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The most reliable TEST for NARCISSISM

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  • Опубликовано: 6 дек 2022
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    You might find this interesting. Psychologists have long struggled with evaluating narcissism as a personality dimension. However, it turns out that there is one test that predicts whether someone is a narcissist better than any other. Surprisingly, the test has only one item. Want to know what it is? You'll have to watch the short.
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Комментарии • 120

  • @jamesredman1263
    @jamesredman1263 11 месяцев назад +100

    Tell them no.
    Don't cooperate for once.
    If they freak out, get angry etc. - they are.

  • @CarlDIY
    @CarlDIY 4 месяца назад +57

    Hold them accountable for their actions. See how they react.

    • @truedepthaquaponics7118
      @truedepthaquaponics7118 2 месяца назад +5

      1000%
      A true narc will never take responsibility for their actions when wrong is involved

    • @PrometheusBoxing
      @PrometheusBoxing 27 дней назад

      @@CarlDIY accountability is like poison to them.

  • @cherylross393
    @cherylross393 Год назад +32

    Beautiful eyes this man has.Narcissists are so hurtful 💔 they can cut you off at the knees it's very hearbreaking.

  • @Jess-jt9fb
    @Jess-jt9fb Год назад +83

    I’m calling bullshit on this. Another psychologist used the same question because narcissists aren’t going to look inward enough to know they are unless they’ve been told.

    • @Trollika_Devi
      @Trollika_Devi 8 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly

    • @mikelopez9071
      @mikelopez9071 7 месяцев назад +13

      I feel like a narcissist wouldn't want to be a narcissist because of the negative connotation with it. This test doesn't hold water

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 5 месяцев назад

      What he’s saying might be true, but he did say there are very few reliable tests, so even if this is the best and most reliable test, it may still not work in the majority of cases. It’s just that all other tests work in an even smaller percentage of cases.
      The test might be “the best of a bad lot”.

    • @DwyaneWadeCounty
      @DwyaneWadeCounty 4 месяца назад +5

      Yeah, narcissists are always calling others narcissist

    • @immers2410
      @immers2410 3 месяца назад +2

      It only works on grandiose not covert

  • @azee6532
    @azee6532 2 месяца назад +12

    A narcissistic person would never tell you that he or she is a narcissist. That's the whole platform on which their mind games are based.

    • @nugget6635
      @nugget6635 2 дня назад

      @@azee6532 What you say is only true if you are in a relationship with a narcissist. However if you ask a stranger who is a narcissist about narcissistic behaviors without calling it "narcissism" they are going to say that those behaviors are the right way to live.

  • @lvlylj1
    @lvlylj1 2 месяца назад +6

    Yes, lol, my ex will proudly declare himself a narcissist. He often says outloud things like, for example if he has to wait in line, "I'm more important than you" and truly believes it. He has no clue how ridiculous he sounds and wonders why he has such a hard time getting along with literally everyone.
    Btw, your eyes are stunning!

    • @ghostsheet777
      @ghostsheet777 2 месяца назад +1

      My cousin used to say that to me as a kid 😂

  • @swirlycube9293
    @swirlycube9293 11 месяцев назад +8

    I am not a narcissist. I hope everyone is doing great!

  • @avinashmuraleedhar
    @avinashmuraleedhar 8 месяцев назад +8

    Bro your eyes are soo beautiful 👍hope you will give some to next generation

  • @laurie663
    @laurie663 Год назад +12

    What if they don’t know what a narcissist is?

    • @barbarabagatin8962
      @barbarabagatin8962 Год назад

      All narcissists know what is narcissism. Trust me. But since they are not successful they will deny to be narcissist, that's why I don't agree with this test.
      They will cheat ad usual claiming they are the "Best people on Earth" to exploit others, if they have not yet succeed. Only when goals are achieved, then some of them will coming out. Narcissists are constantly afraid to lose control, they are calculating machine, they always know what is the best for them. They are addicted to everything external: people, substances, etc. They won't ever say that if they are not sure to be successful people.

    • @DianeMatlock
      @DianeMatlock 2 месяца назад

      THEY KNOW, THEY JUST DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW.🤔🧐🫣😏

  • @DivineLogos
    @DivineLogos 5 дней назад

    Ask if they notice themselves deteriorating physically with age and how they feel about that.
    Narcs will almost always say that they don't experience that.
    If someone is 60 thats not really believable.

  • @mollyh9356
    @mollyh9356 9 дней назад

    Sir, your eyes are incredible

  • @adammitchell3462
    @adammitchell3462 4 месяца назад +2

    That's cool, I'll be sure to ask this question anytime I meet someone new

  • @ReceptiveKing93
    @ReceptiveKing93 28 дней назад +1

    Accountability is like kryptonite to narcissists 😂

  • @caucasianafrican1435
    @caucasianafrican1435 Год назад +14

    Even covert narcissists?

    • @gloriastroedecke2717
      @gloriastroedecke2717 Год назад +3

      Yes, I thought the same thing.

    • @rickymartin859
      @rickymartin859 11 месяцев назад +4

      Just questioning yourself "am I a narcissist" shows you care enough to look inside yourself.

    • @jamesredman1263
      @jamesredman1263 11 месяцев назад +3

      He said for overt.

    • @hevnervals
      @hevnervals 11 месяцев назад

      Probably not. There are no perfect ways to uncover narcissism

    • @anothenymously7054
      @anothenymously7054 7 месяцев назад

      "I try not to be a narcissist" that's closer to the truth because I want to try not to and recognize the tendencies

  • @Lenoxygen
    @Lenoxygen 6 месяцев назад +3

    What's stopping then from lying? Not much.

  • @lupaswolfshead9971
    @lupaswolfshead9971 3 месяца назад +2

    narcs is the get out of accountability card for female nature im getting sick of this psychobabble smokescreen bs.

  • @suziecreamcheese211
    @suziecreamcheese211 Год назад +4

    I thought you were going to say, a mirror.

  • @laurabarber6697
    @laurabarber6697 Год назад +25

    I thought it was yawn in front of them. No compassion= they won't yawn also!

    • @barbarabagatin8962
      @barbarabagatin8962 Год назад

      Truth

    • @ZackWilliams_TheProducer
      @ZackWilliams_TheProducer 5 месяцев назад

      So if you're sitting on a train full of people and you yawn, you expect everyone there who isn't a narcissist to yawn with you? Completely delusional thinking, maybe you are the narcissist. I suspect a majority of people complaining about narcissists have as bigger or bigger personality issues than narcissists do.

    • @Pssst.ByTheWay
      @Pssst.ByTheWay 5 месяцев назад +1

      Thats Psychopathy is it unable to understand others understand emotions ? Or was it Sociopathy, Unable to empathise … i get them confused. But not narcissists

    • @KhoaNgo-sr4zq
      @KhoaNgo-sr4zq 2 месяца назад

      Someone with adhd can not get it .

    • @iamlove113
      @iamlove113 Месяц назад

      My narcissist blows this theory out the water. He will morph into the most compassionate, humble and considerate human in .005 seconds.

  • @carlosgiovanardi8197
    @carlosgiovanardi8197 2 месяца назад +2

    Great!!
    ****
    Narcissism is a word that became fashion, and it seems that we use it everytime to accuse everybody that do not behave as we want!

  • @more444store6
    @more444store6 Год назад +3

    I def am not a narcissist. I think that is right what you said though, because they know they are. There are several on RUclips who are self-proclaimed narcissists. They don't even argue that they are not.

  • @robm8067
    @robm8067 3 месяца назад +1

    Uh nope. Most know they are or at least know their is something different about them but won’t admit it.

  • @annemelia2332
    @annemelia2332 Год назад +11

    Many people wouldn't know what narcissism is so that is not the best question to ask.

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah I didn’t realise what I was dealing with until less than two years ago but I grew up in a very narcissistic family and I can pretty much guarantee that if you asked the ones in my family whether they were or not they wouldn’t be saying yes.

  • @EliseRoss-di1ee
    @EliseRoss-di1ee 2 месяца назад

    I was under the impression for my psychologist that they don't even ask that question to themselves.

  • @muhktarnuru8777
    @muhktarnuru8777 20 дней назад

    I think people who claim to be empaths are narcisist. Empaths, never aknolledge it.

  • @ChristopherDonnerArtist
    @ChristopherDonnerArtist 2 месяца назад +1

    Works pretty well actually. For men at least.

  • @KatharinaKaschka
    @KatharinaKaschka Год назад +4

    Is it really this simple? Would be a great solution and convenient shortcut. Maybe talkshow hosts should ask certain guests that question, or even interview themselves, moreso if they are "nice". That would be hilarious... I don't think it's this simple and we would always get honest answers.

  • @JesusSaves9098
    @JesusSaves9098 7 месяцев назад +3

    To whoever is reading this Jesus loves you and he’s coming soon! All you need to do to be saved is believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins was buried and came back to life on the 3rd day confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and you’ll be saved! God bless

  • @seanguzy9601
    @seanguzy9601 2 месяца назад

    Send them a snap photo of another narscissts reply on social media, they will say " thats none of MY buisness "
    Than right away! Ask them what they did today. Lmao
    You will notice the " MY " and him willing to right away talk bout his day lol. Its a clear sign of caring of only ones self.

  • @Freedom4PalestineEndZioNazism
    @Freedom4PalestineEndZioNazism 11 месяцев назад +1

    Don't have narcissists where I am.
    Only arsonists with dyslexia! 😂

  • @Slayerofzulmak
    @Slayerofzulmak 2 месяца назад

    This video IS the test.

  • @Covarrubias2k
    @Covarrubias2k Год назад +2

    is there a test similar to this one but for Borderline personality?

  • @goofywill90
    @goofywill90 Месяц назад

    And what about the cover variety?

  • @TheOrignalTRockz
    @TheOrignalTRockz 2 дня назад

    Oh, and No. this only works with very few narcissists. Covert ones by default always will deny it, as they are always the victims.
    Many narcissists are not aware of it.
    So, no.
    You’re even a below average psychologist who happened to stumble across RUclips and gather an audience.
    Feel sorry for those who fall for your biased advice.

  • @mellad299
    @mellad299 2 месяца назад

    I don’t see how this is logic?

  • @alexwelts2553
    @alexwelts2553 5 месяцев назад

    I won't survive another encounter with one.

  • @seanguzy9601
    @seanguzy9601 2 месяца назад

    Collier!

  • @GypsyNomad912
    @GypsyNomad912 2 месяца назад

    Id consider myself as a controlled psychopath..

  • @modeob88
    @modeob88 11 месяцев назад

    what is a narcissits in first place? we arent all?

  • @theexistenshield
    @theexistenshield 10 месяцев назад

    this makes no sense, if they are good at lying and social appearances, how to know if they tell the truth and why would they? why would they have a thoughtful concept of what a narcissist is?

  • @investertiger3777
    @investertiger3777 6 месяцев назад

    I'm a Narcisist and that would not work on me, I would be surprised that you even had to ask.

    • @chrismontoya4266
      @chrismontoya4266 5 месяцев назад

      You ever try IFS therapy and EMDR?

    • @fayrowalmighty707
      @fayrowalmighty707 5 месяцев назад

      Are you a covert narcissist or an overt narcissist???

    • @Icannotlose
      @Icannotlose Месяц назад

      Well you just admitted it here so…

  • @MassMultiplayer
    @MassMultiplayer Год назад

    respect my useless grandiosity. even if i egoisticly share how useless is my grandiosity even if im aware enough to notice it. another good way is ask them to write about themselves. i do it about 1500 hour per years. i get to know god very well. i mean as a joke of narcisist thinkign theri are god internal object everything. im never tired to talk with god.

  • @guniabroudj1868
    @guniabroudj1868 8 месяцев назад

    I tested and i was told do you compare me with a Hitler?

  • @tysonlovell3898
    @tysonlovell3898 Год назад +2

    Covert narcs on the other hand….

  • @AlyRigsVids
    @AlyRigsVids 4 месяца назад

    Really Dang I Never Knew That, Woahhh, Shi I Learn Rhings Every Day

  • @ejpla3591
    @ejpla3591 Год назад

    So then you're saying that narcissists know they're narcissists? Am l understanding you correctly?

  • @LittleMew133
    @LittleMew133 7 месяцев назад

    Well then, do you have any of the 5 forms of NPD?

    • @LittleMew133
      @LittleMew133 7 месяцев назад

      I'm guessing a mixture of covert and communal?

  • @ABC-jq7ve
    @ABC-jq7ve Год назад +1

    LOL this is so funny haha

    • @SureYoureRight
      @SureYoureRight 11 месяцев назад

      You’re a narcissist too huh😂

  • @alexwelts2553
    @alexwelts2553 5 месяцев назад

    Gnarcicism?

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 11 месяцев назад

    but the great majority of narcissists don't know they are one

  • @shinelil1
    @shinelil1 5 месяцев назад

    Nonsense.

  • @KatharinaKaschka
    @KatharinaKaschka Год назад +2

    Plus, in indivduals with lack of education and thus lack of consciousness, or educated and intelligent people with lack of consciousness and genuine self-reflection nonetheless, there will be no sense or acknowledgment.

  • @psychacks
    @psychacks  Год назад +3

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    You might find this interesting. Psychologists have long struggled with evaluating narcissism as a personality dimension. However, it turns out that there is one test that predicts whether someone is a narcissist better than any other. Surprisingly, the test has only one item. Want to know what it is? You'll have to watch the short.
    Orion is a licensed psychologist in the state of California.
    Podcast available of Spotify, Instagram, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts and others.
    See the "About" tab for more information on donations and consultations.
    Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com
    #narcissism #narcissist #psychology

    • @billyin4c514
      @billyin4c514 Год назад

      I'm a narcissist, but I think it's because I have alot of repressed anger and sadness and so I get caught in these cycles where I'm completely absorbed by my own turmoil, then things become all about me. I think that if one is not in a good mood it's difficult being magnanimous. So I'm not as bad as others, but it's still not good.

  • @PharmacyTechLabs
    @PharmacyTechLabs Год назад +6

    I don't think I fit the description of a Narcissist. But I do have a very high sense of myself and sometimes have a sense of entailment because I feel like I've been through a lot, and I deserve only success and good things. Sometimes, I look down on people and view them as pigs and think their stupid and make shitty choices. I'm also kind of a loner.

    • @dealwithit7150
      @dealwithit7150 Год назад

      You fit the discription of a awful human being. Congrats

    • @PharmacyTechLabs
      @PharmacyTechLabs Год назад +1

      @Deal with It Haha! At least, I'm honest. You think people are easy to deal with.

    • @Guruji_Josiah
      @Guruji_Josiah Год назад

      Love how honest u are lol I relayed so much, ur not a narcissist u just have common sense

    • @billyin4c514
      @billyin4c514 Год назад +1

      Well what you have to consider is whether you're a very productive person or not. Because that may be just pin up anger or emotion. It's very easy to look outwards at other people and find fault with them. What you may find is that you have a bunch of emotional trauma or some other issues that you need to work out and maybe you're not as effective at remedying the problems that exist in your life as you would like to think. Now obviously I'm hypothesizing you know how effective you are at doing things that are positive and healthy and constructive for yourself but that was just a theory.

    • @PharmacyTechLabs
      @PharmacyTechLabs Год назад +1

      @@billyin4c514 I'm extreamly productive, I work in sales so I have to be. Looking down at people really has todo with the poor choices they make and expect you to make along with them. To be almost 40 years old never married no children is the most amazing thing! I'm able to live such a nice and amazing life. Travel, nice resturants, sleep in on Sundays etc.

  • @manuelkanakaris64
    @manuelkanakaris64 2 месяца назад

    Well guess im one 😂

  • @ParisTNT
    @ParisTNT 5 месяцев назад

    Wow

  • @AddictedToreality
    @AddictedToreality 3 месяца назад

    Why do your eyelids look like you smoke weed?

  • @tiffanymurphy4722
    @tiffanymurphy4722 5 месяцев назад +1

    Interesting, we can also tell a narcissist by how well the groom their eyebrowns.

  • @JM-kq4le
    @JM-kq4le 11 месяцев назад

    BS

  • @count_of_darkness5541
    @count_of_darkness5541 11 месяцев назад

    Yooo-hooo, I am xD

  • @idesel
    @idesel Год назад

    😂😂😂

  • @yagamilight8140
    @yagamilight8140 4 месяца назад

    🚮 advice

  • @ferindies8606
    @ferindies8606 7 месяцев назад

    There is something about his face 😮 his bone structure that screams his genes must never pass out

  • @joeshmoe7899
    @joeshmoe7899 Год назад +1

    Psyhacks is young. Give him some slack.

  • @FirstLast-cd6vv
    @FirstLast-cd6vv День назад

    I don't think the beard really suits him.

  • @commies.are.not.people
    @commies.are.not.people 10 дней назад

    Modern women?