Gay Struggles vs Bisexual Struggles

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @FlawlessKevin
    @FlawlessKevin  4 года назад +3166

    It’s not #FlawlessFriday but I love you all so much that I wanted to release this ahead of schedule 🥺💕 If you’re comfortable sharing, what’s your sexuality? 🌈
    Be sure to like this video for the algorithm! 😉

    • @raiyuu0876
      @raiyuu0876 4 года назад +46

      Omg ily!! Ty! 🥺❤️

    • @spinnysponk778
      @spinnysponk778 4 года назад +118

      Transbian here

    • @sundayfoxx
      @sundayfoxx 4 года назад +283

      I am bisexual, and no one asked but I have a gf and I am happy and I am agender so she calls me her joyfriend
      Edit: I now realize I am pansexual. I also have no idea what gender i am now (i'm getting gender therapy so yey) but i am still neutral so she probably still calls me joyfriend. (also i did not expect this to get so many likes, so thanks?)
      Edit 2: ok so we broke up, but it was for the best and mental heath stuff so, yeah.
      Edit 3: Hello again, I'm pretty sure I am a Pansexual trans demiboy. Also thx for likes

    • @iota3874
      @iota3874 4 года назад +121

      I'm hella bi-

    • @yoongithesadrat1431
      @yoongithesadrat1431 4 года назад +64

      Bisexual! Ily 💜

  • @mitchellfindley7459
    @mitchellfindley7459 4 года назад +8487

    Don’t forget about the Bi Anxiety and feeling you are being “too gay” for girls and “too straight” for boys

    • @kawaidirectors
      @kawaidirectors 4 года назад +132

      yeesssssss

    • @pokemonbonnie4415
      @pokemonbonnie4415 3 года назад +282

      This is a sub conscious struggle I did not know I had until now

    • @a.m.c.c.3356
      @a.m.c.c.3356 3 года назад +45

      @@kawaidirectors why are you attacking me

    • @kawaidirectors
      @kawaidirectors 3 года назад +29

      @@a.m.c.c.3356 aNd i OoP sKsksksKkkkK

    • @TonyxDStudio
      @TonyxDStudio 3 года назад +38

      This hurts a lot

  • @akaart7579
    @akaart7579 3 года назад +806

    I’m bi and the most ANNOYING word said to me was “oH iTs jUsT a PhAsE” i hate that so much

    • @wildele9699
      @wildele9699 3 года назад +9

      Phase*

    • @inesroposa4234
      @inesroposa4234 3 года назад +1

      Phase*

    • @inesroposa4234
      @inesroposa4234 3 года назад +13

      @Keira Buckley Poor you I have nice friends so they belive me. But I really don't understand why people fake begin bi, I'm probably gonna tell my parents when I grow up, cause they hate lgbt and I'm scared to tell them rn-

    • @justastaythatwillnotbename2990
      @justastaythatwillnotbename2990 3 года назад +3

      5 words

    • @nutellaa8214
      @nutellaa8214 3 года назад +1

      UhG i hat

  • @dylanrhea3136
    @dylanrhea3136 4 года назад +600

    Why do people say “who’s the [other gender] in the relationship?” to same sex couples? THERE ISN’T ONE. THAT’S THE POINT.

    • @aster9809
      @aster9809 4 года назад +39

      lmao the "who's the man and who's the woman in the relationship" questions though
      another way to say that is "who's top and who's bottom" which i don't think you should actually say because it may violate people's privacy

    • @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
      @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice 4 года назад +20

      And that's on heteronormativity! I had to unlearn that recently, sometimes people are just people being people together.

    • @AnthoNy-vq8bv
      @AnthoNy-vq8bv 4 года назад +6

      I oftenly just look at them until they feel uncomfortable to just walk away or change the question

    • @samy7342
      @samy7342 4 года назад +2

      THAT'S RIGHT OMFL

    • @jwb52z9
      @jwb52z9 4 года назад +13

      A lot of straight people don't understand mono-gender relationships because, especially in the US, they have been trained, basically brainwashed, to think in duality like that with separate roles in life that are inviolable.

  • @confused6564
    @confused6564 3 года назад +1105

    The hardest thing about being bisexual is, when you watch an anime and everyone there is so hot

    • @hamidjat8943
      @hamidjat8943 3 года назад +23

      Right

    • @desireandfire
      @desireandfire 3 года назад +15

      girl it's pixels

    • @confused6564
      @confused6564 3 года назад +28

      the world may never know ik but like, all of them are either cute or hot or both

    • @naurorasen8063
      @naurorasen8063 3 года назад +21

      @@desireandfire i know 😭

    • @cslays0
      @cslays0 3 года назад +3

      facts

  • @zimbiant2u
    @zimbiant2u 4 года назад +2496

    im bisexual too but i'm not as cute as him, something´s wrong...

  • @spacecatoutlaw
    @spacecatoutlaw 4 года назад +5883

    I just realized that being bisexual means you have a doubled chance of being single / getting rejected!!!😂🤣😂

    • @kaeshaburton4266
      @kaeshaburton4266 4 года назад +503

      Thats so true I am bi and still single friend told me I am not just bi I am bi my self

    • @ariasmith8356
      @ariasmith8356 4 года назад +117

      Welcome to our life :’)

    • @spacecatoutlaw
      @spacecatoutlaw 4 года назад +239

      We are biourselves

    • @lia.grac3__._
      @lia.grac3__._ 4 года назад +44

      @@kaeshaburton4266 oml ☠️ 😭

    • @WorriorXD
      @WorriorXD 4 года назад +25

      EXACTLY!

  • @roselita223
    @roselita223 4 года назад +1636

    "unless it's Kim Taehyung,.."
    EVERY TAE STAN EVER

    • @H3llok1ttyl0u
      @H3llok1ttyl0u 4 года назад +10

      🌝🌝

    • @thetea7852
      @thetea7852 4 года назад +13

      it was kim taeyeon

    • @thetea7852
      @thetea7852 4 года назад +8

      or at least thats what the subtitles say

    • @ng-kd3kw
      @ng-kd3kw 4 года назад +5

      i fell u kevin I FELL U

    • @avnikaul796
      @avnikaul796 4 года назад +3

      Yes 🌚🌝

  • @akanewantburgur4605
    @akanewantburgur4605 3 года назад +86

    As a bi girl whos in closet this is soo relatable. Specially that phase part. Gosh im so insecure and confused by my surroundings :'')

  • @br34dyt
    @br34dyt 4 года назад +3249

    Oml chad has such a huge crush on kevin

  • @felixthegreat7998
    @felixthegreat7998 4 года назад +758

    This video I really related to because I’m actually bisexual I love ❤️ you Kevin your my favourite youtuber ever

  • @lazilexi
    @lazilexi 3 года назад +962

    I'm pan, and if I introduce myself as pan people are like, "Oh, so you're bi?" and if I introduce myself as bi to avoid this it's like "Oh, you're just gay and too embarrassed to admit it". Like, wtf?

    • @jamiegilbert2012
      @jamiegilbert2012 3 года назад +56

      ✨ The pan struggle is real ✨

    • @eisthebestletter7836
      @eisthebestletter7836 3 года назад +11

      Ikr

    • @skyeezies
      @skyeezies 3 года назад +22

      Next time you tell them that you're straight they'll call u trans for no reason-

    • @lazilexi
      @lazilexi 3 года назад +18

      @@skyeezies Then I hit them with the "Yeah, probably" as a serious attack

    • @eisthebestletter7836
      @eisthebestletter7836 3 года назад +7

      Yeah I’m Gay the only person that knows is my sister

  • @thispersonanimates
    @thispersonanimates 3 года назад +176

    I recently came out out to my friends as Bisexual, and most of them haven’t been making a big deal about it, in fact most of my friends are Bisexual as well. But there is this one friend who’s making a big deal out of it. She keeps on telling me to come out to my parents and it’s not that hard to. She is straight, and I’m really nervous to come out. Honestly I don’t think she understands what it’s like to come out.
    Edit: I’m pansexual now, and I came out to my mom!

    • @Clemingtime
      @Clemingtime 3 года назад +14

      Take your time. I didn't come out to my mother until I was 19, and have only said very obvious things to my father since last year (I am currently 21). I wanted to wait until I felt like I could talk to them as adults, equals, and friends. Though, as a teen I was such a headache and handful, saying "I'm bisexual" would have only merited an exhausted "okay", seemingly boring amongst the chaos.

    • @kayisntkay
      @kayisntkay 3 года назад +1

      Ya coming out to my besties was really hard I had to build up the courage to tell them then hope that they support me one of them they weren’t clear on if they supported me or not but I took it as a yes when she responded as for my other bestie she supported me :)

    • @suzannaoros7675
      @suzannaoros7675 3 года назад +1

      I don't think she mean't anything by it. I think she was trying to encourage you, but completely backfired.

    • @bexxx_
      @bexxx_ 3 года назад +2

      Yeah sometimes straights can be so awkward about us coming out. My bestie came out to me as bisexual and then a few months later I realized I was bisexual and told her and I honestly think she forgot. 😑😀

    • @mrcheese3262
      @mrcheese3262 3 года назад +1

      Same, Im bisexual, Icame out like 2 months ago, my parents still don't know... but my friends do!

  • @rita5216
    @rita5216 4 года назад +2263

    I'm bisexual and I'm trying to tell my family. One step at a time, but I'm gonna do it! 💗💜💙

    • @shonaaastreams
      @shonaaastreams 4 года назад +59

      good luck!!!!! i believe in you 💚

    • @sarae343
      @sarae343 4 года назад +74

      I told them and the didn’t believe me and said it’s a phase and just because I’m curious

    • @rita5216
      @rita5216 4 года назад +22

      @@shonaaastreams thank you!! 💜

    • @rita5216
      @rita5216 4 года назад +29

      @@sarae343 that's my fear. But believe in you, you know who you are and that's what matters. They're gonna change their minds and see the truth and everything will be alright, I promise 💜

    • @sunitamoktan624
      @sunitamoktan624 4 года назад +5

      What did they say !!! I hope it turned out well!

  • @strouvrn7263
    @strouvrn7263 4 года назад +1176

    Question: Do gay couples get asked “who’s the girl in the relationship”.
    Edit: I know about the lesbians and the wlw. I mean like with dudes

  • @blackraisincookie747
    @blackraisincookie747 3 года назад +2184

    As a bisexual, hearing “it’s just a phase” *ENRAGES* me SO MUCH OML
    Edit: thanks for all the likes :D

    • @blackraisincookie747
      @blackraisincookie747 3 года назад +5

      @@hanamaria777 FR FR

    • @tanishajadhav9662
      @tanishajadhav9662 3 года назад +6

      I'm tired of hearing it over and over

    • @dbdeg88
      @dbdeg88 3 года назад +13

      @@hanamaria777 That's when you stare at them incredulously and say, "Who are you talking to? I don't exist."

    • @jillmarissa7238
      @jillmarissa7238 3 года назад +9

      It's so persistent! I was asked by a very close friend "When are you going to grow out of my middle-school experimenting phase?" Very hurtful, devaluing. Barf. For the longest time I pretended I wasn't bi just so i wouldn't hear this, not because my feelings had changed. I've known I was bi since i first heard the term when i was 13, and it's taken me till now (39 years old, over a QUARTER OF A CENTURY LATER) to say fuck all of y'all who have a problem with this. I'm not doing it for goddamned attention, I'm an introvert!!! GAAAAA!!!

    • @dbdeg88
      @dbdeg88 3 года назад +5

      @@jillmarissa7238 Bisexual introverts unite!

  • @georgiastay
    @georgiastay 3 года назад +41

    I came out to my family when I was 11. They were very supportive. Most of my friends are part of the LGBTQ+ community. When I told them I was bisexual, extremely supportive. So far, I haven't had a person be homophobic to me. I hope for a world where this doesn't have to be a problem for anyone. 🏳️‍🌈🥺

    • @johnwilliam4042
      @johnwilliam4042 2 года назад +1

      your VERY LUCKY unlike me

    • @Bluuehamter
      @Bluuehamter Год назад +2

      aw that's cool! Sadly homophobia/biphobia still exists. I've gotten some if it in a passive aggressive way or when ppl joke around more than actual threats, which I'm glad for. And yeah I deffo wish it wouldn't be a problem for anyone. Hang in there my queers 💗💗💜💙

    • @squarewalnut240
      @squarewalnut240 Год назад +1

      I came out to my parents when I was 12. My mom was super supportive, my dad was ehh.

    • @DissesemblyDroneR
      @DissesemblyDroneR 7 месяцев назад

      I’m glad you are able to do that without your parents denying it or being scared to tell them

    • @Artemis_the_gremlin64
      @Artemis_the_gremlin64 4 месяца назад

      I’m eleven I’m too scared to come out to my very homophobic transphobic family.

  • @brandonclevenger3573
    @brandonclevenger3573 4 года назад +673

    bisexual yet everyone just wants to say I’m either gay or straight, apparently you’re not allowed to like both. *internal screaming*.. im fine.. 🙃

    • @soumiu.8264
      @soumiu.8264 3 года назад +25

      Or *”which one do you like MORE?”*

    • @Face44445
      @Face44445 3 года назад +3

      I'm so glad it's treated as lgbtq+ these days rather than just gay or straight

    • @luna-oo4yf
      @luna-oo4yf 3 года назад +4

      ikr like why do people not understand that bisexuals have their own thing, we're not part gay or part straight ugh

    • @mr.beanman9816
      @mr.beanman9816 3 года назад +6

      bisexuality is real,

    • @MahirTalukderRoll25SecC
      @MahirTalukderRoll25SecC 3 года назад +1

      @@soumiu.8264 most bisexuals i've met have preference

  • @lattecookiethebestcookie4521
    @lattecookiethebestcookie4521 3 года назад +393

    I'm bisexual and coming out to my friends was one of the WORST thing to do. I got bullied for being bisexual and my math teacher found out but luckily she accepted me for who I am, but rn I'm kinda confused whether I'm either lesbian, bisexual or pansexual

    • @McNuggz_
      @McNuggz_ 3 года назад +10

      Same here but i have about 5 bi friends.

    • @nezoon6587
      @nezoon6587 3 года назад +8

      I relate to the last part you said I’m confused if I’m a pansexaul or pan romantic acesexaul

    • @marz6794
      @marz6794 3 года назад +10

      I’m Bi too.
      It took a while to figure it out and sometimes I still question myself from time to time but I feel more sure about the fact that I’m attracted to girls and boys.
      There isn’t a deadline for figuring it out
      If I’m the end you’re not sure that’s fine
      What matters is what feels right.
      And I’m sorry you had to experience that
      No one should have to go through that.

    • @mitzimoo6381
      @mitzimoo6381 3 года назад +1

      OMG BOO SAMEEEEE

    • @Chelsi.n.Avi-tv
      @Chelsi.n.Avi-tv 3 года назад +6

      Don't focus on labels hun ❤️

  • @samy7342
    @samy7342 4 года назад +204

    me: "hi I'm bi"
    person: "But you've never dated a girl so how can you know FOR SURE"
    GUUUSHH the biggest one by far

    • @CygnusTheSilly
      @CygnusTheSilly 3 года назад +8

      The response I always give (and a lot of other bi people do) is: "did you need to have intercourse or date a girl/boy (depends on the sexuality of the person you're talking to) to know you're attracted to girls/boys"

    • @Asher_RAB
      @Asher_RAB 3 года назад +2

      I know right. Its sooooo annoying!!

    • @thelordnaevis4946
      @thelordnaevis4946 3 года назад +2

      Yeah I hate that like girl you say you’re straight but you haven’t dated anyone to prove that

  • @thebienderman4848
    @thebienderman4848 2 года назад +10

    When I came out to my Mom asked "what about all the girls you liked"

  • @naturesm
    @naturesm 4 года назад +163

    I’m asexual and I literally always get people telling me stuff like “hOw Do yOU kNOw you doN’t LIke iT if YoU hAVEnT triED” and it’s

    • @rave3484
      @rave3484 4 года назад +12

      that's always the stupidest line ever XD

    • @elysian9888
      @elysian9888 4 года назад +11

      It’s even worse when they say it to minors. I’m just like “child anyways 911?”🤧

    • @number4xiuslunala698
      @number4xiuslunala698 4 года назад

      Oh that's so stupid!

    • @astrallitwick5490
      @astrallitwick5490 4 года назад +15

      Just respond with “How do you know you won’t like getting stabbed if you’ve never tried it”

    • @Soundwave._
      @Soundwave._ 4 года назад +2

      Same aaaaaaaaa or "won't you be lonely?" I have friends, ya know.

  • @Mortemem
    @Mortemem 4 года назад +271

    i could feel the pain everytime chad gets rejected by kevin-

  • @choiyeonjun8071
    @choiyeonjun8071 4 года назад +284

    Omg i can't believe you kept your promise about having you bi friend being in your video from my last comment
    You and your friends deserve the world i love you
    ~from you bi fan

  • @sophiea7
    @sophiea7 3 года назад +44

    I came out to my stepmom a while ago and she accepted me so well!!!! It wasn’t even a stereotypical “I already knew” or “it’s just a phase”. She genuinely accepted me and told me I could tell her anything! I’m so glad! I hope others can share similar experiences because I think everyone should be accepted for who they are.

    • @anotherdayanotherslay9464
      @anotherdayanotherslay9464 3 года назад +2

      I have known that I am bi for about a year and a half and still haven’t told anyone. Everybody in my family is Christian and homophobic and they say phrases like “Don’t worry I’m not gay” and They think that people who are bisexual are just experimenting or just want attention. And they say that if you’re not straight you’re a sinner.

    • @ringofdreal1374
      @ringofdreal1374 3 года назад

      @@anotherdayanotherslay9464 Don't worry, you'll come to realize that your family is right.

    • @anotherdayanotherslay9464
      @anotherdayanotherslay9464 3 года назад +2

      @@ringofdreal1374 excuse me??!

    • @misschanandlerbong753
      @misschanandlerbong753 3 года назад

      @@ringofdreal1374 what- *insert me laughing cause ya'll are dumb as fuck *

    • @call_Arapy
      @call_Arapy 3 года назад +1

      @@ringofdreal1374 excuse me, but you aren't Christian at ALL

  • @pok_tea903
    @pok_tea903 4 года назад +347

    A bisexual or even lesbian or gay struggle is when you’re going swimming at a pool and everyone has to get Changes and naked but there is only one room and you’re forced to be in a room full of naked girls and your heart is racing and you’re dying of embarrassment and it’s super awkward for you and no one knows you’re bisexual so they keep asking you why you’re acting so strange.
    No... This totally hasn’t happened to me before...

    • @zippy_miller7720
      @zippy_miller7720 4 года назад +34

      Ikr 😌
      But like, we rEsPeCt and not look at them... RiGjT

    • @pok_tea903
      @pok_tea903 4 года назад +17

      Stabby_Snail Yea but like, when I finished changing, everyone else was still changing and I needed to look away without seeming weird and is was super awkward 😂😂

    • @pixiecamus552
      @pixiecamus552 4 года назад +29

      What a nice floor

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 4 года назад +20

      damn, is that why i refused to change in the locker room when i was in middle school PE? i never considered that was connected to my sexuality, but in hindsight that makes a lot of sense.

    • @brianna8348
      @brianna8348 4 года назад +13

      OMG EVERYTIME IN THE LOCKERROOM. Im bi and its always super akward in the locker room when the girls are like in underwear and all that and in my head im just like DONTLOOKDONTLOOK DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONT LOOOOOOOOOOOOOK!!!!

  • @st_0390
    @st_0390 4 года назад +971

    Me: *a straight trans guy*
    My mother: you're a lesbian
    Me: wow since when 👁️👄👁️

    • @dylanmorales450
      @dylanmorales450 3 года назад +13

      Oop-

    • @larzzonmarzz3646
      @larzzonmarzz3646 3 года назад +52

      When i told one of my cusin's that my pronouns are she/they my cusin was like:no pick a gender

    • @dylanmorales450
      @dylanmorales450 3 года назад +23

      Larzz on marzz um I would have been like “Nope I’m indecisive 😐” just like that and let them shut the duck up

    • @dorianqallimi283
      @dorianqallimi283 3 года назад +10

      @@larzzonmarzz3646 tell them u already picked one

    • @st_0390
      @st_0390 3 года назад +5

      @Migel Rothschild what do you mean?

  • @zachariecore
    @zachariecore 4 года назад +145

    "I'm gay."
    "You like me?"
    thats so relatable lmao

  • @Angela3011
    @Angela3011 3 года назад +12

    I’ve had a long journey, trying to discern what my sexuality is. Sometimes I would feel more lesbian, sometimes I feel more bisexual, but I knew I wasn’t straight. At the end of the day, after exploring, and really thinking about things, I’m proud to say that I’m openly bisexual.

  • @caroline-dl2ot
    @caroline-dl2ot 4 года назад +750

    Kevin: For everyone in the closet
    Me: *peaks my head out the closet door* YESSSS YOU CALLED MY BISEXUALNESS

  • @spinnysponk778
    @spinnysponk778 4 года назад +516

    It isn’t even Friday! Yeet! Closeted transbian here btw

    • @FlawlessKevin
      @FlawlessKevin  4 года назад +72

      Follow me on Instagram to be updated with all announcements :)

    • @YukonYuki
      @YukonYuki 4 года назад +6

      Closet trans boy gay boy lol 😂

    • @spinnysponk778
      @spinnysponk778 4 года назад +4

      💙💖🤍💖💙 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

    • @watercressfabrique3333
      @watercressfabrique3333 4 года назад +4

      Same! I'm also a closeted Transbian!

    • @oldpapucky
      @oldpapucky 4 года назад +3

      We are so proud of you🥺❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @этоя-ж7н
    @этоя-ж7н 3 года назад +1849

    Me: mom I’m a lesbian
    Mom: who doesn’t like girls ?
    🥸

  • @nezumi8508
    @nezumi8508 3 года назад +20

    I am Bisexual, EVERYONE I MEET IS LIKE "being Bi is just a front for being gay/lesbian" I'm so sick of it.

  • @zzgachawrld6456
    @zzgachawrld6456 4 года назад +412

    The thing that annoys me most about being bisexual, is when I tell one of my straight friends they always ask the most stupid question:
    *So your lesbian?*
    Ok update, the other day I told a straight friend I was bisexual and they actually said (again) “but you like girls..so your not bisexual” and it took me like 45 minutes for them to understand that I like both genders like bRuh

    • @safarihearts_4501
      @safarihearts_4501 4 года назад +39

      Mine asked my why I don't flirt with her. Like wtf. I'm not into you that's why

    • @zzgachawrld6456
      @zzgachawrld6456 4 года назад +7

      @@safarihearts_4501 omg that’s so true

    • @lihanie6518
      @lihanie6518 4 года назад +25

      Or when they ask " so you like me "
      Like bitch being bi doesn't mean i like everyone in this World , or when you date a girl " doesn't that mean you're lesbian though " like wtf

    • @zzgachawrld6456
      @zzgachawrld6456 4 года назад +14

      @@lihanie6518 oh my freaking god that once happen to me but with a guy- when he knows I’m bi and I liked a girl he said “I thought you were bi.your being lesbian” LIKE LISTEN HERE YOU LITTLE PEICE OF-

    • @lihanie6518
      @lihanie6518 4 года назад +6

      @@zzgachawrld6456 OMG like for real i don't know how this people think and i'm tired of explaining the the same thing every Time at least if they understand

  • @444.nansitkaa
    @444.nansitkaa 3 года назад +436

    I’m bisexual but I don’t know how to tell people because I have a boyfriend and I don’t know if he is homophobic 💗💜💙

    • @CygnusTheSilly
      @CygnusTheSilly 3 года назад +55

      If a friend won't accept you as bisexual then he/she/they (sorry for anyone not included) isn't the person you would want to be with you

    • @rebbecanoir
      @rebbecanoir 3 года назад +11

      Ask like his general opinion of the matter

    • @kiram.3619
      @kiram.3619 3 года назад +8

      It's only conspicuos to you, because you know why you are asking. If you are uncomfortable just asking out of the blue, you could say something like "Hey, I read this news article about ... (e.g. some protest conserning pride or homophobia). What do you think about this/gays ?"You can even in good conscious say you are not gay, if he asks you to say it first.
      I obviously don't know about your situation, still I'd highly advise to find out what he thinks. If he isn't homophobic: great, you get the burden of that fear off of you.
      If he is homophobic: consider getting rid of the burden that is him & his hatred. Being with someone who hates you (even if they don't know) is not a solid/good foundation for a shared future.
      Of course, be safe. Wether you come out is your decision and yours alone.
      Remember that whatever happens, you are valid. Your happiness matters. A great deal actually :)

    • @iloveed610
      @iloveed610 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @lemonboii5586
      @lemonboii5586 3 года назад +2

      Happened with me✌

  • @karenl.281
    @karenl.281 4 года назад +739

    I hate how accurate this video is.
    *Cries*

    • @meowzen
      @meowzen 4 года назад +2

      Same here..;w;

    • @covers1762
      @covers1762 4 года назад +3

      *cries in gay*

    • @sophiahowell5493
      @sophiahowell5493 3 года назад

      @@covers1762 "Cries in gay, the new eye irritating shampoo by gays for gays."

  • @rociocoria9235
    @rociocoria9235 3 года назад +9

    When i told my parents i was bi, they told me "Yeah, we know". And i was all nervous and emotional about coming out.

  • @deardestinyofficials8623
    @deardestinyofficials8623 4 года назад +694

    The pansexual‘s all over here like:”I like all genders”
    Rest of the world:”YOUR JUST GREEDY”

    • @barlowsanai8904
      @barlowsanai8904 4 года назад +13

      ok not to be rude im just asking but, what is the difference between being pan and being bi?

    • @deardestinyofficials8623
      @deardestinyofficials8623 4 года назад +23

      barlow sanai yes bisexual means you like multiple genders and pansexual means you like all genders

    • @barlowsanai8904
      @barlowsanai8904 4 года назад +10

      @@deardestinyofficials8623 all genders meaning like trans,gay,etc?

    • @barlowsanai8904
      @barlowsanai8904 4 года назад +6

      @@deardestinyofficials8623 oh ok i get it now thx for telling me:)

    • @coolperson321
      @coolperson321 4 года назад +8

      **cries in i’m not greedy tho-**

  • @croissantqueen4415
    @croissantqueen4415 3 года назад +802

    The biggest struggle about being bi, at least for me, is that I like more feminine guys, but more masc girls. I always am so confused, like, Ahhhhh

    • @franziskarose1564
      @franziskarose1564 3 года назад +69

      I thought it was only me - 😂

    • @theduchessinthenextdoor6594
      @theduchessinthenextdoor6594 3 года назад +53

      Why is it so freaking relatable...

    • @ranboat7904
      @ranboat7904 3 года назад +6

      Ikr-

    • @ohohoho249
      @ohohoho249 3 года назад +31

      Oh my goodness I have found my people-

    • @thestupidgenius6866
      @thestupidgenius6866 3 года назад +44

      So kinda androgynous looking people? No, but honestly same. I like feminine guys and mostly masc girls (with a few exceptions) lol.

  • @gardenoffaith_6983
    @gardenoffaith_6983 4 года назад +129

    “Unless he’s Kim Taehyung, I’m not gonna date anyone just because they’re gay”
    Literally just because someone is a certain sexuality, DOESNT MEAN THEY LIKE THE WHOLE FRICKING COMMUNITY!!!

  • @nateschindler40
    @nateschindler40 2 года назад +9

    Im bi, coming out now. Thanks, this was super relatable lol!

  • @danifranco7545
    @danifranco7545 4 года назад +523

    me coming out to my mom really be like,
    Me: Mom I'm bisexual, i like men and women...
    Mom: oh don't worry sweetie you are just confused, it's just a phase in the teenage life.
    My brain: I hate it here.

    • @TheMistressMisery
      @TheMistressMisery 4 года назад +41

      I'm a 36 year old bisexual. It's not a phase. You'll find better people to surround yourself with in time

    • @reversedboob6968
      @reversedboob6968 4 года назад +8

      that just hurt me aaaaargh vhgchfcgcjmhvk

    • @danifranco7545
      @danifranco7545 4 года назад +13

      @KeroChan! the worst thing is that we never spoke about that topic again and she still thinks I’m straight aaaa

    • @danifranco7545
      @danifranco7545 4 года назад +5

      ​@@Agent-cj5uk I knooow it's very annoying, I'm 15 but I came out as bi at 13, but obviously my family still thinks I'm straight :(

    • @danifranco7545
      @danifranco7545 4 года назад +4

      @@Agent-cj5uk EXACTLY AAA

  • @brianna8348
    @brianna8348 4 года назад +226

    Bisexual Coming out in front of parents:
    Dad: Is fine with it and says its only my business who I like and who I dont. I can talk about girls I like w him.
    Mom: Is ok with it and promises she´ll tell no one. Well she did tell her friends so she appears more tolerant and when I confronted her she said: Noo I didnt tell no one and then got mad at me. Also she forced me to come out infront of my grandma.
    Grandma: Complety tolarant and cool with it.

    • @peptheforeversuperiorbeing3000
      @peptheforeversuperiorbeing3000 4 года назад +15

      well im glad it went ok for you.

    • @thrownaway6020
      @thrownaway6020 4 года назад +26

      I'd never trust your mum with your personal things again. Your private stuff shouldn't have ended up in someone else's ears.

    • @lihanie6518
      @lihanie6518 4 года назад +3

      Happy for you they accepted you my family will defintly kill me

    • @bananat0fu
      @bananat0fu 4 года назад +1

      My step dad was cool with it. My mother on the other hand paniced immediately told my step dad and threatened to tell my grandma about me dating my trans boyfriend who wasn't out to his family yet. A few months later my grandma asked why my mom thought that I liked girls and I denied it because she's really homophobic. A while later while my mega religious and super homophobic aunt came over when they were talking about one of my aunts grand daughters, who is one of my lesbian friends, they were talking about how her Grandma was defending her sexuality (like a good family membe) my mom just casually "lets it slip" that I'm into girls too... I think my aunt didn't hear it or ignored it. So I kind of relate to you.

    • @thrownaway6020
      @thrownaway6020 4 года назад +2

      @@bananat0fu Watch. Your aunt's gonna be that one person on the 💀🛌 lamenting for her daughter/family the moment she finally realises that she, herself, has gone against a few of God's command to love unconditionally.

  • @miajolis7515
    @miajolis7515 4 года назад +706

    alternative as bi coming out: *cis women*: Hey! Hum wanted to tell you.. I'm bisexual
    person: ... but you're dating a men
    bi: So?
    person: well you're dating a men how can you be bi
    bi: well... im still bi even if i am dating a men
    person: oh, ok`
    *silence*
    person: But you've never dated a girl so how can you know FOR SURE
    bi: *internal screaming*

    • @WorriorXD
      @WorriorXD 4 года назад +12

      MEEEEEEE🤣

    • @Hellohellond
      @Hellohellond 4 года назад +6

      relatable

    • @yomiixia6267
      @yomiixia6267 4 года назад +7

      MY DAD SAID THAT EXACT THING TO ME HAHA

    • @lw8145
      @lw8145 4 года назад +3

      So relatable x

    • @its_ayxshi
      @its_ayxshi 4 года назад +5

      omg story of my life

  • @jaylaortega4314
    @jaylaortega4314 3 года назад +6

    I’m bisexual and I literally started crying whenever I came out to my mom but I did hold back my tears ugh why is life so hard!?

  • @deisiissocool8441
    @deisiissocool8441 3 года назад +189

    Me online : I'm bi
    Me with friends :
    Me with my parents : I dOn't KnoW

    • @eeeeeeee7774
      @eeeeeeee7774 3 года назад +7

      same

    • @blackamongus1740
      @blackamongus1740 3 года назад +5

      Omg I’m so clear I’m bisexual on line, I shout it, as no one knows who I am.

    • @eeeeeeee7774
      @eeeeeeee7774 3 года назад +3

      @Keira Buckley I feel you... honestly kind of hoping they will so I won't have to come out... but at the same time hoping they don't..

    • @deisiissocool8441
      @deisiissocool8441 3 года назад +1

      @Keira Buckley Cries in pain*

    • @tinamokoena9240
      @tinamokoena9240 3 года назад +3

      I can relate

  • @SannaHPlays
    @SannaHPlays 4 года назад +495

    me: Dad, I'm asexual
    Dad: I don't believe you
    me: -____________-

    • @_Who_Am_I
      @_Who_Am_I 4 года назад +24

      I had came out as asexual to my friend group last year and one of them goes "but you're not a plant" and I just stared at the one who said that

    • @insomniacalmond
      @insomniacalmond 4 года назад +6

      I’m genderfluid and I’m bi

    • @InsertMyChineseUsername
      @InsertMyChineseUsername 4 года назад +9

      @@_Who_Am_I But what if you are a plant.......

    • @_Who_Am_I
      @_Who_Am_I 4 года назад +15

      @@InsertMyChineseUsername shhhh nobody needs to know

    • @InsertMyChineseUsername
      @InsertMyChineseUsername 4 года назад +10

      Lol ok but do u do photosynthesis, I need to know

  • @ididntstudyformymandarintest
    @ididntstudyformymandarintest 3 года назад +1192

    “I’m not dating anyone unless it’s Kim Taehyung,” so relatable. I mention this on a daily basis. 😂✌️

    • @gowom
      @gowom 3 года назад +29

      Me with Yoongi 😭

    • @dumraee
      @dumraee 3 года назад +8

      LMAO to both of u🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Pan-rx8ue
      @Pan-rx8ue 3 года назад +9

      Ooooooooo ARMYYYYY HELLOOOOOO

    • @aayandhillon774
      @aayandhillon774 3 года назад +8

      Yeah stay away from me...you are not BTS

    • @keijiakaashi931
      @keijiakaashi931 3 года назад +9

      So I find ARMY everywhere 😌😂🔪🔪

  • @silverfox374
    @silverfox374 3 года назад +2

    I laughed so hard at your video. Relatable. Thank you. I basically fall for personality regardless of sex. There is a term for that I know. But I prefer just saying that phrase. When I told my parents. My mom actually said: '''You only were in love with girls when you were really young and this other girl you liked didnt like you back. Wasnt it just a phase? Just experimenting?'' ''Arent you just ''angry'' with men?'' ''It is better to date a guy if you want a family.'' My dad kept running around the room trying to do anything but listen. -_-; I confronted him because we had always been very close. So I said: Did you know? And my dad said: ''I had a feeling''. But he just wouldnt look at me nor talk about it. My dad ended the conversation with ''Nobody has to know. There a stereotypes about people like you out there.'' I know... It could have been worse. But still.... I have been eating the flesh by mij nails for a while (a nasty subconcious stress thing I do). I didnt know why. Then I reflected upon it. Oh... This is why. Funny because it stopped almost right after I figured it out. So I want to talk to them again. However without my brother present who I havent told because I am not ready to tell him yet. I am going to. My parents are currently occuptied with other personal stuff and me too. So I can wait. But I am going to talk to them again. Definetly. If there are people with healthy tips for my next conversation with them. It would be welcome.

  • @cierragee720
    @cierragee720 4 года назад +193

    "KEVIN where are you? Are you coming out today? No not today? Another day ok we'll come back again tomorrow." THAT SENT ME. 4:40

  • @themarshmellocorner
    @themarshmellocorner 4 года назад +406

    me online : Im Pansexual me to my friends: Pansexual me to my parents: Im Pansexual

    • @heh.9166
      @heh.9166 4 года назад +3

      shdjdjfjf

    • @electrademe4485
      @electrademe4485 4 года назад +25

      me and I wanna come out so fucking much but I’m waiting at least anither four years😀I just want some pride flagssss

    • @christeena248
      @christeena248 4 года назад +4

      I wanna like this comment but it's on 69 Lol I don wanna ruin it

    • @riyamani6890
      @riyamani6890 4 года назад +1

      OML SAME LMAO... except not out to all my friends :\

    • @SugawarasWifey
      @SugawarasWifey 4 года назад

      Same:")

  • @ecilia15
    @ecilia15 3 года назад +176

    My stepdad says bisexuality exists but Pansexuality doesn't 🤦‍♀️
    He had me in the first half

    • @cronchieee
      @cronchieee 3 года назад +5

      I am the pan man and I'm coming to get him

    • @_k__601
      @_k__601 3 года назад +9

      @@cronchieee are you gonna hit him with a pan

    • @jaslikeart
      @jaslikeart 3 года назад

      @Crystals _OW STOPPPPP THESE JOKES ARE TOO FUNNY FOR MY BRAIN TO HANDLE 💀💀💀💀

    • @user-oh1mk6qq8u
      @user-oh1mk6qq8u 3 года назад

      I think he would've thought pansexuals are attracted to pans. Just ask him what he thinks pansexuality is.

  • @kaiswaffles
    @kaiswaffles 3 года назад +14

    "unless its kim taehyung, im not dating anyone just because they are gay"
    i-
    i have no words💀

    • @Omskax
      @Omskax 2 года назад

      Bro....i'm searching for this comment...lol😭💜🫂

  • @Raemizu
    @Raemizu 4 года назад +104

    Closeted bisexual here and you are amazing Kevin, you always get me through my day! 💕💜💙

  • @moonieistired7263
    @moonieistired7263 3 года назад +316

    Me: *gathering all the courage to come out as Bi to my mom*
    My mom: don’t worry love you’re just confused!
    Me: *goes back into the deepest corner of the closet where I came from*
    Edit: she understands that I’m not confused now, she’s very supportive of me being bi and non-binary! She just had to have some time to think about it
    I love you mom!!

    • @beckel3593
      @beckel3593 3 года назад +6

      My mother says she felt the same at my age. I guess it's genetic..

    • @xxjustanaveragehumanxx3779
      @xxjustanaveragehumanxx3779 3 года назад +9

      Awwwww that's so sweet! U had me in the first half tho nil

    • @lillianshipman6354
      @lillianshipman6354 3 года назад +4

      Oh why hello fellow gremlin person!

    • @McNuggz_
      @McNuggz_ 3 года назад +3

      Ayee your the same as me (Sexuality wise)

    • @ok-nj2up
      @ok-nj2up 3 года назад +1

      awwe i'm so happy she's supportive now

  • @actuallyflora5041
    @actuallyflora5041 3 года назад +973

    Me: *is lesbian*
    Almost every straight girl: omg you? You don’t like me do you!?
    Me: your not my type
    Girl: omg your so rude!!
    Me: I am confusion

    • @duongbroz5945
      @duongbroz5945 3 года назад +53

      I know right???
      Me *is bisexual*
      Almost every straight boy: Who do you like?
      Me: I don't know yet!
      Them: then how can you like boys?

    • @ArtisticAnanya
      @ArtisticAnanya 3 года назад +23

      @@duongbroz5945 people are weird as always 😂

    • @weareamoafamily9932
      @weareamoafamily9932 3 года назад +3

      Ones apon a time I thought I was lesbian so I know the feeling but later in life I found out I was bi

    • @sillykitty234
      @sillykitty234 3 года назад +12

      Ugh same, a bunch of girls cornered me and pretty much interrogated me-? I usually play on my phone after I get changed cause I'm waiting for my friends to be done, and they thought...that I was taking photos... like n o- I dont go out with bitchy people heres my fucking gallery, the most your gonna find there is bisexual pride flags and my drawing and photos of my pets like wtf.
      Oh yeah, those same girls started doing tik toks after..

    • @fingersontoes
      @fingersontoes 3 года назад

      LMAO YEH

  • @alivingpersonudontknowbehi6082
    @alivingpersonudontknowbehi6082 Год назад +3

    “You aren’t bisexual, you’re dating a boy!”
    Me: *internal rage*

  • @backgroundcharacter2615
    @backgroundcharacter2615 3 года назад +362

    Do you know how hard it is to try and find a person who’s ok with me being asexual-

    • @franziskarose1564
      @franziskarose1564 3 года назад +45

      asexuals are valid!! a cake-sending bisexual here

    • @6up5ohcopoutprocon
      @6up5ohcopoutprocon 3 года назад +14

      Aces are all amazing and valid!! I'm sure you'll find someone made for you cutie! -a bisexual

    • @rejainkalangutkar3081
      @rejainkalangutkar3081 3 года назад +9

      @SAHRA OSMAN everyone valid- another bi ace floating

    • @nezoon6587
      @nezoon6587 3 года назад +13

      Same bro I’m a panromantic asexual and it’s really annoying having to explain my sexuality to people

    • @nezoon6587
      @nezoon6587 3 года назад +4

      @Dreamer 1972 its a romantic attraction to all genders

  • @TheLizardKing140
    @TheLizardKing140 4 года назад +1063

    The bisexual ✌
    Feels
    Edit why did this get so many likes lmao

  • @baileymarieeee
    @baileymarieeee 3 года назад +578

    My pansexual ass is over here laughing at the homophobe part because that happens to me too, so I feel you all my bisexual homies out there

    • @McNuggz_
      @McNuggz_ 3 года назад +14

      Thanks homie :D

    • @xandermarf6441
      @xandermarf6441 3 года назад +5

      Mood, lol.

    • @nezoon6587
      @nezoon6587 3 года назад +4

      Oh hello fellow pan sexual

    • @baileymarieeee
      @baileymarieeee 3 года назад +1

      @@nezoon6587 oh hello, fancy meeting you here

    • @mistressofstones
      @mistressofstones 3 года назад +10

      We're under the same umbrella and have so much in common homie 😊

  • @tp4bunghole108
    @tp4bunghole108 3 года назад +1

    Holy shit, I’m barely even out to anyone, but it just feels incredible to be watching this right now. I feel euphoric and free.

  • @jacee.w
    @jacee.w 3 года назад +93

    My friend just came out as bisexual and we didn’t make a big deal with it lmao.

    • @Lvrg1rl
      @Lvrg1rl 3 года назад +10

      That's because you are respectful and don't act like they are indifferent because they see bi. Some people out there really do this.

    • @jacee.w
      @jacee.w 3 года назад +6

      @@Lvrg1rl thanks for the compliment :D I just don’t see why people will need to overreact over someone coming out, just support them and make them feel like they still belong because they do belong to this world.

    • @yourlastbraincelleatinggra4910
      @yourlastbraincelleatinggra4910 3 года назад +5

      @@jacee.w yeah when I told my friends it was like
      "50 50?" "wow I always known your so indecisive" "wait so you like girls boys? Choose one"
      ha..ha (´༎ຶ▽༎ຶ`)

    • @em5512
      @em5512 3 года назад +1

      My friends are homophobic so-

  • @kelda2608
    @kelda2608 3 года назад +495

    I came out as bi to my friends,
    One of them legit said
    "DoN't gEt a cRusH oN mE"
    Broooo I should have said,
    "I have standards ya know 🙄"

    • @ok-nj2up
      @ok-nj2up 3 года назад +43

      AAAAAAAH i hate it when people say that, like if you're straight that doesn't mean you're in love with every person of the opposite gender you see, it's the same for bisexuals and gays and pansexuals and everyone else.

    • @redcheese3676
      @redcheese3676 3 года назад +2

      I think it's more, " well you had o find out you were bi somehow, I'm just hoping it wasn't me who made you find out 😬"

    • @oogleyb2683
      @oogleyb2683 3 года назад +6

      FR, it's not like I'm attracted to EVERY guy and EVERY girl on the planet earth

    • @redcheese3676
      @redcheese3676 3 года назад +2

      Joanna Garcia ya geez *sweats profusely*
      I'm jk

    • @channiezxx
      @channiezxx 3 года назад +2

      Omg fr tho

  • @jesse_pinkmans_left_toe
    @jesse_pinkmans_left_toe 3 года назад +156

    Lesbian struggles: when your aunt asks "do you have a boyfriend yet?!?". It's harsh when it happens to me

    • @theresachacon1122
      @theresachacon1122 3 года назад +17

      I think a struggle that all lgbt people go through is their aunt asking "how's your (insert identity) phase going?" and yet it's going stronger than their marriage.

    • @jesse_pinkmans_left_toe
      @jesse_pinkmans_left_toe 3 года назад +6

      @@theresachacon1122 ikr

    • @mep6302
      @mep6302 3 года назад +13

      I'm gay and some people ask me "do you have a girlfriend yet?" Hate it.

    • @crystalsnow9069
      @crystalsnow9069 3 года назад +6

      Same and I was like „please never use the word boyfriend and me in the same sentence again“

    • @channiezxx
      @channiezxx 3 года назад +2

      Ikr like my parents always go on about me getting a 'boyfriend' when they legit know I'm bisexual and then they have to quickly add: 'or girlfriend' or I have to do it for them and it's SO annoying

  • @anidiot2284
    @anidiot2284 3 года назад

    “I won’t believe it until I see it”
    This is why I stopped deleting my search history

  • @Estreat
    @Estreat 3 года назад +75

    So I’m 12 and came out as bi and my Nan straiup said “so you want to be a guy “ it was so funny bc me and my brother started laughing our asses off

  • @blushycloudbunny1545
    @blushycloudbunny1545 4 года назад +348

    Me trying to come out: Mom I’m...I’m-
    Anxiety: hiiiii sisters!!!!!
    Brain: what to say what to say....
    Me: I’m hungry

  • @s4lani166
    @s4lani166 4 года назад +143

    Aromantic or demisexual, still didn’t decide.

    • @flankumi128
      @flankumi128 4 года назад +7

      Yeah that was hard for me as well I thought I was aromantic but I was really just demisexual

    • @seachapels
      @seachapels 4 года назад +17

      actually, you could be both. aromantic relates to not being interested in romantic relationships, demisexual relates to ‘ doing the thing ‘ only with people you get to know. though, i can see why you may or may not have been confused. anyways, if i’m wrong, let me know; i’ll be fine with changing or deleting this comment!

    • @greenscreengamer8008
      @greenscreengamer8008 4 года назад +3

      It is hard, but remember it's hard to know if your demi before you find someone, which is unfortunate.

    • @zin_of_zink7532
      @zin_of_zink7532 4 года назад +3

      I’m Demisexual and pan

    • @flankumi128
      @flankumi128 4 года назад

      @@zin_of_zink7532 ayyy same :D

  • @uzaifasayyed6795
    @uzaifasayyed6795 3 года назад +1

    RELATING EVERY SINGLE STRUGGLE OF BISEXUALS EVEN THO JUS DISCOVERED ABT MY SEXUALITY 1 MONTH AGO BTW LOVE UR VDOS 😭❤✨

  • @purpleperson7514
    @purpleperson7514 4 года назад +46

    Just because I’m dating a guy doesn’t mean I’m straight, I’m still bi just currently in a heteronormative relationship.

    • @SugawarasWifey
      @SugawarasWifey 4 года назад +2

      ExAcTlY like geez

    • @bevstrong3651
      @bevstrong3651 4 года назад +7

      Yeah exactly, if we’re in a heterosexual relationship, doesn’t mean that we’re straight and if we’re in a same sex relationship, doesn’t mean we’re gay. Either way, we are still bi!

    • @SugawarasWifey
      @SugawarasWifey 4 года назад +1

      @@bevstrong3651 Well spoken😌💅🏽✨

  • @Nick-mq6iq
    @Nick-mq6iq 4 года назад +432

    Me: "I'm a lesbian"
    Society: "are you sure??? You MUST like men to some degreeeeee, nobody is 100% gayyyy, one day you'll find the right mannnn, lesbians don't exisssssst xoxox"

    • @Nick-mq6iq
      @Nick-mq6iq 4 года назад +6

      @fat nugget someday😔

    • @SirBeekers
      @SirBeekers 4 года назад +17

      I mean, yeah. Someday you ARE going to find the right man. He's a bro. You two are bro's. Thats it. Gender and sexuality don't matter when you find them, you two will be bro's. Maybe your gf can be a bro too! And that, ladies, gentlemen and all ya'll, is all we need from someone we don't like as a partner. Be a bro, not a bitch. (I'm agreeing with you, OP)

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +19

      and then they go on and invalidate bisexuality
      "yOuRe JuSt ExPeRiMeNtInG"

    • @johnlondonbimeetup7961
      @johnlondonbimeetup7961 4 года назад +19

      Society says the same to bi people - assume they really just like men. So bi men are presumed gay, bi women presumed straight. Just adds in more of that sexist patriarchy that there clearly wasn't already enough of 🙃

    • @whitehole9726
      @whitehole9726 3 года назад +4

      @@ritikadhakerr ya and I’m bisexual and I get bullied because of it

  • @kellajella9144
    @kellajella9144 3 года назад +180

    Me a lesbian: oh she’s cute
    My family: 😏

    • @Quarter134
      @Quarter134 3 года назад +1

      Why are parents like that tho
      I’m not lesbian bu you know why!?

    • @saintstar8692
      @saintstar8692 3 года назад +5

      @@Quarter134 I don't think you would understand. But like if you mention some girl or boy my parents tell me aww are you dating😏😏

    • @Quarter134
      @Quarter134 3 года назад +1

      @@saintstar8692 oh my parents do that I mention someone they don’t know and there like “ ohhhh”
      And the other day my mom said do you like anyone a boy a girl of course o said no but still

    • @domincgavito4955
      @domincgavito4955 3 года назад

      lol, I’m not telling my parents because they’d probs just be talking about it often. I’m pretty sure they know as I did have an app on my phone for a while that I think they looked through. I’m not gonna tell them face to face though unless they full on confront me about it

  • @Junvahn
    @Junvahn Год назад +2

    I’m bisexual and I’m struggling about how to come out 😢. I don’t know how and when 😢. Happy for you guys, you have your freedom 😊

  • @MeNooNie1806
    @MeNooNie1806 4 года назад +173

    “Unless it’s Kim Taehyung, I am not dating anyone..”
    Mood that every Army has💜

    • @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX
      @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX 4 года назад +5

      It's Jimin for me.

    • @MeNooNie1806
      @MeNooNie1806 4 года назад +5

      Lizzie S nice! For me it’s Namjoon💜

    • @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX
      @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX 4 года назад +1

      @@MeNooNie1806 Lol

    • @dajhanellesenior9230
      @dajhanellesenior9230 4 года назад +6

      I'm OT7 but I'm getting bias wrecked by Jung Hoseok

    • @soph_c7
      @soph_c7 4 года назад +1

      Ooof finally an army, is it just me or the painting on the wall looks like Hoseok, Jimin and Yoongi... I'm sorry for bringing this up but vahdbxbx

  • @real_lampcap
    @real_lampcap 4 года назад +88

    I felt those. Being bisexual is hard 😭😂😂

    • @whitehole9726
      @whitehole9726 3 года назад

      I like being bisexual just because if your bisexual that doesn’t mean you/I have a hard time finding love

    • @sillyshamrock355
      @sillyshamrock355 3 года назад

      Try finding a partner as a asexual... all people want is you know...

    • @real_lampcap
      @real_lampcap 3 года назад

      @@sillyshamrock355 I am asexual. I'm noviromantic. Lmao I know how that feels 😭 (I just go by bi lol)

  • @macy_yt4682
    @macy_yt4682 4 года назад +1016

    Ok let me get something straight.....
    We’re not

    • @coffeekidandalex5247
      @coffeekidandalex5247 3 года назад +28

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 litterally my favorite joke

    • @clayphobic7693
      @clayphobic7693 3 года назад +12

      I was just crying now im laughing😂✨👀

    • @ranboosupermacy7055
      @ranboosupermacy7055 3 года назад +7

      This joke is how I came out to my mom😂

    • @TheJinx1441
      @TheJinx1441 3 года назад +3

      Is that SomethingElseYT? I love him!

    • @macy_yt4682
      @macy_yt4682 3 года назад +2

      @@TheJinx1441 Yup! He’s my favorite RUclipsr!

  • @israela1996
    @israela1996 3 года назад +5

    The part that was funny was the parent part when the mom was always at the closet waiting!

  • @purplegalaxycone9492
    @purplegalaxycone9492 4 года назад +244

    me: mum I'm bi
    mum: oh it's just a phase, all teens go through it
    me: sorry can u repeat that, I don't speak trash
    mum: gO To yOuR rOoM
    me in my room: *jumps off chair* i'M Bi

    • @peptheforeversuperiorbeing3000
      @peptheforeversuperiorbeing3000 4 года назад +7

      I will forever worship this comment.

    • @엘사-g2g
      @엘사-g2g 4 года назад +6

      ask her if she went through it as a teen and see her response

    • @ryanichan1236
      @ryanichan1236 4 года назад +2

      Damn yo that would be what my parents would say

    • @crazyrhino29
      @crazyrhino29 4 года назад +1

      Omg, yes🤣

    • @crazyrhino29
      @crazyrhino29 4 года назад +4

      Love how u referenced the "I'm gay" meme but replaced it with "I'm bi"😂

  • @Lol-wd2uq
    @Lol-wd2uq 4 года назад +36

    Oml I HATE it when they go like
    “Oh I accept you just don’t have a crush on me” OK EMILY JUST BECAUSE I COME OUT IT DOESN’T MEAN I HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU

    • @malinikumburage2962
      @malinikumburage2962 3 года назад +2

      IKR!!! THIS HAPPENED TO ME!!!

    • @erintheperson7145
      @erintheperson7145 3 года назад +1

      @@malinikumburage2962 Wait why do I actually have a crush on a girl named Emily, and best/worst she knows that I'm a lesbian

  • @lnnttr
    @lnnttr 3 года назад +93

    “unless he is kim taehyung” LMAOFJSJFJSJFJ

  • @nni3160
    @nni3160 3 года назад +8

    as an bisexual armystay i appreciate the intro&outro bgm of skz's "get cool" and the "kim taehyung" thing so much skskskkkkkk

  • @rainbowpixels4581
    @rainbowpixels4581 3 года назад +50

    I recently asked my mum how she would feel if I was bisexual. She told me that she's more than happy with any choice I make. So then I straight away told my her about me being bisexual. Let's just say it caught her off guard 😂
    (She still respects my decision though ❤👍)

  • @smart_c00ki3
    @smart_c00ki3 4 года назад +78

    Me who doesn’t know which one I am: **Internally screaming**

    • @sicksadsociety5658
      @sicksadsociety5658 4 года назад +4

      Ok, dude, you know you don't have to know who you are. I mean all those labels and other bullshit is pretty messed up.

    • @exstellaxoxo6895
      @exstellaxoxo6895 4 года назад

      fuck me Excuse me what? There’s nothing wrong with labels..

    • @justusnrf1135
      @justusnrf1135 4 года назад +1

      @@sicksadsociety5658 There is nothing wrong with labels. Personally having the "label" bisexual exist made it possible for me to realize that was a thing a that its normal. I do get where you are coming from tho because sometimes labels feel forced on people. My thoughts are never let anything pressure you into anything. You dont have to have a specific label just tell whoever asks that your just trying to figure yourself out still and that you dont know yet.It is fine to not label yourself and it is also fine to know what category you fall most comfortably in if any. The human race is always learning new things so if you dont feel like you fit into any category why not have fun and make up your own. Just make sure youre not being offensive to any group of people while you do so. :)

  • @dani-qy2ns
    @dani-qy2ns 3 года назад +209

    I'm straight, but I like watching these videos of people being themselves without fear

  • @Zeppylin
    @Zeppylin 3 года назад +4

    The one at 2:17 is SO relatable 😩

  • @editingprincess874
    @editingprincess874 4 года назад +79

    “Unless he is Kim Taehyung I am not gonna date anyone” me too boo me too 😭

  • @_honeysnek_yt1654
    @_honeysnek_yt1654 4 года назад +162

    Pronouns- they them, he him
    Sexuality-Gay
    Closeted trans and gay😵

    • @taekooktrash9607
      @taekooktrash9607 4 года назад +9

      Yo, hope you stay safe in the closet. With lots of foods and lovely, comfy area 💜. Cuz here, this bisexual, is also in the closet.

    • @taekooktrash9607
      @taekooktrash9607 4 года назад +3

      @B N9476 Yup! Hope so, I mean, we are all gonna stay there for a long time so.

    • @bangtan809
      @bangtan809 4 года назад +2

      @@taekooktrash9607 ayo army

    • @taekooktrash9607
      @taekooktrash9607 4 года назад +1

      @@bangtan809 *ayo ladies and gentlemen~*
      Hahaa, helloooo fellow armyyyy💜💜💜💜

    • @bangtan809
      @bangtan809 4 года назад +2

      @@taekooktrash9607 I NEED TO GO BACK TO JUNGKOOK. I AM OFF I AM HIS BANANA MILK

  • @crishaneaen
    @crishaneaen 4 года назад +41

    "i was literally in your closet every single day thinking kevin, where are you? are you coming out today?"
    i laughed at this😂

  • @kellycline5874
    @kellycline5874 3 года назад +2

    So freaking true! I deeply feel the mom laughing at the son coming out as bi. I came out ten years ago she's still in denial.

  • @kaylahdavisofficial
    @kaylahdavisofficial 4 года назад +421

    Do Bisexuals really type with one hand? Just curious.

    • @nick.i.t.7973
      @nick.i.t.7973 4 года назад +75

      I mean that's what I'm doing so i guess but like i can't speak for them all
      But I'm also typing this part with two soo yeah idk
      I kinda do both

    • @itsruthatouille7454
      @itsruthatouille7454 4 года назад +26

      I do

    • @Sunlightcee
      @Sunlightcee 4 года назад +55

      yeah for us it really depends how we feel you know i am saying

    • @emmaswanson6473
      @emmaswanson6473 4 года назад +9

      no

    • @riley._.lol1
      @riley._.lol1 4 года назад +28

      I’m a bisexual and I type with one hand

  • @byeol_binnie
    @byeol_binnie 4 года назад +79

    As a gay guy, it's not just because you're gay, that it will make me like you, in fact, I've only liked straight guys so far T_T

    • @SomeguyonYT2-r4h
      @SomeguyonYT2-r4h 4 года назад +3

      Mood

    • @byeol_binnie
      @byeol_binnie 4 года назад +2

      @Sariah Alvino Yikes. I'm a gay guy and have the fattest crush on my straight friend ;_; I guess we cry together

    • @chasityvogeler6249
      @chasityvogeler6249 4 года назад +2

      i have a different problem all my friends like me and im a gay guy and they all are straight girls 😞i got chased by 283 straight girls yesterday

    • @byeol_binnie
      @byeol_binnie 4 года назад

      @@chasityvogeler6249 Jesus Christ lol

    • @toffee1800
      @toffee1800 3 года назад

      Not a gay guy nor a gay women.
      Only *Gay*

  • @totallymarii
    @totallymarii 4 года назад +75

    Kevin: Plays Gone Days (Straykids)
    Stays: *Ascend*

    • @dasaulaga6955
      @dasaulaga6955 4 года назад +4

      i came to comment section immediately to search for other stayssssssss

    • @yurineivilleromartinez1311
      @yurineivilleromartinez1311 4 года назад +5

      Yes. I was taken back when that started playing, like, did I hear right? 😂😂

    • @anniemendez24
      @anniemendez24 4 года назад +2

      i was looking for stay´s comments

    • @likematestopprocrastinatin9940
      @likematestopprocrastinatin9940 4 года назад +1

      @@dasaulaga6955 omg me too 😂😂

    • @totallymarii
      @totallymarii 4 года назад

      @fat nugget Gone Days is a Straykids songs and is stays heard some of it on the video, so yea:3

  • @rejilalohithakshan7620
    @rejilalohithakshan7620 3 года назад +6

    2:42 SO DAMN RELATBLE
    (btw I'm bi but who cares Tae Tae is gonna make ALL of us fall in love with him)

  • @Legendary__Ruby
    @Legendary__Ruby 3 года назад +17

    i literally came out today a few hours ago i’m so thankful to have great caring supporting family members because not everyone has parents like mine

  • @xiaoongicutie
    @xiaoongicutie 4 года назад +13

    I legit haven’t seen Kellen in years omg he seems more chill now

  • @Jun_o.2
    @Jun_o.2 4 года назад +44

    Non-binary struggles: public bathrooms

    • @miracaaahalane
      @miracaaahalane 4 года назад

      LMAO

    • @---8820
      @---8820 4 года назад

      why though
      dont you just go to the bathroom of your biological sex?

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +1

      i'm genuinely curious and i hope this is not offensive
      how do you choose bathrooms

  • @long-livedcharacter
    @long-livedcharacter 2 года назад +2

    I relate to bisexual person in this video. Homophobes part so annoying in real life. Thank You for video!

  • @bejeweled2213
    @bejeweled2213 3 года назад +18

    can i just say that Kevin is absolutely SLAYING that cherry shirt?

  • @YukonYuki
    @YukonYuki 4 года назад +58

    I’m a gay trans man and I have to say it’s a struggle keeping all of this a second I’m tired of pretending to be girly

    • @laughs8589
      @laughs8589 4 года назад +5

      Yukon Yuki I’m a bi trans man amd I know how it feels

    • @taekooktrash9607
      @taekooktrash9607 4 года назад +3

      You dont need to push yourself too much if you dont want to. Just act however you want 💜. Hope it cheered you a little bit 😚.

    • @galacticstar1614
      @galacticstar1614 4 года назад +1

      I’m a pan trans man
      But I really like skirts so my mom doesn’t believe that I’m trans because of it ;-;

    • @YukonYuki
      @YukonYuki 4 года назад +1

      Galactic Star awww I bet you look great

    • @YukonYuki
      @YukonYuki 4 года назад +1

      Lillian Ahern thanks so much for the kind words it’s been a struggling being surrounded by so many stereotypes even in your community..I’m a trans man who likes men and women they say I’m just straight all the time but that isn’t true...this really made my day btw stay safe and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day or night

  • @laurar6348
    @laurar6348 4 года назад +14

    When I was younger one of my close friends told her friend that I was bi. Her friend asked her if she was comfortable around me and if it was weird sitting next to me, and even asked if I'd hit on her just because she was a girl.
    Also had an incident hanging out with friends outside somewhere (as teens do lol) a guy kept threatening our friend (younger than us only bout 13 or 14) because he was gay. I was so mad I went up to him and reminded him he was threatening a child and it didnt make him look cool. I then told him I was bi and asked if he would beat me up for liking girls. He said no that's different. I couldn't believe it. I told him he'd have to go through me if he wanted to beat on someone for being gay. Luckily, he backed off.