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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for not letting my neighbors use my yard?
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for turning off the WiFi while my roommate was streaming because he has been late on rent?
r/AITA - AITA for telling anyone who asks why I don’t bake for our hall anymore?
r/AITA - AITA for calling my brother controlling when he said that I'm the "golden child"?
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It’s entitled for people to think they can’t walk 5 mins more to get to a beach lol
It's entitled for rich people to buy up and gatekeep beaches.
@@emilyburns5987they aren’t gating off the beach they are gating off the land they bought. Those people have full right to walk 5 mins to the beach and have access to the exact same space. They are both lazy and just as entitled as the home owners.
@@emilyburns5987they’re not gatekeeping the beach. The beach has public access. They’re simply preventing strangers from trespassing on private property.
@emilyburns5987 I think you need to refresh your knowledge of the word "entitled." The only one actually entitled to that land is the owner. The condo people have no rights to that land and are the ones acting entitled to something that is not their's. The landowner owes those people absolutely nothing. Whatever jealousy and envy they have doesn't change that.
@@Karamarika As I have said in another comment, just because you have the right to do something doesn't mean you aren't an AH. I'm not saying the people from the condo aren't also in the wrong, but there is a kind thing to do and a selfish thing to do in this scenario and the homeowner chose to do the latter.
So for the story about the streamer and rent... if you're an adult it is NOT your roommates responsibility to remind you about bills every month.
So true especially since rent for basically everybody is always due on the first of the month. So I don't even know how you could forget in the first place.
@@melanin.beautyxiii it's blatant disregard.
Absolutely! If the roommate was living alone, everything would have just gotten cut off. This is a prime example of parents not teaching their kid’s responsibility and doing everything for them. OP is NOT the streamer’s parents.
Literally came to say this. Op is not their mother
Yes! I was just coming on here to say thebsame thing. No one should have to remind you to pay your rent... that is a horrible take...
Absolutely NTA for closing off the backyard! Letting people in your property let alone your pool opens you up to liability. Absolutely not, they arent paying your mortgage!
“Rich person issue” I’m sorry but the condo people are most likely also pretty well off to live that close to the beach…
I know plenty of people who live on the beach (especially child free seemingly) who are not above middle class they just lived below their means and saved up to be able to buy their beach front property
They could have bought the home if they wanted the access to the beach. Everyone has the opportunity to but property when it goes on the market, but they didn't and now have to abide by the rules of the new owner.
You shouldn't need to remind roommates/tenants to pay their rent
1st story: it doesn't matter what the previous owner let the neighbours in the condo do, the current owners can say "the house has been sold and I'm not okay with that." Also, it is a liability issue because someone could get hurt on their property when they aren't there and they could be sued. And OP isn't cutting off beach access. There is beach access if you walk 5 minutes.
2nd story: OP is not the AH. It isn't the first time Jake has been late with the rent. It isn't OP's responsibility to remind him to pay the rent. Jake is an AH because he's a freaking adult who should make sure he deals with his responsibilities and one of them is PAYING THE FREAKING RENT. Where is Jake going to stream from if they get evicted for not paying the full amount?
3rd story: it isn't the OP's fault that the kid ate the brownie. Where was the parent when the kid was eating the brownie? How old is the child? That kid should know they have allergies and can't eat something if they don't know what's in it.
@jomc6734 The new owners are incredibly lucky that the path didn’t become grandfathered in. People have lost private property because they purchased property that previous owners had allowed access for a number of years. It’s a grey area legally where enough time allowing general use encases that use as part of the property. You see this in the UK where farmers that have general use paths across their properties having their livestock escape or die because people crossing the property don’t properly close the gaits. Very unfair to property owners.
For the first story, if they have a pool with no fence they can be liable for people who get in their pool and get hurt because they didn't block access to it. The previous owners were stupid for letting people they didn't even know have access to that part of their property regardless of the rules about gating the beach path.
It’s not a “rich person issue”. It’s private property. If someone wants direct access to the beach, they can pony up the extra money to buy beachfront property.
For the 2nd story, he stated he did talk to him and he promised he wouldn’t do it again.
I was thinking the same thing, like how did they miss that
Rich or not, nobody wants random strangers passing through their yard. When I was younger we lived in a townhome and we were the only ones on the block who didn’t have a fence in the backyard. We were also in the middle but there was a gap between the next town house and our house. So ppl would cut through our yard all the time and drop trash which me and my sister’s had to clean up the trash. So I’m with them fencing it off, it’s their property and everyone else will have to walk.
i visited a bf who lived in NC. I had only ever been in the southwest, and this house didn’t have a back yard at all!! it was just open greenbelt-type area and it was sooo weird
The rent story, OP said already that he did talk to his roommate before the turning off the wifi incident. Like, the roommate said multiple times he wouldn't be late again and they were in trouble with the landlord and then again he was late.
My answer on the "rich people" problem would be for me to excitedly say - WOW, well my last neighbor lived in a condo and let our friends stay at their place and utilize all the amenities at the condo! You know how it is, sometimes friends just need to crash for a night or so. My parents are coming for December. What is your address? I want to make sure they get to the right place. The home owners are so NTA.
Condo's are not cheap, if they can afford one that near a beach, they could afford one with a pool.
John singing Nelly Furtado and Sophia and Riley not knowing the song legit made me realize how old I am now 😅
How wild right?!? 😂❤
Ikr?! I'm 55 and I was shocked and disappointed!
That one hurt a little haha
bruh!! that's so unfair!!! he didn't even pay his rent, the chat did !!
Sorry.. but the roommate is absolutely NOT the a hole. At all. The real world doesn’t work like that. Bills come regardless. If he were living on his own, everything would have just gotten cut off. No excuses. A part of being an adult is being responsible and paying your bills. Priorities. Sounds like the streamer needed the wake up call. Hopefully he really did learn. The fact that this is even questionable is annoying.
If he's making an income he should contribute to the household. If he's not making an income maybe streaming isn't for him. Either way, he's mooching off of OP. Not sure how anyone who isn't a moocher can say that OP is TA.
I mean the roommate should pay his bills. He’s a grown a** man right? Bet he won’t forget again lol
"am I the AH for not parenting my grówn áss roommate?"
RE rent story: If the landlord was the one cutting off the power mid stream we wouldn’t consider them the AH so why is the roommate the AH
Why didn’t someone who wanted to use the path just buy the house themselves … if it meant so much to them… if It is my house then unless you are invited by me or somehow paying for the entire property you cannot come over. Period, full stop. NOT THE AHOLE
The condo should've bought
@@camilafarias1522 This, exactly.
Streamer is an adult and should know he needs to pay his bills. OP isn't streamers mom to be holding his hand and reminding him of his responsibilities.
5:46 My family has had this problem before and can confirm, having random people walking through your yard SUCKS. My parents own 10 acres with a barn that they recently finished paying off from our neighbors, however there’s a land-use agreement with them that doesn’t end until next year. They keep their goats at the barn, including kids and in the past have told people to go on out and look at/ play with them. The problem is that the only access to the back of the property is a road that runs through the backyard and the way the house faces you can see right into the back of the house where there are some rather large widows. People regularly stare into the house and yard at us like we’re the weirdos when they’re on our property. We’ve also had several of our chickens mysteriously appear dead in our backyard with what looks suspiciously like dirt or tire tracks on them. The other day some dumb ass teenage girl drove through our yard at 30 mph and nearly hit my cat. The neighbors who the land-use agreement is with are very nice people who we love. They’re very understanding and now only have a couple of people who go out there twice a day.
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you and your family! Even more sorry for the poor chickens and your most likely traumatized cat.
Our front windows to our house were huge. Nearly floor to ceiling, and wall to wall, and until I was able to find curtains and valances that properly covered the windows I told my husband that I felt like I was living in a people aquarium. 😂
Thankfully, we've since replaced the windows (they were old and needed replacing) with although still large, but more normally proportioned windows. It's great because having to buy the longest curtains and widest valances on the market wasn't always friendly to our house budget. We had those dang windows for 20 years too, so there were replacements needed at times. 😂
@@badkitty4922 that’s exactly what it feels like! It’s like we’re some kind of circus sideshow or zoo animals there for people to gawk at. I’m just glad our neighbors have taken our comfort into consideration and either take care of their goats themselves or have someone we know do it for them. They really are lovely people. We also have since been keeping our chickens in their runs, so they don’t free range anymore and now they’re safe❤️
The kid with the allergies had no business eating random food. MOM should of had an eye on him and knowing he has allergies, she has to be prepared for random consumptions. If her kid is "hard to handle" and always escapes her, mom needs to be ready for those kinds of emergencies. OP is not an a-hole. Mom and Lily are the a-holes.
@lillyreyes9028 Absolutely! I work for the government and a couple years ago at a barbecue thrown by another dip couple, I made flourless peanut butter cookies because the hostess had severe Celiacs disease. I didn’t realize there would be unattended children, I am very careful with allergens, as I am deathly allergic to shellfish and understand the danger. I make sure pans are fully cleaned and different sponges are used, I also carefully label all food I bring. The children descended on the cookies and I found myself yelling to the company at large, asking if anyone had a nut allergy. Parents need to protect their children if they can’t protect themselves.
The baked goods came with the maker's appartment number since the beginning. My cousin has a deadly peanut allergy and when she was real young it could be difficult to catch her because kids are kids.
In this situation my aunt would've visited that appartment on the first plate to explain her concern. The fact this mother was fine with it until it cost her money is concerning.
Totally agree with Mom being the AH here, but not Lily. Finding out from Lily doesn't mean she ran door to door telling everyone. It means that someone asked and she answered. Then it began with the next person saying that Lily told him about it. It is also true.
Im very concerned by these people who demand strangers to give access to their kids! What happens if your new neighbours are pedo...?
It's very unsafe and foolish... @@ladymorrigan5950 And they act so entitled when access is cut off - the parents, that is. Childish behavior and disrespectful.
For that second story, turn it around and ask. Am I the A-hle for not paying my rent when I make more than enough money? To the point my roommate cut off the internet because I was late paying again. Shouldn't have to remind someone to pay rent. They both could have lost the place to live! . He's so successful he has to beg his followers to help pay the rent? what happened to the other money? Happy ending at least.
The way I’d put it (which is my point of view) is that this is his job so imagine if you were late on rent (rightly or wrongly) and your roommate decide to screw with you job maybe hide your car keys or something and make you super late. I feel like OP is an AH ONLY because you don’t mess with someone’s job to be petty that’s just over the line
If it’s private property they are liable for anyone that gets hurt on the beach.
1: That is a huge insurance liability. No!
First story…I bet that’s why the old owners are moving, because they were being taken advantage of and never had any privacy
Also, it’s a liability to have people walking through your property and using your pool especially if you’re not there, and ESPECIALLY if it’s kids GOING TO THE BEACH BY THEMSELVES?! I wouldn’t even consider that until the kids can drive themselves
About the streamer and rent. OP did say they brought it up in conversations and every time they did the streamer apologized and said that it wouldn't happen again.
The roommate will continue to be irresponsible and his audience just enabled him. He should joined the stream and send the reminder in chat next time 😂 Turning off the internet isn’t as extreme as not having a place to live. If streaming is your main income why wouldn’t you pay on time to secure it?
I would have offered the condo landlords to buy a strip of land at the highest price (x3) since their selling point is my property(bc now they could advertise it truthfully). Build a tall fortress type fence and obvious security cameras everywhere if they agreed.
2nd, I would make the condo landlords sign a contract about any tenants causing damage or invasion of privacy with very severe fines.
If they want it as selling point then they can pay for it.
It’s not a rich person problem. I wouldn’t want people using my backyard as a public path.
There are people who seem to be living in fantasyland and think that this isn't a massive danger. Even in the olden days this was dangerous.
For the second story why would he need to be reminded to pay rent that comes around every month
24:10 “We had talks about it, and he said it won’t happen again.”
THANK YOU!!!!
LITERALLY. It pissed me off so much how they seemed to glaze over that. It was the 3rd month in a row he was late! He said he wouldn't do it again. What is OP supposed to do? Keep talking? No. Consequences will make you remember then.
I love the Sam and Sophia switch mid session
Switch? What switch? Sophia was there the whole time!
I kept searching for this comment
re the rent story: the streamer threatening to kick op out is hilarious since without op, how the hell is he gonna make his money from his streams after his landlord evicts him for payments not being made?
I read the original post of the first story, OP said that there was another way around and she didn't want people to go through the yard and leaving their trash on the property.
Having the fence around your yard is important. The homeowner can be liable if someone gets hurt in their yard, even when trespassing
Why should i have to constantly remind an adult to send their portion of the rent?? Also, that puts pressure on someone who might not have enough to cover the late dollars in the meantime
11:25 Sam singing "Vamos a la Playa" made my day brighter 😃
As a new resident of a property, the neighbors know virtually nothing about you. If you want your privacy, if you decide you wanna go jump in your pool without clothes on. You should not be held responsible for children walking through your yard when you do so.
A very good point. Letting people in means they can't do a lot of things. These people are also being far from neighborly - they are entitled and only talking to OP for this privilege. PPL need to GTFO with the jealousy.
Legal liability if injured. Your house, your rules. Previous owners probably sold as too scared to stand up.
Also, the mini walkway doesn't exclude you from liability and establishes custom for the land to be removed from your title.
When people stop sueing you can pull the fence down. Simple
I can't believe the friend and sister of the first lady are siding with strangers. Shows how entitled they are.
I would not trust the police to know that law or not. Better to talk to a lawyer about laws in the US. If that first story is in the US.
Omg I cracked up at Sam’s “vamos a la playa” song! Yes I know it 😂
7:00 OP is stating that she does not know these people and she’s not going to let random people onto her property…
These people aren’t introducing themselves or getting to know op
They don't call Riley "Big Protein" for nothing 😂
Love how Sophia and Sam switched and made John question his sanity.
For the peanut story, my kid is allergic to peanuts and we are getting ready to go to a fair. I'm researching the crap out of all the food vendors that are safe to eat. Thankfully they have a list of peanut friendly vendors, but I'm doing a deep dive. I would never let my kid eat random food. A food doesn't need to have peanuts in it to be unsafe. Lots of shared equipment and cross contamination.
“cupquakes…muffins… wow, I really do have dementia” 😂
😂 unfair to make children walk to the beach?
How dare these kids walk the long way? How dare we not promote obesity 😂
Walking 5 minutes to and from the beach won't prevent obesity.
@@hannahleigh6152 it won't hurt them either. My children 12 and under walk 90% of the time. For us the carsbused for locations not accessible by foot or carrying heavy loads. Kids need to learn how to travel safely and build their muscle strength.
@Loginpurposes Why would I care what you and your children do? I never said taking a longer walk would hurt them. I corrected your claim that a walk shorter than 10 minutes "promotes obesity."
@@hannahleigh6152 lol well you need to read more than if you don't think 10mins doesn't make a difference .
@Loginpurposes A 10 minute walk every once in a while will not stop someone from being obese. Obesity is largely determined by genetics and eating habits. *You* need to read more if you think that a 10 minute walk every few days (at most) will stop a child from becoming obese.
I wouldn’t let anyone just use the pool. Too much liability.
Every time Sophia wears that shirt I think she's going to ask us to find a blue clue
Lol the part about "If I saw a piece of cake in the trash and it looked nice I wouldn't eat it" just makes me think of George Costanza eating the bitten off eclair out of the trash 🤣
If your sister thinks they should get full access, sister should volunteer to clean up after them
For the last story my brother had once accused me of being the golden child and yelled at my parents saying "I don't know why you're so hard on me but not on my sister! (Me)" As the "golden child" I saw how rebellious my brother acted and how much our dad disciplined him. Our dad would yell, get angry, talk down to us and he even hit and wrestled my brother before. Whether it was for bad grades, misbehaving, rebelling, "talking back", etc I was the "golden child" because I knew to keep my mouth shut, say what our dad wanted to hear, keep up with decent grades and not rebel at least in front of him. Sometimes the "golden" children just know how to be that way to not face the consequences of the other sibling because they know what will happen if they do what their siblings did. Now I'm not saying OP's parents are abusive or like my dad, I'm just saying that golden children usually learn to not make the same mistakes as their other siblings if they see there is a serious punishment or consequences for their actions. For OP, it was probably seeing her brother have a kid at 18, having to deal with all this baby stuff, getting a full time job, having to pay rent to the parents, needing them to babysit, etc that she didn't want to make the same mistake as him.
Omg yall not knowing Fly like a bird by Nelly Furtado shows how young you all are 🥴😭💛
"Two a-holes don't make a butt cheek." New merch right there.😂
Story 2: they forgot he said he had conversations more than once with him about the situation. He also isn’t his keeper. Streamer guy is a adult and rent is due the same time every month.
love getting an okop notification ♥️
I'm blown away that the previous condo people let people walk through the yard, OP said most of their house was large windows facing the area. Like... these people are outside your giant windows right outside your house? NO!
Ok so as someone who works overdue accounts for a utility and gets the "but I work from home" reason to not disconnect them all the time: you can't livestream if you don't have a place to livestream from, so if it is important to your job it should be your #1 priority.
EXACTLY.
having a private beach is a nightmare because we have people go on our private beach without permission and we have a sign
Riley and Sophia not knowing the Nelly Furtado song is makimg me feel ancient 😭😭
I felt that whole bit about mods and chat not reminding the streamer to pay their rent at 23:34. I feel seen. Thank you! Yes, this has happened to me before. LOL
For the first story totally not the AH. Also the liability of it all 😳.
you shouldn't have to badger your grown ass roommate for rent lmao
OMG I can’t believe Sam knows the beach song in Spanish.. that song was such a hit
What song is it?
These people are letting their kids go to the beach with out adult supervision. Yikes
In most cases, they would add another pass on both sides of the houses so you can actually get to the beach and it’s separated by two big fences from the outside area of the road from what I’ve seen with a lot of these houses so no one else’s house or backyard is compromised
So you think the owners should have given up part of their property? That they have a paid for, for the public to use? Heck no. They would essentially be giving it away. They could be then taken to court if they ever decided they didn’t like the set up anymore and potentially just lose that part of their land. That’s a slippyslop slope they should not consider. While it’s more convenient for the condo people, they need to suck it up and just walk 5 minutes. Look what happened when OP moved in people were already asking what she’s doing because they expected to be able to go through her yard. Luckily it wasn’t long enough for the OP to lose that part of her property. There are some stories out there about this exact problem.
I liked the condo renting the Path idea. Surprised condo company didn't contact them if they where useing it as a perk.
For the roomate story, I'm kinda super focused on the fact the man HAD the money to pay rent, didn't, then basically became the equivalent of a beggar on the street and had asked people who had their own rent to pay, to pay his and gis overdue rent. WTFFFF he wasn't struggling, he had the money but didn't do what he needed to as an adult. But he sure as hell made sure the WIFI was paid over his rent. He knew exactly what he was doing if he can remember to pay a wifi bill.
It would have better if he would have interrupted the stream and asked for the rent lol
Riley: Lowkey, OPs the AH. If he has not directly gone to him & said 'hey buddy, you need to pay' or asked him or reminded him earlier...
Sorry Riley but absolutely not. OP stated he talked with him about this previously AND it's not on OP to constantly remind him to PAY HIS RENT! OP is not this dudes dad. It's not his responsibility. I don't need someone to remind me to pay my phone bill every month. My dad & I share a storage unit & spilt the cost, I don't need to remind him every month to pay. Dude hands me $35 toward his portion a week before its due & I put it in my account to pay. OP isn't the AH & Riley's reasoning is lame at best. You shouldn't have to constantly remind people of THEIR responsibilities. Period.
Okay for the first story. It could also be a big lawsuit for the homeowner if someone was to going swimming in the pool when nobody was there. If something was to happen the owner could be sued. That happend to a friend of my grandparents. They gave the neighbors the okay to swim in the pool while they were out of town. They were told only whole the parents of the kids were there watching. But later that week one of the boys and a few of his friends went alone. Two of the boys got into an argument and one got a broken leg from that fight. Not sure if the full story but the parents of the young boy, I say young as in the summer after 8th going into 9th, sued because there was no adult there to watch them and as the owner of the home gave them permission earlier to come over.
Being "neighborly" is overrated. It's not the capitalist hellscape, it's the people. People are going to people. Don't give them an inch.
I’m a beachfront home owner in Florida. I’m not rich by any means. I inherited the property and it’s the only reason I can afford it. For the people cutting through or saying the residents should be able to: Absolutely not. If anyone gets injured on your property, you’re liable for the injury since they were on your property and there’s a chance of getting sued and losing everything. Also, with the massive windows and a bunch of strangers, I would be so wildly uncomfortable. They can use the public access and I’d be installing cameras and calling the police if I saw any trespassing. It’s not a rich person issue. It’s a safety, security, and insurance problem. If the friend isn’t concerned about strangers around the OP’s kids, I’d also ditch the friend and have a very serious talk with the sister.
Last story: OP is not the AH, the brother is! He is complaining she doesn't pay rent, but he is conveniently forgetting that TWO other people were under theor parent's roof because of him. Guess what buddy? Formula and diapers cost a lot of money. An extra adult mouth to feed also costs money. Not to mention electricity and internet usage, etc. gets pricier by the person. I think he is so lucky his parents love him so much that they allowed him, his girlfriend, and his baby to live there.
About the cupcake incident/story: I think the mom is a karen. If the child is at the age that he doesnt understand that he cant have everything due to allergy then you should watch him and teatch that there is foods that he cannot have. If he is like 6-8yo he should know better or start to understand the reasoning behind not having foods with peanuts in order to protect himself. What if some kid wants to trade or share food with him in school that has peanuts in them? What if he seems something that he would like in some other kids birthday party and doesnt know how or why to ask if there is peanuts in there?
This just feels like "since my kid cant have this i make sure nobody can".
"Two aholes don't make one butcheek" is wild 😂
the beach story i just thought "yes sis your house was land let me drive my new ATV through it obviously you wont mind since it was land once you being inconvient with it being there, demolish your house."
First story, no pass through even, that’s your land your responsible if they trip and fall and hurt themselves they will sue you. If its law and therefore the county responsibility to provide insurance for the pass through and 109 percent no access to the pools etc, they can vandalize and also again liability. No strangers trespassing.
That streamer story is definitely an ad for kick. There are heaps of stories on reddit hinting that kick will make you lots of money, and they always make sure to say twitch and kick, never just kick. They are designed to make it seem like it isnt an ad, but plant the idea that streaming on kick will make you lots of easy money. Ive seen like 6 different similar stories on reddit recently
30:00 I feel that it should have been established before that if the roommate was late on his rent again he will be kicked off of the internet for a set amount of time.
It’s sad that you would have to be a “parent” to teach consequences to your grown roommate, but if it’s your home on the line do what you have to.
Also, being threatened to get kicked out? OP had the opportunity to say “You can try but who will the landlord want? The guy that doesn’t pay rent or me?”
Riley, you can’t say that unless ur gonna prove it…😂😂
Don’t kids need an adult with them for the beach? That’s the rules for pools so you would think it would be for the ocean as well.
Streamer story: Always make sure to clarify who is accountable and in what way.
Specify exactly what you expect and until when (even when you think it’s logical) Or ask them to give you an exact time line/ outline of what they are going to do.
For example: “I need you to pay your rent until Friday 4pm, or I will have to take some action. Can you manage this timeline?
Then the next time: I do not want to remind you of paying rent. Automize your payment, or I will have to take action the next time you are late.
This way you are VERY clear about expectation and consequences. Or if they tell you “I will do it to night!” Hold them to their own words. So even if you switch off the wifi , you’ll be able to say: I told you and you agreed.
That's crazy, making excuses for a whole grownup that shouldn't need to be told to pay their rent. Do y'all need your hands held and need to be constantly reminded to pay your bills and keep up with your responsibilities too?
That first story got me fumed. I can’t afford a beach house, I am not in that league but let’s say you worked hard all your life and finally you were able to buy yourself a beach home and the next thing you know strangers are walking through your property and using your pool. If you were given that information from the realestate agent would you have paid that set amount for that property? Probably not and probably no one would have bought that house. How unsettling have strangers walking onto your property. I don’t know if they have children or planning to but that would be another concern. What if they were a young family and the condo people think it’s acceptable that strangers are in their yard? It amazes me the entitlement. Maybe sell that strip of land to the condo and make it a Hefty price as it’s a pathway beside your home and it’s not some homeowners would want. I bet they wouldn’t want to part with their money. No rather other people pay for the land so they can use it.
In some cases, if you allow people access to a portion of your property for X number of years, and they can prove it, they can have an easement.
Kind of like how utility companies have an easement to access your property if needed to repair their poles, lines, etc., or how the first so many feet from the road is usually considered an easement because postal carriers, sidewalks, people just needing to be able to travel along the side of the road and get out of the road, etc.
In the last story, I think the brother was just narrowed in and focusing on the rent aspect, BUT his parents were covering for the baby and supplies and aiding him in child care for free. I GUARANTEE that the cost of childcare and financial support from his parents way out weighs the daughters cost of just living there rent wise. Also the son would also add another mouth to feed, use water, and use electricity whenever he had a girlfriend live there. So just based on adding the girlfriend into the household they need to pay rent for her to live there. This guy seems so entitled and most likely salty over more events than just the rent. Maybe he’s jealous that his sister also got to go to college, get a degree, and do all of the young adult things that he couldn’t do because he had a child at 18. Those were his choices that led him to his life and current happiness or lack there of.
Sophia and Riley not knowing Nelly Furtado makes me feel so old. I thought everyone knew that song 😅
Story2: OP said that the streamer friend said it would never happen again, so they HAVE talked about it. So the rommate knows it is an issue! If you do not remember, you can make your bankaccount pay the money auromatically every month. It is not rocketsience!
And if they loose the home, because of late rent, or have to pay a fee, what would the roommete do then?
If you have an apartment, you are responsible for paying you share. Whas it a bit extreme to cut off the internet? Maybe. But if you talked to that person often befire and they just say "whelp, it won't hapoen again", just for it to hapoen again. What would be the option? How would they understand? It seems like a non-issue tobthe roommate and he/her does not get the consequences that could have!
What happens when someone falls or gets hurt on your property? You get sued for simply being kund enough to allow others to walk through
2nd story if he was by himself and he didn't pay his bills for months, not only wifi, but all electricity throughout his place would be cut off. Dont matter if he was in a meeting with his boss. OP not the AH
Lol im 50 and have never broken a bone. Ive had accidents skiing, horseback riding, biking, motorbiking and just being clumsy
Fly like a bird. I feel so old and sad that they don’t know that 😭
The first story if someone gets hurt on their property they can be sued, makes sense to me to secure your property.
If someone is going into YOUR pool and drowns you become responsible
yeah OP is NTA in story 2 riley didn't listen that he explicitly did ask his roommate to pay rent :P
My daughter is allergic to oranges. I taught her to ask if she wasn’t sure and to never eat anything the color orange just in case. She’s been doing this since she was two. I know preschool kids who will tell you what they can and cannot have so it’s on the mom for not teaching her son or watching them especially if maybe they don’t listen or comprehend their allergy.
John, you’re only about a year older than me. Don’t let them pick on you!
Love the swap out of Sam and Sophia 😂
If people five minutes away sees people down the beach they will go down the beach to find more room. It's like Murphy's law of counter tops the crap on the counter expands increases if there is more room for the crap to expand. Substitute crap and counters with people and beaches
Baked goods thing… the road to hell is paved with good intentions, everytime I make a kind gesture I end up with something stupid like that. One person can ruin it all.
I’m so down for you guys to have mukbang story times once in a while on these late night shows live 😊❤
Nah, i dont understand how you guys defended the streamer so hard. "Did you tell him rent was due blah blah blah" 🤣🤣 like wtf last time i checked, they are grown ass adults why should OP has to nag for rent he should just have it ready because it happens every damn month does it not nothing is new about rent
If it matters for his job, he should pay rent to keep his internet and shelter going. OP shouldn't have to nag a grown ass man. If roommate has ADD or something, it's called CALENDARS and SCHEDULES and ALARMS ON THE PHONE etc. If he's really streaming as a job he should have this anyway.
You never want anything to look like public access to your house. That gives cops license to snoop on you or worse
Depending on how long it goes on for, in certain areas that can even lead to an easement, where the access permanently becomes part of the deed and your home value can take a hit.