Are Black Fraternities and Sororities Abusive? - Dr. Stacey Patton, Author of Spare the Kids

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Dr. Stacey Patton is the author of Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America and her mission is to educate people that spanking is “the whitest thing you can do,” and its child abuse and domestic violence. In this clip, she explores the historical violence within Black fraternities and sororities.
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Комментарии • 38

  • @celvil1848
    @celvil1848 Год назад +21

    She speaking complete facts, and it’s gonna put a lot of peoples noses out, but it’s really time to wake up !

  • @veewalker4472
    @veewalker4472 Год назад +30

    That’s facts and why I never pledged

  • @Trustthatvibe8228
    @Trustthatvibe8228 Год назад +15

    I thank God I came from a family that didn't do this. Not me or my cousins were beaten. My parents left this earth and never laid a hand on me.

    • @GregoryEastern
      @GregoryEastern Месяц назад

      So know other person has the right to 🙂

  • @ElizabethFitTaylor
    @ElizabethFitTaylor Год назад +8

    Wth?? That whole hazing bull. Ain't no way. The whole initiation ritual was just ridiculous and dumb to me.

  • @debbiep99
    @debbiep99 Год назад +8

    That's messed up that that's what happens when people are pledging. It's not a gang wtf!

  • @definitionofbeauty6861
    @definitionofbeauty6861 5 месяцев назад +2

    My daughter will be going to college next year and she’s already considering pledging…but the sorority she chooses going to have to deal with me if they think they gone be hazing my daughter in a way that defames her hurts her, causes embarrassment, if she is disrespected in any way or touched in a inappropriate manner for any reason…hell gone be unleashed on earth! Mark my words I vowed before the lord everybody involved will pay the price…I’m that mother who won’t even call the police or press charges…I won’t you free and roaming the streets thinking you dodged a bullet, I have never in her 17 years ever had to beat or physically chastise my daughter for wrong doing because I never needed to…she has always been a good daughter who listened to her parents and did what she was suppose to, I’d loose my common sense the day I ever hear she was harmed.

    • @GregoryEastern
      @GregoryEastern Месяц назад

      I totally agree with you because I will not tolerate no disrespect towards me or my child 😎

  • @Multifarious1
    @Multifarious1 Год назад +3

    Literally why I never pledged.

  • @jmatthews5685
    @jmatthews5685 Год назад +9

    She got abused so her perspective but treating everyone like a delicate flower all the time is not the answer. Also, hazing and child abuse are NOT black specific

    • @vigarobugsbunni
      @vigarobugsbunni Год назад

      Thank you! It has absolutely nothing to do with black it is the GREEK system and it happens to all.

  • @hyperboi87
    @hyperboi87 Год назад +1

    My family toughened me up for real fr, they taught me how I didn’t want to be treated, and I haven’t talk to none of their asses since I turned 15, and I’m 35 now

  • @mr.notajoke1647
    @mr.notajoke1647 2 месяца назад

    Lies

  • @iRockwthMJ
    @iRockwthMJ Год назад +1

    Not all...

  • @FASBLAQUE
    @FASBLAQUE Год назад +4

    How are they blaming that on slavery then turn right around and say being compassionate and empathetic is white? That don't add up and y'all need to stop blaming everything on slavery.

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo 8 месяцев назад

      You gotta know the history of fraternities bro

    • @FASBLAQUE
      @FASBLAQUE 8 месяцев назад

      @@dutchcapo Nah "breh"! YOU need to go and listen to the clinical psychologist, professor Odi and learn what "emotional intelligence" is. No more excuses! Excuses are not going to save us as a people.

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo 8 месяцев назад

      @@FASBLAQUE This the reason black people lack power and progression we don’t work on the things that affect us today. You need to study the everything from slavery to prohibition, Juneteenth to the black power movement … and then we need to use that as a guide to make moves not replicate the stupidity of white folks…

  • @elgerone
    @elgerone Год назад +4

    If you got scars thats abuse i wasnt abuse but i was disciplined

  • @elgerone
    @elgerone Год назад +6

    I disagree with her

  • @brickybrickhouse1418
    @brickybrickhouse1418 4 месяца назад

    That's not true...the hazing of college kids is totally different from disciplining your children early. The Bible says, "Spare the rod, spoil the child"

  • @ERICGRIMEY1
    @ERICGRIMEY1 Год назад

    So soft.....I swear

  • @tigerlilly9038
    @tigerlilly9038 Год назад

    Waaaayyaminuuitt Ma'am Harpo, who dis woman?. Who is this person before I go in..because I will and am going in... let me do my due diligence...because SHE CANNOT SPEAK FOR ME AND MINE... She does not know my personal story. my line nor my organization so be easy, ma'am..move real nice-nice in your generalizations.
    "you have to get beat" 🧐

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo 8 месяцев назад

      All black Greek organizations are an assimilation to white society that is the basis of the organizations… these organizarions haven’t established power, created economic in roads for people outside of the frat . They so things on behalf of the youth buts that’s no different then any other black group with the Greek label. I think the whole concept of being defensive about being questioned should stop of course. The paper bag test, extreme harsh hazing are just a few of the things once again…but as members of the organizations I do see power for the community I opportunists in disguise …

  • @AngeliqueSims-g1u
    @AngeliqueSims-g1u 7 месяцев назад

    "You have to get beat" Lies. That's not to say that none haze or have hazed, but to say you HAVE to be beaten is a lie. I wasn't beaten! AKA Baby For Life!

    • @isrealjudah4164
      @isrealjudah4164 6 месяцев назад +2

      Did u go to a HBCU and did you go under grad. Tell it all 😅

  • @Raven-ug8uw
    @Raven-ug8uw Год назад +1

    Fraud.

  • @Legendarystat00
    @Legendarystat00 Год назад

    🧢

  • @kactusJacko
    @kactusJacko 7 месяцев назад

    Jesus himself couldn't make me denounce the brotherhood