How to GET Women as a SINGLE DAD/FATHER - (THIS IS HOW)
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- How do you get women as a single dad?
Today we are going to explore the ways in which you can get women being a single father. I will give you a fair warning ahead of time that this video may trigger you, as we dive into some very IMPORTANT topics. I share with you my personal experience and ways in which one can approach dating.
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After divorce, i became a single father. The worst thing was to try to get back on the horse. Being alone was the best thing for me and my boy. His mother passed away 2 days after he turned 6. 2 years later, and its eye opening.
You’re a cowboy?🤠 good luck man
I am a single mum too, hardworking and caring
I'm in a relationship with a solo father of 3, it's not easy but we compliment each others lives and we try our best to make things work. I love my partner and the children very much, we take things slowly day by day for the sake of the children's feelings/mindset etc..
I hope your date goes well and you find someone that will adore and love lincoln to bits, All the best!
That’s amazing :) thank you for sharing that. I’m super glad you found someone to be with where you both are doing the best to make it work. I honestly believe that is the most important thing. I’m happy for you :)
And thank you, I hope and wish the same! Blessings your way!
@ines-simpson . Your nuts dating a single dad with three kids let me guess he’s divorced what else. girl you need to run fast as a race horse away from him you dont need all his drama, baggage and bullshit. go and find a single childless man someone you would actually have something in common with single dads and single moms need to stick with each other and leave single childless people alone they made their bed now they must lay in it.
@@XxEtHaN39xXThats not amazing that is quite sad. she must obviously be very lonely, desperate and feel unworthy to be dating an already made family.
@@Janine466 Sounds like you are lonely and sad that you don’t have anyone in your life to be with that you are projecting this onto her.
@@XxEtHaN39xX 😂I’m saying that single parents need to date single parents only and stay away from single childless people we don’t want your drama, baggage and bullshit. I see that you deleted my comment to her I must of obviously hit a strong nerve with you and the truth hurts boohoo. you have a blessed day and remember to stick with your own kind sincere briar
"How to get women as a single father" shouldn't be the priority so much as identifying women for whom dating a single father is right. Otherwise, any relationship you "get" is doomed to fail. You have to know yourself and your needs REALLY well before dating a single parent of either gender. You also have to have identified and healed your attachment system and core wounds. Here's how to know whether this is right for you:
***Dating a single parent *could be perfect* for what you want IF***
0) you like his kids and they like- and respect- you
1) always wanted a family
2) are just as capable of loving someone else's kids as you are your own
3) maybe don't want your own kids but would love to have kids in your life
4) intend to continue living in your current city, a close-by city, or at least the same state for the long term
5) are fine with not taking vacations or traveling with your partner for extended periods
6) feel financially secure and have clear financial boundaries around whose resources go to the person's kids and when; as well as how much of his resources you expect to go toward your partnership
7) have plenty of your own interests and activities to fill your time
8) can feel secure in your relationship knowing his kids will always come before you
9) feel secure around his ex and his/her involvement in your partnership via their shared children does not bother you
10) have experience and comfort with blended family situations
11) can balance detachment toward his kids and their primary relationship to their own mother with providing additional mothering and mentoring in a different capacity
12) there are clear boundaries around what authority you do and don't have with his kids
13) there are clear boundaries around how his kids behave when they are in your home
14) you like and respect his parenting style
15) you have gone successfully through the first three stages of a relationship with this person (dating, honeymoon, power struggle) and have settled securely into one of the last three stages (stability, commitment, bliss) -- and if not with this person, you have BOTH gone successfully through these stages in other relationships
***additionally, DO NOT combine your life, finances, or household with a single parent before you have made it successfully out of the power struggle stage of the relationship with them and into the stability phase or beyond***
16) you have extremely strong, honest trust and communication with your single parent partner and feel safe advocating for your needs and boundaries
17) you have good trust and communication with his kids and they respect your boundaries
***ON THE CONTRARY, Dating a single parent *could be absolutely wrong* for what you want IF***
0) you don't you like his kids and/or they don't like- and respect- you
***this is non-negotiable- in no instance is it ever okay to proceed in a relationship with a parent whose kids you can't get along with, period***
1) have goals, dreams or ambitions for the long term that will likely take you out of your current living area
2) like to take extended vacations and trips and want to share those with your partner
3) want someone whose financial resources are exclusively available for your partnership
4) have high needs for quality time and intimacy that will go un-met when having to share your partner with his obligations to his kids
5) have bad chemistry with his ex or are unwilling to maintain harmony with her for the sake of his obligations
6) your financial expectations for how much, if any, of YOUR resources go to his children do not align with each other
7) you feel overly attached to his kids
8) you consciously or unconsciously compete with his kids
9) you feel resentment about his children coming before you or continually suppress and ignore your own needs to make a relationship with a single parent work
10) - 17) are missing any of the above things in the "dating a single parent could be perfect for you" list and are not willing or capable of resolving those things
Great video and message. Perfect timing. Hope you found/find what you're "not" looking for. :) Thank you. 👊
I haven't been in a relationship for 8 years. My choice. After i finally got full custody of my son when he was 5. I was jaded about women for a while and i had to get my shit together and i have. I own my own place. Ive started to date my neighbor. She is a single parent too.
Am a single mum of two girls,if any single man above 35and not above 40 feels lonely and wants a marriage partner am ready 😊
Thanks for making this video 😊As a single father, I jumped straight out of a divorce that I did not see coming to 4 months later into another relationship which felt good at the time, but on the inside I had not healed. But 2.5 years that I single again and trying to take my time before date properly, but I get attracted to the dating apps to reduce any feeling of loneliness mainly when my son is with his mum. Good luck to all the single dads to find nice women.
@georgemartin9205 The only reason a single women would date a single father like yourself is because they’re very desperate and very lonely.
The reality is it’s not easy to date a single father based on my experience!
I was dating a single father of two who are toddlers and it made me feel like an instant mother. I have never been a mother in my whole life so it was isn’t easy for me.
I don’t know if single father is ideal for a single women who don’t have children
@marriagebeforesex No single fathers are not ideal for single women single fathers need to stay away from single women and date single mothers who they have much more in common with.
@@Janine466 I agree. But even single fathers will turn down single mothers lol. Happened to me and I'm a single mom. Owell.
@@Janine466 single mothers have too much bad baggage, drama and dealing with baby daddy drama. Single fathers don't do that stuff and don't think with their emotions. I was cheated on after having a 12 year relationship and now I'm a single father. I wouldn't want to deal with a single mother since again they have too much bad baggage. There are women with no kids who do date single fathers.
I am single father from yesterday
There are fear little on me LoooL
But enough is enough
i must be good father
That you will be homie and I hope all the best for you on this journey :)
You don’t have to be this attractive dude or be on dating apps to find a women. Go to healthy outings and events and be your self 100% stay genuine don’t stood low and negative energy as in being a play boy or me H bag w P*** be who you are and life will bring you the one who can be who they are to you. Never force no matter how you feel. Keep building thru it and they’ll come to you. Love to all my single dads it’s scary out here
I've been a full time single dad for a little over 5 years. I dated on and off but just didn't have the spare time or the desire to put forth the effort needed for a serious relationship. Takes time to get back the desire again after betrayal. Actually more of a learning process. It's fact everyone sins. That said, at the end of the day if you're betrayed or cheated on it shouldn't be a big surprise. Just know, trust isn't for everyone or absolute. My son's old enough now that he doesn't need a sitter so I can make the time. The hard part's finding the right woman.
No need to worry about dating nobody wants you anyways.
In that case, I highly suggest you maintain friends, and resolve your own attachment style and heal yourself before ever entertaining a new partner.
I'm sure the need versus want question can be a positive revelation, but for me, it's left me feeling apathetic. I've hit the point where I don't need, want, or expect to be with anyone, and it hurts. It's not a powerful feeling. I think humans need other humans on an evolutionary level. We are not solitary creatures. It is physically painful to be alone. So, how do you know when to stop letting go of your desires? When do you say I'm okay to date again, because I think you can take that question too far, and it's hard to know when to stop. It's not as simple as flipping a switch or making a declaration. I'm not trying to be combative; it's an honest question because I have been asking myself the need/want question for the past 6 months, not consciously knowing I was asking it, and I think I messed up somewhere.
Yes! Yes and Yes! Thank you for sharing this Anna as this is so beautiful (Even though it may not seem beautiful that was my legit reaction to reading this, I got excited)
First of all, I want to celebrate you for becoming aware that you were unconsciously asking yourself that question. That's huge, awareness always leads to a change and or shift in ones life!
You are totally right, I think that we can take this to the extreme and go the other way where we become so independent that we think we no longer need anyone and it becomes a kind of ego trip. It definitely isn't as easy as flipping a switch and making a declaration and you offer some valid questions of when do you stop letting go of your desires and when do you begin to say that it's okay to date again.
I don't think there is a wrong and right answer to that :) I would like to ask you a couple of questions and you are more than welcome to share, if not here you are more than welcome to what's app me as well (+1 587-343-0249)
When you say that you don't expect to be with anyone, what do you mean by that?
What do you mean by what you say when you say it hurts?
Cool, I would offer you the idea to start putting yourself out there for dating and see what happens. it sounds like you have arrived at a place in which it may be the time :)
Excellent advice, man. You just opened my eyes. I’m not ready yet.
what about having limited time due to child care and work and women having the need to feel prioritized?
Ive been a singke father since my was 10 days old. His mother got a meth addiction and dipped out. My son is goong to be 14 in may. My story worked out well but most men he screwed.
Blessed I’m not a single father 💯
Am single mum what can I do to get a single dad
@miyaamariana 7751 In the ghetto where you came from.
Hi, well said, good video 🙂👍
Easy! Women love men with kids or at least I do! Ready made family:)
yeah, only if the dad puts in effort... but alot of these dads are LAZY LAZY LAZY... minimal effort, and think just because they show you a tea spoon of interest, that you'll come running to them and arrange and handle everything. ABSOLUTELY NOT.
Damn im not ready then. What about casual sex?
Awesome bro
Bro that's what relationship is. That's why God created Eve. You just need to find a decent woman
volume please
Waiting for 1k subscriber😎😎
Hahaha I’m pushing it for it 😆😆
but you arent even a single father..? you co-parent..
Spot on