"Try Guys" Founder Tried And Failed To Be A Good Husband
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i like everyone is talking about how bad men are and this and that , but no one is talking how untrust worthy that engaged woman was.
love ya brett, always love your commentary :)
If you think that a random project dude is cheating on his girl/wife is a problem, but ignore that 1 in 25 men are the biological fathers, you are a huge part of the problem ! This is why the left and the right are the wings of the same bird. Both of you clowns refuse and/or are to scared to hold females accountable for their actions ! Bring back shaming females ! Men are getting sick and tired of you females not being accountable and act like entitled spoiled brats
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Women cheat at a much higher rate than men.
Let this be a lesson: People who talk about how much they love something, to the point they sound like a record on repeat, are probably putting on a front.
Exactly! Seen it many times myself and it makes the person look like an even bigger loser in the end. Feel bad for Ariel and the kids cause it's out there for all the world to see, forever.
Totally agree
@@lissabrown8213 whoever leaked this is such a scumbag. Not to the extent of Ned or Alex, but still a scumbag. This 100% should not have been made public.
I agree. also they could be trying to convince themselves that they love that person.
very accurate
ariel: "our family, our kids"
ned: "my marriage, my children"
Bingo
Funny because most of the times it's the opposite
“I lost focus”
I lose focus all the time but I don’t go out cheating because of it.
She deserves better.
Listen to the Christian Metal band “MyChildren, MyBride” really really good!!! ❤️🔥
I think this calls for an obligatory “you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.”
-Jordan Peterson
👆
It's easy for women to misidentify weakness and harmlessness as goodness and kindness.
@@ganter5447 very true
Dr. Peterson with philosophical gold.
@@ganter5447 I've just come to that conclusion recently that a meek man and a weak man usually have the same first impression.
No need to lose faith in all men. I’ve been faithfully married to my wife for 18 years. Don’t let one bad apple whether male or female ruin your perception of marriage.
It's not just one. Literally over half of the male population is bad. Just because you happen to be a 'good guy', doesn't mean others are.
@@MarzBlueSoul half the population of women are hoes who think cardi b is a good roll model so tf is your point lol
@@thomasmontgomery805 He said no need to lose faith in MEN, so I replied about MEN. Women are just as bad but he said men.
@@MarzBlueSoul have you met over half of the world's population...soo if you haven't you can't say over half of the male's population are bad
@@MarzBlueSoul People often only bother to leave reviews on 10 star and 1 star products. So you're only hearing about the worst of men/women on the internet.
I think Ned was more obsessed with the idea of having a picture perfect life instead of actually caring to nurture it. Once he realized his family was a paycheck he stopped caring about morality.
Nailed it
It's that they felt something for each other. That's what ruined it. Never marry for feelings. It is destined to explode from the beginning.
@@DQCt0R ruclips.net/video/INcp1yC04q8/видео.html part 1 Chemistry of Love
And what about Alex? I thought that women stick to together to have always preached to other women not allowing men to emotionally hurt women? But, there's always women knowingly being involved with a married doing the opposite of what you all preach about. Somehow Alex manage to walk away unscathed from their cheating on each other mates and Ned is the Bad Guy.
@@spankbuda7466 people in their right minds will never forget the role she played with this issue. Imo, she was all happy with how things went just like the picture taken - it doesn't seem she was forced
Wife and I have been married for 12 years. It's been rad. My advice is find someone who shares your values. Those values will form the foundation of everything you build.
BINGO!
Values is the point
Yes!
Do you call your wify dude too?
Yes
As a man that’s been cheated on, it hurts. Feels like you did something wrong and had no chance to fix that mistake you didn’t even know you made
I hope you recover. There are still good people out there.
It's not you, it's them. 100% them. There's nothing you could have done. Ariel is a perfect wife, she is an accomplished, successful woman, beautiful, raised 2 kids whilst he was chasing his dreams, talented af. She is a 10. And yet the bastard cheated on her.
My wonderful brother was cheated on by his gf of 8 years he waa ready to propose to and only held off a bit because our other brother was getting married and he didn't want to overshadow it so yeah. Cheating is nasty
@@SindyJ37 much love to you and your brother. It’s rough.
For me it’s simply disrespectful.
After experiencing my parents getting a divorce because my dad cheated, I will tell you that a cheater does NOT care about his family. Adultery is the most heartbreaking thing, and although I’m a fan of second chances, it should never be given a second chance. It will happen again.
My friend's dad cheated on her mom multiple times. It really messed her up. Worse thing is, it made her feel less important. Because her dad would always make excuses to see his mistress. He wasn't allowed on her graduation and that guy tried to blame it on her because "doesn't support his happiness". Luckily the mom got married to a much better man who treated her better than her dad. Her step dad paid for her college. He would always arrange father-daughter activities. Even if she is happy she still feels empty inside knowing that her own father would rather care for his mistress than his own family. Funny thing, the mistress was a gold digger who maxed out all his credit card. He came crawling back to them. Still she feels neglected. Cheaters are literally the most selfish person on this earth. They don't just cheat on their spouses but also their entire family. That's why I don't believe in reconciliation.
Thats not always true. I know one family really well, where the husband cheated, and then turned himself around and actually was able to work on himself and his family and marriage and actually change. He has not cheated since, and regrets it more than anything else in his life. He's actually grown from it and used the experience as a teachable moment to his daughter and young men, helping them to learn from his mistakes and hopefully avoid the temptation to cheat. Never write another human off. You may be angry or hurt, but you must realize they are human too; they WILL hurt you and make mistakes just as you WILL hurt them and make mistakes. The biggest tell of their true character will be how they choose to handle the consequences. They will eitber grow and become a better human or write themselves off into a self centered individual. Whichever they choose, at the end of the day they live and die with those consequences. Always bear that in mind: cheaters always pay on the deathbed. There's always regret and loneliness there, for those mistakes that were made.
@@jasandraholmes3459 That’s extremely rare for someone to actually change after doing that. For the most part, you might as well call off the marriage. People do make mistakes, but this is one that makes you lose your family. When the person is abusive or extremely toxic towards you, it’s 100% ok to write them off. I had to stop talking to my father. My whole family did, as well. And that’s ok. You wouldn’t just leave a leech on your arm and expect it to stop hurting you. The only way to stop someone from continuously disappointing or hurting you is to stop communication altogether.
@@JessicaTayB that is true. However most often cheating is the result of mistakes on both sides. While it is rare, I believe like Brett says, it boils down to commitment and morality. People absolutely can change. They can choose stay the same. It's not the same as extremely toxic or abusive either. That is a separate issue. What I am saying here is don't hold a grudge or treat a person without mercy or grace. He made a grave mistake, he should have known better. He is in the wrong, absolutely. His wife would be in the right to leave. However she would also be in the right to try to work it out with him. It may be rare for people to try to work things out and maybe that's because we live in a graceless, commitementless, embittered culture where grudges are stronger than grace, forgiveness and love. Just something to consider. Maybe that is why it is so rare for men to even try to make it work. Perhaps its a bad heart, but maybe it's just the feeling he won't be forgiven. Just a thought and something to look into.
@@jasandraholmes3459here’s a statistic for you. “It is estimated that if someone cheated before, there is a 350 percent chance that they will cheat again, compared to those who have never cheated. In the same study that states that cheaters will cheat again, they found that those who have been cheated on will most likely be cheated on again.”
350% chance. A cheater is most likely going to cheat on you again. People can change, but that doesn’t mean the person cheated on is obligated to forgive them. Once you cheat, the ball is in the other partner’s court. They can choose to forgive; or to drop you. And tbh, I don’t think anyone can be faulted for not wanting to pursue a relationship once the partner cheated.
The strangest thing is that Ned and Alex didn't even try to hide it, expressing love out in public. They either didn't care or are just plain stupid.
I mean, they work for buzzfeed, so, they can’t be TOO intelligent
@Truth Exposedo No, it's not
im just surprised any ♀would go for a low testosterone ♂
Or it’s pr
@@Blox117 why? what about the men that can’t produce a high amount of testosterone?
My parents and I went to the wedding of a family friend last week. They did the whole "all married couples to the dance floor, please" thing. By the end of it, my parents were the final couple on the dance floor. Come January, they will have been married 30 years.
It hasn't been absolute bliss for 30 years, but they've fought for it and for each other and our family. My dad turned down promotions because it would mean less time with his sons. My mom has been a homemaker more of the marriage than not because of health issues.
Marriage isn't a "social construct" it's a choice. It's a vow. "In sickness and in health" isn't until it no longer becomes convenient. "For richer or for poorer" isn't until it becomes too hard. My parents have absolutely gone to bed with huge arguments, but they've always known the other loves them unconditionally.
My dad has taught me what it is to be a good husband and father, and I can only hope I'm half the one he has been to my mom.
Here is the full clip you all wanted :
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Beautiful comment! Congrats to your folks on almost 30 years!
It’s clear you had a good upbringing and sheltered life if you’re judging people who get divorced and thinking they just didn’t try to stick it out and split over pettiness.
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to there are just too many people in the world to generalize this. I’m sure the original commenter would agree there are times and situation where divorce is understandable or warranted. I’m sure he isn’t blatantly judging every single person on planet earth who’s divorced.
You’ve got the nail on the head. Congrats to your parents on their upcoming 30th.
My parents had over 50 years and were together until the end. Real commitment isn’t something that fluctuates based on how you feel at the moment.
From someone who's been married a while (14y) and has a happy marriage - You tend to SHOW your love for your spouse, not really talk about it. When you are happy and secure in the relationship you don't feel the need to broadcast it. You just live it.
Yes. When ypu know you know
My husband is in the military and it’s so sad how much cheating goes on in our community. Someone my husband works with once told him “I don’t think I trust you because you DON’T cheat on your wife”. That’s how common and normalized it is.
The producer needs to be held partially accountable because she was cheating on her fiancé too.
I was thinking the same. They guy is taking all the heat and nobody is talking about the woman who participated willingly on the affair.
@@davideassis87 Ya they are both at fault here, I think the focus is more on Ned tho because he was the most famous and liked, I didn’t even recognize the producer nor do I care about her, I’ve enjoyed watching content that involved Ned for a long time...
Ned was her boss, so it is way more serious on his part
@@davideassis87 no one cares about the producer
It’s like a celebrity hooking up with their maid, I remember Arnold getting the same scrutiny
Guys who overly publicly love on their wives are trying to convince you and themselves that they actually love them. Words don't mean shit. Social Media is a LIE. Love is active. It is always moving and working. It is not about saying I love you. It's about living it.
Exactly. People who really love someone don't need to overly show it if they do actually love them.
Agreed
The more a couple posts about how happy they are the closer the divorce is around the corner. Just from what I’ve seen
My man's love language is silence lol his actions speak louder than words.
I don’t know if that’s always true. I think in this instance people will say that in hindsight. Things were also probably different before. A lot of people have not experienced becoming wealthy and famous and the temptation that probably comes with that. Once women know you’re rich and famous it is like a revolving door of them appear wearing anything they think will get your attention.
He destroyed his life for nothing. Loosing his family and his job is just so senseless. That girl must have met Ariel so many types. How can you be so ruthless.
Literally!! Like she just got engaged and you see Ariel his wife and have no respect for the bond you chased 10 years after???
I mean he can always keep the new girlfriend. she is probably single now also. And they probably had to buy him out of the tri guys or whatever they are.
@@YAmIBroken it’s not as good as his wife the mother of his children
Literally it was such a drama because Alex was in every food video often sitting with ned! Still can't believe it when i think about it
@@YAmIBrokenThe money will dry up soon. And then it is back to 9 to 5. He might stay with her, he might not. But sooner or later, i think he will have some regrets here and there. They all do at some point, because it's all rainbows and sunshine while it is fresh but the moment the butterflies are gone, there will be thoughts of what it could have been, unless he actually hated his wife.
Wife and I dated in high school. Was together for 5 ½ years before we got married. 18 years married, 23 ½ years together. We do not base our relationship off of celebrities. We base it off our faith.
I used to watch the Try Guys before 2020 and Ned was one of the guys I liked most. I also really liked Alex. I feel horrible for Ariel, their sons, and Alex's fiance (who she's been with for 10 years). This is quite sad.
Me too…I used to love watching them before stuff got very political/ lgbtq ish and I always liked how he’d seemed like a good family dude
@@bunnybunbun6165 sameee, it got too much but I found them so funny and thought that it was so cute that Ned talked about his wife so much…
You either love Jesus, or you’re just another human that falls to their own selfish desires. Nothing new here
agreed. i loved watching them before they were super political, and even after i really enjoyed some of their videos. they were fun!! i can’t bring myself to even go back and watch my favorite videos of theirs anymore. what ned did is abhorrent
Alex's fiance waited a decade to pop the question. He probably either has his own side piece or just wasn't that committed in the first place.
Hookup culture is the worst thing to happen to this generation
I would say social media
@@petergriffinson1907 They go hand in hand.
@@petergriffinson1907 those two are synonymous
People have been cheating as long as there have been human beings. I don’t know that this situation counts as hookup culture.
@@theshuggie hookup culture just makes it easier
I had a similar situation happen to me. We were married for over 10 years with 3 kids, and he had an affair with a coworker. We separated when I found out that the affair had continued on (when he had told me it hadn’t). Then he got her pregnant and didn’t tell me or our kids. A couple of months after our divorce was finalized, he married her…and again, did not tell our kids. Our kids hate the woman too btw. Since we’ve been separated, he’s tried to hook up with me several times…even since they’ve been married. I told him *I* don’t sleep with married men. Emphasis on the I.
If someone is willing to break up their family to get with you, of course they’d be willing to do the same to you. People are way too willing to let the devil into their hearts, man.
Prayers to this guy’s wife and kids, because the kids are the ones who really suffer.
these cheaters are selfish and it is literally so terrible to do this to the kids, basically ruining a whole parental relationship. I hope the cheating people of this world pay for their actions. With money, divorce pain and whatever God has in the afterlife
I hope you and your kids are happy now...please stay strong
Your ex still feels the burn of those several rejections and I love it. What type of woman did he take you for?lmfao.😂
my biggest fear is getting cheated on because of trauma and trust issues.
i couldn't imagine or fathom the pain that ariel is going through.
Same. I don’t plan on being on relationship any time soon, but I know that anyone can fall in love at any time. I would LOVE to be married some day, but fear being cheated on due to past experiences
Some people underestimate what cheating like this actually means. It's not just a broken trust, which is bad enough. It's exposing your spouse to potential health issues like STDs that they never would have had to worry about from their own monogamous behavior. For a celebrity it's exposing your entire family to the public eye in the worst way. It's the example you set for your children. Your sons might be led to think this behavior is normal for a man and your daughters may be led to believe this is the best they can hope for so they'd better just prepare for it. It's levels of awful that can't fully be described.
Oh quit with your virtue signaling. There is a diversity of relational philosophies on this planet and yours isn't a "one-size-fits-all". You have some growing up to do.
All for a short high. Good reminder for us all not to throw away the good in our lives over short lived emotions.
@@BigRodd91 Well what they said is true for all cases morally. I mean of course there's poly and open relationships but it's only okay if both people are fully aware of them sleeping others and are okay with it. But in no way is it okay to potentially ruin or even end your partner's life via cheating with not only STD but also potentially crazy love sick people ( one may cheat and sleep with someone who gets so jealous of the partner that they end the life of said partner) without both people's consent. That's not OK in any sense.
Both of them came from very long term relationships so STD's probably aren't a concern and the kids have more then one parent. They could possibly believe it's normal and what they should expect but they also have their mother to tell them different and validate their true worth. They also have plenty of money for therapists from the sounds of it. Yes, it's stupid and shitty and very public but people grieve and move on. Healing is a choice and hopefully they choose to do that.
@@BigRodd91 You sound like fun
But literally no one, not even people who are close to married couples knows what truly goes on behind closed doors. You just don’t. You cannot be so surprised. Especially about “celebrities”.
My guess is Ned got burned out from being a father to a wife who’s either busy with her own work or the kids and wanted to feel young again and have fun. Then with Alex she had a 10 year engagement, idk that’s quite a long time to have an engagement and not pull the trigger. Like what are you waiting for? Your 40’s?
@@rikmcdik6662 10 year relationship. only been engaged 18 months
@@yota8325 well I was misinformed. That makes more sense, but still. I’d consider that a long time to not be married, especially when you’re in your 30’s.
@@yota8325 18 months!? 6 months is long enough. That is to say nothing of the absurdly long courtship. Oh wait. There was no courtship; they were only playing house.
I guess I'm just so surprised because it went on for so long. He's been part of Buzzfeed since 2014ish I think, maybe 2013. We've been hearing him talking about his wife for nearly 10 years. I figured if he was a cheater, it would have been exposed way back in 2015, not now, a decade later.
My wife and I have been together for 18 years, and I’ve never been happier. I promise you not all of us are like this. Most of us are like me, we just feel lucky that somebody loved us, even though I don’t understand what she sees in me, it is my honor to make her smile every day. She is my sweetheart, and I love her. I don’t understand guys like this, and I never will. But I promise you I am far from alone, most guys are good.
I once found a reddit post where they ask if cheating on your spouse was worth it. Most of the replies were no and they felt guilty because they could've had a wonderful life together and raise their kids together in a wonderful home but they threw it all away. Even those who married their own Affair partners have expressed that they thought marriage with their affair partner would be different. They would get the satisfaction they never had in their previous marriage. But they were wrong. They only stuck on that marriage because they are afraid to make the same mistakes. But they feel empty inside most of the time. Cheating is not worth it. I don't know when will people learn.
Aww!
This is actually wild to me. Ned was the Try Guy I actually enjoyed, he genuinely seemed to care for his family and I found it refreshing. Truly can’t stand the group anymore but it’s still so sad to hear this! I only wish the best for Ariel and the kids. A cheating spouse is devastating.
He may well have cared. It’s a defense mechanism but we humans can’t seem to accept anymore that two things can be true. We’ve been trained that either something is exactly how we expect or it is a lie. We expect perfection in others while demanding tolerance of our own misdeeds mistakes.
It is a defense mechanism because to admit it is possible to both care deeply about family but slip up is to admit it could happen to us or our spouse. So we jump to “it was all a lie” to avoid facing reality. Now before someone’s knees get out of control - yea you can do the same.
You like to believe you wouldn’t, and maybe you wouldn’t. But that is a choice not a lack of ability.
Lacking ability doesn’t make you virtuous. Possessing capability but choosing to makes a virtuous choice.
@@IAmTheRealBill Damn, haven't read a well thought out comment on RUclips I'm a while.
@@IAmTheRealBill An interesting point, except I'm not virtuous.
@@IAmTheRealBill he was cheating with alex for almost a year. It isn’t a small mistake
The biggest thing I've ever wanted out of life was a family of my own. Then you got assholes like this that have that and they willing to just throw it away. Boggles my mind
I hope you get a family one day!
💯💯💯
Me too, my dream is to have a family. Imagine having a partner who's head over heels in love with you, and you just leave them.
@@gianna526 It's insane
I can totally feel on that. I hope both our dreams come true.
cheating on your spouse is in NO way trying to be a good spouse and failing, quite the opposite, it's actually trying to be a bad spouse AND trying to be successful at ending your marriage. what trying looks like is someone who is struggling in their marriage, but sticks with it and does NOT cheat. trying and failing looks like a marriage that fails despite being faithful and putting forth an honest effort above and beyond simply not cheating.
I've been married to my wife for nearly 20 years. We dated for two years before we got married. She was my first girlfriend and she's the only girl I've ever been with. She's been with me for the entire 21+ years I've been in the Army. Nearly half of that time has been spent apart because of job requirements. For the last three plus years we've had to live apart because of our careers. In all of that time, we've stayed faithful to each other and our love for one another has never faded. It takes committment to make a marriage work, and if we can keep our marriage strong and not cheat on each other despite spending so much time apart, then there is no reason why anyone else can't do that either. I have no sympathy for these weak minded men, because they can do better, they just don't want to.
Couples like you give me hope. ❤ Thank you
I’m taking a class on successful marriages and families at BYU, and that lack of commitment is a pitfall we’ve talked about a lot. Marriage is a daily choice to improve yourself for another person. It’s super damaging to every part of society if we keep having these weak marriages. We need the family back as our societal unit!!
“We need the family back as our societal unit!!” Nice sentiment but sadly that’s not going to happen, it’s been damaged beyond repair. All anyone can do is improve themselves for there significant other, society though will continue towards its goal of destroying the family unit.
What do you study ?
People also need God back in their lives. They need faith. People are trying to fill a spiritual hole with self while not realizing that nothing will fill that void unless it is with God through Christ. When you live for God then you are more likely to learn that you have to put yourself aside for many things in this world such as with your family. Marriage is a responsibility and obligation where you have to put yourself aside and CHOOSE your marriage. It's a lot easier to keep yourself morally grounded when you put God in the middle of everything. Society needs God to be more healthy and without Him in it then everyone lives only for themselves and their pleasure. A pleasure that leaves them more and more empty as time goes on.
@@isaacraze4301 You may be right but never give up hope. We don't know what the future holds. Just trust in Christ and obey his commandments. The end result might surprise us.
Start by getting rid of "no fault" divorce. Marriage in its current state is a TERRIBLE deal for men in all regards - legal, emotional, sexual, all of it. Women have everything to gain in marriage and everything to gain again in divorce. They can't lose and men can't win. The vast majority of divorces are filed by women. And yet it's men who are supposed to propose, which is why lately we've seen marriage rates plummeting. There are plenty of men who would love to be married but they've seen the havoc divorce wreaked on their father or friends/colleagues and so they don't propose even if they have a long term girlfriend. The producer in this story was dating for 10 years. Do you think Brett or anyone else is going to do a story on how J Lo being divorced 3 times sets a bad example for women/marriage? Or how Gisele divorcing Tom Brady is wrong? Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie just hired divorce lawyers. Did these guys cheat? No. Are the women divorcing them and getting a huge cash prize and custody of the kids as a reward? Yes.
I honestly was so disgusted by this, I used to watch them and the fact that his whole thing was “I love my wife” and then destroyed his family and made his wife look like a fool in front of the whole world is 🤢and he didn’t even try to hide it! Like kissing in a club?? Really?? Have some shame at least.
@Espiritu Phantom He literally exploited their marriage for views, made his entire personality his wife, they even worked together in the same company and everything they did there was around what a happy couple they were (like their podcast about being parents or their date cookbook and I’m sure plenty of other things) and then he cheated on her in a very public manner and with absolutely no shame AND with an employee, I don’t know about you but I know I would feel like an absolute fool if I went through that.
@Espiritu Phantom you don’t know me? I’m the type he would target because I said I would feel played if he played me? I’m sorry if you don’t feel like a fool after all of that you must not have liked the relationship very much 💀
That's why it's hard to trust people this day.
@@Jahid_n Yep commitment means nothing nowadays
It is pretty gross. You’d think he’d at least have the sense and care-for lack of a better word-to try to hide it better…
Engagement seems like the weirdest time to cheat. Cheating is vile no matter when, but when you’re engaged normally you’re just so excited to marry your fiancé and so head over heels for them, you’re looking forward to the rest of your life and wanting to do whatever you can to build a strong foundation. How do people end up cheating during that stage? If you realize you want something different, it’s your last chance to call it quits and you should do that instead of just marrying the person anyway and sneaking around. Make it make sense
10 yr dating and 1.5 yr engagement. That’s why she did.
I will never cheat on my husband. This may sound naive, but I firmly believe that if you love your partner you won't even be tempted to cheat because there's no chance of you being attracted to another person.
Commitment is not naive, your husband is a very lucky man! 🩶
I agree.. I cannot IMAGINE even finding anyone besides my husband attractive in that way. Genuinely. There's nothing in me that does see him as the most attractive person.
There’s evidence that Ned and Alex have been together at least a year, and there’s evidence Ned was a serial cheater. More and more (pictures, statements from former coworkers) is coming out every day on Reddit and Twitter. I feel like this story isn’t over yet.
I read that as "serial killer" and got really scared for a moment
this is what happens when you put your marriage and relationships in the limelight. you're not committed to your spouse or significant other, you're committed to external validation.
We need to put more blame on alex as well. Seriously. Tired of Ned getting all the blame.
I think it’s mostly how Ned literally screamed that he loved his wife and made money from her and their kids. I, for sure, blame her and while I do believe believe there could be a power imbalance, she for sure CHOSE this and chose to do it publicly.
I'm kind of obsessed with your channel now, and you are so intelligent and articulate with your thoughts! A breath of fresh air on YT
Everyone, if your married, be good to your spouse.
If you’re not, but you’re dating, be good to your partners.
This new generation is screwed, marriage is dying and people are becoming increasingly unhappy
@@puffdaddy69 And I turned 17 a couple days ago. How in the hell am I going to find a traditional wife with good values in this shit generation.
@@MichealZaWozski me 💀
@@puffdaddy69 They’re also more politically divided than ever.
A recent study found that 70% of men identified as Republican, while 70% of women identified as Democrats.
Combine this with the current political and cultural zeitgeist, and it’s no wonder people aren’t getting married like they used to.
@@MichealZaWozski They exist, they're just hard to find. Have to sift through a lot of dirt before finding a gold nugget, my friend.
As a dude who married his Highschool gf, I will never understand men like this. I’ve never had the impulse to seek another woman aside from my wife.
Are you sure virtue signaling is the best strategy right now? Wasn't that this dude's whole thing?
Aww
@@joshsaunders6392 not really virtue signaling here. We’ve been together for 14 years, and I’m just expressing my views.
@@cc4938 It can be true and still be virtue signaling. I'm just saying this guys whole thing was pretending to love his wife so your comment isn't in the best taste. If it's true then that's great, but how would we know because of the exact example we're reacting to now.
That's wonderful.
Great commentary. Your comments speak for many of us. Thank you
Remember when marriage used to be one person for life? Now it’s one person at a time.
I find commitment alot more fulfilling and fun honestly. To be able to be yourself around that special someone is the best. Everything "else" is just an amazing bonus.
same... I find commitment sooo much more fulfilling and fun... I don't know why most people find frivolity fun
@@anwesha7548 Because their too impatient, everything is about fast pleasure now.
From what I learned from watching my parents is that there is no such thing as special someone. You as a couple have to just grow and mature together as the years go by. My parents have been married for 35 years now. My mom and dad were young when they got married. They had fights and arguments. Some people actually thought they would divorce because they once had public fights but they always had each other's back. They were each other's friends when needed. They were each others caregiver when it was needed. They were each others lovers when needed. They never cheated on each other or was abusive. No matter how bad things were, they never broke the married vow. That's why among all their friends they have a family that's functional and not divorced. People now a days want the comfort that comes with marriage but they don't want to take any responsibility that comes with it.
Hedonistic society wants dopamine not love
@@erenssister.5535 idk if I love the idea that there is ‘no special someone’. But the rest of your sentiment is good.
You can have that someone special that you adore and still fight with them. That’s human.
Maybe it’s the sentimental in me, but I’d like to think my partner is pretty damn special, even if his weaknesses and quirks can annoy me on off days.
I remember when the comments were all:
"Ned and Ariel make me believe in love"
and
"If anything happens to Ned and Ariel...it's proof love is dead"
Brooo...😭
Welp, love is dead
People need to stop idolizing others. what is wrong with all these people?
@@tatymaz660 They probably use their idealized perceptions of people as coping mechanisms for their own lives, which is also wrong.
I seen first-hand what infidelity does.
As my step father cheated on my mother with a family friend... all that happened while my mother was in the hospital fighting for her life. My mother has since passed away years later but I can never forget the pain I saw on her face from time to time and it affected me as well having to see it.
So yeah definitely have no respect or sympathy for cheaters. Hopefully Karma makes rounds to both of them.
Honestly I’ve only seen ur shorts and sometimes I agree, other times I disagree, but now watching a video of yours I can really relate to your opinions even more. Even though youre conservative and I’m not, your sensible and have good core values. You express your opinions passionately while still being open minded, level headed, and not jumping on the hate bandwagon. Cool stuff.
Wow. From the man who made his career on loving his wife. How upsetting.
@@hyzenthlay713 I've seen it a few times but it's still weird and unnecessary. Didn't pop up for me for this comment tho.
I think we have to remember that no matter how much you “love” these people on tv or RUclips, you don’t know them at all, you don’t know what kind of person they are deep down. Just to learn who a person you’re dating can take years and that’s asking the rite questions and bringing walls down to do so, these entertainers are as much of a mask as a cartoon character is for the animators.
Its so refreshing, and almost unbelievable to see/hear someone as beautiful, and on the level as yourself, actually come out, (let alone broadcast) and say what's REALLY wrong--
with both men and {women respectively}
The lack of commitment.
wish you the best
Omg I’ve been waiting for you to make a video on this Brett!
When someone goes so ham to be the best husband or wife… there usually compensating for something terrible they do.
ive never cheated on a woman and i never would, i lived my whole life by definition of loyalty in friendships and relationships. i would do anything in my power to the people who are really in my corner. i dont have a lot of real friends.....if i wouldnt take a bullet for you we arent real friends. if its been years and we were close friends for along time but than life happened and you randomly contacted me because you really need someone to talk to or need something i will do whats in my power to do it. i never can understand how someone can get married and than cheat.
I don’t know anybody who I would take a bullet for
@@AutomaticDuck300 that sucks im sorry that u dont have that kind of relationship with people
I was waiting for this video!!
The look of utter contempt Brett has while watching the producer talk about being engaged made my day. I couldn't have expressed my own feelings any better.
Why are most people just talking about Ned and just extremely briefly mention the woman who had a 10 year relationship???
A small amendment to “don’t trust men”: don’t trust famous people
I’ve been watching your videos for a while and this video popped up suggested to me tonight and let me just say, i about shit my pants when my tik tok popped up in the video 🤣
My husband and I have been together since HS, going on 17 years. We regularly verbalize our appreciation for what the other brings to the table. If you get lost in your own heads pace and don't reflect on the importance of your spouse in your life, you will lose your way and the relationship will suffer. Once you decide to be together for life, it is never only about you.
But supposedly the Try Guys knew about this whole behind the scenes relationship, but failed to address it sooner and once it was out, saved their brand by publicly stating that Ned was no longer accepted. They were going to continue as if nothing had changed if it had not been made public and could now damage their reputation severely. This is less about morals but brand protection 🤔
Tried and “true”, they knew.. 💯💯💯
I think they were scrambling to come up with a response. They posted right before saying Ned was kicked out that they were going to post a lot less in October to "prepare for holiday videos" which some people believe meant come up with a public statement and figure out their brand without Ned.
Critical point. If their social media manager knew what was going on, they all definitely knew what was going on and did nothing until it came out publicly. They get no credit for dropping him now, they're only doing it to protect their own self interest, not out of any sense of morality.
@@chriswhinery925 yep. It was weird they edited him out of videos. That was strange
They did something about it before it was revealed. They were actively working on editing him out of videos and social media and were probably working on making a statement in their own time. Now, I don't know if they would have revealed the cheating but they obviously were planning to kick out Ned since before the whole thing blew up
2 things, no fault divorce killed marriage. The other, I'm still in shock that that dude could pull not one, but 2 girls that are pretty fine.
Social status and a fair amount of money goes a long way in attracting the ladies even for incredibly plain men.
He has the testosterone levels of a disabled 60 year old man and yet is slinging it left and right and too horny to be contained.
Those females are California liberals. He got Leftist Cali ass, nothing to be excited about. I feel about for the fiancé cause his soon-to-be-wife cheated on him with a guy that has low T.
On today's episode we TRY Polygamy.
Money.
Ned & Ariel were the first "online couple" that I loved
I commented under their Videos (14 and naive)
" they make me believe in true love"
...well that didnt go over well
Off topic but I have that exact shirt lol. Love your content!
He had it pretty good. One of the co-founders of a successful company, a home owner, a happy father, had friends and a loving wife (from what I can tell). I guess it just got to him and he decided to make it too good.
There’s always something better out there…
This. All that personal and career success made him lose track of the end goal.
@@puffdaddy69 "There’s always something better out there…"
No, it's the illusion of perceiving something is better.
@@TickleMeElmo55 Exactly. Grass is greenest where you nurture it, not on the other side of the fence.
He really had everything. Good job, loving spouse, happy children, financial stability. Like goddamn man a lot of us would kill for one of those and he had it all.
How not to cheat on your spouse: Step 1 - do not engage in social activities of the opposite sex where your spouse is not present. Step 2 - do not spend time alone with someone other than your spouse. Step 3 - Run like Joseph of Egypt when temptations catches you unawares and then make sure you stay far away at all costs.
“These unneeded rules” were part of the reason why the divorce rate were lower in previous generations and it still low in my home country. Don’t make the mistake of reject “antiquated rules” for the sake of it, some of them are very deep and helpful.
Agreed. Marriage took a serious hit after women entered the workforce. Although feminists love to refute this, women love to work under the leadership of a strong, masculine, decisive man. That's why there's so many cliché instances of women who are assistants, secretaries, etc. having affairs with their boss. It opens up too many opportunities for a woman to have alone time with a man and to fulfill the role as his helpmeet. That's a wife's role. I'm so glad that I am a homemakers and working to help my husband fulfill our shared vision for our family.
@@RaeBehrs True.. Very True...You hit the crux of the matter. 👍
People can mock this, but if you have strong boundaries up, that gives you so much less opportunity to sin. A preacher said this and it was excellent - “lust plus temptation equals sin.” If you remove one of those…
Or 1. Just don't fucking cheat.
Honestly, I can 100% relate..
I am a stay at home mom recently married with a one-year-old and My Husband, decided to cheat on me with a coworker for about a month behind my back before I found out about it.. not only that whenever I have the proof in my hand, he’s still lied to me about it whenever I asked him if he would ever cheat on me and he kept saying no no I would never do that to you.
Like I said, I’ve only been married a year, but goddamn it is so difficult to fully love myself, because I no longer feel special but it’s even more difficult whenever you know that he makes the money in the house and there’s always the possibility of it happening again, because once again, they are coworkers .
It’s hard to trust anybody anymore
As a man i find this whole cheating issue disgusting, was married 'got cheated on' 10 years later got a girlfriend 'got cheated on' i completely gave up on woman at that point. Been single for 16 years and sticking with it.
I do not condone the behaviour of Ned, Adam or any of the men mentioned... but I don't understand why the mistresses are not receiving the same hate. Okay, the men made the vows and etc, but the women has participated willingly and happily in the whole thing, after all you need two consensual parts to have an affair. 🤦♂
Ned is the more public half of the scandal. I'm sure most people around morals around the mistress are not letting this go either
Thank You all you guys who already have everything and then screw it up for the genuine guys that are really out here. No wonder women are untrusting and disgusted. Many of us guys are just as disgusted.
Horrible people exist regardless of gender, the hurt makes people less trusting tho and more willing to stereotype which is an unfortunate side effect :(. But let’s not forget the woman who he cheated with was also at fault, she had a fiancé, in the end it isn’t a matter of gender but of the human condition, there are good and bad apples and we have to try to remember that.
@@thetiredworm2100 Of course
Understandable why Ned is spoken about more but, considering the other woman was already in a relationship too, this isn't something to make one simply untrusting of men, nor simply women. If anything, one should be more untrusting of PEOPLE.
The more I study the wrongdoings of people, the more I side-eye people who view people differently based on "muh sexes" or "muh (*can't count everybody*) statistics". Now, I want to stay alone forever and never have kids as I don't want to have a reason to leave them with any boy or girl or woman or man even if I know them, cause people in general do TOO much to kids. No specific gender targeting from me, EVERYBODY'S getting flamed.
We need more people like that social media manager.
I watched the try guys every now and then to see how they were doing, not as much since they kinda geared more towards a particular audience that I know I had no knowledge in being in but I had respect for them for doing what they wanted to do with their brand, so hearing about Ned absolutely dropped my jaw. I hope that most everyone (but ned and alexandria) are alright and having to battle this kind of thing that not alot of people saw coming has got to be hard. I hope they get to clear things up when they put out their podcast on Oct. 6th.
Jacko Wilink said it best ‘don’t give these people a pedestal they don’t deserve’
I agree, but where did he say that?
Episode where he was talking about the Will Smith Chris rock slap
Omg I’m so happy your talking about this girl! Love your content, really opening my eyes in general that it’s okay to remove myself from being so liberal.
You'll probably be a lot happier for it too. Love your Bakugo profile pic!
4:43 It makes my walls go a bit higher too, and I'm a straight dude 😂
Love is action, not words.
When I married my wife, I considered my decision to be between myself, my love, and my God.
What's the outcome for the producer?
Does she keep her job without fallout?
Good question. I would really like to see this answered.
Some might say, as the producer she was in a position of authority.
BARSSSSS
I think why this hit me so hard was cause this happened to me. My mom cheated on my dad with some drug addict and a whole bunch of other shit and expects her children to still want to talk to her
Happy to admit: I've never heard of Ned.
Ok Ned got fired, what about the home wrecker, did she get fired too? If she still has a job on the show, then it shows how she is going unscathed because she a young female.
I heard she could sue the try guys, as company, for wrongful termination and sexual misconduct. She can just say she has been pressured into relationship and they would have a difficult case on their hands.
@@ljubica6566 then she has all the privilege. I don’t condone the cheating but Ned will probably get screwed over in the divorce, pay a ton of child support, he lost his job and the girl gets away with it. G the he only thing she probably lost is a fiancé but she can find a new simp
@@xijingpoopoo6792 Unfortunately it seems that way. They could fire her in certain amount of time, and hopefully she has a shred of decency so she will resign. I guess her career will be compromised, since this scandal will continue to follow her. She works as a producer, so every potential employer will conduct a basic google search of her and her previously produced content. You can guess what will come up first when they google 'Alex try guys' lol.
@@ljubica6566 yeah 'she can just say' a lot of things but people who know won't forget what she did
@@ljubica6566 she didn't look pressured too. It's just sad
Makes my walls go higher 😂😂😂
Dalton Conley has an essay on the topic of disintegrating social connections and especially how global interconnectedness has devalued deep relationships. He wrote the paper in 2009 and focused on how things like MySpace and Facebook had contributed to these issues and I'm honestly shocked that we could have let it get this far that we look at relationships based on their convenience and profitability.
Well, at least the guy she's engaged to doesn't have to worry about divorce anymore.
Did he ever have to worry about it? If they've been together over a decade at this point and still aren't married it kinda seems like he really didn't want to marry her at all. I have a strong suspicion that that relationship was doomed before they got to the altar regardless. If you really love someone and want to marry them it doesn't take 10 years to make it happen.
@@chriswhinery925 That's a good point. I mean, there could have been scheduling or money problems, but cold feet is as likely. :o
The absolute insanity of even breaking that barrier and cheating on someone is just mind-boggling to me. I can understand temptation, 100%, but it'd be like running away from something in a dream I just could not begin to even do it.
Now add in being somewhat famous and doing it with someone within your work circle. Again, insane.
@Espiritu Phantom you are aware that not all men cheat, right? I mean carry on by all means, your snarky comment doesn't affect me
@Espiritu Phantom men like what? Brett said the Try Guy was white-knighting constantly as a running joke so who do you mean
If he had any humility, he wouldn’t call it a consensual workplace relationship. He’d say “i cheated on my wife.” “I had an inexcusable extramarital affair and betrayed my vows to my wife.”
Scheller like "with the producer you say...."
My parents love each other for 35 years. They fight and they complain about each other. They also watch travel shows every night since they spent their 35 years travelling. It's not that hard to stay faithful.
I would fall apart if anything ever happened to my husband..I don't get how people just throw away such meaningful relationships for a random hook up/what they think is a good time. And I'm not talking about people in abusive, unhealthy or destructive relationships either. Just the people that get bored?
I think some of it has to do with the mentality that you always need to have a GF/BF and it’s okay when you’re young to go around giving your heart to multiple people. My ex-husband and I were both raised in really good homes and there was no reason it shouldn’t have worked out. When he was a teen, he had multiple girlfriends and it just seems like people get used to hopping around. And like you said, we didn’t have a bad relationship at all, but he just went on to another girl.
The boredom is a result of hookup culture. When you're dating you're swiping and texting and dating and sleeping with a lot of different people, and it's exciting. When you settle down with one person it can certainly feel boring in comparison. Men also get an ego boost by having multiple women to themselves. Both this dude and Adam Levine had long term wives and kids. They argue with their wives over the dirty dishes in the sink, who's going to change the next diaper, all kinds of stuff. The bedroom probably got stale as well. Then along comes a hot young thing who worships your every step. Who has never, ever nagged you about dirty dishes or dirty socks on the ground. Who is fun and flirty and always nice and sweet to you and gives you butterflies again and makes your wildest bedroom fantasies come true. It's an easy temptation to give in to. The same thing happens to women I'm sure.
We need you on Spotify Brett!!!
I’m a committed person. My ex wasn’t. LOL if I don’t laugh I cry
Personally I feel sorry for the fiance who wasted 10 years with a person who decides to cheat on him after he proposes. I really don't blame guys who are wary of marriage these days... 😒
the try guys try infidelity
This was the first time I had a physical reaction to celebrity news... my stomach turned. I've watched the Try Guys for years, and thought "Ned and Ariel" often felt kind of forced, but overall it gave me hope for love. This is WAY more devastating than I think a lot of people realize on the surface. So, so many people are crushed by this: the guys themselves, all their friends, spouses, families, the whole staff, god knows how many other creators out there that are friends with them, fans, and even future generations... such as Ned's kids. They will be able to see *everything* as they grow up and get curious.
Also, f$#@ Alex. That gross homewrecking hag actually said in a video recently "I dedicate this to Ned... because you have a hot wife." 🤢
I'll never understand why people choose a good time over a good life. Sex will never offer more than a momentary fraction of what a solid relationship can.
word of advice for any new parent never go woke
That's advice for everyone
Why did this ruin my entire early teen years? I stopped watching them the last few years as well, but they always held a fondness in my heart. This is genuinely so heartbreaking for Ariel. At this point, celebrities might as well be doing the “don’t let them see you next move” trend from tiktok because every new story is more mind blowing and unexpected than the last.
It's quite fun to imagine Ned and his social media team scrambling to come up with the perfect response while every RUclips react channel under the sun continues to blow up with views on account of one absolute dumbass move. The truth is as heartbreaking as these cheating scandals are, we can't get enough of them. We need them so we can point our fingers and feel good about ourselves, so we can eat popcorn and watch our favorite Internet personalities talk about it. I for one can't wait to see the next scandal unfold itself. I know for sure I'll be right here in the comments section watching Brett react to it.
At this point I wonder why people like that even bother being married. Like if you're gonna get married, mean it! If you don't want to commit, don't.
People wanna keep rolling in the mud outside, that's their decision but don't drag an innocent person into the mud, too.
I some how wandered into this video, and I don't have any social media. The entire time I've been thinking to myself, "where's the part that I care about?" There wasn't one.
I just wanna to watch a nice video with my cafe this morning and didn’t expect this😢
Ned's just planning a rebrand from happy husband to pick up artist.
We must protect Brett Cooper at all cost! Or not it’s 2022 she’s a strong Young woman.
I don’t think I’ve seen you this fired up before
Omg I just seen the video they just posted it’s just so sad to see them like that