven't and are still searching don't give up it does come sometimes it just takes awhile. Life is such a precious gift but so darn difficult to unwrap.
I feel her pain. I was brought back to life with a defibrillator about 6 years ago, due to a car accident. If it wasn't for a 16 year old with a cell phone on a bike at 2AM, passing by that night, I'd be dead. All caused by alcohol. It didn't scare me out of stopping. Fast forward 6 years later, detox. 12 days under medical supervision. Still didn't scare me. Tonight, marks day 1. I'm done with the cycle. It ends today.
An update would be great I'm praying for you brother
My son's overdose didnt make him stop either. He used heroin. Eventually he decided to stop. They say "you gotta want it." He white knuckled it for at least a year. There is a lot of good people ready to help you. Alone it's almost impossible. Trust me, my other son sits on my piano in a box. The pain is indescribable. Good luck.
@@mp5249 🙏🏽❤😢
hope you're doing good. do u exercise a lot? that helps me very much. exhaust the body and get into that zen state.
How are you doing a year later?
As an alcoholic myself, I applaud her for her bravery. I haven't drank in years, but still struggle.
It's damn hard but keep it up... Xxx...
Don't stop trying. I am a stranger but I am praying for you Joan. Everyday.
Joan Holliman you are amazing and one day at a time.
I hear you.. I often (jokingly, because I don't believe in reincarnation) think that in my next lifetime, I'll have great skin (I had horrible acne as a teenager and it left scars), great hair (mine is fine and thin), and I WON'T be an alcoholic! (lol).
Not necessarily in that order.....
Joan Holliman hope he has fin
I’m so glad she came out of alcoholism. I grew up with an alcoholic mother and she is still one until this day. My grandmother had to raise me and my sister because of it. It’s scary because I was starting to drink a lot too to the point where I needed wine next to my nightstand at night to feel “secure” when going to sleep in case I “needed” it. A friend saw how much I was drinking on a one girls night out and called me out. It changed everything. I haven’t drank in over a year. Please tell your family and friends what you see. You don’t know how much it can impact their life.
Everyone that's being hateful should be ashamed of yourselves. Just because she is rich doesn't mean her battle was less than. She has a problem and addiction is not only a poor man's problem. And the fact that she is well known I think is even more of a brave act to make her struggle public.
Well said, Kasia!
I guess they're jealous because they've done nothing with their lives. Imagine what she could have achieved if sober all those years?
She still suffered a lot, lost her husband, almost lost her career. Could have lost her boys. Even money can't stop alcoholism. I'm glad she was finally willing to stay sober one day at a time.
What amazes me...is she has managed to look so good and keep her work.
Kasia, you are absolutely right. Anxiety and drinking can affect anyone, rich or poor.
When I think about all the times I was alone and blacked out, wandering around downtown Seattle streets, or alone on vacation in Mexico, I know that I had guardian angels watching over me. I really should be dead.
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@@jg6698 Yeah, that is some crazy shit. I have never seen this before. Shame on him!
Glad you are still here with us. Take care!
I'm struggling with alcohol. Cant make it past 7 days sober. Starting day 2 again, pray I can make it past my days off.
You can do it! One day at a time.
@@Empen2013 thank you. Two weeks ago I finally decided to try something. I'm 21 days sober right now. It's been annoying, my journey has just started. But, so far this has been great. I gave disulfiram a try and I'm two weeks into it. Gotta do some test on my liver tomorrow make it it doesnt hurt more than help. But, so far it's been great. While on these meds I literally cant drink or I'll get sick. Its helped me knowing I literally cant drink at all or suffer horrible consequences.
@@RH-qx7wm thanks for the advice. I tried AA a couple times where I lived an the atmosphere just felt not satisfying to me and felt like a cult. I don't know how to explain it honestly. I'm currently 25 days sober right now. I take one of those pills every other day right now and that makes it where I literally cant drink. Or if I was to, there wouldn't be at fun in it. Straight to sickness from one drink. Once I get the testing finished an blood work back seeing how this is effecting my liver, I'm going to start going through a Christian program at a church in the town i work in. I already talked to the guy twice so far. Hes an ex alcoholic. Was supposed to die, his liver was just dead. Doctors said he had only a few weeks to live. He ended up praying knowing he was going to die and was asking for forgiveness an such for what hes done with his life. And he said a few days later after passing out due to pain he woke up and his liver was no longer not functioning at all. 100 percent functional. Doctors couldn't explain it. I'm a Christian. So you might think stuff like this doesnt happen. But anyway, after talking to him I believe this is more of a program I'm willing to try. AA just didn't feel right. I need to not only stay sober but I need to correct my life in this aspect too. I've been back sliding. Anyway, sorry for the long reply. I just randomly woke up, kinda not awake yet. I appreciate the comment. :)
techmaster170 keep trying.. it may take years but the intention is key
@@henrywhh oh I'm not giving up. Currently 25 almost 26 days sober right now. :) But if something happens an I fail again. I'll get myself back up and keep moving forward.
I to have anxiety and an alcoholic. So sick of drinking and I'm sitting here feeling sick from a few days before. I'm glad I stumbled across this story 🙏🏽
Hope and pray you are in a better place now. 🙃
I stumbled onto this unexpectedly. I can relate to so many things she said...,the hiding, the shame when my secret was out, etc. My problem was with pain pills, my job as a nurse gave me easy access. I worked for several years before I crossed the line and became addicted. I had to be confronted several times before being able to admit I had a problem. My nursing license was suspended and I went to rehab so I could get reinstated. Ironically, I made the difficult decision not to go back to nursing because I couldn't say if I could handle being around the drugs again and I knew I wouldn't be able to handle hitting bottom a second time. I do share my "sobriety time," which is 26 years and 6 months and I have been a substance abuse counselor for the last 18 years.
Great story
My 30 year marriage broke up due to the excess drinking of the ex wife. She is also a nurse. No one can ever tell her she needed help. I was left with 4 adult angry children. The children refused to allow her back into their life. When they tried, she would become a drunken mess and cause a really bad scene. I begged the children to not hold a grudge, because it would hurt them in a long run. It pains me that this women is alone. She was not invited to two college graduations and two weddings. We have not spoken for years. We all know a phone call is coming......I still prayer for her every Sunday.
Christine good for you and may God bless you everyday. Keep up the good work.
@@Fly_Navy praying for your kids. My exhusband is an alcoholic and had a liver transplant 3 years ago. He's back to heavy drinking and my daughter repeatedly tells me she hates him and never wants to see him. I tell her that it's okay to be angry but to hate the addiction and hate how it's made her feel, but don't hate him. It's a horrible illness that has robbed my daughter of a father she deserves. I don't know if it's wrong or right, but I don't force her to see him. It breaks my heart knowing how much pain his drinking has caused her.
Amazing … ✌🏼
I drank like I have never seen anyone drink. I by the grace of God am free of that Devil. Hate it now. I lost my daughter to prescription drugs 5 months ago but never drank because of it. I am as free as I will ever be.Thank you, Jesus.
So very sorry for the loss of your daughter.
I pray for you. I hope you keep being strong. I am sorry for your loss. It hurts but feel it like we all do (i also lost a baby). Dont be afraid of the feeling. Its hard but it will pass and you will be fine. Sad but fine. Sadness is part of everything we need to experience. It hurts but we are made to overcome it also. Just keep being aware of it. You don't need to escape or numb the pain. Just feel it and it will pass. May God bless you.
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope that you'll be ok.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Addiction .... such a horrible and devastating disease, whether it's alcohol or drugs or over eating or gambling, etc. It doesn't discriminate and affects all walks of life. I'm glad you're sober today. Again, I'm sorry for your huge, huge loss of your daughter.
So sorry for your incredible loss, Gigi. Prayers for you every day. Don't give up. God loves you so much and He is proud of you as we all are.
16 months sober today.
I’m studying to be a bus driver 😎
Great . I’ve been a bus driver for 25 years and now a class A hazmat tanker driver. You can do it good luck.
Lmao….geezus christ.
Wishing you all the best ❤️
@@JB-qt3wo What's so funny?
@@JB-qt3wo What's funny ?? Grow up 🥱🥱
I can totally relate to everything she says! I fought with alcohol for many years before getting sober 31/2 years ago. Praise the Lord!!
I remember when she announced to the world that she was an alcoholic. I was surprised because to me, she always looked so put together & a successful, professional. It opened my eyes to the fact that alcohol can affect ALL people, regardless of the advantages or disadvantages you have in life. I applaud her courage and she has helped people by sharing her story. We should be proud of her for that & not be critical. Just my thoughts.......
I wonder if coworkers smelled the booze on her breath. I doubt the revelation was a surprise to them.
We all do. My alcoholism caused me to lose soo much I had worked soooo hard to achieve. I’m in tears watching this.
I agree
She is 100% spot on when saying it doesn’t matter what you have it really doesn’t matter because the addiction is all you’re living for.
She said it leveled her. She might have had a good job and wealth but you are leveled to the position of any addict.
December 29th 2018 ...I just decided I wasn't drinking alcohol anymore, Jan 2nd 2019 my husband said he wasn't drinking anymore ( both of us drank many bottles of wine a day for years) I met and married him last year. Its now 31st. January 2019 and neither of us have thought about alcohol since we made our decision. We drink mostly water and enjoy remembering our day and our time together. Since December 29th 2018 I have lost 24lbs and my husband has lost 16 lb, and gone down 2 sizes☺ I had an alcohol dependant father and myself and brother were given alcohol as children with no limits. It has affected me all my life and how i'm still alive i'll never know. This year I feel like myself and husband are begining a new life and we feel great☺
Jayne Pete did you have serious problems coming off of it. I drink a few beers a night, for 2 years. I want to stop but am afraid. Cannot go to rehab and don’t want to have seizures and etc.... i hope you see this,
Thank you for sharing ! May you never feel the chains of addiction again ! Hugs!
I’m almost 68 and struggled with alcohol for over 40 years. I’ll be sober 4 years August 20 2024. To share your story took so much strength. God Bless you ❤
Thanks for sharing. I too am an alcoholic. I self medicated my panic disorder with vodka. I got liver disease and was on my last legs. I am now 8 years, 6 months and 1 day sober. I am studying for a degree in Psychology and behavioural science and addiction.
Donna Kay well done girl, be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you
@@mcewenca Thank you!
How can I help my 75 year old mom quite drinking?
@@LSUN118 you cant. It is something she has to do of her own accord. If you quit drinking for someone else you'll never succeed. All you can do is give her information, tell her that support and help is there if and when she chooses. I know being a family member of an alcoholic is soul destroying and believe me, your mum knows shes hurting you but until she has the resolve to do it herself I'm afraid you have to sit back and watch. Dont enable her though. Dont give her anymore money or supply her with booze. Cut her off from that. Be there for her to lean on but refuse to be part of the problem anymore. Good luck
@@jellybathwater •☆.•*´Thank You`*•.☆•
I am 2 yrs sober today by the grace of God!. It took courage for her to bare her truth the way she did!.
Fantastic Jill, keep strong!
Congratulations!
Good on you Jill... Xxx...
Good for you i wish i could stop
Atta Girl .
3yrs sober. And no smoking for that long as well.
RESPECT
One day at a time!!
WOW!!! BLESSINGS SENT FROM RHODE ISLAND WITH LOVE & RESPECT. PEACE
Rebecca seppanen I got caught up in going to 70s concerts, I was breaking the law drinking beer at 16. I surprised myself how much I could drink being only 5'6" Tall. Also surprised I had Girlfriends being that small. Doesn't help coming from an IRISH Family. I think IRISH People are SPECIAL born with Red Hair & Freckles. We have our flaws our skin burns easily in the sun, REDHEADS do get made fun of. Had a sister obsessed with Long Hair Rock Stars. Alcohol Addiction is real, I would drink 12 cans & still wanted more. 1 time on New Years Eve I was so drunk I kissed a stranger instead of my Girlfriend. I had lots of blackouts if you don't know what that is you cant remember anything you did that night. Aside from my Drinking I kept my job for 28 years. This is silly when I had to go to Court I thought I would be in more trouble cause of my IRISH name. Lucky DWI laws weren't that bad in 70s & 80s. Going to AA meetings got me sober, those meetings were so helpful everybody is so Friendly. Congrads on quiting smoking. Im live near INDIAN RESERVATIONS TAX Free CIGERETTES only $ 14.00 dollars for a carton. I live in NEW YORK 12 dollars for 1 pack. Sorry for all IRISH Stuff IM JUST A PROUD IRISH AMERICAN
What was harder, quitting drinking or smoking? Did you find that it was a cross addiction & quit both at same time? I'm not a big drinker but I find smoking hard to quit & I like to have a beer when I smoke.
Still fighting the good fight. I have had a couple of struggles. July 17th will be two years sober. Life is good. Thank you for asking.
My dad lost his battle with alcoholism not long before this documentary was uploaded. To those fighting now: Alcoholism kills. Get help if you need it. Keep trying till you succeed. Someone out there loves you and wants you back.
I am seeing so many sobriety dates! Congratulations to you all! And to those still struggling, I am with you, you are strong, and I believe in you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Anxiety is the biggest childhood affliction of all...and it leaves life-long tracks.
zeroceiling wow this is soo true. Life long for sure.
I remember watching this years ago and I cried like a baby bc I ADMIRED HER soo much! I saw someone with so much compassion, STRENGTH, & COURAGE, etc. I don’t think I have EVER been so PROUD of a woman behind the screens in my life. I’ve struggled with addiction for 13 years. I lost my little brother to
ONE pill laced with Fentanyl during the 2020 pandemic- & couldn’t even give him a real funeral. I got clean a few months before he passed. And it’s been the absolute HARDEST to stay straight but TODAY, I can say I feel confident enough that I believe I may make it. I think of this woman so much during my journey. For the rest of you- YOU ARE WORTH GETTING HELP!
27 years sober, only because I asked the Lord Jesus the Christ to take the taste out of my mouth.
I AM RECOVERED BECAUSE OF GOD'S GRACE & MERCY!
Amen, glory to our Lord and savior Jesus Christ!
Really?
God is good but please give yourself some credit. You fought hard. Don't ever forget that.
Amen glory to the highest God is Good 🙏 may he bless you endlessly
Good old God.Now perhaps he can pay a visit to a children's cancer ward.
She was so blessed to be surrounded by family who loved her unconditionally.
And to have the money to deal w this at some luxury resort. Dealing w addiction when you're poor is a whole different story.
@@suchabadkitty1293 She did not go to a luxury resort. I just finished reading her book. She could have afforded luxury. But someone encouraged her go to some treatment center that turned out to be not so great.
@@daughterofthemosthigh3366 Irrelevant.
Women metabolize alcohol differently which leads to addiction, damage sooner
@@BJ2020_ Explain.
I've always liked Elizabeth Vargas but I admire her more so now :)
Love this. Especially the child dynamic. I was six years sober when my only child, a son, was born. It’s been 15 years since my last drink. My life’s goal is that he never sees me with a drink in my had or booze on my breath. It’s the greatest gift I can give him. For anyone struggling, don’t give up. One more try is always worth it. ❤️
I remember my first year I wanted five years and today I have 34 years but we all have just one day at a time
You're amazing! 💕
diane oberle - Congrats & continued blessings to you!
diane oberle,I admire your lovely smile
Hello Diane, I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
One day at a time....sober and clean 9 years and 9 months..alcohol and prescription meds. Life if wonderful
Wow! OMG, I am brought to tears watching this. I have suffered from anxiety and panic attacks but only as a middle-aged (40's and 50's) woman and it is TERRIFYING. I don't know how she managed to go on air like that. How she hid the trembling, the heart pounding, the fast shallow breathing. In my experience, you can almost pass out from the lightheadedness and the waves of nausea are miserable. And I can't IMAGINE the horror of experiencing that as a child! No WONDER she started drinking! She was not getting any relief whatsoever! That's unimaginable! No human being should have to suffer that way, especially a child! What an amazing, strong woman! She is so full of love and courage! Her story just shows you the amazing resilience of human beings. I am wishing for her all the happiness in the world, every day. She deserves to feel happy. We ALL do. The same for all those other people out there struggling with addiction. You ARE LOVED. You CAN heal. You don't HAVE to beat yourself up for your horrible mistakes. You were doing the best you could. Take care of yourself. And as a nation, we need to STOP treating mental illness as a crime and STOP stigmatizing and judging people and start HELPING these people and their families get help. It's called compassion and humanity! We REALLY need a single-payer health care system so that EVERY person can get the treatment they need, whether they are working in a job with good benefits or not! Healthcare should not be tied to your job.
As an aside, I found TREMENDOUS relief from my anxiety and panic attacks by taking magnesium powder (magnesium citrate), one of the essential minerals/electrolytes. Turns out MOST human beings are magnesium deficient or on the verge of being so. This depletion happens due to stress as well as a deficiency in the diet. Our soils are much lower in magnesium and other nutrients than they used to be a few decades ago due to over-farming and non-organic farming practices, so we are simply not getting the nutrition we need, including this essential, vital mineral. And add the extra stress in our lives and our magnesium, normally stored up in our bones, is being depleted. The more stress you endure, the more likely you are depelting your magnesium. Magnesium is said to be like oil is for a car, making all kinds of functions run more smoothly. One of these is your mental health and brain functioning as well as heart functioning. Magnesium is also the calming mineral that has receptors in the brain to help our brain deal with stress. When magnesium gets depleted, we start having anxiety and depression because the mineral is no longer there to act on the brain the way it is supposed to.
So, if you are having anxiety or depression, LOOK INTO MAGNESIUM! Please, I urge you! If you had a stressful childhood, then you are no doubt depleted. I literally almost cured my daily anxiety attacks within a couple of days. I have not had a full-blown panic attack since I started taking magnesium in my water bottle twice a day, once in the morning and once at night. I take it with a sugar-free pink lemonade crystal light packet for flavoring. I consider it my homemade, healthy version of Gatorade. I try to make sure I am eating a better diet with more vegetables high in magnesium and other nutrients as well. Check your diet too. Peace.
yes magnesium is great for anxiety
Thank you 4 sharing. This is indeed useful information. Just wanted to note that there are certain autoimmune conditions that can have a worsening of symptoms from taking magnesium (even though will always test low in it). Myasthenia Gravis, for example. Taking magnesium with MG can be life threatening.
Aubrey - Thank you so much. I’m going to try it. Where can I purchase magnesium? Just at my local grocery store? Is there a specific brand that you like?
@@sabrina.natalie There are TONS of options, different formulas of magnesium, some absorb better than others, some in powder form, others in pill. I like the Magnesium Citrate powder because I just put it in my water bottle with a little Crystal Light flavoring and it seems to take effect pretty quickly that way, usually within about 45 minutes I feel more calm. I buy the Spring Valley (Walmart) brand in the vitamin aisle. Kroger (our grocery store) has a name brand called "CALM" that works good too but it costs twice as much. I think that one is Magnsium Oxide. They're both good though. Just get one of them to get started and then you can research the others if you want to optimize it. I know there is one form that is more expensive and it's supposed to absorb into your brain very quickly so if you have really bad anxiety/panic, try that one. Just google search on "forms of magnesium". Take good care!
@@sabrina.natalie By the way, I changed my YT name, in case you were wondering. But it's still me. :-)
I am losing my mom, age 70, to alcoholism. As I grew up, she never drank, we never really had alcohol in the house..she always said she hated the taste of all alcohol. She'd had a long and successful career, which she was retiring from...and suddenly somehow she discovered she no longer loathed alcohol, and over the space of 2 or so years, she immersed herself into full throttle alcoholism. Weddings, funerals, holidays, she has missed or destroyed many of them. Our family is in shambles, relationships destroyed. She has done several stints in rehab, one for 3 full months. She got her 3rd DUI recently. Then in January 2021, a few months ago, the unthinkable occurred, and I don't think we will ever have answers. She has hid so much of her life from us, her friends, etc....but a friend we know came to visit her after not hearing from her for days, and found her in her apartment, brutally beaten, barely conscious, blood just everywhere. He called the squad.
My alcoholic mother had received a Traumatic Brain injury, not even speaking to the multiple fractures, contusions- all of it. She has no idea who has done this to her, and after a month in hospital, she was released, was staying with my aunt, and now she drinks openly, the only change was her efforts to conceal her addiction. If my aunt took her Vodka, she tried to leave, said she would walk . The Dr's told us how incredibly important it is the she does not sustain another fall, is very careful...but she can't be controlled. We called the police, there is nothing they could do,it isn't illegal to drink yourself to death.
Finally she got so intoxicated we were able to have her taken in as a threat to herself physically, and we scrambled, began the process of filing for guardianship, which failed. She has been taken back to the hospital easily 20 times in these 4 months, and keeps getting out. We make her the neurologist appointments she was supposed to have, she cancels them. She will have 5 minutes occasionally of sounding somewhat like the person we remember..maybe some vague discussion of wanting to get sober, then she drinks. The Doctors have said there was very little chance that her brain will ever heal, likely has gotten worse, we are out of legal options, and are aware that we probably do not have very long, as her labs have slowly gotten worse each hospitalization. Barring a miracle..even the realization that her life is unmanageable due to alcohol is unlikely to happen due to her TBI. My heart is broken, but I will still hope, and still cheer for everyone and anyone who has even 1 day sober..please keep trying.
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️
ALANON IS FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF ALCOHOLICS TRY IT IT WORKS FOR ME
Your.poor.poor.mum
You.have.suffered.so.much
Who.ever.did.this.to.your.mum.
She.must.be.so.strong.to.have.pulled.
Through.the.attack.
I.am.thinking.of.you.all
And.hope.you.have.happy.day's.to.
Come.love.england
Wow that's crazy. Your mum sounds like Frank Gallagher from shameless. I guess you've gotta give her credit for not boozing while she was raising you? I wonder if she drank before you were born
I am so sorry for your families lost of your mother. The personality you’re living with isn’t her. I am the daughter of two functioning alcoholic parents. Functioning in that my dad worked everyday and drank on weekends Friday through Sunday morning. The same for my mother. Then gradually my mother started everyday all day. My dad lost his job 3 years from retirement and had to get one with less pay. They separated and things went totally to hell in a hand basket. I drink an occasional glass of wine maybe 4 a month. I have one brother that is dying from alcoholic medical problems. One brother that started drinking at 14, falling down drunk at times( still did until 2 years ago( had a stroke). And one the would only drink at home, violent drunk. 2 out of 5 brothers didn’t drink at all. One girl out of 5 drank heavily ( drink of choice, beer, and she was diabetic). The rest of us drink some wine now and than. I have a nephew( sisters son) that is a drunk, flat out, doesn’t drink going to work but has lost his drivers lic and has his car booted. Mom takes him to court and dad takes him to work. So It can be a family problem through generations.
Wow I had NO IDEA. She has been so wonderful on air and in her work. Of course, none of us could know she had this problem. I am a US Army Sergeant, 9th Infantry and was also an alcoholic killing pain from things I've lived through, From childhood trauma,. Divorce of my parents at age 6. Living in 12 homes with a single mom who was mentally ill RIP. An alcoholic father, so possibly genetic. And military missions, ELIZABETH HAD ME IN TEARS through this entire show. It showed exactly how we all live and hide sneak and hurt people and most of all those WHO LOVE US THE MOST. Then we lose them. She is lucky she kept her family. Her husband, well, I won't say anything. Bless you Elizabeth Vargas, We have all loved you and always will. Stay with it we want you around for another 100 years. Bless you and by the way haven't had a drink since 1997. Thank Almighty God.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
215 alcoholics living in denial....why would anyone thumbs down this.. This takes alot of strength and is so inspiring in many ways 👍
Anyone who hits the thumbs down is clueless. Keep it up, Robert. Don't give up.
I long ago decided that some people probably hit the thumbs down button just to be contrary. Which reminds me, have you ever heard of Oppositional Defiant Disorder? I can see someone with ODD giving thumbs down because that’s just how they roll.
Sober since 12/ 1/ 90
But for the grace.....
Way to go!
Awesome
beautiful comment ♡
I cried watching this. I could feel her pain and shame, I knew it all to well😢. I have been sober going on 13 years and I am finally finding the grace to forgive myself. Thank you Elizabeth for your incredible strength in sharing your story. You are a beautiful soul ❤️🙏❤️
She was a total loser. Powderpuffs always find inanimate objects a struggle. Try raising 4 teens, dude.
She needs to join LLAA
Lying liberal assholes anonymous
She drink out of guilt for lying for an agenda driving media group on a daily basis and she has to sit next to that hack stupidoppolus
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
“The grace to forgive myself” That is the most beautiful expression I’ve encountered in over 35 years of sobriety. You, sir, are a beautiful soul. Thank you.
I can relate to Elizabeth. I drink because I am unhappy and drinking helps shut the feeling. Loosing my job and apartment.
Her story is so familiar. I'm sober a little over 10 years and I'm so grateful for the Salvation Army where I went to rehab. If you can't afford or don't have health insurance the Salvation Army is the only place that will take you when you don't have a penny to your name. You have to work for just about free but they will provide you with a place to stay, food and spiritual education and rehabilitation education.
But you have to want to be sober or it won't work. It's not a miracle you have to work really hard, but in my opinion it's worth it.
Robert Stack Thank god for the Sally.
2 years this July 15th! Anyone struggling, reach out for help. It's possible and it's so worth it!
It’s almost July 15th, so congratulations. This is a major accomplishment. Kudos!!!:)
AA.
1year sober today
Ju Z congrats
Congratulations!! You're a strong individual and I admire your determination. Here's to more days, weeks, months, and years to your sobriety!
Congratulations,! So happy for you!
Congrats!
Wonderful!!
This is one of the most moving news pieces I've ever seen. Congratulations to Elizabeth for her strength and rediscovered grace. And what a mammoth job for Diane Sawyer. That's not an easy interview at all. Hang in there Elizabeth. We all love you.
I cried through this entire interview. Sounds like me so much. Livingva double life until it all falls down and you have to face yourself foe who you are. The shame, humiliation and regret becomes unbearable at times.
Andrea Arrington are you okay!
You are not alone. Warm hugs for strength and the will power to change and make a better life for your future. Stay strong.
I know, Andrea! Same here... I have 2yrs of sobriety this next month. I've worked on a bunch of those feelings but they still come up a lot
I cried too, Andrea. My partner is a recovering alcoholic and he struggles all the time. Don't give up.
Andrea Arrington mmmmmmm
Muir’s
im struggling with alcoholism myself, and watching this gave me hope. god bless you. I'll be rooting for you!
It's hard but you take care me dear... Xxx...
Me too. Been battling that forever plus some! We can pray for hope. Amen.
Up til 2 days ago I've drink for about20 year havin hard time at the moment But I'm fed up with being a alcoholic....good luck to yall and god bless
@@rayc.396 stay strong and take it one day at a time
My first day without alcohol!
I can do it this time !!!
Btw I suffer anxiety
Your anxiety was never cured by alcohol - it has gotten worse. Without alcohol anxiety and withdrawal take over. So instead taper slowly. Consider looking into The Sinclair Method to eliminate cravings and obsessive thoughts for alcohol.
TEDx talk ruclips.net/video/6EghiY_s2ts/видео.html
Documentary www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B07NBWMH9D
"The Cure" by Dr. Roy Eskapa PHD: tinyurl.com/y2n6nufe
Don’t quit trying ever.
Me too!
@@lauracorey2734 much better with anxiety when you don't drink
I learned in AA that an alcoholic is anyone who takes a drink and then cannot stop. It doesn't matter how often one binges in this manner, even if just a couple of times a year. I had not known this, but looking back, this was my history. So Elizabeth's question, when did she become am alcoholic if she could control her drinking early on? She was always an alcoholic....stopping off at the bar before going home was an early indication. She drank before going home so she could drink more at home, unnoticed. I am sure any alcoholic can relate to her story. She is brave to tell her story to the world. I am also one of the lucky ones, sober now for 20 years. To all of you here who have said you relate to her story yet are still drinking, make this moment the beginning of your new life without alcohol. Get help somewhere...you are worth it.
We all have to get to the bitter end, however we get to the bitter end, and whatever that entails. Very few people will take any action, until they are backed into a corner. The reality of alcoholism is that many people will die, despite multiple opportunities to recover. THAT is why I practice gratitude every morning, and live in the bosom of the Fellowship. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". Simple! All the best to you Janet!
@Mark-pp7jy I agree. Everyone's bitter end is different and their own. I was at the end but also remember had one person who gave me a little push. Never know what a bit of encouragement can do. Thanks for sharing. Best to you, Mark.
I binged drinked but never been an alcoholic
Its when your dependent on it there is different types of alcoholics though
@@yvonneanderson7032 No not really. If one drinks and cannot stop, one is an alcoholic. If one can stop, then no, not an alcoholic. I think AA knows. Been around for years and the program helps millions of people. Alcohol is cunning, baffling and powerful. I had to believe the truth to get help and live a better life. I am grateful today.
@@yvonneanderson7032 Lots of people can stop drinking, but can they "STAY STOPPED"? Alcoholism is progressive and fatal!