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I’m going through this as a man. Ex was married but not happy and they (I was told) have no further intimacy and live together for financial/children reasons . I got the yes we’ll live together, have a great time. 8 months down the line I inherited my fathers house and had the space to get her out of the situation with the children, but she will never leave him. It’s devastated me, but I know it was never going to happen deep down. I was imagining a fantasy rather than the actual present situation of secrecy, unavailability. I turned from a happy person into a person hurt and lacking in self esteem. I will get back to where I was but I will never ever go down that road again.
I feel like I was manipulated and used. We were friends and I was helping him get through a tough time. He initiated more and I constantly said NO just friends until he said he was officially moving out of their home and he was doing it not just for himself but for us. I kept telling him I couldn’t, it was wrong and we should wait until everything is finalized. But, he was persistent and wanted to talk everyday and see me, etc. told me he loved me and started acting concerned about me, my well being, my children and even helped me get through some family issues. I slowly opened up to the idea of waiting for him and once he saw I was open, he claimed it was all too much for him and pretty much ghosted
@@Elisabeta.Marina Yes, he did. He apologized and wanted to start over. But, I told him he no longer could have access to me, not even as a friend. I told him I was done, I blocked him and detached. Haven’t talked to him since and I’m ok 😊 currently healing
He didn't dumped me, I dumped him, he just wanted me around. Last time when I ended things he came crawling he called me he wants to talk but in actually he wanted sex. I immediately broke up
WHAT A MARRIED MAN WANTS: 1. Attention. 2. To get laid. PERIOD. And he will say ANYTHING to get what he wants. One thing you know for sure about this guy is he is a liar. Just because you believe he would never lie to YOU doesn’t mean it’s necessarily true. Do yourself a favor and quit lying to yourself. 😢
Every single cheating husband follows the EXACT same protocol👉🏾 1. Claim they are in the process of a divorce. 2. Claim they haven’t had sex with their wife in years. 3. Claim they’ve never cheated before. 4. Make you feel special. 5. Sleep with you until they’re bored with you. 6. Repeat steps 1-5 with a new woman in 1-2 months. They never, ever, ever deviate from the above. Never. Ladies, don’t do it!
This is hard. Had an affair for 2.5 years and left me after 2 months of having his baby now he’s back home working on his broken marriage when the whole affair he kept telling me he wasn’t happy
I don't know if you are going to take this advice but here it is.married people who cheat are liars.they open their mouth and lie(they even believe their own lies.) Check out "in love with a married man "by hg tudor .this will open your eyes(or it won't and you're going to keep going with this liar to the dead end)
He likely WASN’T happy - which is why he went and got himself some action & attention behind his Wife’s back. But chances are he will never leave his Wife since he was just playing around. Most cheaters have no intention of breaking up their family & getting divorced, no matter what line of B.S. he told you. If you are courageous to face the fact that you most likely won’t end up with him, then here are some common lies cheaters tell: 1. “We live like ‘roommates.’” 2. “We never have sex.” (not even vacation or Christmas or his birthday.) 3. “I’m leaving as soon as the youngest kid graduates.” 4. “I don’t love my Wife.” 5. “I love you.”
My ex who was a traveling salesman had a sexual relationship with the motel clerk for more than two years. She finally realized that he used her for sex pure and simple when he was away from home. She dumped him finally and she is still single in her sixties.
That sounds like a very interesting story. I hope whatever they were searching for they could find it in each other even if it's for a split second. Do you think she's single by choice?
I was with a married women for 9 months because she told me her marriage was miserable and her partner was very verbal abusive to her. Being she is from Brazil and had no citizenship here in America by law she had to stay with him for at least 5 years before she can leave him. well 9 months after we dated turns out she dumped me because she was afraid of her partner because he could deport her. I feel betrayed and angry and want to tell her husband but I dunno
Don’t tell her husband, she is in a difficult situation and position and you don’t want to be the reason of her deport , she is risking too much and playing with fire but for sure she is scared and maybe confused about you and her too .:: if you tell her husband it will show to her that you weren’t a good man but someone who betrayed her ( is this love ?) no …. When you love someone you don’t hurt them even if they leave you ….
It's very tricky. I hear what you're saying. She is in a difficult situation. What about you, Annabell? If your partner was cheating would you like their lover to tell you or would you rather not know?
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I never in my life thought I would experience such a thing but here I am ;(
I am so sorry you're going through this. Sending you a big hug. I know it doesn't feel like it.. But this too shall pass 💜🙏🏻
@@IevaKambarovaite thank you you're sweet omg 💗
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I’m going through this as a man. Ex was married but not happy and they (I was told) have no further intimacy and live together for financial/children reasons . I got the yes we’ll live together, have a great time. 8 months down the line I inherited my fathers house and had the space to get her out of the situation with the children, but she will never leave him.
It’s devastated me, but I know it was never going to happen deep down. I was imagining a fantasy rather than the actual present situation of secrecy, unavailability. I turned from a happy person into a person hurt and lacking in self esteem. I will get back to where I was but I will never ever go down that road again.
I feel like I was manipulated and used. We were friends and I was helping him get through a tough time. He initiated more and I constantly said NO just friends until he said he was officially moving out of their home and he was doing it not just for himself but for us. I kept telling him I couldn’t, it was wrong and we should wait until everything is finalized. But, he was persistent and wanted to talk everyday and see me, etc. told me he loved me and started acting concerned about me, my well being, my children and even helped me get through some family issues. I slowly opened up to the idea of waiting for him and once he saw I was open, he claimed it was all too much for him and pretty much ghosted
Did he contact you after?
@@Elisabeta.Marina Yes, he did. He apologized and wanted to start over. But, I told him he no longer could have access to me, not even as a friend. I told him I was done, I blocked him and detached. Haven’t talked to him since and I’m ok 😊 currently healing
He didn't dumped me, I dumped him, he just wanted me around. Last time when I ended things he came crawling he called me he wants to talk but in actually he wanted sex. I immediately broke up
Love that you were able to walk away. I know sometimes it takes more than one breakup to completely cut ties with someone. How was it in your case?
I agree with you... we dont have a future in a married men
WHAT A MARRIED MAN WANTS:
1. Attention.
2. To get laid.
PERIOD.
And he will say ANYTHING to get what he wants.
One thing you know for sure about this guy is he is a liar.
Just because you believe he would never lie to YOU doesn’t mean it’s necessarily true.
Do yourself a favor and quit lying to yourself.
😢
It’s been over 2 years since I parted from him, I can’t get over it…it was the biggest mistake of my life
Every single cheating husband follows the EXACT same protocol👉🏾
1. Claim they are in the process of a divorce.
2. Claim they haven’t had sex with their wife in years.
3. Claim they’ve never cheated before.
4. Make you feel special.
5. Sleep with you until they’re bored with you.
6. Repeat steps 1-5 with a new woman in 1-2 months.
They never, ever, ever deviate from the above. Never.
Ladies, don’t do it!
This is hard. Had an affair for 2.5 years and left me after 2 months of having his baby now he’s back home working on his broken marriage when the whole affair he kept telling me he wasn’t happy
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can't even imagine how hard this must be. I hope you have someone helping you. Sending you much love 🙏🏻
That's just...maddening, sickening for everyone involved, literally.
I don't know if you are going to take this advice but here it is.married people who cheat are liars.they open their mouth and lie(they even believe their own lies.) Check out "in love with a married man "by hg tudor .this will open your eyes(or it won't and you're going to keep going with this liar to the dead end)
He likely WASN’T happy -
which is why he went and got himself some action & attention behind his Wife’s back.
But chances are he will never leave his Wife since he was just playing around.
Most cheaters have no intention of breaking up their family & getting divorced, no matter what line of B.S. he told you.
If you are courageous to face the fact that you most likely won’t end up with him, then here are some common lies cheaters tell:
1. “We live like ‘roommates.’”
2. “We never have sex.” (not even
vacation or Christmas or his
birthday.)
3. “I’m leaving as soon as the
youngest kid graduates.”
4. “I don’t love my Wife.”
5. “I love you.”
@@Lauren-i8ithese men aren’t happy with themselves. Most times has very little to do with the wife.
Beautiful video, Ieva! ♥️🌸
Thank you 💕
You are so funny 🙈 I like the metaphor of yielding to an open door! 🌸
I'm glad you're appreciating my profound metaphors 😁😂
All the best I wish u all the best
All the best to you
My ex who was a traveling salesman had a sexual relationship with the motel clerk for more than two years. She finally realized that he used her for sex pure and simple when he was away from home. She dumped him finally and she is still single in her sixties.
That sounds like a very interesting story. I hope whatever they were searching for they could find it in each other even if it's for a split second. Do you think she's single by choice?
@@IevaKambarovaite It is by no choice.
@@jennifermayer2708 thank you
How do you know the informatjon about the motel clerk? Just curious
Move on is beautiful
The best way, but sometimes easier said then done when someone breaks up with you 🥺
I was with a married women for 9 months because she told me her marriage was miserable and her partner was very verbal abusive to her. Being she is from Brazil and had no citizenship here in America by law she had to stay with him for at least 5 years before she can leave him. well 9 months after we dated turns out she dumped me because she was afraid of her partner because he could deport her. I feel betrayed and angry and want to tell her husband but I dunno
Don’t tell her husband, she is in a difficult situation and position and you don’t want to be the reason of her deport , she is risking too much and playing with fire but for sure she is scared and maybe confused about you and her too .:: if you tell her husband it will show to her that you weren’t a good man but someone who betrayed her ( is this love ?) no …. When you love someone you don’t hurt them even if they leave you ….
That sucks. I'm sorry. I wonder if the desire to tell him was because you wanted to hurt her or because of the 'bro code'? What do you think?
It's very tricky. I hear what you're saying. She is in a difficult situation. What about you, Annabell? If your partner was cheating would you like their lover to tell you or would you rather not know?
So she won't do it to anyone else. She says she loves me over him but I feel lied to@@IevaKambarovaite